5 POWERFUL Mindset Habits That Changed My Life
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- Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
- Here are some powerful mindset habits that changed my life and truly helped me create my dream life and live a better life in general. Thank you for tuning into an all new self care summer video. Today let's talk about things like the law of attraction, self love and positivity. I hope this video is motivational for you!
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Hi guys! I'm Carrie Rad! Welcome to my channel. On my channel I talk about all things self care, self love and how to live your best life! Some of my most popular videos are how to relax videos, how to get better sleep, how to wake up at 5am every morning, and how self love can change your life.
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5. Being busy doesn’t mean being successful (you might have terrible personal life)
4. Things happening to me vs things happening for me ( don’t play a victim, look out for silver lining)
3. Once I have this or that ... I will be happy/ successful ( once I lose weight, or find the love of my life, or get promotion). Think how would you feel without those things. Who would you be without a career? Separate yourself from labels.
2. Failure is not the end, it’s the beginning; you can always start anew
1. Take pride in little things you accomplish
Thank you for the very thoughtful summary!
Giving my life to God and learning about who He is has changed my life. These mindsets are found in the Bible ❤️
So beyond happy& proud of you! 🧡 God is so good & faithful. Giving your life to him is the best decision you’ll ever make!!! God bless you :)
I used to really struggle with not getting to the end of my (usually unrealistic) “to do” list until my elder wiser psychologist sister gave me the following tip. She said to create two side by side lists - a “to do” list of things that need to be done today, your priorities and a “wish list” of things you would like to do if you have time today but tomorrow will still be fine if you don’t get to them. I now always finish my “to do” list then get to cross off things from my “wish list”. It also means if I am having a bit of a wobbly day I can just stop at the end of my first list and not berate myself for it.
I love the "this is happening for me" mindset. When my boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few years ago, I didn't realize it at the time, but I had really dodged a serious bullet. We were going to break up sometime, and I'm glad it happened sooner rather than later. You usually can't take hold of it in the moment, but "time really does heal all wounds." Or 98% anyways. I don't think it's very helpful when someone says it TO YOU in a time of crisis because I think it's something you need to come to terms with on your own, but having the sense that there is a way to grow from even the worst of experiences is so helpful.
I'm trying to help my older brother change his mindset right now. It's hard stuff. I wish there was something I could say to make him get it, but I think it might be something he has to come to on his own. I remember what started my entire journey... a few years ago I was 20 years old and living with my boyfriend of 2.5 years. Things had gotten kind of rough, we bickered a lot there towards the end. But one night I woke up and he wasnt in our bed and when I called him he said he was moving to Seattle. So there I sat, alone in my apartment, packing boxes 10 hours a day for a week, and I just thinking "I dont deserve this" .. but then I specifically remember one hot summer night, I was packing up my vinyls and I realized that this was making me a stronger person! 'This! Here, right now! After this I will be someone who has been through this and come out the other side!!' And I had a smile on my face the whole rest of the night. It had become a labor of love. And I've never looked back.
I found that asking “What is there to learn from this?” helps me get my power back when I’m feeling like the universe is throwing me for a loop!
I had a mindset of "financial success isn't for me - I'm supposed to struggle to survive". (Why? IDK) I've been in the process of changing that for the past year. To be honest, about 90% of the time I'm faking it until I make it, but I'm making double what I was this time last year, working less, and doing work I find really engaging. I'm excited to see where I am when I fully integrate this new mindset.
The mindset of things happening FOR you and not TO you is so powerful.. even if you surviving something is the only silver lining that is something. At 21 I was diagnosed with cancer... super sucky... but what is gave me? Is for the last 26 years I can say I survived cancer I can do 'xy or z'! That is amazing and powerful. And even at the time (1993 was way before the inspiration of social media) I didn't see it as 'poor me' I saw it as something to overcome.
When I do something not on my to do list, I write it on my list and check it off. It gives me a more correct sense of my day. I can tell myself, "I didn't get everything done on my list, but look what I got done!"
The first and last mindsets you mentioned really resonate with me and my experiences. I use to think being busy equated success. Every summer up until 2019, after classes had ended, I would pile on a bunch of activities: summer classes, jobs, volunteering, etc. I was afraid of being alone, so I would distract myself by over scheduling my time, not making time for self care. I was so unhappy. At one point, I even took a job that made me feel miserable just so it could take use up my time. If I wasn't busy, I would feel unproductive.
I spent two years working for a job that gave me great experience but did not ignite my passions and interests. When I quit, I spent a whole year exploring what types of careers really interested me. Now I'm working for a research lab that brings me so much joy and makes me feel like I have a purpose. I'm working on being alright with not doing as much and taking care of myself mentally and emotionally. Videos like yours help so much, and by watching your content, I have come a long way.
Thank you so much for your wonderful advice!!
All of this is something I have learned recently! A year ago I was in a job that I thought would be my dream job but it was unsatisfying and I felt undervalued. I decided to quit and move back in with my parents and had a lot of judgement from people about not having a future plan, I felt like a failure. That was 4 months ago and I've focused on my self care each day, worked hard on my daily mindset and I'm feeling like my creative self is thriving again, I've learned so much and I'm also starting a new job! Starting to see it as the best decision I made for myself :) Thank you for sharing your experience and making me feel like I'm not alone! WE GOT THIS xox
I really like this video, it's all very relevant and true :)
I am happy you shared your message because I am finding it helpful as I go through transitions of a breakup, a new job and new place to live. Definitely recreating a new life for myself and I am trying to create something beautiful
I’ve been really struggling with having a positive mindset lately, I’ve been guilty of having the the victim mindset. After listening to this I realised that I need to start filling my mind with good knowledge and truthful wisdom.. rather then allowing my mind to take over and go on it’s own journey. I would consider myself a very positive person, but I had allowed the negativity of what was going on around me to shape my mindset. Thanks Carrie! Started following all the social media’s, as the way you speak about these topics is light and relatable. ❤️
I absolutely loved this video this morning; at 40 I am starting over and you really hit on some key things I have been working on over the last few months. I look forward to more of your videos. Thank you ❤️
This is crazy! Definitely going through similar moments/changes in my life right now. This brings me hope and peace that all will be well. Thank you ❤
Your story about leaving everything, staying at your brothers and that transitional period of your life was exactly what I needed to hear as i'm in a super similar place and have really been trying to let go of pride, take a risk and find peace in that so thank you. This gave me courage and peace that life will bring me where it's meant to. Sending my love and good energy your way!
This video is what I needed. Sometimes I feel that I put a lot of pressure on me, lately I feel very frustrated with the way my life is happening, I feel like I want to do a thousand things but there is always something that gets in the way. Two years I left the university and I did not find a job so thanks to my parents I had the opportunity to study a specialization, since it was something that they told me I needed if I was looking for a job, now with the specialization I still can not find a job Monday through Friday, all my cousins, friends and even my boyfriend have full-time jobs from Monday to Friday. I almost a year ago with my specialization I started a small brand of products for a life with less waste so I make bags for vegetables and fruit or bulk producer has not been easy and in many occasions I find attacks from anxiety or a lot of stress for what I hope to achieve and what I think they expect from me.
Your videos and podcast help me in these times when I feel that I am still deciphering myself and what I have to do in life. Greetings from Mexico.
Georgina Rodriguez Hey Georgina, just read your comment and can really understand your frustration and why you put so much stress on you. But just keep going on and don‘t focus on the bad things which are in the past. I think it‘s awesome that you started your own project with the veggie bags. Keep up believing in you, you got this!! Love and hugs from Germany ❤️
@@MissPrincess2702 thank you for the lovely answer. I appreciate it so much. Love and hugs back to you from Mexico
I love your videos!! You’re so calming and your tips are so helpful ♥️
Beautiful comment! ua-cam.com/video/UjGcQodSwTI/v-deo.html
That’s exactly what I needed to hear! I’ve been living in the UK for almost six years and I have my true friends here, my partner and our dog. Due to some circumstances my visa expires in January 2020 and won’t be renewed until October 2020. At first I felt like a victim, I was so frustrated because I was about to lose it all. But then, I realised that I could use these months to my own benefit, get some new experiences and acquire new skills. So, now I'm planning to live my best life in Barcelona and enjoy it, rather than feel miserable that I have to leave the UK. That’s a mindset change.
I love this! I love the quote “things aren’t happening TO you, they are happening FOR you. “💕
your videos are so aesthetically pleasing and so soothing and you are such a beautiful person to look at and your voice is so soothing and good to listen to
I am always so inspired by your videos! Thank you for all your effort🥰❤️
Absolutely love these mindset habits. I am a self-care and empowerment coach and I often focus on the "if this, then that" mindset with my clients. I also help my clients move from a fear (fixed) mindset to a growth (expansion and opportunity) mindset! Love this video (and your channel) so much!
Thank you for your words, Carrie.
Your words helped me elevate my mood and journal my feelings today. 🙏 Tomorrow is my birthday, (I turn 25) and I was feeling low because I’m not where I want to be and I realized it was because I always place emphasis on things in the future that will bring me joy rather than the current place I’m in. I didn’t even realize it was a bad mindset I had but now I’m aware and want to change it.
This is my first comment in youtube. I really love your video! It is really helpful and inspiring.
Thank you for your sharing.💓
My mindset change that I'm working on: Being happy with where I am in life. I totally felt when you said that you had a million things you had to do and never realized that you had already accomplished so much. Currently I am working on taking my life back from my "hamster wheel" mind and learning to relax and be happy.
New subscriber. You are dropping true wisdom. You rock girl😊
Mindset that I have adapted is healing ... Im healing ... Healing everything in my life from start to finish ...
firstly i love this video and i definitely took notes lmao.
the whole 'checking off boxes on a to do list' thing REALLY helps me out on a daily basis, especially when i'm going through a depressive episode. i'll start my to do list with simple things like 'get out of bed' or 'drink a glass of water' or 'shower' bc when you're depressed those tasks seem like the most daunting tasks in the world. but! being able to do even one of those things and checking them off makes it seem like you're getting so much done! it's all about baby steps.
one mindset change i'm really trying hard to implement in my life is writing down the good things that happen to me every day. it's also one of the hardest things i've ever done bc in trying to make this a daily thing, i've learnt that i self-sabotage by thinking like 'no i'm in a bad mood and even this tiny good thing doesn't matter, i don't want to think about it. i just wanna be angry/sad/mad/etc' and that's such a toxic way of thinking!!! but the more i bring light to the little things, like you mentioned in this video, the more i feel connected to my life in a positive way. and then i don't even have to seek out good things that happen, they just kinda come. :)
I was just looking for some of your videos to watch befor bed and you post this. 😊
So happy Self Care Summer is back and that I have caught up on your last few videos. Have a fabulous day Carrie.
I am so obsessed with these self care videos! Swear this is free therapy
Thanks a lot for this video! You always give me some new perspectives and a little push to go through things or try something new. The most inspiring advice today was that is not useful to think about failing and better think in about new opportunities. Because I broke up one year ago with my ex boyfriend and had a really hard time after but because of that I found the courage to change my whole life and focus on things that I really love. So I didn't stop, I continued changing. And there were a lot of good changings, which I would have never lived without the first step in the beginning. Thank you Carry, for your inspiration ;)
Great content Carrie... I have begun to write ‘daily wins’ everyday to ensure (and look back on) myself what I have achieved each day. One thing I need to work on is how be more positive about anything challenges that may come my way rather then think ‘why is this happening to me’
I was recently being so hard on myself about how I was never going to do well on the LSATs and be a lawyer and it was bad. This video showed up on my feed and I felt like it was the Universe telling me to change my mindset. I’m so glad these videos are back ❤️
I failed the LSAT by a few points and it was all ok! You got this! ua-cam.com/video/UjGcQodSwTI/v-deo.html
Number 1 and Number 5 are my favorites. I feel much more accomplished if I focus on one project and get as much done on that as I can during the day, then jump from thing to thing in the interest of staying "busy", although, I will take time off from my bigger project to paint or draw. Speaking of feeling accomplished, I think taking time out at the end of the day to remind ourselves of what we accomplished, even if it's small, can be very helpful. I remember reading that psychologists tell parents that if they praise a child for putting away one toy, rather than criticizing him for the "huge mess" in his room, it makes the child likely to want to clean up more. Why wouldn't acknowledging our own small wins have the same effect?
Wedding planning is so fun and stressful! I am on the homestretch! I hope you have a great time planning!
This is probably my favorite video so far. I definitely have a bad habit with being overly critical of myself and need to work on my mindset. Thank you for this! I love all your videos. Keep up the great work! Lots of love from FL 💝
Things are happening FOR me... I listened to that podcast too a while ago and it stayed with me!!!
I always enjoy and appreciate your talks! I don't want to take away from the purpose of this video, but your outfits are so cute!
What did you do for work when you first moved to LA? That was before you were doing UA-cam and all that right? I applaud you for being brave enough to leave everything behind to come to LA! Can imagine how scary that was! Idk if I could have done it!
Taking life and each day one second at a time is so important to help not overthink or plan too far in advance since things can change at a rapid pace whether we want it to or not.. Thanks for this thought-provoking series, Carrie!! 👏🏼💗
Thank you for making this video, I'm going through a hard time in my life right now but from now on I will change my mind set, I will change the way I look at my problems. As you said, what's happening is for me and not to me. I love your videos, girl! Thank you!!
really feeling that last tip, I'm constantly beating myself up about not getting enough done and it really is a mood ruiner so thanks for that
Ahh first comment hehe 😁 just finished watching your last two videos. Thank you for putting the time into uploading so much content for your viewers! 🥰🥰🥰
Carrie thank you so much for making this great content! I took notes for all your mindset tips on my phone and will also write them down by hand, that deepens believes and thoughts even more for me. I love that you shared your personal story of your struggle in 2015/2016. did not expected that you went through such a rough time. Love what turned out! 😊 you are doing a great job and help & inspire others. Thank you so much Carrie ❤️ hugs from Germany
My primary mindset I try to get out of is thinking critical thoughts about myself. For instance, sometimes when I'm tired and slow about getting out of bed I commonly find myself thinking, "Get out of bed, you lazy thing." This is pretty tame as far as a negative thing to say to yourself, but I know that I'm not really a lazy person, and it sets unreasonable expectations for myself to pretend that I am just because I didn't jump out of bed the instant my alarm went off. Maybe I'm not lazy, I think. Maybe I'm just tired. And that's okay. There's always room for self-improvement and self-criticism, but I try to stick to being critical about things that are ACTUALLY a problem.
This is so beautiful and inspiring, Carrie! Tysm. 💓💕
Can’t express how much I love your videos✨
thank you so much Adriana
I think these are all great mindsets but on the second mindset I would add that when bad things happen to you it's normal to feel down and angry about it, and wanting to curse every God you know for it. After letting out that frustration, it's easier to see the bright side and what blessings it brings in disguise. This is true at least for me. I couldn't be all happy go lucky and optimistic right away if (for instance) I got fired and dumped on the same day.
Ho Carrie, it is always such a pleasure to look at your video! You are a really nice person, I can not stop telling you! I agree with you you said. It is so important to take care of ourself, of your time and little/big daily accomplishments and to “train” ourself!
I loved this video! I’m definitely going to work on the failure is not the end it’s a new beginning.. I recently got out of a terrible relationship at the beginning of this year and left my job in March to pursue a whole new career..
Random but your backrounds where you film are always so aesthetically pleasing!! I’m always running around my house trying to find a nice spot and good lighting but yours are always beautiful!! Loved this vid ❤️
Taken me years to figure out my style and what I like back there! Thank you for letting me know you like it! Means a lot :)
Oh the info in this video is SO relateable and need to watch this again and again. Congrats on your successes!
I just love your channel so much. Such a real, honest, empowering and encouraging channel. Thank you, Carrie. X
Thank you for always making videos like this, this helps me so so much!!
Change your mindset and you will change your life ♡ happiness is about being greatful with what you have and who you are, about being present in the moment ♡♡♡
Love your videos Carrie ♡♡♡
This video really resonated with me. Thank you!
I love this video! It really got me to think on how much pressure we put on are selves and that we just to slow down and take it Day by day. Really enjoying self care summer as always! Thank you 😊💕
Would you consider doing a video on time management. Talking about your to do lists and not doing enough in a day hit home. What are tips that help keep you on track and how do you get back on track once you've lost the motivation... keeping time to work out and eat healthy on top of everything... not procrastinating... ah help. I guess I need tips on how to stay present in life.
Thank you for making this video. I have a lot it things going on in my life right now, and this video really made me look at things a lot differently ❤️😊
Carrie, god, you're a fricken genius!!! Literally here just nodding along like "Right oooon, yes!"
Love this video! ❤️❤️
Yay! Will you be sharing wedding planning videos?
Your videos make me want to be a better person! Thanks for sharing your personal story!
You are an inspiration, thank you Carrie.
/Hala from Syria/
thanks for your insight
omg, I just came across your video and I LOVE YOU already!
Excited for a prospective wedding videooo 💛✨
Your videos are so inspiring and helpful, including this one. Thank you for sharing your tips😊.
very inspired video thank you!
Thank you Sapir!
Love this! Thankyou Carrie xx
OH MY CARRIE THIS VIDEO IS SO HELPFUL!!! YOU ARE AWESOME)))) (caps lock because Im so happy that I watched it!)
Amazing video as always Carrie! 💜💜
Carrie, I've been watching for a while and have resonated so deeply with your channel and the energy you give off! You're such a beautiful soul. I just found the Soul Sugar podcast and am IN LOVE! I've been binge listening on my walks in the morning and it's bringing me so much joy. Keep up the amazing work! All the love. Xo
Thank you so much for this sweet message, means so much to me!
Hi Carrie, thanks for sharing! #2 resonates so much. it’s so amazing how many humans in the world but having a unique path with unique set of interests and beliefs. when you think about it this way, it’s as if all circumstances and events meant to happen for you and only for you! there is a reason for all of these! and the end result will always be in your favor. lots of love and light.
Hello. Been in your channel lately. ❤️❤️❤️
I think those were to the point mindset habits. Great work! Love you Carrie
thank you Alexandra!! :)
Looking forward for more self care summer videos🙂👍
Your videos are so therapeutic ....❤❤
you + meghan tonjes = perfect combo
Great video and amazing tips as usual! Thanks ☺️ I also just wanted to let you know that it would absolutely be okay if you didn’t have a certain number of tipps to share with us! Do whatever floats your boat 😊
thank you for this video ❤
This was really helpful. Thankyou x
thank you for this video!!!
Such a great video, thanks for sharing
I love you! Can you do more vid outside?
This was really so helpful!
Greetings from Poland 💜
Thank you Carrie!! I love the tips you give us, are so true! Could you make some videos about easy dinners and snacks :) i like all your ideas! Thank you!
Thank you for this great Video.
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How you do one thing is how you do everything.
Updated skin care routine please please
Carrie, do you have any interest in becoming a motivational speaker?
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what is the song at the end of your video? I REALLY need to know :)
What happened to Mr. Hendrix? I miss seeing his sweet face
Omg I love your mug!!! Where from?!?!
It must be frm Jay Shetty ‘s podcast On purpose “ things are nt hppning to you but for u “