I love his brutal honesty here. This is what she and a lot of people need. At the same time, I wish I was 22 again...She's lucky she's hearing this shit in her early 20's
Elliot Scott Dating I'm 22. And I'm going to graduate in next year. What I have to do with my life? Girl or money? More girls with more sex or just one girl and no sex? House or freedom? Job or life?
***** In Russia we have another life) girls seems don't pursue wealthy boys. They can easily bring you to their house if you not live alone. It's normal here. I have question to you. You will choice wealthy guy or part of your soul? Probably in Russia most of us want second option
This was great, I have been researching "social media marketing education" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Dylantey Social Severable - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my cousin got excellent results with it.
My notes: 1. Micro speed, macro patience 2. Play the long-term, no fast cash blitz 3. Work extremely hard on only one thing 4. Don't keep your head on the goal, but on the process. Don't mind what they say. 5. Work work work. No daydreams, no Instragram, no bullshit. I spend more time playing in a weekend than Gary V spent his entire 20s having fun. 6. Compare yourself only to yourself. Don't care about other people's early successes. They have the rich parents DLC, chase the fast cash --- totally irrelevant to you. Everyone else is irrelevant. 7. Do not flex. You can't trick, bullshit the winners. You can only trick the losers. No winner thinks you're winning. The winners will smoke you out of your bullshit.
I like racing and from it isn't slow and steady or balls to the wall all, out that racers that win. It is the fast and steady racer. Sometimes even the best racers get in a wreck completely out of thier control and somebody else wins but there is always another race.
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@@anthonygold6583 I agree e with you 💯 .. I had a senior colleague at work who was doing well but never had an investment. Unfortunately he lost his job and went from living a comfortable life to hardship. There would had been something to fall back on if he had an investment
@@anthonygold6583 NOBODY BECOMES A MILLIONAIRE OR BILLIONAIRE BY WORKING FOR OTHERS AND DEPENDING ON THEM, GOOD INVESTMENT BRINGS MILLIONS OF DOLLARS AND CONSISTENCY BRINGS BILLIONS. THE MARKET IS ALL ABOUT CRYPTO NOW YOU MIGHT WANT TO LOOK INTO IT
@@elisabethhamilton1048 I believe The only credible law of increase is investment because money not invested has no future. I make huge profits on my investment since i started trading fx with Mr Kelvin Maorgan, his trading strategies are top notch.
@Kuba P had a class where no one asked questions except this one girl. When she left, we all slowly left. You only know how valuable these people are when they gone.
@@shade7648 Fortunately, she didn't. Can you see how hard Gary worked to make the lesson stick? Here is the followup, about a year later: ua-cam.com/video/0e8COwvlFUc/v-deo.html I can't wait to see the five-year follow up.
Yes, she is taking it very calmly... too calmly. I love how Gary sees right through the PR story she is telling herself. I don't think she really got it until the very end when Gary asked for her Instagram handle and made it public to the "Vayner Nation". She got 8,000 new followers in a week, all holding her accountable to what she said she would do. We all tell ourselves similar stories. We all need accountability. I think this video has two and a half million views because Taylor's problem is universal. We all see ourselves in her.
its not insults, its constructive feedback but i know what you're saying most girls fresh out of college would take this as insults. it just goes to show she has the strong mind to play ball with the big players in business. (she has a business mind)
Fuck the motivation. Gary provides knowledge more than anything else. But by trying to apply it using motivation is a losing proposition. Habits are everything.
@Letucces Satan Motivation is good. Most amazing things happen because of it. But you just can't rely on it for long-term success. Not that you won't take advantage of it when it comes.
Work hard is never bad advice, but having done the 7 day a week long hours grind for my 20s too, I think time for family, relaxation, and personal growth is important as well. Those things are important to a good and balanced life and it is easy to forget them.
Jason Wolford yeah he said to not go on trips or nothing, not everybody is like him doesn't mean that shit is not gonna go right for her, she has to take a different path not the same path as him.
I am 20 year old from india and i have never seen a man explaining in such a great manner as no one does not even my personal mentor!!! Respect from india
Unbox Zone I'm also from India...I'm 21 years of age...I also had an entrepreneurial spirit in me...but being young...my mind was being consumed on too my things...it's natural at this age...but now I think I have received the best advice and I'm lucky to see this video now at this young age which woke my inner spirit...
Unbox Zone i m from india.... 19 years.... i love to be a trader...... (that guy...is true... slow and steady wins the race.... i thought i wouod become millioner by 1 year.. but everything takes effort and patience and experience...... try all thinks ,u r intrested... love wht u do.....fix on one thing.... work hard, and smart...............love journey of succes...........any body can success.....
The advice to pull from this great, in-depth response, the advice that IS applicable to EVERY young person: 1. "Every second you spend thinking about what somebody else has is taking away from time you could spend making something for yourself. " 2. "You’ve gotta deploy patience, and you’ve gotta love the process. "
I like his message. Social media allows people to put a filter on their lives, people will make it seem like they're successful but in reality they're really not. He's just saying forget the glamor and rewards but enjoy the journey because once you do you don't have to worry about the rewards because they'll come automatically.
Thanks so much Gary! Literally ran over once I saw the notification. Even though I'm in far away Nigeria, and things are not so straight here, you've motivated me to do shit and I'm glad I did. Thank you.
Yo that really hit me. He pressed every button that we all have. We want riches but don't want to work for it. We want quick cash so we can buy that bmw to show off to our friends. You'll never become successful thinking about yourself. This was a gem and it really opened my eyes. I don't care if I ever make a million dollars but I sure will work like heck to get it. I will enjoy the process and this will lead me to nothing but fulfillment.
20 years old making $16/hour as a personal trainer. Working 15 hours per week while attending university and just got an internship at a local Marketing Agency. Good things can happen to you if you focus and stay disciplined.
This is the best fucking video I have ever seen. Im 23 and haven't started College yet and have found myself looking at other people's success in envy and jealousy. I have suffered from Drug addiction for the past 4 years and I'm now in my first week of sobriety scared of what my life will be in the next 4 years. This just gave me a swift kick in the ass and im so mad I didn't find this channel earlier. Time to put my energy into my Sobriety/Goals in life rather than looking at what everyone else has. Thanks Gary
Same shit you feel useless living with your parents and you see people have their shit together and getting jobs starting businesses moving forward and I am just jumping from shit to shit and failing when I can only get minimum wage jobs got fired from a sales job in 3 days failed at starting an agency have a 100$ to my name but keep going
*The ultimate advice for every 20 year old THAT WANTS TO BE A MILLIONAIRE Spending your whole 20s hustling without any free time is so ridiculous if you don't want to be really rich. There needs to be a balance, otherwise you'll have your 20s spend doing nothing but getting money and you'll regret it. You can always get money, but you won't ever get your 20s back. Don't go too hard on you in your 20s, money will come and if you got it, you'll want more. There's no end to money, but there's an end to time, so choose wisely.
This is gem and so true! I spent my teen years trying to do freelance day-in and day-out now outta college I see I have no friends to talk to or go out with. I have money but lol it's not that much that I get to stop working and start spending. Whereas those who spent their time in their teens enjoying are very well connected and help each other out in their biz or grab a new job opportunity. Trust me money is waste. It's relationship and your happiness which matters at the end of day.
Working hard is good and important. But people forget that time off is essential! Taking care of your physical and mental health is important. Making time for friends and family is important. And it’s so hard to work 24/7 and have a social life too.
rike and you have answered the rule. It's good to save but if you save 500 treat yourself then get to 1,000 it's all about treating yourself when you reach a saving goal
The fact that you’re saying we need to enjoy the process just further confirms I need to do something that is a passion. I am stuck and I don’t know what I wanna sell, all I know is I want an online business to escape my home.
I think it means you need to be really patient. Work a lot, be patient(or persistent) because the progress you see right now is slow (micro speed). You won't see 100 dollars, much less 1 million dollars for a long time. (micro speed).
*Guys please here me out out!* I am serious.... I am a *20 year old* entrepreneur who is also at university and thinking of long term accomplishments,* however the one issue I have is 'recognition,' and being recognized for my craft and creating awareness for it. I have many entrepreneurial ideas that I wish to implement in the future, which I will... however I am just starting off, so I am in the 'process.'* *I have also created a small business online that goes by the name of Adam Designs, where I do branding for all types of businesses and done so for many big organizations such as BBCThree, I am self-taught and I know I have the skills to create an amazing branding concept for small and big businesses. However i need more recognition to get myself out there!* *My work is on Instagram @AdamDesigns1* *and Twitter: @AdamDesigns1.* Please do give a *look at my work* and see if we can help you!
DO NOT COMPARE YOUR BEHIND THE SCENES TO SOMEONE ELSE'S HIGHLIGHT REEL! everyone struggled just like you do. they just dont post the struggles and failures on IG or FB. they only post the occasional wins. the master has failed more times than the beginner has tried! may love and light guide you on your journeys!
Advice from 22 years old .Times fly I still remember the time when I'm 18 and thinking I have lot of time but now I'm 22 and still haven't achieve anything significant .So if you have any goal start working on it right now .
That's my problem too UGH! It's so discouraging and frustrating. I know I want to bust my ass and work hard at building something, it's just figuring out what it is I'm passionate about. I have so many different interests and passions, but when it comes down to narrowing it down and deciding what basket to put all my eggs in, I can't picture myself just doing that one thing... Wish someone could slap me in the forehead with my purpose so I could just work it lmao fuck
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I watched this at 19, I am now 23 years of age with a remote job all without a degree, I didn't want my internet day told me to do. I put in the work, now I am working to do some side businesses. I'm so grateful that I live in the generation where I can have an internet dad like you without you l, I would stayed in college and most likely would have lost.
How did she handled all of those cussed answers with grace? If I was in place of Taylor I'd be crying river. All the good wishes to Her and thank you Gary.
May when he swears it's at himself. He can't Remmeber somthing and he gets frustrated. One of his inner workings is that he constantly feels a need to fulfill the picture of reality that is closest to the truth
I needed this. I’m 20 right now and straight up lost on what I want to do with my life. I feel like everyone around me knows what they want to do or they are doing it. I need to look at the process of getting there not the end result. But again I am lost still. But this was a good pep talk
every time this pops into my recommended videos I say to myself " I wonder what she is doing now". The first time I checked, she was in MLM and then I forgot about this video. i just checked and now she has an onlyfans, which is exactly what you think it is. I'm fairly certain she didn't care about garys advice and leveraged him to build an Instagram audience. I wonder how Gary feels about having his name leveraged for MLM?
"Every second you spend thinking about what somebody else has, is taking away from time that you can create something for yourself." - Gary Vaynerchuk (@5:40) Thumbs up for others to see!
Watching Gary tear into the girl at the beginning reminds me so much of my high school principal yelling at me about how I’m worthless and will never amount to anything bc I had trouble staying awake in the morning and drew doodles during class. The only advice he gave me to improve anything was “take sleeping pills and force yourself to act normal”. His advice led me to be pretty miserable and the way he delivered it left me with anxiety issues that required therapy. My life only started to get better when I said “fuck this I know what I want”. Now I make $3 extra an hour bc turns out we still need overnight workers and most people aren’t happy doing it which makes my weird sleep schedule a valuable attribute. I also wound up getting a job thats creative work making fancy desserts, which I love and not everyone can do, and make extra money on the side as a children’s book illustrator. Point is this type of self help def does hurt people and actually is really counterintuitive bc not only do the traits you’re asked to give up tend to benefit you due to their rarity but honestly what is the point of being rich and successful if you waste your whole life and don’t enjoy yourself on the way? Best case you’re miserable for most of your adult life and make it big in time to spend a few years with a fragile body and money you won’t have time to spend, worse case you save for years and die before you can do anything with it. By all means save up and be financially responsible, but dont think of money as something you want just to say you have it; go on vacation, go to a show, buy a game, just let yourself enjoy things. Life is short. I wasted 20 years only to find out I’m prob not gonna live to 50.
Look man, this all sounds great and makes a lot of sense.....but it's not realistic. You have to balance it all or you will have major regrets and be very miserable. Even Gary said that he wished he had fun every once in awhile. Having friends and fun is very valuable for "real life" situations like moving, asking advice, favors, etc. Very rich and successful people have been known to kill themselves because they simply weren't happy. The main component of this is wasted time. You have to find balance between Love, Health, Happiness, Wealth, & Freedom.
Your comment is so true. There is more out there than working a shit load and forget about friends and family.. and yourself in the progres. Try balancing things up, else way you are still lost, don't make things to complicated for yourself, right? Nice comment.
You should understand what gary is talking about. He means you should spend more of your time working for the future. He never said having day outs with friends is bad. HE SAID WISHING TO HAVE THE LIFE THAT OTHERS ARE LIVING ON SOCIAL MEDIA IS BS! it takes away alot from you. That's what he meant. We all know having friends and going out sometimes is important.
this is what losers say. One you have been out with your friends, travelled to a few countries by your early 20's all you are doing is repeating the same experiences at the same level. Its groundhog day, why do you think so many people are miserable even though going on holidays and hanging with friends. Because there is no growth or level change of experiences.
I was one of the top 10 kids in my class, I always dream about myself to be millionaire by age of 25. I went to good school, get a good college degree, went to awesome company with good salary, I always compare myself to other people. Now I am 25, I am NOT millionaire, I am NOT what I want to be. I saw many successful people at their age of 25, I am jealous, I looked at their instagram, their social media, spend so much time on it. Now I need to understand myself, what life do I want.
What a great conversation. She sounds like a smart kid, highly motivated, and with her head generally screwed on straight more than 90% of her cohorts-- this just gave her the 10% redirection she needed to kick ass over the next decade. Well done, sir.
I think she had the 10% and Gary gave her the 90%. Trust me I wasted from 16 - 24 caring what people thought too much trying to play the fast game hanging around with internet and TV celebs when I should have been doing my own thing playing the slow game. Eveyone in the world has that drive but nobody is playing the slow game I'm still young and I would love to have not wasted all that time playing fake fast game.
Fair enough-- recognizing that bit, even thought it's a relatively small realization, is a huge component of moving forward effectively. Ah, to go back to my 20s armed with the shit I learned in my 30s and 40s... :)
I suppose everyone's different but for me, the passion easy and everyone I meet has the passion but no ones going slow and putting in time. I spent so much time trying to do so many things fast comparing myself to others and trying to catch up. It's a hard habit to break and I still get caught up in it. Every month I seem to care less about what others think and get better at playing my own game but saying and it doing it are completely different. I have a pretty good business now that's growing slowly.
So do you mean just go full on one project? No distractions and just keep pushing it? So just get going by your own way and stop getting attention? I understood? I'm 21 and got next level stuff in mind, still not going full on, maybe thinking it too much, but I'm always my way although indeed tend to study and investigate a lot of my surroundings, trying to learn and craft everything that I see others don't target and trying to distinguish myself but need to go 100% still
Gosh, I really needed this. I literally used to text people for hours, go through their posts, and feel like nothing all the flipping time! All this while speaking about accomplishing things.. I can't believe I wasted six months mulling over wasting the last 17 years of my life.. Thank you for helping me realize where I am, at the moment :)
Man this is what is happening to me. That girl it has my same mindset, I am 22 and I am looking at other people and want to reach that goal. I want to be successful like now just like her... I am focusing some much on other people that I am losing time to focus, I am not enjoying the process, I am just looking to the get there that fastest way and not focusing. This is so helpful Thank you Gary....
I’m at my 23 years of age Gary.thank you for the life lesson I’ve heard from you. I’m from the Philippines and somehow anxious and stressed about what happening in my life.I hope I can hear from you someday
Wow, I needed this. I'm turning 20 in less than 30 days... Not aiming to be a millionaire, but there's a lot I have to work. I need to get my shit together. Thank you so much for being aggressive about it. You're right, the journey is the main event and time is wasting away.
Tbh dropping out of school was the best choice i made...school might just maybe get you somewhere in life but by the time you get a good job you'll be almost in your 30's but becoming an entrepreneur can from early in your life you will be a successful person by the time your 30 if you really work hard and invest your money
Edgar Coverzz you can always stay in school and do entrepreneurship on the side. You always need a backup plan. If your entrepreneurship stars to pickup hardcore then I’d say drop out and fully focus on it. Just my two cents.
I just turned 20 this april and because of the corona virus I feel like my life seems to have ground to a halt.Your video really inspired me. Thank you so much for doing that!
This video hits me. I landed my job when I was 20 and I’m turning 23 next month... still no savings, struggling to pay my debts, complaining about my job, complaining about being broke and so on. I’m doing the wrong way ever since. So now I’m embracing minimalism and just be happy with the simple things. Just trust the process, don’t rush things, and never compare yourself to someone. Focus on yourself growth. :)
Just got rejected from the number 1 bank in my country. Dealing with anxiety of failure. Questioning carrier. But this dude right here, spitting truth, healed me up.
I said that once. It took me years to break the habit. I managed to overcome it in the end, although I still catch myself slacking time to time, like now, I'm replying to this post when I should be doing something more worth my time. The solution I found is to start getting things done. Stop wasting time planning what your going to do because that's fantasy fiction in your head. Spend 5 minutes bullet pointing a few things you can get done in the next 4-8 hours you have available. Then do it, no matter what. It's not easy, it's hard and it feels shit to begin with. You need to put it into physical practise on a daily basis to develop the new habit. That's step one. If you think about doing it, you won't do it - that's where I spent 7 years messing up and feeling down about it. Changing your routing takes practise, therefore time and effort. Do it or don't. I don't care if you impress me by changing or not, but you do. It's your call. Now get off the net like I'm about to do right after I hit the reply button and get shit done. Don't even waste time replying to this message, I don't even want to see a quick "thanks". Get off your ass and move NOW - period!
I really related to this. Honestly, I turned on this video while I was cleaning, not expecting to actually watch the whole thing because it's 17 minutes but then I found myself sitting down and then found myself opening a word document and taking notes! One thing that really struck me was when Gary said that he wants the process of working to get the New York Jets more than actually owning them. I only wish I had something like that. I'm 21 and I have several things that I just love to pieces and would love to try full time. Cooking, farming, childcare, video editing, cinematography, screenwriting, fiction writing, even ministry and teaching. I feel like I could pursue anyone of those and be really fulfilled by that work and my problem winds up being what do I chose? I'm leaning towards screenwriting but with a strong video production emphasis- basically I'm thinking if I could just make scripted content on youtube and then somehow live off of that and be able to fund bigger and bigger projects- that would be amazing. Because I think what I care about the most about storytelling is being able to tell the best story I think I'm capable of without having to worry too much about what the producer wants. I want to be able to make my stories and find an intelligent, imaginative audience that would enjoy them as much as I want to make them. But I'm terrified. I'm paralyzed. What if I run out of ideas? What if it turns out I'm unoriginal, stale, and just really, really bad at this? What if I make something objectively terrible? What if it's too much stress for me and I burn out? What if I can't do this and I have to live with my parents for the rest of my life because I have no idea how to make a decent amount of money? I think it's hard to not care what other people think when you're in a creative field where your livelihood is completely dependent on other people's likes and preferences. And maybe I should just go and work for someone else, like Pixar but not as prestigious. Should I work towards that instead? Instead of building an audience, just work on a portfolio and networking? Or should I do all three? Or just two? It stresses me out because I feel like I have no time. I'm going to school because I have to get a degree as a fall back option. I am part of this tuition waiver program that basically waives tuition which is great but I still feel like I have to get a 4.0 because my parents might move which would mean I'd no longer be eligible for the program and they might not pay for my school because... they really, really don't agree with my choice of major and field. They don't even pay for my textbooks. They, especially my mom, think I'm entitled and lazy. They are scared for me and don't think I have a future in filmmaking. And they're not wrong. I've been given everything in my life and I've only worked because I wanted more than what I got and wanted to have independence. And while I've always had a knack for writing and constantly been starting projects, I've never stuck with anything long enough to produce anything tangible from it whether that be an award, an audience, or even, sadly, a finished draft. It was only when I was 19 that I actually finished finished a short story and it took me nearly six months. Six months! Man. So, when they're afraid that I don't have what it takes to do the work necessary for this field, it's completely understandable. I don't even know if I can do this and support myself with it. And I am entitled. They bought me my car, pay my insurance, and my phone bill, and, of course, they feed and house me. I don't know what it's like to work for 40 hours a week, go to school, and use all that money for bills and tuition. I have been working though, moving from babysitting to retail and fast food. Right now I'm working around 30 hours a week. I use the money from the job to pay for textbooks, gas, and save half of it. I feel like I need something in savings as a buffer so I don't feel like I have no savings and anything could make me go under. And I feel like I need money to invest in equipment and everything. I also am super sentimental. I just have to spend time with my parents, siblings, and grandparents. And with friends. I feel like I should be making friends. Although, over the past few years, it just hasn't been coming easily for me... I've moved to different states several times over the past few years and just haven't been getting out of my shell. So between work and school and family and trying to make friends I have no time to actually work on any of my creative projects. And I just realized something that I haven't before- this balancing act is killing me. I *need* to tell stories like my body needs my heart to keep beating. Huh. I didn't realize it was that important to me that clearly until now, lol. I'm actually running off of like 6 hours of sleep and have homework I should've done... but I watched this video and wrote this instead. And I think it really helped. I'm not sure what I'm going to do. I think it boils down to not caring what other people think and working and not psyching myself out. I think I'm going to definitely get my hours at work down to 18 a week. Maybe I can work towards quitting. Or I could just quit. I'm going to start just making stuff more. I'm not going to convince my parents that I'm going to be ok. I'm just going to be ok. I'm going to let my work be my primary consolation and encouragement, and start sharing it and meeting more people, trying to find a mentor and someone at my level that can help me and that I can help too. I wish I could not stress so much about getting perfect grades but I just am too scared to do that. Maybe I can work towards that too. So...... this comment has been a ridiculously long internet journey for me but I feel like I might as well post it? Um, I'm going to go rethink my life a little more and make some changes.
I am 43 years old just starting my own business as speaker having a hard time with booking gigs but im getting them here and there grinding. I love your passion and attitude. thank you for all your videos.
this guy just fucking healed my subconscious mind. im in the same boat as that girl, same exact fucking boat in every detail except im a guy. this was the best video ive seen so far on youtube. when you hear it from a credible guy, you know its the truth. winning a lotto is 1/100000000.
Yo! I've learned so much listening to this video. My self-esteem slowly tears apart because of seeing my friends living a comfortable life. This video made me understand that we have to do our own process in our own timeline and shouldn't use the comparing paradigm. I ultimately appreciate his words and made me think deeply more about dealing with myself. I am now free with all my insecurities. Gotta care only about my process. Thanks!
Robert Kim No some put work in but its either too late or in the wrong areas. Like working hard in college when you could've done it in highschool. Frankly, degrees don't mean shit. Experience and evidence of passion mean more than anything.
5:55 this part hit me hard lmao..I'm currently in the middle of thinking that I'm freaking useless because I'm already 20 years old and the thing I'm always doing is wake up in the morning, exercise, feed domestic animals, and sleep again (repeat again and again) I'm doing this for about 2 years now.
@@unstoppable.1834 i am 19 and i am trying to figure out wht exactly to do with my lifee , was considering medical just cuz society expects tht even tho i know i dont like science labs etc as much , i was considering law,economics or pilot training nd i literally never felt so lost beforee :(((( serious advice help needed here uni is also something i wanna experience and i cant decide if i should do pilot training cuz tht uni experience wouldnt be there i wanna make frnds and memries but also earn alot of money and be successful like i always wanted as i come from a middle class background sorta .. also this whole corona virus BS made me consider whether its a good idea to enter uni when everthing is online currently and for awhile it seems :(( wht do i do , almost felt sucidal ngl
So lucky I've found this video, I'm currently 23 and really needed to hear some of this stuff One problem I believe is related to what we see in social media, ends up putting much pressure on many young people
It's not real. It's all a curated bullshit highlight reel of someone's life who probably inherited all their fortune and/or is living beyond their means and will be dirt fucking poor in a year. Regardless, nobody else fucking matters, the battle is you vs you, you cant compare yourself to other people, you don't know how fucked up they actually are.
Great advice Gary, you are damn right. Everybody sees the tip of the iceberg, the fame and the success. But nobody sees the hard work you did put in for years. With 20 i started my channel and other projects and now 6 years later, after working everyday on my projects, finally I got a return. I'm sure the next years will be even more awesome and I can't wait to take the challenge. Do what you are passionate about and don't do shit to prove things to other people. I'm out. peace.
Roger Smith If you are doing it for the wrong reasons, dont mean shit working so much. If you like it, If you enjoy the process, business, of course. But I dont want to be rich. If you are not enjoying your life, do you think that getting rich changes anything. Like I sayd, only changes if business its your passion
Roger Smith you can do both stop making up excuses if your busy just tell your friend i cant im busy maybe another time they will understand. or you can end up dying alone in misery with no loved ones around you. you chose your lifestyle No excuses you worked so hard for what? you cant take money with you to the grave or your successful riches. but you can leave an impact on loved ones and inspire them
Hypersuccess is about specialization Having a fulfilled life is about balance I want Hypersuccess not a balanced life. My legacy can have a balanced life for me
Wish I saw this video 8 years ago when I turned 20. Now I'm 28, with a strong desire to create a board game company although I am a civil engineer and on a tight dead line since my savings are running down, and no clue if I am even doing the right thing. Should have tried to open my own company already at 20, it just get's so much harder with age, because of life obligations. Listen to Gary ppl.
lmao your so young!!! I met a 48 year old engineer that became a successful hairdresser out of curiosity.. you already have a dream laid out !! your on the right track
you should go for it man. My dad quit his job a while ago to build his own thing. its been rought I wont lie. But totally fuckin worth it. Once you are in it, you figure it out as you go.
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I don't understand why people are so envious of others because they reached success before them, even if they're only in their 20's. I've wanted to become an entrepreneur since I was like 7; trying sell my unwanted toys to other kids in school. I even remember asking why certain gas stations and restaurants didn't have multiple locations so they'd double their money lol. I was around 16-17 when I started seeing stories about 20 year olds becoming owners of million dollar companies. I was the complete opposite of envious and jealous. I was inspired! That's when the fire really started to burn inside of me. Like damn, if these kids can do it, I know I can put in the work and do it also. Since then, I've been on a journey of self growth, learning all I can about business, my industry, and personal growth. I'm 21 now and about to launch my first business, I'm not sure how it'll go, but I won't stop until I'm seeing some kind of profit. I'm still super young and I know there's so much more to learn, but I'm pretty sure I know just enough to get my foot in the door. I feel like if see profit; even just a hundred dollars, I'll be addicted to this game like a fein on crack.
I'm 21 and I am trying to get my shit together. My life is always a mess. But this year was the worst, battling with depression , I had a surgery ,my best friend died. I've been close to give up life so many times but for some reason I'm still here. I will try my best to achieve at least some of my goals in this life. After all death is going to happen anyway so I might as well do my best until then. Oh and I don't want to be a millionaire or anything like that...I only want to be happy for once and to feal my life has a purpose.
Purpose is what every human needs. Along with genuine love. This trick is to build on your purpose, try to find love and money to support your passions along the way.
Sometimes being alive is enough of a reason to be happy and proud of urself :D , if u look in a simple way of thinking just be happy that u were one sperm to make it to "being born" out of the 200million that didnt make it. Never give up ,just be what u really want to be not what others want u to be.
Deanith, it's been 5 months so far since you shared this with us; I really really hope you're feeling better. I know you're gonna make it, the strenght in your words make you already a winner. Mucho love!
we should all thank Taylor for taking all the insults for us, while we only take the good advices.
Oh my god I was thinking the exact thing the whole time!!!!!!!!
Lê Thái Hiển I swear😟😟
So true
Haha😀😂 yep!
I agree with you.
I'm 24 and I feel like Taylor is speaking all of my insecurities, worries, and fears of being at this age. This is exactly what I needed to hear
Same I appreciate this video sm
make yourself happy by having small wins
Count me in on this too
Same boat girl 🎯🎯
Guess we're not alone in this one
I love his brutal honesty here. This is what she and a lot of people need. At the same time, I wish I was 22 again...She's lucky she's hearing this shit in her early 20's
Elliot Scott Dating I'm 22. And I'm going to graduate in next year. What I have to do with my life?
Girl or money?
More girls with more sex or just one girl and no sex?
House or freedom?
Job or life?
***** In Russia we have another life) girls seems don't pursue wealthy boys. They can easily bring you to their house if you not live alone. It's normal here. I have question to you. You will choice wealthy guy or part of your soul?
Probably in Russia most of us want second option
I m 19 and so fickin happy about discovering this channel with that video omg
Elliot Scott Dating I agree with you completely. This is why I'm following him. His soooo fucking honest and I love it.
This was great, I have been researching "social media marketing education" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Dylantey Social Severable - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my cousin got excellent results with it.
My notes:
1. Micro speed, macro patience
2. Play the long-term, no fast cash blitz
3. Work extremely hard on only one thing
4. Don't keep your head on the goal, but on the process. Don't mind what they say.
5. Work work work. No daydreams, no Instragram, no bullshit. I spend more time playing in a weekend than Gary V spent his entire 20s having fun.
6. Compare yourself only to yourself. Don't care about other people's early successes. They have the rich parents DLC, chase the fast cash --- totally irrelevant to you. Everyone else is irrelevant.
7. Do not flex. You can't trick, bullshit the winners. You can only trick the losers. No winner thinks you're winning. The winners will smoke you out of your bullshit.
Thank you bro
awsome
Salamat idol
Thanks
Terima kasih bro
Gary is not the type of person everyone likes, but his answer is real, that's what people need.
that's specifically why I love him
Who doesn’t like him? Lol
Yeah brother cause people hate the harsh truth
Agree with U guy :)
Honest answer hurt people that’s why not all person like him.
"Slow and steady wins the race. You're only competing with yourself."
That hit me like a ton of bricks.
Lol ya
Powerful indeed. Hard to focus on yourself sometimes with all the noise on social media
Don't use that to boost your procrastination tho. Just don't rush about having it too soon.
I like racing and from it isn't slow and steady or balls to the wall all, out that racers that win. It is the fast and steady racer. Sometimes even the best racers get in a wreck completely out of thier control and somebody else wins but there is always another race.
16:00
"Every second you spent thinking what somebody else has is taking away from time that you could create something for yourself"
Mine is 1.2k like👍
Agung Putra y
Nester he mean stop comparing yourself to other people, or stop needing validation from other people
True
Agung Putra I wrote that down too
When you stop learning , you get left behind . Never stop educating yourself
Being successful don’t happen by magic
Success is dependent on the action or
steps you take to achieve it. Show me
a man who doesn't have an investment
and I will tell you how soon he'll go broke
Investment is building a safe haven for the
future: with the right choice of investment
that has at least 1% minimum risk and
with an Expert guidance, profit and interest
should be 💯 guaranteed.
@@anthonygold6583 I agree e with you 💯 .. I had a senior
colleague at work who was doing well but
never had an investment. Unfortunately he
lost his job and went from living a
comfortable life to hardship. There would
had been something to fall back on if he
had an investment
@@anthonygold6583 NOBODY BECOMES A MILLIONAIRE OR BILLIONAIRE BY WORKING FOR OTHERS AND DEPENDING ON THEM, GOOD INVESTMENT BRINGS MILLIONS OF DOLLARS AND CONSISTENCY BRINGS BILLIONS. THE MARKET IS ALL ABOUT CRYPTO NOW YOU MIGHT WANT TO LOOK INTO IT
@@elisabethhamilton1048 I believe The only credible law of increase is investment because money not invested has no future. I make huge profits on my investment since i started trading fx with Mr Kelvin Maorgan, his trading strategies are top notch.
@@anthonygold6583 It is the planning you put into today that will yield the dividends of prosperity for you tomorrow.
"Every second you think about what somebody else has is taking away time to create something for yourself." GOLDEN WORDS...
Andrew I loved that point!
it was powerful ☝️
Andrew totally agree with this
Andrew tr
TRUE bro, agree!
you haven't done shit! hahaha 6:02
Thankyou Taylor, for being the girl in class, that's the only one confident to ask questions, while the rest of us sit and pretend.
(reminder) confidence is the key
ua-cam.com/video/8lpx0t5fM58/v-deo.html 👌
bro i want your profile pic lol
@@karoprudyan9454 lol, it took me exactly 1 minute to change my profile pic after finding this one.
@Kuba P had a class where no one asked questions except this one girl. When she left, we all slowly left. You only know how valuable these people are when they gone.
That girl is taking insults and harsh truth very nicely. The girl is fresh outta college too. Wow.
Not Bill Clinton i guess she don’t care . She willing to take the hard truth tobe better
Watch her go back to her old ways after this we’re always different at the moment
@@shade7648 Fortunately, she didn't. Can you see how hard Gary worked to make the lesson stick?
Here is the followup, about a year later: ua-cam.com/video/0e8COwvlFUc/v-deo.html
I can't wait to see the five-year follow up.
Yes, she is taking it very calmly... too calmly. I love how Gary sees right through the PR story she is telling herself. I don't think she really got it until the very end when Gary asked for her Instagram handle and made it public to the "Vayner Nation". She got 8,000 new followers in a week, all holding her accountable to what she said she would do.
We all tell ourselves similar stories. We all need accountability. I think this video has two and a half million views because Taylor's problem is universal. We all see ourselves in her.
its not insults, its constructive feedback but i know what you're saying most girls fresh out of college would take this as insults. it just goes to show she has the strong mind to play ball with the big players in business. (she has a business mind)
"Every second you spend thinking about what somebody else has, is taking away from time that you could create something for yourself."
Damn.
i took screen shot of that line...that what hit me most
goosebumpy shit
This is real motivation, not watching videos where guys drive Lambos
Fuck the motivation. Gary provides knowledge more than anything else. But by trying to apply it using motivation is a losing proposition. Habits are everything.
Coding in Flow right !!
Real shit!👏
@Letucces Satan Motivation is good. Most amazing things happen because of it. But you just can't rely on it for long-term success. Not that you won't take advantage of it when it comes.
Wow didn't know Mr Bean is such a great motivational speaker
Work hard is never bad advice, but having done the 7 day a week long hours grind for my 20s too, I think time for family, relaxation, and personal growth is important as well. Those things are important to a good and balanced life and it is easy to forget them.
Jason Wolford yeah he said to not go on trips or nothing, not everybody is like him doesn't mean that shit is not gonna go right for her, she has to take a different path not the same path as him.
When you invest as a youth, you are buying days that you don't have to work.
@John Alfred you can reach out to him now on FB 👇
@John Alfred Mark J. Ramsey
but what im investing into
@@InZaNiOnGaMiNg spam
@@InZaNiOnGaMiNgan index fund that compounds lmfao
I am 20 year old from india and i have never seen a man explaining in such a great manner as no one does not even my personal mentor!!! Respect from india
Unbox Zone I can feel you bro
Unbox Zone I'm also from India...I'm 21 years of age...I also had an entrepreneurial spirit in me...but being young...my mind was being consumed on too my things...it's natural at this age...but now I think I have received the best advice and I'm lucky to see this video now at this young age which woke my inner spirit...
go watch sandeep maheshwari videos much much better
Free palestine
Unbox Zone
i m from india....
19 years....
i love to be a trader......
(that guy...is true...
slow and steady wins the race....
i thought i wouod become millioner by 1 year..
but everything takes effort and patience and experience......
try all thinks ,u r intrested...
love wht u do.....fix on one thing....
work hard, and smart...............love journey of succes...........any body can success.....
The advice to pull from this great, in-depth response, the advice that IS applicable to EVERY young person:
1. "Every second you spend thinking about what somebody else has is taking away from time you could spend making something for yourself.
"
2. "You’ve gotta deploy patience, and you’ve gotta love the process.
"
This was filmed 3 years ago, and yet he is talking directly to me...
literally
True
it's will be applicable after 5, 10 years more
Same!
I'm 15 and watching this. Whoever this girl Taylor is may the universe bless her, she kinda solved a lot of my problems bc I'm relating to her 100%
Gary looked so happy at the end of that convo. He looked liked he really hit the message home to not only Taylor but to everyone including myself.
I like his message. Social media allows people to put a filter on their lives, people will make it seem like they're successful but in reality they're really not. He's just saying forget the glamor and rewards but enjoy the journey because once you do you don't have to worry about the rewards because they'll come automatically.
This is GOLD.
Thanks so much Gary! Literally ran over once I saw the notification. Even though I'm in far away Nigeria, and things are not so straight here, you've motivated me to do shit and I'm glad I did. Thank you.
Fuck gold this shit is diamond, we've hit the motherload finding this. This video has fucking opened my eyes to so much its insane.
Ken Ndubisi keep up the hustle Ken. many blessings
nigga wtf is gold?
hey guys how are you dm me @sarogabounian i have a business to share
Yo that really hit me. He pressed every button that we all have. We want riches but don't want to work for it. We want quick cash so we can buy that bmw to show off to our friends. You'll never become successful thinking about yourself. This was a gem and it really opened my eyes. I don't care if I ever make a million dollars but I sure will work like heck to get it. I will enjoy the process and this will lead me to nothing but fulfillment.
"y o u h a v e t o b e p a t i e n t"
_starts overloading her with anxiety_
He's trying to get her on the process
He was trying to shut down her from rushing herself , Therese never a rush when your young
@@itashio777 there is a rush, its always a rush, why do you think he was talking about not having any free time
@@leeroymlg4692 rush to her goals , the rush to get it done sure but why think big if can't think attainable
@@itashio777 make it attainable
20 years old making $16/hour as a personal trainer. Working 15 hours per week while attending university and just got an internship at a local Marketing Agency. Good things can happen to you if you focus and stay disciplined.
Congratulations man! Keep at it. 💕
Keep at it!!!!
Let's hear back, how'd it go?
@@O3FILMS.toronto I got a raise to $22/hour :) I stopped training for a while for the virus but everything is going well.
@@mrvideogame007 When you quit working for others and start working for yourself?
thank you for this!
I am 20 years old and came across this video, I felt like he was talking to me. Thank you so much for sharing this ❣️
Hahaha, act on your plans as soon as now. Thank me later.
Holy smokes cutie, same. I’m 20 in October, anyways
Same age 😇
Cierra Reneé yh stop trying to be famous woman, go leave your mark on the world not your pussy hair or your pathetic makeover
@@x.potential3949 yo wtf is wrong with your attitude man, she didn't even attack you. Gotta be so u happy to treat others that way
This is the best fucking video I have ever seen. Im 23 and haven't started College yet and have found myself looking at other people's success in envy and jealousy. I have suffered from Drug addiction for the past 4 years and I'm now in my first week of sobriety scared of what my life will be in the next 4 years. This just gave me a swift kick in the ass and im so mad I didn't find this channel earlier. Time to put my energy into my Sobriety/Goals in life rather than looking at what everyone else has. Thanks Gary
thats me bro, same situation with me but i am trying my best.
All the best to you👍
im 19 and i graduated last year, Im still not in college and I feel useless as fuck just leeching off my parents and my aunt...
Same shit you feel useless living with your parents and you see people have their shit together and getting jobs starting businesses moving forward and I am just jumping from shit to shit and failing when I can only get minimum wage jobs got fired from a sales job in 3 days failed at starting an agency have a 100$ to my name but keep going
*The ultimate advice for every 20 year old THAT WANTS TO BE A MILLIONAIRE
Spending your whole 20s hustling without any free time is so ridiculous if you don't want to be really rich. There needs to be a balance, otherwise you'll have your 20s spend doing nothing but getting money and you'll regret it. You can always get money, but you won't ever get your 20s back. Don't go too hard on you in your 20s, money will come and if you got it, you'll want more. There's no end to money, but there's an end to time, so choose wisely.
I agree with you a hundred percent. Everybody has their own drive and ambition. Balance is everything.
Agreed!
Love this
This is gem and so true! I spent my teen years trying to do freelance day-in and day-out now outta college I see I have no friends to talk to or go out with. I have money but lol it's not that much that I get to stop working and start spending. Whereas those who spent their time in their teens enjoying are very well connected and help each other out in their biz or grab a new job opportunity. Trust me money is waste. It's relationship and your happiness which matters at the end of day.
It all depends on what you want, if you don't wanna hustle hard then Gary isn't talking to you in that field. Shits obvious.
Working hard is good and important. But people forget that time off is essential! Taking care of your physical and mental health is important. Making time for friends and family is important. And it’s so hard to work 24/7 and have a social life too.
You clearly don't get what the man is saying up to this very day, my friend. Maybe you're special.
You need to do what it takes . If that means not taking time off and working 14 hours a day ? So be it .
The Paradoxes do that for a couple months and let me see me be result
rike and you have answered the rule. It's good to save but if you save 500 treat yourself then get to 1,000 it's all about treating yourself when you reach a saving goal
gary you're a fucking savage
The fact that you’re saying we need to enjoy the process just further confirms I need to do something that is a passion. I am stuck and I don’t know what I wanna sell, all I know is I want an online business to escape my home.
Jesus i'm 20 years old rn and spend my weekends on insta and doing f all, i needed to hear this man.
so true
im 23 and do the same while mentally exhausting myself thinking about all the things I should be doing -_-
twilightselena4eva your Australian I know it
We all did. Even the people who work hard often don't maximize every second they have to work. Myself included.
Well, it's better than going the incel route and spending your free time watching porn…. I really need to quit.
So good. That 'macro patience, micro speed' thing is fire
Covert Film right!
Yes!!
What does it mean ?
I think it means you need to be really patient. Work a lot, be patient(or persistent) because the progress you see right now is slow (micro speed). You won't see 100 dollars, much less 1 million dollars for a long time. (micro speed).
Boon Huat Cheng whoa, thanks a lot !👍
No bullshit - this is the single best piece of content ever created. Wether Garyvee or otherwise. This is beautiful.
Ryan D I couldn't have said it better
Ryan D Yeah this was completely insane. Imagine if Gary was a guidance counselor
I AGREEEE !
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DO NOT COMPARE YOUR BEHIND THE SCENES TO SOMEONE ELSE'S HIGHLIGHT REEL!
everyone struggled just like you do. they just dont post the struggles and failures on IG or FB.
they only post the occasional wins. the master has failed more times than the beginner has tried!
may love and light guide you on your journeys!
This could be the best piece of content that Gary has put out
Emeka Ossai I agree this is the realest thing I've ever heard him say. He drops knowledge at 8:25
*advice for all 20 year old's*
Me, a 17 year old: interesting
Same rules apply.
Advice from 22 years old .Times fly I still remember the time when I'm 18 and thinking I have lot of time but now I'm 22 and still haven't achieve anything significant .So if you have any goal start working on it right now .
@@hanishtandon wow it's like u know exactly what I'm going through...a lot of procrastinating. Thanks for the advice Hanish!
@@acoleman251 also don't worry too much, your time will come to thrive
@@hanishtandon great advice man
He’s saying to work hard but idk wtf to work towards. Idk what I’m doing with my life.
Find what you want to do with your life, set a goal. And once you have that work towards achieving it.
backtucks
That's my problem too UGH! It's so discouraging and frustrating. I know I want to bust my ass and work hard at building something, it's just figuring out what it is I'm passionate about. I have so many different interests and passions, but when it comes down to narrowing it down and deciding what basket to put all my eggs in, I can't picture myself just doing that one thing... Wish someone could slap me in the forehead with my purpose so I could just work it lmao fuck
I totally feel the same way. I have decided to keep myself busy buy learning and building skills like photography, digital art, editing, dancing,etc
Just go try shit. Go volunteer or pick up a new hobby.
I'll turn 20 tomorrow, and it's good thing to hear, i love that he's realistic and super honest even tho other don't like that
Wow. As a 20 year old in a very similar spot this is by far the most impactful video I have watched. Thanks Gary, you got something man.
I'm 17 and this hit me hard... Worth it thank you
u just skipped three years in life
José Rolando García lol
Snehal Singh good thing you are watching now
I'm 15...and I look at myself and say I want to reach that maturity. But I just procrastinate and feel look at my friends, I know I shouldn't...haha
You guys are lucky. I mean I am lucky too. I am 19
This is so funny 😂 everything he saying is true but his delivery is sooooo raw!
Bree Giselle sometimes we need someone like him.. tired of formal way of communication.
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Yh true. But when you got the target to hitting it on the nail, you need to hit hard. Never compromise on the true advices
@Harry Gerry That's the point. Forget the attitude and take the gold from it.
I watched this at 19, I am now 23 years of age with a remote job all without a degree, I didn't want my internet day told me to do. I put in the work, now I am working to do some side businesses. I'm so grateful that I live in the generation where I can have an internet dad like you without you l, I would stayed in college and most likely would have lost.
I love this part of the show! I am 45 and I wish someone like you yelled at me when I was 20.
Ali Bahadori what other things do you wish people told you in your 20s?
Never too late Sir
No you don't. That is just an excuse you are making for your failures. Sorry lmao just trying to be like Gary.
bullshit im 45 and I got a team cleaning sewage system. it's not the nicest business but no excuses fren.
Ali Bahadori hey how are you? can i share a business to you ? plz dm me @sarogabounian
How did she handled all of those cussed answers with grace? If I was in place of Taylor I'd be crying river. All the good wishes to Her and thank you Gary.
May I’m scared
May when he swears it's at himself. He can't Remmeber somthing and he gets frustrated. One of his inner workings is that he constantly feels a need to fulfill the picture of reality that is closest to the truth
LMAOOP ME TOOOOO
I'd thank him if he talked that way with me. Really makes you think of yourself.
sounds like a douche
I needed this. I’m 20 right now and straight up lost on what I want to do with my life. I feel like everyone around me knows what they want to do or they are doing it. I need to look at the process of getting there not the end result. But again I am lost still. But this was a good pep talk
You are not alone
Namaste
Yo Meg have you graduated or you still studying
Tom Coldman still studying, going to be a medical assistant
Meg Schupbach Medical assistant you mean like a nurse ?
I feel like Gary wants her to be successful more than she wants herself to lol
every time this pops into my recommended videos I say to myself " I wonder what she is doing now". The first time I checked, she was in MLM and then I forgot about this video. i just checked and now she has an onlyfans, which is exactly what you think it is.
I'm fairly certain she didn't care about garys advice and leveraged him to build an Instagram audience. I wonder how Gary feels about having his name leveraged for MLM?
@@aarononthesauce link to her OF
@@user-qq8tp9cn9p down bad
@@aarononthesauce hustle is hustle, don’t judge
@@user-182hsj nah we will judge, she went the same road as all these other young girls that are “hustling”
Am 20 and this got to me real hard.
This is my first video from this guy. God dammit this guy is on another level.
No matter who they are, Never Believe a Prediction that Does Not Empower You :D
"Every second you spend thinking about what somebody else has, is taking away from time that you can create something for yourself." - Gary Vaynerchuk (@5:40)
Thumbs up for others to see!
Timothy Miller Wow!
Timothy Miller looove it 💪🏼💪🏼
Timothy Miller Changed my life already 😍
Timothy Miller throwing this up on the whiteboard
This is the part that made me subscribe. I had to rewind and hear out again 😁
She is 24 now. I wonder how she is doing. Hopefully she is closer to her goal
Here is ~1 year after the call. And you can also check her insta. ua-cam.com/video/0e8COwvlFUc/v-deo.html
I just checked her insta, she got better
@@timico6 thanks.
@@thebatman9915 thank you ^^
U gys in USA finish univ at 20 y/o or what ?
Watching Gary tear into the girl at the beginning reminds me so much of my high school principal yelling at me about how I’m worthless and will never amount to anything bc I had trouble staying awake in the morning and drew doodles during class. The only advice he gave me to improve anything was “take sleeping pills and force yourself to act normal”. His advice led me to be pretty miserable and the way he delivered it left me with anxiety issues that required therapy. My life only started to get better when I said “fuck this I know what I want”. Now I make $3 extra an hour bc turns out we still need overnight workers and most people aren’t happy doing it which makes my weird sleep schedule a valuable attribute. I also wound up getting a job thats creative work making fancy desserts, which I love and not everyone can do, and make extra money on the side as a children’s book illustrator.
Point is this type of self help def does hurt people and actually is really counterintuitive bc not only do the traits you’re asked to give up tend to benefit you due to their rarity but honestly what is the point of being rich and successful if you waste your whole life and don’t enjoy yourself on the way? Best case you’re miserable for most of your adult life and make it big in time to spend a few years with a fragile body and money you won’t have time to spend, worse case you save for years and die before you can do anything with it. By all means save up and be financially responsible, but dont think of money as something you want just to say you have it; go on vacation, go to a show, buy a game, just let yourself enjoy things. Life is short. I wasted 20 years only to find out I’m prob not gonna live to 50.
It’s delayed gratification, work hard not to play harder later.
Seriously toxic. But everyone here will applaud him. People die young!
The best time to plant a tree is 10 years ago, the next best time is now.
dayum
@@hamzasaifranjha4859 Hits hard doesn't it haha
@@3xAudio real hard, i am getting stitches rn
- Chinese Proverb
Look man, this all sounds great and makes a lot of sense.....but it's not realistic. You have to balance it all or you will have major regrets and be very miserable. Even Gary said that he wished he had fun every once in awhile. Having friends and fun is very valuable for "real life" situations like moving, asking advice, favors, etc. Very rich and successful people have been known to kill themselves because they simply weren't happy. The main component of this is wasted time. You have to find balance between Love, Health, Happiness, Wealth, & Freedom.
Best comment so far
Your comment is so true.
There is more out there than working a shit load and forget about friends and family.. and yourself in the progres.
Try balancing things up, else way you are still lost, don't make things to complicated for yourself, right? Nice comment.
You should understand what gary is talking about. He means you should spend more of your time working for the future. He never said having day outs with friends is bad. HE SAID WISHING TO HAVE THE LIFE THAT OTHERS ARE LIVING ON SOCIAL MEDIA IS BS! it takes away alot from you. That's what he meant. We all know having friends and going out sometimes is important.
Alex Haar yep which is unfortunate
this is what losers say. One you have been out with your friends, travelled to a few countries by your early 20's all you are doing is repeating the same experiences at the same level. Its groundhog day, why do you think so many people are miserable even though going on holidays and hanging with friends. Because there is no growth or level change of experiences.
"envy generates impatience"
That blew my mind
9:57 "I want the process of trying to buy the New York Jets more than buying the New York Jets." Love that!
This girl needs to UNFOLLOW a bunch of people on her IG...clean her feed up and influence herself in the right way
Tyler Shattuck she still folllows Kylie Jenner tho 🙄
Saif Chogle how do you know?
ZixZone I looked it up on her instagram handle
Or just uninstall it if she's serious enough
Social media in general , it's like a cancer
I was one of the top 10 kids in my class, I always dream about myself to be millionaire by age of 25. I went to good school, get a good college degree, went to awesome company with good salary, I always compare myself to other people. Now I am 25, I am NOT millionaire, I am NOT what I want to be. I saw many successful people at their age of 25, I am jealous, I looked at their instagram, their social media, spend so much time on it. Now I need to understand myself, what life do I want.
Hey William, I just went through the same thing. If you need help get out of that, let's connect. :)
tiffiana yea, will definitely talk to you when I need help, thank you!
@@jmzhang34 sounds good, whenever you need help! :)
Shit next year i will be 25 and nothing i have accomplished yet
@@crystalsun4806 don't be too hard with yourself. Get clear on what you like to do, what you can do, what the market wants and start doing it :)
What a great conversation. She sounds like a smart kid, highly motivated, and with her head generally screwed on straight more than 90% of her cohorts-- this just gave her the 10% redirection she needed to kick ass over the next decade. Well done, sir.
I think she had the 10% and Gary gave her the 90%. Trust me I wasted from 16 - 24 caring what people thought too much trying to play the fast game hanging around with internet and TV celebs when I should have been doing my own thing playing the slow game. Eveyone in the world has that drive but nobody is playing the slow game I'm still young and I would love to have not wasted all that time playing fake fast game.
Fair enough-- recognizing that bit, even thought it's a relatively small realization, is a huge component of moving forward effectively. Ah, to go back to my 20s armed with the shit I learned in my 30s and 40s... :)
I suppose everyone's different but for me, the passion easy and everyone I meet has the passion but no ones going slow and putting in time. I spent so much time trying to do so many things fast comparing myself to others and trying to catch up. It's a hard habit to break and I still get caught up in it. Every month I seem to care less about what others think and get better at playing my own game but saying and it doing it are completely different. I have a pretty good business now that's growing slowly.
So do you mean just go full on one project? No distractions and just keep pushing it? So just get going by your own way and stop getting attention? I understood? I'm 21 and got next level stuff in mind, still not going full on, maybe thinking it too much, but I'm always my way although indeed tend to study and investigate a lot of my surroundings, trying to learn and craft everything that I see others don't target and trying to distinguish myself but need to go 100% still
Joseph Jones so what are other words of wisdom you would add to what gary said?
Gosh, I really needed this. I literally used to text people for hours, go through their posts, and feel like nothing all the flipping time! All this while speaking about accomplishing things.. I can't believe I wasted six months mulling over wasting the last 17 years of my life.. Thank you for helping me realize where I am, at the moment :)
This applies to every age
Man this is what is happening to me. That girl it has my same mindset, I am 22 and I am looking at other people and want to reach that goal. I want to be successful like now just like her... I am focusing some much on other people that I am losing time to focus, I am not enjoying the process, I am just looking to the get there that fastest way and not focusing.
This is so helpful Thank you Gary....
VL This happens to everyone, not just people in their 20's.
i feel so attacked, but thank you for this video wow
word.
Wtf
Sometimes the truth that we need to hear hurts in the short term but a bitter truth is better than a sugar coated lie. Keep striving
😂😂😂. That's the best way to go
LMAO same. I'm 22 and I this hit different
I’m at my 23 years of age Gary.thank you for the life lesson I’ve heard from you. I’m from the Philippines and somehow anxious and stressed about what happening in my life.I hope I can hear from you someday
Wow, I needed this. I'm turning 20 in less than 30 days... Not aiming to be a millionaire, but there's a lot I have to work. I need to get my shit together. Thank you so much for being aggressive about it. You're right, the journey is the main event and time is wasting away.
Tbh dropping out of school was the best choice i made...school might just maybe get you somewhere in life but by the time you get a good job you'll be almost in your 30's but becoming an entrepreneur can from early in your life you will be a successful person by the time your 30 if you really work hard and invest your money
Edgar Coverzz you can always stay in school and do entrepreneurship on the side. You always need a backup plan. If your entrepreneurship stars to pickup hardcore then I’d say drop out and fully focus on it. Just my two cents.
I just turned 20 this april and because of the corona virus I feel like my life seems to have ground to a halt.Your video really inspired me. Thank you so much for doing that!
Regardless of age all of our lives are in a stand still. All of us. U just have to keep going
Relatable
I turned 20 April too.. I don’t know why I was excited when I saw it
U r almost 21 now hbd
How's it going
I will come at the age of 25 to New York and shake your hand when i can say yes - ‘I’ve Made it’ . Wish me luck
I am 18
All the best everyone!
This video hits me. I landed my job when I was 20 and I’m turning 23 next month... still no savings, struggling to pay my debts, complaining about my job, complaining about being broke and so on. I’m doing the wrong way ever since. So now I’m embracing minimalism and just be happy with the simple things. Just trust the process, don’t rush things, and never compare yourself to someone. Focus on yourself growth. :)
Jeasalyn Lomugdang good luck in that 😃
Jeasalyn Lomugdang this is the real answer actually, feeling enough! Otherwise you will always feel something missing
Just got rejected from the number 1 bank in my country. Dealing with anxiety of failure. Questioning carrier. But this dude right here, spitting truth, healed me up.
i need to stop being lazy
MR.STUKES me too.
I said that once. It took me years to break the habit. I managed to overcome it in the end, although I still catch myself slacking time to time, like now, I'm replying to this post when I should be doing something more worth my time. The solution I found is to start getting things done. Stop wasting time planning what your going to do because that's fantasy fiction in your head. Spend 5 minutes bullet pointing a few things you can get done in the next 4-8 hours you have available. Then do it, no matter what. It's not easy, it's hard and it feels shit to begin with. You need to put it into physical practise on a daily basis to develop the new habit. That's step one. If you think about doing it, you won't do it - that's where I spent 7 years messing up and feeling down about it. Changing your routing takes practise, therefore time and effort. Do it or don't. I don't care if you impress me by changing or not, but you do. It's your call. Now get off the net like I'm about to do right after I hit the reply button and get shit done. Don't even waste time replying to this message, I don't even want to see a quick "thanks". Get off your ass and move NOW - period!
I really appreciate this post.
MR.STUKES small steps son ❤
DID YOU STOP?
Life is short
I am not slaving away 10 to 15 years of my life
Balance is key
Exactly
BigBro 1600 i truly understand but i guess with that mentality you have to just accept to not win
@@Hbpix3l What is winning though? We all end up losing in the end don't we?
@@ThePeanutButterCup13 no one gets out alive...i feel like many people are not aware of that
it's lu do you mean that existentially or financially? *or both
I really related to this. Honestly, I turned on this video while I was cleaning, not expecting to actually watch the whole thing because it's 17 minutes but then I found myself sitting down and then found myself opening a word document and taking notes! One thing that really struck me was when Gary said that he wants the process of working to get the New York Jets more than actually owning them. I only wish I had something like that.
I'm 21 and I have several things that I just love to pieces and would love to try full time. Cooking, farming, childcare, video editing, cinematography, screenwriting, fiction writing, even ministry and teaching. I feel like I could pursue anyone of those and be really fulfilled by that work and my problem winds up being what do I chose? I'm leaning towards screenwriting but with a strong video production emphasis- basically I'm thinking if I could just make scripted content on youtube and then somehow live off of that and be able to fund bigger and bigger projects- that would be amazing. Because I think what I care about the most about storytelling is being able to tell the best story I think I'm capable of without having to worry too much about what the producer wants. I want to be able to make my stories and find an intelligent, imaginative audience that would enjoy them as much as I want to make them.
But I'm terrified. I'm paralyzed. What if I run out of ideas? What if it turns out I'm unoriginal, stale, and just really, really bad at this? What if I make something objectively terrible? What if it's too much stress for me and I burn out? What if I can't do this and I have to live with my parents for the rest of my life because I have no idea how to make a decent amount of money? I think it's hard to not care what other people think when you're in a creative field where your livelihood is completely dependent on other people's likes and preferences.
And maybe I should just go and work for someone else, like Pixar but not as prestigious. Should I work towards that instead? Instead of building an audience, just work on a portfolio and networking? Or should I do all three? Or just two?
It stresses me out because I feel like I have no time. I'm going to school because I have to get a degree as a fall back option. I am part of this tuition waiver program that basically waives tuition which is great but I still feel like I have to get a 4.0 because my parents might move which would mean I'd no longer be eligible for the program and they might not pay for my school because... they really, really don't agree with my choice of major and field. They don't even pay for my textbooks. They, especially my mom, think I'm entitled and lazy. They are scared for me and don't think I have a future in filmmaking. And they're not wrong.
I've been given everything in my life and I've only worked because I wanted more than what I got and wanted to have independence. And while I've always had a knack for writing and constantly been starting projects, I've never stuck with anything long enough to produce anything tangible from it whether that be an award, an audience, or even, sadly, a finished draft. It was only when I was 19 that I actually finished finished a short story and it took me nearly six months. Six months! Man. So, when they're afraid that I don't have what it takes to do the work necessary for this field, it's completely understandable. I don't even know if I can do this and support myself with it. And I am entitled. They bought me my car, pay my insurance, and my phone bill, and, of course, they feed and house me. I don't know what it's like to work for 40 hours a week, go to school, and use all that money for bills and tuition.
I have been working though, moving from babysitting to retail and fast food. Right now I'm working around 30 hours a week. I use the money from the job to pay for textbooks, gas, and save half of it. I feel like I need something in savings as a buffer so I don't feel like I have no savings and anything could make me go under. And I feel like I need money to invest in equipment and everything.
I also am super sentimental. I just have to spend time with my parents, siblings, and grandparents. And with friends. I feel like I should be making friends. Although, over the past few years, it just hasn't been coming easily for me... I've moved to different states several times over the past few years and just haven't been getting out of my shell.
So between work and school and family and trying to make friends I have no time to actually work on any of my creative projects. And I just realized something that I haven't before- this balancing act is killing me. I *need* to tell stories like my body needs my heart to keep beating. Huh. I didn't realize it was that important to me that clearly until now, lol.
I'm actually running off of like 6 hours of sleep and have homework I should've done... but I watched this video and wrote this instead. And I think it really helped. I'm not sure what I'm going to do. I think it boils down to not caring what other people think and working and not psyching myself out. I think I'm going to definitely get my hours at work down to 18 a week. Maybe I can work towards quitting. Or I could just quit. I'm going to start just making stuff more. I'm not going to convince my parents that I'm going to be ok. I'm just going to be ok. I'm going to let my work be my primary consolation and encouragement, and start sharing it and meeting more people, trying to find a mentor and someone at my level that can help me and that I can help too. I wish I could not stress so much about getting perfect grades but I just am too scared to do that. Maybe I can work towards that too.
So...... this comment has been a ridiculously long internet journey for me but I feel like I might as well post it? Um, I'm going to go rethink my life a little more and make some changes.
I am 43 years old just starting my own business as speaker having a hard time with booking gigs but im getting them here and there grinding. I love your passion and attitude. thank you for all your videos.
"I don't think so. I think you're saying you need to hit rock bottom because it buys more time to bullshit."
damn I felt that
hahaha kylie Jenner roasted hard lmao 😂😂😂😂
mudasir ul haq for real though 😂
HAHAHA
Illuminati reloaded lmfaoo
damn didn't expected so much likes
this guy just fucking healed my subconscious mind. im in the same boat as that girl, same exact fucking boat in every detail except im a guy. this was the best video ive seen so far on youtube. when you hear it from a credible guy, you know its the truth. winning a lotto is 1/100000000.
24 Years old. Dropped out of college and we quit our jobs! Five months in and the mortgage is still being paid! Slowly but surely growing our empire!
Goals and more!
Where my other 19-year-olds at? :)
17 bout to be 18 lol
Turning 20 in December 👊
Sis I'm here.
15
18 here
Triple down on ONE thing, instead of being half pregnant on NINE!! This all I needed to hear, Thank your Gary 😍
Yo! I've learned so much listening to this video. My self-esteem slowly tears apart because of seeing my friends living a comfortable life. This video made me understand that we have to do our own process in our own timeline and shouldn't use the comparing paradigm. I ultimately appreciate his words and made me think deeply more about dealing with myself. I am now free with all my insecurities. Gotta care only about my process. Thanks!
Just turned 19 and watching this. Mind-blown.
Very interesting. Everyone is wishing things, but no one wants to put in work.
Robert Kim No some put work in but its either too late or in the wrong areas. Like working hard in college when you could've done it in highschool. Frankly, degrees don't mean shit. Experience and evidence of passion mean more than anything.
5:55 this part hit me hard lmao..I'm currently in the middle of thinking that I'm freaking useless because I'm already 20 years old and the thing I'm always doing is wake up in the morning, exercise, feed domestic animals, and sleep again (repeat again and again) I'm doing this for about 2 years now.
I am 20, and this honest shit is absolutely going to help me,
Slow and steady wins the race ; thanks for advice.
"Macro patience, micro speed" WOW I LOVE IT !!!
I'm a 19 year old watching this while stress eating😭😭
Same here no idea what to do !!😔 Don't know what real life means....😔..
Gang gang
lmao :D same
@@unstoppable.1834 i am 19 and i am trying to figure out wht exactly to do with my lifee , was considering medical just cuz society expects tht even tho i know i dont like science labs etc as much , i was considering law,economics or pilot training nd i literally never felt so lost beforee :((((
serious advice help needed here
uni is also something i wanna experience and i cant decide if i should do pilot training cuz tht uni experience wouldnt be there i wanna make frnds and memries but also earn alot of money and be successful like i always wanted as i come from a middle class background sorta ..
also this whole corona virus BS made me consider whether its a good idea to enter uni when everthing is online currently and for awhile it seems :((
wht do i do , almost felt sucidal ngl
@@aena5995 It's like you just described my life... I am also 19, and I'm facing the exact same problems as well. This sucks:(
So lucky I've found this video, I'm currently 23 and really needed to hear some of this stuff
One problem I believe is related to what we see in social media, ends up putting much pressure on many young people
It's not real. It's all a curated bullshit highlight reel of someone's life who probably inherited all their fortune and/or is living beyond their means and will be dirt fucking poor in a year. Regardless, nobody else fucking matters, the battle is you vs you, you cant compare yourself to other people, you don't know how fucked up they actually are.
Great advice Gary, you are damn right. Everybody sees the tip of the iceberg, the fame and the success. But nobody sees the hard work you did put in for years. With 20 i started my channel and other projects and now 6 years later, after working everyday on my projects, finally I got a return. I'm sure the next years will be even more awesome and I can't wait to take the challenge. Do what you are passionate about and don't do shit to prove things to other people. I'm out. peace.
Thanks for your words brother
This might be the best video I've seen in my entire life.
Elyas Stephens mine too, in fact I watched while I was using the toilet, so it was also the biggest turd I evacuated in my life!
being from africa and hearing this. Just turned 20 today, Best advice for the day Thank you
Stay strong brother
This is THE BEST advice anyone can give a 20-year-old!! Thank you GaryVee for giving your positivity and reality check!
I don't think you need to give up a social life for work. It's all about balance.
Depends what you want out of life.
Roger Smith If you are doing it for the wrong reasons, dont mean shit working so much. If you like it, If you enjoy the process, business, of course.
But I dont want to be rich. If you are not enjoying your life, do you think that getting rich changes anything. Like I sayd, only changes if business its your passion
Roger Smith you can do both stop making up excuses if your busy just tell your friend i cant im busy maybe another time they will understand. or you can end up dying alone in misery with no loved ones around you. you chose your lifestyle No excuses you worked so hard for what? you cant take money with you to the grave or your successful riches. but you can leave an impact on loved ones and inspire them
roger smith you are not a hustler if you spent your whole life kissing ass making your boss richer you have alot of learning to do young one
Hypersuccess is about specialization
Having a fulfilled life is about balance
I want Hypersuccess not a balanced life. My legacy can have a balanced life for me
OMG, I think everyone feels attacked after watching this, I heard some bitter truth about myself.
True!
Wish I saw this video 8 years ago when I turned 20. Now I'm 28, with a strong desire to create a board game company although I am a civil engineer and on a tight dead line since my savings are running down, and no clue if I am even doing the right thing. Should have tried to open my own company already at 20, it just get's so much harder with age, because of life obligations. Listen to Gary ppl.
Hm for some reason I can't see this comment.
lmao your so young!!! I met a 48 year old engineer that became a successful hairdresser out of curiosity.. you already have a dream laid out !! your on the right track
Thanks mate! That's an inspiring story :)
you should go for it man. My dad quit his job a while ago to build his own thing. its been rought I wont lie. But totally fuckin worth it. Once you are in it, you figure it out as you go.
Thanks Taylor for taking that like a champ, I’m 21 needed this.
I became 20 yesterday and im so thankful that youtoube showed me this video
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Lol that’s cuz ur gave them ur birthdate when u made ur account son
"Every second you spend thinking about what somebody else has, is taking away from time that you can create something for yourself" ~ Gary V.
That's why Gary got me to start vlogging and documenting everything!
Thank you Gary and Taylor. I’m 20 and need to get it together and get shit done instead of comparing my life to others 🙌🏼
2021 and Gary still speaking straight to my damn soul
Same man
I don't understand why people are so envious of others because they reached success before them, even if they're only in their 20's. I've wanted to become an entrepreneur since I was like 7; trying sell my unwanted toys to other kids in school. I even remember asking why certain gas stations and restaurants didn't have multiple locations so they'd double their money lol. I was around 16-17 when I started seeing stories about 20 year olds becoming owners of million dollar companies. I was the complete opposite of envious and jealous. I was inspired! That's when the fire really started to burn inside of me. Like damn, if these kids can do it, I know I can put in the work and do it also. Since then, I've been on a journey of self growth, learning all I can about business, my industry, and personal growth. I'm 21 now and about to launch my first business, I'm not sure how it'll go, but I won't stop until I'm seeing some kind of profit. I'm still super young and I know there's so much more to learn, but I'm pretty sure I know just enough to get my foot in the door. I feel like if see profit; even just a hundred dollars, I'll be addicted to this game like a fein on crack.
I'm 21 and I am trying to get my shit together.
My life is always a mess. But this year was the worst, battling with depression , I had a surgery ,my best friend died. I've been close to give up life so many times but for some reason I'm still here. I will try my best to achieve at least some of my goals in this life. After all death is going to happen anyway so I might as well do my best until then.
Oh and I don't want to be a millionaire or anything like that...I only want to be happy for once and to feal my life has a purpose.
Purpose is what every human needs. Along with genuine love. This trick is to build on your purpose, try to find love
and money to support your passions along the way.
keep It up bro!
Hope you achieve it. Best wishes
Sometimes being alive is enough of a reason to be happy and proud of urself :D , if u look in a simple way of thinking just be happy that u were one sperm to make it to "being born" out of the 200million that didnt make it.
Never give up ,just be what u really want to be not what others want u to be.
Deanith, it's been 5 months so far since you shared this with us; I really really hope you're feeling better. I know you're gonna make it, the strenght in your words make you already a winner. Mucho love!