i hate being a woman

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  • Опубліковано 4 жов 2023
  • jk i love it too
    this one’s 4 mark
    update: this is getting a lot of views rn, i made this in class for a 50 second project on something i feel strongly about, so the sound isn't great and i couldn't include everything i wanted to into that time, its nice to see the positive comments but some people don't get that this is not a gender competition and i understand that men face issues too. but don't undermine the women or sensible people in my comments who are relating to this approach.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 518

  • @ratregenerator
    @ratregenerator 3 місяці тому +605

    This stuff makes me cry so bad. I can't explain this feeling to anybody because it feels like I'm in hell when I do. God forbid I talk about this to any male figure in my life, they'll just try to defend themselves but they won't listen. I'm so proud of being a woman. I love myself. But god does it make me feel horrible when people just don't understand and I feel alone.

    • @jose9hine
      @jose9hine  3 місяці тому +35

      absolutely 100% how i feel, i love myself and i’m so proud of who i am but it does not make it any easier to be in a society that is ultimately run by men, be that through literal executive roles or just the way that male behaviour has shaped us as women, making us internally misogynistic etc. super happy that people are actually watching this too haha it was for a school project

    • @arjun_aashu
      @arjun_aashu 3 місяці тому +24

      ​@@jose9hinedamn so at last everything is blamed at men I mean I am doing everything in power to be good man in life but still see this much negativity about us that I feel like women just complains and do nothing

    • @arjun_aashu
      @arjun_aashu 3 місяці тому +9

      ​@@jose9hineI really get the point of this vedio I truly try to understand women forgive me If I my above comment hurt you in any way but I feel like we both men and women should take initiative and be better .
      In your vedio i felt like you generalized men because the same generalisation can be done on women too and about the comment in which you said that women have turned misogynist due to men I believe it's wrong I think women don't hold accountable its own gender,all I am trying to say many men in this world are still good men and trying to do better I want to help anyone I can and I want to be great man that others can see as role model for themselves I think you should not generalize us like this

    • @echoblue3859
      @echoblue3859 2 місяці тому +13

      @@arjun_aashusooooo you dislike being generalized based on your sex?
      Um Welcome to what women feel my friend -
      Maybe just listen. 🤷‍♀️

    • @YoureRightIThink
      @YoureRightIThink 2 місяці тому +14

      ​@@jose9hine Yeah like the guy above said maybe you gals would be better if you stopped blaming everything wrong in society on men, think about this "men run society" or "society run by men" or phrases as such is an easy cop out, a scapegoat. Women are just as responsible for such, a lot of the things women care about men actually don't so it's you pressing this kind of stuff on each other.
      And let me make it clear I'M NOT SAYING THAN MEN ARE NOT TO BLAME, we totally are guilty of a lot of bad stuff, actions and attitudes. But society is dependent on both sexes, pretending that only men make the running decisions in general is idiotic and a way to not have an inward look on women yourselves. Besides the fact it's misogynistic in on itself 😂 like you gals complain about everything depending on men yet you make it be so.

  • @Yyyyyy123ssss
    @Yyyyyy123ssss 2 місяці тому +330

    "Being born a woman is my awful tragedy" Sylvia Plath

    • @jtl-en4yx
      @jtl-en4yx Місяць тому +1

      Keep coping!

    • @andrewdrewandy
      @andrewdrewandy Місяць тому +2

      @@jtl-en4yxhow do you cope? going on channels you don’t agree with just to leave hate comments? thats much more pathetic

    • @Yyyyyy123ssss
      @Yyyyyy123ssss Місяць тому

      @@jtl-en4yx you are a man right ?

    • @Yyyyyy123ssss
      @Yyyyyy123ssss Місяць тому

      ​@@jtl-en4yx you are a man right ?

    • @Yyyyyy123ssss
      @Yyyyyy123ssss Місяць тому

      @@jtl-en4yx you're a man right ?

  • @CarbonationDrink
    @CarbonationDrink 3 місяці тому +279

    brittany broski getting real is awesom. i love her.

    • @Aster_Risk
      @Aster_Risk 2 місяці тому

      Except for the blaccent she used to do and doesn't feel bad about. Not very awesome.

  • @rowturboat
    @rowturboat 2 місяці тому +61

    when people talk about civil rights and say “women earned the right to wages” or “asain americans earned the right to freedom” or “african americans earned the right to vote”, I’ll always wonder why it’s earned and never gained. We didn’t “earn” anything. Rights are not “earned”. everyone deserves the same rights. yet we continue to celebrate the people who helped us “earn” our rights when we should just be shaming the people who made is believe we didn’t deserve it in the first place.

    • @bartstemerdink2907
      @bartstemerdink2907 Місяць тому

      Why would someone have the right to have rights?

    • @JuniperGal-ek2pu
      @JuniperGal-ek2pu Місяць тому

      @@bartstemerdink2907 rights are a right because it’s just…right.

  • @ericad8412
    @ericad8412 2 місяці тому +163

    They only see my body but they dont want to know anything about me. Im just a commodity like coffee or sugar. And yes men are treated disposable in the line of fire but its 2 sides of the same coin.

    • @miteshsharma3865
      @miteshsharma3865 2 місяці тому +9

      Well same as me women see my body only how I look they don't care about my personality

    • @user-vt3vo1yd3v
      @user-vt3vo1yd3v 2 місяці тому

      You’re value is solely based on what you contribute. If you don’t contribute to the world anything other than your looks, you won’t even seen as anything other than your looks. Maybe when a few women learn to invent new technology or cure a disease or fight in our wars or build or bridges or clean our sewers or lay down our plumbing or build our skyscrapers, MEN DO ALL OF THESE, WOMEN DO NOT.

    • @crustykeycap5670
      @crustykeycap5670 2 місяці тому +7

      They don’t know you personally that is why they see you as a commodity. Your body is the first thing people will see. Like I’m short 5’6 their initial impression of me will be based on that there is nothing you can do about it. Also having a desired body is a good thing, it’s better than the alternative.

    • @miteshsharma3865
      @miteshsharma3865 2 місяці тому

      @@crustykeycap5670 as 5.6 I can understand your pain

    • @user-mn8lz7gf6d
      @user-mn8lz7gf6d 2 місяці тому

      empathy is extremely hard when you don't actually know most people you meet.

  • @slowedpalace
    @slowedpalace 2 місяці тому +125

    I shit myself

  • @zoeyluvy
    @zoeyluvy 2 місяці тому +12

    for a long time it was really hurtful being a woman and having to have periods for men, it was like everything i did was to please men and sometimes it does feel like im vulnerable because im a woman and no matter how hard i work out men will still have an advantage over me. i was scared of men all my life because of how many were in lust for women and how they would treat me as if im an animal or an image for them to look at.. but i feel like men also have similar problems just a little different. there's also a stereotype for them, we are perceived as sex toys but they are also perceived as wallets... so just take this knowledge and apply it to how you treat men as well

    • @macpclinux1
      @macpclinux1 Місяць тому +4

      u have periods for men?

    • @Alakaatsu
      @Alakaatsu Місяць тому +1

      ​@@macpclinux1 be serious now bruh

    • @averybadcaseoffacialobesity
      @averybadcaseoffacialobesity Місяць тому

      ​@@macpclinux1 I think what she means is the ability to give rise to a child, and the side effects of it which = weakness is something that caters to men

    • @JuniperGal-ek2pu
      @JuniperGal-ek2pu Місяць тому +1

      We do NOT have periods for men. We have periods for ourselves. To be able to be fertile for ourselves! Men also have hormonal cycles as well! Know your worth! Don’t let womanizers bring you down. ❤

    • @jtl-en4yx
      @jtl-en4yx 3 дні тому

      @@JuniperGal-ek2pu You have periods because it is a biological mandate. What do you mean by be fertile for ourselves?

  • @FightingIsLife
    @FightingIsLife 2 місяці тому +7

    It's true that a lot of importance is placed on a woman's looks. This is a reality of life. Women have physical expectations of men too. Men go through things women will never fully understand and that's because men don't cry about it. Some men do cry about things but we tend to liken them to women.
    Anyway, a woman can tell a man 'to be a man' but a man nowadays cannot tell a woman 'to be a lady'. So let's except the world is a cold place regardless of what gender u are.

  • @sahmnancy
    @sahmnancy 2 місяці тому +30

    65 years old woman and I have never felt like I had to fit into some box or present myself some way to make men happy. Honestly, do what you want and who cares what anyone thinks.

    • @locopollo2042
      @locopollo2042 2 місяці тому +5

      Girl you got the right mind set. “Who cares what anyone thinks” learning not to care what anyone thinks and having your own approval of yourself will change you and make you a better version of yourself.🔥🔥🔥

    • @sasaetheatre
      @sasaetheatre Місяць тому

      try this in a developing country, Eastern Europe or under the Tal1ban, and you'll be off for g00d

    • @locopollo2042
      @locopollo2042 Місяць тому +1

      @@sasaetheatre yeah but who cares

  • @user-hg1tr8dt8y
    @user-hg1tr8dt8y 8 місяців тому +121

    No need to hate ur self based on ur gander

    • @Ocidad
      @Ocidad 2 місяці тому +5

      yes uncle.. i agree

    • @user-hg1tr8dt8y
      @user-hg1tr8dt8y 2 місяці тому +14

      @@Ocidad good boy

    • @theblurryblackcat
      @theblurryblackcat 2 місяці тому +4

      Yeah, leave the geese out of this

    • @Happyradio1234
      @Happyradio1234 2 місяці тому

      I hate myself just because i do

    • @user-hg1tr8dt8y
      @user-hg1tr8dt8y 2 місяці тому +3

      @@Happyradio1234 What will you get by hating yourself. Ever thought abt it ?

  • @rat831
    @rat831 2 місяці тому +13

    I just want to go out

  • @leilam1010
    @leilam1010 3 місяці тому +70

    can you link the video of that lady talking

  • @lamerramadilyn
    @lamerramadilyn Місяць тому +1

    Im fkin hate myself as a woman. Less productive, moody, weak, and moreover

  • @duf2
    @duf2 2 місяці тому +11

    This was in my suggestions after checking my period tracker 😑

  • @lynn.x0x0
    @lynn.x0x0 2 місяці тому +2

    ‼️YOU DON’T NEED APPROVAL FROM OTHER PEOPLE TO BE ACCEPTED FOR WHO YOU ARE.‼️

  • @JerryMungo
    @JerryMungo 2 місяці тому +5

    I bet they said some interesting stuff but the music hid everything they said. I guess that’s what CC is for.

  • @zdlax
    @zdlax 2 місяці тому +11

    You can do anything you want, I'll still only see you as Hydrogen Oxygen Carbon Nitrogen Calcium Phosphorus...

  • @zoebramble2239
    @zoebramble2239 2 місяці тому +1

    All we do is try and try but they'll never see the pain we have

  • @suga1180
    @suga1180 Місяць тому +9

    Perpetual victimhood is such brain rot

    • @Bxbblegum
      @Bxbblegum Місяць тому +1

      Not really nowadays it seems like every single guy in a comment section hates women

    • @meliable
      @meliable 3 дні тому

      Are you a Girl

  • @ocdbrain
    @ocdbrain 2 місяці тому +7

    I'm sorry u guys have to go thru this

    • @sanctuaryjester
      @sanctuaryjester Місяць тому

      ​@@jtl-en4yx I'm really sorry to hear that

  • @iateafeltip_pen.
    @iateafeltip_pen. Місяць тому +4

    as a 14 yr old girl. this makes me realise that being a girl doesnt get any better overtime!

    • @user-iz1qw7og4q
      @user-iz1qw7og4q Місяць тому +3

      You can do whatever the fuck you want and makes you happy. However men will treat you different and tbh it is kind of a childish way of thinking to expect them to adapt to our feelings and emotions.

    • @iateafeltip_pen.
      @iateafeltip_pen. Місяць тому

      @@user-iz1qw7og4q all i can do is dream then ig??

  • @Eizzen
    @Eizzen 2 місяці тому +7

    i wanted fortnite videos

  • @The-Real-Jack
    @The-Real-Jack 2 місяці тому +70

    Life is hard for men and women, but we are in it together, people need to stop competing with the other sex. You need to identify the pain points in your life and address them. No matter how hard it is in the moment it can always get better if you dedicate time to dealing with the problems in your life one at a time. Yes, sometimes you have to adhere to societal standards if you want to be liked- that is an unfortunate reality everyone faces regardless of sex. The best you can do is have your own standards and try your best to adhere to the standards of the people you want to coexist with.

    • @pinkleminade
      @pinkleminade 2 місяці тому +42

      This feels dismissive
      Edit: I’m saying this feels dismissive because this video is about women’s problems and you’re just making it about everyone else. Yes, everyone has problems but we’re talking about women..

    • @The-Real-Jack
      @The-Real-Jack 2 місяці тому +11

      I dont intend to be dismissive, kind of the oppsite tbh, I'm drawing attention to the fact the vast majority of people struggle with the expectations and reality of our circumstances regardless of sex. There are societal expectations on women and there are societal expectations on men. Let's not be dismissive about either or we will end up with a society full of bitter feminists and incels.

    • @MPREGCOOKING
      @MPREGCOOKING 2 місяці тому +32

      ​​@@The-Real-Jack real feminism isn't misandry lol, don't lump them in w incels

    • @The-Real-Jack
      @The-Real-Jack 2 місяці тому

      @@MPREGCOOKING I didn't say it was. But modern feminists are about as attractive to men as incels are to women.

    • @huliohuliohamijo
      @huliohuliohamijo 2 місяці тому +7

      @@MPREGCOOKING Except it totally is.

  • @almostarockst4r
    @almostarockst4r Місяць тому +1

    let's keep fighting, sisters! we are free, we just have to find the strenght to believe it

    • @jtl-en4yx
      @jtl-en4yx 3 дні тому

      Oh men are free too, and more and more of us are setting ourselves free from women!

  • @eigentlichtoll02
    @eigentlichtoll02 Місяць тому

    A lot of humans, women and men, fight with the dynamics
    of an unhealthy mix of social media, beauty standards and sexual selection.
    Maybe you can accept that burden, that these feelings are true
    and be gentle and there for you(rself)
    really give yourself time, be slow
    and cultivate a love for yourself
    which then you can also
    treat others with

  • @maygodguideustohaven
    @maygodguideustohaven 2 місяці тому +28

    As a man i can proudly say that i and people i know really appreciate the presence of women. And there is much more then just their look.

    • @Jake-TorukMakto-Sully
      @Jake-TorukMakto-Sully 2 місяці тому +5

      Exactly. It upsets me that men out there will cause women to feel this way about themselves. No actually it breaks me that there are men like this.

    • @maygodguideustohaven
      @maygodguideustohaven 2 місяці тому

      ​@@Jake-TorukMakto-Sullyits what culture is feeding them since they were young. We need a society that value families and long term bonds and not "if you dont hookup with the maximum amount of women then your a loser". Hookup culture is what caused this imo

    • @rottenkittenparvo
      @rottenkittenparvo 2 місяці тому +2

      @@maygodguideustohaven idk man, in my country we don't have a hookup culture and its a family culture here, ad women here again are treated as a 1.mother or 2.a who9e (a woman who chooses carrier, a woman who has relationships or doesn't get married, a woman who cant or doesnt want to have kids) its not the culture, its the men.

    • @maygodguideustohaven
      @maygodguideustohaven 2 місяці тому

      @@rottenkittenparvo well I didn't deny that there is alot of men who don't appreciate women as people. But I did say that man aren't a monolith and there is plenty of men who do appreciate women. And it's quite easy to distinct them. Do they like the women without the sex aspect ?

    • @rottenkittenparvo
      @rottenkittenparvo 2 місяці тому +1

      @@maygodguideustohaven i think they dont even know that women are simple humans like them, they treat women as breeding stock or as an incubator, like muslims do

  • @wanderlustoceans8205
    @wanderlustoceans8205 2 місяці тому +48

    I love being a woman, feminine energy is about peace, freedom, harmony and love if women lacks of feminine energy they will end up like this lady she needs a self discovery phase and heal, is not how about you dress or how ladylike you need to be according to SOCIETY wear pink, sit like this talk this way like she said no thats not the way of having feminine energy is about being free, women are wild and free we need to detach to society and live our lives why you think theres the song "girls just want to have fun" because women always want to experience freedom and happiness, peace and such, decenter society, decenter what others thinks about you do not act like a man just to receive respect or be accepted in society do not attract male energy in your life when you are a man it will hurt you and it is a lonely road i was masculine before and it damaged me so much it was a sad energy to attract and i was lonely and violent.
    Meditate go on hikes be in nature, do the hobbies that you love be free, hang out with female friends, if you can help it be in a only women enviroment work(im a massage therapist working in a woman gym so that helped) this is what being a woman is, its not wearing pink or being a tradwife, cook, clean or be submissive is about being free and harmonious.

    • @macpclinux1
      @macpclinux1 Місяць тому

      this is exactly the mentality that will survive and should be taught to our daughters, it's absurd how much this group from my/our generation tries to put us against each other as enemies

    • @concertoinx9070
      @concertoinx9070 Місяць тому

      I agree with the freedom to choose. I also think being submissive to your husband is a choice, and it can work, feel fair, and be a wonderful experience, so long as he loves you (according to 1 Corinthians 4-8 in the bible, as far as I know) and provides. The only difference is, unlike 100 years ago, there's no *need* to take this choice nowadays.

  • @matswahlqvist1796
    @matswahlqvist1796 2 місяці тому

    i think you need to find yourself in your heart and soul and love yourself and learn to love yourself. be kind to yourself and look in your mirror and tell yourself that you are very beautiful. maybe you will feel much better.

  • @eigentlichtoll02
    @eigentlichtoll02 Місяць тому

    So but let's not mix up all centuries here and appreciate that the world has changed a lot.
    We can be grateful that women have fought for human/women rights in the past
    and that this world has changed _vastly_ for women compared to 200 years ago.
    And, not all, but a lot of men _also_ want human rights, become better men
    and to live in a society that allows for happiness for everyone.

  • @Juj_Man0510
    @Juj_Man0510 2 місяці тому +5

    *I hate

  • @jameshunt9208
    @jameshunt9208 2 місяці тому +24

    As a man, I've known from a young age that people in general don't give a shit about me unless I can do something useful for them. I am expected to act a certain way and look a certain way. I'm supposed to talk a certain way and like certain things. I must put myself in danger to protect the fairer sex, who in modern times, would only resent any sacrifice I make. God forbid I bring it up to Anyone, man or women. I'm just told to man up push through it, and make myself useful or get out. As a man, I know that I am disposable. It takes many women to continue the species, but only a few men. If there is war, I can be drafted and forced into the military to go hurt people that politicians say I should. Like every man in this country, I had to sign up for selective service at 18 years old or face prison. Most women that I've met only see me as wallet or atm. Life sucks for everyone for different reasons.
    "Everyone is entitled to their own sorrow, for the heart has no metric or form of measure. And all of it.... irreplaceable."
    --Monty Oum.

    • @jessdigaetano809
      @jessdigaetano809 2 місяці тому +1

      It’s alright bro, we got this, keep your head up🪖

    • @Jess-jv5jq
      @Jess-jv5jq 2 місяці тому +11

      I don’t think that saying that women have struggles is negating the struggles that men have, as they are just as serious. A large problem with the gender war is that when one group complains the other says ‘well what about MY issues!?’ instead of listening to each other and trying to actually fix things.

    • @rottenkittenparvo
      @rottenkittenparvo 2 місяці тому +4

      have you personally went to war? no then hush.

    • @Jess-jv5jq
      @Jess-jv5jq 2 місяці тому +5

      @@rottenkittenparvo Actually yes. Served in Afghanistan.

    • @Ricardo__Milos
      @Ricardo__Milos 2 місяці тому

      Thanks for speaking truth. With neo-feminist all the attention is focused on women cry babies. Men's struggles are almost totally ignored. But we should cry because women always like to be on the victim side, when we're actually on a soft-matriarchy society.

  • @Suprisedbuzz
    @Suprisedbuzz 2 місяці тому +86

    This sucks. Im a man, i face my fair share of issues, but this is just nuts. Both men and women face issues that the lther will never have to face. Not once have i thought that women view me as a sex object. But the gender war is getting out of control. Everyone is against each other, when we should be uniting to fight the system instead.

    • @gloomypetya9654
      @gloomypetya9654 2 місяці тому +22

      finally someone said it! I hate how the discourse always swings one way or another, like "oh women have it hard? Well we go to war" BOTH IS AWFUL. Both sides deserve to be heard out and understood. We all deserve to be treated as people, women are objectified and men are taught to be emotionless and it's such bs

    • @Ricardo__Milos
      @Ricardo__Milos 2 місяці тому

      They're quite happy to be viewed as "sex objects" when they open an OnlyFans or get their hypergamia triggered by a man who has more wage than they have though. They're rather hypocrite.

    • @KatsyKat
      @KatsyKat 2 місяці тому +8

      Tbh i just want everyone to be ok in the end, whatever gender you are. I never understood why it’s always been such a big deal on “who” or “what” you should be based on how you were born, but that could just be because I’ve never been much of a femme woman

    • @theprecipiceofreason
      @theprecipiceofreason 2 місяці тому

      Try being an attractive and/ or financially secure man. The bar is lower for men to view women as an object but, women do the same thing to men, my brother. I am patronized, touched, groped, minimized, bullied, demanded, lied to, graped and otherwise abused by women for the crime of my genetics , outward personality and finances. I'm not even that rich or handsome imo, but this treatment from women informs me that I must be desirable and, it is a horror.

  • @sasha_bean
    @sasha_bean 23 дні тому

    man I love Brittany

  • @prettyoriginalnameprettyor7506
    @prettyoriginalnameprettyor7506 2 місяці тому +10

    please learn to love yourself and enjoy life. Women are not as pitiful as you're making them out to be, many have done fantastic things and will continue to do so.

  • @richman-bp1zg
    @richman-bp1zg Місяць тому +1

    i am so glad ,i was born a man

    • @jtl-en4yx
      @jtl-en4yx Місяць тому

      I am too, but I wish I was tall and masculine!

    • @andrewdrewandy
      @andrewdrewandy Місяць тому

      @@jtl-en4yxoh ur short makes sense why ur so bitter

    • @Yyyyyy123ssss
      @Yyyyyy123ssss Місяць тому +2

      What are u doing here then ? This video is about women

  • @williamgeorgehilton
    @williamgeorgehilton 8 місяців тому +7

    fyp

  • @nooneknown-rk2qg
    @nooneknown-rk2qg Місяць тому

    There's an awful sense of Doom when a man realizes that his future is to be naught but a resource for those around him. There is dread in both paths.

  • @allaboardthegravytrain5987
    @allaboardthegravytrain5987 2 місяці тому +2

    there are 2 kinds of men. the one who will do everything for you, the one who views you as form/function. the form function guy will always be transactional. the do everything guy will do everything and never ask for anything in return due to the fear of losing you. it takes time to find the good guy but its worth it.

    • @hghyfyfiugou4448
      @hghyfyfiugou4448 2 місяці тому

      Men ain't slaves for ya

    • @FightingIsLife
      @FightingIsLife 2 місяці тому +6

      Funny thing is the do everything guys often get taken advantage of, they then become transactional.
      The dynamic is always money and sex for men and women respectively.
      Early marriage with parents in agreement was the way to mitigate potential troubles, however those days are gone. It is what it is nowadays.

    • @averybadcaseoffacialobesity
      @averybadcaseoffacialobesity Місяць тому +1

      That's a very black and white way of seeing it.

    • @lin3378
      @lin3378 Місяць тому +1

      @@FightingIsLife not if his first girl is also a good one and if he is mature enough to notice if she is good

  • @mrhoneybadger5539
    @mrhoneybadger5539 2 місяці тому

    yup

  • @user-ln1xo7iy5z
    @user-ln1xo7iy5z Місяць тому

    Ага, так классно парнем быть, радуюсь не могу на радоваться, парень должен то сё пятое десятое... работаешь ходишь в зал 3 раза в неделю, нормально выглядишь рост 176 см, читаешь книги, не дурак вроде- никому не нужен, у каждой всратки есть парень и куча была и столько же в очереди и в личке. Да, быть девочкой "ад" открываешь тендер а там 20 матчей за сегодня, другое дело у парней... стал токсиком из за всей этой ситуации злым оздобленным и душным, всё обесценивающим😢

  • @frostacademy7071
    @frostacademy7071 Місяць тому

    Even men have to fix in a box and they get compared and get viewed as mere wallets. Hats off to both genders then, why not human empowerment? Why are we so woman centric?

  • @zeneer-6987
    @zeneer-6987 2 місяці тому +2

    sad this got on my fyp when I gave my boyfriend a dirty pick in turn for acceptance for him to be nice and love me and him to tell me ily every single day when he has been leaving me on delivered for the past three days

    • @DevilJhoMama
      @DevilJhoMama 2 місяці тому

      Gender aside, you just sound really clingy. Maybe your BF isn't as clingy and you're flustering him.

  • @S.Shugars
    @S.Shugars Місяць тому +2

    I’m just letting people know as a women myself men go through a lot more physically and mentally females are just more sensitive about stuff.

  • @DevilJhoMama
    @DevilJhoMama 2 місяці тому +6

    As a straight white man, I am so confused with the algorithm today.

    • @Eli-uw6zt
      @Eli-uw6zt 2 місяці тому +1

      I agree

    • @macpclinux1
      @macpclinux1 Місяць тому

      they're weeding out straight men who respond to test their ai against those comments and better autoremove our side of the narrative

  • @datboi7160
    @datboi7160 2 місяці тому +31

    For lonley women, have you tried asking out a man? Guys like it when you make the first move and are upfront and dont go after soneone who would obviously break your heart. Ive seen women go for the absolute worst guys and are somehow surpised when they cheat.

    • @vlst8715
      @vlst8715 2 місяці тому +8

      Men do that a lot too, because apparently mentally stable women are boring somehow. The same is true for friendships. The scope of the issue is crazy. I wish everybody started taking therapy a bit more seriously.
      On the other hand you really don't want to date someone who's attracted to unhealthy individuals.

    • @MPREGCOOKING
      @MPREGCOOKING 2 місяці тому +1

      this literally is not what the video is about. it's women being sick and tired of being treated and viewed as an object of sex. are you 13 years old? lmfao

    • @MPREGCOOKING
      @MPREGCOOKING 2 місяці тому +1

      this isn't what this video is about. we aren't talking about being lonely. we're talking about how exhausting it is to be viewed purely as an object of sex. educate yourself little boy

    • @HJ-oo8ph
      @HJ-oo8ph 2 місяці тому +29

      What does this have to do with anything???

    • @tempejkl
      @tempejkl 2 місяці тому

      ⁠​⁠@@vlst8715Therapy isn't taken seriously especially by men because it's incredibly sexist. Multiple medical authorities admit this, it is a very big issue. Women feel better after talking their feelings out* and letting someone know. Men feel better after coming up with a solution to the problem and attempting to fix it**
      *generally
      **generally again.
      The reason why we dont go for mentally stable women is because we can't find any. Most women i interact with are not, because they are the ones who put themselves out there (i dont pursue them romantically).
      The ones that i have pursued romantically have either been too shy/nervous, or didn't know what they wanted and just wasted weeks of my life.
      Where are good women found? And can they stop hiding themselves away?

  • @fishblublublub
    @fishblublublub 2 місяці тому +13

    the amount of angry men in the comments r insane, ofc its always when women talk abt their problems, if this was a video abt a man, you woudlnt see a single shit

    • @Bxbblegum
      @Bxbblegum Місяць тому +1

      Fr

    • @jtl-en4yx
      @jtl-en4yx 3 дні тому

      Men are tried of having finger pointed at them, because of things they can not control.

  • @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259
    @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 2 місяці тому +19

    I'm sorry
    Also I'm a man

    • @valdilei3703
      @valdilei3703 2 місяці тому +6

      Your monster 😭

    • @BasuraVidz
      @BasuraVidz 2 місяці тому

      ​@@valdilei3703your monster is hiding under the bed. Don't disturb him, for he can get quite feisty. When it's dark, don't go to the bathroom. Please, wait until the sun is out. The monster is allergic to light.
      That's what happens when you use "your" instead of "you're"!

    • @HJ-oo8ph
      @HJ-oo8ph 2 місяці тому +8

      Not your fault bro. Just treat women like the people they deserve to be treated as, stick up for your loved ones, and do your thing. Just do your best to be a good person in the world, and maybe others might follow suit.

    • @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259
      @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 2 місяці тому +1

      @@valdilei3703 lmaoo I just meant for context I guess

    • @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259
      @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 2 місяці тому +4

      @HJ-oo8ph naw I just meant my condolences, not that kind of sorry but you're right. I do try every day to be a good ally

  • @matthewlloyd3255
    @matthewlloyd3255 2 місяці тому +11

    Your feelings are perfectly valid and understandable. As a man - yeah sometimes I do think of a woman in very selfish sexual ways, however most of that is simply biology, when you're horny that's how you feel sometimes. But yeah - your feelings are more than valid and reasonable.

    • @NebulaSon
      @NebulaSon 2 місяці тому +26

      🤦

    • @MS-ly4mx
      @MS-ly4mx 2 місяці тому

      Women get horny too and that doesn’t mean they don’t see men as human

    • @yuluvii
      @yuluvii 2 місяці тому +14

      wtf. no decent person has viewed anyone in that way.

    • @NebulaSon
      @NebulaSon 2 місяці тому +1

      @@yuluvii Exactly!

    • @zerotwo6814
      @zerotwo6814 2 місяці тому +2

      @@yuluvii attribution errors on both sides here, but you are definitely more in the right here. This guy saying "as a man" implies his feeling are universal for men (they are definitely not) and overall makes his statement of sympathy feel backhanded.

  • @user-ow9zo3vx5v
    @user-ow9zo3vx5v 2 місяці тому +11

    i feel for women really hate that you have to have periods i love mitski and lana del rey and tsylor swift (im 6ft 3)

  • @Sewblon
    @Sewblon 2 місяці тому +3

    Its weird watching this as a closeted trans woman. Its like dying of thirst and listening to someone else drown. I stole that line from Team 4 Star. I have no shame.

    • @Sewblon
      @Sewblon 2 місяці тому +3

      @Imcomingforthatboooty I haven't started HRT yet. So should I just continue to be miserable for the rest of my life?

  • @MrStanFungi
    @MrStanFungi 2 місяці тому +2

    bro i thought we solved this problem a long time ago

  • @baronvonluchz5874
    @baronvonluchz5874 2 місяці тому +10

    Damn, what bullshit

  • @rip_riw
    @rip_riw 3 місяці тому +39

    men have it harder ngl

    • @jose9hine
      @jose9hine  3 місяці тому +55

      lucky fella

    • @jaydajohn5041
      @jaydajohn5041 2 місяці тому +55

      I love when dudes acknowledge and appreciate it instead of being like “men have it harder though”

    • @gothictheurgist9367
      @gothictheurgist9367 2 місяці тому +15

      ​@@jaydajohn5041everyone's situation is different, overall I am glad I'm a man and not a woman but I think I'd rather be a woman instead of a very ugly man for example. In other countries being a woman is almost always worse but here in the West women are doing much better than men in many ways.

    • @valdilei3703
      @valdilei3703 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@jaydajohn5041But it's much more difficult lol

    • @YoureRightIThink
      @YoureRightIThink 2 місяці тому +6

      Bruh we literally go through the same shit, in some situations worse, the loneliness epidemic is more harsh on men for example. I wouldn't feel so lucky

  • @leomationsyt8112
    @leomationsyt8112 2 місяці тому +4

    But isn’t that the same with boys? Each gender has social expectations that is judged by the opposing gender like with boys we must open doors for women or if we don have big muscles we’re weak

    • @yuluvii
      @yuluvii 2 місяці тому +8

      Tell me when this video stated men have no social expectations, or aren’t judged.

    • @leomationsyt8112
      @leomationsyt8112 2 місяці тому +5

      @@yuluvii it never did I’m just saying that’s the reality. No gender is superior.

    • @yuluvii
      @yuluvii 2 місяці тому +4

      @@leomationsyt8112
      Again, no one is saying this?
      It’s just stupid to bring up something irrelevant then, but I expect that from you lot.

    • @Ricardo__Milos
      @Ricardo__Milos 2 місяці тому

      @@yuluvii Be honest, please. In 99% of the speeches about "women are eternal victims" it's implying that men have it very easy compared to the poor eternal victims living in a daily hell that women are described as.

  • @youtubeeditorlola
    @youtubeeditorlola 2 місяці тому +8

    And then they call trans people weird-

  • @theprecipiceofreason
    @theprecipiceofreason 2 місяці тому +1

    Unpopular opinion: This is true for every section, not just women. It's not even the other sections that oppress women, or any other section. People make victims of their mirror, in the same plight, for no gain. Society, amirite...

  • @saharasafari9
    @saharasafari9 3 місяці тому +2

    💀💀💀💀

  • @ryguy5436
    @ryguy5436 2 місяці тому +29

    Right cause men don’t have to follow expectations from society at all either

    • @BasuraVidz
      @BasuraVidz 2 місяці тому +30

      No one said they didn't? Ask yourself why you immediately get defensive instead of being empathetic. No one said men don't have their struggles. Both men and women alike have been affected by society's expectations.

    • @ReigenPrim
      @ReigenPrim 2 місяці тому +30

      Men try not to make it about themselves for one second: IMPOSSIBLE

    • @ryguy5436
      @ryguy5436 2 місяці тому +1

      @@ReigenPrim
      What she says in this video is false. Girls are not anymore special.

    • @tempejkl
      @tempejkl 2 місяці тому +11

      @@BasuraVidza lot of men dont have empathy. And i'm saying this as a man. The best other men i've met are ones with ADHD and autism. Might be slightly biased as I have ADHD myself, but yeah.

    • @BasuraVidz
      @BasuraVidz 2 місяці тому +2

      @@tempejkl that's interesting, I've never considered that before. You might be right about that. Perhaps autism gives men the insight/empathy to understand women's struggles more than other men do. Although, I'm a man who doesn't have autism or ADHD, but I still feel empathy for women. But maybe that's because I'm gay... Gay men tend to have empathy towards women as well, I suppose.

  • @nicholette
    @nicholette 2 місяці тому +4

    fr and guys just think oh irs so easy being a woman u get whatever u want so easily whenever ! 🙄😒

    • @jtl-en4yx
      @jtl-en4yx Місяць тому

      Well all you have to do is make false accusations about men to step over them!

  • @way2tehdawn
    @way2tehdawn 2 місяці тому +5

    Transition.

    • @3_eyed_magician
      @3_eyed_magician 2 місяці тому +1

      Yeah, like becoming a man would fix the problem. If only all women who disagreed with being a barbie doll would just live their lives claiming to be a man, then there would be no more sexism!
      BECAUSE THERE WOULD BE NO WOMEN

    • @3_eyed_magician
      @3_eyed_magician 2 місяці тому

      I'm a tomboy/neutrois, do you really think that me screwing up my body with a bunch of cosmetic surgeries & hormones would make men respect me more?
      You disgust me

    • @Ricardo__Milos
      @Ricardo__Milos 2 місяці тому +2

      Yeah, she should definitely do a gender transition, even if she doesn't feel to be a man. She could understand many things about men's struggles and end up realizing that being a woman isn't this bad after all (even though it obviously has down sides!). Less suicide rates, higher life expectancy, doing the romantic/sexual selection, receiving more care, being very less considered a threat etc.

    • @HoneyDollface
      @HoneyDollface 25 днів тому

      @@Ricardo__MilosWomen try to commit suicide more but more men succeed because they use more lethal methods. Look it up.

  • @didtydobble5446
    @didtydobble5446 Місяць тому

    The audio on this was terrible.

  • @aquapr901
    @aquapr901 2 місяці тому

    You'll learn to love yourself when you stop making men your priority

    • @jtl-en4yx
      @jtl-en4yx Місяць тому

      This is true for men as well!

  • @rife133
    @rife133 2 місяці тому +8

    Skill issue

  • @realmanjamal
    @realmanjamal 2 місяці тому +12

    what rights dont you have that men have

    • @HJ-oo8ph
      @HJ-oo8ph 2 місяці тому +27

      It’s not about rights. It’s about the general view of the world. A good chunk of said world doesn’t even view women as human beings worth the same as men, which is extremely depressing. Think of all the poor little girls out there, growing up thinking they’re inferior, having big dreams and ideas yet thinking nobody will listen to them as much as if they were a man. It’s really tragic. If you think this is just about legal rights, it’s not. Besides that, in MANY countries, women don’t even have the same legal rights as men, anyway.

    • @snowbird7254
      @snowbird7254 2 місяці тому +2

      Reproduction

    • @Aster_Risk
      @Aster_Risk 2 місяці тому +7

      Basic bodily autonomy.

    • @zuronicsyt9934
      @zuronicsyt9934 2 місяці тому +7

      @@HJ-oo8ph Men and women face problems but their different. Just accept life is hard for everyone.

    • @HJ-oo8ph
      @HJ-oo8ph 2 місяці тому +9

      @@zuronicsyt9934No, I totally agree with you! Life has its own challenges for everyone. I think we should be able to talk about the unique issues to genders without making it a misery contest, honestly. I think it’s just silly how some dudes (like this one) see a woman talking about some of the struggles she faces and go “nuh uh” just to be contrarian. It totally misses the point.

  • @linclokatz
    @linclokatz 2 місяці тому +5

    Wow women are finally catching on to doomer edits like 2 years later lmao

  • @elif_g24
    @elif_g24 Місяць тому +2

    men making it about themself, dismissing women's problems and proving our point once again in these comments.

  • @jackjacky8105
    @jackjacky8105 3 місяці тому +11

    learn gratitude , stop listening to others and you'll be fine .

    • @purrspctiv
      @purrspctiv 3 місяці тому +27

      We are inherently social beings. It is genuinely impossible for our social surroundings to not affect us in at least some way!
      Besides, it’s not just social, but economic and physical. Someone thinking less of you can do more than just hurt your feelings…
      What if an employer thinks less of you? What if you are forever behind people at your similar skill level because people dismiss you, because people don’t see women in those jobs often so they don’t consider it a possibility? What if they take advantage of you? What if you genuinely are not safe in your environment because of your gender?
      All of this may sound ‘woke,’ but it’s the reality of all women. There are fundamental differences in how you are required to live between men and women that are very difficult to understand unless you’ve seen both sides. I encourage you to ask a woman in your life about the steps they’ve had to take to stay safe.
      It’s never as simple as just “be happy with what you have” because that doesn’t benefit anybody but those who hold the power already. Things shouldn’t be like this.

    • @roa3432
      @roa3432 3 місяці тому +14

      That's not how things work. We are human, not robots. We are allowed to express our thoughts on our collective experience.

    • @tempejkl
      @tempejkl 2 місяці тому

      @@purrspctivAsk a woman? Who? They all leave anyway.

    • @HJ-oo8ph
      @HJ-oo8ph 2 місяці тому +3

      @@tempejkl
      Dude, what? I’m sorry that that’s been your experience. Finding some female friends, whether it’s in school, in online games, through a hobby group, etc. might be good for you. I promise you not all women in life leave. Some women in my life are the most kind, loyal, self-sacrificing people I’ve ever known. It might be good to associate with some.

    • @huliohuliohamijo
      @huliohuliohamijo 2 місяці тому +1

      @@purrspctiv I think what he is saying is that women like the one who made the video would be more happy if they were grateful for what they do have, and stopped being so self-absorbed that they don't notice the opposite sex also has their own unique problems that are not easier to deal with. I get being angry or sad at times for the cards you were dealt with in regards to your gender, but the anger should disappear quickly once you realize your problems are not uniquely bad. That is what 'having perspective' means. Here is a life hack: when you think things are bad, always ask yourself "compared to what?". And remember that the grass always looks greener on the other side.

  • @moby1kanob
    @moby1kanob 2 місяці тому +1

    welp good thing you can have surgery for that now :)

    • @andrewdrewandy
      @andrewdrewandy Місяць тому

      you can never truly change your sex though

  • @NoName69696
    @NoName69696 2 місяці тому +1

    bro this is stupid just dont be sad

  • @ethanwilkins
    @ethanwilkins 2 місяці тому +1

    womp womp

  • @Eizzen
    @Eizzen 2 місяці тому

    this isnt epic

  • @ytlepk23
    @ytlepk23 2 місяці тому +15

    Womp womp womp

    • @MahekMel
      @MahekMel 2 місяці тому

      Sthu, immature a$$ clown 🤡

  • @GHOST2PAL
    @GHOST2PAL 2 місяці тому +11

    Well ... ya it sucks to be an inferior being

    • @MakotoJeon
      @MakotoJeon 2 місяці тому +23

      Why would you see yourself as an inferior being, no one here is perfect and you should be grateful instead of complaining like that.

    • @GHOST2PAL
      @GHOST2PAL 2 місяці тому +4

      I am not a woman @@MakotoJeon 🤣
      I am a superior being

    • @MakotoJeon
      @MakotoJeon 2 місяці тому +24

      @@GHOST2PAL It doesnt matter if your a man or woman, as I said no one is superior/perfect.

    • @user-dy1vf7lu3i
      @user-dy1vf7lu3i 2 місяці тому +21

      @@GHOST2PALbro I’m a man and wtf are you yapping 😂😂😂

    • @Blood_cake_
      @Blood_cake_ 2 місяці тому +14

      So u admit women have it harder

  • @2sp0oky4u_
    @2sp0oky4u_ 2 місяці тому +5

    Yeaaah sure hating recieving lot of attention and a "omg girl you're so cute"

    • @shrinasen8723
      @shrinasen8723 2 місяці тому +6

      What r u talking about

    • @2sp0oky4u_
      @2sp0oky4u_ 2 місяці тому +1

      @@shrinasen8723foid can't even read lmfao what

    • @shrinasen8723
      @shrinasen8723 2 місяці тому +7

      ok based on the fact that u addressed me as foid and u think a woman's whole lifestyles consists of being put up on a pedestal and being the centre of attention u've definitely never been in the same room as a woman so u have no right to invalidate someone's feelings

    • @2sp0oky4u_
      @2sp0oky4u_ 2 місяці тому

      @@shrinasen8723aww you're crying while reading what i say?

    • @HJ-oo8ph
      @HJ-oo8ph 2 місяці тому +6

      What is bro yapping about 💀

  • @charlescastle4533
    @charlescastle4533 2 місяці тому +10

    Bet this woman isn't married and doesn't have children, yet she wonders why she isn't fulfilled.

    • @HJ-oo8ph
      @HJ-oo8ph 2 місяці тому +25

      Bro WHAT are you yapping about

    • @shrinasen8723
      @shrinasen8723 2 місяці тому +12

      bruh pls u don't even know her age besides marriage and reproduction isn't everything tf? 💀

    • @HJ-oo8ph
      @HJ-oo8ph 2 місяці тому +8

      @@shrinasen8723
      Right? Would he say “I bet this man is unfulfilled because he’s not married and doesn’t have children?” Probably not. And he couldn’t justify saying it about a woman if he’s got that double standard going.

    • @charlescastle4533
      @charlescastle4533 2 місяці тому

      @@HJ-oo8ph No, I would also say that about a man who pursues his base desires and doesn't appear to care about creating a family like people should do. Why must you assume I carry a double standard?

    • @HJ-oo8ph
      @HJ-oo8ph 2 місяці тому +2

      @@charlescastle4533Because most people who talk about “women need to have children to be happy” do NOT apply the same thing to men. It usually all boils to the view of “men are smart and make society advance, meanwhile girls should just be babymakers” when people talk about it.

  • @SaintTwizz
    @SaintTwizz 2 місяці тому

    skill issue lmao get better

  • @carltonbanks194
    @carltonbanks194 2 місяці тому +8

    Women have it so much better than men, in the west, don't even try to argue that

    • @lostvampire69
      @lostvampire69 2 місяці тому +5

      Who muders whom? Who rapes whom? Who is harassing whom? Who is sexualizing and molesting is children? Who is taking away whose rights? Who is keeping whom away from education? And so on and so on. Do women do this things to men? No. Of course men have problem - but none of them are caused by women. Mostly all problems women have are caused by men. Don't even try to argue that.

  • @Tadoss
    @Tadoss 2 місяці тому +1

    if people dont like you probably you are the problem and men who only view someone as a sextoy are assholes just because one views you as one it doesnt speak for all of them also you have same chances and men have problems too so you dont actually know i you want to have mens or womans probems, in the end i just wanna say that you have control over your own decisions and you can just change things instead of crying and pointing at things you cant control people would also pretty much respect you if you could explain with what problems you worked your way up so it aint even that bad
    and if you still be crying now guess what womp womp

  • @soloshottie
    @soloshottie Місяць тому

    this is wrong on every level. if every man you know is objectifying you, you're looking at the wrong men. and if you think for a second men dont get objectified by women too, you're ignorant. neither gender is better than the other, none of us have it harder or easier. we have the same struggles but in different forms. this is a terrible message to spread

  • @vasilyrussiazov
    @vasilyrussiazov 2 місяці тому +3

    Cry about it

    • @robodachi3062
      @robodachi3062 Місяць тому +3

      npc ass comment lmfao

    • @Yyyyyy123ssss
      @Yyyyyy123ssss Місяць тому +2

      "women have a very little idea of how much men hate them" Germaine Greer

    • @wheatbread1606
      @wheatbread1606 29 днів тому

      Are you gay? Men/boys like you make me think a lot of you are just gay.

    • @HoneyDollface
      @HoneyDollface 25 днів тому

      You should keep that plastic bag on your head permanently

    • @vasilyrussiazov
      @vasilyrussiazov 25 днів тому

      @@HoneyDollface lol

  • @ysgramornorris2452
    @ysgramornorris2452 2 місяці тому +8

    You see, I didn't know I viewed women as sex toys. Good thing this woman explained to me that I do.

    • @yuluvii
      @yuluvii 2 місяці тому +2

      “Men” is the general and plural version on the word “man,” it is not all composing.

    • @jtl-en4yx
      @jtl-en4yx Місяць тому

      I have tried to be respectful to women, they have treated me like garbage!

    • @yuluvii
      @yuluvii Місяць тому

      @@jtl-en4yx
      Stay inside, brother.

  • @ysgramornorris2452
    @ysgramornorris2452 2 місяці тому +19

    From birth, there's a sort of doom that is associated, that I think all men accept at a young age, of "I have to live the rest of my life with the knowledge that women view me as a monster", "I am not afforded the same privileges and rights as women", and "people think I'm evil", and "I have to fit into this box, and I have to like these things, and I have to be this way and talk this way, and act this way and walk this way, and sit this way, eat this way", it's all been laid out.

    • @diff2587
      @diff2587 2 місяці тому +10

      Ima keep it real with you homes, these problems are almost completely made up and not based in fact in any way

    • @ysgramornorris2452
      @ysgramornorris2452 2 місяці тому +9

      @@diff2587 Are you denying the validity of my perspective and feelings?

    • @HJ-oo8ph
      @HJ-oo8ph 2 місяці тому +12

      Hey dude, men and women both face unique issues. Talking about women’s issues in this video is not meant in any way to discredit men and imply that they have no issues or something. We’re all affected negatively by the expectations placed before us regardless of body type. We should be able to talk about said issues without making it some kind of a “who has it worse” contest.

    • @diff2587
      @diff2587 2 місяці тому +2

      Your perspective and feelings are not representative of reality

    • @Alexandrosa-bv1yo
      @Alexandrosa-bv1yo 2 місяці тому +2

      Totally agree. Too often i'll See people needlesly make an issue about gender. Let's say men and women both get discriminated based on the way they Look, incel will yell" i hate women " and some feminists will yell" i hate men", my brothers in Christ that's a Problem everyone experiances.

  • @poopakabra541
    @poopakabra541 2 місяці тому +2

    women did it for themselves. The beauty expectation is so high yet we still wear makeup and use filters to raise it, you can't tell me these are all not from women's own faults

    • @jun1131
      @jun1131 2 місяці тому +4

      If women set the beauty standards for ourselves we’d all be lesbians 🤦‍♀️

    • @lostvampire69
      @lostvampire69 2 місяці тому +4

      Lol. Let me guess: In your world it's also women's own fault that men harass, rape and murder women. God... men. ☕

    • @wheatbread1606
      @wheatbread1606 29 днів тому

      Because that's what society wants. You expect all women to cease looking desirable? I don't wear makeup but I understand those who do. I feel ugly all the time, I would love to feel pretty for once.

  • @Suckko
    @Suckko 2 місяці тому

    womp womp