The beauty of a wife is defined by the perception of the husband about her appearance. Sometimes, people define beauty by their fantasies; whereas, beauty remains a subjective concept. Character sustains a man’s perception of his wife’s beauty. Thank you PST Kingsley.
Thank you Pastor Sir. Though am a lady, I've learned a lot. I have a request. It'd be helpful also to have messages for single moms & dads who made mistakes before and want to have a fresh Godly start in a meaningful relationship. Thanks in advance🙂
1. Choosing beauty over character. It’s not bad but shouldn’t be the primary reason for choosing her. Make a list of qualities you find attractive and look for dating when dating. 2. Not learning about relationships. Men naturally gravitate towards work or recreational activities. Start learning about relationships. Get a mentor. Read book, attend conferences. Watch videos and podcast on relationships. Observe the women around you. Where you invest is where you harvest. 3. Not managing their sexuality. Self control is important just because you can sleep around doesn’t mean you should. Abstinence, Celibacy and chastity isn’t only for women. Casual sex always have casualties.
My eyes are opening now. True some guys do not invest in knowing about relationships, they just dive into relationship and end up breaking their partner ignorantly. Praise God that I didn't get married before hearing this. NOw I'm more than ready .
Thank you pastor Kingsley for this video. I'm still single but not searching,February is my month of studying only on love and relationship and I've been broaden on this topic. Thank you sir I'm passionate about growing and learning and you have been a true mentor ......
Thanks so much for this very inspiring message. I just realized that I have struggled in relationships because I have never invested in it even though I have invested millions of naira in other areas of human endeavors
I am really blessed with more insights on how to pray for my young adult sons, how to guide other youth in church because my husband and i are involved in several youth's lives. am also being taught to correct issues in my life e.g. study the word more .thank you so much
7mistakes single men make 1.choosing beauty over character _make a list of qualities you want 2.Not learning about relationships _Men are emotional most in work/recreational activities _Where you invest is where you harvest _the fist man didn't fail at work but at family _start learning about relationships _Get a mentors _pay attention to all ladies around you.. how they think, learn 3.not managing your sexuality _men have strong sexual drive _self control is important _casual sex always has casualties _make a list of reasons you need self control _build up your character and determination (prayer,read the word) _always put clear boundaries
This goes both ways sir.... We are need these ... I'll be 40 by next month and single... guess what the fine boy looks is not passing the first phase for me if that's all you've got then I'm sorry we can't be... Pastor K quick question... what's your thoughts on younger men marrying older ladies, and what's God's thought on this issue... Currently I've got them in equal proportion trying to catch my attention...just one thing is lacking their personal relationship with God is missing or not so clear to me...I'm talking about both church guys and those not too churchy ...it's very key for me cause I don't want to be the one training my husband about the things of God... Let him know God for himself and have his personal testimonies about it....
You seem to have answered your own question. The issue is their spiritual lives not their age. If you are the one teaching him spiritual things mostly, you won't respect him even if he's older. Age doesn't matter.
Age does not matter when you love someone.. you just have to go for it and pray for God to take control over everything age is just a number when you love someone beautiful.
Sometimes age gaps pose a challenge but it’s workable..It will take humility and understanding on the lady’s part to submit to a guy she’s older than... Secondly, never marry anyone who isn’t saved and is lacking a relationship with the Holyspirit...They might not a working knowledge of God like you do, but by the love of God in their heart, there will be transformation...
Good morning pastor Thank yousir, talking about the physical appearance of a lady you want married, making the choice is it reasonable to consider the height of the Lady when you want to get married? Thank you sir
Pastor K Thanks For these Much Wisdom Shared Sir.Its Always Great Listening To You... BUT PLS LET YOUR EDITOR CHECK THE AD SOUND NEXT TIME,ITS TOO LOUD IN ALL YOUR VIDEOS..Hope This Will Be Corrected From Now On 🙏I APPRECIATE YOUR WORK❤
@@arseven3137 Yes, it is. Scares and scars are two different things. If it was a mistake, it has been corrected and the correction well taken by the commenter.
This is the video I'm been working for... I have watched the single ladies. Thank you so much my online mentor. Please 4and7.. Am still waiting for that to complete my day! Lots of love PST K
ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP Is not necessarily a criteria biblically, I think that westernization is what brought about that. Our parents did not do much of ROMANCE but they did well in marriage.
Doing well in marriage, like staying with someone due to the fear of being called a failure, suffering and smiling at the same time, when your duty as a wife is streamlined to cook, bear as much children as you can so they can join him in the farm...?
@@chinonuwuchegbule5193 you went far back in time, my mother never had such experience and i didn't observe other couples even till this day, having issues because the husband didn't do any ROMANTIC gestures, it's more about your values and upbringing that will help you keep your marriage. I even observe my married sisters today, they have been married for close to eight years now, yet no such thing as ROMANCE With their husbands. Don't get me wrong, i like romance, but i don't accept that it's a prerequisite for a life time of relationship and responsibility called marriage. As a mature Christian woman, such "extras" should not be a bother.
@@cloyettegrant3889 I'm not even talking about marriage that is guided by African mentality, no no no, i even observe situations where husbands do things that, in African notion is strictly for the wife.
hellow, apart from video, please check the book that women and man are coming from different planet. it will enables you to know women better. thanks to Rev. Kingsley for such a great lesson. be blessed.
"Casual sex brings casualitie" powerful message.
My son, forget not my law; but let thine heart keep my commandments:
Where you invest is where you harvest 👌
The beauty of a wife is defined by the perception of the husband about her appearance. Sometimes, people define beauty by their fantasies; whereas, beauty remains a subjective concept. Character sustains a man’s perception of his wife’s beauty. Thank you PST Kingsley.
its true Sir i had to send this one to my boyfriend .... am sure he will see this comment as he watches lol thank you PK Sir
Thank you Pastor Sir. Though am a lady, I've learned a lot. I have a request. It'd be helpful also to have messages for single moms & dads who made mistakes before and want to have a fresh Godly start in a meaningful relationship. Thanks in advance🙂
Wow dats a really good idea sis...we tend to neglect dat aspect but we all need help and counselling...God bless you🙏
An absolutely great idea,everyone from every walk of life,every circumstance, needs advise and guidance.
Same here o. Thanks for this question
@@mailije 😂🤣🤣
@@mailije lol... sister no vex, pipe low... all in all I am interested in knowing you, if u don't mind.
Im happy im learning this while still single...and clean from sexual encounter with any lady..thank you so much....
Really wow? How old are you?
@@therealone8628 24yrs
May God bless. You clearly are a man of character
@@kathrynmcauley4808 Hello! how are you?
Hmmmmmm... keep it up.
Pastor K, I tell u from my heart; ur generations unborn are already blessed by GOD. Ur doing the work of GOD -- healing the world.
----susan Nwanyioma
PastorK has been mentoring me since 2018 through his videos and books. Your knowledge and wisdom is too much sir. God bless you more.
Are you now married
@@stepup6178 so that if not, we can apply.
1. Choosing beauty over character. It’s not bad but shouldn’t be the primary reason for choosing her. Make a list of qualities you find attractive and look for dating when dating.
2. Not learning about relationships. Men naturally gravitate towards work or recreational activities. Start learning about relationships. Get a mentor. Read book, attend conferences. Watch videos and podcast on relationships. Observe the women around you. Where you invest is where you harvest.
3. Not managing their sexuality. Self control is important just because you can sleep around doesn’t mean you should. Abstinence, Celibacy and chastity isn’t only for women. Casual sex always have casualties.
Whenever it's Pastor Kay am very happy I've learnt alot from him my relationship goes sweet all day.
Tanx pastor
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Learning all the way in Botswana 🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼
I am a lady but I was blessed by this! God bless you Pastor.
the same here sister. please check his wife's version for women if you havent yet sister.
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Thank you so much Sir. God bless you sir 🙇🏾♂️🙇🏾♂️🙇🏾♂️
Thanks a lot pastor. More grace.
My eyes are opening now.
True some guys do not invest in knowing about relationships, they just dive into relationship and end up breaking their partner ignorantly.
Praise God that I didn't get married before hearing this.
NOw I'm more than ready .
You're very intelligent Man of God. Kudos you're really great
I've never regretted subscribing to this channel. Such a great impact you make on my life every video you share #wisdom #God bless you sir.
Thank you pastor Kingsley for this video. I'm still single but not searching,February is my month of studying only on love and relationship and I've been broaden on this topic. Thank you sir I'm passionate about growing and learning and you have been a true mentor ......
Wow what a wonderful teaching message by Rev kingsley okonkwo more grace more wisdom and knowledge sir
I just watched this now and I don't regret it. Thank you sir.
I can't wait to listen to what my mentor have to offer.
Thank you PK
You are very wise Pastor King. I am so happy you're tackling real life issues with spiritual knowledge amd wisdom that is applicable and very fun.
Thanks so much for this very inspiring message. I just realized that I have struggled in relationships because I have never invested in it even though I have invested millions of naira in other areas of human endeavors
Am a lady but this message is so on point💥...It cuts across everywhere..God bless you Sir🙏
hallelujah hallelujah sister
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You have to look What's In the inside Guys. Beauty has got to be in the inside and outside. Inner Beauty is most important Guys.
More wisdom sir, God bless u, am learning a lot from u
I'm so bless and encourage to go into relationship .
Thank you for this video Pastor. Men are too lazy in learning their women and vice versa. They want to love their partner as they receive love.
Reason for abstinence:
It's a sin and sin is grievous in the sight of God. Sin has the capacity to destroy
Such a blessing. There’s always something to learn oo
But the way we are been pressured to think Money and prosperity is everything we need as men. It's obvious in the society. It's not easy to overlook.
I love your personality, your advice means a lot, nice meeting you?
I've learnt so many things, I didn't know
God bless you sir
Thank you so much for this wonderful message at this time. May the Lord bless your ministry and strengthen you always.
I am really blessed with more insights on how to pray for my young adult sons, how to guide other youth in church because my husband and i are involved in several youth's lives. am also being taught to correct issues in my life e.g. study the word more .thank you so much
Wow W:h:at:s:A:p:p..Me +1 :8:7:8:2:2:6:2:5:0:7
@@yallianamelia634 really... issokay
Awesomeness
I'm glad I found your channel! Let my soul be blessed wu hoo!
Thanks a lot pk sir. You are always watering my marriage with your books,and videos.
Best mentor ever, more blessings to u sir
I love this Pastor, wish you come to ph too to organize some stuffs on marriage.
“Men are moved by what they see”
1. Committed
2. Dependable
3. Trustworthy
Thanks so much
Happy to hear this. Thank you pastor K
I enjoyed this message. More Grace pastor K
Thanks so much sir, am blessed
Thank you Pastor K for this video.
Guilty of not learning about relationships, but only learning about other things. Work, work, work and it's beginning to tell on me.
I am so glued to Pastors messages. They are eye opening
Oil dey your head sir, God bless you richly sir
How to know if a man loves you genuinely ?
This is awesome. God bless you, sir. Many thanks.
Great on pastor
God bless
Awesome!
7mistakes single men make
1.choosing beauty over character
_make a list of qualities you want
2.Not learning about relationships
_Men are emotional most in work/recreational activities
_Where you invest is where you harvest
_the fist man didn't fail at work but at family
_start learning about relationships
_Get a mentors
_pay attention to all ladies around you.. how they think, learn
3.not managing your sexuality
_men have strong sexual drive
_self control is important
_casual sex always has casualties
_make a list of reasons you need self control
_build up your character and determination (prayer,read the word)
_always put clear boundaries
Wow so much inspire. God help me to be humble to everybody specially to you God
Look beyond physical. ❤🗣💨
This goes both ways sir.... We are need these ... I'll be 40 by next month and single... guess what the fine boy looks is not passing the first phase for me if that's all you've got then I'm sorry we can't be...
Pastor K quick question... what's your thoughts on younger men marrying older ladies, and what's God's thought on this issue... Currently I've got them in equal proportion trying to catch my attention...just one thing is lacking their personal relationship with God is missing or not so clear to me...I'm talking about both church guys and those not too churchy ...it's very key for me cause I don't want to be the one training my husband about the things of God... Let him know God for himself and have his personal testimonies about it....
You seem to have answered your own question.
The issue is their spiritual lives not their age.
If you are the one teaching him spiritual things mostly, you won't respect him even if he's older.
Age doesn't matter.
Age does not matter when you love someone.. you just have to go for it and pray for God to take control over everything age is just a number when you love someone beautiful.
Sometimes age gaps pose a challenge but it’s workable..It will take humility and understanding on the lady’s part to submit to a guy she’s older than...
Secondly, never marry anyone who isn’t saved and is lacking a relationship with the Holyspirit...They might not a working knowledge of God like you do, but by the love of God in their heart, there will be transformation...
Powerful teachings God bless you sir 🙏❤❤
Thanks so much pastor k for your mentorship, it has been of a great help to me. I am learning a lot
Thank you and diggin the Formula 1 threads 💯
Have been waiting for the men part 👏👏
Beauty is skin deep.
God bless u pastor am a beneficiary of ur ministry
Wonderful Man Of God.
You are awesome at what you do.
Just found you Sir.
Kudos. Much respect. 💯
Very informative. Thanks for the wisdom points.
Good morning pastor
Thank yousir, talking about the physical appearance of a lady you want married, making the choice is it reasonable to consider the height of the Lady
when you want to get married?
Thank you sir
Thank you Pastor Kingsley
beautiful . THANKS SO MUCH FOR THIS Pastor
Thanks, I'm blessed with this message
Awesome conversation
Higher heights sir...remain in blessing
So educative
Thank you Sir, I'm so blessed
Pst k, what advice do you have for young people in relationship age gaps
Thank you sir
Beautiful message thank u
Waiting for part two
"Let all the children come to me. All that are thirsty for the living water"
POWERFUL ♥️♥️♥️
Pastor K Thanks For these Much Wisdom Shared Sir.Its Always Great Listening To You...
BUT PLS LET YOUR EDITOR CHECK THE AD SOUND NEXT TIME,ITS TOO LOUD IN ALL YOUR VIDEOS..Hope This Will Be Corrected From Now On 🙏I APPRECIATE YOUR WORK❤
thanks for speaking my mind. great message but the voice was so low, i just had to use my earphones.
Arsenal in the Mud Everywhere 😂😂😂
I will like a one on one discussion with you, i need ur advice on something
Beautiful ladies are many but virtuous women are scars
Scarce. Not scars.
@@graceibelegbu189 u got the message, the correction isn't necessary
@@adibeemmanuel5738 The correction was necessary.
Uche Samuel no it wasn’t
@@arseven3137 Yes, it is. Scares and scars are two different things. If it was a mistake, it has been corrected and the correction well taken by the commenter.
Blessings always Sir.
This is the video I'm been working for... I have watched the single ladies. Thank you so much my online mentor. Please 4and7.. Am still waiting for that to complete my day! Lots of love PST K
I get the point now
Nice shirt, where can we grab some ?
When is part 2?
Wow nice
Wow is here , oya make I go watch
😆😆😆
But when did it become insufficient to refer solely to the scriptures to have a perfect marital relationship?
lmao. Arsenal for life!!!!!!
ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP Is not necessarily a criteria biblically, I think that westernization is what brought about that. Our parents did not do much of ROMANCE but they did well in marriage.
What do you mean by "romantic" cause I can bet you needed to romance your wife as an "African".
Doing well in marriage, like staying with someone due to the fear of being called a failure, suffering and smiling at the same time, when your duty as a wife is streamlined to cook, bear as much children as you can so they can join him in the farm...?
Daniel the men did well in marriage but not the women. Many women suffered or are scared to this day.
@@chinonuwuchegbule5193 you went far back in time, my mother never had such experience and i didn't observe other couples even till this day, having issues because the husband didn't do any ROMANTIC gestures, it's more about your values and upbringing that will help you keep your marriage. I even observe my married sisters today, they have been married for close to eight years now, yet no such thing as ROMANCE With their husbands. Don't get me wrong, i like romance, but i don't accept that it's a prerequisite for a life time of relationship and responsibility called marriage. As a mature Christian woman, such "extras" should not be a bother.
@@cloyettegrant3889 I'm not even talking about marriage that is guided by African mentality, no no no, i even observe situations where husbands do things that, in African notion is strictly for the wife.
Sir is there a video on understanding women? Like how women are
hellow, apart from video, please check the book that women and man are coming from different planet. it will enables you to know women better. thanks to Rev. Kingsley for such a great lesson. be blessed.
Meekness????! You mean weakness which is not God's plan for her. Some men don't give peace of mind.
He said meekness not weakness mam, very biblical
Is there a book for this
where are your books sold in Kenya?
Hello Alex, please send a whatsapp message to +2348077714413 to get resources