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- Опубліковано 24 тра 2024
- Everyone seems to have something to say about this drama brought to the masses on TikTok. A woman tells the story of ghosting a friend because she suspected she was angling for her boyfriend. The friend then took to TikTok to deny the allegations. Who’s in the right? Let’s talk about it!
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You know you're in a pretty good state of life when you just accidentally found out about a viral drama with over a 100 Million views
You made my evening a little more positive, thank you
@@Query_8P no problem, good to know i could do that
Word👏🏾. Wouldn't have really cared, *still* don't, if I'd seen it elsewhere. She made a good point about that extra layer. Cause I strongly believe that social media has done more to divide than bring together.
Yh I never heard of it
I was watching a man cleaning the cow-hoof, until I saw that video under the video, so I clicked on it to see what is up with the crap 😂
On my first day of one of my jobs, I nearly froze to death. One of my male co-workers took pity on me and gave me his hoodie. I wore it for the rest of the shift, took it off in the car, and had it returned fleshly washed the next day. I might just be abnormal, but if you feel the urge to keep a hoodie for two weeks and flaunt how cute it is on social media than you are in fact interested, let's be for real.
She said the hoodie was cute. We saw the hoodie. Wasn’t nothing but like one patch on that damn hoodie. Ain’t nothing cute about it. That’s what make me think she a bold face lie
Fleshly washed hahah
@@nannoreul dumped that bad boy in the washer pronto. He not got getting any lingering smells from me. But to be fair, I was just grateful honestly and figured I might as well wash it for him.
@@funmitalabi9607 Yeah, that makes sense! I was just laughing at the typo, it says “fleshly washed” haha
Yeah I already thought it was strange people would just randomly keep the hoodie of a guy who wasn’t their boyfriend for THAT long.
Yeah I get it was cute and cozy all but don’t u have the basic decency not to return someone’s things for that long?
The true crime is the fact that this entire thing went viral to begin with
It does not matter in the scheme of things does it?
Exactly ! Why the fuck is ANYONE,who isn't directly involved, in the slightest bit interested in this kinda dumb crap ?!! Sad, VERY sad.
You are not wrong
I wonder how many teenagers clicked on it and reacted to make it "viral" I think that kind of drama is directed at teenagers.
They probably just feel bad for her because they know she can barely see out of those eyes. Watch out for those kind of people... You never know what's going on behind those eyes...
First girl never mentioned the other girls name in her video. The second girl didn’t have to come forward if she didn’t want the hate. She responded because she couldn’t handle the fact that her ex friend was getting attention off of her bad actions. 🙄
True. She didnt have to comment. Her excuses were just .... yeah she should have never even opened her mouth
thats a damn good point
Mounting something
@@descapa2440 Giggity.
I mean.....the second girl made it pretty clear why she came forward 🤣 her not being named doesnt mean anythiing when she'a getting told by multiple people in her life that shes beng blasted online by someone that ghosted her....in other words, she was alrwady receiving hate in her own personal life too. i think thats common sense. She wanted to clear the air understandably and since the first girl went public instead of having a conversation, of course the secpnd girl.had to come out and defend herself.
All I could think about after watching both sides of this argument is the scene from Billy Madison where he says, “We’re all now dumber for having listened to this”…
Yes!!
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😂😂😂😂😂😂 yeah
Me too ! I was even a little shocked that it warranted Amalas attention.. like, what the fuck ?!! But I love Amala so... that makes up for it, a bit.
@@cannotfindmyshoes3she’s still a woman and women love observing drama even more than being in the midst of it 🤣
A friend tried to steal my husband. I did confront her and she lied through her teeth. It's been a year and I'm still pissed. I'm too old to go on the internet and complain about it but I still want to smack in the face. I'm on the girlfriends side. Friends don't try to steal your man.
And everybody will say, "no one can steal a man who doesn't want to be stolen". It's absolutely true but it's a major betrayal when friends try to do this kind of thing. And even when the guy says that it's inappropriate and making him uncomfortable, these kind of women will immediately act dumb and like the guy is the one who's overreacting.
@@cesiumcesium785 my husband wasn't interested in her at all. He complained that she was following him around. The issue to me is that she violated our friendship. She is a terrible person for trying
Did she have auburn hair? Was it Jolene?
@@SombreroPharoah no, my husband thinks she's ugly. She's not worthy of the song. Lol
@@SombreroPharoah💀💀💀
That girl knew exactly why she was ghosted cuz she knew exactly what she was doing. The ghosting isn’t the problem. I don’t keep friends that don’t respect me. It’s the posting it on the internet that’s the issue. And a year later! Girl just move on with your life!
As someone who has been ghosted, I still think it was immature of the first girl to do the second girl like that.
then don't do this sus shit that yk hurts others @@elainamcclendon5593
@@elainamcclendon5593 I disagree. Someone with no respect for me deserves no respect from me. No explanation was owed in this situation.
The girl in question didn't mention a name, the friend shouldn't have replied
@@fruitfuljeremiah392 I agree. Just dragging out the drama.
As a woman, taking another woman's man (love interest/bf/husband) is pretty much the worst thing you could do. It's LOW and you will get exiled from being accepted by other women
Yep! Girl my sister slept with my ex because in highschool. I don’t care now but it’s kinda hard to trust her after this.
@@annabanana6965because in high school…what?!
Eh, y’all just cringe. Women fighting each other over males are embarrassing, the males you fight for are “bros before ho3s”. Chill
@@annabanana6965 OMG?? ARE YOU OKAY?? YOU DESERVE BETTER
@@coltonsmith3724really? Are you for real cyber bullying her based on a mistyped word or two? You know this platform and many smartphones ACTUALLY CHANGE words that people type and insert commonly-used words even after it’s spelled correctly? Well, if you cannot understand someone’s point by “reading between the lines for context clues” ,then you are dumber than a kindergarten child. I actually taught this lesson to four and five year olds as part of my student teaching.
I’m actually not trying to be mean, I’m just giving you advice that you must learn or disregard it and continue being ignorant and disrespectful. It’s your choice. Please don’t respond back to this message, I will not check back, as I never care if some random stranger gets offended by my comments about subjects that are personal opinions, not facts. Peace
She was clearly interested. “He came over to mount my TV” that’s not the only thing she wanted mounted lmfao.
He really showed her what a drill is. Sunk it in real deep. Used a little plastic to keep it in there real tight. I could go on and on thanks for triggering my dirty mind double entendres 🤣🤣
He was over in their place to visit his girlfriend and mounted the TV with his girlfriend and her...
The gf and this girl are living together. It is just the next room and he offered. The gf was there too.
This comment is gold! haha
mounting a tv is such a classic excuse for such chasses of stealing men.
Us women know when another female wants our man.
And girl bye no one buying any of those excuses.
Especially a self hand delivered sandwich - girl gotta be stupid to allow that
Who on earth is buying someone's favorite sandwich for a random friend and delivering it early in the morning 😂 she was clearly interested.
Honestly, she’s downplaying the fuck out of it. People (especially women) are intuitive and can tell when something’s up.
@@DavidJonespiratekingher entire excuse was actually pretty valid until i saw the video of her flaunting the basic ass hoodie
I had a "friend" who did the exact same thing. She just had to be best friends with every guy I would be interested in. She was like this with every girl's boyfriend and we thought that she was just being friendly even when we'd feel uncomfortable.
She then went to another girl's boyfriend's party half naked when it was basically snowing. When everyone was drinking and having fun, she walked straight up to the guy's bedroom, took his shirt and wore it. When the girlfriend asked about it, she tried to pretend like the guy offered her the shirt because she looked too cold. Needless to say, she's not our friend anymore.
Women always know when someone's trying to be shady and we really shouldn't ignore our instincts.
After hearing 2nd girl's excuses, 100% onboard with girl #1. Girl #2 is the female equivalent of "that guy friend who's really not your friend." 😂
Before my husband and I were officially dating we went out dancing with a group of friends. One of them (a girl) started flirting and asking to dance with him even though I had been talking about him and how much I liked him for weeks. When I realized what she was doing I just let it play out because if he really likes me then it wouldn’t matter right? We have been married 16 years now. I hope she is happy wherever she is.
I KNOW THATS RIGHT!!!
Agreed. When the person is single, flirting should be allowed. But if the person is already dating, flirting with them is a huge sign that you don't respect your friend.
That friend was definitely interested in her man. However, I feel like regardless of whether or not the girl was interested in the guy, she should have been aware of what her behavior looked like at face value. Like bringing your friend’s man lunch and stealing his hoodie? If it was just a guy friend whatever, but she knows what she was doing. She knew how it looked and her excuses were so bad. Real friends would never do something like that. Even if there were no intentions behind it, it’s very obvious that it looks bad and like she’s trying to steal him.
Then call her out for it, like a grown up, instead of ghosting and blocking her. Whether the 2nd girl was after her man or not, the 1st girl is still an immature POS.
@@cmay7429pos for what exactly? For not putting up with trash behaviour? Seems like you behave the exact same way. Lmao
Too much drama for just 5”
@@cmay7429ghosting isn’t always immature imo. Especially since her friend knew EXACTLY what she was doing. Also, I find that most scenarios where a friend is called out for moving to your SO only ends with them denying it and being defensive.
@@cmay7429 Grown ass adults don't call people out. They walk away peacefully from the situation. Nobody is entitled to a friendship and there is no contract agreement saying you need to give 2 weeks notice. A mature adult isn't going out of their way to get in between other people's relationships. 1st girl was patient, left the situation with no fighting, and waited a year before talking about it AND she didn't name drop. The other girl is actually immature and needed to tell the entire 100+ million people the video was about her.
Like step back and read what you post, you sound ridiculous.
Getting with your friends or family member’s lover is bottom of the barrel imo
And ACTIVELY doing so while they’re STILL dating them!!! 🤦🏻♀️ For SHAME!!!
lol Amala needs a gavel for the end. In fact? Black robes are as easy to find as that hoodie. Ok, now I’m not joking. Sounds like a decent idea. Live chat tomorrow @ 4 Eastern, like cat on mice.
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I can't believe she responded to the first girl's video with lies. It's obvious she wanted to date the guy. All the ridiculous reasons she gave just didn't make sense. You know someone is lying when they give extra details like 'it was right next my office and I gave the sandwich to her'. Some women are pathetic!
Ghosting a friend that is going after your bf is completely fair Imo. The girl is completely shameless, so what’s the point of arguing when she will keep lying.
Was she going after him or was the ghoster reading too much into it and she too insecure? Did the boyfriend give her reasons to be suspicious? Lots of details we don’t know.
@@stephaniecouture7033i agree with you to an extent we don't even know the boyfriend's pov however I still think the second girl was doing too much but I feel like the boyfriend could've done more to avoid the situation imo
First thing that came out of her mouth was that he wasn't her bf, she just liked him so if you like someone make a move or you can't whine when someone else does.
True
@@joan-lisa-smithfirst of all joan lisa smith, the boy that you are pursuing will not pick you. Pick me girl 🙄 and second of all, that is what we call “girl code”
2nd girl is either lacking self awareness or in total denial. Even if she has no intention of stealing her friend’s SO, she was insensitive to her friend’s feelings. 1st girl didn’t shame her, she didn’t mention any names. She outed herself. 😅
This situation reminded me how thankful I am ending my friendship with a girl who was flirty and majorly friendly with a guy I was dating at the time. I brought her out to dinner to confront her about it, she got defensive and said, “if you flirted with Max (someone she was dating at the time), I wouldn’t have a problem with it”. I repeated myself many times we have different standards and boundaries, I felt uncomfortable about her crossing the line. She was the type to put other men before our friendship, but would call me a bad friend when I’d get in my anti-social phases/in pain. After ending my friendship, last time I checked a while ago, she followed the guy i confronted her about on social media 😂 women’s intuition seem to always be on point. So, if that girl is already crossing that unspoken boundary, it would also bleed into different areas of their friendship. From personal experience.
Learn to ghost and block. You do not need to give anybody a reason why you aren't their friend. Don't call people out, it only starts fights. Walk away.
@@vazanere I agree. Although we were friends since high school, so I thought expressing how I had felt with someone I considered a sister would help strengthen our friendship. Eventually, I ended our friendship over other things like stealing money, putting the penis of the week before me yet when I take time off for myself, I was the bad guy. Mutual friends went through the same thing as I did so that confirmed it wasn’t one sided. But if it wasn’t someone I had held close and dear to heart, it would be very easy to ghost and step away. Not everyone deserves an explanation cus it should be evidently clear to them if they had a conscious
In my early 20’s my best friend asked my boyfriend (in a baby voice) to rub her feet
@@jessam4875 that just gave me the ick 😖 Are you still friends with her?
Nah, you did the right thing. You're allowed to express things to your friends that make you uncomfortable. It's better to try and resolve issues before cutting people off out right. People need to be called out on their bs, if they get away with poor behavior forever without consequences they will just repeat it indefinitely
theres just something sublime about watching trashy drama unfold. like "reality" tv. sometimes its just good entertainment
This is more like three levels above reality t.v. This kind of stuff is more like being part of a friend group and being caught in the friendly fire.
“JERRY,JERRY”!!! 😂
nah not to everyone, i am feeling exhausted and dumber from sitting thru half of this video
@@CarSVernonthen click off broski
I can't even laugh because they're so sad. Poor people.
All mounting a TV requires is a THANK YOU. No sandwich. Nope. If the guy moved you into another apartment, that is pizza and beer & maybe a sandwich at lunch time. Holding onto any hoodie, cute or regular, is sus. If you are so thankful for the TV mounting, how come you weren't thankful enough to give back the hoodie? And NO, I don't think you have to talk with a friend who is acting like this. YEP, Ghosting is necessary. She probably would never have quit trying to mess up your relationship.
Hmm i guess u are right.. there are somethings u should just avoid doing with ur friends bf even if you are just trying to be nice
The moment she said it just took extra long to return the hoodie I knew she was lying. He clearly mounted the TV more for his girlfriend than the friend.
I'd expect at least a beer
For sure, the TV isn't the only thing mounted that time.
Fr I wouldn't take my friend's bf's stuff .
Its cut and dry. They all met on the same night out. Both females were interested, but only one shot her shot, while the other decided to pretend she was good with it. When everyone meets at the same time, everybody is fair game. BUT, the time to state your feelings is in that moment. She was most definitely after him. The sandwich is wifey behavior and as someone who takes a lot of pride in making food for my family, women take that seriously. We feed our men. We feed our husbands and we feed our sons. Our daughters too, obviously 😂 but you get it. Its a love language. No doubt. She may not have made it, but it counts.
As an Asian American Girl, I can see why the first girl just ghosted her bc if she tried to “communicate” with the prb talk to other friends about how she’s that insecure gf, how she’s overreacting, and make her feel bad about it just like how she’s downplaying rn also it’s plane ass black hoodie lol it’s not a “cute” hoodie so second girl is too obvious
Yeah she’s a gaslighter
I love how women who can't find a man on their own and want to go after another womans man call them insecure lmao.. The lack of self awareness and amount of narcissistic gaslighting in that is off the charts
My husband has zero social media, doesn’t look at other women. I am so thankful for my man! He is a gentleman, a wonderful dad, and loving husband ❤ been with him for over a decade and still head over heels for him!
You're lucky, a lot of people don't take people without social media for granted.
😊❤
I feel bad for the dude. He probably doesn’t even give a crap. Except the dropping the sandwich off before work. That’s wifey type behavior. That would be a big red flag to me.
We all know a way to a man's heart is through his stomach. I'll be damned if another woman cooks for my man! Oh he77 no! 🤬
She was totally trying to steal him but he didn’t care
Hell imma 60 yo man and I got feelings for him now 😂😂😂 definitely tryna get at him if they ain’t together already (she did say they ain’t together now right ?) I would say he’s with her because she still got the lame “cute ass hoodie “ I say the ghosted girl hooked up and now not anymore so she now could respond (sounds like what I would do back years ago)
Nah, he had to go pick up the day old sandwich 😅.
@@BettyWhite2171”the quickest way to a mans heart is through cholesterol” - Cosmo, fairly odd parents
I’m so grateful social media was not around when I was in my teens and early twenties. I might have over-shared too.
I like your honesty 😂😂😂😂
Where was he during all this? Why wasnt he able to put her in the friend zone if he actually liked this first girl back?
Drama is such a waste of time
I think he’s still dating the first girl.
@@SantokiYamaHe is.
She just decided to call her ex friend out.
It is not a crime to be attracted to your friend's S.O. It's about boundaries, and respect for the friendship between you two. She could've been attracted to him, cool with him, but had no intention of overstepping her boundaries. There are women who think being cool with their bff's man is harmless, but there's a fine line, before one party becomes agitated. That's why I try to stay away from my friends' S.O.
What is SO
Significant other
I think it should go nowhere, and the attracted party should eventually get over it and move on.
Nope, if you can't stop being attracted to them you are 100% going to overstep the boundaries. Let it go, get a life or both. It's almost always the best friends, siblings, coworkers, and people who have continued access to the couple that end up being the affair partner.
I have a "friend" like that, she flirts with everyone's man but not to take them, she does it for ego, its like "Yeah you have a boyfriend but he's only yours because I don't want him, if I did want him he would leave you in a heart beat". 2 times now things went bad for her because they left their girlfriends for her anyway (even when she said she didn't wanted them to, because again, it was ego not love) and when asked about why they were leaving the relationship they said "I love your X friend and can't keep doing this". Guess what? She ghosted those guys hard after that. Cheaters never win, believe that.
The way the hoodie girl said "I kept it bc it was really cute" it's givingI.. her describing the guy to me. It's that snarky voice for me.
No not really.. you and the girlfriend are just projecting..
@@bawilove3422 too open minded, your brain fall out or sum?
@@bawilove3422 it was a black (blank) nike sweatshirt. She was getting Hella defensive. The culture of drama, pettiness, and toxic friendships is out of hand now. Everyone saying how hoodie girl is so smart for getting a bag is stupid too, like defending cheater behavior for what?
@@raynaanaya1308I wouldn’t say that’s “cheating” behavior tbh. Girlie was just a little sus tbh.
@@soomi5667you’re delusional. Her posting thong pictures in another girls man’s hoodie is sus? That’s definitely hoe behavior
This is an absolute genius way to generate attention for your content. They both will get equal support online, from simps on one side and chronically online cows on the other, they're both Asian so there won't be a race thing about it..... This is brilliant. They're both probably laughing all the way to the bank
Tiktok doesn't really generate revenue for these clips. You can garner attention for content outside tiktok to make money, but I don't think it makes sense for you to say that since you have no idea if they have anything to sell outside of tiktok.
@@DON-cg8kp Being an "influencer" is enough of a sell to the average young student nowadays that I wouldn't doubt a single video anymore.
Thats actually smart-
They aren’t making money from this 😂😂😂 no one is sponsoring them and these are clips not videos where ads will be on😂
@@frankcaggiano8282most TikTok videos make an average of 3 cents per 1000 views, and if one of the TikToks got 116 million views, the creator would earn around 3,500 dollars from that tiktok
These people are Korean and as a Korean I can totally understand the part about the sandwich. Koreans like to return favors by giving food or some small token. I am not saying the second girl is not in the wrong. I'm just saying that I don't see the sandwich part as a big deal. It's would be perfectly normal in the Korean culture.
After listening to the second girl, I really think she was not in the wrong. The first girl is just scared and insecure that she may lose that man since he seems to be very attractive lol. If they end up together for a long time, she will feel the need to deflect women from him forever, exhausting 😅
@@nicoobrowner59 it wasn’t mentioned in this video but the second girl to a picture in a THONG with the hoodie. That’s is very disrespectful to do
But it's not common to call other girls' boyfriends cute and say that you see yourself getting along with them. I belong to a SE asian culture as well and it's highly objectionable to borrow a committed guy's hoodie and wear it around for weeks if you aren't trying to make a move. She also filmed tiktoks with her styling "that cute hoodie" (which was basically a plain dark coloured hoodie) and posted pictures of her wearing nothing but a thong and that hoodie.
The sandwich thing and rest of the allegations could've been innocent behaviour had she not been so shady with the hoodie and calling him cute incident. The whole thing just reeks of "I'll constantly throw myself at your boyfriend but if you say anything, you're insecure".
@@cesiumcesium785 last quote, perfect way to sum it up
Is that why there’s Subway often in k-dramas? 😂
Getting rid of FB, IG, SC, and never having a twitter are among the best choices I’ve made in my life.
I've gotten rid of 90% of social media and haven't looked back
I would never be close friends with somebody's boyfriend especially my friend. This happened in my circle, she said "Nah, we are only friends no more than that." And suddenly a few months later, she was like "I fell in love with him."
The fact that they were not officially together when the friend was trying this stuff makes it a lot worse. She was trying to turn his head before they got together. I would feel weird wearing a friends man’s hoodie even while I was at the event where I was cold! I would have given that hoodie back ASAP. And she could’ve just given the friend the sandwich to give to the guy. The girl didn’t confront the friend because she didn’t believe she would admit to liking him. I would have ghosted her too. Not worth having a friend you don’t trust.
IKR
no literally like HIS HOODIE?? me and my friends praise each other when we finally get the hoodie of the guy we like, so to not be the girl the guy already likes and to take his hoodie is such a slight. slap in the face rly
I ghosted a friend because she started arguing with me over everything we talked about (she argued with me for 15 minutes about something we both agreed on, for example) and because she kept insulting my family. At prom she saw a family photo and called my dad ugly three times. A few months later I sent her a funny picture of me and my dad and she said he looked like a troll, was ugly, and don’t send any more pictures with him in them. I confronted her and she said “what?? Just because I don’t think your dad is hot?” And I ghosted her because I was tired of arguing with her and putting up with her bullshit 🤷🏼♀️
What if they really did think your dad was super hot though, and they were over compensating?
@@SombreroPharoah If she really thought my dad was hot my dad and I both dodged a bullet when I ghosted her 🫣
She was disrespectful, you did the right thing.
You have to admit that the second girl is one bad friend. She's manipulative and a thief! She'd be upset if that happened to her.
right ..
So much drama over a guy that will one day leave them both in the dust for something better lol. I’m glad I grew up without social media
Just curious why you’re making the assumption that he is going to leave either of them in the dust for any reason? I think that’s a stretch to say considering he’s still with the first girl
@@fluffymelanie1044she's a stupid cow that's why
@@fluffymelanie1044Exactly, she ghosted her friend for a reason.
Her friend was talking about trying to stalk this girl’s man.
That’s not a friend.
@@fluffymelanie1044I think that person thinks that guy can do better because the fact that both of these women are being childish and posting stuff on social media might not be an attractive personality trait. But that’s my assumption 🤷🏽♂️
Lastly, looks like the guy has “options”
It’s not even close, hoodie girl is a nastywasty, she knew what she was doing. She can get on insta and play coy and have an excuse, people that do slimey things always have an excuse to fall back on but the intention is pretty clear. Not even sure how this is a two sided issue, tbh
A pleasure to hear your giggle continuously at the reveal of the hunky boyfriend, after the hoodie posing sequence. And your declaration, "Case closed!" Like any girl would understand.❤
I'm glad I didn't know much about this whole "story."
personally i wouldn’t feel comfortable wearing my friends boyfriends hoodie n i definitely wouldn’t be getting him a sandwich
at first I was convinced that the second girl was falsely accused, because I have seen other videos of this, but now seeing the boyfriend, yeah, she is super guilty, she was definitely trying to steal
Good lord what a waste of time, people need to grow up.
Like damn.... girl if the hoodie was actually "cute" you would've had maybe 1% of a case but..... a "cute" hoodie from a guy is already a flat out fuggin lie. She was after that mans stomach and heart
Yaaaaa she was 100.10% trying to get at him.
Look, in relationships you need to respect boundaries. If your a girls girl you also respect those boundaries. I sit here and im like... would I ever do those things to a girls boyfriend or for another girls boyfriend... nope, because it's crossing a line.
Also, stealing hoodies form a guy is marking your territory. I remember when my husband and I worked together and there were a bunch of females I 100% stole any jacket/ hoodie he was wearing at the time. Espeshally is it were infront of women who thought he was cute. ( he liked that I was territorial in that way and thought it was cute and was 100% ok with me wearing his hoodie.)
It's also inappropriate I'd say to even to even go though him and text him, unless it's innocent and the wife or girlfriend is aware. ( like if she wanted to offer him a sandwich she could have easily just asked the girlfriend out if respect if he would like one.)
Also ( totally unrelated) I'd NEVER allow another women to fix my husband a plate of food or make him food or get him food. That is my job as his wife ( unless we're at a restaurant, or if it were his family or my family. ) It's like a wife thing that I do, it would be wrong if another woman made him food... I'd have to ask questions and I'd definitely not be ok with it.
Girl, I am with you!! I seriously was second guessing it after hearing the response from the friend and then I saw the hoodie and was like, "oh, so she's just out here lying." 😂
I'd say this, the 2nd girl should have given the hoodie back right after. It's another person's hoodie, you don't just keep it and wear it all round and merry just bc they gave it to you. Plus, you need a convo to break the friendship, you don't just ghost people. BFFR. Still, I agree with you Amala, the hoodie's literally basic black with a sentence on the back... it's not that special, but the boyfriend is lmao
Social media is just sickening. Only use UA-cam and rumble and even that gets to be alot
It wasn’t seeing the man that made me pick a side… it was when I saw the hoodie.
You definitely didn’t love some plain ass black hoodie enough to act like your intention was pure. Lol
She didn’t address the calling him cute to other friends!
I can remember instances were a girl keep a shirt/hoodie of mine and all 3 were into me, one of them was practically obsessed. The only people to ever go out and pick me up food or bring me something to eat, were my mom or the girl I was dating. The girl I'm with now, told me when we first met that she liked a few of the bands I liked... years later, yeah... she doesn't listen to them lol, In fact, she listens to an entirely different genre of music. So, in my opinion the 1st girl is spot on w/ her intuition and the 2nd girl knows it's true but now she's trying to come off like she could of cared less. She obviously didn't get the guy and got over it. She probably has a collection of dudes hoodies.
Well that’s one way to gain followers. Create drama, where there isn’t drama.
Another great video!!!! I always tell my daughter this exact thing!!! I graduated in the 80's and I am telling you pre-tech life was glorious, fun and magical!!!! You cover great subjects!!! Great reporting!!
Amala, as a seventy year old man who remembers on the farm when I was a kid, having a black Bakelite telephone on a party line we shared with three other houses, this is bafflingly good entertainment.
I signed up for your astute take on politics and culture but never could have guessed that you would reveal such petty silliness. As they say, "Technarogy what a concept!?"
Lest anyone misunderstands, I'm retired from Verizon where I was a technician who proudly helped implement the vast World Wide Web. Never in a thousand years could anyone have imagined when Samuel F. B. Morse in 1844 sent the coded message, "What hath God wrought", from the United States Capitol to a railroad station in Baltimore, that we would come to such as this.
Oh, I hate to point it out that the girlfriend seems sweeter and better looking anyway. The ghosted girl was over the top with her machinations and never had a chance. A girl that steals a guy's hooded sweatshirt blew it right there.
I am in my mid-40s. I was also surprised and disappointed that this story was featured. I can't believe I wasted time out of my life to watch this. There was nothing remarkable about this story except the fact that so many people feel it is worthy of their time. Sadly, it is just a reflection of societal values these days. Scary.
@@mel87123 He didn't say he was disappointed, in fact he said "this is bafflingly good entertainment".
I'm late 30's, and while yes it's scary that societal values are dwindling, petty drama on the internet is occasionally entertaining. Amala is young, it's to be expected that she'll cover topics that are popular and sometimes that takes the form of an oddly viral Tiktok spat.
Take a breath and try not to take it so seriously. 😂
After a wrote it and reread his comment, I was confused about whether or not he was actually "disappointed." However, I didn't care enough to clarify. But take a breath? Please. I have the right to express my opinion. I am obviously not distraught, just disappointed. Sounds like you might need to take a breath haha. I still love Amala. Don't take it personally.
@@mel87123Were the title and thumbnail not self explanatory? If you’re disappointed you wasted your time watching the entire video, at no point did you think to maybe, I don’t know… turn it off? You clearly also found it entertaining
Parading around in a boy's hoodie and bringing him a sandwich is like the female version of simping. There are other ways to say "thank you," like... a $10 gift card or something
I agree. At the same time she could have bought them both dinner or a bottle of something they could both share. She was nefarious.
Miss Amala, thank you for sharing. Best wishes.
You’re historical, absolutely a closed case 😂 love the reaction, as well completely agree with you about DRAMA and being Online. I’ve actually been involved with it as someone from a small community as well prominently involved Family wise. Drama that should never be aired especially on social media was… just absolutely shameful and pitiful honestly. 😂 the reality that MANY people think what’s posted online MATTERS and is gospel 😣 those “people” are what’s wrong with society today. Also I’m 23 but so not classify as gen z 🤮
She definitely knew what she did 😂
I think even if the first girl is right talking on TikTok about it is an alarm for a breakup of any relationship.
Same. As Lil Wayne said “b*tch real G’s move in silence like lasagna”.
Dude GF post a year old drama for attention is like saying lasagna with a hard G
i feel really good about myself that i have not heard about this, even if i occasionally have to be on tik tok for work. also i feel good about myself knowing that i am not discussing drama like this or that i am not an idiot posting crap on social media
It is good to talk it out. Act like adults. I had a friend (childhood best friend) who sent me an email about wanting to stop talking to me because his psychiatrist told him to remove negative people in his life. I was at a low point in my life, much like he was (different reasons). He stated when I was drinking I was being negative about things. Guess he is the only one who could have low points. He wouldn't talk to me or respond even though I coached his son in basketball at the time and showed lots of other positive qualities. Anyways I never thought him much of a man after ending our friendship in such a manner. By email. lol.
That's why I'm the "suffering in silence" type. The only person I talked most of my problems with is my mom. If you see me on the street or with friends you'd think I was the most annoyingly happy person you seen, when in truth I suffer from depression, and it's not "I read on the internet so must be true, depression" is "I was diagnosed by doctors" depression. I just keep it to myself because I don't trust people at the point of being honest.
If I can give my 2 cents I don't think the issue is you opening up but the frequency and the association with alcohol (alcohol exacerbates things for the listener and the teller. But even more for the listener who just want to relax with their best friend). I can imagine, if someone drinks they want to have a good time, relax. It is ok if once in a while it is associated with negative things but if EVERYTIME you meet that person it is the same pattern then yes it is toxic and can take a toll on the mental health of the one that has to consistently listen to it... Not saying that to make you feel bad or anything and not sure if that was a pattern with you or an once in a while thing (though the way it is phrased makes it seem like it is a pattern). I hope this make you self reflect too and maybe seek professional help for any issues you have like your friend did so that it doesn't affect future relationships. I also don't want you to decide to close up because of this, but honestly besides my parents and my best friend ( and it is not linked with alcohol, at that time we are both sharing and most of the time I end in positive note and we both cheer each other) I definitely do not repeatedly share the same problems with my other friends. Once is enough and I move on. Even my brother, I have noticed doesn't want to hear my problems even if he ask the question (it is just to be polite I realized!!)
We know when someone is acting in a flirty way. Once I have a friend whom I told I liked this guy and was seeing him casually. The day of our graduation she kissed him, when I confronted her, she said she likes everyone, and that I was not clear enough that I was interested in him 🤯
Videos like this remind me why im so much better off with out social media
To many people today hide behind social media instead of having conversations. I myself recently cut off a friend I've had since childhood. She was kinda similar and toxic. Crossed lines and I could no longer support her or trust her. I still love her but no longer associate. Best thing I ever did
Yeah, social media is a complex issue. I don't have any presence beyond my Twitter account and don't get into following women to thirst on them (I think I follow 9 people) but I am active enough that I'd probably see videos of me if they went viral (maybe, I don't watch that kind of stuff on twitter so I still might miss it). I'd certainly notice of Amala was talking about it ... wouldn't that be a hell of a way to find out.
Joanne's excuses were weak sauce. She knew EXACTLY what she was doing
I can’t help but think that social media has caused a whole generation to have a form of schizophrenia. Not in a pop culture sense but in they have two different personalities.😂
There is no “pop culture sense”
You’re right this didn’t happen
I'm glad I live in the part of the universe that has never heard about any of this until your video.
One, this is silliness. (But don't we all need a little silliness in our lives these days?) Two, girlfriend should have had at least ONE conversation before ghosting completely. You know. Like a GROWNUP. Three, the hoodie business was suss. I don't care how 'cute' that hoodie was, you return it pronto. Find out where he got it and get your own. Or see if he'll sell it to you. (With his girlfriend's permission, of course.) Ain't no hoodie in the world THAT cute. And four, yeah. A year later?! Good grief... 🤭😉
A serious amount of drama for 5”
I'll be honest I tend to make off with everybody's hoodies and then forget they're not mine. I recently returned my brother's hoodie and I had had it for so long he forgot it was even his and told me to keep it 😅😅😅 I think I even have my sister's too to be honest....🤔 So yeah I don't see the hoodie thing as being completely against her but I do agree she probably should have returned it. And I am one of those people that will give food as a form of thanks because I don't think a simple thank you covers it. I have went and bought family and friends food for small things that I myself was not able to figure out how to do and felt that a simple thank you would not cover it. So I kind of get her mentality on that
Aww,you're delusional thinking that homewrecker would even want to talk with the girl. The ghosting was justified,and you're absolutely stupid for expecting someone to talk to someone like that as if they deserve their time. Gtfo
Generation x here.“😂”, why do so many people give a 💩! Even
when I was in High school people would have been too embarrassed to let anyone know about any of this nonsense. I feel so bad for these kids.If people in my day would have made this everyone’s business. They would be ran out of town for this 💩! So cringe!!
Another Gen Xer here! Exactly 😂
nah, stealing someone else's man is wild.💀💀
U the bomb Amala! Keep up the good work
Thanks beautiful Amala .
Never heard of either of these two.. must be a slow news day.. this is so lame
lol I suggest find a third girl and move on, allowing for the current two to demonstrate their nature to the world.
My first thought: When I heard it was a year later when she escalated this drama, I remembered the meme from some years back when the first female NFL referee was brought into the league: "First female ref in the NFL, immediately throws a flag for a penalty from four years ago."
Second thought: They're both petty, and I hope for his sake he sees what's going on and doesn't let it happen again. Or he finds a more mature girl to invest his time and resources into.
The first girl is not petty. She did not say any names, she waited an entire year later to make the video, and she wasn't wrong either. The ex best friend was out of line and she was so patient the entire time the other girl kept trying to attract her man.
@@vazanere then why did she put it all online? What business is this of the entire world? That's a sort of petty vindictiveness that shouldn't exist.
You asume the boy is more mature then the girls, maybe their are a good Match 😉
@@beatriceherb fair point.
@@jimmyboy131why can’t she lol she didn’t mention names
Great video. Very informative
This girl was totally trying to take her friend’s boyfriend. Ugh. 😂😂
The oversaturation filter killed me 😅
I met my husband and he never had social media and eventually I loved how much he was just in real life with me instead of on social media like my past relationships and so I ended up deleting all my social media too… we have lived happily ever after ever since
Thanks for giving me a laugh!!! This is the best reaction video 🤣 and yeah, she was totally into the girl’s boyfriend!
First off, I just wanted to give a shoutout to you and Taylor! I absolutely adore your content and look forward to your no-nonsense takes on our crazy 🌎. I love your sense of humor, it’s a great way to vent without trying to bully others. You seem like an educated and well mannered lady, who definitely deserves for your man ti put a ring on it during these Holidays. Wink, wink, nudge, nudge…. 😂 Just playing, well thanks for the fun and I give mad props to Taylor and all of the other crew who help you give us content worth watching! I will try and donate some money when I get some money for Christmas. Happy Holidays❤
I had a friend for 12 years who was nervous about going back to her high school reunion because she said nothing in her life has changed since then and she didn't want to feel like a loser. I had just started dating my then boyfriend now husband and she asked me if she could borrow him so she did not look so bad. I said no. I thought she was joking. Many years later after we got married we started having troubles conceiving a child. She came to me and said I would love to help your family be able to have a child. And I said I'm just don't think I could do the surrogacy thing I said. Especially with a friend. It just would be too awkward. She said. Oh no I I'm not talking about being a surrogate she was like. Yes I would be the one being artificially inseminated but your husband and I will be the parent you get to be the stepmom. After that I started looking back and realized I cannot be friends with somebody that you cannot trust around your man. Not because I can't trust my man because I couldn't trust her. She used to talk about other people's guys all the time thinking that they were always hitting on her and I be like I don't know what you're talking about. I don't see it and she'd go. Yeah they're always playing games with me and I'm like not at all. And I used to try and tell myself repeatedly. She is really lonely and I felt bad for her and I would pity her and so I kept a friendship going way longer than I should have. This all being said I had a full conversation with her. I told her that she had to respect certain boundaries such as my marriage and she could not come to me about other people's relationships and who she had a crush on. If they were in a relationship to begin with. I told her that once they're in a relationship they're off the market for me to even try and talk to you about. Cuz she would always ask me what should I do. What should I do? And I would be like there's nothing for you to do. They're in a relationship. You either wait to see what happens or you move on to somebody else, but you cannot interject yourself into somebody else's relationship and hopes that they'll see you and choose you instead. She did not agree with me and we chose to part our separate ways.
Omg. Thats crazy how she wants to sleep with ur man and get pregnant. Then make u the stepmom. Thats so messed up. Glad u cut ties. Always protect ur marriage. ❤❤ Stay strong
Your ex friend is creepy. I’m glad you got her out of your life. I hope you finally had the baby!:)
@@dang1244I wonder how she brought it up 😂 the nerve of some people!
The first girl is in the right.
I can get the whole close friends thing because it works like a bookmark. You can bookmark friends who you interact with or want to interact with more.
Amala, I totally agree with you!!
She wanted him. Case closed. Basic af hoodie.
I feel like want the six minutes back that listening to this story stole from my life.
Yeah you were doing such meaningful things otherwise
My finger isn't on the pulse of what goes on online. Actually, I'd probably be considered by most as being under a rock. Not entirely but close. And with the few stories I hear as they unfold or more commonly well after its passed and hearing about the unhealthy toll the internet can have on a person, I'm glad I live under that rock.
I agree with you on this. I'm not on either girl's side, they both set off alarms for me and I don't care enough to get invested in the drama of someone I don't actually know in real life. Good work on this video. I look forward to seeing more videos from you.
I think it's a good thing people are starting to talk about behaviors of others, themselves.
This world has being evolving about nothing more but money, power, careers, prestige...
I welcome a shift where people confront eachother with their behaviors.... some monsters
have spectacular abilities to remain under the social radar, maybe they will be screened out and
be socially marked and avoided. And yes they will get isolated but that is THEIR problem.
For me it's really hard to filter out the small telltale signs from a video...if I would have been around her for a time, then yes. But from a video? Could all just be lying as far as my skills are concernd. :D
Kelly wasn't blasting anyone, she didn't name anyone's name. If she wanted to bring it up a year later as a storytime without naming names then why can't she? Joanna is the one blasting and outing herself by confirming she was that friend who got ghosted. No one would've suspected the mentioned girl in Kelly's story was Joanna unless they were close friends to them both. Joanna could've stayed quiet and we wouldn't know it was her. Have you seen the mentioned hoodie? It was a basic black hoodie with a Nike logo. She could've gotten her own and it was not that cute. For me, it's the fact that there is an allegedly deleted TikTok video floating around where she mentioned and talked about justifying why spend money to buy hoodies when you can steal your boyfriend's hoodies. Someone reposted her deleted TikTok video where she associates cute hoodies with the word boyfriend. Besides mounting the tv was an activity they did together as a trio so why didn't she get Kelly a sandwich as well? Why just thank him for something you all did together? She could've gotten her a sandwich too because it's normal for best friends/roommates to treat each other to food. It's not that hard to get an extra sandwich to make sure there was no misunderstanding whatsoever.
8:54 EXACTLY! I wish to meet someone who doesn’t care about social media. Yes, people like that exist!
I remember people in Jr high getting upset about the top friend list on Myspace
After 30 seconds I was going to move along, but for Amala’s take, I continued…two minutes in and I’m regretting that decision…
My response to this and anything like this is, “social media is a video game. It’s not real. It contributes and accomplishes nothing.”
Keeping a hoodie is sus af. That's called stealing. If you can steal a sweater and not think about it at all, you can try to steal a man and not think about it at all. I'm sure the 2nd girl was telling some truth, but not the entire truth. She left out a lot of things unexplained. Both girls are red flags. The boyfriend should dump her and find a more grounded person.
My best friend of 7 years ghosted me for no apparent reason. I tried to reach out a bunch, but she refused to have a conversation, then she had her boyfriend respond to my message for her, telling me that they were all set in terms of talking about what had happened. Still Didn’t explain what that was..., and still haven't received a clear answer as to why. The worst is, they still hang out with the people that my bf and I hang out with, I had introduced them at an event. They just avoid me now, totally childish.
Oh my gosh, yea this is high school mess. Just go to each other in private in solve out and look to pursue peace with each other because it’s no longer y’all problem. Now it’s the whole world’s drama. This whole situation just makes my head hurt. Stuff like this makes me glad I don’t have social media anymore aside from UA-cam. You learn to live life regularly
I have to say I HATE DRAMA! Why post on social media? I was born in 1982 and this was something I would have to face in high school in the late 90's in person.Since in my days there was no social media. I believe the first social media we had was My Space. Even then people did not post this shit. I am now 41 and do not understand, why young people have to air out their dirty laundry on social media. To me I do not care, however I have to admit, I love it when influencers react to stuff like this.
I mean, I'm not asian adonis but if I were in that situation, I'd have been really uncomfortable with some other woman borrowing my clothes or bringing me food randomly. I don't know if I would've caught on that she was into me but I'd have been uncomfortable regardless.
So insted of discussing this they shame their friend internationally. Children should not have social media.
I love the laugh you had at the end lol. More power to you babe