Actually, taylor was invited to July 4th with the Kennedy's by Ethel Kennedy because of the song Taylor had written about Bobby and Ethel. Taylor being invited had nothing to do with Conor. The relationship itself was described as a "good distraction" by the Kennedy family. To paint the picture that she is a a predator is incorrect.
like, i craved bread and was bummed out that the store was closed because of that bread. truly, for one third of an hour we lived together in a different world, ladies and gentlemen. now that the paradigm has shifted, i cannot but feel an uneasy emptiness within me; where bread should be. i had not prepared myself for this.
You should do "a chronically online girl explains" for the Outer banks drama involving the two actors who had their doubles do their cuddle scenes with each other 💀
I feel so bad for Connor like imagine ur 17 and ur mom just died and some 23 year old woman dates you solely because she’s obsessed with ur grandma 😭😭😭 like that’s insane
It’s so predatory and disgusting I’m sorry I didn’t even know this happened. And also, i don’t know if it’s already been addressed by taylor but wasn’t she pictured with someone who was wearing a nazi shirt? Was that true or edited? I saw it once on twitter
@@bruisesofrosesIt actually wasn't a nazi shirt, it was a swastika symbol which is a Indian Hindu symbol of prosperity but I'm not sure if it's edited
16:36 I feel like this shot demonstrates the dynamic perfectly. She’s embodying 60s political powerhouse First Lady and standing next to her is … a barely 18 year old boy in a graphic t shirt and cargo shorts ready to catch a frisbee. The ridiculousness is off the charts.
Those pictures truly do say a thousand words... kinda makes a modern song like Fortnite extra creepy! Like that feels beyond my years and she is 12 YEARS older than me :|
I am a huge Taylor Swift fan and I can agree all day everyday that this was weird and wrong. 2 things can be true, Taylor can be someone who was taken advantage of by multiple age gap relationships and also have done it herself
@@ambriaashley3383 a 3ish year age gap is different than 10+ -- like they could have gone to the same high school at the same time, the connor kennedy situation was a little weird, but i don't see Harry Styles as weird, esp cuz she hasn't had an age gap romance since then? That's not a pattern. If she was still dating freshly 18 yo boys maybe...
the way my jaw dropped when i saw the title of the video ⁉️ i had totally forgotten about the whole QUEST taylor did in order to literally become a kennedy for like a month 💀💀💀
As a swiftie, I would like to say that during this period of time (and some others for that matter), Taylor swift had royally - and I cannot stress this enough - fucked up
The culture around Taylor swift and how people are genuinely scared to criticise her strange behaviour is so unhealthy to me. I understand it probably comes from a place of people being defensive after she was specifically targeted with a lot of misogynistic and unjustified insults in the early to late 2010's, but it's turned into people deciding that anyone who talks negatively about her actions is immediately a bad person who needs to be punished. Thank u for making this video even though swifties can be scary
i’m a taylor fan but literally 💀 anyone can have some sort of criticism, and taylor has done bad things in her past and present that should be talked about and not just swept under the rug because she’s taylor swift
@ yes!! like taylor is no where near perfect and can be criticized, but with that it doesn’t mean every single little thing she doesn’t should be broken down (not saying you do this also no hate meant :) )
Im a swiftie but omfg guys can we please just admit that some things that Taylor does/has done are wrong? You can love someones work and also admit their faults
@ Im extremely confident most swifties don’t say thats why. The most common response is “Well she was in age gap relationships too” Furthermore, just because their relationship didn’t negatively impact him, it doesn’t negate her actions
@@claire5711yes!! i’m a taylor fan, but even if the relationship was healthy it doesn’t make it any less weird, it makes a little less weird but there is still a big age gap
i hate that people feel that they can’t say anything bad about taylor swift. i think all taylor swift fans myself included should be able to recognize that no one is above doing bad things and i think a 23 and 17 year old relationship is disgusting
@@slendygameing7791 nah swifties know this wasnt good, and most of us know that taylor swift is not perfect all of the time, the loud ones just think that
im 23 and cannot imagine being friends with someone who’s 18, i used to teach AP geography to high school seniors last year, even at 21 and 22 i felt so far mentally from them and couldn’t like them like that because they’re literally still kids, living with their parents and going to school, we lead very different lives.
I don't think it's that weird. Dating? Yes, that's creepy. But friends...I am friends with people who are 18 or even younger (I'm 23) and also I have some older friends. It's more about if you have some common interests and you understand each other than where are you in life. And like I'm also kinda still living with parents and going to school... Also we're all part of bigger friend group I think the big part is who are they cus like here in school I'm 2 or 3 years older than most people in my school year and sometimes it feels like they're kids and I'm much older and then when I go to talk with my autistic friends or friends with similar personality or interests, I don't feel the age gap at all
I would LOOOVVVEEE for you to do a chronically online girl episode about the whole Dylan O'Brien, Gracie Abrams, Sadie Sink, and Sabrina Carpenter tea I've been seeing circulate around!!!!!
As a swiftie, I’m actually happy to learn something about this, as I haven’t heard much about it. Love the video and i totally get your pov of Connor being a victim
I grew up on cape cod, taylor buying a house and dating a kennedy was all you ever heard about for a while lol. Then as fast as she bought it, she sold it which was honestly a huge bummer. The house she bought is about 10 minutes from me, it's insanely nice
nicole idk if you've seen any of the rudy pankow drama but can you PLEASE make a chronically online girl explains about it?!? I have no idea what's going on and idk who to believe. Also love u diva, u deserve everything good in the world
As a lifetime swiftie, there are three major incidents that we completely fault Taylor for: she cannot act we just support her in that endeavor, her dating Matt Healy and her relationship with Connor Kennedy which was not okay.
You should add how she treated Tom Hiddleston. It really felt like she used him then ran. Then she made fun of him in look what you made me do video(I ❤️ taylor swift t-shirt) and gorgeous song.
I agree with 1 and 3 but her story with Matt Healy goes way before 2023, it starts in 2014. It is also rumored that some of the Folklore and Evermore song are about him. She already had feelings for him way before he partook in the racist thing.
I’m an og swifite and we were as confused then as we are now! the sudden fashion change gagged me on tumblr 🤣 Taylor was dressing like a housewife war woman 🤍 good chaotic days tho!
@@demetriam2408 I meant the early 2010s days for swifties. Not the relationship. When they dated he was 18, but regardless I didn’t support the relationship then, and I’m not supporting it today. Hurt people hurt people and I think Taylor was so toxicated by lack of control in her relationships (after she got traumatized by two men that were much older back to back, John and Jake), but Connor doesn’t seem hurt, the relationship was short and I’m glad they seem to be on good terms.
I went to high school with Conor, it was always so INSANE to hear that mega pop star Taylor Swift was dating a senior from our fucking high school. Like, the whole world knows Taylor Swift, but almost none know that she's a grown ass woman dating a senior at my school.
This was a weird way for me to find out the lyrics of Starlight aren’t “I’m a Barbie on the boardwalk summer of ‘45” 😂😅😅 I never looked them up and just assumed she was talking about how she looked like an OG Barbie from 1945 or something, but clearly I was wrong and I also just googled and Barbies didn’t come out until 1959 lmfaooo
I just wanted to add there's a VICE article from 2019 (by Allie Jones) about how Taylor's 4th of July parties were inspired by the Kennedy parties. In the article, it's mentioned Taylor and Conor went public literally THE DAY AFTER he turned 18. She couldn't even wait 48 hours. You should've also mentioned Harry Styles when Swift was 22/23.
Anybody else think Suburban Legends is about this relationship? Astrological references don’t really match but so many others do. “We were born to be national treasures” 1950s gymnasium, summer references, waves crashing and him not knocking on her door anymore? (Speaking of which, I knew she bought a house near him but that photo really puts everything into perspective.) 😬 Yikes!
Yes thank you finally someone said it, everyone goes after Jake and John Mayer for being older but they conveniently forget that she dated 18year old Kennedy and then Harry styles
I'm a Taylor Swift fan but can I just say, everything you stated in this video regarding her I completely agree with. The age gap here definitely leaned onto the stranger side considering Connor's age and Taylor's already well established status as a pop figure (and age ofc). Also, the background of "Starlight" was so interesting to hear about, so thank you for sharing that!
And his mom dying shortly before then, probably still grieving, even took taylor to her grave. Like... a grieving 17 year old vs pop star. And she was dressing like it's the 60's (very role playing ethel) buying a house near the boy in what I can only describe as stalker behaviour. Like hell even if there was no age gap that's still creepy af.
oh my god starlight was one of my favorite taylor swift songs when i was a kid and it’s about the KENNEDYS???? when i was younger i thought the line was “i’m a barbie on the boardwalk summer of ‘45” and i remember thinking “what? ew” when i found out it was actually “i met bobby”
I personally think she may have not seen an issue between her and Conors' age gap because she had been in much more drastic of age gap relationships (like John Mayer, 13 years & Jake gyllenhaal, nearly 10 years) which might make the situation better or worse, probably worse. I’m able to say that a 23 year old and a high school senior dating is weird and gross as a die-hard swiftie.
Pretty sad bc people generally expect those who were abused to then not abuse others themselves … but ofc we all know it happens, esp if you haven’t processed the abuse or mistreatment. Still gross though, agree with what you said. It’s not okay to excuse abuse or victimization, no matter who does it. I believe anyone who commits abuse must atone to their victim & other victims in whatever way the survivor wants
@@ambriaashley3383 thats usually how people become abusers in the first place, they were abused too. thats why its so important to talk about it and be able to recognize grooming because otherwise the cycle is just gonna continue
No tongs? Have you lost your ever loving mind??? How am I supposed to follow along? This is an outrage!! You are moving and all of the sudden I’m supposed to just accept the fact that the tongs have been packed? Where do you get off? The nerve of you people I tell ya. You’re lucky the door to the washer and dryer is open otherwise idk what I would have done. I love you Nikki ❤❤❤❤❤ but let’s be real if those tongs don’t come back out post haste we got problems boo boo ❤❤😘😘
I was just watching your podcast and i soon as i refresh a new chronically online girl video appeared maybe im the chronically online girl (no way im the first to ever say this)😭
i’ve started to feel like i’m living in an alternate reality with the whole not being allowed to have an opinion on TS thing so thank you for mentioning that out loud 😭😂
We wouldn’t be so defensive about her if it weren’t for the fact that a lot of the world hate us and bash one of our favorite artists in front of us ALL the time. It’s grates on you after a while 🫤
@ i hate to break it to you but the number of ppl who love her greatly outweighs the ppl who don’t. criticism is allowed & nobody is exempt so for you to jump on the throat of anyone who says _anything_ ab her that’s not worship is actually out of touch.
@@pixie9499 I never said criticism isn’t allowed. I even have my own criticisms of her. But I hate to break it to you that just because her fans may outweigh her haters, unlike most artists her haters are very LOUD. You can go on a comment section of a video, or TikTok, or reel or anything that has nothing to do with Taylor, and someone will find a way to drag her in the comments. Being most loved also comes with being most hated. The reason you don’t see fans of other artists being defensive is because they don’t have haters that are as loud and astounding as Taylor haters are. Also, us Swifties are often categorized with the most extreme of us. Most of us aren’t jumping down peoples throats for having a valid opinion. I’m wasn’t trying to attack you for your comment. I was just simply trying to give you another POV.
@@M95-t7cNo need to call people a whore that's not really necessary just because she has dated a lot in her life doesn't make her that word and if it does why not call men that to??
i'm sorry, i'm the biggest swiftie there is, i'm not even kidding but taylor's obsession with the kennedy's at that time was really creepy, idk what had gotten into her, it was just so psychotic,i do feel like she was messed up after dating older men, she ran towards the absolute youngest there were, i have no words
No shade but the amount of times I heard “almost 18” was actually infuriating. He’s 17, just say it! He’s not 2 1/2. He was 17 years old, no almost 18, He was 17. Yall would never pull that if it was a 22 year old man dating a 17-year-old girl. Just absolutely ridiculous. If you wanted to include it once, sure, but literally every single time you’re mentioning his age it’s “17 almost 18” like what..?
this exactly. i think its commendable that nicole is taking on this topic at all knowing how awful "swifties" behave on the internet. probably why she used the "almost 18" so often. it is ridiculous, but i understand she wants to remain safe..
I just wanna say that your videos have successfully influenced a multi- platform impact on my everyday app use... the song that contains the snippet of your intro song within it ended up on my spotify discover weekly after i watched the Illuminati-bee hive video. 😂
as a swiftie, i apologise for the crazy "swifties" out there who dont see how this relationship was an issue tay has been in so many weird relationships its acually insane, i just try to separate the music from weird shit like that love ts and love u nicole!
as a swiftie ive really blocked this out of my memory so seeing this video made me have a visceral reaction. she did NOT play around about her kennedy hyperfixation i fear
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Actually, taylor was invited to July 4th with the Kennedy's by Ethel Kennedy because of the song Taylor had written about Bobby and Ethel. Taylor being invited had nothing to do with Conor. The relationship itself was described as a "good distraction" by the Kennedy family. To paint the picture that she is a a predator is incorrect.
@@daisydroid2 things can be true at once.
Sincerely, a Swiftie since 2013
You have to spend atleast $129 to get a free toys. Honestly a great deal but I wish you wouldn’t say it’s free cuz gorl it ain’t🥲
BUT GREAT VIDEO ILY
we need chronically online girl explains phoebe bridgers, daisy edgar jones and paul mescal drama
@@lover.girl.123 this!!
Please, I don’t know the drama and I keep hearing about Paul Mascal
Please, I don’t know the drama and keep hearing about Paul mescal 🙏
Wait wait wait… there’s DRAMA WITH THESE THREE?
there's no drama with these 3 though?
An uncarly and Nicole video in one day is truly a blessing unparalleled
Thanks for the unintended recommendation!
I just came here from uncarleys wicked video, the algorithm loves our girls
YES GURLLL
AGREED I JUST CAME FROM CARLEY
I know! we are feasting today.
why did I think she was holding a baguette the whole video.
if shes not holding a baguette what is she holding
@@hannahtia3608 a stake for if Stefan Salvatore tries to smile at her or literally anyone
SHES NOT?! 😭
like, i craved bread and was bummed out that the store was closed because of that bread. truly, for one third of an hour we lived together in a different world, ladies and gentlemen. now that the paradigm has shifted, i cannot but feel an uneasy emptiness within me; where bread should be. i had not prepared myself for this.
You should do "a chronically online girl explains" for the Outer banks drama involving the two actors who had their doubles do their cuddle scenes with each other 💀
NEED THIS
Omg please no, people will use it as an excuse to hate on the cast members
OH MY GOD YES
@@khrystaliah he cheated on his gf good
omg please
I feel so bad for Connor like imagine ur 17 and ur mom just died and some 23 year old woman dates you solely because she’s obsessed with ur grandma 😭😭😭 like that’s insane
damn yeah so true 😳😭
It’s so predatory and disgusting I’m sorry I didn’t even know this happened. And also, i don’t know if it’s already been addressed by taylor but wasn’t she pictured with someone who was wearing a nazi shirt? Was that true or edited? I saw it once on twitter
@@bruisesofrosesthat was edited… lol
@@movieclips6654 nah i searched it up and apparently it really was real that she posed with someone who wore a swastika shirt. Yikes.
@@bruisesofrosesIt actually wasn't a nazi shirt, it was a swastika symbol which is a Indian Hindu symbol of prosperity but I'm not sure if it's edited
I loved when you showed Trisha and her husband cosplaying Taylor and Travis 🤣 trisha is ALWAYS present in one way or another.
16:36 I feel like this shot demonstrates the dynamic perfectly. She’s embodying 60s political powerhouse First Lady and standing next to her is … a barely 18 year old boy in a graphic t shirt and cargo shorts ready to catch a frisbee. The ridiculousness is off the charts.
Those pictures truly do say a thousand words... kinda makes a modern song like Fortnite extra creepy! Like that feels beyond my years and she is 12 YEARS older than me :|
@@t0xtricityit’s giving she was trying to dress like his grandma that had literally just died.. freud would have a field day with this relationship
i saw kennedy and thought of jfk and assumed she was involved in his assassination
LMAO 😂 Another Swiftie conspiracy unlocked.
LMAOAO
😂😂
NO SAME.
I’m cryingg
I am a huge Taylor Swift fan and I can agree all day everyday that this was weird and wrong. 2 things can be true, Taylor can be someone who was taken advantage of by multiple age gap relationships and also have done it herself
18 and 22 is not weird u guys r fucking brain rotted
yes! and she did it again with harry styles. two things can be true at once!!!
Finally, when I found out abt this, I was like Taylor girl what?
@@levilam4468so just weird and not necessarily “wrong”. Cuz she was 22 (at his 18) almost 23 love. I’m still sensing a pattern of behavior
@@ambriaashley3383 a 3ish year age gap is different than 10+ -- like they could have gone to the same high school at the same time, the connor kennedy situation was a little weird, but i don't see Harry Styles as weird, esp cuz she hasn't had an age gap romance since then? That's not a pattern. If she was still dating freshly 18 yo boys maybe...
Regardless of whether we are ignoring the rumors or not, dating a high schooler two months after his mother died at 22 years of age is creep behaviour
the way my jaw dropped when i saw the title of the video ⁉️ i had totally forgotten about the whole QUEST taylor did in order to literally become a kennedy for like a month 💀💀💀
the thing i look the most forward to with all these videos is finding how trisha is related/pictured
matty healy lore video would be insane
ratty healy
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@@m1yauhhe’s the worst lol. As a swiftie, he just makes up his own narrative about Taylor and runs with it
never. delete this comment
@@m1yauh girl, please not that rat
As a swiftie, I would like to say that during this period of time (and some others for that matter), Taylor swift had royally - and I cannot stress this enough - fucked up
Yep!!
The culture around Taylor swift and how people are genuinely scared to criticise her strange behaviour is so unhealthy to me. I understand it probably comes from a place of people being defensive after she was specifically targeted with a lot of misogynistic and unjustified insults in the early to late 2010's, but it's turned into people deciding that anyone who talks negatively about her actions is immediately a bad person who needs to be punished. Thank u for making this video even though swifties can be scary
i’m a taylor fan but literally 💀 anyone can have some sort of criticism, and taylor has done bad things in her past and present that should be talked about and not just swept under the rug because she’s taylor swift
@@milkyphone269As a fan too I agree
Celebrity worship is so odd to me. They're people too. Just because they can sing/dance/act well doesn't mean they're perfect and can't be criticized.
@@annatria2130 I totally agree with you. I can't imagine worshipping celebrities
@ yes!! like taylor is no where near perfect and can be criticized, but with that it doesn’t mean every single little thing she doesn’t should be broken down (not saying you do this also no hate meant :) )
Im a swiftie but omfg guys can we please just admit that some things that Taylor does/has done are wrong? You can love someones work and also admit their faults
00:11 your favorite Kennedy's favorite Kennedy
I’m a huge swiftie and somehow never knew the background of starlight or half this story. That’s cray LOL
I am so extremely happy you made this🙏🙏 its so upsetting to see how people completely ignore and defend what happened to Conor.
Because Conor himself says his relationship w Taylor was Healthy and he still looks at her fondly
@ Im extremely confident most swifties don’t say thats why. The most common response is “Well she was in age gap relationships too” Furthermore, just because their relationship didn’t negatively impact him, it doesn’t negate her actions
@@claire5711yes!! i’m a taylor fan, but even if the relationship was healthy it doesn’t make it any less weird, it makes a little less weird but there is still a big age gap
@@daisydroiddoesn’t make it any less creepy, stop bootlicking
Nicole making a chroncially online girl video about a well-known poltical family before making one about trisha paytas was not on my 2024 bingo card.
Tbf frenemies was like half Trisha lol
i hate that people feel that they can’t say anything bad about taylor swift. i think all taylor swift fans myself included should be able to recognize that no one is above doing bad things and i think a 23 and 17 year old relationship is disgusting
as a swiftie and a nicole raffie fan, I CLICKED ON SO FAST
You’re gonna be disappointed she doesn’t say good things about Taylor 😭
@@slendygameing7791 nah swifties know this wasnt good, and most of us know that taylor swift is not perfect all of the time, the loud ones just think that
im 23 and cannot imagine being friends with someone who’s 18, i used to teach AP geography to high school seniors last year, even at 21 and 22 i felt so far mentally from them and couldn’t like them like that because they’re literally still kids, living with their parents and going to school, we lead very different lives.
she was 22 not 23
I don't think it's that weird. Dating? Yes, that's creepy. But friends...I am friends with people who are 18 or even younger (I'm 23) and also I have some older friends. It's more about if you have some common interests and you understand each other than where are you in life. And like I'm also kinda still living with parents and going to school...
Also we're all part of bigger friend group
I think the big part is who are they cus like here in school I'm 2 or 3 years older than most people in my school year and sometimes it feels like they're kids and I'm much older and then when I go to talk with my autistic friends or friends with similar personality or interests, I don't feel the age gap at all
The people came in during apartment showings and just assumed she was a really really dedicated Swiftie
LMAOOO 💀💀
I would LOOOVVVEEE for you to do a chronically online girl episode about the whole Dylan O'Brien, Gracie Abrams, Sadie Sink, and Sabrina Carpenter tea I've been seeing circulate around!!!!!
Oooohhhh what's the lore? Pls tell me! ❤
As a swiftie, I’m actually happy to learn something about this, as I haven’t heard much about it. Love the video and i totally get your pov of Connor being a victim
how are you still saying youre a swiftie and in the nec=xt sentence alluding to the fact that she took advantage of someone
@@yasmeenkhan4060be fr people can still like someone even if they disagree with some of their actions
@@yasmeenkhan4060 if jake and john mayer are villains in her songs, im sure she can handle a bit of criticism babes.
@@imyoubutareyoume2582 “be fr”?? Grooming someone is way different than “some actions..” Like its not an iffy tweet its literally someones life
@@claire5711there is not justifiable way to interact with a 17 year old at 22 in a romantic context, pls get a grip and laugh at the silliness.
I grew up on cape cod, taylor buying a house and dating a kennedy was all you ever heard about for a while lol. Then as fast as she bought it, she sold it which was honestly a huge bummer. The house she bought is about 10 minutes from me, it's insanely nice
I thought the house she bought in RI is holiday house that she sings about on the last great American dynasty which she still owns
@@oliviaj7335yeah they said cape cod… which is not Rhode Island…
Oh GOD I used to be obsessed with that song.. how am I just learning it was about "Bobby" Kennedy 😭 TAYLOR COME ON
If a woman I dated bought a house down the block to my family home I would lose my goddamn mind.
Soon to be senior in high school versus a college graduate is a nasty dynamic like pls why can’t celebrities leave the kids alone
nicole idk if you've seen any of the rudy pankow drama but can you PLEASE make a chronically online girl explains about it?!? I have no idea what's going on and idk who to believe.
Also love u diva, u deserve everything good in the world
Wait what's happening
yessssssssssssssss
This is full-blown Saltburn what the fuuuuuck
😮😮😮
Justice for Rosemary Kennedy
seriously this series is my one source for almost every subject you speak about. like i never hear about these things anywhere else
My life was never the same after discovering that the song “Starlight” is just a full on Kennedy fanfiction by Taylor swift
bae, i am patiently waiting on the obx deep-dive. sincerely, a fan.
as a swiftie my heart skipped a beat when this uploaded
as a swiftie from outside of philly and a chronically online girl I needed this
As a lifetime swiftie, there are three major incidents that we completely fault Taylor for: she cannot act we just support her in that endeavor, her dating Matt Healy and her relationship with Connor Kennedy which was not okay.
You should add how she treated Tom Hiddleston. It really felt like she used him then ran. Then she made fun of him in look what you made me do video(I ❤️ taylor swift t-shirt) and gorgeous song.
@@walkingtheline1729really not that deep
@@Dani-vu7em i doesn't need the deep for her to be in the wrong. Listen to getaway car she used him and ran.
I agree with 1 and 3 but her story with Matt Healy goes way before 2023, it starts in 2014. It is also rumored that some of the Folklore and Evermore song are about him. She already had feelings for him way before he partook in the racist thing.
@@walkingtheline1729 wasn’t he 10 years older than her
I always thought Taylor was mad creepy for this, but I didn't even know how bad it was. The summer house thing is nuuttsss
I’m an og swifite and we were as confused then as we are now!
the sudden fashion change gagged me on tumblr 🤣 Taylor was dressing like a housewife war woman 🤍 good chaotic days tho!
I still think it was to impress the granmother.
Wdym "good chaotic days" she was in a relationship with a seventeen year old 😭
@@demetriam2408 I meant the early 2010s days for swifties. Not the relationship.
When they dated he was 18, but regardless I didn’t support the relationship then, and I’m not supporting it today. Hurt people hurt people and I think Taylor was so toxicated by lack of control in her relationships (after she got traumatized by two men that were much older back to back, John and Jake), but Connor doesn’t seem hurt, the relationship was short and I’m glad they seem to be on good terms.
@@demetriam2408 bro cmon that's obviously not what they meant
@@demetriam2408you wanna cancel her sooooo bad lmaoooo
BABE WAKEUP NICOLE MADE ANOTHER VIDEO *AND* ITS A CHRONICALLY ONLINE ONE
Omg Chronically online girl post, clicked immediately :3
i have an exam in 3 hours, this is a good way to spend my time
I thought he had at least graduated HS. Imagine you’re 23 and your boyfriend has to go back to high school
I went to high school with Conor, it was always so INSANE to hear that mega pop star Taylor Swift was dating a senior from our fucking high school. Like, the whole world knows Taylor Swift, but almost none know that she's a grown ass woman dating a senior at my school.
The whole age gap relationship is giving You season 3
you upload at the PERFECT time
This was a weird way for me to find out the lyrics of Starlight aren’t “I’m a Barbie on the boardwalk summer of ‘45” 😂😅😅 I never looked them up and just assumed she was talking about how she looked like an OG Barbie from 1945 or something, but clearly I was wrong and I also just googled and Barbies didn’t come out until 1959 lmfaooo
I just wanted to add there's a VICE article from 2019 (by Allie Jones) about how Taylor's 4th of July parties were inspired by the Kennedy parties. In the article, it's mentioned Taylor and Conor went public literally THE DAY AFTER he turned 18. She couldn't even wait 48 hours.
You should've also mentioned Harry Styles when Swift was 22/23.
Why Harry was 18 turning 19 and Taylor was 22. And they were both famous pop stars
@@tracywang4029 she had already been a pop star for many years, he was just entering the industry. very VERY different
@@spookeymo he was already famous for a few years and they met at a awards show. There’s nothing predatory about that
@@spookeymo I think her relationship with Connor was creepy because her obsession with his family
Anybody else think Suburban Legends is about this relationship? Astrological references don’t really match but so many others do. “We were born to be national treasures” 1950s gymnasium, summer references, waves crashing and him not knocking on her door anymore? (Speaking of which, I knew she bought a house near him but that photo really puts everything into perspective.) 😬 Yikes!
Yes thank you finally someone said it, everyone goes after Jake and John Mayer for being older but they conveniently forget that she dated 18year old Kennedy and then Harry styles
Harry styles was almost 19 when they dated
11 minutes in was when I realised the wooden stick she was holding was indeed, not a long piece of baguette.
Everyone treats JFK like a martyr, in spite of the fact that he was genuinely one of the most imperialistic presidents in the history of the USA
its like she knew i was on the verge of a mental breakdown while doing my homework
NICIOLE WE NEED CHRONICALLY ONLINE GIRL EXPLAINS OUTER BANKS DRAMA AND LORE PLS😭😭
I'm a Taylor Swift fan but can I just say, everything you stated in this video regarding her I completely agree with. The age gap here definitely leaned onto the stranger side considering Connor's age and Taylor's already well established status as a pop figure (and age ofc). Also, the background of "Starlight" was so interesting to hear about, so thank you for sharing that!
And his mom dying shortly before then, probably still grieving, even took taylor to her grave. Like... a grieving 17 year old vs pop star. And she was dressing like it's the 60's (very role playing ethel) buying a house near the boy in what I can only describe as stalker behaviour. Like hell even if there was no age gap that's still creepy af.
okay, I had to comment, I loved the sponsor for this video! I want a video where you open all of the advent calendar plssssss
I still want the azealia banks chronically online video 🙃🙃🙃
We thank you for being chronically online and pray you only descend deeper into its depths 🙏🙏
oh my god starlight was one of my favorite taylor swift songs when i was a kid and it’s about the KENNEDYS????
when i was younger i thought the line was “i’m a barbie on the boardwalk summer of ‘45” and i remember thinking “what? ew” when i found out it was actually “i met bobby”
as a swiftie i completely agree
you love the grooming and almost pedophilia? because i'm a swiftie too but as soon as starlight or begin again plays i'm skipping it
@@user927-w3hThat's not what they meant. I think they meant that they agree with Nicole
@@user927-w3h omg how can one be so dense
4:06 Marlin Monroe 😭
i truly do not care about any of these people but you know i am sat and watching for this one
pleak do a video about the stranger things cast and/or the fandom in general it was so crazy back when st was in its prime
I personally think she may have not seen an issue between her and Conors' age gap because she had been in much more drastic of age gap relationships (like John Mayer, 13 years & Jake gyllenhaal, nearly 10 years) which might make the situation better or worse, probably worse. I’m able to say that a 23 year old and a high school senior dating is weird and gross as a die-hard swiftie.
Pretty sad bc people generally expect those who were abused to then not abuse others themselves … but ofc we all know it happens, esp if you haven’t processed the abuse or mistreatment. Still gross though, agree with what you said.
It’s not okay to excuse abuse or victimization, no matter who does it. I believe anyone who commits abuse must atone to their victim & other victims in whatever way the survivor wants
@@ambriaashley3383 thats usually how people become abusers in the first place, they were abused too. thats why its so important to talk about it and be able to recognize grooming because otherwise the cycle is just gonna continue
bumpin that chronically online girl content
Weirdest thing she has ever done. People calling her a pedo is a bit much but still kinda strange.
these chronically online girl explains are always so in line with my current intrigues and it’s starting to get unnerving
in jack schlossberg we trust
No tongs? Have you lost your ever loving mind??? How am I supposed to follow along? This is an outrage!! You are moving and all of the sudden I’m supposed to just accept the fact that the tongs have been packed? Where do you get off? The nerve of you people I tell ya. You’re lucky the door to the washer and dryer is open otherwise idk what I would have done. I love you Nikki ❤❤❤❤❤ but let’s be real if those tongs don’t come back out post haste we got problems boo boo ❤❤😘😘
this is what was on the wall when u had ppl viewing the apartment omg
20:35 NO WAY IS THAT TRISHA? 😭😭😭
Oh nicole the nasty woman that you are…😭
It is 😭💀💀💀💀💀
finally, something i have always wondered explained
GRACIE ABRAMS CHRONICALLY ONLINE WOULD B SO INSANEEEEE
Not you making this video before moving so the swifties can't get your new adress
13:10 I was like oh wow, then DAMN after the satellite picture 😭😭
will miss this stellar OG chronically online wall 🙌🏼🥺 can’t wait for this series to continue!!
as a swiftie, what hell was Taylor doing. Love her but totally agree with what Nicole said in this video.
i would LOVE a sabrina carpenter, chappell roan, olivia rodrigo, and adele deep dives!! i love u and what u post!
was scrolling, saw this video and was FLABBERGASTED with the title as someone who casually listens to taylor swift
I was just watching your podcast and i soon as i refresh a new chronically online girl video appeared maybe im the chronically online girl (no way im the first to ever say this)😭
girl i love your humor WTF !!! lots of love from brazil 💕💕
meu deus outro brasileiro aqui!!
3:55 you were right😰
2 Trisha pictures? We’re being fedddd
i’ve started to feel like i’m living in an alternate reality with the whole not being allowed to have an opinion on TS thing so thank you for mentioning that out loud 😭😂
We wouldn’t be so defensive about her if it weren’t for the fact that a lot of the world hate us and bash one of our favorite artists in front of us ALL the time. It’s grates on you after a while 🫤
@ i hate to break it to you but the number of ppl who love her greatly outweighs the ppl who don’t. criticism is allowed & nobody is exempt so for you to jump on the throat of anyone who says _anything_ ab her that’s not worship is actually out of touch.
@@pixie9499 I never said criticism isn’t allowed. I even have my own criticisms of her. But I hate to break it to you that just because her fans may outweigh her haters, unlike most artists her haters are very LOUD. You can go on a comment section of a video, or TikTok, or reel or anything that has nothing to do with Taylor, and someone will find a way to drag her in the comments. Being most loved also comes with being most hated. The reason you don’t see fans of other artists being defensive is because they don’t have haters that are as loud and astounding as Taylor haters are. Also, us Swifties are often categorized with the most extreme of us. Most of us aren’t jumping down peoples throats for having a valid opinion. I’m wasn’t trying to attack you for your comment. I was just simply trying to give you another POV.
@@Ava_Lynn7you don't need to defend that whore lmao she's rich and one of the most influential ppl out there
@@M95-t7cNo need to call people a whore that's not really necessary just because she has dated a lot in her life doesn't make her that word and if it does why not call men that to??
i'm sorry, i'm the biggest swiftie there is, i'm not even kidding but taylor's obsession with the kennedy's at that time was really creepy, idk what had gotten into her, it was just so psychotic,i do feel like she was messed up after dating older men, she ran towards the absolute youngest there were, i have no words
I've been intrigued by this topic for a bit, thanks for uploading this Nicole!
I don't know anything about this and I'm ready for all my friends to hear me talk about it like breaking news
The amount of people coming to view the home will immediately be excited for they will recognize the wall and the bath tub.
No shade but the amount of times I heard “almost 18” was actually infuriating. He’s 17, just say it! He’s not 2 1/2. He was 17 years old, no almost 18, He was 17. Yall would never pull that if it was a 22 year old man dating a 17-year-old girl. Just absolutely ridiculous. If you wanted to include it once, sure, but literally every single time you’re mentioning his age it’s “17 almost 18” like what..?
Because they weren't.
He was not 17 when they dated. It was just rumored and anything rumored has no value.
@@daisydroid he literally was babe I’m so sorry 😭 just google it if your don’t wanna believe me 😊
this exactly. i think its commendable that nicole is taking on this topic at all knowing how awful "swifties" behave on the internet. probably why she used the "almost 18" so often. it is ridiculous, but i understand she wants to remain safe..
@@daisydroidhe was. this is easily accessible information if you’re aware of how to use a search engine!
I literally had to rewind at Trisha + Moses... I was like wait... that's NOT Travis Kelce.
I figured you’d make a Taylor video soon but this is NOT what I expected lmao (you still ate it up)
As a Taylor Swift fan, I'm so excited for this video!!
thanks i just found out my mom follows rfk jr
I just wanna say that your videos have successfully influenced a multi- platform impact on my everyday app use... the song that contains the snippet of your intro song within it ended up on my spotify discover weekly after i watched the Illuminati-bee hive video. 😂
Omg I don't know nay Kennedy lore. I'm excited
as a swiftie, i apologise for the crazy "swifties" out there who dont see how this relationship was an issue
tay has been in so many weird relationships its acually insane, i just try to separate the music from weird shit like that
love ts and love u nicole!
as a swiftie ive really blocked this out of my memory so seeing this video made me have a visceral reaction. she did NOT play around about her kennedy hyperfixation i fear