Relationship Advice for Christians: Please Stop Dating New Believers

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  • @GodlyDating101
    @GodlyDating101  6 місяців тому +4

    Welcome back to the channel fam! Missed y’all.
    Godlydating101book.com

  • @kaitlynwilliams3102
    @kaitlynwilliams3102 6 місяців тому +19

    I really needed this, I know God has made me a promise but my flesh wants to go outside of his will. My devotional today told me don’t make an Ishmael by not waiting on God.

    • @James_follows_Christ
      @James_follows_Christ 6 місяців тому +2

      That’s real “Don’t make an Ishmael by not waiting on GOD.” Yea I feel that it’s not easy waiting on the LORD,but May HE keep strengthen you in jesus mighty name sista

    • @ericawhitfield7876
      @ericawhitfield7876 6 місяців тому

      Praise Jesus for the Ishmael Devotional!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @sydneyh3010
    @sydneyh3010 6 місяців тому +12

    Thanks for sharing! This was confirmation for me. I recently had let go of talking to a guy at my church because he was still a babe in Christ and could not lead me spiritually. My flesh didn’t want to end it but I had to be obedient to God. There were too many red flags. When I turned him down after his many attempts of him trying to get in a relationship with me he rebounds and started talking to another female at my church. I then found out that he’s engaged to marry her after only talking to her for a month! I knew I didn’t make the wrong decision but the enemy was causing me to question myself if I did something wrong with turning him down. I feel if you’re new to Christ your main focus should be growing in your walk with God. Any other relationship you’re trying to balance with God can be a distraction. Also if someone accepts you for who you are without you growing fully into the man or woman God has called you to be you might become complacent and no longer grow if your intentions were wrong to begin with as to why you were growing in your relationship with God.

    • @RaZhanBreonna
      @RaZhanBreonna 6 місяців тому +1

      Sounded like he just wanted sex ! Glad you were obedient to the Holy Spirit.

  • @kryssydlacy920
    @kryssydlacy920 6 місяців тому +5

    We rocking with y’all regardless, no matter how often you post💪🏾

  • @aliciashaw1209
    @aliciashaw1209 3 місяці тому +1

    I’ve always appreciated your transparency…I agree with everything you said in this video! People will literally tell me “give him a chance”, but I’m not willing to take the risk of dating someone who’s not as rooted as I am. It’s NOT judging or saying they’re a bad person, but I “personally” can’t have a man lead me who doesn’t lead like Jesus💯. I’m standing on God’s principles no matter what.

  • @user-eb2yj1zz8x
    @user-eb2yj1zz8x 6 місяців тому +13

    I’m going to argue this one, because my girlfriend (soon to be fiancé) dated me prior and she was way more saved than me at the time, (I was still in the World) and slowly as time went on I gave my life to Christ & now leading her more to Christ, growing our relationship with God daily, and soon to be engaged. It’s not the chances for many people, but it works for some.

    • @er_5406
      @er_5406 6 місяців тому +13

      Then she was lucky. Because at first, she made a mistake. Shouldn't have date you. You were in the world. *2 Corinthians 6:14 Be not unequally yoked with unbelievers: for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? or what communion hath light with darkness?* .

    • @user-eb2yj1zz8x
      @user-eb2yj1zz8x 6 місяців тому +8

      @@er_5406 totally agree. But it is all about heart posture. I was a believer, went to Church but you know just because one goes to church doesn’t mean you are saved (but I was more lukewarm than anything) & as we kept dating, I took initiative to submit to God and let the World go completely, got my faith got back on track & our relationship is now God centered.
      Doesn’t work for 95% of people, don’t be unequally yoked as you said, & many Worldly people love it and won’t give it up, but God did for us, thank God, if it wasn’t for Him this wouldn’t have happened.

    • @patdo4452
      @patdo4452 6 місяців тому +7

      You said it right. Your financé is the exception! Let's not give people false hope based on an exception. This video is on point and supported by scripture.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 6 місяців тому +1

      I think it depends on their intentionality and heart to pursue the Lord.

    • @James_follows_Christ
      @James_follows_Christ 6 місяців тому

      You still taking a risk with that bro. The other who’s more spiritually mature will have to be baby sitting basically especially if the person if just now coming to Christ & that’s just waaay too much work to be done. I’d rather just wait on the LORD and whatever HIS will it’ll be done. It’s not easy at all ,but worth it

  • @TheBlessingReport
    @TheBlessingReport 6 місяців тому +4

    The thumbnail is why this video should do well

  • @dashelledisna6239
    @dashelledisna6239 6 місяців тому +2

    Agreed!!
    We all have to go through the valley first to test our faith😂💯

  • @EarCandyAsmr
    @EarCandyAsmr 6 місяців тому +11

    this reminds me of Megan Good and Devon Franklin. He was in the church forever and he was celibate for 10 years - she was celibate for 1 year before they got married if I’m not mistaken and I don’t believe she ever liked church prior because she felt judged. I think they were cute but that’s why it didn’t work out in the end, he wanted kids and she didn’t. They were not equally yolked but they tried.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 6 місяців тому

      In their case, I really believe Megan had unhealed trauma and going thru warfare. The way she dressed, her salacious acting roles suggested spiritual attack from the evil one.

    • @RaZhanBreonna
      @RaZhanBreonna 6 місяців тому +2

      She was never born again that’s the difference. Compared to a new believer, they’re a babe in Christ and there are times God can and will use swiftly.

  • @melissajdelacruz
    @melissajdelacruz 6 місяців тому +5

    Thank you for the Godly wisdom. This is something very important to be mindful of. 🙏🏽

  • @chloelageaux769
    @chloelageaux769 6 місяців тому +2

    Awesome episode!!!

  • @francisogbonna_
    @francisogbonna_ 6 місяців тому +3

    Great video brother

  • @carolinejb3689
    @carolinejb3689 5 місяців тому

    Oh my goooosh this is the video I’m looking for!!

  • @irakozeflorence6907
    @irakozeflorence6907 6 місяців тому

    FINALLY!!

  • @tynisajones982
    @tynisajones982 5 місяців тому

    I really needed this cause my whole desire is to please God and doing it my way i have made so many mistakes im like seriously listening to all pod cast so i can date so God gets the glory and so i dont move so quick and get all emotionally involved so quick

  • @hilmashitayi6832
    @hilmashitayi6832 5 місяців тому

    I'm still waiting for that God sent guy❤ God knows when 😊

  • @user-kv9nu4jz8j
    @user-kv9nu4jz8j 6 місяців тому +2

    Can you do a video on whether you should date multiple people or just one person while getting to know them.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 6 місяців тому +2

      If you want to marry you should court not date only one person. If your trying to find a spouse, be clear If dating many.

  • @eikeksi11
    @eikeksi11 5 місяців тому

    What if some guy/gal meets new beliver and God was hoping for marriage, maybe this is, like sometimes its not good idea, sometimes its ok