17 Pieces Of Advice For My 20-Year-Old Self ⚠️
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- Опубліковано 4 чер 2024
- Yes, it's a long video... but it'll be worth it! Advice to my 20-year old self is a highly requested video. I've put together 17 pieces of advice, from creating a vision to starting a business, if you're young get ahead with these tips! 💰 Get Started With My FREE 4-Part Amazon FBA Training: tatianajames.com/fba
This is for my young viewers, I hope some of this advice will resonate with you and help you in the future.
📖 CHAPTERS 📖
00:00 Introduction
02:03 Recognize the advantage you have
03:20 The decisions you make in your 20s are of paramount importance
06:18 Create a vision for your life
11:00 Choose something that you are passionate about
14:27 Bring excellence to whatever you do
19:57 Start a business
23:44 Learn about money management
26:41 Don't waste money on material things
27:56 Read books on psychology and self-development
30:30 Be particular about who you spend time with
33:14 Get clear on who you want to attract
37:06 Don't settle in relationships but date with the intention to settle down
39:11 Travel
41:42 Don't follow too many people on social media
44:07 Solve your own challenges
46:10 Develop awareness
47:00 Give back
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Which of the 17 pieces of advice did you find the most useful? Let me know in the comments below...
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The Most Useful Advice in this video is Be particular about who you spend time with and also Don't follow too many people on social media. They are all very useful. Been a day one fan just never really been commenting here but taking in all your advice. Thank you
Do more of these. 😍 See ya soon
Marrie me 29 yo ?
Defining what you want in a partner and becoming what would attract them was so important for me. I’m 24 and very excited about designing the woman I want to become, I think a lot of people my age miss putting serious consideration into the quality of partner they will be so it’s something I take just as seriously as my career.
Amazing :)
Are you the girl I see on manifestation channels all the time
This is vitally important to happiness, amazing that you have the wisdom to know this at 24 👑
Great advice ! You are articulate, thoughtful, obviously super smart and authentic. Thanks So much Tatiana. God Bless you and your loved ones.
Smart woman!!!
I’m 32 and finally got my business booming after a decade of partying and stagnation.
Love my 30s now !!!!💜💜💜
That's great to hear, I'm in my twenties and my business is doing okay...
You’ve got lots of time. I started at 30 after years of partying and drugs I’m now 💯 focused on my business which is close to 6 figures
Go you. Proud of you for making the changes necessary.
@@laylachisom8996 hallelujah. Am proud of you . You're blessed! Some don't get to do over. You're really blessed to get to do.over.
Thank you and bless you 🙏🏾
I just turned 22 and can't wait to be the best dog trick trainer in the world someday :)
Aww! That's so cute! Keep at it and you'll be the 🐐 of 🐶
people always tell you the same "don't care what others think" "wake up early" "drink your green juice" but you ... you said some real shit..i have never heard such authentic and realistic advice.. thank you so much tatiana... you change the people for the better
in 16 and i'm truly scared to get older. Most grown ups that i see do not have such big visions,i dont want to share such low values.
Don't be scared, it gets better :)
Create your big vision n GO FOR IT. you can DO IT. Am rooting for you
I'm 19 and my life is so very boring :)
my 14,15,16,17 age is best age of my life thou.
Great Advice Tatiana! Keep shining your light my dear! 🙏🏼❤️✨✨
I love your vids!!!
Wow I’m surprised to see you here but I love your videos as well!
I'm currently 25 and I totally agree that I feel like I could have started sooner with my investment instead of spending it on things I don't need or even find to be my favorite.
Where did u invest ur savings .. do u meen in ur self or real investemet
One of the best things I love about your videos is that you speak slowly and methodically to convey your information. Too many others speak fast and that creates an inability to listen to content. Thank you!
I've sent this video to my children as well.
I learn more on youtube than my college
Schools never talk about this 🙂
I'm so grateful for this advice, Tatiana. I'm turning 18 in a few months and your videos and your advice already really helped and inspired me!😊
Happy to help :)
I’m 21 and in Vancouver. I cannot work for call center anymore. My goal is to grow UA-cam and online store . You are my inspiration. Thank you!
I’m 15 now… just got my first job today. I’m learning financial literacy, so I can use my money wisely and not blow it on useless stuff.
Don’t let them turn you out, the system is designed to control who you date and it is far more complex than you perceive it to be
I'm in the middle of this video. Currently 20 years old.
I just have to say: thank you Tatiana for producing so high-quality videos, I can feel your energy how passionate you are about sharing this information with us!
Also: If I do all this, the basics in life are set. Health, money, career, giving back, developing myself. The basics! And then it's possible to actually become a beautiful beast. Unfortunately, most people fail at the basics. They don't think about creating wealth instead they settle for a job. They don't think about their passions and work at a job they hate until the frustration becomes unbearable. Your advice is like a guard against the most common mistakes in society.
Imagine money is not a problem, every opportunity is open to you: What would you do with your life? The fact that you've been given life is rare itself. It's important to ponder about that.
But again most people don't even spend a second thinking about it because they have been in a miserable job for the last two decades or more and can't imagine that for themselves. Cruel world, actually.
I've already started my business and still in University. With my business, I aim to create wealth and have no limitations in life. If I want to eat delicious dinner in Italy by Sunday during sunset, I absolutely can. I'm creating that freedom for myself now.
With University, I choose the part that society forces on us wisely. I go to University, but I am not bound to actually be a health worker all my life. I gather that knowledge and choose actively how I could put my professional self in the best position to help others with the knowledge I have. Not only contributing with money, although money is important, but also by my own love for health and being passionate about that. Giving back by opening hospitals or something, I don't know which exact dream my future self will have. But for now, I had to let these thoughts out.
Hey Tatiana, I'm from London, UK. I'm so glad you mentioned what to do if your family do not support what your goals are. My family are complete opposite of me and disagree with every life decision I have made because they are very conservatives and do not believe in dreaming big, they are also very scared and negative, throughout my uni life my siblings and parents have taunted me for studying law thinking I will never get to uni or complete the degree, however I did get into uni and have finished my law degree and would like to do my postgrad, I don't think I would even tell them because I do not think I can take any unconstructive criticisms from them and allow their negative energy, I also realized that they have subconsciously tried to sabotage all my life, luckily I have got therapy now and realized that what the siblings were doing. what they were doing was competing with me for my parents love and they thought if they derail me I would not be a threat to the unhealthy family dynamic. Luckily I have also moved out and now have a good job which is helping me gain some necessary experiences. I also discovered that I was in a narcissistic family dynamic where we were also thought to be pitted against each other for love or to feel worthy, I have learnt that I have to love myself regardless of what others say especially if it is gaslighting. My big sister also resented me because she did not go to university and now she's a stay home mum and I had to fight to go to uni because my family were so against university as we were the first generation to go to university. My big brother was always in trouble so he was always trying to get a reaction from me and break my spirit in me wanting to peruse my law degree as he was on the other side of the law plus he did not want me to be more accomplished than him. It would be lovely if you can make a video on family friction you can face on your way to success, fear and the jealousy within family or friends.
Thank you so much Tatiana !
I am a 22 years old young woman. I am starting to save money to buy an other training for Amazon. The one I bought with my cousin was mediocre so I want to buy another one. My dream is to be financially free. I want my parents to have a taste of money and wealth before they die. Your advices on this video are really great and I thank you for that ! I see you as my mentor. Thank you 🙏🏽❤️
You have no ideas the lives that you are touching Tatiana!! Thank you so much and one day I hope I will tell you my full story
This is very helpful, Thank you so much tatiana.💛💛
I hope you acheive all your dreams. I wish you all the happiness in your life ❤❤❤❤
I'm 17, and I'm so happy that I watched this video at a young age💛🙏🙏
Thank you for this video, Tatiana! This video really helped me to realize some things in my current situation in life and to do whatever it takes to achieve my goals. You're such an inspiration for so many people including me. Thank you 🥰🥰🥰
Thank you, Tatiana, for encouragement and inspiration today! Especially #17: it's so true that this step is essential to keep us happy and humble (keeping life "real").
Definetely, you're my favorite human audiobook. I love learning from you everyday. Everything you say it's so valuable and priceless. Stay blessed forever beautiful, you're such a blessing! Thank you for simply being you. You're fantastic Tatiana.
You're like the big sister I always needed. 💓 Straightforward, real, honest and beautiful! Thanks so much for these videos
Thank you Tatiana! The psychology part really resonated with me. I've been doing a lot of inner work and I thought I was doing well and then now we're planning to move to BC and a lot of fear and doubt came out and I was sabotaging the move as if I wanted to keep my self in my comfort zone subconsciously. It's so amazing how much stuff we hold from past traumas and fears of abandoning the comfort zone.
I'm a 20 year old university student, and I really needed this. Love this kind of content 💖
Hi, I’m 36 working on starting my Amazon FBA business. Wish I would of started when I was on my 20’s. Thank you for your videos .
Watching Tatiana really motivated me to start my own business and really create more goals to have a better life. Thanks for all your advice.
it was really helpful, I'm 20th years old, so I'm really happy about that because I'm doing something since my 17th, it is feeling me better and I won't ever stop!
You're such an inspiration Tatiana! I literally watch all of your videos :) The whole video was very useful but what resonates the most for me was to bring excellence to everything you do, definitely need to practice that more!
Great pieces of advice, thank you so much!!! I am 19 and I am working on an educational project , and most of my friends from my past are telling me that I am crazy and my project will collapse, and nobody actually supports me. That's so great to watch someone, who can inspire and support
I came across one of your videos when I was 18 years old having no clue about life now I'm 20 old owning a sucsessful small business I'm so grateful for your advices ❤
Thanks a lot mam!
I’m 19 years old now, grinding up all day, working hard every single second.
Here is the truth, if i will be a multi-millionaire or a BILLIONAIRE at the age 25-26 i will definitely come to visit you and thank you 🙏
And believe me i will make this happen.
You are really an inspiration mam.
How do you get into the habit of working hard? Because I’m almost at the same goal.
Thank you so much for this video! I took notes during the video and I found that creating a vision for one's life, bringing excellence to what you do, being particular about who you spend time with, getting clear on who one wants to attract, traveling, solving your own challenges before solving the world's challenges, and giving back the most useful pieces of advice.
Tatiana, I really want to thank u from the bottom of my heart for these precious advice that you gave us. I'm 19yo and I'm really confused about life and what I want to do in the future but this video came in the right time and it has helped me a lot being aware of what I need to incorporate in my daily routine and what I need to delete. Thank you very much, you are so sweet❤
Amazing 💚 Thank you so much, as always. I am a 26 year old healer/musician/entrepreneur and I've just started an e-commerce company with my partner, and it all started with watching your videos. 💚 Blessings and love to you 👏✨🦋🙏💛
Thank you Tatiana honestly your advice is the reason I’ve decided to finally start doing the things that I’ve wanted to do for years but I couldn’t.
The fact you gave him a job!!! I don’t know why but I feel like telling you thank you 😂🙏🏼🙏🏼
This is really sound advice which would benefit everyone to hear. My only regret is not knowing these life changing wisdom much earlier in my life. Really glad I stumbled over your channel.
All the 17 Pieces are gems but few of them we opt like 'Being excellence of whatever you do' & ' Learn about money management' early in life then we can make our life easy. And some others like " Delay instant gratifications for long term' is brilliant. Thanks for this amazing videos. You are awesome!
I ve been your subscriber for a while now and you have been definitely changing me for the better.I m currently 16 and I felt that watching this video was one of my best choices. It was really eye-opening and detailed and I am now more focused than ever on achieving my goals and the life I want because of you.
Great advice Tatiana 🙌🏽 I’ve recently started a real estate course, over the last year I’ve been saving 50% of my paychecks and I’ve been meditating and journaling to get my mindset right 💪🏽 your videos help a lot, also that’s a beautiful orchid it’s the biggest I’ve ever seen!!
Thank you for creating this video. As a 20 year old myself it's really valuable advice!
I turned 20 in feb 2021 and completed my graduation this year in July 2021.I am so blessed and thankful to you for helping us out and making it clear about every prospect of life..Thanks a lot and will implement it..Sending you lots of love..😊💟💟💗💗❤💗
I am in the middle of the video but I just want to say that you are a very impressive woman Tatiana! I'll be 27 at the end of the year as well and my life is far away from yours, but you really inspire me to take actions and risks in order to create the life I want, and be financially independent and confortable. Thank you! Kisses from Switzerland
Thank you very much! I am 20 and I am from Russia. You are so inspiring! I will try to use your advices! Thank you!
That was very helpful. Something I liked was "Do everything with excellence", and that is somethin I need to change. I will start applying this to my life. Today is my birthday and I am changing my life and see where this whole year of self-development will take me. Thank you.
Happy Birthday! Glad to hear that it resonated with you.
Proud of you. Am rooting for you
Happy bday! The best is About ti come
Thank you so much for this ! I am 16 yr old girl who is turning 17. I'll do my best from now .
God bless Tatiana. She is blessed with beauty, intellect, kindness and compassion 🥰🥰🥰😍😍🥰
i ve been watching your videos since almost 1 year and i guess i will produce my product soon thanks to your inspirational videos.(still researching)
This video is so rich and excellent that merely applying all the advice mentioned in this single video alone can change a person's life forever.
If this could be a book, it was going to be a bestseller. Thank u for sharing it with us
Great video Tatiana, you are someone I really look up to. Thanks for inspiring me everyday to follow my dreams💖🥰
Thank god I'm 17 and I'm sooo grateful for these notes!❤
Fantastic, Tatiana. Well done. You go above and beyond and are the perfect example of 'conscious life creation'. You've probably become into the exact version of yourself that you dreamt of (yet knew you could become) in your early 20's.
Thank you, Lucy!
Thanks Tatiana! I love you for making this, your advice means a lot and I love to hear your Boss Lady insight! You're awesome, thanks 💋🤙
Thank you for this great advices!!💓
I'll 💯% try to work on my self,& become better version of me!! ✨
Your videos are amazing and so eye opening! So grateful to have discovered your channel!
Im 20 years old, so excited to watch this video, just listened to the intro and loved it ! ❤
this video is a blessing and I'm so grateful that it came to me. Thank youTatiana.
I just turned 20, will definitely watch this more than once !
Glad to hear!
Hi Tatiana. Thank you so much for these great advices. I am 31 and in my third year of Ph.D. in Chemical Engineering. I love to have my own business but I can’t think of anything that I could do with my knowledge in Chem Eng. I should either be a professor at the collage or work in industry. I don’t like teaching so becoming a professor is not my thing and I don’t like a 9-5 job in industry. I am confused and don’t know what to do. I started learning about investing but I can’t spend good amount of time to spend on it, since I need to go to the lab and do my research almost every day. I’d like to hear your opinion on what I should do. So much love 🥰
Hola! Ahora estoy en la etapa de cambios y a la vez aprendo ingles también con estos tipos de videos. Gracias por los consejos, saludos desde Bolivia.
Thank you for everything ! ☺️ I’m turning 18 in few month and this is very useful
Amazing video, Tatiana. I can't pick the most useful advice, because all of it was so valuable. So glad I found your UA-cam Channel - your words are in my mind, and inspire me to create that vision for my life. Thank you.
Happy to hear this :)
Yay made it through the whole video, many thanks for these 17 pieces Tatiana 🌺
My favorites
5. Bring excellence to all you do - When you mentioned the example as someone who mops floors (I do this almost every day with my day job lol) I had actually had this realization couple of months ago and it is so helpful, the transition throughout the day is like a place of purpose always. Those shiny clean floors is my elbow grease it's my appreciation that this job is my financial support for my bigger project!
9. & 16. Awareness/ Self Development - I feel like my own parent at times now because I can prime and meditate and have a plan for the day and literally just any day from the external/internal world the human nature aspects of me, my brain function, and past beliefs can pop up to steer a different course and if I hadn't tried understanding these parts of me id probably still process, reflect, continue like a younger less experienced version of me. I know that there is no (Back to square one) it is a Constant And Never-ending Improvment that pays off.
11. & 12. Attracting and Relationships - Since being a child I clearly saw how many arguments are based on disagreement and many disagreements are based on core values. There will always be some type of disagreement that is the human variety but when it comes to the core of you and what you want to be and do in life it's huge to know and develop that so that you're attracting at the caliber you truly feel you deserve.
7. Learn about money management and wealth-building - Whatever habit and process you have now will only be exemplified, if you get an increase in dollar amount it can either multiply your abundance or your burden. See your money as yours and treat your systems well and long term :)
I’m 20...I am way ahead of the 20 years olds around me and even the older adults. I needed this video. It’s those days u have where u feel down but this video picked me up. Thank U love. May U have a beautiful and blessed night🌠🖤
That's wonderful
same🤗
This was amazing! Thank you Tatiana! Much love and blessings to you ❤
Tatiana you are fantastic and such an inspiration! Couldn’t agree more with your points. Thank you for sharing and for starting your channel in general, you have been such a light for me in my own journey! Like the big sis I never had lol! Sending you lots of love! ❤️
So happy to hear this, sending you love right back
Great video :) About the dicision making, I strongly believe it is quite individual, as for example according to human design for some people it is important to make the decision at the moment, cause it comes from the intuition,the impulse in the now, and for some they have to wait couple of days to see if they still feel good about it.
I needed to hear this, as a 20 year old. Solid advice. I watched all the way through.
Thank you so much @Tatiana James
You are perfect ❣️
This is the first time I've ever disagreed with something you said. I love all of your advice and your knowledge is always useful of course but I don't think being kind has ever got anyone ahead when working for an employer. Most people are unhappy at work because they are treated like a robot with no regard for who they are as a person and how nice they are doesn't usually change how successful they become.
i aspire to be like her 😩such a BOSS BABE !!!!!!!!!
Ikr! Need to link.her up with my 3 daughters! Such a role model
Great advice! More videos like this please! I'm about to start my first business but imposter syndrome is reeeeal and so hard to get out of my head and focus on becoming my best future self. I know I can do it, but... imposter syndrome.
Thank you Tatiana, writing notes !📝 😊 💓
Superb!! I believe I followed every piece of advice besides hanging out with the wrong people.. I would say the best piece is do not follow too many people on social... As a consultant and social media is part of my business.. Sometimes I have to remind myself... I wish i can take a voice memo of what you said about date with intent and if you follow others you lose identity and you will ask for other people's opinion.. I would stamp post mail and deliver that piece of advice to my ex.. Great video though!
Thank you for these pieces of advice. I will definitely be using some of them.
This is amazing! Id love for you to meet my 9 yr old daughter. Am putting it on my vision board.
My take aways. 1.Give back - volunteer. Donate.
develop awareness .read selfhelp book. Self devt books!Investment books. Money mindset books!
3. Save money n don't be wastful in your resources. Live within your means. Dont buy just bcos you can afford it or put it on a credit card.
4. Be the person you want to attract. Be intentional in who you want to partner or do life with.
5.Age - make good choices n decision while young. Start a business.
6.vision board.- create the life you desire on a vision board n persue it. Be open to changes n life detouts n tweak it as your values n interest changes. But have that board to guide you towards your destination.
7. Choose your friends n company/ grouo you surround yourself wisely! Yhey influence you one way or tg he other! Be intentional in the kind of influence you'd want in choosing who you surround yourself with.
8. Read. Read read! Get knowledge.
9. Invest in close relationships. Family n friends n make memories.
10. Dont follow too many people on social media.
Thank u so much🙏💖 I'm 17 and I'm still learning, trying to become a better me and I thank God everyday for loving myself better🌷
You got this!
I resonate with your words as I'm 20 now and trying to start my small business while in university, this video really sums up what I have read from your recommended books, every time when I feel burnt out from making my vision to come true this channel is always my place to come back, to come to watch your motivational words, to relax, to learn, to know about what is relationship. appreciate your time to create such content for people who are in need. all the support from Japan♡
You got this Kanna! Sounds like you're doing great. Make sure you take care of yourself.
Amazing advice for 20 year old self. I agree with you. Thank you so much for creating this video. Cheers from the top of the mountain.
You're so welcome! Have a great day
I hope my 23 years old daughter will watch your video. She can learn a lot in this video. You too.
All of the advices resonated with me. I will start today applying them little by little, but I’m gonna make it!
Wonderful!
Im 21 and yesterday I was breaking down feeling stuck and looking merely at my disadvantages. Im very glad I came across this video that you for sharing & being transparent ❤️ it’s this guidance or positive push I needed
You got this!
Same age, and I feel the same.
Bringing excellence to whatever you do was a piece of advice I really needed to hear. I recently discovered your channel and I am so glad I did! Thank you Tatiana
It's something that seems to resonate with many people :)
Very useful, thanks Tatiana for your time !!
Amazing video! Thank you so much for taking the time, I’m glad I came across it. ☺️
Me inspiras, contigo el aspirar a ser la mujer que quiero ser no es complicado, te quiero mucho, eres como mi hermana mayor.
Really love these kind of videos, thank you so much! Im so grateful for this kind of information.
Love your attitude towards life!!
May god bless you even more 🍭
Have a good day 🎈
Amazing advice, Tatiana- thank you so much!
Thank you so much Tatiana. I loved this video. 🤍
Thank you, Tatiana! I needed this
1000000 PERCENT REAL ADVICE I AM 19 YEARS OLD FROM INDIA this VIDEO has HELPED ME! I'll learn spanish now 🤗🤗🤗🤗
These tips guarantee success 👌
Thank you so much for this 💗
thank you Tatiana for the reminders!
The one about giving is so true ❤️
Thank you so much, Im 23, I learn a lot from you ❤️❤️
I'm 18 and I just started a small business, but my products are all handmade seasonal trends, so I'm worried my business won't grow much but I can't find a product in high demand and with growth potential. Any advice?
NOTHING BUT VALUE RIGHT HERE, thank you so much
I have been waiting for THIS! Can't wait to watch
That was so beautiful and true! Thank you!
Thank you Tatiana!!! 🙏🙏🙏