My Date Ended With Ghosting + I Didn’t Hold It Against Him
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
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I want to say I am neither proud nor apologetic for how I am the way I am with men. At this point in time I see it as it is the way it is and I am just explaining a pattern to you that I recognize in myself. It's deeply rooted and possibly not the most healthy. I do think you have survival mechanisms for a reason. These are some of mine.
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Remember guys while Chad gets it for free, you have to pay 💯💯
The reason why shes single and getting ghosted is right here 6:14. The lengths women go to explain going for chad and tyrone knowing full well they'll be used is amusing.
I was wondering what the deal was with all the yapping prior. It was the setup for shrugging off all accountability/responsibility as per usual.
Good insights, keep them coming
As a typology enjoyer, i relate so much to your way of thinking ! I hope i'll be like you in the future, you are inspiring.
Thank you for your kind words
for anyone often getting negative reactions from people - this is an extremely useful video. there's a number of things you can take note and not end up in a house of cards of delusion, where the only step forward is creating a new layer of cards, such as this person is desperately trying to rationalize what's happening.
On the dating game. One revealing thing around 2/3rds is when she talks about the game - the first thing she mentions is how she wants the rules of the game to be - the second is that 'other' people are complicated and won't tell you the rules. in no part of setting this topic topic up there's even a hint of her adapting, or doing anything actively with the new information. She laid out her approach entirely, and the unbalanced response of her vs the other side's expectation is staggering once you actually compare them.
strike 1) the fact she made a whole movie about the date needing to thank you for your direct rejection - and this came before any analysis on her own adjustments - is really revealing. Notice how she spent MINUTES projecting adjustments onto others and didn't even consider her own.
strike 2) within seconds she goes "i felt rejected it feels bad" and then immediately after "then someone groveled before me" when she was the one rejecting. she doen't even have a minimum of self awareness to at least avoid inconsistencies stringed one after another. All her energy is utilized crafting that warm-sounding tone and appearance, but the content of the points is a contradiction from start to end. she really reminds me of Elizabeth Holmes.
strike 3) finally, she might have some introspection for the last seconds. Her weak point is that she brings herself down too much. She doesn't believe in herself enough - is her critique about her approach. Because "belief" is really her conclusion to all men ignoring her after actually getting to meet her. It's all vibes and moods and energies and crystals. This is like the scammiest cringiest mindset coaches but for women, the brainrot is astounding. Absolutely not one second she wondered maybe she did some universally unlikeable things, or wonder why in an app that's 80% men, all men end up ignoring her.
conclusion: if you listen to each individual sentence, the moment to moment is wonderful: soft spoken and sounding intelligent and measured. there's no clippable moment that's outrageous and edgy. She sounds so very attentive and observing of the surroundings. It's when you actually try to summarize the points, that it reveals how fake it is: the bottom line is, she's unlucky, all men ignoring her doesn't even have a hint about her selection or standards, everyone else is bad faith, and all she needs to improve on is not bring herself down too much. She clearly crafts an aura of understanding but there's sparks where her honest self seeps through - like describing someone as "groveling back to her" just when she made a gigantic point about rejection feeling really bad.
if you find yourself in this situation (that you're a stuck-up nosed moron who thinks it's just bad luck), break down all of the pros and cons around your dating experiences. Compare them and weigh them up. Make a summary where everything shows in one page, so you can physically see, if you're anyone like this person, that in your current mindset 98% of the fault falls on the world and 2% is you just not girlbossing hard enough with fake confidence.
Jesus Christ I feel you make so many assumptions without even knowing me. I like that you’re thorough but I actually talk about my own way I adapt in part two. This was just a snippet of what I was sharing and you’re taking this as who I am entirely. It’s like you listened to nothing I actually said and just wanted to tell me what you thought you knew the whole time. I don’t pretend to know you.
I didn't understand after first read that you thought the person who came back to beg to hang out with me I had rejected. That's not actually the case at all. I would never revel in the fact someone I rejected came back to grovel. He ghosted me.
There are probably to many little facts that you didn't said intentionally or unintentionally, that probably could be taken in consideration for giving conclusion.Actually stop making youtube videos on your personal stuff no body gives a damn. I don't want to make you sad or mad, but men are having far far more difficult time compared to women in dating space trust me.
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