why does God love me like this?. every time I am contemplating to leave the path He has shown me, He leads some one, somewhere ,some how to encourage me . God bless you Pastor !
This is an amazing series. I had briefly dated the guy who introduced me to my husband. I'm so happy there was no sex involved. He is still a good friend of my husband and we see him and his family regularly cos we both relocated to the same city in Canada and even attend the same church. Since we never slept with each other, I can hold my head up confidently even though we dated before. Young ladies, it pays to keep your relationships pure.
You just explained what young girls feel as teenagers and young adults. In my experience, I just needed to be loved by a boy as a young teenager. I had a very loving family but puberty came with its own challenges. Am glad that i kept myself despite my internal struggles cos my parents made us understand the importance of putting values on ourselves. God rest thief soul. I am glad I found this Chanel.
Pastor, you are a great gift to this generation, sex education (especially controlling sex urges) is something parents need to educate their children before puberty.
This is true. Many factors come into play when sex is involved outside marriage. The guilt, the fear of pregnancy or STIs, the anxiety of performance, the frequency of sex, etc. These factors can make the process awkward especially for Christians.
With this great talks I wonder if that 27 people that 👎 thumbs down are normal at all cause this topic is suppose to get 1 million likes... ❤️❤️❤️Much love from Dubai
Good to see a message like this delivered with wisdom. One inference from the message is that sexual satisfaction is a result of living a life of sexual purity before marriage. Many Christian homes are going through a lot of challenges today because of the lack of sexual purity before marriage and in addition the lack of genuine repentance and forgiveness. This reminds of a man of God based in London, UK, that I know very much (and to the best of my knowledge never entered into any relationship) who is only interested to go into a relationship with a woman who has been living a true life of holiness, purity and worshiping God in all ramifications.
Thank you pastor Kingsley for this...exactly what I want to hear now. Sexual compatibility is to be developed not discovered. Was almost losing my mind bcos I keep hearing from guys I date about discovering wen we aren't even married. I pray God grace to continue strengthening me..is not easy
Pastor this is a block buster teaching. The revelation is very fresh and deep from God. I am truly blessed and enlightened by it. There is wisdom for victory that has been released to me by this teaching. I will need the book.
It’s just how PK’s analogies always bring to live what he’s explaining 💯 ‘Cos that car analogy was just accurate in driving home the point. Thank you sir
Thankyou sir for your plain insight. I have been raised by a single parent and she has never been courageous to talk to us about these things. I have now found the right well to draw from. God bless you
I just remembered when Khafi of Big brother Naija nearly lost her police job for sexually on TV . Thanks alot, this is sooo encouraging for me ,at least I can still keep holding on
The statement at 21:40 is actually filmed in an American Gospel movie - COURAGEOUS. Which I agree with and it's more of a reality which most of us don't want to agree with P.S you'd love the movie if you try it out 🤗
Mr. Kinglsey I need you to have an episode addressing the issue on polygamy. It is becoming an issue with different views. One man even quoted in Kings that David when he was sick was given a virgin to sleep with How many agree for an episode like that??
This can only be issues with someone who is not born again and also people who know the truth but want to fulfill the desires of their lusts. Too many dangers when you have more than one sexual partner. God hates it.
@@folushoadeniyi are you sure this is not just what you think or from your personal experience. Do you have scriptural backing that God hates polygamy.? Some people have grown up in happy polygamous homes.
Much appreciated Pastor. I have learnt a lot from your teachings, though am not always good at commenting on videos that I watch but I always like your videos BC it have been a source of inspiration and knowledge to me. May the grace of God continue to abide with you so that you may teach us more. Amen and Thanks Sir.
Will there be a part 3 sir? I have been blessed by these messages. Although I just started watching your videos, I love you sincerely thank you for these timely message.
@@KingsleyOkonkwo sir please also address the issue of people living with women dey are not married to as there wife, for example, two people are dating and having sex, so along the line they had an unwanted pregnancy, then they begin to live together as husband and wife, and having more. children , without being. properly married . Thank you. Sir,
I learned so much from all your messages that I have listened to, especially this almost generally avoided topic. Keep giving it to us as GOD is giving it to you.
ZYou are such an amazing Pastor. I wish younger ladies can follow this strictly. He is speaking the mind of God for this generation. God is waiting for as many that will take this right steps. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Pastor K, you are a blessing to this generation.
Sex does hurt someone.I was sexually abused by my uncle at my Early teenage age (13)and that made me live in fear of men all my life am 23 years old now and I can't find myself dating any man.
Pastor K you're a blessing to our generation am really learning a lot sir this is the truth that I didn't know of and iam glad I have had this chance to listen to this God bless you sir
Thank you for the word,and I thank God for keeping me till now because it as not being easy but God made it possible.i will be 22years old on 30th April still a virgin even when they were time thought of giving up but Gods .I think it's also because of my prayers I member telling God in my prayers to keep me to him self and to direct me in is way because on my own I can't in this generation.when I was 20year everyone near to me discussed of not being in a relationship so I tried to give someone a chance he ended up disappointing me because I never gave him sex but I now know that God as being hearing to my prayers
Just Chimmey Sex results in bond and that is same as marriage. There is nothing like "sex outside marriage " because sex itself is marriage in spiritual terms. The moment you have sex with someone,you have spiritually married the person. Spiritually, the first person you slept with or had sex with becomes your wife or husband. With reference from Genesis 24:67 "Isaac brought her into the tent of his mother Sarah, and he married Rebekah. So she became his wife, and he loved her; and Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death. Genesis 24:67 NIV Isaac MARRIED Rebecca meaning he had sex with Rebecca in his mother's tent. Sex is Marriage. Again, we see the discussion between Jesus and the samaritan woman in John 4:16-18. In her thinking, she taught she was single but Jesus referred to all the five men she had slept with as husbands. Unfortunately, we don't get teachings like this at our early stages in life. Before I got baptized and settled down with my current wife,I realised I have married many women spiritually through physical sex but thanks to Christ that I became a New creation the moment I accepted Him.
pastor, I love your message. Please can we correct a mistake that was made in a relationship that we committed to getting married but unfortunately, we had sex and decided to separate because it wasn't a good foundation?. we don't want to build our relationship on a wrong foundation. we are now separated so that God should be the center of our marriage. what can we do to grow from here though we are separated? please help advice
why does God love me like this?. every time I am contemplating to leave the path He has shown me, He leads some one, somewhere ,some how to encourage me . God bless you Pastor !
This is me
Same here
Same here, thank God for that
God is faithful He knows his own
Who is proud to be a virgin?
I am
Iam proud to be celibate
Here
This year has been not easy for me ,but Praise God
@@LifeOfAnOvercomer God got you 🥰
This is an amazing series. I had briefly dated the guy who introduced me to my husband. I'm so happy there was no sex involved. He is still a good friend of my husband and we see him and his family regularly cos we both relocated to the same city in Canada and even attend the same church. Since we never slept with each other, I can hold my head up confidently even though we dated before. Young ladies, it pays to keep your relationships pure.
Indeed ... Chaai it would've been a serious disaster .. If you had slept with him
Wow! That’s an experience. You all must be intelligent people to effectively manage the relationship till date
Real sexual compatibility is developed not discovered 👏👏👏👏👏
Sure
True
Nice
Yes as love grows.
You just explained what young girls feel as teenagers and young adults. In my experience, I just needed to be loved by a boy as a young teenager. I had a very loving family but puberty came with its own challenges. Am glad that i kept myself despite my internal struggles cos my parents made us understand the importance of putting values on ourselves. God rest thief soul. I am glad I found this Chanel.
Pastor, you are a great gift to this generation, sex education (especially controlling sex urges) is something parents need to educate their children before puberty.
Exacly
Very true
i agree
I always want to get married anytime I listen to Pk so I can practice what I learn 😥
Same here
I have been listening to him for more than 10 years
Funny u
Say no more!!
🥰🥰🥰🥰 awwwww you
@@abimbolaanunike 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is true. Many factors come into play when sex is involved outside marriage. The guilt, the fear of pregnancy or STIs, the anxiety of performance, the frequency of sex, etc. These factors can make the process awkward especially for Christians.
The main challenge is the spiritual ish
Edith P how do you mean?
How I wish I heard this before I became an adult. Thank God am hearing it now by God's grace my children won't make same mistake I made.
I'm really enjoying this. Thank you so much for this PK. Biko I'm not for test-running, my quality is even higher than a Ferrari 🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️
This message is too deep..bursts my brain mehn. I'm passing this video on to as many as I can. This generation and the coming one needs help.
With this great talks I wonder if that 27 people that 👎 thumbs down are normal at all cause this topic is suppose to get 1 million likes... ❤️❤️❤️Much love from Dubai
I hope all singles can watch and learn, so we can have a better generation.
More anointing sir.
Beautiful message. Love from Ghana🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭
Wish I had such teachings at my teenage stage
Good to see a message like this delivered with wisdom. One inference from the message is that sexual satisfaction is a result of living a life of sexual purity before marriage. Many Christian homes are going through a lot of challenges today because of the lack of sexual purity before marriage and in addition the lack of genuine repentance and forgiveness. This reminds of a man of God based in London, UK, that I know very much (and to the best of my knowledge never entered into any relationship) who is only interested to go into a relationship with a woman who has been living a true life of holiness, purity and worshiping God in all ramifications.
Thank you pastor Kingsley for this...exactly what I want to hear now. Sexual compatibility is to be developed not discovered. Was almost losing my mind bcos I keep hearing from guys I date about discovering wen we aren't even married. I pray God grace to continue strengthening me..is not easy
Single mothers you are powerful. God will bless you with wonderful husbands .. hold firm till the end 🙏
Ameen
In Jesus Name Amen 🙏🤝🙌✨😀
Amen
Amen
amennn needed this thankyou sir🙏🏾❤️🔥
This is a lecture of great value.💪
Sure
Pastor this is a block buster teaching. The revelation is very fresh and deep from God. I am truly blessed and enlightened by it. There is wisdom for victory that has been released to me by this teaching. I will need the book.
It’s just how PK’s analogies always bring to live what he’s explaining 💯
‘Cos that car analogy was just accurate in driving home the point. Thank you sir
People are getting hurt...I'm hurt but thank God for healing me all these while. Thank you Pastor Kingsley for these insightful teachings
The statement "how can i buy a car without test driving it" is so derogatory to use for a human being
Thank you Pastor K, will share with my 3 teenage boys. As starting point for awkward discussions.
Good father❤️
Thankyou sir for your plain insight. I have been raised by a single parent and she has never been courageous to talk to us about these things. I have now found the right well to draw from. God bless you
Thank you very much sir.. The part one and the part two of this message really blessed me. God bless you and your family so much
amen, part 3 coming soon
I just remembered when Khafi of Big brother Naija nearly lost her police job for sexually on TV .
Thanks alot, this is sooo encouraging for me ,at least I can still keep holding on
The statement at 21:40 is actually filmed in an American Gospel movie - COURAGEOUS.
Which I agree with and it's more of a reality which most of us don't want to agree with
P.S you'd love the movie if you try it out 🤗
Mr. Kinglsey I need you to have an episode addressing the issue on polygamy. It is becoming an issue with different views. One man even quoted in Kings that David when he was sick was given a virgin to sleep with How many agree for an episode like that??
We have a new covenant now. Believe wat the bible say not wat people say.
David was given a virgin to give him warmth and they never had sex with the woman... Read the scripture by yourself you will understand
This can only be issues with someone who is not born again and also people who know the truth but want to fulfill the desires of their lusts.
Too many dangers when you have more than one sexual partner.
God hates it.
@@precioussunya3809 what does a warmth with a woman means
@@folushoadeniyi are you sure this is not just what you think or from your personal experience. Do you have scriptural backing that God hates polygamy.? Some people have grown up in happy polygamous homes.
Much appreciated Pastor. I have learnt a lot from your teachings, though am not always good at commenting on videos that I watch but I always like your videos BC it have been a source of inspiration and knowledge to me. May the grace of God continue to abide with you so that you may teach us more. Amen and Thanks Sir.
More grace Pastor K. You're a blessing to me. God bless you, Sir.
Sir this is really needful in this generation.thank you🙏
Where were you 6, 8 and 10 years ago? Thank you for this it needs to be shared...it needs to be heard. God bless you pastor 🙏🏾.
All I need now is just to be listening to you to become a more better person for myself... God bless u so much
Will there be a part 3 sir?
I have been blessed by these messages.
Although I just started watching your videos, I love you sincerely thank you for these timely message.
yes, there will be.
Thank you
@@KingsleyOkonkwo sir please also address the issue of people living with women dey are not married to as there wife, for example, two people are dating and having sex, so along the line they had an unwanted pregnancy, then they begin to live together as husband and wife, and having more. children , without being. properly married . Thank you. Sir,
We are waiting patiently
God bless you PK. More anointing more grace in Jesus name Amen.
God bless you sir...I'm surprise to hear this
Should i say I'm a victim.. I think I need help
God pls have mercy on me
Thank you so much PK. Your materials keep blessing and changing lives. I'm eagerly looking forward to part 3🤗. Love you Sir!
Other than the content, I absolutely LOVE the quality of the overall production of this content. Kudos to the production team!
Thank you Pastor Sir for these enlightenment. So inspiring to know what people hasn't told me about sex.
U are correct in everything u say sir
I learned so much from all your messages that I have listened to, especially this almost generally avoided topic. Keep giving it to us as GOD is giving it to you.
I really enjoyed the message. Very meaningful and apt for these times we are in.
God bless you so much Pastor K. This came at a time I needed it. God bless you for the knowledge you fill us up with
Your videos are so inspirational, educative and practical. You are a blessing to me Pastor.
I have been waiting for the part two. I'm so expectant of what God has to share.
This is enlightening my perspective on morals of a God fearing woman, and as a single parent, I'll be sure to educate my kids.
Our separation hurts but we believe its the best thing to do for God to step in
ZYou are such an amazing Pastor. I wish younger ladies can follow this strictly. He is speaking the mind of God for this generation. God is waiting for as many that will take this right steps. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Pastor K, you are a blessing to this generation.
I needed this reminder and encouragement. Thank you sir!
Preach it, Pastor. I love this message. More grace to you.
God bless you, I did watch part 1, interesting topic. Love your teaching hope people (young ladies and men will learned from your teaching)
You are a good and great man for speaking the truth these churches are suppose to preach like this to their members
Yes it's very sad that most churches don't talk about it.
Thank you so much Pastor for this message. I pray it goes very far. Many young people need to hear it.
Amen, and yes they need to
Thankyou pastor sir for this knowledge
WoW! People get hurt indeed. I'm eye opened now! Thank you so much for the wisdom.
Sex does hurt someone.I was sexually abused by my uncle at my Early teenage age (13)and that made me live in fear of men all my life am 23 years old now and I can't find myself dating any man.
Thank you for the words of wisdom and encouragement sir. God bless you.
Wow... thumb up for this pastor, you are really going a great job, may the Lord continue to bless you.
I'm happy today because I have finally found answers to my questions and ignorance .....pastor may ur knowledge and inspirations never dries
Pastor K you're a blessing to our generation am really learning a lot sir this is the truth that I didn't know of and iam glad I have had this chance to listen to this God bless you sir
This video is loaded.
Its a blessing to have Pastor K.
The aroma of these teachings are great for me,l thank God for you
I'm encouraged.
God bless you brother..lots of love from tanzania...
Thank you so much man of God am so moved by your teachings. God bless for the knowledge you are you are impacting in world.
Thank you Pastor Kingsley. God bless you for your teachings and knowledge you impact unto many.🙏
We enjoy every bits of ur teachings
Great value.
Thank you Dearest PK.
May your well of knowledge never run dry!
Anticipating part 3. 😊
I'm learning to value my self. Purity above sin.
Thank you for the word,and I thank God for keeping me till now because it as not being easy but God made it possible.i will be 22years old on 30th April still a virgin even when they were time thought of giving up but Gods .I think it's also because of my prayers I member telling God in my prayers to keep me to him self and to direct me in is way because on my own I can't in this generation.when I was 20year everyone near to me discussed of not being in a relationship so I tried to give someone a chance he ended up disappointing me because I never gave him sex but I now know that God as being hearing to my prayers
Thank you pastor.
Pastor please if masturbation and sex before marriage is bad, what can we do to overcome the urge when its comes?
You need deliverance via thy precious blood of Christ.
Part one brought me here... After here, I am going to part three. Thank you so much. I know this is one year ago, I wish I could ask you question.
God bless you so much pastor , I believe that God will never leave my way..
This video has taught me a lot.God richly bless you 🙏🏽
Very right. I always love your point of veiw. God bless you much jare
Thank you so much for this message Sir. Very timely and apt. May God continue blessing you and giving you more insight
Sir,God bless u for always making me see the truth
God bless you so much, Pastor Kingsley. I'm blessed greatly
This series is so insightful and true! God bless your ministry Pastor Kingsley. 🙏🏽
God bless you sir for this....
Just Chimmey
Sex results in bond and that is same as marriage. There is nothing like "sex outside marriage " because sex itself is marriage in spiritual terms. The moment you have sex with someone,you have spiritually married the person. Spiritually, the first person you slept with or had sex with becomes your wife or husband. With reference from Genesis 24:67 "Isaac brought her into the tent of his mother Sarah, and he married Rebekah. So she became his wife, and he loved her; and Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death.
Genesis 24:67 NIV
Isaac MARRIED Rebecca meaning he had sex with Rebecca in his mother's tent. Sex is Marriage.
Again, we see the discussion between Jesus and the samaritan woman in John 4:16-18. In her thinking, she taught she was single but Jesus referred to all the five men she had slept with as husbands. Unfortunately, we don't get teachings like this at our early stages in life. Before I got baptized and settled down with my current wife,I realised I have married many women spiritually through physical sex but thanks to Christ that I became a New creation the moment I accepted Him.
Am super blessed , sir am so grateful thank you so much please more of this kind.
Thank you Sir for this message. It's blessing me right now, May God help us to set our standard and know we are valued by God.
pastor, I love your message. Please can we correct a mistake that was made in a relationship that we committed to getting married but unfortunately, we had sex and decided to separate because it wasn't a good foundation?. we don't want to build our relationship on a wrong foundation. we are now separated so that God should be the center of our marriage. what can we do to grow from here though we are separated? please help advice
God bless you sir. Your teachings are true and evergreen. More wisdom to you. 👍
Its real a teaching of great value....u nailed every point ..Pastor..thanks
We thank God for you Pastor Kingsley
Wow👏👏👏👌 I love ur teachings.
Am happy I wasn't tested till.....
Thanks so much sir! You are blessing to my generation. More grace and wisdom 🙏
Interesting message...I'm in my early 20s,how I wish I got this teaching when I was much younger 😞
God make me new again.. My life has been wasted....
God Bless You so Much Pastor sir ...
I love ur massages pastor u are the best God bless you
This is so opening and educative,, I love this
Great teaching, thank you PK
it's here, was waiting for this.
Great lesson. I learnt so much. Thank u sir. Remain blessed
I love your messages. They are always on point.
This is actually very funny. I was laughing all through.