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I'm Michelle. I talk about real shit like dating, making money, and how to do life.
SureSmile 3 Month Update + How I'm Adapting to Reach My Personal Goals
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Helpful things I mentioned in the video
The app I use to keep track of when my SureSmile trays are out and when to switch aligners
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The interesting channel that you can learn more about how marketing and branding can make or break a company www.youtube.com/@UC4zz6D7V2q5DtmwItWxui5Q
Understanding the headspace and psychology nuance of someone in the luxury space
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Sorry I removed my social media from the public eye and or deleted it all together. So here is the best place to contact me for now.
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Helpful things I mentioned in the video
The app I use to keep track of when my SureSmile trays are out and when to switch aligners
www.youtube.com/@UC1_WtB2N0hAIy7V-LwMSFqA
The interesting channel that you can learn more about how marketing and branding can make or break a company www.youtube.com/@UC4zz6D7V2q5DtmwItWxui5Q
Understanding the headspace and psychology nuance of someone in the luxury space
ua-cam.com/video/UuMhzIilbjY/v-deo.html
Want to Connect More with Me?
Sorry I removed my social media from the public eye and or deleted it all together. So here is the best place to contact me for now.
FTC: All items in this video were bought by me. There is no sponsor of this video. No company paid me to tell you guys things. All opinions are my own.
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Great Sex Is Not Intuitive | Here's What I Learned So Far
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subscribe for new videos every Friday click hereeee shorturl.at/vM369 Channels that helped me understand about my body www.youtube.com/@UCV66hp0qxx2Xq273N0bo7uQ ua-cam.com/video/xf0aOTTdxwg/v-deo.htmlsi=shQyHqAAT5UlslyU Interesting Reddit post on how to make your body can work if can't achieve orgasm through penetration www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/oama4g/i_have_an_orgasm_with_pene...
Two Years Later I Contacted Him... and it Changed Everything
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subscribe for new videos every Friday click hereeee shorturl.at/vM369 This video wasn't really about the guy or what happened with him it was more or less understanding myself. A while ago I saw that I had the tendency to make toxic behavior choices and the outcomes were ruining my life. So I took drastic action and did the opposite of what I could think of to correct things. I have been follow...
I Lost the Curve of My Neck + I Found Authentic Hermes for $24.99
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subscribe for new videos every Friday click hereeee shorturl.at/vM369 Want to Connect More with Me? Sorry I removed my social media from the public eye and or deleted it all together. So here is the best place to contact me for now. FTC: All items in this video were bought by me. There is no sponsor of this video. No company paid me to tell you guys things. All opinions are my own.
This is My Brain on Happy | Plenty of Thought Tangents + Creativity
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subscribe for new videos every Friday click hereeee shorturl.at/vM369 Want to Connect More with Me? Sorry I removed my social media from the public eye and or deleted it all together. So here is the best place to contact me for now. FTC: All items in this video were bought by me. There is no sponsor of this video. No company paid me to tell you guys things. All opinions are my own.
My Daily Self Care Routine | Tretinoin Skincare Journey, Biohacking Tricks + Acupressure Mats
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subscribe for new videos every Friday click hereeee shorturl.at/vM369 I forgot to talk about the progress of my teeth straightening but I will do that in my next video if I remember. I really feel that has been part of my self care not only in helping me smile confidently even during the straightening process, but also to encourage really solid oral health habits that I will hopefully keep doin...
The Benefits of Being Intentional | The Process of Revamping My Sex Life
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subscribe for new videos every Friday click hereeee shorturl.at/vM369 I thought I would take time to share a little more context today about my process in figuring myself out after I was lost for so long. I wanted to explain where the urge to do this all stemmed from. I don't talk about sex on my channel just to shock people or to make people uncomfortable on purpose. I for one don't think it's...
Creator + Viewer Dynamic | Artistic Freedom of a Small YouTuber That Doesn't Make Money
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subscribe for new videos every Friday click hereeee shorturl.at/vM369 I think it is important as a viewer to see the factors that come into play as you digest the words of the creator you're listening to. What is their angle, what is their purpose? If they don't have a specific angle what is the importance of what they are trying to share. I feel all that comes into play for how you let the cre...
The Ghosts Gave Me Answers
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subscribe for new videos every Friday click hereeee shorturl.at/vM369 Want to Connect More with Me? Sorry I removed my social media from the public eye and or deleted it all together. So here is the best place to contact me for now. FTC: All items in this video were bought by me. There is no sponsor of this video. No company paid me to tell you guys things. All opinions are my own.
Trip to New England + I've Changed My Mind About People Who Ghost Me
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subscribe for new videos every Friday click hereeee shorturl.at/vM369 My original ghosting video: ua-cam.com/video/1p5KXo_I_34/v-deo.html If you haven't watched Nick Lewis and you like interior decor videos with some snark you should watch him. ua-cam.com/play/PLiyLgNGJ5yVjj7DmfxK-9uYntm_EL5zXT.html&si=z6LylHAzHYVycUat Want to Connect More with Me? Sorry I removed my social media from the publi...
The Complexities of Adapting in Relationships
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subscribe for new videos every Friday click hereeee shorturl.at/vM369 At first glance you might think this is a video about how much of a victim I am blah blah. It’s actually not that at all. It’s sort of a dark look at what it’s like to be resilient and adapt to something you probably never should have in the first place. All the elements were there when I was younger of how this became a perf...
My Date Ended With Ghosting + I Didn’t Hold It Against Him
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subscribe for new videos every Friday click hereeee shorturl.at/vM369 I want to say I am neither proud nor apologetic for how I am the way I am with men. At this point in time I see it as it is the way it is and I am just explaining a pattern to you that I recognize in myself. It's deeply rooted and possibly not the most healthy. I do think you have survival mechanisms for a reason. These are s...
It's Hard to Title This Video in Hindsight
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subscribe for new videos every Friday click hereeee shorturl.at/vM369 I am sorry I did so much saliva sucking in this video and weird teeth stuff. I was getting used to my aligners. Want to Connect More with Me? Sorry I removed my social media from the public eye and or deleted it all together. So here is the best place to contact me for now. FTC: All items in this video were bought by me. Ther...
The Dark Side of DIY Tendencies | What To Do When Self Reliance Fails
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subscribe for new videos every Friday click hereeee shorturl.at/vM369 My thumbnail is not a "serving tea" reference. It actually is one of the 4 pictures I took at the beginning of filming for the thumbnail and I didn't have any pictures without the vintage Tiffany mini cup. Want to Connect More with Me? Sorry I removed my social media from the public eye and or deleted it all together. So here...
This is How I know I'm Ready to Make Moves
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The Problem with Our Medical System | Frustration, Gas Lighting, Need for Strategy
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The Problem with Our Medical System | Frustration, Gas Lighting, Need for Strategy
Taking a YouTube Break | My Space Has Been Compromised
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Taking a UA-cam Break | My Space Has Been Compromised
This Was Bound to Happen | Here's What I Did About It
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This Was Bound to Happen | Here's What I Did About It
You're Only As Good As The Systems You Have In Place
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You're Only As Good As The Systems You Have In Place
How I Realized My Feminine Power + Alpha Relationship Dynamics
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How I Realized My Feminine Power Alpha Relationship Dynamics
He Ghosted Me Again | A Very Honest Chat About The Aftermath
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He Ghosted Me Again | A Very Honest Chat About The Aftermath
My Unpopular Opinion On Casual Dating | It's Not a Pissing Match Who Can Care the Least
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My Unpopular Opinion On Casual Dating | It's Not a Pissing Match Who Can Care the Least
Nostalgic Old School Makeup GRWM | Charlotte Tilbury Foundation for Acne
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Morning Coffee Chat | Differin Gel Week 6 Fight Acne After Stopping The Pill
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Finding My Blue Ocean in Business and Dating
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Finding My Blue Ocean in Business and Dating
I Waited Two Years For This To Happen
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I Waited Two Years For This To Happen
Hang Out with Me While I Eat Lunch + Give Myself a Partial Highlight
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Hang Out with Me While I Eat Lunch Give Myself a Partial Highlight
How My Copper IUD Is Changing My Body vs Pills + Crippling Dating Insecurities
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How My Copper IUD Is Changing My Body vs Pills Crippling Dating Insecurities
I think it’s important that you made the effort to have a true, authentic, interaction with someone. Authentic interactions can’t be rehearsed, or filtered, which is hard to do in modern society when everyone is following “rules”. WHO makes these rules and are they even good for us? I love your story, thank you. ❤ There was something so pure and authentic about your “cringe” moment…it’s the art of imperfection. It’s ok to not be perfect. ❤❤ Good luck to you. Thank you for sharing.
Aw I really appreciate your comment. You’re so right authentic interactions have a vibe of their own. I wonder why all these rules get made when following them doesn’t feel as good as something just because. I feel people have to allow spontaneous magic to happen a little more without fear of being hurt. It’s so hard hence why rules are set in place. Anyways I felt you get it and I thank you for that. It made me smile.
I've done the same thing with people I've had various types of relationships with. If I have negative feelings associated with someone I try to have an interaction or message exchange that will leave me with more positive feelings about them. bc the negative memories always eat away at me when I think back on them.
I love that you tell me that cause sometimes I’m like why did I doooo that!??? But it helps me understand that it might make sense to do in some cases if other people try the same tactic for the same reason. It really does feel better!
@@saywinkepilogue It sure does help ease your mind even if it doesn't completely fix the relationship.
@@christinacampbell5952 absolutely! ❤
I didn't have time to listen to your whole video, but did you eventually see a chiropractor? They've been very helpful for me. I'm 44 and started getting chiropractic when I was 31. They all do things a little differently, so I've tried a few different ones. I also love watching physical therapists on UA-cam show different stretches and exercises. There are so many. I've been meaning to try an acupressure mat. I've heard Bed of Nails is a really good brand. Which one do you use?
I have my first physical therapy appointment in a few weeks but I’ve never tried a chiropractor as I never knew I had a problem or really experienced symptoms until now so it’s not like I’ve been plagued with this and just dealt with things. But I think if my PT doesn’t work I will try more options like maybe dry needling, etc. I think I just bought a brand X one on Amazon they all look the same really but the one I have is good I just picked one that was about $25
Pretty thumbnail! Looking forward to enjoying this.
Great videos and you look very beautiful in all of your videos too and especially I really like your hair and your eyes and your natural beauty a whole lot too.
It seems rare for someone to keep the same partner through their entire youth. I'm glad you learned a lot from it. I stayed a very shy single girl. I only teamed up twice in my life, and not for very long. Most of my life I've been learning to be ok alone and finding my self-worth. I finally found it by age 40! I'm perfectly comfortable single, but open to finding a partner, but not looking.
I did learn a lot from it. I am happy you mentioned you’re comfortable as you are it’s quite a process in figuring things out. :)
The components of the best sexual experience i can think of is with someone i have developed a genuine connection with first, but it seems becoming friends first puts you in the friend zone so it seems like an unviable combination.
I mean it could work well I think if both people have the same goal with things. I think any sort of scenario could work or fail really but you’re right usually you need to have some sort of genuine connection.
Great videos and you look very beautiful in all of your videos too and I really understand everything your frustrations.
Great videos.
My Wife broke my Heart in 2013 when she left me, then six months after that I discovered she cheated on our Family prior to leaving me, its ruined me as a man the last time I had sex was the day my wife left me (it was my wife) I haven't had sex since that day I'm way to afraid that it would happen again and I know I couldn't survive that again This is not where I saw my life's path going
I’m super sorry that happened to you I think everyone deals with pain differently so I’m not going to tell you it’s easy to fix that kind of hurt but I will say I do hope that you can enjoy that connection again if it’s something you want in your life. Fear is a something that’s hard to grasp a hold of :(
Mine left me in 2012 and i've been feeling similar.
Dang how did this end up in my Feed ?
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You and everything about your natural beauty are truly and really equally as beautiful as your videos t. I really like everything else too.
Very beautiful videos and you look great in all of your videos too.
Can you do a video of your current makeup favs ? Like old school ? This is a beautiful look. Curious what you used. 💜🎀
Yes of course it might be a little off brand for my topics now so I’ll put it at the end of a video and I’ll let you know what one it is so you can see! That’s so funny because I used all my old school makeup favs for this look it was the OG Naked Palette and I think I put smog on my lid, NARS laguna but also Chanel tan de soleil for the cheeks!
@@saywinkepilogue awesome and the foundation looks pretty too. No worries. I’m catching up on your videos. Have a good nite 💜🫶🏻
🦗🦗🦗 omg! 😅
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I knowwww!!!!!
Great videos.
My most satisfying sexual experiences (by far) were with the most messed up, toxic, abusive guys I’ve ever met (there were 2, both had BPD) 😕 They both ended up giving me STDs (curable ones, thank god) and they both got me pregnant (which ended in different ways-I’m not a mother) sooo yeeeah, I’ve attempted relationships after that but they’ve all been super unsatisfying sexually and I wonder if parts of my brain broke from my prior experiences. Now at 36 I’m struggling to desire sex or a partnership at all. But I’m grateful I experimented a lot as a young adult so I know what’s out there and what all different sexual experiences are like; I can understand if you never had that phase why you would want to experiment now in your 30s - and honestly it’s probably better that way because you’re more emotionally intelligent and can be safer and make more healthy decisions vs. being “young, dumb, and full of cum” as my friend likes to say 😆
@@JaciStarr Your bravery in leaving your comment is incredible. I always relate to what you’ve said and just know as a baseline I respect the hell out of you. I’m super sorry that the best experiences you’ve had came with pain on the opposite end of the spectrum for you. I relate to what you said if maybe you think something in your brain is broken from the past experiences. Like for real that’s how I think right now. I’m working on it but my mind freezes up and doesn’t let my body enjoy it even though all the signs are there that’s it’s enjoyable. Like I’ve literally picked all the things that would make it highly enjoyable for me. I haven’t unlocked it yet but as I get more experience creating a comfort level within the level of intensity I prefer I hope so. I hope that you can too especially if it’s important to you. You’re so feisty and creative I have lots of faith in you.
You look very really and truly beautiful in all of your videos too. And I like it as well!
Chasing after the Chads I see lol
Chasing the Chads I see lol
Great videos.
Thank you very much I appreciate that
@@saywinkepilogue you look very beautiful in all of your videos as well I really like your very helpful information too.
Aw thank you :)
Do you have a spotify podcast channel?I am interested to hear more about what you are talking about.
I don’t this is the only place I have my videos really
For me the most fun part about being a small UA-camr is that I develop friendships with my audience. I don't know if you'd consider me a small UA-camr, but I still kind of feel like the little guy on here. I'm in the "monetized but it's a hobby" category. I think the creative freedom I have means being small is actually more fun in some ways. Not that I wouldn't mind making it big but the fact I'm still small after twelve years and enjoying what I do shows why I give everyone the advice "have fun". I consider myself a red dwarf UA-cam star, I may not be seen by many and not burn bright but I'll still be here for trillions of years, haha. I like that I can make whatever and I refused to "niche down", it may have stunted my channel growth but I'm happy.
I love that for you. As I read your message you genuinely seem happy. That’s exactly why you should keep doing it your way. I think UA-cam needs creators like that (every space really). Your comment made me smile
@@saywinkepilogue I'm so glad to hear that and I completely agree. UA-cam used to be mostly people like me back in the day. I've known so many awesome people over the years, a few are even now big UA-camrs with like over 100K subscribers.
I really like your videos everything about it is very helpful and you look very beautiful in your videos and I also like your hair too
You always look so darn nice! Your aesthetic has changed so much over the years - I love this Michelle 2024 era. I also love the baby Tiffany teacup! That’s a fun find!
Awww thank you!!! You must be an OG watcher from way back if you’ve noticed those things I appreciated that so much ❤️
I enjoyed your video. But I think as women we sometimes "excuse" ghosting as, "They were just going through stuff," when the reality is many men are just not that interested in us, and only come back around when their new interest in someone else doesn't work out. The old expression, "He's just not that into you," applies. When men are honestly interested, nothing will stop them from reaching out. He's not "scared of relationships," he's not "busy," he doesn't "Lack communication skills," he's not "afraid of commitment," he doesn't need "more time," he's just not that interested. Some men are users, and they only "come back" when we're their last option. Bottom line: You have more value. Show some dignity and tell them you're not a "last resort option." Then, confidently move on and expect to meet someone who finds you fascinating and truly desires to be with you.
@@11candy11 I appreciate your perspective thank you for that!
I haven't watched your other videos, but UNLESS you like that type, you got ghosted not once but twice... I would BLOCK. He can learn the hard way for the next one if he's willing. But some women love to play "mommy" for the so called "sensitive" boys. If you don't like that kind of future, don't feel bad about blocking people who ghost. How you describe how he talked to you sounds like he is either visiting a crappy therapist or he's using psychology speak to make him seem more deep rather than just hurtful. Grown adults should know ghosting is not something you do to someone you care about. I will say I enjoyed your video overall. New England seems beautiful and nature can be healing to just sit by the water. I have a spot by the water on a rock too that I haven't visited in ages.
Thank you, I appreciate that! New England is magical. Aw I hope you get a chance to just sit at one of your favorite places and have some quiet time next time you’re in the mood to :)
The editing with the footage included was very nice 👍
I’m glad you liked it! 😁
I put u on my Bluetooth via my car and just ride...
Hell yeah!!! I hope it’s an interesting listen at the least
And i tbought I was over analytical 😂. LOVE IT
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I was in a 6 year on and off relationship we lived together twice. He didn’t cheat but still sucked in a lot of ways. We were living together again we were doing fine. One day we were at a bar he said something, I stopped dead in my tracks looked at him and said you’re never going to change, this is never going to work, you have to move out. He moved two days later. A flip just switched and I was done! Now I’ve been with my husband 13 years so happy I finally ended that relationship. I hope you find a great guy but until then it’s good that you have your limits!
You collected all the evidence you needed to finally see the truth and there’s something so wonderful about those moments. I’m really glad you shared that with me and I’m even more happy that it ends with something better fell into place for you. I love that!
Great videos and you look very beautiful too.
Thank you
Good insights, keep them coming
As a typology enjoyer, i relate so much to your way of thinking ! I hope i'll be like you in the future, you are inspiring.
Thank you for your kind words
Before you leave me a comment please remember that I am human. I have no problem with you having your opinion however you formed it but just be respectful. I am allowing you to know parts of me that most people won't even tell another person honestly, then I keep the comments on knowing I will be misunderstood. If you want to drag me as least do it intelligently.
Great videos.
for anyone often getting negative reactions from people - this is an extremely useful video. there's a number of things you can take note and not end up in a house of cards of delusion, where the only step forward is creating a new layer of cards, such as this person is desperately trying to rationalize what's happening. On the dating game. One revealing thing around 2/3rds is when she talks about the game - the first thing she mentions is how she wants the rules of the game to be - the second is that 'other' people are complicated and won't tell you the rules. in no part of setting this topic topic up there's even a hint of her adapting, or doing anything actively with the new information. She laid out her approach entirely, and the unbalanced response of her vs the other side's expectation is staggering once you actually compare them. strike 1) the fact she made a whole movie about the date needing to thank you for your direct rejection - and this came before any analysis on her own adjustments - is really revealing. Notice how she spent MINUTES projecting adjustments onto others and didn't even consider her own. strike 2) within seconds she goes "i felt rejected it feels bad" and then immediately after "then someone groveled before me" when she was the one rejecting. she doen't even have a minimum of self awareness to at least avoid inconsistencies stringed one after another. All her energy is utilized crafting that warm-sounding tone and appearance, but the content of the points is a contradiction from start to end. she really reminds me of Elizabeth Holmes. strike 3) finally, she might have some introspection for the last seconds. Her weak point is that she brings herself down too much. She doesn't believe in herself enough - is her critique about her approach. Because "belief" is really her conclusion to all men ignoring her after actually getting to meet her. It's all vibes and moods and energies and crystals. This is like the scammiest cringiest mindset coaches but for women, the brainrot is astounding. Absolutely not one second she wondered maybe she did some universally unlikeable things, or wonder why in an app that's 80% men, all men end up ignoring her. conclusion: if you listen to each individual sentence, the moment to moment is wonderful: soft spoken and sounding intelligent and measured. there's no clippable moment that's outrageous and edgy. She sounds so very attentive and observing of the surroundings. It's when you actually try to summarize the points, that it reveals how fake it is: the bottom line is, she's unlucky, all men ignoring her doesn't even have a hint about her selection or standards, everyone else is bad faith, and all she needs to improve on is not bring herself down too much. She clearly crafts an aura of understanding but there's sparks where her honest self seeps through - like describing someone as "groveling back to her" just when she made a gigantic point about rejection feeling really bad. if you find yourself in this situation (that you're a stuck-up nosed moron who thinks it's just bad luck), break down all of the pros and cons around your dating experiences. Compare them and weigh them up. Make a summary where everything shows in one page, so you can physically see, if you're anyone like this person, that in your current mindset 98% of the fault falls on the world and 2% is you just not girlbossing hard enough with fake confidence.
Jesus Christ I feel you make so many assumptions without even knowing me. I like that you’re thorough but I actually talk about my own way I adapt in part two. This was just a snippet of what I was sharing and you’re taking this as who I am entirely. It’s like you listened to nothing I actually said and just wanted to tell me what you thought you knew the whole time. I don’t pretend to know you.
I didn't understand after first read that you thought the person who came back to beg to hang out with me I had rejected. That's not actually the case at all. I would never revel in the fact someone I rejected came back to grovel. He ghosted me.
Delusion is strong in this one. Boys, this one pump n dump example at its finest.
Remember guys while Chad gets it for free, you have to pay 💯💯
Lol she think her skills matters kskksksksks, women know nothing about men 😂😂😂, "the sweet guys where in a pact that i didnt like", holly shit girl you already told the reason you got ghosted, its because you dont like good man sskskksksks
The reason why shes single and getting ghosted is right here 6:14. The lengths women go to explain going for chad and tyrone knowing full well they'll be used is amusing.
I was wondering what the deal was with all the yapping prior. It was the setup for shrugging off all accountability/responsibility as per usual.
There are probably to many little facts that you didn't said intentionally or unintentionally, that probably could be taken in consideration for giving conclusion.Actually stop making youtube videos on your personal stuff no body gives a damn. I don't want to make you sad or mad, but men are having far far more difficult time compared to women in dating space trust me.
Interesting
It is
I've really enjoyed the last 2 videos. Awesome thoughts on the ghosting topic. It was a treat to see parts of New England and hear about your Dad. Loved the shots of you sitting on the rock and eating lunch. Beautiful! btw, I like Nick Lewis too! He's great! #nobarndoors !!! lol Thanks! xoxo
Nick is so classic! Yay thank you. I think I’ll try and film more things like that when I’m away from home. It’s so hard to know what to do when it comes to people I feel when you have a high threshold for bs. Maybe in a round about way my leniency will help me actually have less tolerance to not get stuck by them. We’ll see!
@@saywinkepilogue 😉🤗
Fingers crossed the date goes well!
It went really well! But then it got confusing. You’ll see.
You look very beautiful.
Thank you
Stay single, get a teddy bear
How wonderful!! That would be such a fun career !! And a creative outlet.
I think it will be so cool too let’s hope I can manage to do it but thank you for saying so I love that supportive energy! ❤️
As far as improving health, I’m a huge researcher and nutrition is a passion of mine. I stumbled upon the carnivore diet and it changed my life… it’s incredible for losing weight, clearing up skin, pretty much any ailment you can think of. Most noticeably to me it improved my mental health to a degree I didn’t think was possible. So I encourage you to look up UA-cam videos and hear people’s stories of going carnivore - I know this sounds crazy but plants contain a ton of toxins and anti nutrients and they’re responsible for pretty much every health problem you can think of, I 100% believe that. It goes against everything we’re taught/common knowledge but we really just aren’t built to consume carbs of any kind. We need a high fat/moderate protein diet with as close to zero carbs as possible. This is something you can do as an experiment without spending tons of money just to SEE if it improves anything… give it at least 60-90 days, but most people see massive improvements within 30 days. I mainly eat beef, butter, bacon, eggs (sometimes chicken or seafood) I know it sounds restrictive but it’s SO worth it when you start to feel better physically/mentally, look better (my skin/hair literally reverse aged), and have more energy. It automatically regulates your hormones so if you are having a hormone issue it will help that too. Lots of doctors on UA-cam promoting this way of eating and explaining how it is ancestrally appropriate. Again - I relate to feeling frustrated with the medical industry. Their education is literally funded by drug companies so they are learning very biased ways of treating conditions - they know almost nothing about proper nutrition and don’t even ask you about your diet most the time. It’s so discouraging which is why I have had to take matters into my own hands and heal my health problems myself.
Sorry for the late response your comment was flagged by UA-cam for some reason and hidden in my “held for review” section which I don’t check often so I didn’t know you’d commented! I think it’s interesting that your experience usually mirrors mine a lot of the time. My brother has been on carnivore diet for about 6-7 months and my dad 5 or so. My brother is always telling me I should do it but I don’t know I don’t know if I will enjoy it. I already don’t enjoy food because of my taste smell problem and I was never a big meat eater so it seems maybe not the best move for me but I can see the benefits. My brother had a sore on his foot for a year and a half that just never healed he was pre-diabetic despite being relatively thin. He ate really badly and didn’t take care of his body well. He tried a ton of doctors and things to heal his sore on top of his foot but nothing medical worked. They wanted to like remove his veins or something. So he tried carnivore which he’s strict about and I think last month he told me his wound finally reached a point of healing that it was closing up. Do you drink electrolytes? I think my dad and brother said that was super important on that diet.
@@saywinkepilogue Ugh, the fact my comment was flagged pisses me off, lol. A lot of censorship happens in the carnivore community (which should tell us something) ...big food and big pharma companies don't WANT us to heal ourselves through real food, they want to continue profiting off of us, selling us addictive products, keeping us dumb and weak and easy to manipulate (consumers). I can relate to you, I was never a big meat eater either... just didn't really care for it. But if you don't enjoy food much anyway, you might as well put the proper nutrition in your body (food isn't supposed to be a pleasurable/drug-like/dopamine inducing experience, it's just supposed to fuel the body). My energy levels these days are OUT OF THIS WORLD, I can just go go go (10 years ago I never could have DREAMED of having this kind of energy, I was practically bed ridden). After a while of being on this diet, your tastes change - now I love red meat and I love the chewy fatty bits (which I used to think were so gross!). You get back to how nature intended and most people on this diet only want ruminant animals (like cows, who have multiple stomach chambers) and the more lean meats like chicken and fish don't seem as appetizing. Your hunger signals get all messed up when you eat carbs - once you remove them, you only feel hungry when you are TRULY hungry (many people only eat once a day, I eat twice). That's awesome that your dad and brother are doing it, more and more people seem to be catching on because those of us that do it can't shut up about the benefits so word spreads. My dad just ended up in the hospital from hypertension (caused by eating too much sugar/carbs!) and I'm working on convincing him to go carnivore to hopefully extend his life and have a better quality of life. I won't lie, the transition is not easy, so might want to do it slowly. Getting off carbs causes withdrawal symptoms just like getting off any other drug! Some YT channels I recommend: KenDBerryMD (huge wealth of information), MyZeroCarbLife (very charismatic lady who lost a ton of weight and does lots of interviews) , Steak and Butter Gal (she had lots of acne/skin issues that she healed from this diet), Neah's Way (I love her/relate to her most, she's our age)...there's a ton more out there!
@@saywinkepiloguegreat videos .
I had Invisalign from age 33-35… I was quoted 12-18 months and when they said that I thought “okay, it’s going to take 2 years” and I was right. Also something to keep in mind is you will have to wear trays at night for the rest of your life or they will shift back, so it’s a continued expense to keep buying retainers (I get a new set about every 6 months or so). I am happy to have straight teeth and it’s more comfortable, my bite is better overall but it took time to adjust to a completely different bite. I have heard horror stories of people whose bite got more messed up after Invisalign - a lot of people warn against getting treated by a dentist as straightening teeth is not their specialty. I’d recommend a highly trained/high rated orthodontist (tho more expensive, it’s just not worth the risk of going the cheaper route when it comes to your teeth imo). Another thing to consider - the health of my teeth declined. My teeth have de-calcification from the attachments that were on my teeth, and one tooth even became more translucent. There’s even risks of teeth falling out (I’ve heard of it happening to people, I used to be in facebook groups for Invisalign which really opens your eyes to everything that could go wrong.) Not trying to scare you, you might luck out and have a totally smooth/good experience but there’s also a lot that can go wrong so it’s a risk. It might be worth it tho if it makes you less self conscious and feel better about smiling. Overall I’m happy I did it but I wish I had known more about the risks. Also I felt gaslit by the staff at the end - they put in a permanent wire retainer and I immediately had bad effects from it - it gave me headaches (I never get headaches) and when I went back in to discuss this they were like “ooooh, are you under a lot of stress lately” i was like “no, there’s been no change in my life besides this metal in my mouth” and they didn’t seem to believe it was possible… but I insisted they remove it and I immediately felt better. So I just stick to wearing the plastic trays at night (and my bottom teeth did not stay perfectly straight, but at least much better than what they were pre-treatment) …so just know that perfection probably isn’t possible, just improvement. They also told me it’s not possible that the attachments caused decalcification - then how come I didn’t have that before? And how come the decalcification is in the EXACT shape of where the attachment was, lol …that pissed me off. At the end of the day they are selling you a product/service and they don’t want to be held responsible for anything that may go wrong… just something to be wary of.
Omg I'm like wide eyed at reading this. First of all I am so sorry that your experience was like this. It sounds so grueling. Good for you for going to them and telling them to take the wire out. You know your body best. It's such a hard thing to be like look I have a problem when they are using their expertise to tell you it's not possible. It's such a weird balance of trusting yourself vs trusting them. Ugh makes me think I should have gotten regular braces. Ugh. I knew about the commitment for life thing with the retainer or the trays to keep it straight but I guess I didn't know about all the ways it could make things much worse. Thanks for letting me know your experience, I appreciate it.
My retainers that I use are still good after 2 years - no need to repurchase them, they said they will last 10 years not sure about that but cleaning helps a lot and also they are made of a thicker material I think that they might last 7 years
@@asatara5750 excellent!
@@asatara5750True, they can last longer, it’s not necessary to replace them as often as I do… I just feel they get kinda nasty after a while even with consistent cleaning. Also when I put in new trays they feel much tighter which leads me to believe the trays do get a bit looser over time.
@@JaciStarr we might have different retainers. Mine are by No means perfect but with a vinegar and water mixture where they stay in it for a few hours I get them relatively clean. And when I leave them out for a few days they are kind of tight again. But we will see how long mine will last… I am always scared of loosing them, cuz I only have one pair
I have done invisiglin for 3.5 years. I just wanted to close a small gap bur the dentist was determined to make it wider and better overall. I Paid a good Price for what He did… But it took forever 😅
Omg that’s soooo long how did you manage that length of time??? The only way I said yes to this was because they quoted me 13 months for my case. I understand it might take a few more trays if things don’t move as they imagine they will but 3.5 wow. Was that the length of time you thought all along??? Hats off to you for your persistence my god.
The length I thought was one year …. Then it went on and on … I kept asking …the thigh is when things are not going to Plan they will do new scans and order new plastic aligners that takes a while … that needed to happen multiple times …after a while you just endure and accept it how it is 😅 the final result was very good though
@@asatara5750 OMG! Thank you for your feedback. I was thinking this might be a quick and easy thing. Now I'm realizing what I might be in for. Since two of you guys have said it takes forever. Did you have the bonding done on your teeth after?
I think it’s still worth it but such things can happen. Yes I did the bonding but also need to wear aligners twice per week. Happy to help, I would do it again, it was worth the pain
Great videos.
You are beautiful inside and outside.
Thank you ❤️
Dang I’m gonna miss you.
Don’t you worry I will be back!
I'm so sad to hear it but I completely respect your choices! I have really enjoyed your perspectives on being single, dating and your life aspirations!! You are different, and have unique insights on things but at the same time you are very relatable. Hearing you has helped my life journey and balance of managing my own personal goals with dating and what it all means. I hope to see you again soon. Best of luck to you!!🤗🤗
Thank you so much for sharing that with me because a lot of the time I feel people don’t get much from this and maybe the risk isn’t worth it. When I see that it actually is useful in some way I’m reenergized so thank you truly. I’ll return!!