2018 Vlog 19: My Body is Offensive, Being Gentle with Each Other, and Water's Calming Effects
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- Опубліковано 20 вер 2024
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I appreciate you being frank about our plus size bodies. They aren’t offensive. They just are. On opinions, I try to listen to what others have to say, because I don’t want to stop learning. Plus, It’s wonderful to hear that this blossoming relationship of yours is one of mutual support. He sounds like a gem. 💜
I would freak and cry if I met you! I stood in the mirror today and actually said you know what? I am beautiful. And I've only gained this confidence since watching you. So thank you soooo much!❤❤❤
I have never been bothered by your breathing or your body type. I just love your videos and I think you are an amazing woman. It makes me so happy when you upload and I really like your looooong vlogs. Keep being awsome and I send you so much love and support!!
I love your videos, but please consider not doing videos while driving. Your eyes should be looking at the road and your brain should be focused on your driving.
I love listening to you, but I would rather see you talking while not in the car. Distracted drivers cause accidents. You may think you can handle driving and talking for the camera, but all it takes is a second to get in a accident.
I decided to leave this comment after hearing you say that the encouraging comments people leave on your videos have an positive impact on you and motivate you to continue what you are doing. I usually watch every video you post and I love watching them in bed at night while I’m trying to go to sleep because you are very relaxing for me to watch, not sure if that’s weird lol. I have always been a naturally thin person and don’t struggle with my weight, so I can’t necessarily relate exactly to a lot of the things that you talk about. But the reason I love youtube so much is I get to understand the perspectives of other people that I have never been in their shoes. It helps me to be a compassionate person by having some kind of a glimpse into other people’s situations. But you should know that despite your size, age, race, sexuality, whatever, we are all humans and at the core we are all the same. We have a lot of the same struggles and feelings despite our individual situations. It makes me really happy to see you so excited about your new relationship and I hope that continues to go well. You really seem like a genuine, kindhearted person especially with how you take care of your guys at work. It is becoming more rare by the day to find those genuine souls on UA-cam. I’ll continue to watch and am excited to see your channel grow! I hope you have a great week Kandy!
Taylor Smith you’re a sweetheart 💕
People are so friggin close minded and rude! I have never been bothered by your breathing or your body! I see you, your personality and good heart!
Here is a fact to remember: Every single person on this planet could post a video and there would be people posting a negative comment in response. Every time I see a comment that is negative or in some cases just plain hateful, I think about the fact that they would be ridiculed themselves if they were brave enough to post truths about their own life. We all have our own ways of doing things. We all have things that did work or didn't work for us. But that is our own truth, not everyone's truth. Kandy, you are awesome for sharing your life with us. Always do what feels right for you and remember what I wrote here. There will always be people who attempt to feel better about themselves by trying to make someone else feel bad. I'm not talking about posts of true concern or helpful advice that comes from a caring place. Follow your bliss, Kandy-follow your bliss!
What an amazing post. I completely agree.
💯 percent agree!
Love this comment 💯
My weight is284,dat is all people see,dey don't see my two beautiful children, my loving husband, the scars from multiple surgeries after I fell,I was bed ridden for one year,today I have to learn to love myself because people see my weight and judge me,I respect u a lot,keep going ,we love u
I love that bluish/purple lace cold shoulder top! So cute! Glad this was a long vlog. It kept me company while I cleaned and cooked dinner :)
I really like your personality and you as a person. I never comment on people’s UA-cam’s, but you’re an inspiration to me. You’re fucking awesome, I’m working on becoming as comfortable and happy as you are. Love you, keep doing you girl. Love from Floridaaaaa😚😚😚😚
Hey Kandy, I'm glad you are doing a lot better. I am one of those people who wrote you to apologize. You are so right! Sometimes we can get in our heads because we are having a bad day and then we say things that we normally wouldn't say. I want to apologize again for any comment I have made in the past that was hurtful. You aren't a weightloss channel and you never said it was. I get it and I'm sorry. I am on my own weightloss journey and I can get a little crazy. You are a kind woman and you and I are navigating this world. I am in the OA program which is overeaters anonymous. Its teaching me how to love more openly and to be kind to myself and to others. I wish you the best and congrats on 30,000! Keep crushing the world😘
Girl I was so so glad to hear your Kandid Kandy video about that area of the body. I have been super self conscious of that area and never knew other people had it or it was a thing. My ob/gyn never mentioned it or said it was abnormal but I still thought it was just something only I had. I’m seriously very relieved!!! Thank you so much!!!!
I feel the same way about water. 😊....I live in a ocean town....and If I'm upset or just have to relax, I'll sit by the ocean and listen to the waves .... Always makes me feel better!!
I'd just like to say that what I don't like is that it's mostly "my" people who comment on your breathing/stomach etc. I'm very athletic. I eat healthy, and I lift heavy, but that doesn't stop me from loving you. At first, if I'm honest, I was a little shocked by your shape. (You even said yourself it's very different), but now if I'm feeling down or lonely I put on one of your videos. You're such a genuine person, and you know that you're big, so people don't need to point it out. Much love, Kandy.
Sunny I agree with you. She just seems like a very genuine person with an amazing personality and I always am so excited to watch one of her videos.
Congratulations on 30,000! I knew when you started you would take off. You keep being you! 😉
Constant throat clearing must be due to post-nasal drip. It is a pain in the ass.
To tell you the truth, I found your channel when I searched for obese people clothing try on videos to make myself feel better about my weight. And at first I admit that I had some not so nice thoughts about your body. But then I stayed for your personality and totally forgot about your body. I do wish though for you to lose some weight because I want you to be here as long as possible.
Jamie Lynne Yeah I did. It's obviously not good, but trust me I'm not the only one. But you clearly ignored the rest of my comment.
It’s not shaking at all on our end!
Keep spreading your positive vibes Kandy. You're one of a kind, classy lady. Watching you has helped me learn how to be happy in the body I'm currently in. Posting my weight loss journey has done wonders for my confidence too. Love you girl, never stop or apologize for being you! ♡
Congrats on 30K!!❤️ Your videos help me relax, I love listening to you talk. I don't care if it's about random everyday topics, you have a beautiful soul.
I don’t comment much anymore these days but I do get very upset when someone makes a comment about your body. It’s your body and it’s your life. You have to do what’s best for you and what makes you happy. It upsets me because I know that it hurts you. I just feel that if someone doesn’t have something kind to say they should just not say anything at all. Even if they think they are saving your life. You know you best. 🌸
Migraine Mama it makes me angry how dare they tell anyone how they should live their lives who do they think they are. I know what I think they are, just sad stupid people who really don't have a life and go online to tell people how they should live we should pity them to be honest.
firethorn OMGGGG SHES LJKE BRAGGING HOW SHE ATE BLUEBERRIES!!! Yayyyyy you’re really killlin it over there sis go eat an entire bag of lettuce in one setting. The fuckkk ??! How tf can ppl do this to themselves?? She’s atleast 500 LBS!!! I’m shook
Asssley Bigrackin is that you in the pic cause it kinda looks like there is something wrong with your face. Id get that checked out if i were you.
Nuclear why do you say that im only speaking the truth.
R L do you not think she knows any of this "medical information"? Is it some secretive information that only you know about? Because I'm pretty sure that she has access to web md as well as other resources on the net...not to mention a doctor who has probably had conversations with her from a medical standpoint. So why people think they're informing her about things that she doesn't already know... unsolicited, it's mind blowing!
I didn’t really think your mount was shaky at all, I thought it was perfectly fine. Yeah the angle is better and its nice that the camera doesn’t surprisingly go sliding across the dashboard.
Kindness is beautiful kandy. So let someone be kind to you. More importantly be really kind ,loving and gentle to yourself.
The mount is great someday you will be at 300,000 congrats on 30k 🎉🎉💜🤗
i think the people offended by the fupa video are the immature ones. i love your videos kandy and i think u are beautiful. ❤️❤️❤️
Sapphire Panda * iNmature (According to the rude idiots lol)
Mary Kelly you beat me to that!!! Lol!!
roxmax4 great minds think alike 😂😂😂
I feel like this is a really genuine and positive video. You're realistic, and dont use excuses to protect who you are. You're honest and that's amazing. Please don't lose that.
OMG Kandy you are a huge INSPIRATION to so many. I love ALL your videos ❤If I see you in person I would be SOOO EXCITED like seeing a old friend from high school. You are an amazing person and you aren't strange in anyway I accept you 100% no matter what❤🤗🙌
At least you put the clothes back into the basket. I throw mine off the bed onto the floor!
Secretly cried when I saw gas at $3.40 😂😂😂
KittKatt omg same lol! Thought I was the only one
I wish it was $3.40 again.
Omg,who doesn't love you?!?!? I love watching you,your awesome!!! Keep doing great hun💖💖💖
You're the best!!!! I'm so glad I found your channel over a year ago.
Are all of her vlogs only her talking to us in her car??
I agree that people need to be more gentle in the comment section. Not just here, but everywhere online. Sometimes I’ll comment on a video and not even read anyone else’s comments because I don’t want to see bickering. I like to watch UA-cam to relax and not to get upset basically lol. love you Kandy! Congrats on 30k! I can’t believe how far you’ve come .
I also have a weird body due to weight loss, I can totally relate. I would also like to lose more weight so I can get on board with you . Congrats on 30k!! I love your channel
This is to all of these people who want her to hate herself. This is for all of those people who dont want her to be in public or have a channel to speak about her life. I dont think she is trying to promote obesity or is she saying that being fat is healthy. She is just a person who is wanting to be a person. She wants to be able to have a UA-cam channel like all of the other you tube channels out there. just because she is heavy does not mean she should hide in the closet and not show herself. Why cant she just live her life with out "promoting obesity" just because she is fat. I am fat, and I DO hate myself for it. I DO hide and dont go out, I dont wear shorts or tank tops in public. I am trying to lose weight and to eat healthy. I am trying to learn to love myself the way I am. I am not trying to love myself in order to STAY THE WAY I AM. I WANT TO LOVE MYSELF SO I WILL START TO TAKE CARE OF MYSELF BETTER, TO TELL MYSELF THAT I AM WORTH IT TO LOSE WEIGHT, TO GET HEALTHY, TO EXERCISE AND LIVE LONGER. you ass holes WANT us to die, you dont want us to even try to love our lives. YES we have messed up our bodies, and a lot of us have addictions, to food and to other things. I have a food addiction. I was also a drug addict. Hard drugs, alcohol, gambling too. I have worked on those issues and I no longer do dope or drink or smoke. I went back to food and gained weight. I am and always will be an addict. I am trying to better myself, i am losing weight, but it is a long and hard road. There are times that I "relapse" on a Zinger or two, or a cupcake or pint of ice cream. I am not promoting obesity by trying to love myself. I am trying to love myself and through that, then take care of myself, and lose the weight.
I definitely like it when you talk about our big girl bodies! I’m older than you and am learning something new each time you talk about this! Didn’t know it was called a Fupa!! Makes total sense, lol.
I've been watching your channel for about a year now and I've loved that your channel ISN'T about weight loss. I appreciate it a lot honestly and I enjoy it more when UA-camrs don't blab about losing weight. I love your channel and content 😊
You are encouraging death. That is like telling an anorexic you are glad they don't want to change their eating habits and support them on their journey to the grave
I was so excited to wake up this morning to a Kandy vlog, hahaha! I spent my day most of yesterday and night last night in bed with a migraine so I had been completely out of touch with UA-cam since early yesterday morning (before I got the headache). So anyway you know how happy your videos make me, and to wake up after a killer migraine to a nice long vlog made my day today! I really did enjoy it so much because I always love to hear what is going on with you and your life because I care so much about you! I'm happy that you are well. My head and body is still all a little weird-feeling from the migraine yesterday (and taking the Imitrex) for it...I call it my "migraine hangover" feeling cause I always feel so "off" or just strange the day after having a bad migraine, so I'm going to cut my comment short and just say a sincere thank you for the vlog and, as always, I wish you a wonderful day, my friend! 😊✌👍
As a plus size woman in her 30s I LOVE your candid videos!! You are inspirational!!
Love that you found someone you love to be around but also pushes love that!
I'm an emotional eater. It's difficult to reprogram your mind. I want to start working on my body. When I start loosing weight I battle with the fat chick inside myself.
The mount works fantastic hun, but stop looking at the camera or reading salad bags and just drive lol, you make me nervious when you dont look at the road, only concerned hunny, i know its hard . Glad your having fun with Will hun you deserve to be happy. Love Sandy from down under XOXO ps I changed my name its easer this way it me Down under gypsy witch 😀
Kandy will we ever get to meet this wonderful man of yours ? 😄💕🎈👍
Love your vlogs and Candid Kandy no matter the topics ❤️
I do the same thing with my laundry, but it usually isn't put away I just wear it if not too wrinkled. And, you've helped me so much, I accepted I have to accept my body. I have gotten so much more confident in myself. So thank you for just being you and being someone I've looked up to.
Kandy I love your channel, your videos and most importantly YOU! You are so real and truthful about who you are and what you struggle with. That is so refreshing in the sea of lies we see on the internet. If I met you we would be good friends! Thank you for all you do and post!❤❤
You are truly inspiring. I love your outlook on life and your confidence. Love ya girl keep up the great work. Don’t ever stop what you do
I'm a heavy breather too! I get it from my dad, you can hear him breathing from across the room just sitting there. I also am a shallow breather, for whatever reason I don't take deep breaths, so I get winded really fast.
I love to start my day with your vids
Plz don't leave YOUTUOB
Girl, I am the exact same way with water!! Being near water makes everything better. I love that blue shirt with the lace sleeves you were wearing at the end. The color looks good on you too. I feel exactly the same about my body being offensive to people. If I am bothering them so much they can look elsewhere. I feel like we have a lot in common and honestly, it is just nice to know someone else feels the same way I do on certain things. I think we are very close to the same size. I think you have lost some weight though and now I am heavier. I think I started watching your videos back at the beginning of the year maybe. I was just watching videos and youtube suggested I watch someone else that did a plus size haul (I don't even remember who it was) and at some point, one of your videos came up and I immediately thought you were awesome! I think it is wonderful you talk about the things you do and you could very well be helping other plus size people deal with things and show them there is nothing wrong with them and that they are not alone. You are very brave and i admire you!
Very clever to meal prep. I need to start doing that. I need to stop the fast food already! You are very inspiring and I enjoy watching your videos.oh and the mount works fine
Me too! I was on track and meal prepping. Then I had a slip up that snowballed.
I'm struggling a lot to loose weight. I'm 325 lbs right now. I've done keto but keep gaining it all back. I know how it is. Love your channel.
Don't give up Jessica. And no matter where u are in life, enjoy urself. Losing weight isn't the key to happiness but it is great for health..also remember a happy girl is a pretty girl.
You seem like such a fun and wise aunt. Those kids (forgot their names) are so lucky to have you to look up to!
Nobody should tell you how to be the best you cause you already know. And the best you is different than the best you on any other day. People love you in the real world and on the internet. You work you play you do it all. You don't anyone anything! You go girl!!!!
From the UK, got rage at that car at the beginning. Then realised er... no it's not undertaking 😂
As always lovin your honesty here. I wish I had your attitude towards the Trolls on here. Ignoring them is the best solution. I love your make up in the beginning, you suit the softer pretty colours. X
Hi Kandy 🙋🏻. Maybe you should consider blocking the idiots who come on here to make nasty remarks because they are " SO concerned about your health and wellbeing ⁉️. We certainly don't want to read the vitriol they spout ❗️. However I do admire you for not blocking these people , you are a better woman than I , it must be so hurtful reading these sort of things, it makes ME angry 😡. I genuinely don't understand why some people feel the need to be so spiteful to a stranger ⁉️. They must have very sad and empty lives 🤷♀️❗️. Great vlog as always Kandy , enjoyed it 👍🏼. Have yourself a fantastic week 💕💕💕💕💕💕💐
Jude Morgan You're so gullible,do you not understand sarcasm
JaneyMac MacJaney you think i didnt know ????? lol. What a fool you are talk about gullible.
What are u guys talking about?
its a comment section, people can say what they like,
Don't you wish people would just stop trying to ridicule others by using "for your own good" b.s.! If they're talking smak it's their issue! You be you. That's it. And, it's enough. Love you girl!!! Btw, congratulations on sub#'s an the camera isn't shaky on my end.
Ive never heard your breathing ever and I watch you all the time, your my favourite youtuber your just beautiful inside and out
I feel like this channel is going to go so far in the next year you are so amazing wish I could speak out like you do love your confidence and everything about you kandy love yaaa!!!💕💕💕
That’s so cool being recognized!! You’re famous!
You’re totally right! You can’t and shouldn’t apologize for who you are and what body your soul is currently inhabiting.
Honestly I freakin love you so much❤️ You seem to be genuinely an amazing person. Glad time with Will was good. And the car mount is just fine😃
Your brows look much better! I like your channel. You have an awesome personality! But I also want you to live longer so I’m glad getting healthier is part of your plan :)
You rock girl!!!! Who care’s what they think.
Washington's weather has been nicer than ours here in NYS. I think we got all your rain!
You are beautiful all of you and I'm so glad that u do things your way don't let anyone ever tell you anything rude your such a sweet loving kind person.
Good for you! You're beautiful just as you are. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. Just be you and nevermind the negativity. You inspired me today and I was feeling down on myself. I have done UA-cam for years (on and off), like a yo-yo diet and also struggled with body issues. Watching how confident and down to earth you are is really uplifting to me, so thank you from the bottom of my heart~Hugs... P.S. you look fine, the camera may be shaking to you but the video quality is great, no worries ;-)
I enjoy your car ride chats!
Hi Kandy. The drive thru thing was soo sweet of you !! One day I went thru the drive thru at McDonalds n got up to the window to pay n the cashier told me the guy in front of me payed for my order n asked me if I'd like to pay for the order behind me n that I was the 7th or 8th car to do that n I said yessss n that just made my day, I thought that was sooo cool !! Love you. xx
I'm so far behind on videos! I always love your videos. I think you are always wonderful to watch. I enjoy your conversations on ALL the topics you choose. Your body is not offensive. No one's body is offensive. We are all different. But unfortunately not everyone is going to feel that way.
Girl forget about those that say things about your body. Youre BEAUTIFUL and wonderful. I knoe you have extra skin...thats life and youre body is great. I admire and look up to you for showing your body on here!!!!!! I'm insecure so bad. I have extra dkin also on my belly and I am always self conscious about it. I love your personality and your honesty.xoxoxo I notice I hear u breath its just that toure close to youre speaker or camera...so yeah we will hear u breath a little but. Oh well. It aint bothering me and I HATE folding clothes. I keep my clothes n laundry n my room for days. Lolol xo
I’m so appreciative of your channel! you and your videos bring me so much joy thank you so much
Great Vlog Kandy!! You look happy and that is amazing!!!
Starting my day off with a Kandy video. I’m a fan. Your so beautiful. Your eyebrows always perfect. I especially like your makeup videos. Have a good weekend xo
UA-cam famous!!!! Awesome. Plus, in the car the first time, your brows look the best I have seen them here. Nice job
You don't like pancakes or waffles? What why not? They taste amazing. Especially the IHOP waffles.
Don’t listen to the asshole commenters that are clearly unhappy and insecure with too much time on their hands- you are beautiful.
Mmmh pizza rolls for breakfast, lunch & dinner. I could so do that, lol.
Yes my favorite! The lengthy vlogs😍😍😍
Girl, I’m so happy for you and your new boyfriend. I totally relate to having an awesome new boyfriend who treats me so well. And I feel how you feel with the past and bad treatment. Keep him girl! Nothing wrong with grocery shopping with boyfriend, I do that.
Love your vlogs kandy! hope you’re having a great weekend!! xoxo
I love that you talk about stuff that people won't talk about #candidkandy ❤
The Sinner was so good! Season 2 just started, but I haven't watched the first episode yet.
Paislie Bradley Is season 2 a different story than season 1?
Yep, but it seems just as creepy. Watch the trailers! :) Detective Ambrose is back, but it doesn't look like any of the other characters from season 1 will be appearing in season 2.
I live pretty close to you and go to Portland pretty often. If I ran into you, I'd be so excited and I'd definitely want to talk to you. I have been watching you for about a year and a half, and you're just such a cool person. I like how honest you are, and how you talk about so many different things. It's been cool to see you becoming more and more confident, and it makes me feel like I can do the same. Some people might dislike you, or say stupid shit to you, but a lot of us really like and appreciate you.
I love what you do Kandie, been a sub since day dot! X
Your car mount is so stable watching the trees move is kinda creepy 😂
I love you , please don't waste your breathe trying to justify anything you show THEY DONT HAVE TO WATCH!!...POINT BLANK, I LOVE THE VIDEO, I USED TO WEIGHT 300+ and I truly hear you.... Kandy I think you are one of the most real youtubers out there,Ive been with you since day one and I love you and I told you you were going all the way, congrats …. don't waste your time on the ….. .I love your car mount too just into the first 5 minutes had to comment...love you girl
I’m glad you’re not trying to be a weight loss channel! I follow so many you tubers who started out fun and then turned to weight loss and now their channel is miserable!
Cake Baby - maybe because they realise that you cannot be truly happy at 400lbs? I'm not hating on these people, I've watched Kandy since she's had 3000 subscribers, but it's just not possible to be GENUINELY happy at this size. You don't normally have to think about your life and happiness on an everyday basis, but when you make your entire channel about being big, and about life being big, it ends up being on your mind a lot and you end up realising you're not happy, and if you really want to be positive about your body, you have to lose weight.
Cake Baby - then you can remain in denial. Kandy seemed perfectly fine and happy at her size and then we find out she tried to commit suicide. It just isn't possible to be happy whilst being obese. You can feign your happiness and 'bubbly' personality, but everyone knows it's fake. Sorry.
Cake Baby Anyone who claims they are happy being overweight is a bold face LIAR!!!!!!!
Nuclear - same could be said for you :) thank you.
Cake Baby - Look how quick you did a 180 and called me a miserable hag and ignorant... Yeah, you must be really happy with yourself, huh? Thank you for proving my point.
Kandy you are a wonderful person I can tell, but in all seriousness the problem is that having bad eating habits and having excess fat gives a bad example to young ones..and the problem with society is at this point people are trying to push something unhealthy as beautiful.. but what if we did that to anorexics? What if we made anorexia something beautiful..Wouldn't you fight against that? If people say their excess body fat doesn't define them then why are they pushing so hard for society to see their body with excessive body fat as beautiful? It doesn't make sense. Excessive fat doesn't define someone's personality and morals but honestly it's somewhat telling about how much they don't prioritize their health. 😔
Jack Russel agree, these fatsos on YT don't have a shame and push it as being confident, LOL!!!
hi, i love your personality, it shines through that you are a genuinely lovely person. x
i love the kandid kandy vids...good stuff
Keep doing you! And thanks for candid Kandy ....seriously!!
Mount is great! Not shaky at all. Fantastic video Kandy.
Oh my goodness I like you and your videos so much. Keep being you girl, you’re doing great.
I found your channel as I was looking for styling ideas for the summer. I liked your comment regarding other's shouldn't be offended by large bodies. So I will take that thought and wear my maxi dresses without tee-shirts under them. To feel cooler. I will use sunblock as the sun is pretty fierce down under in Kiwi Land. Keep up the good work. You give hope to a lot of us.
Your beautiful n so kind hearted i would be so exctied to meet u n take a picture if ur ever on the east coast.....lol love seeing u so happy
Excellent video, Kandy. OH MY GOODNESS! That's purple shirt with the lace sleeve is gorgeous. I want it! Gimme. LOL
People take health for granted. Keep going, bb.
Babe ur brows look better day after day,love u!❤️
Congrads on 30k Kandy! ❤️