How To Frustrate Your Man | Kingsley Okonkwo
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- Опубліковано 10 кві 2021
- Over time men have complained about behavioral patterns their spouses have that demoralize them, unknown to the women, which makes the relationship suffer. Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares "How To Frustrate Your Man" or better still "How Not To Frustrate Your Man."
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Pastor K, I thoroughly enjoyed this message. However, what should I do if what you speak off regarding what men appreciate is what I crave for in my relationship as a female? I want the respect, to be able to chat with a potential partner as a friend, and not to feel like I am getting nagged by 'I love you', when will you marry, what's your timeline etc.? How do I feel encouraged when I can't enjoy the basic peace of mind and happiness in courtship that will allow me to arrive at the very decision that I want to? Help me please because at this point, I find more peace in not trying at all 😳😔
You have really impacted on me greatly sir,, thank you very much sir for yielding to the call of God..
What of if its a man who exhibits these characters
@@blepaok we're wearing exactly same shoes!
1. Not appreciating his efforts
2. Not understanding timing
3. Not understanding submission
4. Not believing/supporting his dreams
5. Not respecting him, specially publicly
6. Not being emotionally responsible
7. Not knowing when to be his friend.
I’ve leaned some more from this video, thank you for sharing.🙏🏾
Thanks sir
@@gerryzoetv3471 I’m a lady
If a single woman does all the above, then she's not your woman
@DD don’t mention it
Thank you❤
Hello Pastor Kay, pls kindly teach men how to love. And pls make more episodes to serve as reminder. So many girls know these things but their men frustrate them a lot because of lack of knowledge on the part of those men. Thanks.
Honestly, most of his messages are targeted AT women. When men play a major role in the issues
@Kingsley Okonkwo when are you having an exclusive talk with the men. They really need teaching
Watch more videos
Go listen to the wife. He teaches the woman while the wife teaching the men. Stop being one sided
@@Destroyandrebuild He can't talk about every need. That's why there are several ministries/callings; when we want teaching on a certain matter, we know where to go.
This message is talking to me...
I feel guilty, you really nailed it sir.... thanks for this and I will adjust on my part. GOD HELP ME
Amen!
Every human being both male and female need all these things....not just men.
If you follow the steps you will have a peaceful home, because Satan has found the woman's weakness and he use the woman well but can not get to a man. To get to the man you get to the wife and use the woman to d destroy the man. We are different beings
@@suzanne-cs7sx Well...I believe this Satan can work through all human beings to do bad things. Both men and women.
This is basically saying that obey men, follow their rules, follow their dreams, support them and you will be a happy wife. How do you get to be a happy wife? Through the man providing you with a home to take care of, giving you money and taking care of the children you give birth to. So in the end, what does the woman gain? What is the happiness in this? Maybe some kids and a home to take care of and a husband to obey. And the best part is the husband to tell you , I love you...that is when you have been submissive and obedient. To me, it doesn't sound right. It has to be a relationship where you both support, respect, protect, provide for each other, submit to each other, and love each other. Happiness is relative anyway.
I feel there should be a lot more teaching and grooming for the men. Too much dos and donts for women and not a lot for the men. Please do more for the men so they also learn to do better for the women. Thank you
You're right but I also think everyone has a unique calling. I'm sure there are other ministers who are heavily devoted to teachings that groom the men.
God bless you! Very few people are teaching men these fundamentals.
Supported
@@ogongare ua-cam.com/video/ofA_0EwRjdw/v-deo.html for men
Women are the ones who steers a relationship. Sometimes if the woman change the man will change because he sees the woman's worth.
The whole world is always teaching women how to treat a man , how to keep a man . When can we start teaching men how to keep women, how to be faithful, how to create time for their family?
If you follow Pastor Kingsley closely you'll know he's balanced. Go through he's videos you'll see lots of videos where he talked to men.
He has another video tailored towards women too
Pastor K talks to both men and women almost on every topic. Please follow him you'll be glad
@@onyedikachiemmanuelubani5397 you're right
You start a UA-cam channel and do it. Be the change you want to see
Listening to this video, two things are quite clear. Men are needy and the whole world revolves around them. As a woman that wants to be with a man; you either learn to work with the situation or stay single...
God bless you ma'am🙏
Ya
Very correct
Indeed true mommy ❤🙏
But women equally have theirs...
I understand you though, but this video is particularly in favour of men!
Lets not forget that submission does not mean saying and doing nothing, about lies, cheating, beating and mismanagement of finances and laziness. Each person is accountable to the other on these matters.
na dem🤣😂
@@ayodelealedare6507 the lady is right... tolerating unnecessary bad habits n suffering without a way out isn't submission.
Thank you so much for this. I stumbled on your network and I must say that I appreciate your perspectives in the issues you highlighted. We have a lot of counselors or motivational speakers out there but your perspective suited my cultural background so I thank you. God bless you.
Women get replenished when they have emotional companionship while men get depleted when they have the same... wow! Thank you so much for your insight! Wow!
Pastor K is describing men and I'm like, in that case I'm probably a man, because I don't like being told what to do, my solution to something I'm not so good at is running away, and just looking for somewhere else where there is no judgement. That's why I like spending much of my time by myself, because there is no judgement, no standards and I can relax completely. But then I get scared that I've been single for too long and I've grown comfortable with setting my own rules and living by my own judgement, that it may be difficult to adjust or cope when I start dating again.
You need a paradigm shift brother, by reading the right books believe me you’ll adjust.
It is ok and wonderful to be single.💗🤗
@@CodingToInspire she's a woman
Buy and dog and d.. alone
@@jenjen7558 It is not okay to be single and is not wonderful to be single. You are lying!!!! It is God's plan who created unity, marriage. Read Gene 1-3 Chapters. You can not withdrawal money you have not deposited in the bank perior. It means money has to deposit characters that attract the same type of men.
Pastor Kingsley. Every time I bump into your UA-cam videos_you always bless my life. I dunno how but you always speak the ‘truth’. In fact, one of the reasons I keep watching your videos or listening to your messages is because they are always backed up in God's word. Thank you so much.
Thank you Pastor for all of the videos you post. You provide so much wisdom based upon the truth. Due to the way God created men and women, I personally think it is a true miracle that even one man and woman get and stay married. You are giving men and women the keys to decode/understand one another to have a healthy marriage. May God bless you and your ministry. 🙏
It's not women. It's human.
Every human can be this way.
I know!
Thanks so much man of God, you are really helping me to be a good wife, I parise God for you! More grace, and inspirations!
God bless you Pastor Kingsley for this wisdom. May God empower me to apply it in Jesus Name amen
Thank you very much for this video ...I struggle with these a lot and never know where I was going wrong so thank a lot...may God bless u and your family Kingsley
Perfect 👌🏾 God bless you. You are so on point. WISDOM!💪🏽
This was so helpful thank you greatly. Well articulated, precise and great.
Emotional depletion of men against emotional Replenishment for women.....is my greatest lesson in this video. I seriously did not know this.
Thanks so much sir,. each time I listened to your teaching I can learn new thing.
Thank you very much sir am Seriously in this situation now hopefully I can change and put all this into practice
So much wisdom. Thank you pastor
After watching this, am now thinking, Geez! How has he been coping with me. I now see how iv had it so wrong all this time. Thank you. I have taken notes and will do it right this time
Respect gives off a fragrance of beauty.
Chaiii!!! Your teachings have impacted my marriage so powerfully, God bless you!!
The day I decided to start putting all of these into practice and most importantly treating my husband like a king he started cheating on me. Nothing makes sense to me again ever since then
Wow! This is sounds really sad, would you like to chat with Pastor K directly... The contacts are on the pinned comment.
This is sad 💔. I'm sorry
@@ntokotom147 thanks a lot. We are trying to work it out but honestly I will never see him the same way I used to
Maybe it was too late. The damage was already done and he had mental and emotionally gone when you started treated him like a king. He wasn't convinced you were not just playing a role.
I can relate. I did all I could, be a friend, confidant,support system, respectful and loving, and showed him how grateful I was for what he did for the family. Guess what! He cheated. Men can never get enough. Live your life sis
Thanks for always being a blessing sir, we are learning well.
It’s so funny aw iono if I’ll say it’s my mind or the Holy Spirit buh something has just been teaching me to really appreciate the little effort I see now compare to all the shortcomings I have experienced .... am super excited to watch this 😊
I experiences the same too. Where my husband don't support what i do as i can support him always. He complained in everything even when i go to church, pray and he nags. Doesn't listen to me. What do i do in this case PK. I have been following and listening to your teachings since i found you on UA-cam and sometimes i will forward them to my husband because you teach so much of what i and hubby are experiencing, we almost go our separate ways last year. Your teaching have been giving me consolations to still carry on. Thank you for your words of encouragement full of wisdom and may the Lord continue to bless you Amen 🙏
1.If your man doesn't support you
2.competes with you
3.only thinks about himself than sis you have a problem he might be toxic and he will probably never change... But go for counseling and try to make him understand if he doesn't just leave.
@@emmaodior9150 Divorce is not supposed to be a quick go-to solution.
@@danielattah1836 I know that and it's the reason why I suggested she talks to her man and go for counseling Tham if he doesn't than she should leave and I don't think you understand how draining a toxic or narcissistic person is... It damages you mentally 😩
U are not alone.
@@emmaodior9150 💯👌
I honestly don’t know what is there to dislike about this topic
Why are humans this way
Thank you pastor have been watching your videos for some time now
And am learning a lot
Am getting more knowledge n refreshed with the word of God n ur teachings
God bless you sir
This is sooo true and practical.. God bless u sir.. I am going to start doing all this to mk mu husband king
Thank you pastor K. Learning truly never ends.
Thank you Pastor Kingsley..this is very helpful, i ve learnt alot
Thank you sir, God bless and replenish you and Pastor Mildred always.
I usually feel jealous that your messages are more geared towards the singles, but this... this Pastor k, this touches on both. Thank you. And yes, I've picked my own from this teaching(I feel attacked😁). Biko no dey too forget your married audiences o. Thank you sir.
Why do guys find it hard to say sorry. Also if guys run away from where they are being criticised, why not make some changes as opposed to run to somewhere else? If a man has several character flaws, only women who want to use him will stick with him.....
Very helpful. Thanks so much Sir 🙏
This was helpful. Thank you kindly.🙏🏾
Live Long Pastor K...!!!!😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Thank you pastor. The problem with most men is that they demand respect but they dont deserve it
If you respect her she will respect you
If you support her dreams she will support yours. But in Africa it's not many men who want to see their wives succeed
Learn and don't give excuses
In most case scenario, When a man so gives a woman an inch by respecting her she goes miles misbehaving thinking she is on her right despite frustrating a man.
This message is not aim at attacking women but helping them to know how to walk side by side with their men to achieve marital purpose.
It all depend on an individual mindset.
Check Pastor Kingsley's wife teachings on how not to frustrate your woman.
Thanks PK. You nailed all 7 points succinctly. More grace and wisdom sir
Thank u this is so helpful,more wisdom sir
Who else from Kenya
Thank you, everything is so true and practical
Particularly as a strong African woman ..this video is real CRUCIAL 4 us sisters..we know why ..I begooo !!!!
This video is showing me that all men are not the same. My man is so detailed that he will be more bothered by the dirty plate than me 🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂please my father has 4 daughters and he is cleaner than all four of us and my mom put together. I guess there's always exceptions 😂
you spoke to me,thank you sir am grateful .
Thank you..I needed to hear this. God bless
Thanks pastor for this video. It was so timely. Now I know where the problem came from. Thanks once again, sir.
Wao, I am humbled Pastor, thanks for blessing my marriage.
It's good practice to appreciate each other. Motivation and appreciation in a relationship is vital.
You always bless me, thank you sir
Twaz really helpful...Thank you Sir
This video was for me, it gave me insights I never had. Thank you Pastor Kingsley
Perfect video 📹. 100%... my church for life
Inspiring, thank you Sir
Video editing is top notch 💯
So profound 👏👏👏👏 thank you pastor...
Very insightful. God bless u sir
Your teachings are really impactful. But sometimes I just wonder why God made us so sensitive that to live a happy life seems to be so much hard work. Like sometimes the work to just communicate in the right way can even be overwhelming, it seems like one is not free, cos everything has to be extremely calculated.
Wow. You said a mouthful here
This 😭. Relationships are so much work. Sometimes you end up keeping quiet because its just too much!
I like your perspective my sister.
I'm kinda was in that kind of state too. As a God-fearing, intelligent, good looking young man, It was quite a slap on my face when i see ppl not as "endowed" as I am succeeding in their relationships whilst I keep crossing from relationships to relationships "frying pan to blazing fire", lol.
But i made an intentional decision to give time to social self development, and i tell you it was a hard at first, but it became easier and enjoyable once i got this secret.
It's something simple and i hope you wont miss it.
This is it: Managing/Maintaining a relationship will continue to seem overwhelming till you get to a state where doimg the right things become natural
As adults we're gradually starting to realize that the things we were taught about relationships arent exactly true, and if it took years to learn those,
then obviously it cant all be erased in just a few seminars, lol.
It may seem overwhelming and strenous at first but overtime you'll get better at it and soon it'll become natural to you. so dont give up yet, okay. We're cheeering you up here ,lol
us who are not yet there will make a difference coz ure naturing us well well
Thank you sir for the wisdom.
This message is for me...thank you PK
This has helped me!! Thank you. 🙏🏾
This is very helpful. Thank you sir
This is so true.... much appreciation to making this video Pastor Kingley.... but... definetely men are wired differently from men in terms of expressing emotions and all but I think men need to reveal these to their wemen to strengthen the relationship. Talk to your woman and she'll learn to understand you.
Thank you PK for this.God bless
Very very helpful. Turns out I'm guilty of 2 or 3 of it. I'm taking corrections already and I'll apologize for how far I've erred
God bless you sir
May Oil on your head never run dry 🙏
Good morning Pastor. God bless you for your message. Your message is always a blessing to me.
Thanks for always blessing us pstkingsley i have learnt a lot through your books and videos. God has blessed you sir
I'm a woman and I also want to be treated with the great advice you gave. Seems it’s a human thing and not really exclusively a man thing
Sure. It's a general human desire.
Don’t mind him.
@@Destroyandrebuild don't mind who? Wow
@@Destroyandrebuild go listen to his previous video.. before to talk nonsense. You fool
@@harrystylz8481 There's no need to call him a fool dear.
God bless You Man of God.
A lot learned this was very important to me
Thank you so much Sir for this. I had listened to this before and shared it. but now that I applied the solutions you gave, I understand everything you shared better now.
God bless your labour of love Sir.
Knowledge is very powerful oo😀. Thank you so much Pastor K.
Thank you sir for this, God bless you so much and it was really really helpful.
Hah God bless you sir 🙏 🙌. How i wish a lot of women would watch this 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thank u pastor K 🔥🔥
I really enjoyed this video, I used to think your messages are basically for singles
Learnt a lot from this. Thank you so much
God bless you Pastor K🙏
Thank you very much pastor😊🥰🙏
Love this, all truth....
P.K. how about when the man is the one who is petty? Finding fault in every little thing! How should the woman react?
Someone should answer this question
Please me too need answer 😫
Send P.K a dm on Instagram or to the numbers he posted above
@@jonscott234 thanks.
I really want the answer to this question
Develop shock absorber for the pettiness
Very helpful
Thank you sir
Dear PK, awesome inspiring video. I like that you “refer” certain matters to PM. Would you consider a system where you can provide links to her materials on such topics for ease of reference? Thanks a millie sir
Very helpful 👍
Another very insightful video. Appreciate his efforts and support his dreams. Thank you PK🙏🏽
Ayope❤
Ayope 😎🙌
I'm single,and I'm learning alot.. Quite informative
Am soo impacted by the. Thank you pst K
God bless you sir!!
Thank you sir
Wow!!! I know better now. Thank you P.K
This is really good. Thank you Sir
Thank you pastor
Was really helpful..thank u sir
Well done sir.
Always helpful and insightful pastor K🤩🤩
Thanks, Sir for this.