It's YOUR TURN to be confident.

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  • Опубліковано 30 жов 2024

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  • @sholonator92
    @sholonator92 2 роки тому +823

    This is what you call an influencer, someone that actually INFLUENCE your life in a positive way. Great Great content!

  • @revivehealth-i6z
    @revivehealth-i6z 2 роки тому +430

    I’m so glad to see that such a young woman has so much wisdom and has willingness to be vulnerable on social media. Tatiana, you are a beautiful person inside and out! Keep up this great content! ❤

    • @duakamran6750
      @duakamran6750 2 роки тому +3

      I agree! I love her clarity on this.

    • @_Matilde96
      @_Matilde96 2 роки тому +2

      She’s nearly in her 30s. Of course she’s wise young and educated lovely lady ! She been through some life lessons

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  2 роки тому +11

      Thank you so much, very kind of you

  • @farmgirl7891
    @farmgirl7891 2 роки тому +82

    DONT GIVE ANYONE YOUR POWER!!! Omg this part touched me!!! Omg

  • @mar.go_dev
    @mar.go_dev Рік тому +12

    “I’m a person of the word. When I want to do something, it’s not a matter of my ability it’s a matter of will” 🔥 That’s so cool! Thank you

  • @Sonny13_
    @Sonny13_ 9 місяців тому

    This woman is regal and wise. A real Queen

  • @TatianaJames
    @TatianaJames  2 роки тому +167

    It's your time to feel confident and stand tall knowing who you are and the value you bring as a human being. Tell me what your biggest takeaway from this video was by commenting below!
    TIMESTAMPS
    00:00 Introduction
    01:49 What TRUE confidence looks like
    04:29 Your Value cannot be earned
    06:27 It's okay to make mistakes
    07:18 How to become self-aware
    08:36 Don't give away your power
    09:56 Build your personal track record of success
    11:41 It's never a matter of ability, it's a matter of WILL
    13:05 Master your mind
    15:15 Take care of your physical appearance
    16:11 Self-care is NOT selfish
    18:03 Lead with your ENERGY
    19:16 Looks aren't everything
    20:45 Summary

    • @yagogermanm
      @yagogermanm 2 роки тому +2

      Loved this video! Thanks!🔥

    • @Siel-bm7gx
      @Siel-bm7gx 2 роки тому

      Awsome video and great advice for confidence. You are able.

    • @chinamcclain1722
      @chinamcclain1722 2 роки тому

      I needed this!

    • @elizabeth.Ruby.M
      @elizabeth.Ruby.M 2 роки тому +1

      Hello Tatiana, I love your shirt. I am a bee keeper and would love to know where you bought it? :)

    • @roadrunner734
      @roadrunner734 2 роки тому

      Tatian: I luv this video. Make more of these

  • @headheldhigh2922
    @headheldhigh2922 Рік тому

    I normally don't watch female entrepreneurs but you're so mesmerizing to watch and listen to.

  • @AnimalMoments7
    @AnimalMoments7 Рік тому

    thank u, this changed my life, i now have spotify premium, new car,new job,new huose, thank u, without this video i would of been stuck

  • @bozenawagner
    @bozenawagner Рік тому

    That is true. External validation is dangerous. As you said the moment the external validation is gone you are left alone. And you are never alone.

  • @annathelegend
    @annathelegend 2 роки тому +69

    I’ve been dealing with anxiety & depression since my childhood i was never taught how to love myself,i was bullied and I had a lot of things that affected the way I think about my self but this video here helped me so much to work for myself to really stand up and be the person i am without apologizing thank you❤

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  2 роки тому +18

      I'm sorry to hear that you've been dealing with that since childhood, I can only imagine how difficult it must be for a child who doesn't have the awareness/tools to help manage it. You bring up a good point, you said "I was never taught to love myself". I don't think I ever was either! That's something I learned on my own. Growing up we might learn to believe that love is something we only get from parents/family/friends when we "do" certain things or if we're a. "good girl/boy" then we hear "I love you". But wouldn't it be so valuable if our parents/teachers would prompt us to love ourselves and share all the reasons we have to love ourselves. That would condition "Self-love" from a young age and teach us that we can love ourselves and that's enough.

    • @allyoopintheair972
      @allyoopintheair972 Рік тому +3

      A lot of us have gone through the same thing...wishing you luck on your journey to rebuild yourself. Use your past heartbreak to make yourself stronger.

    • @anddr0552
      @anddr0552 Рік тому +2

      I resonate so much with your message, sending you love 💛

    • @labanyamoybarmn3483
      @labanyamoybarmn3483 Рік тому

      All sister and brothers havy havy my love

  • @sambadivilshit
    @sambadivilshit Рік тому

    you're so underrated yk you like explain things so properly and know what you're saying most of the famous influencers they go like(like you know you know) i mean even if they are able to speak properly they don't explain things in detail like you dooo i wish your advices would reach more people instead of half baked advices that are literal things we already know

  • @leonardaedits3742
    @leonardaedits3742 Рік тому

    From now on every day after I wake up, Im gonna watch this video so I never lose the track of very important things you thaught me in this video ! Thank you ❤

  • @jordanmcallister2605
    @jordanmcallister2605 Рік тому

    Your so well spoken and open minded good for you

  • @reikicharge
    @reikicharge Рік тому

    Turned on my channel and your video started to play. Wonderful Tatiana ....how loving and kind.

  • @quantum_man
    @quantum_man 2 роки тому +1

    Love the Blonde Hair! Suits you nicely.
    You and your husband are amazing and doing wonderful things for the World.
    Very important video message. Thank you!

  • @tianna7092
    @tianna7092 Рік тому +18

    “It’s not a matter of ability, it’s a matter of will.” This struck a cord within me. Thank you!

  • @liawatchesyoutube
    @liawatchesyoutube Рік тому

    Is it just me or she has the voice of a goddess and could be a news reporter? Great video btw, thanks for the tips🌻🥰

  • @traceytravels
    @traceytravels 2 роки тому +82

    I am currently building my confidence and this video came to me at the right time. Thank you so much & God bless you . Anyone out there who’s struggling with their confidence I want to remind you that you are not alone and you can do this ❤❤

  • @TheAdakinSkywalker
    @TheAdakinSkywalker Рік тому +3

    This is the first time I have heard somebody explain self-confidence in this way, and it is genius. I am a data-driven person by nature, so I love how this video gives real, measurable methods to increase an intangible concept like confidence. I’m sharing the points from this video with my two teenage sons.

  • @elfilalibouchra6247
    @elfilalibouchra6247 2 роки тому +3

    I am going right NOW to finish the task I was avoiding the whole week right NOW because I know for sure I will feel good and more trust in myself ! and I will repeat.

  • @natasa1997
    @natasa1997 Рік тому

    I admire women like you. Thank you so much for this video❤️

  • @Nothing9_
    @Nothing9_ Рік тому

    Thank you so much, thank u because your voice is very soft and relaxing i feel so sick now & headache, so it's becoming surprise that I don't want anything right now except watching this

  • @loriewilson22
    @loriewilson22 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for your positive vibes! I’m going to the gym!🙂💪🏻 I am strong, capable, healthy, smart and willing to learn!

  • @maddyG7414
    @maddyG7414 2 роки тому +11

    I wish I had received this message in my very early twenties. I’m so glad that it’s out there now for young people.

  • @delfinabustos2829
    @delfinabustos2829 Рік тому

    Thanks Tatiana James! You are a wise woman! a real Queen! I love this video! Thank u so much! Good vibes !

  • @zitroj1252
    @zitroj1252 Рік тому

    You are The Woman !
    Thank you so much for everything you are !

  • @lauanacarvalho8114
    @lauanacarvalho8114 Рік тому

    Tatiana you are a beautiful person inside and out! Keep up this great content! thank u so much for this video

  • @MrPlomsone
    @MrPlomsone 2 роки тому +3

    Very strong and positive message but most importantly it’s truthful.

  • @missleonoreanne2547
    @missleonoreanne2547 2 роки тому +10

    getting wizardliz vibes here

  • @PLZion7
    @PLZion7 2 роки тому +2

    Just found your UA-cam channel yesterday from ironically-bot trading and subscribe today. This not just trading or Amazon sales! This is a life-style advice!! My Brazilian wife and I can relate with your mindset. May you continue blessings more people like us, thank you!

  • @kelseycreating
    @kelseycreating 2 роки тому +54

    This video brings together so many mental health / spiritual / environmental factors and it all just makes sense 😍 I feel like I’m bringing so many things together!

  • @ApollonarianShy
    @ApollonarianShy 2 роки тому +1

    one day illl have that confidence to share like her and many others i admire what i learnt and the experiences that i got...

  • @pixiedust4047
    @pixiedust4047 2 роки тому

    learning to "control your breathing" helps alot too to lower anxiety, youtube has some good videos

  • @beyoutillfull9695
    @beyoutillfull9695 2 роки тому

    absolutely

  • @liladegraffenreed4507
    @liladegraffenreed4507 Рік тому

    First video I’ve watched of yours. Was not disappointed. This video seems like one you got back to every once and a while to refresh the information.

  • @sambadivilshit
    @sambadivilshit Рік тому

    ik it's not right to compare people but you are so humble and actually confident rather than ego confident like you said i love it that you give advice with love i can feel it it's beautiful i can re-watch your videos for reminders

  • @angelinaagathangelou4315
    @angelinaagathangelou4315 Рік тому

    True Enlightenment in everything you say ..your words are filled with meaning! Beautiful woman Beautiful energy!..so Grateful 🙏 ✨️💛✨️✨️✨️✨️💛✨️✨️

  • @marya6330
    @marya6330 Рік тому

    My Goodness Lady you look Gorgeous ! 🥰 wow thank you for this video

  • @ranilinbraswell7138
    @ranilinbraswell7138 2 роки тому +33

    Hi Tatiana, I just want to say that this video is probably in the top 5 most valuable to myself UA-cam videos that I have watched! Thank you for caring so much that you will share such valuable knowledge with the rest of us. And I love the way you present yourself and the information you share. Girl, you have that radiant energy that people crave as well. Love from LA!

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  2 роки тому +1

      Yay! I'm happy to know that. Thank you for the kind words

  • @allisonhay5325
    @allisonhay5325 2 роки тому +4

    You are such a blessing to this world. Thank you so much, Goddess and Soul sister!

  • @ArumaDiet
    @ArumaDiet Рік тому

    thank you. I learning english recntly. I like this topic to heard my original language. it's thankful to listen this topic with english

  • @michiel2301
    @michiel2301 Рік тому

    Im 20 and I'm going to cycle to Albania and Im not bringing money so I need to survive to be able to cycle there and sleep outside or at strangers houses. This will increase my real confidence cause it will be confidence made out of hardship and out of real understanding of myself instead of comfortable and faking it.

  • @meronpat
    @meronpat 2 роки тому +13

    I've been watching many videos about confidence but they were all quite vague and superficial, so i am really glad to have found you since you really stated useful things and you do exude genuine and healthy confidence ✨ Thank you for sharing your input and for your tips, i will keep them in mind and rewatch it for sure. I feel so inspired now 😍

  • @BellaBankes
    @BellaBankes 2 роки тому +5

    To recognize and have control over own one’s energy builds true confidence 🌈
    I appreciate the way you described the woman who commands the room with her energy alone. You’re so right, that too much emphasis is placed on physical beauty; both awareness and energy is power 🙏🏼

    • @TatianaJames
      @TatianaJames  2 роки тому

      It's very true. And it's nice to know this, because then we can focus more on the energy we exude rather than just appearance.

  • @rosewatersweettea
    @rosewatersweettea Рік тому

    Thank you so much for all you do!!

  • @RicardasBauza
    @RicardasBauza 2 роки тому +6

    I’ve got nothing to comment and just give a massive respect for becoming the person you are and sharing with us!!

  • @jihyo27
    @jihyo27 Рік тому

    After watching this video I decided to give myself a chance

  • @vivianahernandez4432
    @vivianahernandez4432 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you Tatiana for your words they have power ❤️

  • @LUxo323
    @LUxo323 2 роки тому

    I refuse to give my power to others . beautiful.

  • @KINZERS13GTR
    @KINZERS13GTR 2 роки тому +1

    I love you, so much Tatiana. To me you exude the presence and confidence of that woman, in your own videos 🙏. Your spirit is strong.
    You are always incredible to watch and listen to.
    I would only say, that confidence does not come from within. As you said spiritually, and being a human being, that comes from my faith in Jesus Christ being my creator and Savior. My humanity is a gift and being wonderfully made in the image of the holy Trinity, that is where my confidence is held. That whether I was in jail or on the street as a failure, or sitting in a mansion as a financial success, neither would break that truth. No words or ideas from anyone else, even in my own mind, can ever break that truth.
    No worldly lies being told to me, no attacks from the enemy.
    Thank you for this awesome video. Hearing what you said and seeing how most of it aligns with my faith, only gives me more confidence in the words you speak, on life.

  • @mvp9
    @mvp9 Рік тому +2

    Everyone should watch this video! it's so clear and straight to the point. I'll keep watching every once in a while cause it reminds me to keep going! 💕

  • @ОльгаГерман-х4д
    @ОльгаГерман-х4д 2 роки тому

    this woman is really QUEEN 💋🤍

  • @hellopanda1664
    @hellopanda1664 Рік тому

    beautiful truth unfold

  • @haomong8533
    @haomong8533 Рік тому

    I am Vietnamese . And I really like your sharing

  • @angelika-1687
    @angelika-1687 2 роки тому +21

    Yes! I was going trough a spiritual awakening this year. It was very hard, but now I am the woman that I always felt ment to be. Standing strong in my body and soul. Nothing anymore can stop me/bring me down.
    Love your content.🤍

  • @Melissalyfe
    @Melissalyfe Рік тому

    This video was much needed especially with the captions

  • @judyliebler5934
    @judyliebler5934 Рік тому

    You are awesome love your energy you are very vivacious

  • @thebombshellmale
    @thebombshellmale Рік тому +1

    This video went out one day before my B'day, and I don't know why I am watching it just know, but anyway... Tatiana, thank you so much for opening your ideas and knowledge of how we can become better version of ourselves and grow up our self-love. You are extremely gorgeous inside and outside!
    As a 24 years old gay boy, I've been struggling in life with a lot of things, and since the pandemic started, my life went through hell in EVERY aspect of it, but I am recovering myself and getting into a beautiful travel inside my inner self to recognize who I really am and what I should develop and focus to grow and keep loving, respecting and being committed to myself first.
    Kisses and Hugs from Brazil ♥

  • @areej3lt923
    @areej3lt923 2 роки тому +3

    Everything you said is very important !! Thank you for sharing this ✨

  • @shobharana3423
    @shobharana3423 Рік тому

    Thank you so much dear for a wonderful advice really mean a lot for me ❤yeah i also believe that confidence is the key to success. 💯

  • @PrisonTorture34
    @PrisonTorture34 2 роки тому +1

    Very helpful reminders to us all to honor our potential and to not give up or to go sideways but to go forward and fulfill it

  • @chrislove1141
    @chrislove1141 Рік тому

    THANK YOU TATIANNA …. ❤ STEPPERS LOVES THIS INFORMATION!!!

  • @latendresseaa
    @latendresseaa Рік тому

    Beautiful Queen of Bee's your are a very Self-Confident person ever see, Continue to share your passion to Us, Lovely Personn🌈

  • @bryangofficiel
    @bryangofficiel Рік тому

    Thank you Tatiana, it resonates

  • @roseeberri1115
    @roseeberri1115 2 роки тому +5

    I am just reading a book about self awareness and how you should not identify yourself with the thoughts in your mind and even with what you feel or see, AND this video pops out on my feed telling the same thing 👀
    I was surprised about the looks part, it’s really a great perspective. Thank you, keep it up!

  • @mariadelourdesaniessanchez1473
    @mariadelourdesaniessanchez1473 2 роки тому

    I think value in the job
    people is my body forever

  • @patyrc76
    @patyrc76 2 роки тому

    Beautiful, wise and articulated.

  • @kahlema
    @kahlema 2 роки тому

    u are a blessing sent from God. thank u for ur words

  • @mignatta1
    @mignatta1 Рік тому

    The way you convey your message is so real and down to earth. thank you for being so transparent with your advice and help. it makes a big diff.

  • @saintamerican6105
    @saintamerican6105 2 роки тому +4

    you are truly the most grounded, feminine and honest youtuber i have come across.
    ive been a follower since your 1st yt account luxcurves where you made so many self help
    videos and they were so useful with out of the box advice. god bless you bcuz you're AMAZING!
    You will be such a blessing to your future children and i know for a fact you're wife goals. thank you
    for sharing your life and best tips with us!!!!!

  • @brib9229
    @brib9229 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for your consistent, incredibly valuable content. You make such a profound difference in the lives of so many people. Bless!!!!

  • @silviamadairamirez3211
    @silviamadairamirez3211 2 роки тому

    Feminine, Alfa, self love 💕 and confident! Amazing mentor ❤

  • @princessdenne
    @princessdenne 2 роки тому +1

    Wow! This is the first video that I watched in your channel and I learned A LOT from it. You definetely earned my trust and my subscribe. Thank you so much! ❤

  • @sarii7777
    @sarii7777 Рік тому

    Going to watch this every single day until I can achieve everything you mentioned. Thanks for the encouragement ❤️

  • @saidfarid6382
    @saidfarid6382 Рік тому

    Hello Professor
    Thank you so much for your help and advice,
    i do appreciate your job. I wish you peace and happness under the sky of prosperity. All the best. Take care and have a good time.
    Your Student from Algeria

  • @Javy_Valen_Tain
    @Javy_Valen_Tain 2 роки тому

    We are nuts of wisdom!

  • @kellybacelis
    @kellybacelis 2 роки тому +2

    I need you as a mentor and grateful you exist.
    I’m in a very messy situation at the moment & need to fix my life. I do struggle with confidence being in the situation I’m in.
    Thank you for making these videos. I’m a very stubborn person and that stubbornness is also leaving my broke so there’s patterns I need to break!

  • @iamaanda_
    @iamaanda_ Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing it ❤
    🇧🇷

  • @vondapiper6623
    @vondapiper6623 Рік тому

    Lead with my energy and stay consistent in having a positive outlook on my self and staying self aware of my thoughts. So much wisdom. Thank you Tati

  • @kaylacoan4207
    @kaylacoan4207 2 роки тому

    I’m not saying that Tatiana is the glue that holds my life together during moments of doubt and worry but that’s exactly what I’m saying.

  • @adeebnasir6796
    @adeebnasir6796 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Tatiana. This message was very uplifting. With all my heart I hope you continue to succeed in all your endeavors.

  • @starry-eyed_68
    @starry-eyed_68 Рік тому +1

    You are such an inspiration for me, for the other young girls and boys.
    You help me a lot.
    ❤️

  • @andreahansberry6832
    @andreahansberry6832 Рік тому

    The video was very helpful and I will be watching more of your videos nice work.

  • @Betterme4lf
    @Betterme4lf 2 роки тому

    Yes it’s my time now!

  • @DDilys
    @DDilys 2 роки тому

    🥺beautiful, thank you. Bless you

  • @marialouisiana2027
    @marialouisiana2027 2 роки тому

    You 're so precious Girl🙏 thank you for the Video❤️

  • @sarahmendoza9840
    @sarahmendoza9840 Рік тому

    This is the best advice I could have heard right now. It brought me immediate relief ❤Thank you!❤

  • @Valeriesbeautyinc
    @Valeriesbeautyinc Рік тому

    I love this empowering motivational video!!!🥰👏👏👏

  • @chirilaioana9757
    @chirilaioana9757 2 роки тому

    You change my and my life , Thank You!!❤️🙏

  • @thatonevisionary
    @thatonevisionary 2 роки тому

    You are absolutely beautiful & I'm so grateful to have come across this valuable content. 💫 Thank you for striving to empower others & make the Internet community a better place. ✨

  • @arthurian8200
    @arthurian8200 Рік тому

    thank you for the video. I am From brazil and also... taking it as an adventage to improve my english.

  • @aav_n
    @aav_n 2 роки тому

    Intrinsic value that comes from being a human being🤍💫

  • @4supernatural
    @4supernatural 2 роки тому +2

    Absolutely one the best encompassing recommendations I yet to hear! I. I can hear all your books and teachers guides come through your self love. I agree 🫶🏻✨🥰💕💗💫💜❤️ truly outstanding ~ I’m reposting on social media ~ Gabby. Bernstein stated similar. I truly believe I’m here to listen your beautiful message, because it confirms my will to have change. Blessings your a gorgeous spirt and I’m so grateful I was lead to your message. 🙏🏻💕💗

  • @andreaswilcox9158
    @andreaswilcox9158 Рік тому

    Thank you for such a wonderful and insightful video

  • @annahorakova2138
    @annahorakova2138 2 роки тому

    Thank you. Not only are you extremely beautiful but you are also wise. That is rare. Have a great day!

  • @irinamarzook3380
    @irinamarzook3380 Рік тому

    You’re are a real gem tatiana, thanks alot!

  • @akamilamafra
    @akamilamafra 2 роки тому

    omg, thank u for this video! First video of yours that i watch and i gonna stay. ♥

  • @laurasnyder1076
    @laurasnyder1076 2 роки тому +3

    Amazing video and truly valuable, encouraging words! You are so beautiful and inspirational as always Tatiana! Thank you and please keep these great videos coming! ❤

  • @marcodelcarro9030
    @marcodelcarro9030 Рік тому

    Wow, this is a super video guys !

  • @vijayshankarshrivastava3280
    @vijayshankarshrivastava3280 2 роки тому

    Thank u for the message.