Most of the single ladies that are desperate are 30 and above and they are scared that a man might not marry them again because of their age and even if they have prayed and not seeing results yet they give up. I want to encourage someone today that God is the Alpha and the omega. He will never Alpha something and allow the enemy to omega it. He's a faithful God and doesn't go back in his word. He's an originator of marriage so Just trust and believe in him.
The truth in her message comes from Jesus, God's Word! John 14:6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the TRUTH, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. If you love her message, you will love Jesus more, try Him. Read the bible, you can start from the book of John. Much love friend!
@@sandrawanemi8801 smiles... I am also a Muslim and I love her counselling , above that I love love Jesus. I mean I won't I love someone my God said he sent to the world to lead people aright? We love Jesus sweetie 💞
@Gloria Brown and I also believe God gave Jesus a book to lead people right ma the same way HE have Moses and Prophet Muhammad SAW Amen to your prayer ... God bless you too
There’s no words to qualify this woman. Am short of words . She’s gifted, she’s loaded upstairs... more GRACE Mama Mildred Kingsley Okonwo❤️ I leant alot from their powerful message! 💃🏾🤝
1. Desperation - makes you choose people that you hv no business choosing. It makes you do stupid things. 2. Having unrealistic lists. Determine deal breakers vs essentials. Ask yourself what is important. 3. Seeing men as trees - not seeing guys for who they are or for the potential that they have. 4. Pre-Marital Sex 5. Fighting everbody when you finally find somebody to marriage. Don't through your family away. Get counsel and be truthful at counseling. 6. Lack of preparation - we prepare for the wedding but not the marriage. Proper counseling will prepare you for marriage. You produce after your kind. You attract what you are. 7. Wasting time "Satan is deceiving you, come out." So true! "He's practicing" 🤣
I am 29 and been thinking time is running out because I will soon be getting my first degree in IT and really wanted to settle down before next year but suddenly the man who we both decided to have a family together broke up with me 1 month ago and I have cry and always think where will I start from. thanks for this message God is still God🙏🙏🙏🙏
8yrs down the line in a relationship, I met this guy that is opposite of everything I wanted in a husband, he is tall and dark. But he has the most valuable quality I was looking for, he loves and is committed to God. I left 8yrs and I'm glad I'm with him now because he draws me closer to God. We need to put relevant things for a list.
Sad story, you're glad you betrayed the other guy and monkey branched while you're in a 8 years relationship. You should have left after a year of the relationship not 8 years, enjoying all the benefits. Not a good example for women to follow, if you feel it's not right at first let it good immediately.
@@MrShoman1212 what if it was a on 8yr old abusive relationship outside the will of God , would finally finding courage to leave still count as betrayal?
I was pushed to watch this, TBH this is should be aired on TV channels. Our generation has lost track of spirituality, I'm in love with this. Dear future wifey, better come and listen to this message. Beauty, intellect and humor embedded in one soul ❣❣❣
Can I just say this message has truly opened my eyes , I have been meditating on these for 3days , for the first time in 5years, I started understanding why my marriage ended up in shambles , this message is deep... Foundation for marriage is extremely important .... Thanks for sharing.....
Uzoamaka, that's actually a wrong approach to this, Love" the bible says, covers a multitude of sin/wrongs, diessollis Joel, God loves you too much,yes! And theres no sin, no sin at all that the Glory and love of God cannot handle. Thank you for taking this step, God will help you🙏 Pray to God about it,and pour your heart to Him, ask Him to help you stay away from it,He will help you! Pastor Mildred Ma'am, please Ma, I feel it strong that maybe you should follow up.
Diessolis Joel, thank God you've realized your wrong. God, in His love and mercy can forgive you. Only confess and forsake ALL your sins, accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and you will receive mercy (Proverbs 28:13). Ask for grace to live a godly life (you CANNOT do it by your power or by trying). Consciously separate from those that won't encourage your new found faith! Study the word of God and pray daily, join a bible-based church, live daily for Jesus by His grace, and tell others about Jesus Christ and His saving power. Also pray to God to give you a godly mentor. God bless you in Jesus' name!
Pastor Mildred this video made me feel like I was having a one on one session with you. I accidentally stumbled upon it at 4 in the morning 😂. Aaaaaaah I love you already I thank God for you
Lovely video, for the last part sha we that do not yet have the husband and are headed to 40yrs, do not lose heart and keep faith and keep looking ahead. E don't matter when it happens, God's word and his grace triumphs
😂😂😂😂😂I love Pastor M❤️❤️❤️, such a realist "I cannot do 5.11ft 😂 ", thank you for being so transparent and so real honestly, thank you Ma'am, God bless you please.
Hi you got this, life is different but in a good way for everyone. I wish we could talk, however due to internet privacy we cannot. However you got this don't rush. Just keep taking care of yourself mentally and physically. Also pray to God to direct you and he will show you. As for me I have been waiting for God's promise for 4 years now since the dream. Other guys have come but I reject them.because when God tell you something it is best to listen and wait. I pray that you call on God and he will direct. When you get married please leave a comment on this post 😂😂😂💗💗👩👧👦👩👧👦👩👧👦
@@malkiafuraha9694, sis stop rejecting potential suitors because of a dream. You can marry so many pple that qualifies God's standard not just a particular person that you see in your dream . Has God being communicating to you via dream before on other matters aside marriage? I advise you share it with your pastor, or your spiritual mentor, may Devil not waste our time
If this was a live seminar, I'd have lost my voice shouting... My palms would hurt too from incessant clapping! 😭 Ma'am, your words are life! Beautifully selected! 💞 The wisdom, the honesty and the sense of humor! 😂 Kai! God bless you ma! First time watching/ hearing you and I soooo love you already! 🙌🤗
My first time listening to mum. And I must say am blessed. After listening to you mum I just had to subscribe without wasting any time. This message as really blessed my soul. Am here to learn more as I still prepare to go to the alter. God help and equip me with wisdom, knowledge and understanding to word word. 🔥🔥🙌🙌🔥🔥 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭
The way I flew to this page.. your style of teaching is amazing, very real, no gloss, the openness indeed is refreshing .. thank you Ma for being a Blessing 😘😘
This is my first time watching and I think I’ve gotten myself a mentor......very clear, precise, not judgmental and very diplomatic 🥰👌❤️ you are very intelligent and reasonable ma’am ❤️❤️🥰🥰more grace🙏🏽🙏🏽
God bless u am trying to heal from the trauma I experienced 2 years ago he left me 3 weeks before our wedding didn’t call me till a month later I stayed after due to financial ties but broke things off recently to focus on my healing women we truly accepts things we never will if u r not careful
"He didn't really slap me, It's affectionate tap" 😂😂😂😂 I can't! That wallet thing happened to my bestie oh. how can he forget his wallet every single time..na mehn. I love how real you are Pastor M..thank you! Learned alot! 🧡Sholz
Came across this video, am Portuguese was with Nigerian man(igbo). Had to leave him, his intentions wasn't right too rushed. I prefer being single no rush, social is really pushing people to get into something. I followed my intuition, asked God. I did the right thing God showed me who he really is. All I want is to be happy, a man that believes in God, same height as me or an inch taller because am short, generous, supportive, ambitious as me and is on a journey like myself( like looking for a job, finishing university, not in a rush of marrying and children etc) this is essential. I love your character, if you ever have seminars would love to come 😊 I enjoyed this, got me to understand certain things 😊
Pastor M, your breed is too rare. God bless you for the work you do. I love you as well as your mentorship sessions because they are realistic, filled with humour, love, and authority.
Fav: Fighting everybody when you now finally find the person you want to marry. Dont go to counseling and lie. Laughed out loud at slap = affection tap.
Wow! This message has blessed me. God bless you ma'am. I've been married for 20+ years and this teaching resonates greatly with me. I'm going to share this link with my young adults & singles group. I've already sent the link to my daughter and will have a conversation to buttress our values regarding her views after she has listened to it. Is there a teaching on this series for single guys? It would be nice to even the teaching for both genders.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (GODSTIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2349061501259) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.....................................................
@@funkefelixadejumo1624 I rebuke you Satan in the name of Jesus. May this evil vision that you kept seeing on peoples lives, be throw back to you and all yours... I send these fake visions back to you, child of satan. I rebuke you. May God pay you the double portion according to the desire of your hearts. You wish evil to me, so may God reward you according to what you wish on me.
Am really grateful that I came across this video. I tried too until I was 23 and I regret that act till date am now 25 years and am praying that God helps me find the man for me and start seeing men like men not tress. Am Louise please pray for me 🙏
Am enjoying this single season 😍😍.... very peaceful....I can't lower my standards only God knows my standards don't have to advertise it on social media 🥴...no matter how long it will take will wait ... nothing good comes easy.
Summary of 1. Being desperate:Desperation causes wrong decision, regret and pain. Desperation causes you to go into relship with people you have no business with. Stop doing things you know you would not do just to get married. Men are not externally motivated.A man has to truely like you to be in a relship with you.Enjoy your season of being single. Do not be desperate. 2.Having an unrealistic list/demands. Ask yourself the deal breakers and the essentials. 3.seeing men as trees: Not seeing men for what they are. Seeing a man for not what he is.
You end up loosing a good guy 4.premarital sex: "why buy the cow when the milk is free?"Premarital sex is wrong. Gods plan is that two people will marry and figure themselves out in marriage. Premarital sex will destroy your destiny and life for you. Flee fornication. 5.Fighting very one when looking for the right man.Do not accept what you cannot allow in your life. Look at your family and good friends. Don't let any man keep you a secret. Pls get counselor and counsel 6.
I've always wanted to attend a men's conference to hear what young single men are being taught. This is because I was so tired of the narrative that if you are above 30 and are a single lady the absolutely must be 9 point steps of something you're doing wrong!!! Funny how when it come to young Christian ladies, everyone has a direct line to heaven to give us advice, but no one acknowledges that maybe, just maybe, the stock of men we are left to deal with have questionable characters. Single ladies become 'desperate ' because of pressure from married church mothers and Pastors as if being single is a curse. What if it's just not yet God's appointed time you? Ever think of that? Stop it with this mistakes this mistakes that and let young ladies discover God, grow closer to Him, find their talents and live out their God given purposes. Y'all are exhausting.
THIS IS MY FIRST TIME LISTENING TO THIS KIND OF ADVICE AND I AM LOVING HER CALM APPROACH ALREADY. I BELIEVE HAVING MORE FROM HER WILL BUILD ME GREATLY. THANK YOU, APPRECIATIVE
This is the wisdom we need in our dispensation. Hitting the nail right on the head. First time listening to you and I have been enlightened. God bless you Pastor M
First time watching you Mama and I must say am highly impressed may God richly bless you. Its best I enjoy my singleness for a while and wait for the right time Am watching you all the way from Ghana
Omg, first time coming across Pastor Mildred and I absolutely love her❣️ I like how conversational this video is. The part about the rice and stew and God sending ravens to feed her?! 🤣🤣
6.Lack of preparation. Not preparing properly for marriage, but the wedding every marriage gets to have a test. Learn how to settle matters. Learn the main courtesues:sorry, thank you, please. Read books on marriage -Attend seminars -Prepare fully and properly fie marriage. -You attract who you are. 7.Wasting time:As a woman you do not have all the time in the world so do not waste time. Do not just pick any body. Be a woman of virture. Always make use of your precious time. Avoid time wasters and human delays. Dating married men is wrong.
It is so hard these days for our single sisters. I pray the Lord will bless them with christlike husbands. The book 23 Types of Giys You Might Meet is a valuable source.
WoW! I didn't imagine her to be so funny.😂 This was really so good & real! How am I just watching your videos? Thank you very much for this. Nice one!🙌🙌🙌
Pastor M. You're so blunt. I LOVE you faaa....God just has to give you a pastor for a husband and put you in relationships ministry. You're breaking the right tables.
Most of the single ladies that are desperate are 30 and above and they are scared that a man might not marry them again because of their age and even if they have prayed and not seeing results yet they give up.
I want to encourage someone today that God is the Alpha and the omega. He will never Alpha something and allow the enemy to omega it. He's a faithful God and doesn't go back in his word. He's an originator of marriage so Just trust and believe in him.
Thank you
I just had to like this comment for that phrase that God cannot Alpha something and allow the enemy to Omega it👌
Wow. Such a huge classification. Lol, we should have a statistic that supports this claim.
I love the "He will not Alpha something and allow the enemy to omega it" thanks I needed to read this
Ladies in their 20s can be desperate too
I’m watching this lady for the first time,
And I’m already sooo loving her.
Same here
Same with me really
Same here
Same here🔥😍
Am really blessed wit ur words ma
I’m 24yrs old and learnt a whole lot from this! Thank you so so much ma!
I'm Muslim and I think the truth in your message is universal. I love love love the message.
The truth in her message comes from Jesus, God's Word!
John 14:6
Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the TRUTH, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
If you love her message, you will love Jesus more, try Him. Read the bible, you can start from the book of John.
Much love friend!
@@sandrawanemi8801 smiles... I am also a Muslim and I love her counselling , above that I love love Jesus. I mean I won't I love someone my God said he sent to the world to lead people aright?
We love Jesus sweetie 💞
@Gloria Brown and I also believe God gave Jesus a book to lead people right ma the same way HE have Moses and Prophet Muhammad SAW
Amen to your prayer ... God bless you too
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"You're not created to be side chick, you were created to be main wife" 😇😇😇
True mama😚👏👏
Amen
And truth be not all ladies nor men will get married
''you'll be confusing yourself , by your own self''😂😂😂😂It sent meeee.It's so true though.
There’s no words to qualify this woman. Am short of words . She’s gifted, she’s loaded upstairs... more GRACE Mama Mildred Kingsley Okonwo❤️ I leant alot from their powerful message! 💃🏾🤝
1. Desperation - makes you choose people that you hv no business choosing. It makes you do stupid things.
2. Having unrealistic lists. Determine deal breakers vs essentials. Ask yourself what is important.
3. Seeing men as trees - not seeing guys for who they are or for the potential that they have.
4. Pre-Marital Sex
5. Fighting everbody when you finally find somebody to marriage. Don't through your family away. Get counsel and be truthful at counseling.
6. Lack of preparation - we prepare for the wedding but not the marriage. Proper counseling will prepare you for marriage. You produce after your kind. You attract what you are.
7. Wasting time
"Satan is deceiving you, come out." So true! "He's practicing" 🤣
Thank you. U just save time
GOD BLESS YOU O JARE
I REALLY APPRECIATE YOU for writing ✍ this list here
Bless you ❤
Thanks 🙏
You no fail ; u no pass u no commot for class
I am 29 and been thinking time is running out because I will soon be getting my first degree in IT and really wanted to settle down before next year but suddenly the man who we both decided to have a family together broke up with me 1 month ago and I have cry and always think where will I start from. thanks for this message God is still God🙏🙏🙏🙏
8yrs down the line in a relationship, I met this guy that is opposite of everything I wanted in a husband, he is tall and dark. But he has the most valuable quality I was looking for, he loves and is committed to God. I left 8yrs and I'm glad I'm with him now because he draws me closer to God. We need to put relevant things for a list.
Are you married to him?
Sad story, you're glad you betrayed the other guy and monkey branched while you're in a 8 years relationship. You should have left after a year of the relationship not 8 years, enjoying all the benefits. Not a good example for women to follow, if you feel it's not right at first let it good immediately.
@@MrShoman1212 what if it was a on 8yr old abusive relationship outside the will of God , would finally finding courage to leave still count as betrayal?
@@MrShoman1212 foolish talk
Too many women have friendzoned good men!!!
True!
Many men trying to be good pple at first ,, sis we scared
I clocked 24 years old yesterday, thank you so much ma
I was pushed to watch this, TBH this is should be aired on TV channels. Our generation has lost track of spirituality, I'm in love with this. Dear future wifey, better come and listen to this message. Beauty, intellect and humor embedded in one soul ❣❣❣
I can only attract who I am....hmmmmm
God can not waste his precious son nd give you what your not.
Can I just say this message has truly opened my eyes , I have been meditating on these for 3days , for the first time in 5years, I started understanding why my marriage ended up in shambles , this message is deep... Foundation for marriage is extremely important .... Thanks for sharing.....
Am Ugandan but love your teachings God bless you 🙏 the more I watch you the more I get blessed 👏👏
Father am sorry for dating married men have your way now in change me oh.... Lord.
It's not by mouth resist temptation
Uzoamaka, that's actually a wrong approach to this, Love" the bible says, covers a multitude of sin/wrongs, diessollis Joel, God loves you too much,yes!
And theres no sin, no sin at all that the Glory and love of God cannot handle. Thank you for taking this step, God will help you🙏
Pray to God about it,and pour your heart to Him, ask Him to help you stay away from it,He will help you!
Pastor Mildred Ma'am, please Ma, I feel it strong that maybe you should follow up.
Diessolis Joel, thank God you've realized your wrong. God, in His love and mercy can forgive you. Only confess and forsake ALL your sins, accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and you will receive mercy (Proverbs 28:13). Ask for grace to live a godly life (you CANNOT do it by your power or by trying). Consciously separate from those that won't encourage your new found faith! Study the word of God and pray daily, join a bible-based church, live daily for Jesus by His grace, and tell others about Jesus Christ and His saving power. Also pray to God to give you a godly mentor. God bless you in Jesus' name!
Forgive me oh Lord for dating married men
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The grace on this woman's head is amazing... thank you so much pastor M💕
Lots of love from Zambia🇿🇲
Only you will be saying rubbish to your self when u are in love, "This part hit me" God bless you richly ma.
Pastor Mildred this video made me feel like I was having a one on one session with you. I accidentally stumbled upon it at 4 in the morning 😂. Aaaaaaah I love you already I thank God for you
“You can’t do 5’11, 😂😂😂 May God not let you get 4’3 🤣🤣🤣🤣“
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I legit hollered 😂😂😂 when she said it.
Jokes
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True some say what if the man is diabetic they must test him before marriage
Am so ooo blessed by this teaching, am a mother and divorced but I can still learn. 👏👏👏👏
Sunday Ezeany the audacity...that’s a personal and sensitive question to ask and it’s none of your business 🧐
@Tina, pls ignore...of course you can still learn
You may learn for yourself
Lovely video, for the last part sha we that do not yet have the husband and are headed to 40yrs, do not lose heart and keep faith and keep looking ahead. E don't matter when it happens, God's word and his grace triumphs
😂😂😂😂😂I love Pastor M❤️❤️❤️, such a realist "I cannot do 5.11ft 😂 ", thank you for being so transparent and so real honestly, thank you Ma'am, God bless you please.
My eye was teary because I 've not live my life like this but yet am not married at 35yrs. All my life I 've being a Christian.
Be patient, God will do yours at the right time
God will make a way for you. Keep improving yourself and perfecting the inner you. Romans 8 vs 28
Take heart it is going to be alright.
Hi you got this, life is different but in a good way for everyone. I wish we could talk, however due to internet privacy we cannot. However you got this don't rush. Just keep taking care of yourself mentally and physically. Also pray to God to direct you and he will show you. As for me I have been waiting for God's promise for 4 years now since the dream. Other guys have come but I reject them.because when God tell you something it is best to listen and wait. I pray that you call on God and he will direct.
When you get married please leave a comment on this post 😂😂😂💗💗👩👧👦👩👧👦👩👧👦
@@malkiafuraha9694, sis stop rejecting potential suitors because of a dream. You can marry so many pple that qualifies God's standard not just a particular person that you see in your dream . Has God being communicating to you via dream before on other matters aside marriage? I advise you share it with your pastor, or your spiritual mentor, may Devil not waste our time
If this was a live seminar, I'd have lost my voice shouting... My palms would hurt too from incessant clapping!
😭 Ma'am, your words are life! Beautifully selected! 💞
The wisdom, the honesty and the sense of humor! 😂 Kai!
God bless you ma!
First time watching/ hearing you and I soooo love you already!
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Amen , you nail it , lots of women need to hear this .
I feel exactly the same... she's right here talking to me.
you said it all. this information is vital for every young lady
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My first time listening to mum. And I must say am blessed. After listening to you mum I just had to subscribe without wasting any time. This message as really blessed my soul. Am here to learn more as I still prepare to go to the alter. God help and equip me with wisdom, knowledge and understanding to word word. 🔥🔥🙌🙌🔥🔥
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The way I flew to this page.. your style of teaching is amazing, very real, no gloss, the openness indeed is refreshing .. thank you Ma for being a Blessing 😘😘
She's so realistic and relateable . Oh my God. Pastor K , you got a GOOD GOOD GOOD ONE
My first time listening to this amazing woman of God. I just love her. She is smart, obviously anointed and funny
This is my first time watching and I think I’ve gotten myself a mentor......very clear, precise, not judgmental and very diplomatic 🥰👌❤️ you are very intelligent and reasonable ma’am ❤️❤️🥰🥰more grace🙏🏽🙏🏽
Woaw i got tears in my eyes. God restore me all my wasted years and draw me back in the right path. I avail myself. No more mistakes and time wasters
I usually follow her husband on social media but she's the real sauce. I can't stop watching her videos. God is really using you, Ma
PM never disappoints, watching 2024
God led me here today. I started with 7 mistakes married women do, and now I'm here. I love her already❤️♥️
God I love this woman.... More grace to your elbow
Your not the only one Prinye. Premarital sex is indeed a sin
So much love from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪 thank you for this teaching.
God bless u am trying to heal from the trauma I experienced 2 years ago he left me 3 weeks before our wedding didn’t call me till a month later I stayed after due to financial ties but broke things off recently to focus on my healing women we truly accepts things we never will if u r not careful
Oh dear... May the Lord strengthen you.. I'm so sorry 😢
I am very sorry l feeling your pain l am crying everyday too cus for men 😂.
I don't like what I hate😂😂😂you can not annoy me and go caughtfree 😂😂😂😂
Ma you are really a blessing. Thanks so much ma for the words
Thank uuuu soooo much for changing my life , am crying rite now coz yo talking to me thanx so much so much so much
Pastor Mil said He will share it and make it reach all of us 😂😂😂😂
"He didn't really slap me, It's affectionate tap" 😂😂😂😂 I can't! That wallet thing happened to my bestie oh. how can he forget his wallet every single time..na mehn. I love how real you are Pastor M..thank you! Learned alot! 🧡Sholz
Came across this video, am Portuguese was with Nigerian man(igbo). Had to leave him, his intentions wasn't right too rushed. I prefer being single no rush, social is really pushing people to get into something. I followed my intuition, asked God. I did the right thing God showed me who he really is. All I want is to be happy, a man that believes in God, same height as me or an inch taller because am short, generous, supportive, ambitious as me and is on a journey like myself( like looking for a job, finishing university, not in a rush of marrying and children etc) this is essential.
I love your character, if you ever have seminars would love to come 😊
I enjoyed this, got me to understand certain things 😊
Pastor M, your breed is too rare. God bless you for the work you do. I love you as well as your mentorship sessions because they are realistic, filled with humour, love, and authority.
Fav: Fighting everybody when you now finally find the person you want to marry. Dont go to counseling and lie. Laughed out loud at slap = affection tap.
My lovely sister and my wife you are too much. The good lord will continue to bless you more and more IJN Amen.
This shows up on my timeline and I'm watching her for the 1st time..........loving her n the message
Wow! This message has blessed me. God bless you ma'am. I've been married for 20+ years and this teaching resonates greatly with me. I'm going to share this link with my young adults & singles group. I've already sent the link to my daughter and will have a conversation to buttress our values regarding her views after she has listened to it. Is there a teaching on this series for single guys? It would be nice to even the teaching for both genders.
You should check out her husband , Pastor Kingsley’s channel. You should find something similar ❤️
"If he loses his temper why must he find it on you?". Well said!
This is a mother to a daughter life talk. Thank you please do more videos like this.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (GODSTIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2349061501259) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.....................................................
@@funkefelixadejumo1624 I rebuke you Satan in the name of Jesus. May this evil vision that you kept seeing on peoples lives, be throw back to you and all yours... I send these fake visions back to you, child of satan. I rebuke you. May God pay you the double portion according to the desire of your hearts. You wish evil to me, so may God reward you according to what you wish on me.
@@funkefelixadejumo1624 descendant of Gehazi! U are here again👿👿👿
First time here and I believe it's not a mistake I stumbled on this.
Mama you are so beautiful and real, thank you for choosing to help us young ladies😘😘
This lady is real o!!! Straight shooter, I love people like this.
Am really grateful that I came across this video. I tried too until I was 23 and I regret that act till date am now 25 years and am praying that God helps me find the man for me and start seeing men like men not tress. Am Louise please pray for me 🙏
About desperation😢
It's like am really getting desperate 😭
Hahahahaha “ 5’11, u can’t manage 5’11, may you not end up with 4’3” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Mama actually made me leave my movie to continue this...........waw.
Thank you so much for this tips.👏👏
Thanks mummy God bless you
Am enjoying this single season 😍😍.... very peaceful....I can't lower my standards only God knows my standards don't have to advertise it on social media 🥴...no matter how long it will take will wait ... nothing good comes easy.
First time listening to Pastor Mildred. She brings a wealth of wisdom, humor and reality to her teaching. Listen❤️ and take notes.
Pre martial sex is wrong u nailed it well said pastor M thanks 🍾🤛🏻👂
Summary of
1. Being desperate:Desperation causes wrong decision, regret and pain. Desperation causes you to go into relship with people you have no business with. Stop doing things you know you would not do just to get married. Men are not externally motivated.A man has to truely like you to be in a relship with you.Enjoy your season of being single. Do not be desperate.
2.Having an unrealistic list/demands. Ask yourself the deal breakers and the essentials.
3.seeing men as trees: Not seeing men for what they are. Seeing a man for not what he is.
You end up loosing a good guy
4.premarital sex: "why buy the cow when the milk is free?"Premarital sex is wrong. Gods plan is that two people will marry and figure themselves out in marriage. Premarital sex will destroy your destiny and life for you. Flee fornication.
5.Fighting very one when looking for the right man.Do not accept what you cannot allow in your life. Look at your family and good friends. Don't let any man keep you a secret. Pls get counselor and counsel
6.
Thanks a lot
God bless you
6. Lack of preparation. Marriage counseling - go after knowledge
7. Wasting time
Hay God this mama has finished work!!!!!!!
I love that she is bluntly honest.
I've always wanted to attend a men's conference to hear what young single men are being taught. This is because I was so tired of the narrative that if you are above 30 and are a single lady the absolutely must be 9 point steps of something you're doing wrong!!! Funny how when it come to young Christian ladies, everyone has a direct line to heaven to give us advice, but no one acknowledges that maybe, just maybe, the stock of men we are left to deal with have questionable characters. Single ladies become 'desperate ' because of pressure from married church mothers and Pastors as if being single is a curse. What if it's just not yet God's appointed time you? Ever think of that? Stop it with this mistakes this mistakes that and let young ladies discover God, grow closer to Him, find their talents and live out their God given purposes. Y'all are exhausting.
Couldn't agree more. Well articulated.
Agreed!!
Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you! 👍
Such an eye opener!
Preach!
You are exactly what we all need to hear! I appreciate the love, truth, rebuke and correction. God bless you Ps M
First time here and I must say, this message is one I’ll never forget. God bless you
same here
Me too
Very good!!!🤗🤔🤔
Sorry is not the apology for doing wrong but sorry is for peace. That hit me hard. Thank you mama
You are so real😂😂😂 enjoyed your teaching
First time actually listening to your message
I actually listen to your husband's message
I love u💖
That proverbs 18.22 opened my eyes!
I just love the way you speak the truth. God bless you richly mama.
I wish every single lady will watch this video it's so touching thank you so Pastor M
THIS IS MY FIRST TIME LISTENING TO THIS KIND OF ADVICE AND I AM LOVING HER CALM APPROACH ALREADY. I BELIEVE HAVING MORE FROM HER WILL BUILD ME GREATLY. THANK YOU, APPRECIATIVE
Only you will be saying rubbish to yourself... 😂. Thank you so much Ma for all your advice. God bless you abundantly.❤️❤️❤️
Wao
This is just an eye opener
May God help us
I dont know how I got here but I ended up watching the whole thing.
This is the wisdom we need in our dispensation. Hitting the nail right on the head. First time listening to you and I have been enlightened. God bless you Pastor M
Why is the whole world not listening to this right now 😍
Am so overwhelmed listening to you
Thanks so much and it was fun too
Pastor Mildred, I have to say, you are GORGEOUS 😮💨❤️
First time watching you Mama and I must say am highly impressed may God richly bless you. Its best I enjoy my singleness for a while and wait for the right time
Am watching you all the way from Ghana
HOW AM I ONLY COMING ACROSS PASTOR M?!!! 😍😍😍😍😍 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I've been following your husband for awhile now, and am just asking myself why haven't I follow you all this while......I love you
Merci maman....I'm wordless....
Love you from Côte d'Ivoire 🇨🇮 (Ivory Coast). God bless you more....
Omg, first time coming across Pastor Mildred and I absolutely love her❣️ I like how conversational this video is. The part about the rice and stew and God sending ravens to feed her?! 🤣🤣
Wow....how i wish i saw this b4 25years am 28years and single....
6.Lack of preparation. Not preparing properly for marriage, but the wedding every marriage gets to have a test. Learn how to settle matters. Learn the main courtesues:sorry, thank you, please.
Read books on marriage
-Attend seminars
-Prepare fully and properly fie marriage.
-You attract who you are.
7.Wasting time:As a woman you do not have all the time in the world so do not waste time. Do not just pick any body. Be a woman of virture. Always make use of your precious time.
Avoid time wasters and human delays.
Dating married men is wrong.
You're too much ma'am 😘😘.. I love you endlessly.. God bless you ma'am ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Pastor M😂😂You are such a huge blessing!!
It is so hard these days for our single sisters.
I pray the Lord will bless them with christlike husbands.
The book 23 Types of Giys You Might Meet is a valuable source.
🤣🤣🤣 never knew Pastor Mildred was this fun... Love her ❤️❤️❤️
Am so happy I met this on time 😩
So so grateful
Beautiful message. You speak so real,God bless you
I refuse to lower my standards…I will enjoy this season and maximize it as much as I can.
Thank you mama ❤
WoW! I didn't imagine her to be so funny.😂 This was really so good & real! How am I just watching your videos? Thank you very much for this. Nice one!🙌🙌🙌
Pastor M. You're so blunt. I LOVE you faaa....God just has to give you a pastor for a husband and put you in relationships ministry. You're breaking the right tables.
Pastor M to the world.....God bless you ma, you are such a great blessing ❤❤
Like our Bali boys in Cameroon keeping you at one point
Some way somehow I found your channel here on UA-cam... God sent you to me o...cos I needed this at this time of my life🙏🙏🙏TYLJ
Oh how I wish I knew this information when I was single. You are 100 percent correct.