7 Mistakes Married Women Make | Part 1 | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

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  • @mildredkingsleyokonkwo
    @mildredkingsleyokonkwo  3 роки тому +228

    This is my only UA-cam channel " Mildred kingsley-okonkwo".
    I will not message you or reply to your comment requesting funds for prophecies or anything at all, please beware of scammers.

    • @ifemejecynthia5711
      @ifemejecynthia5711 3 роки тому +4

      Interesting.
      I learnt alot

    • @fortunatenamat7770
      @fortunatenamat7770 3 роки тому +9

      I cant believe someone has tried scamming me hardly an hour ago with a false prophesy using apparently Pastor Kingsley Okonko's account. Thank you for this disclaimer.I almost fell victim.

    • @chichiezzy6942
      @chichiezzy6942 3 роки тому +4

      Matilda Namboozo it’s not pastors account it’s a fake account using his name. I got the same copy and paste message lmao

    • @successj2948
      @successj2948 3 роки тому +4

      I just saw one imposter asking me to pay money into an orphanage Acct. Even before I finished reading I knew it was scam lol

    • @ebukandehigwo2278
      @ebukandehigwo2278 3 роки тому +4

      I have received 4 scam messages in one week. Wetin I do wrong? 😅

  • @tomaoekanem8047
    @tomaoekanem8047 Рік тому +35

    By choosing marriage, we "decided to dedicate our lives to partner with God to make one man's life special". This one hit me. I gotta work on keeping that commitment.

  • @oreoluwaoyadiran
    @oreoluwaoyadiran Рік тому +54

    I watched this when I was single, I newly got married so I’m watching again 😁😁😁

    • @tkbest4743
      @tkbest4743 Рік тому +2

      Congratulations. Hope you are enjoying the marriage journey. I wish you many blissful years

    • @_LoveItHere
      @_LoveItHere Рік тому

      Congratulations to you and yours. 😊

    • @DaintyAbby
      @DaintyAbby Рік тому

      Congratssss

    • @modrikisadopted6337
      @modrikisadopted6337 Місяць тому

      Hey, Mrs Ore. I just came across your comment and curious to know how far in your marriage. have the lessons worked to your satisfaction?. Will be good ton have feedback. Church and media place can be a plane out there.

  • @PheonahE
    @PheonahE Рік тому +29

    I watch this video every 3 months jut to remind myself of all the wisdom shared here. Thank you Pastor M

  • @theresatheresa7315
    @theresatheresa7315 3 роки тому +69

    There's no marriage without God.
    But with God it moves smoothly.
    May the Lord Jesus Christ grant us the grace to make things right in marriage.

  • @Abeikirt
    @Abeikirt 3 роки тому +15

    This lady's husband is one of the luckiest people on the face of the earth

  • @LekeAdeboye
    @LekeAdeboye 3 роки тому +703

    i loved!!!!! it. please what about the 7 mistakes we men make. so as i'm forwarding this link to my wife i need to learn my own side too. equation must balance.

    • @carmelwine7610
      @carmelwine7610 3 роки тому +119

      You are a smart man. Many blessings on your love and marriage.

    • @crissoa
      @crissoa 3 роки тому +6

      🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

    • @idowu0704
      @idowu0704 3 роки тому +45

      Pastor Kingsley did that one, check him out on UA-cam as well. The Lord will make your home heaven on earth in Jesus's name amen

    • @Godisgood683
      @Godisgood683 3 роки тому +5

      Very good one sir

    • @bibiharusi2983
      @bibiharusi2983 3 роки тому +5

      beautiful man....kudos

  • @ahmedasigri7703
    @ahmedasigri7703 3 роки тому +626

    When you show a woman “affection and attention “ she sees love. When you show a man “ humility and respect” he sees love.
    Men need RESPECT...
    Women need ATTENTION

    • @preciouszikhali4749
      @preciouszikhali4749 3 роки тому +4

      Very true

    • @gladysamofah4565
      @gladysamofah4565 3 роки тому +3

      Well said dear

    • @user-tj3vj7lp5h
      @user-tj3vj7lp5h 3 роки тому +36

      I love this ,, but then i think that the whole relationship should be based on respect from both side .. maybe maybe you mean allow HIM to feel like he is on charge of things!

    • @sanyubetty1634
      @sanyubetty1634 3 роки тому +1

      True

    • @uchediri7193
      @uchediri7193 3 роки тому +5

      My brother may God bless u. Amen! U really have wisdom this is only what a man and a woman need in marriage! Thanks

  • @GeorginaEsiTakyiAnnan
    @GeorginaEsiTakyiAnnan 3 роки тому +73

    Married for 3 years and I pray for more blissful years ... loved this video.

  • @kaniahthepioneer6458
    @kaniahthepioneer6458 Рік тому +8

    Wow, this is amazing! I got rebuked a lot but this is going to help my marriage so much! Thank you 🙏🏽 by the grace of God I will grow and change into the wife God called me to be

  • @mariahakwe
    @mariahakwe 2 роки тому +14

    One year later,I am newly married and I find this to be so helpful, thank you

  • @hausofrlateish
    @hausofrlateish 3 роки тому +214

    Very informative. My husband is still the same from day 1 (thank God)! I must say we are a very good team and support system for each other and I pray it just keeps on getting better 😇🙏

    • @rebecca6984
      @rebecca6984 3 роки тому +6

      Lucky you. May God continues to bless u guys

    • @magnusemori4266
      @magnusemori4266 3 роки тому +2

      So far so good with you, and I call you blessed vetuose woman of honour. May you continue staying blessed now and forever more iJCMn amen.Pleasr thanks so much for sharing!

    • @hausofrlateish
      @hausofrlateish 3 роки тому

      @@magnusemori4266 yes luv. Thank you😇🙏

    • @mercynyoni5727
      @mercynyoni5727 3 роки тому

      You are one lucky gal 😚

    • @beautifulbeautymafuta3056
      @beautifulbeautymafuta3056 3 роки тому

      May God continue to bless your marriage

  • @wendyorji9751
    @wendyorji9751 3 роки тому +51

    My mum was so blessed she said this generation is so blessed and would hardly make mistake if they follow you, she said I now know why you don't joke with this woman😍😍😍😍

    • @fadekea3863
      @fadekea3863 3 роки тому +1

      👍🏽My mum said almost the exact same thing.

  • @ashleyrivera3490
    @ashleyrivera3490 3 роки тому +12

    Clicking on this video was the best thing I’ve ever done I am guilty of all of these things. Thank you for this, you are amazing ❤️❤️❤️

  • @nokwethembambatha630
    @nokwethembambatha630 3 роки тому +50

    I'm not married as yet but I learnt a lot. God bless you Pastor, I love your spirit. Thanks to youtube for recommending this video for me.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @rachealokai1583
    @rachealokai1583 2 роки тому +8

    Let's teach men to be teachable and leave ego. Some will either be threatened, feel proud or say women talk too much. That is why some women take that standpoint for their mental health. :) Great watch.

  • @successj2948
    @successj2948 3 роки тому +36

    I almost didn’t want to play this video, but thank You Holy Spirit for making me press the ‘play button’ am Blessed!
    Thank God for your wisdom and I tap into it.
    God bless you ma ❤️

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

    • @jocypare6019
      @jocypare6019 2 роки тому

      Same

  • @sonnyosifo8237
    @sonnyosifo8237 3 роки тому +13

    I stumbled on this teaching, I was totally hooked on it. My wife and I learnt a lot. Thank you!

  • @intifadhabashir500
    @intifadhabashir500 3 роки тому +19

    I am a muslim but enjoying your advices.beautiful words .thank you

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........

    • @cocosmith12
      @cocosmith12 3 роки тому

      God bless you 🙏

    • @jesusislordgodisgood4408
      @jesusislordgodisgood4408 2 роки тому +1

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 haba !!

  • @annengendo6819
    @annengendo6819 3 роки тому +8

    I love you already... So candid, pure tough love to us married women. I appreciate that I got to see your channel. God bless you. Love from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @nonduduzomaziya190
    @nonduduzomaziya190 3 роки тому +41

    I'm a newly wed and I'm glad I found this in my reccommendations. These points are so important.

  • @sophia4christ
    @sophia4christ 3 роки тому +285

    I'm single, but I'm watching for my future marriage.

  • @mangunduprince3781
    @mangunduprince3781 3 роки тому +80

    thanks alot for this video I always disrespect my husband but from today I promise I will be a good wife in Jesus name I will learn to respect him Lord Jesus strengthen me as I apologise to my husband please as I go out with my hubby pray for me.

    • @Ginettensoh
      @Ginettensoh 3 роки тому +10

      Your husband truely loves you. U said u disrespect him, meaning u do it knowingly. Count yourself lucky that upon the disrespect he's still there for and with you. Most men in this generation will just dump u or even if there are still there, their mind is somewhere else. It's very good u are amending it ways. Please don't try it and do your best to respect him. The world we are living going crazy. If u have a good man never ever take it for granted. Because even the most submissive and humble women are being mishandled and maltreated by horrible men who can't appreciate what they have.

    • @rxnees
      @rxnees 3 роки тому +2

      @@Ginettensoh Yes, YES, so true. You worded this very well!

    • @Ginettensoh
      @Ginettensoh 3 роки тому

      @@rxnees ❤❤

    • @abediewomutai3812
      @abediewomutai3812 2 роки тому +2

      @@Ginettensoh True, though sometimes we disrespect our husbands without knowing. Information is power...... I appreciate Mildred for empowering us

    • @eunicedaniels277
      @eunicedaniels277 2 роки тому

      So me, I’m less than a year and honestly I’m not giving him the respect he deserves

  • @janechibesakunda7437
    @janechibesakunda7437 3 роки тому +18

    Wow .....i have learnt alot ....i am glad to have watched this 🙌🏻🙌🏻 i got engaged 2 weeks ago and i am learning thanks 🧡💛💚💙

  • @taneenswindell8274
    @taneenswindell8274 3 роки тому +4

    Hello, THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH for this!!! I am guilty of quite a few things on this list, I pray the Lord helps me with my idiosyncrasies & get me on track! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you & God bless!!!❤

  • @abiolab5043
    @abiolab5043 3 роки тому +29

    Loving this. The PAUSE part was needed, Watching at 10am and I was still in bed, hubby at work. I quickly got up to have my shower and brush my teeth, ready for part 2! THANK YOU so much for this. Your ministry has been a huge blessing to me. I met my husband at the conference Pastor K and you did in London last year. May the anointing and grace on you and Pastor K continue to overflow IJN. We will def be visiting your church whenever we travel to Lagos to thank you in person.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

    • @abiolab5043
      @abiolab5043 3 роки тому +1

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 why are you impersonation a man of God and using God's for falsely gain? Repent from your mendacious ways, or hell awaits you. Satan is the father of liars.

    • @Lina.88
      @Lina.88 2 роки тому

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 llllllll

  • @elizabethmonday3751
    @elizabethmonday3751 3 роки тому +17

    Such a lovely message,,, I love the way you teach calmly ,ur accent and your lively smile ma,, more grace 😍

  • @amanas4653
    @amanas4653 Рік тому +1

    Now I see
    Too much familiarity is the problem...
    By God's grace I will get it right dis time..Amen

  • @abigailadu6183
    @abigailadu6183 3 роки тому +71

    She is so real, it hurts💔😂😂..
    But this is what we needed to hear, y'all😂. Bless you Pastor Mildred❤️.
    I love your bluntness👏. I couldn't stop laughing cause I could so relate.
    Here's to learning and improving to be the best versions of ourselves 🥂

  • @shellyjoe
    @shellyjoe 3 роки тому +7

    Omg🤣🤣 Pastor M, please resume from ⏸ and keep spilling the ☕ . I love your honesty!

  • @joyceogunlade7571
    @joyceogunlade7571 3 роки тому +6

    Im not married yet but this is eye opening! Glad to be learning this at this time! Thank you for sharing!

  • @nditchienditchie5533
    @nditchienditchie5533 3 роки тому +2

    I love u Ma, I'm happy I listened to this before I got Married...you are very wise

  • @ogbonnahchiamaka
    @ogbonnahchiamaka 3 роки тому +39

    I'm in love with you mama 💜💜. Your bluntness and sense of humour is on another level. I also love the way you use scriptural backups. Ma please when can we press the play button 😂.....I'm not married but I'm enjoying this and learning a lot.

  • @margaretfreeman6853
    @margaretfreeman6853 3 роки тому +8

    Thank God for this message. Thank you for the wisdom! I learned how to solve a major problem my husband always complained about. Looking forward to more of this....

  • @roselynchukwu4784
    @roselynchukwu4784 3 роки тому +8

    I just love her realness. Pastor M you are now my mentor. God bless you.

  • @courageogie8569
    @courageogie8569 3 роки тому +5

    I am a man listening to your advice to women, I think we men should also listen to this message because you’re a good mentor.
    Husbands should be referring their wives to you for mentoring. God bless.

  • @keepingitreal6878
    @keepingitreal6878 3 роки тому +3

    I just love this woman of God ❤️

  • @joydar4885
    @joydar4885 3 роки тому +7

    Ohhh 😮 my God I love ❤️ this woman 👩 lord who’s she oooo I love ❤️ your message

  • @shakeeraduncan9814
    @shakeeraduncan9814 3 роки тому +6

    I love this, I pray God continue to bless your ministry. I pray also that I will not make these mistakes in my upcoming marriage. Thank you for this information.

  • @pindirushwaya1324
    @pindirushwaya1324 3 роки тому +1

    I have heard people speak but this lady has an anointing... Mmmmm I'm even crying listening to this

  • @olayinkasolomont
    @olayinkasolomont 3 роки тому +2

    Yaaaaaay😍... women who have dedicated their lives to partner with God to make one man special
    Less than 3months here🥰

  • @zeea1249
    @zeea1249 3 роки тому +11

    I love you pastor M, a woman that speaks the Truth!!! God bless you

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........

  • @gcinilesindyshongwe4397
    @gcinilesindyshongwe4397 3 роки тому +12

    Thank you maam .. am currently going through a rough patch in my marriage and am glad I found this video ... I trust God will help me through these difficult times...

    • @estheresther8275
      @estheresther8275 2 роки тому

      Well l call a spade a spade. And my husband can testifly to that. Thank for the information. Esther

  • @mfonwilson5380
    @mfonwilson5380 3 роки тому +1

    You're truly a gift to women in this generation. Any woman that takes your advice must surely be a good married woman

  • @gloryaiyanyo2685
    @gloryaiyanyo2685 3 роки тому +2

    The truth is always bitter, but it’s needs to be told. Thanks for the reminder Pastor M.

  • @jamaica2010ism
    @jamaica2010ism 3 роки тому +106

    1. Thinking that you are the project - men are project oriented. Once he completed the project he moves on to the next project.
    2. Support wrong decision
    3. The state of familiarity which makes you forget to honor him.
    4. Not taking care of ourselves. God looks at the ❤ but men are moved by outward appearances.

    • @bc1248
      @bc1248 3 роки тому +10

      Love n Light Yeah, but men don’t take care of themselves. They age too and it shows. They let themselves go too, unkempt, and with their beer bellies standing out a yard in front of them. So what about that?

    • @jamaica2010ism
      @jamaica2010ism 3 роки тому +5

      @@bc1248 I was just listing what the video says.

    • @bc1248
      @bc1248 3 роки тому +3

      Love n Light I know. But I was just stating my view of it.

    • @jamaica2010ism
      @jamaica2010ism 3 роки тому +5

      @@bc1248 oh ok. Got confused because you replied under my comment. Usually ppl just start their own thread when stating their own views. I like the comment though, it brings a balance to the discussion.

    • @bc1248
      @bc1248 3 роки тому +2

      Love n Light You are right. I should have put it in the general comment section.

  • @isiomabamidele7611
    @isiomabamidele7611 2 роки тому +14

    Thank you Pastor Mildred. You really hit the nail on the head. We are guilty of almost, if not all that you have talked about. One concern I have is the second mistake you mentioned. Women should not support their husbands' wrong decisions. This has caused a lot of problems in marriages. Most men don't see it this way. They feel they are not being supported by their wives. My advice most times to women is that they should air their views respectfully but shouldn't stop there: rather, they should also go on their knees and pray for their husbands. God always honours our prayers when we're sincere. May God continue to bless you as you bless others.

  • @xandilo
    @xandilo 2 роки тому +2

    I love her! So frank and her theology is on point!

  • @portiakobd1649
    @portiakobd1649 3 роки тому +8

    Yho, u know watching this video I become emotional, because I'm married n I'm 31years of age, n now I didn't see the wrong things that I was doing to my husband, disrespect is the only thing that breaks things and lead our husband to cheat n change towards us, n I salute you, every thing you said it's true need to stand up and start making right things, thank you for the good tips or can I say advice, dankie 🙏

  • @nopysango8752
    @nopysango8752 3 роки тому +11

    The world needs women like u. GOD bless u.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @topnotch8037
    @topnotch8037 3 роки тому +3

    This is my Mama Ohhhhh. World hear her. Some of us owe her everything. Chai P.M your making my marriage sweet....thankyou Ma

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you....

  • @chosensiwale4293
    @chosensiwale4293 3 роки тому +1

    What a blessed woman you are, Pastor!
    May God Almighty bless you and your husband much more!!

  • @rhondatownes2013
    @rhondatownes2013 3 роки тому +2

    AMEN Lady 🎉 Not this is a channel I can really ENJOY and LEARN From. Thank you for your Obedience 🎊

  • @SholzTV
    @SholzTV 3 роки тому +12

    Grassland & merged together 🤣🤣I can't. I'm not married yet but learning alot. This respect thing alot of us don't understand it. I'm reading a book called "Love & Respect" by Dr. EMERSON EGGERICHS and it opened my eyes to alot. Men definitely need respect and women should even respect thier husbands more than pastors. His grace is sufficient 🙌🏾. GOD BLESS YOU PASTOR M

    • @bc1248
      @bc1248 3 роки тому +3

      Sholz TV Yeah, but these guys don’t respect their woman back. And that’s a big problem. I believe that a man deserves exactly what he dishes out. If he is disrespectful to his woman it is dead wrong for her to respect him. Dissing him back is the way. If he is free to express himself than so is she. I think of the old TV sitcom Honeymooners with Ralph and Alice as the model. Ralph was disrespectful to Alice and Alice dissed him back.

    • @diasporavoice8641
      @diasporavoice8641 3 роки тому +3

      @@bc1248 what you say here about disrespect goes back to the foundation of the relationship. Was he respectful of you at the start of the relationship?
      A lot of women forge ahead in bad relationships choosing to overlook bad behaviours telling themselves he will change once we are married.
      Have you heard the saying, Love is blind, Marriage is the eye opener?
      The truth is that it only gets worse. You cannot change what you choose to tolerate. I say to the young ladies I mentor, to always very carefully scrutinise how the man in your life behaves around his sister, his aunties, his mother and his grandmother as well as other women in general. Yiu can almost be certain that how he treats other women in his life, is how he will treat you. If you are not comfortable with how he responds to other women, do not tolerate it. Walk, because if you choose to ignore it, you will soon discover that you already saw the warning signals but chose to ignore it.

    • @bc1248
      @bc1248 3 роки тому +2

      diaspora voice I understand what you’re saying and you are right. But I was just saying that a woman shouldn’t respect a man who doesn’t respect her. I believe that people are best suited to their kind. Sometimes two people love each other but they on a different level in being. They may be disrespectful to each other but still love each other like Ralph and Alice really loved each other but dissed each other.
      So I do not believe that a woman should be sentenced to respect when a man does not respect her. If he disses a woman she should diss him back. A man might actually a respect a woman who socks him with truth. Knowing that she’s not dumb enough to respect him when is blunt to her. Never mind that respect foolishness bcuz he’s not on that level. Wallop him left and right with truth. Be as blunt to him as he is to her.

  • @johnobasi2195
    @johnobasi2195 3 роки тому +3

    God bless you and your family this year. This is very very very grateful. Thanks

  • @japarimodibboyusuf6912
    @japarimodibboyusuf6912 3 роки тому +2

    Can't wait for this. Thank you Pastor Mildred♥️♥️

  • @nwegehyigillian5416
    @nwegehyigillian5416 3 роки тому +2

    I am so blessed with this teaching
    Thanks so much woman of God

  • @lucyngoma2352
    @lucyngoma2352 3 роки тому +3

    So profound. Thanks for sharing and God bless you

  • @adejokeadeosun9291
    @adejokeadeosun9291 3 роки тому +14

    Hmm marriage is not about what you can get but about what you can give 👍❤️😘

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..

  • @livingstonmorgan8453
    @livingstonmorgan8453 3 роки тому +2

    Wow these Counseling sessions are very powerful and is required for our females to the Queen they are created to Be!!

  • @christabelbenjamin9892
    @christabelbenjamin9892 2 роки тому +1

    More single and married people need to watch these videos. Not just for marriage but pastor KM keep dropping Godly nuggets

  • @beam-biblicalencouragement8812
    @beam-biblicalencouragement8812 3 роки тому +3

    This is powerful....thank you pastor❤️

  • @SamuelNKiap
    @SamuelNKiap 3 роки тому +1

    My sister Pastor, you are speaking wisdom for all woman. Yes, humility and respect draws LOVE from man.

  • @TheBAHUBSA
    @TheBAHUBSA 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for this vlog especially coming from a christian & biblical perspective, Marriage is challenging

  • @DennisDenis
    @DennisDenis 3 роки тому +3

    Thank 👍 you,so much for this counseling, you are 'God sent' , every women should listen 👂.

  • @kabasophiri7264
    @kabasophiri7264 3 роки тому +5

    Powerful teachings indeed have learnt alot m married for 7 years with 3 children..and on the 7 mistakes we make have noticed some mistakes l personally make..😍

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you....

  • @sulaimanlaminkamara6612
    @sulaimanlaminkamara6612 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks for your presentation. It's very educative and touching. Keep it up. Of course I am a victim of those mistakes you mentioned about married women. These guys are our mothers, Aunts, sisters , daughters etc ,but very difficult to deal with when it comes to love or marriage relationship..May the Almighty God continue to give you the wisdom to impart these sacred words of wisdom to women who have ears. Thanks and stay safe.

  • @preciousvictorakah
    @preciousvictorakah 3 роки тому

    The way you speak the truth is something else. I love you, Ma. You're very unique.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........

  • @barimarepublic3299
    @barimarepublic3299 3 роки тому +3

    this hits hard on the side of men as well... mama your word hits differently

  • @tithemidozard2854
    @tithemidozard2854 3 роки тому +4

    As long as I get videos like this I will keep sharing ☺️. You also talk from personal experience and that is more educational 🙌

  • @npzwane9331
    @npzwane9331 3 роки тому +2

    I am speachless. In this day and age I thought that there are no longer any women who speak such unreproachable wisdom. Your words of wisdom remind me of the story of the Prophet Elijah when he told God that all Israel has forsaken God such that there were no longer any people of God on earth but God assured him that He had in fact reserved for Himself seven thousand more(1 kings 19:18).
    Therefore it still remains that no matter how much we can believe that women who believe and speak godly truths are finished the truth is that the Lord God will always reserve a few for Himself at any given point no matter the level of influence Satan has exerted on this world which is now nothing but a Devil's workshop where truth is abhorred and falsehood is elevated at a scale never seen before!
    God bless you sister.

  • @Heart2HeartwithGeo-ds7km
    @Heart2HeartwithGeo-ds7km Рік тому

    This video is so insightful! Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo really breaks down some of the most common mistakes that married women make in their relationships. It's refreshing to see someone talk about these issues with such honesty and clarity. I appreciate that she doesn't just point out the mistakes, but also provides practical solutions for how to avoid them. Every woman, married or not, can benefit from watching this video and taking note of the mistakes to avoid in their own relationships. I can't wait to watch the second part!

  • @laoluadegbesan9794
    @laoluadegbesan9794 3 роки тому +11

    Simple content with amazing delivery, I appreciate your down to earth practicality.
    The Vashti part really got to me. I pray and hope women realises how this part plays out, better to learn than to experience same. Part of why many discover their husbands had other wives with children after his demise. Better not be too familiar with your husband, deliberately reserve admiration and honour for him.
    No wife is honoured being equal to her husband, honour goes to wives in humility. Pepper body changes no real man. I am a man, and i pray and hope every wife will learn from your submissions in this broadcast. Thank you.

  • @thesoultouch.639
    @thesoultouch.639 3 роки тому +36

    This message was really timely to save my marriage, I thank God for it BSE it's highlights all the 7 issues that were almost tiring us apart.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 3 роки тому +1

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..

  • @emmanuellanwanze5084
    @emmanuellanwanze5084 3 роки тому

    I am still single but blessed listen to you Beautiful Mama. Thanks a lot Ma & more blessings Amen

  • @kokog5690
    @kokog5690 2 роки тому

    You just make me remember late pastor Mrs odukoya who was an inspiration to lots during her time.. God bless you for all you do

  • @SmilesfromGod
    @SmilesfromGod 3 роки тому +5

    This video has been a blessing to me. Thank you so much for sharing. Blessings to you.

  • @ikupamercykabigumila1377
    @ikupamercykabigumila1377 3 роки тому +12

    1. I am not the project.
    Marriage is never about what I can get but it is always about what I can give.
    I am to help him achieve his other projects.
    2. Supporting the wrong decisions.
    Being the voice of reason in my husband's life. Acts 5:1-11
    Stand up for the truth.
    I determine the legacy my husband leaves for the children.
    Tell him the truth prayerfully and respectfully
    3. Familiarity.
    Respect is the major need of a man. He is to be treated with honor and respect.
    4. Not taking care of myself.
    Looks:
    Men are moved by what they see.

  • @karengacheri9716
    @karengacheri9716 2 роки тому +1

    Offlate been learning much on marriage ...not married,hence am glad am getting prepared before the time...things the spirit has been talking to me and making me land on platforms I can learn...these are things my marital mom may not teach me,not even my mom.... God bless you WOG....Born again women got alot to learn ..they always complain our marriages end in doom...and glad we are sharpening each other... kindly,release a book well published ..am here to buy...God's grace is sufficient 🧡💜

  • @oto-obongumoh9023
    @oto-obongumoh9023 11 місяців тому

    I just listened to this. I am extremely blessed. I have decided to make the needed corrections. Thank you @ Pastor Mildred Okonkwo . May God continue to bless your ministry. You have impacted so many lives .

  • @Slighttalk
    @Slighttalk 3 роки тому +67

    I loved your talk, but there was something you said that caught my attention, I quote "he his my pastor first of all before he is my husband." I feel its suppose to be the other way round, that's me anyway.
    I will really like to hear mistakes married men make too.

    • @seleinashurake1498
      @seleinashurake1498 3 роки тому +7

      I noted that too but I'll just pick what's important and leave the rest.

    • @azegeaustin5615
      @azegeaustin5615 3 роки тому +3

      Interesting, however the statement emphasized, could encourage women to see the pastor first before the husband. Her massage was ok. Nice job to her.

    • @mariegenius
      @mariegenius 3 роки тому +4

      According to the Bible she is correct ❤️

    • @lebonthite
      @lebonthite 3 роки тому

      There's no first or last. These things run as a package. We must learn to see this as a package.

  • @emilywood9131
    @emilywood9131 3 роки тому +4

    Wise words my sister! God bless you ❤️

  • @olufunkeoyeyemi9066
    @olufunkeoyeyemi9066 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much. I have always seen you but never watched your talks. Thankful for this...maybe someday, i will visit your church. God bless you.

  • @victoriachiamaka6484
    @victoriachiamaka6484 2 роки тому +1

    I love you Pastor M.
    You've been a blessing to me.

  • @agapeshekinah4444
    @agapeshekinah4444 3 роки тому +10

    I needed this. Thank you so much ❤️
    God bless you Mama
    My life will never be the same honestly

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........

    • @peacea236
      @peacea236 2 роки тому

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 fraudster

  • @ladynaomi8919
    @ladynaomi8919 3 роки тому +74

    My prayer is to be part of this special group of women. I'm 33 years and still single. Lord show me mercy......😔Amen

  • @kingsleyokposin8491
    @kingsleyokposin8491 2 роки тому +1

    Beautiful message Mildred!! you have found your purpose God be with you! while you help people discover their weakness & strengthen themselves. good job

  • @wambuiwinnie99
    @wambuiwinnie99 2 роки тому +1

    Am not married, but am here watching the video again and again. Thanks Mildred

  • @DebModelz
    @DebModelz 3 роки тому +4

    Wow..this was good,simple and practical tips. So glad i found your channel pastor M💜💜

  • @titilayoojo8297
    @titilayoojo8297 3 роки тому +5

    Wowww!!!this is amazing. I wish I had come across this video much earlier in my marriage but I'm glad I've found it now. Thank you. New sub 👍

  • @lewinmukui70
    @lewinmukui70 3 роки тому

    Beautiful teaching from a beautiful lady about the reality.
    GOD bless you madam

  • @eniolagreat6349
    @eniolagreat6349 2 роки тому +1

    Wow....this is so inspiring. More anointing to you woman of God. You've indeed blessed my heart.

  • @Honeyisle
    @Honeyisle 3 роки тому +4

    Love this, thank you for your wise teaching. I will pass unto my family and friends.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 3 роки тому

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........

  • @mitchmaganji4383
    @mitchmaganji4383 3 роки тому +7

    Thank you for your amazing words they encouraged me so much as a wife

  • @tripplebben8781
    @tripplebben8781 2 роки тому +1

    Pastor, this is the best study I heard about marriage counseling , blessings Pastor 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @mariasono6117
    @mariasono6117 3 роки тому +1

    This is a powerful and helpful teaching,we needed to hear that.

  • @tracypeters7866
    @tracypeters7866 3 роки тому +91

    "Cornrows that has turned into grassland" 😂😂 Thank you for saying it like it is. I'm learning.

  • @evangelistavanesa-fermin7227
    @evangelistavanesa-fermin7227 2 роки тому +3

    Ive learnt a lot..... familiarity want to kill my marriage oooh and not takimg care of myself.....even as a young marriage and young pastor wife jajajajja Thank you Jesús...the explanation is very simple and understandable

  • @matildachigbata5654
    @matildachigbata5654 3 роки тому +2

    The truth might not be easy to hear but it has to be said. Loved the message Mama thank you. I have learnt alot and I am so going to share this video...

  • @v.chioma
    @v.chioma 3 роки тому +3

    Already saved this in my archives. I know I will need to be reminded of this! Thank you Pastor Mildred❤️