Am I Immature and Do I Hate Weight Loss? - Kandy Goes Ranty - Vlog
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Having a thirst that you can't quench is a symptom of diabetes. I only know that because my boss was recently diagnosed, and for the week prior to that he kept complaining to me about being thirsty and no amount of water is helping. Turns out he's diabetic.
Another conflict of what she said is we only see a small part of her life, but then goes on to say she shares 95% of her life.
Rachel Love I noticed that too. She just rants and rants. I look for the occasional cooking vid as I like them, but she is such a hypocrite. Also, she’s pounding down the food because anyone who weighs 450 pounds has got to be doing that. Please...
Eating a lot of salty foods, going too long without fluids, taking a diuretic and smoking the bomber will give you a thirst you can't quench too. Which one is it?
I’ve always had this problem, constantly thirsty. Don’t have diabetes even though I have the symptoms, they said my insulin levels are off but not my sugar. Maybe that’s it?
@@alishac3860 are they at least helping you with it?
Am I the only one that finds it super creepy how some people can just film an entire video, have an entire conversation with a camera, and completely ignore their friend sitting next to them the entire time??
I like the timelapse of driving through the winter trees.
*_same, i love the nature🍃_*
That was really pretty!!
Pretty music
Yes that was pretty
Me too
Are you living a life-threatening unhealthy lifestyle? Yes. Are you immature in your approach on how to better it/yourself? Yes. Is it any of my business if you don't see 40? Nope.
u can’t rely on being motivated. there’s gonna be so many days where u don’t feel like it. u have to make urself do it. otherwise it’s not gonna happen. there’s gonna be times where u wanna eat crap, and it’s ok to have those wants. but u need to work on the willpower to say “nope. not eating that.” and choosing something better. but at the end of the day, it’s ur life and ur choice. i’m here for u either way. ✌️💕 just wanted to give u some knowledge that i’ve learned.
U r so right , i agree 💯 %
Agreed. When you say you can, you can! I even notice that when she talks about her weight or weight loss her tone becomes defensive and edgy.
So if people don't like your pop figures or if they would rather collect Hummel figurines or Faberge eggs that means they are doing it to please others and not for the same reasons you say you collect video game and Disney memorabilia ? Or if they do their makeup in a different way they are doing it for others and not themselves? How is questioning someones motives on what they choose to collect, how they choose to dress or do their makeup a good way of defending your own choices about those things? Just because they don't like what you do does not make them a sell out. The same way you liking what you like doesn't make you immature. The route you chose to defend it was though.
The Original She says “I just don’t think that’s the way you should listen be your life.” Ok In going to take life advice from you....not. 😑
You shouldn't starve yourself no but you certainly need to start a diet and exercise plan for health reasons.
Mind your own business
Yes, you are immature and yes you are afraid to loose weight. Your emotional growth stopped many years ago when eating a cookie or box of ice cream helped soothe the emotions that were not getting soothed by human contact and communication. You are afraid to loose weight because being a fat person means you don't have to deal with real, adult issues and keeps you in a social group of like-minded people. Every conversation, every perception of you is based on your weight. When the simple act of changing clothes makes you breath hard, you are too fat.
Ellie Bellie bad day?
@@firsthussar6194 Nope, just being honest. She asked, I answered. She has a lot of emotional issues - being immature is just one of them. Not recognizing just how FAT she really is is just plain being in denial.
I think every fat girl wants to lose weight and has more than likely tried to lose weight more times than people realize. But after a certain amount of time our bodies work against us, old habits die harder, and we get tired of trying bc we are literally fighting our brains over control of food. It's not intuitive. I will admit part of it is a sense of "immaturity" and not wanting to or afraid of facing certain serious things in life. I know for me, I continue to believe I can get to a healthy weight but for many of us it's a combination of mental health + physical changes. Maybe you've been there, too Ellie Bellie. We all need to get to that point where we are ready to deal with finding control. Maybe it's a personality thing...some people are on point with control....others it takes a lot more conscious thought and push for it.
learn how to spell. *lose *breathe. Skinny and dumb < Smart and fat...
@@meeshg228 hmmm...I see you're over here bullying people😉
Okay, so in one clip you are talking about how you want your channel to be what you want, and then next you are talking about how you want your channel to be a "safe place" because what you say could offend someone. That is a conflict. Do what you want on your channel, but don't lie to yourself about why you don't want to talk about weight loss on your channel.
Hi sweetie. I noticed that you mentioned in this vlog that you were drinking alot of water in a short period of time. How is your blood sugar? Because if you can't quench your thirst, it could be your diabetes is acting up. Maybe seek medical advice from your pcp. Please be well and have a great weekend. Xo
Girl, I’m 43 and I love gaming and geeking out over stuff. My kids are grown and out of the house so if I want to spend a day playing a game, I can. I have a full time job. I take care of business. 🙃
I don't collect stuff, I have an aversion to clutter.😶🚫😁
I have an aversion to spending the money on it. 🤣
your friend was depressed so u took her to a funeral........... ok
It wasn't a funeral, like she said. Even if it was, death doesnt make it worse for me. Hanging out with her helps bring me out of my head, no matter what we are doing. 😊
NormaJean 😂😂😂😂😂
I get "it's about how you feel and not about how much you weigh" when your less than 75lbs overweight. But you know damn well there are a plethora of things your not capable of doing. You might be "healthy" today but the abundance of extra weight is most definitely taking a toll and you know it. You seem to like the idea of being that independant outgoing person who stands out in a quirky way, that girl who is in no way basic and is smarter than your average girl. But to me it looks like a big front to try and cover all the insecurities you have. And a lot of the time it comes across as you being full of yourself. I think you're even more lost now than you were when you were with Roger. Everyone should be able to live their own lives and do what makes them happy but be genuine about it. You still act like your doing Roger a favor by including him in your life. Like you saying you should call him because it would've been your anniversary making it seem like it would be a hard day for him because he's still so hung up on you. Do you put that stuff in your videos to make yourself seem better or to make him look like a lost puppy without you or is that what makes you feel better? People may say why do you watch Kandy if you don't enjoy her videos? And to that I say I have enjoyed a lot of them and I've made comments saying I did but that doesn't mean I'm not allowed to make comments like this. Viewers can only comment on what we are shown and what we get from it.
Extreme thirst, constant peeing and major fatigue are all symptoms of diabetes. You should have yourself checked for it. Being your 37, morbidly obese and aren’t watching your diet, it’s possible you could have high sugar. It’s not something you want to put off. Everything else is trivial. If you don’t have your health, everything else is pointless.
You’re looking bigger...fyi, I don’t smoke pot but I hear it makes you hungry, you better watch out 😂
Totally understand the Roger friendship, i can relate...but you keep doing you in the friendship you have with him, relish it, enjoy it and love it. I was with my husband for almost 24 years, so he knew every bit of me, although we no longer shared a bedroom, we made it work, it was about raising the kids yet we were still excellent to one another. He passed 2 weeks ago and i miss him so much, but he raised my twins as his they were almost 6 when we got married and now they are 30 and have a daughter together who is graduating from UIUC in May, unfortunately w/o Dad at our sides, but he'll be there in spirit, i truly believe in that... and we are so proud of her, she's going on to get her Doctorate in physical therapy, i'll have a PT for life :) ... there's good and bad to that, haha, means i have to do my therapy! Not sure why i'm posting all this, but it's what i thought about as you were speaking about Roger. When/if Roger didn't or doesn't want what you are to him, he'll know. Probably won't happen from the sounds of things, because best friends are hard to come by! Keep on living Kandy! Love the vlogs... well, ok, i'm one of those non gamers , but it's ok, i like listening to them when i do my makeup in the morning and perhaps it'll keep me smarter in the worlds of my nieces and nephews.
Please do what makes you happy, and ignore the haters. Life is too short not to be who you are. I tried that for years, but now I’m doing what makes my heart sing, and it’s wonderful. Wouldn’t this world be boring if all people liked the same exact thing? You’re an individual; act on that. If you just let yourself be who you were meant to be, you will blossom. ❤️
Are you ever gonna move on from rodger?
She has moved on from Roger as far as a relationship standpoint. BUT she and roger have known each other for a long time and have invested in much more than just the physical aspects. She has mentioned this many many times before. She and roger are best friends. They are not good for each other in their relationship because they enable one other and that’s not good or healthy. Just because you and your significant other don’t make it as a married couple, it doesn’t mean you still can’t be friends with them. My husband is my best friend and if we ended up not working out I would still hang out with him. That’s fine.
@Introvert Chip They are broken up, but Kandy seems super dependent and unable to move on with her life...
I just found your channel about 2 weeks ago after hearing Zachary Michael mention you in his videos and I have been hooked ever since. I’ve nearly binged watched every one of your videos. Your laugh seriously makes me so happy and I love how real you are! Also, I LOVE that you’re a fellow Washington girl! So am I! Born and raised! Sending all my love from Spokane, WA 😘😘
keep being you! be a kid forever, you are not here to impress anyone, be you, be happy!
Nice chat about not making weight loss because it can be a trigger. I totally understand not making your channel a focus on weight loss.
mythdusterds Well she can’t can she as there is no weight loss...ever!
I love these long videos!! That intro was gorgeous I could watch that forever! I'd love to visit Washington some day! :)
2 things are bothering me about this video... 1- If your sister can’t get through 19” of snow in her Jeep, she needs new tires. 2- Authentic Fabergé eggs and their history are fascinating. They are beautiful.
I just want you to be healthy and happy Kandie 💕 your wellbeing is important to a lot of us! Truly 😘😘😘
U do u and I love watching everything u post... dont let the haters get u down
Never apologize for being who you are. I watch you because I relate to you in many ways, and the things we don't have in common, just let's me learn more about you. Keep being happy, making your own decisions. Us adults don't owe anyone explanations for how we choose to live our lives! ❤
Yooo I love the glasses! So flattering! 💖💖
I love this vid! I share your outlook on life: do what makes you happy, as long as it doesn’t hurt others. So continue to ignore the naysayers; it’s your honesty that keeps me coming to your channel. I think it says more about the trolls if they have nothing better to do than criticize people who are being honest and not hurting anyone. It is easy to skip content you don’t like! Why stress yourself out viewing it only to be able to post hateful comments. Such negativity is just plain sad. Keep on doing what you do! It’s why we love you Kandy.
As someone who does get triggered by constant weight loss focus, I appreciate you.
Hey Kandy. Do you play the Sims? I'd love to see some dramatic Sims stories play out and the soap opera like nature of it could bring a type of gaming for all to enjoy. Your smarts and wit would make it really funny I'm sure. Go on!
You were doing well with your weight loss last summer..try to get back on track
Kandy you do you and enjoy living your life! You're awesome and don't change for anyone!💕
I am so sorry and shocked really that someone would have the balls to involve your ex. Can't we be friends with the opposite sex?
I watch you Kandy for 1 reason only....you are terrific!
You are doing you! I still say you’re still growing and I love seeing it! X
The only thing I collect is ex boyfriends. I keep them in a dog run out back if they're lucky lol.
But honestly I find I enjoy channels where the creator is truly enjoying whatever they're doing or passionate about what they're saying. Figures and video games aren't my thing but I love watching when you light up or get excited about something. It always comes back to people who are genuine being the people I gravitate towards, even more so than people I have superficial shit in common with. So do you, girl!
Add me to your collection you look good real good.
@@burymedeep-be7dm lol what?
Sorrry for the many comments but people don’t realize how dangerous over-hydrating really is. I got so sick one time it was TERRIFYING..the headache, the nausea, and the scariest part: the disorientation...I consume a LOT of water everyday and pee every half hour or so because of it and have extremely disrupted sleep as well which is awful...sorry that was just me venting lol not relevant to you but all I wanted to say was please monitor how much you’re drinking and be very careful not to over do it. I use MyFitnessPal for the sole purpose of logging my water intake- it’s perfect.
I’m older than you are and I sure don’t “act my age”, whatever that means. Like you said, do what makes you happy. :)
40:57 "I just wanna be the best me possible".... says the person who doesn't want to take care of her body. Geez.
Not everything has to do with weight in this world. However, she is where she is at now and in the present moment she is wanting to be the "best me possible". She's obviously struggling and at least she is being positive and putting good intentions out there. There are a lot of people that would be in her situation that would be completely hopeless because of their victim mentality. She'll figure it out one day, but honestly it really isn't anyone's business. She isn't a weight loss channel. When someone is ready, they are ready because they are ready themselves, not because other people want them to be ready, She's working with a life coach and she is one medicine, she has a great relationship with her friends/family, she has two jobs, and remains a wonderful person regardless of her weight. That is a lot more than most people do in her situation.
For someone that puts herself out there on youtube, she knows that people are going to make comments. I didn't say a word about her weight or losing weight. I just would like to see her make more of an effort to love her body and give it the love it deserves...and yes that means "taking care of it" aka choosing to eat a little healthier at meals or maybe parking further from the door to walk an extra step or two. I find it interesting that you chose to comment on MY post. There are so many other nastier comments on here. I simply want Kandi to be thriving at ALL aspects of her life. That is awesome she has such a fulfilling life surrounded by friends and family.
I don’t think it was the fact you mentioned her body or anything, but the thing that might trigger someone is the “geez” you have to realize people read contexts in different ways so for some people you may seem helpful but to others it’s in a tone as if your offended or seem judgmental.. BTW I’m not saying you were rude I’m just saying that’s probably why some people could get defensive in a way..
Thank you for your channel, I wouldn't want to share weight loss either. I found you b/c of looking for Dia&Co boxes and I am thinking of sharing my boxes and try ons. I have been the same weight for the past 13 years and I get where you're coming from. You are brave and to others in this community, you're a hero. ignore haters. I don't normally comment on anything btw but seen all your dia and co unboxes and a few torrids! /hello
You brighten up my day. Thank you!
I love channels with variety. People are way to serious about niches. I watch all the things weight-loss, makeup, fashion, even familys (which I don't have) intellectual videos, hauls, just everything. It's fun to see multiple things people do, and like. Niches do help you supposedly grow faster though... Which is my dilemma.
Agreed
i love you!!!! Thank you for speaking about Cannabis and CBD Oil!!!
I know what you mean. I'm 32, no children, and have a pretty serious career in law. And I rock an assortment of Disney purses most days. And give no shits! Haha as long as I enjoy it..thats all that matters. Keep doing your own thing ♡
Yay I’ve missed your vlogs kandy! Hope you have a great weekend xoxo
Kandy you rock. I REALLY enjoy this volg because this is why I watch you and support sll you do because you tesl and honest and you are being real and I really enjoy you for you! Thank you for being so open and turthful!🌈🌈💮💛🌻💜🌺💚❣️🌼🌠
I thought the ‘make up while lit’ was really endearing and was just you with your barriers down! I liked it xx
The snow was awful! I live in Lynwood and was house bound for a week 😭😭 I also have a Jeep but live on a hill
It's interesting how people will look back on their youth with love, then bash you for still wanting to have fun like you did back then. You pay your bills, work a full time job, make adult decisions. Why does everyone have to relieve stress the same way? Does being an adult mean I can't have a capri sun and must have a long island iced tea?
The people who complain about you acting immature are fun suckers! You work 2 jobs and support yourself so who gives a damn if you have some fun? God, people will complain about anything! I'm subbed because I love your personality, I'll watch whatever you put out :)
There’s nothing wrong with a little weed, I’m lit right now! Goodnight!💤
If you like the Russian doll concept, pls read Seven Deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle! It’s an incredible novel and it’s pretty much the same concept
24 with over 300 of them childish figures
Trust me, no one cares.
@@AccessoriesAddict5528 some do
Sorry about your loss of your friend
You go girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You have Raynaud's Disease (@36:45)
Kat Tollefson 😨
@@kaputz8107 it's not serious really
She might have Raynaud’s phenomena. It usually comes with pain (it hurts me like hell to hold cold things) so I think it’s something she’d be aware of
If you DID make this a weight loss channel...you'd get even MORE hate. You'd think it's the opposite right? People would be like yay she's finally losing weight right?Nope! If you look at the comments on ALR, Foody Beauty and Trisha Paytas videos you'll see people say stuff like "Sure Jan you're delusional." Or like Oh well she still looks fat to me. No you're wasting your time that diet won't work for u. No you're not working out hard enough. Do keto....No do plant based! You're still eating too much, eat less. Eat NOTHING etc. This kind of discouragement confuses people and makes them quit the diet. Or worse...it makes them develope an eating disorder. Best thing to do for yourself is a weight loss journey OFF camera, off UA-cam away from the negativity, judgement and discouraging words. But that's up to you.
Facts! A lot of the People who watch weight loss channels use it as a way to abuse fat people since they can’t do it the way they want to in real life.
There is a reason that Amber and Chantal get so much hate, they're manipulative liars and all-around nasty people. As for Amber especially, how is it a weight-loss channel when she has managed to gain over 200 pounds since she began her channel?
@@darkprince56 I agree with u about Amber she sometimes seems like she's asking for it. But Chantal seems to really be trying and still people give her shit about it for example she isn't very mobile yet. But she is working out atleast, on a beginner level. And it's like that's not good enough for people. They expect her to be working out like a pro athlete I guess.
I hate that you feel like you have to justify smoking. Let her exist and live her life. Lighten up people!
*_I know right! Just focus on your own life. But its also UA-cam.... There are some weird people out there ⚆ _ ⚆_*
Even if you were to lose weight..they would still have something negative to say! I get it on my channel all the time! Some people will never be happy with you! You have to do things that make you happy! Love your channel
Everyone is going to do what they will do. Now, could I be with a man who was a gamer and who had figurines all over the place and all that, no. I wouldn't get past the cringing and the 100% lack of sexual attraction to him. LOL
Hi Kandy 🙋🏻. Listen , for years I have tried to be who others want me to be , and it has made my life a misery and a lie , I hardly know who I am anymore 🤷♀️❗️. Now I say FUCK it with a capital F , I am going to live the rest of my life being ME and if others don’t like it , well , tough ❗️❗️. I am not a prude in any shape or form , however I don’t like watching when you ( or anyone else ) has been drinking for purely personal reasons which I won’t go into here . I worry when you smoke pot because I know it does not mix well with antidepressants or mental health conditions in general . That being said you are an intelligent woman free to make her own choices , you do you boo ❗️Never change who you are Kandy , especially to please others , it never works. Just concentrate on living your best life and bring TRUE to yourself , that’s all any of us can do 🤷♀️❗️. Just touching on weight and weight loss , I would never advise anyone to embark on a public weight loss journey , you just open yourself to more criticism , more hate from hateful people . If I have learned anything from being on UA-cam it is how absolutely shitty some people are ❗️ Weight is just a number on a scale , it does not make one a good or a bad person . I am glad you have maintained a close friendship with Roger , however the spark you talk about ... does it ever last ⁉️. We are all madly in lust in the beginning then life kicks in . Personally I think friendship and mutual respect are more important than sparks , however it would be wonderful and amazing to keep BOTH ❗️ Personally I think it’s far better to be on one’s own than existing in a dead relationship out of habit and because it’s ‘easier’ that way . Anyway I’ve rambled on enough , God Bless you sweet lady , remember never stop being YOU 💕💕💕💕💕🌹. One more thing , my bedroom is full of fluffy toys , some I’ve had for years , some that my kids had when they were little . If people have a problem with that TOUGH ❗️❗️. They don’t have to sleep in there 🤣🤣❗️
What’s with the blur box?
I'm 42 and I collect unicorns Idk it's what I like
I don't think you're immature. In my opinion you enjoy your life, and some people with nasty comments are just jealous because you really do love your life. Collecting things is part of life, it doesn't matter if it's gaming toys, etc. I collect porcelain dolls, vases, my husband bought me this huge sloth, which I love so much. It's as long as my bed, and so wide loool, but I love it. I have teddy bears and I have a big stuffed pink bunny which I love to. I collect barbie dolls around the world, but anyway, it's what you like. Don't let these horrible comments about your weight, how you act, what you collect hurt you. Usually when people make snide, rude remarks they're usually unhappy with themselves, SO they think if they can hurt others it'll make them feel better. No worries love. We love your videos, and stories. Share with us whatever you want.
OMG so many good restaurants in Long Beach!
I think it’s awesome that you love video games and “geeky” things. I love that you’re so unapologetically you 😘
Girl, you shouldn’t have to conform to the norm!! I’m tired of all of the people who want to be catered. Let them go out and make the video they want to see!! As far as smoking, I have severe almost debilitating anxiety and I have to take edibles just to relax my mind!! Thank you for letting it out that it’s not just for teenagers!! Also I collect pop figures and LOVE loot Crate!!! Fuck the haters!!!!!!!! 😾 Stay true to who you are!!! 😻😻
Don't apologize.....do you boo
I like so much how you drive.
Be you. And you always. Much love babe 😍
I hate excerice too. Shame I don't have a friend to exercise with :(
Are you in Austin,Texas? I could be your exercise pal.
You should join a gym! Thats all weight problems being tired and then drinking alot of water you could be a diabetic. Im a diabetic myself type 2 NO NEEDLES LOTS OF EXERCISE N EAT HEALTHY. BY THE TIME YOUR 40 YOUR KNEES OR HIPS WILL GIVE OUT .
Wow. Can’t believe someone messaging Xavier.
Keep doing “YOU”! There is nothing wrong with the things you love at ANY age!
I hate talking about my weight because I always get unsolicited advice especially from skinny people!😡😢🙁👎 I love you and your channel, especially your try on hauls. I’ve gotten a lot of ideas from you. I have a friend on Facebook and she post a selfie everyday of herself at the gym and quite frankly it’s nauseating! All she ever talks about is her weight! I can totally relate to what your saying! Keep doing you boo! 😉👍❤️
Oh Kandy gurl open that sun shade in your car! you need all the light you can get in Washington, please open it up let the light in even in that rain
She's not an AmberLynn continually doing failed weightloss programs while still gaining . Shes made it clear that shes not a weight loss channel.
I am here so early. Love you Kandy!
Also you said in your video that thinking about weight loss would contribute to self harm, but isn't being this weight a form of self harm ? You're harming your body with the types of foods you're eating. You may not have any bad symptoms right now because you're still young but once you're older you're gonna see the effects of what you've done to your body if you don't change. Just admit to yourself that you care too much about food (and how it makes you feel in that instant) than actually taking care of your heart/and yourself. Food is pleasurable to you but at what point is pleasure more important than your health/body.
@Introvert Chip she said that if she was thinking about weight loss that it would trigger her self harm. I understand that weight loss might be a trigger for some people but she is already harming her body with a lot of food/ and disordered eating :(
She has BPD. BPD causes risky behavior like drug addiction, obesity, eating disorders, self harm. She is seeking treatment. But the reason why you do not understand is because it is a complex, extremely personal issue.
example; When someone quits smoking, they trade the addiction of smoking a cigarette to eating more (often, not all the time of course).
@@meeshg228 I have depression/anxiety and bipolar disorder. I also am struggling with a binge eating disorder that I am mostly recovered from. It is very hard but at some point she has to realize that she has to change her lifestyle for another lifestyle. It's better to choose recovery than to be stuck in the same cycle of unhealthy coping behaviors. Or choose healthier coping mechanisms for her bpd (that's what they teach you in therapy)
@@karinakeys Overeating is self harm for sure. Cutting is definitely a different beast. My little sister cut herself and she has almost died three times. I've witnessed it, and I would way rather have my sister be 500 pounds than cut herself, any day, no questions asked. When people cut, binge eat, or do any self harming behavior, you kinda of zone out. My sister cut herself when she zoned out so bad that she almost bled out. If Kandy knows that it is more dangerous for her (based on her own personal history) to try really hard to lose weight, its probably for a reason that is really serious. I totally understand what you're saying, but think there is a lot of deep rooted issues when you use food as a coping mechanism to get up to morbid obesity. I think Kandy is a strong woman and will get the help in time. I know there is nothing that I or anyone could say to make that change for her.
@@meeshg228 I am so, so sorry about your sister... I have only watched a few of Kandy's videos. (And I really like her!) Has she ever discussed what has led her to this weight? Any childhood trauma, etc.? I'm just curious.
That rain sounds so peaceful!!
I fall asleep to falling rain and storm loop videos lol love it
It did sound so nice.
Kandy I think you just need to admit to yourself that you're addicted to food, and maybe you're using it as an unhealthy coping mechanism. I love food and I eat chips and pizza sometimes bUT I'm around 135 lbs. There's nothing wrong with eating yummy food in moderation, and you need to figure out for what reasons youre overeating.
You've got the nail right on the head..
I'm overweight and have always used food as a comfort , because
I haven't had anyone to turn to in times of need and in my life, there's
only been me,so food for me has been like a crutch..But people
also turn to alcohol,smoking,etc,but with food it's worse,because
it's something you "have" to have on a daily basis..But I too believe
that until either the issues you're dealing with are shared or lessoned,
that crutch will always be learnt on.
I understand where you are coming from, but if you put your life on the internet people are going to make assumptions... right or wrong *shrug*
I hate safe spaces. If we don't talk about the hard issues, how will anything get better? Ignoring a problem doesn't make it go away.
Safe spaces are actually "dens of denial". Period.
@@coffeeandcrochetwithkelly1930 hahaha! That is cute!
Um, that's not what safe spaces are. Safe Spaces are places where someone who is trans, gay, bi, etc. can go in with confidence, fully being themselves and not have to fear harassments, bullying or worse; physical attacks. It's not about "talking about hard issues" hun.
@@zoilalulu3798 You are being condescending which instantly lessons the chances of who you are taking to actually listen open mindedly. Nothing says hey let's talk like instantly insulting the person.
I understand a place a peace where one doesn't have to explain themselves, however, I think safe spaces has become a crutch for people not to stand up for their beliefs. It is a I want it this way and I don't anyone to question why. So, like I said, safe spaces stop progress. They put an issue on pause, pretending a problem doesn't exist.
Someone was raped. Let's talk about it.
Someone feels persecuted for their appearance. Let's talk about.
Someone doesn't feel right in their skin? Tell me why? Let me ask questions.
Pretending differences between people don't exist is crazy. I believe there are differences between people and that is what makes us great. We are different, but equal.
But it is about the number on the scale. At your age your body will break down at an alarming rate.
Ok You need to lose weight. Admit it 🤷♀️ It's about life not about appearence 🙄
Lifeby jen is far from honest. If she was eating what she insists she would be a lot lot smaller. For being an adult you are childish by saying the more people that say you need to drop weight the more stubborn you get and a 400lb should be starving themselves. A 400lb person should be watching sweets/candy/snacks as should a average person and if a 400lb was watching what they ate they wouldnt be 400lbs.
@@tigertalks1567 totally
@giggles and hugs she also is signed up to monthly boxes but was begging for cash for a vet bill.
I basically don't like her continuing revolving ways to get "healthy". That alone tells me a lot about her willingness to get healthy and out of that wheelchair. She like Amberlynn can try every damn "new" concept of losing weight and finding themselves but it won't happen unless they get their head straight and priorities right oh and put in the hard hard work it actually takes to lose weight.
@giggles and hugs just saying....Dr Now would never suggest that to her and would tell her to get out of that death chair! I think Jen is beautiful and genuinely kind but sadly I don't think she has gotten IT
yet.Again, sadly I hope she does find it before it's too late. :( I wish nothing but the best for her. I've actually tried reaching out to her on f b and here within her comments but nothing. Oh well. :(
Pintsize, Jen is a master manipulator. Now, she doesn't need to accept your reaching out, but she's not a kind person like you think. If you listen past the baby voice, you'll see.
Kandy, you are falling prey to A LOT of logical fallacies when talking about weight loss. Saying that you don’t want to talk about weight loss because you don’t want to make your channel into a place where people bully others into being “skinny.” Allowing other people’s comments about your weight to be a justification for staying unhealthy ultimately only hurts you. You’ve acknowledged that you need to lose weight, but the denial is very strong as far as how severe your situation is. It’s not like you’re 175lbs and losing vanity weight to get from a size 10 to a size 6. You are super morbidly obese. Please, please take care of yourself - even if you don’t share it with UA-cam.
I'm 170 lbs and I'm perfectly fine 🤨
I am a US size 4-6 (UK 8-10). If I was a US 10 I would feel it was too big for me. I am five foot, four and have tiny shoulders and hands and feet etc. It's not vanity. I am just petite. I have a BMI of 19 so not under 18.5.
You have one life. Fill it with who and what makes you happy. I'm old enough to be your mother and I love chili dogs for breakfast, video games, board games, collecting old black n white movies and in 2 weeks going to a death metal concert (my idea) with my husband who is 17 years my junior. Who should care but me. Figure out what makes you happy and do it. No apologies and no explaining myself. This is my life I'm living not yours. 😉 💜💜💜
Hell yea love this
Your awesome ❤ I've learned this lifetime is about living how you choose and not giving a shit what other people think about it
"Do whatever you want" is not good advice to give to a morbidly obese person...
Which show are you going to???
The death metal group "Disturbed" in Detroit. Check out their rendition of Sounds of Silence from Conan -- it will blow your mind! --freakin' amazing. It's actually this Tuesday. omg I thought it was on the 12th. haha.. thanks for asking! ;)
Fine, don't lose weight 🙄🙄. Thank you,next!
I think a 45 minute video of complaining is 44 minutes too long
Lol
No shade you should do my 600 pound life. If you loose the weight you can also get excess skin removal! Your still young!
Mirian She’s already had bariatric surgery. It was a bypass. That’s pretty definite. I’ve had bariatric surgery - I could only get a vertical gastric sleeve due to all the damage my stage 4 endometriosis had done. Bypass is not a medically viable option for me.
Weight Loss Surgery is NO easy journey. Kandy does eat healthy - she even had bloods done (in her cooking videos) because having the surgery does bring to light food intolerances.
kaztheklutz no hate either why is she still so heavy if she eats healthy. And I’m not at all trying to be mean.
Mirian she has a medical condition which effects 1 in 10 women which makes it VERY hard to lose weight. I wasn’t being mean, nor was I implying you were mean, I was stating facts. I’ve been watching Kandy’s channel since the early days - and I figured out what she had. We are now friends because I asked her privately. I will not disclose her medical condition for her privacy.
Also March is Endometriosis Awareness Month. It’s also a disease that 1 in 10 women have, and I was misdiagnosed with Kandy’s medical condition for 2 years until I went for an IUD and the GYN discovered a large cyst on my ovary. 2 weeks later I went in for surgery and woke up 2.5 hours later having had laser excision surgery between my belly button and my reproductive organs. 17 years of pain, I had an answer. When I got my VSG, it got worse. That’s when it was discovered that my endometriosis was causing my weight gain... also doesn’t help that oestrogen is stored in fat. Then the meds I was given for it - put weight back ON. It’s very frustrating.
@@kaztheklutz I thought she had shared her diagnosis? I can remember at least one video about it but maybe there's something else that she hasn't shared. If it's what I'm thinking it does effect weight but not to such an extreme, especially after having a bypass. But again it's likely that I'm thinking of the wrong thing and I respect her privacy completely.
@@kaztheklutz a 400lb plus person does not eat healthy. Stop it now.
Why don't you vlog some of these activities instead of telling us about them.
Someone has mentioned 600 life and to be honest i think Kandy would be one of the lighter people would she apply for the show! However the wonderful Doctor Now would ask her one question, 'what are you doing to sustain this weight?' simply put if Kandy ate healthy the weight would drop off. We don't know what she eats because we only see the bits she cooks for us as a video but that's not real life. Yes it's her life but quality of life is what counts. Someone has to have that lightbulb moment when they just know there going to make a change. Unfortunately so many channels have fake dieters just to get subscribers, at least Kandy doesn't do this. I wonder if she had a zip down the front of her body she could undo and step out and be less than 200 pounds would she? I think so...... Its possible but she needs to make that choice
My 600lb life isn't as easy as you would think. She would have to move to Houston. Her family is way too important to her to leave them plus she had a job. A lot of the people on there do not. I applied to go on the show but I honestly don't have someone to move down there with me. They message me every season to see if I want to go on there and I feel bad I can't go.
LOL The obsession with that reality tv show is weird. Its like, see a fat person and think 600 Pound Life !
@@marieess3469 What are we supposed do, see a super duper morbidly obese person and think Baywatch???? 🤔
She had Gastric Bypass already in the past.
@@AmazinLadi88 0)lp8i8pp
I stopped following you on Facebook and UA-cam. I have complex disabilities and I have chosen to look at life positively. I have mental health issues and I find reframing my train of thoughts extremely helpful. I must admit you’re setting yourself up for failure and you’re not reaching high for personal success.
Best comment!
Let me guess, you're 450-500 lbs because of PCOS. Except...nothing about PCOS suggests that a sufferer could, would or should weigh anything near that. In fact, one of the major treatments for PCOS is weight loss.
And PCOS is often caused by obesity.
Lol. Didn't realize docs offer free advice on videos.
I have PCOS. Metformin and low carb diet works. You have to get your kidneys checked, but other than that it's easy to do. I lost 30 lbs in the first month.
@@TheAngelicae1 lame!
It’s possible to lose hundreds of pounds with PCOS. That’s not a reason to be morbidly obese.
Kandy I am one of those who choose not to watch you when you are "high" or "drunk" but that doesn't mean that I won't continue to watch your other content. I personally don't find it amusing and in fact, it makes me uncomfortable. However, I am not one to say someone else can't do it, but for me, I just chose not to watch because it is not my thing. Far as gaming,, girl I am 47 years old and we are huge gamers in my house so, I would watch those :)
I dont mind watching people when high (on cannabis) but I certainly do not watch people when they're drunk or drinking alcohol. That isn't my cup of tea. I really cant stand people who drink.
Same! I love her normal videos and gaming content, but I avoid anything (from any youtuber) where they’re high or drinking. Makes me very uncomfortable, I can’t stand drunk people. But I just pass over it and watch the next video, it’s not a big deal!
@Lady GooGoo um because I wanted to,, not sure I owe you any reasoning whatsoever, but basically because I wanted to,, don't turn this into a thing, I like Kandy, I will continue to watch Kandy in non "drunk" and non "high" videos. So there you go, nothing to get worked up over or to create drama, all comes down to, because I wanted to. Have a blessed day :)
Life by Jen? Honesty? Am I in a parallel universe?🤔 and Kandy...if you are here on the internet...I am afraid you have to deal with all kinds of people...people see a tiny slice of your life...but they also see you...and they make presumptions based on what they see....they see you panting and dry heaving trying on clothes...they see you excited when a try on video begins and terribly disappointed by the end of it...they see you making huge calorific meals and presume you will be eating....talking and hearing about weight loss harms you but so does putting 440 pounds on your heart...it is what it is...sorry if it was too much truth.
I love your wit, your charm and you make me giggle. Just don't slip into ALR's world where because of her weight she has slipped into major health problems. I love your channel because you do you. I appreciate that. ❤
Your best friend is in a depression and you bring her to a funeral? I mean, to each their own lol
Celebration of life
I have depression and when my friends need me for support, I am always there for them. Depression doesn’t make me selfish, it makes me more empathic of what other people are going through. Not much makes me happier than helping a close friend get through their personal adversities.
You should do some ghost videos like visiting haunted places near you and telling about any experiences you’ve had with the paranormal! Would watch the s**t out of that.
I love anything paranormal.
Awesome idea, that would be so much fun!! I always hear creepy things about the PNW.