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multiple but I always try to calm them down and see what's happening and try to be polite. I'll see some people saying to ignore it but that's definitely not the best option for some of these situations. However ignoring it and walking away is okay in other situations since you may not want to engage.
I just try to get over them, not take it personally and also, try to talk things out, but most important not take it personal, difficult when it comes to HSP
My own therapist tells me to set boundaries for myself and let people know what you don’t like or tolerate. Without boundaries people don’t respect you.
In my experience respect is mutually earned. Even when you do earn it there are no quarantees with everyone and it is perfectly possible to blindly waste it to very one-sided social interactions. That is why it is good to realize that hostile psychopaths, narcissists and bullies who walk over others *aren’t as special as they like to think they are just by doing what they doing.* Don’t waste your time trying to earn their validation. It is exactly people like them that you draw boundaries for. Whoever disrespects your boundary doesn’t deserve your respect either. You can not change those people so leave them to their own devices. What you can do is to find your own balance which is what someone else either will or won’t recognize. It’s your life after all. Ultimately the choice is your’s and no one else’s.
How to respond to rude people: 2:11 - Break the cycle of rudeness. Empathize and be kind. 3:30 - Count to 10 and take deep breaths. 4:35 - Take courage and learn when to be assertive and speak up / when to ignore rude behaviour. "Remember that there is a way to stand in the face of rudeness without resorting to it yourself." Let's all have a good day!
What makes you think I bought my phone😒😒😒😒 Oh! Maybe common sence, since yknow people bring their phone???? 😒 They get really pissed of, but I beg you not to say this to teachers and parents as it's super disrespectful
As someone who’s ignored rudeness all my life, that only caused me to suppress everything to where I can get easily triggered and will even start shaking because I get so angry for letting people treat me that way.. learning how to stand up for yourself and speak up is definitely important.
Someone being rude because they snapped deserve empathy. Someone who repeatedly does so and acts obviously(edit: oblivious not obviously)to it, denying it when spoken about and generally being disrespectful? - You *do not* ignore them. Stand up and give them a piece of your mind *for real.* People don't change till lack of change has cost them enough. A person with a shitty personality needs that to be told and if they keep not caring then they need to learn a lesson. But do always trust yourself on it. Stick to morals too. Ask for the other side of the story. Even when it's hard to sometimes. Just trust yourself on the judgement. It's not most people's fault anyway that they grew up to be rude. But still
I feel like Omori can teach us this too. I’ll try to keep vague to limit spoilers, but I’ll still give a warning. But basically, what you said, but with the The rude person in the story of Omori is part of an old friend group. She consistently bullies another friend, to the shock of the rest of the old group. But her friends stick with her. In part because they gotta stand up to what’s been happening, and in part because friends care about each other. It soon comes to a point where the rude friend tells her story because she finally feels like she has a safe place to vent her emotions. And she comes to feel understood. She’s finally willing to move forward as her story is heard and she comes to understand everyone else’s side of the story too. It’s not an easy process. Honestly, the main reason this story goes across three days is because of the specific situation. She’s greeted by her friends, shown that they care for her, and she feels welcome to open up. But not everyone’s like that. Some people take way longer, and much more support from others, and that’s okay. They should do things at their own pace, even things like becoming a better person.
Yes address the behavior and realize that you may be dealing with a spoiled brat who gets away with rude behavior all of the time. Some people are grown up but it doesn't always mean that they are mentally matured enough to be respectful to others.
We’ve all been “rude” these days but you’re not rude, sometimes it happens with our emotions, and sometimes things, we can’t let all get to us, remember we can change especially all of them including us. 🇺🇸🙏🇰🇭💙💗🦔
I am also a kind and merciful person I think. I want to treat nancy good as my beloved little sister and protect her from evil jerks. And then ship her to somebody who can give her the love and respect that she deserved.
It's annoying when somebody acts rude towards me, even tho I didn't do anything to them, but I usually try thinking that they may be having a bad day, so I don't act rude back and try to forget about it. But sometimes you have to defend yourself when the other person is straight acting disrespectful
Sometimes all that you ”did” was to exist at the wrong place at the wrong time. That way you are simply a convenience to someone else who may have gotten used to haphazardly propping themselves up at the expense of other people. Saying goes, ”some people try to be tall by cutting off the heads of others”. Sometimes it is inevitable so take it for what it is, a jackass looking for trouble. Whoever disrespects clearly drawn boundaries doesn’t deserve your respect either. Tell them to mind their own business somehow and then move on with your’s.
Teacher: "Hope you learned something from this experience." Me: Yeah . . . avoid group projects at all costs. Just do the work yourself because you're going to be the one to do it all anyway. ...that was me in EVERY. SINGLE. group thing all through school. Speaking up makes no difference. The outcome is the same, except now you've got classmates that you've called out. aka new enemies.
Well... it depends on how you speak up aswell. You can either make war with them or show them that you have the balls to not become their carpet 'respectfully'. Manipulative people obviously don't like it when they're called out. If they don't understand the difference and keep that attitude, it's they that are gonna suffer in the future. It eventually blows up their relationships. It doesn't matter what you do you will always have 'enemies' anyways. However, keeping integrity is important. If people think you have something more or better, they will get unavoidably jelous and become your adversary, even better marks for example, in a school's case. However, it's not always necessary to do it if the potential cost of speaking up creates too much unnecessairy bullsht and drama that is not worth eating for just a brief ego boost. It's not always so simple to realise what it really means to be assertive. Depends on the situation.
Almost the exact situation happened once to me for a psych college class that I took when I was 16 (I did dual enrollment with a community college while I was a junior and senior in high school). I was assigned a group project for 3 people, including myself. I never got to meet one of my teammates since she stopped coming to class near the beginning of the semester. My other teammate couldn't or wouldn't do research even when I gave him a short list of topics to look up, with reputable websites to use AND instructions the professor gave us on how to cite things. When he turned his "research" over to me so we could edit it together, I checked it with a plagiarism checker and it was ALL copy-pasted from websites that weren't scientifically creditable (*cough* Wikipedia) 😒. None of them were on my list. And he didn't answer any of our research questions. So I did the research for 3 people instead of just my own. This was almost 2 weeks into the project that we were given just under 3 weeks to do, and I had 3 other classes to do other projects and homework for. I updated my professor along the way that I was contacting my teammates regularly but one never responded at all, and the other one rarely did, and even when he did, he wasn't pulling his weight. The professor empathized, but unfortunately I had to finish it because it was our final project and my grade weighed heavily on it. I finished all the research, the report, the slides, and the cue cards myself. On the day of our presentation during the class break, my teammate "went to the bathroom" and didn't come back when it was our turn. I went up by myself, sleep deprived and frustrated almost to tears, and asked if someone would kindly click the slides for me while I presented, because my team wasn't there. (I felt NO guilt whatsoever when I only put my name on the slideshow and not my "teammates' " names.) At the end of class, I told the professor what happened, and she said I would get the credit my teammates would've received had they done their work. I'm proud to say I got a B on the project because I busted my butt and ruined my sleep schedule to complete it alone, especially because I was a few years younger than the classmates I was supposed to share the workload with, plus this was one of the first college classes I ever took. I've never repeated the experience since then and I've had MUCH better teammates for group projects now. I don't usually like to lead big things like these, but I don't mind being the leader when everyone actually pulls their weight and we communicate well. It's just a nice bonus that I'm taking classes I love now because I changed majors to something I find more engaging, and my classmates now are just as passionate about our course material as I am. I no longer have to beg people to do their research properly, I just have to help teammates who are in their fifties or forties (they went back to school later in life) how to do research more efficiently because computers have evolved since they were last in school. But they pick it up pretty well and are very kind and helpful in exchange for my patience, and are quite good at finding information I don't think of when we work together. We've done A+ work!
Once had a group project fall apart... AND the last straw was when we'd arranged a meet up in the library (where conference rooms could be used for private work) and nobody showed up... at all... except me... SO I approached the instructor (weird academic tangent from High School) and we discussed the matter, so I got a self project for my credit... and quietly abandoned the group... Come time for the in class "Group Presentations" I stepped up and unequivocally explained there was no project because I apparently had no group... Thanked the class... and assured everyone in the room that as per my agreement with the Instructor, MY personal project would be ready on time for Friday (two days later)... and apologized for any inconvenience... The rest of the Group was shocked... AND when they started begging for personal projects, they were refused... Zero's for all of them... I'll never forget that Instructor's words. "When I assign a group project, it's for a complete group effort. I will not let groups abandon each other and get credit. This young man, Gnarth came to me and explained that he could probably get the whole thing done, but not on time, since you'd already wasted a week before shutting him out completely... SO he deserved a respectable shot. You do not." He shrugged apathetically, and let them watch his "dreaded red pen" come out to mark zero's next to each of their names, and draw and arrow next to mine... There weren't many teachers or professors quite like that guy. He'd been an engineer, and had handled many very large projects in the industry, so he knew well the frustrations and wouldn't take crap... BUT if you were honest and gave effort, he'd move mountains to give you a "respectable shot"... For my respectable shot, I earned a respectable grade... AND I'm confident my Group got a solid lesson about group projects. ;o)
I love the story outline of this episode I loved it very much! It was really cool to hear the information through a story and I think it was really helpful.
Psych2Go rocks, and delivers effortlessly using a very pleasant voice and passing information effortlessly making psychology fun, interesting, engaging and keeps us coming back for so much more. Your topics are all well researched and compressed into a few minutes which is loaded, accurate and consistent. Thank you for teaching us how to behave when someone has been rude to us... You are the best teaching / learning channel on UA-cam.
This video is imo the best one on this channel right now. The meritorical part is done awesomely well, the story format is really cool, not to mention the references (Omori easter eggs in this channel are always a nice touch considering the game's topic, the Among Us plushie might be just a little detail but it surely brings a smile, the game's just so nostalgic, me and my people have awesome memories from it), and the fact that the 4:23 face is honestly an S tier meme template material.
I love the style of the Video you did, using story telling for tips for dealing with rude people. Always love these type of videos, even your whole channel make the world seem a bit more kind, and hopeful.
This is very good for children dealing with rude people and people who disrespects them. But they need to be taught there’s a difference between dealing with someone who’s just being rude and dealing with a bully. It only gets worse as you get older.
You're VERY welcome. We want to help as many people in all types of topics. If you ever have topic suggestions, feel free to share in the comments. We will always be looking out for them :) Thank you for your support by watching our videos!
Group assigments are a deeply rooted problem when stuck with the wrong partners. I think that the best solution is to let the professor know in advance, while so notifying that she'll work on the presentation alone despite not getting cooperation from her partners. In the case that was presented in the clip, the former information was revealed only *after* the assigment was due and was *praised* - What if it didn't get much praise? It would seem like an excuse and blaming the others while cover your own back...
My social anxiety makes me be extremely nice to literally everyone but it really bothers me how some people don’t have the same attitude towards me. It makes me feel completely isolated. It came to a point where i would force myself to be mean just to fit in with them. Anyone else feel this?
Wow these are such good tips! My favourite one was when Nancy told the teacher what was needed, not more about the fun Amber and the boy had. I love how you showed us more ways and tha contexts on how and when to use them.
I have always been such a pushover. I'm working on speaking up for myself, but as a people pleaser and an empath, I want to make everyone happy and I can't stand conflict. I'm always worried about being one of these rude people, so I let people walk all over me.
I know your pain, the assimilative nature of rudeness truly is it’s most messed up aspect which is made worse when entire social groups or fandoms participate in conforming to it, thus, reward it. It ropes in those who, instead of sharing rudeness, would rather be kind. My lesson to learn was that nice boys always finish last. It can stain your conscience which gaslighting scum prey upon. ”You enjoy hijinks like us or you’re weak.” How about no lol. The problem is that by being in the group at all you often don’t know how to avoid contributing to the dynamic so, to compensate, you either take the peer pressure in relative silence or walk away from those who collectively feed the trend. Harsh, I know. Been there, done that. COUGHbroniesCOUGH But you know what? You can endure or walk away knowing the whole time that none of the shit talk, the drama, popularity contests and flexing coming from them ever has to define your individual vitality level. It doesn’t. When it’s high you don’t owe that to them so don’t let them waste it. Don’t waste blind respect on them either, that’s exactly how they get you. Rigged games lack integrity. Let rude people be rude people by themselves. Rewarding what a-holes do is completely irrelevant to individual life. Nuff said.
Sure those are good tips, both enduring rude behaviours by shielding you and your lived ones with empathy and calmness, and taking actions against them, like reporting these rude behaviours at school or at work to your superiors, and elsewhere to the appropriate persons nya. And you're being bullied, stand up for yourself nya ! Make a call to the appropriate persons, build a resistance group, wear your armor, but don't let them win their own petty war against you. You're worthy and you deserve kindness and empathetic behaviours nya🌿
I had a manager who made discriminatory and racist comments about me every day that I worked with her. I ignored it for months until I couldn’t stand it to the point where I would just cry. I spoke to upper manager about it and was told they would take care of it. Then she was going around work saying that I was calling her a racist and that she was the victim. I’m unsure what was said to upper management since I was then made to feel like it was my problem. You think you’re doing the right thing by saying something (considering I’m not the one person she had done it too) but instead you get looked at like you’re the problem because everyone else keeps silent about what goes on
@@chelseathecreativeFox I ended up leaving and turns out she was getting investigated because she was doing a lot of dodgy stuff which then got her fired. Karma I guess
We learned all about this in elementary school. They taught us the difference between passive, assertive, and aggressive behavior. Well, let’s just say it’s gotten harder since I started middle school, but your video has reminded me how to stand up for yourself and not let others’ rudeness affect you. Thank you for your insightful videos, and I hop e whoever reads this has a great day!
I already commented this on the video, but I thought it was worth copy and pasting as a reply. Honestly, I'd rather just be passive aggressive or rude back. You can grand stand all you like, but at the end of the day you are not obligated to be the "bigger person." Here's how I would respond: Rude Customer: "And what makes you think I brought my phone?" Me: "I just assumed you were a fully functional member of society who brings their phone with them like everybody else, but I guess not." Will: "Thanks to my dearest Amber for working very hard on the presentation. Without her, these slides would be super dull." Me: "What are you talking about? You literally did none of the work. Would you like me to project our entire group chat onto the smart board and read the messages out loud, or would you like to shut up and take the free A?"
im quite late but aubrey is for the example of a rude or bully bc of omori theory yall auby is a swet/rufe person ig past of auby- but hey auby the best characterfor the example
And this is why I subbed to your channel, you’re work to make me feel calm and to think of the world differently is amazing! You’re channel has made me look at the world like no one else has, thank you
You make it look easy to avoid emotional distress when encountering rude people. To be blunt, your cases were fairly mild. I've experienced stuff that will turn you pale. Karens are like society's abuse machines that feed off of your emotional distress. Sometimes, you can't really run. Society is more cruel than nice. I've always had issues with emotional security in life. I ended up abandoning my dreams for Disability. Might as well call it Social Shell Shock, but what I have is an actual mental disorder.
Thank you for this video✨ I actually needed this because I don't know how to handle this kind of stuff. I also experienced this...I went to a university to enroll myself but when I ask questions politely, the old woman starts to embarrassed me in front of many students. Sadly, it happens to me twice🙂 and now I learned that I must not take it personally ✨
thank you! 😮💨 I struggle not to overreact because I find it extremely personally offensive, but I know I've had my moments too, intentional or not. Not overreacting helps me stay a kind, not-rude person and avoids more hurt feelings and contention :)
I'm glad you didn't advise to always be a footstool. There's letting things slide, and then there's letting people demean you as a person. The latter is never acceptable and should ALWAYS be met with due opposition!
I kinda disagree with being empathetic towards everyone. No, first comes self-respect, if somebody acts however they like towards you, they don't deserve your empathy.
I definitely ingore the toxicity around me. Don't reply back with anger & drama anymore. Doesn't bother me anymore. Don't have time for it & don't need it in my life. I've been thru enough drama to now just walk away & continue with my day. Some people are so toxic & I have removed myself from it all. Family members especially.
These are great tips, and I can also say the best thing that worked for me for not being negatively affected by others is to work on your own emotional resilience - learn how to process your stress and anxiety and work on your mindset. When you do this, others acting negatively towards you won't affect you as much ☺️
The best things I learned today is able to reply back so that you can't feel awkward about it later, and feel ashamed of it. You can reply humourously, you can reply aggressively but still in a good way, you can reply with confidence and assertiveness accepting your faults and mistakes openly without any shame in that moment.
0:02 stranger 0:05 Othermart 0:08 auby and babil 0:17 NANCI 1:04 orange joe 3:02 snuy and auby in the Lost Library 3:17 photo album 3:22 angry 3:30 geometry dash 3:44 when the
I love watching your videos while listening to the sound of rain. It's really comforting! also my health class teacher played one of your videos at school. And whenever the game references show up, my classmates are all like screaming the character's names lol
Me and my best friend have this quote ‘kill people with kindness, and bury them with a smile’. My way of dealing with rude people is to act innocent and sweet. This normally unnerves them but if they still come at me I’ll just press on with niceness (sometimes explain why that isn’t true or something like that). They then can’t be bothered to be rude to me because I just don’t give them a reaction. If you are having trouble with things like that then I hope this helps you. If you happen to have the unluckiness of people that just won’t stop then maybe try to find someone to support you. In my case I have two confident friends that would gladly burn them to a crisp with their words. Adults and teachers are also good!
Always try to be responsive, not reactive. Holding anger and resentment towards someone only ever hurts you. Obviously setting boundaries is still very important.
"When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help." - Thich Nhat Hanh
I actually got into a pretty bad fight in the comments on a UA-cam short from my favorite Minecraft UA-camr. The person straight up said that she sucks and I told them that we all have our own opinions but that doesn’t give them the right to be that rude about it. Aaaand they took it personally, and it ended up in both ends getting extremely angry with each other😑 They stopped replying bc I’m pretty sure they gave up
This is very helpful, thankyou. I really needed this ! Sometimes whenever I encounter times were rudeness sparks, I don’t know what to do so I just stay silent. But this time, I’ll take these advices to heart and mind, thankyou !
@@non-existent4717 sort of like, the reason you are getting triggered is something you experienced in the past and need to heal from so you can be whole again 🙂
In my opinion you HAVE to stand up for yourself. The few first times this is very hard since you don't know how to do it and how far you can or should go. This is easy to understand since such things are usually not thought anywhere. The sad reality is that when you don't stand up for yourself you are in fact a burden to every single other person. When you don't draw a line in the sand that must not be crossed people who exploit you will do it with other people too. Even worse the person who does not say something when treated bad will be used as example that to others and they are told that they are overreacting. I don't say you have to start a war for every tiny mean thing that happens to you or that you to jump into your opponents face ass first. However you have to protect your boundires or you will never have them. I probably sound very harsh here. This is because I am one of those who suffer from the weak people before me. I have to fight to get my overtime hours payed per contract simply by the fact nobody ever stood up to it. I have to re-gain the flexible time schedule that I should have by law because the weak people before me did not protect it when the time has come when it was in need of protection. Nobody stands up for it because they "don't want to cause any trouble". These are people you can not count on when you are in need of help. The _your weakness disgusts me_ meme got a whole new touch with these kind of people who don't want to stand up for themselves (and therefore everybody as well) and prefer their own high-level comfortzone rather than getting out and protecting the freedom people before them had to fight for to get it.
People are just taught and guilt trip into thinking that way. Unfortunately standing up for yourself is seen as overreacting and combative. Being constantly nice is expected. Nice people don’t realize how they are enabling bad behavior cause we are taught “treat others how you would like to be treated” or to be the bigger person but never to be assertive.
This is incredibly helpful, actually. I feel like I missed out on a lot of positive relationships and even potential romances because I didn't speak up for myself and looked weak. Even after I learned from those mistakes, I learned even more from this video. Thank you!
I'm a non-confrontational person, but when someone tries to get into an argument with me, I usually argue back and turn the situation even worse always thought that by speaking back, I would be "fair" and give them the lesson they deserved. After watching the video, I realized that I can bring justice without giving it back with the same intensity. I don't lose my posture, but I don't stay silent. it is very important to know how to behave with disrespectful and rude people without being like them: being simply explanatory and peaceful.
I already commented this on the video, but I thought it was worth copy and pasting as a reply because I think it's completely overlooked and not thought about logically. Honestly, I'd rather just be passive aggressive or rude back. You can grand stand all you like, but at the end of the day you are not obligated to be the "bigger person." Here's how I would respond: Rude Customer: "And what makes you think I brought my phone?" Me: "I just assumed you were a fully functional member of society who brings their phone with them like everybody else, but I guess not." Will: "Thanks to my dearest Amber for working very hard on the presentation. Without her, these slides would be super dull." Me: "What are you talking about? You literally did none of the work. Would you like me to project our entire group chat onto the smart board and read the messages out loud, or would you like to shut up and take the free A?" Nothing about what I am saying here is immoral or wrong, I am technically being rude back, but it is clearly justified given the context, and for the presentational situation, I'm not just humiliating them or putting them on the spot for the sake of it, I am outing them for lying which is a humiliating act in of itself, whereas I am just stating the truth while being funny and making the audience laugh. You don't have to take this approach, I just wanna make it clear that the people who say things like, "being rude back makes you just as bad," are incredibly stupid and have absolutely no understanding of nuance or context whatsoever, and are just grand standing to feel good about themselves instead of actually using their brains.
When I was younger my brother would bully me, in turn that made me constantly punk down (as he called it) it took me years to stand up to him. And I did it! He now respects me. He was tuff. And he said it made me tuff. But if he just loved me , I think it would have been better 😢sad now that we grown and he’s gone and died. So some of that will go in in- answered. To all those who deal with bullying. The heart pounding is good / not bad. It gives you strength not anxiety. You have to turn it from fear to strength. It’s the only way ❤good luck out there
We love Nancy here :3 Don’t worry Nancy, rudeness begets rudeness, and those rude peeps’ll get what they deserve… especially that lady buying convenience store tuna sandwiches ☠️ ☠️ ☠️ (that’s just rude to your bowels)
@@marlonbrando4764 I was thinking tuna sandwiches at convenience store funny! Sorry if I offended you! I just don’t laugh at people just to be laughing!
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I’ll just get away from them
multiple but I always try to calm them down and see what's happening and try to be polite. I'll see some people saying to ignore it but that's definitely not the best option for some of these situations. However ignoring it and walking away is okay in other situations since you may not want to engage.
i just kinda let them.. or walk away
edit: but if it is a bully bulling my friends.-
I just try to get over them, not take it personally and also, try to talk things out, but most important not take it personal, difficult when it comes to HSP
Yes they are called my family
My own therapist tells me to set boundaries for myself and let people know what you don’t like or tolerate. Without boundaries people don’t respect you.
Beautiful response. Thank you for sharing!
Respect is overrated. Just dont deal with it.
@@evanpaluch6190 huh?
You mean dont letting their stuff make you fell unrespected, or wdym?
@@Alex_Is_Not_Here I think Evan is trying to say that you don't need respect from others and that the idea of seeking it is overrated
In my experience respect is mutually earned. Even when you do earn it there are no quarantees with everyone and it is perfectly possible to blindly waste it to very one-sided social interactions. That is why it is good to realize that hostile psychopaths, narcissists and bullies who walk over others *aren’t as special as they like to think they are just by doing what they doing.* Don’t waste your time trying to earn their validation. It is exactly people like them that you draw boundaries for. Whoever disrespects your boundary doesn’t deserve your respect either. You can not change those people so leave them to their own devices. What you can do is to find your own balance which is what someone else either will or won’t recognize. It’s your life after all. Ultimately the choice is your’s and no one else’s.
i always love how y'all put out mental health videos in the style of popular games, shows and generally pop culture
Same!! It’s really cute, I love the omori style ^^
@@slam.p omg it's basil i've found you, are you okay??? you've been gone for so long
Among us :0
I know right? It's amazing, I love it
hi, brother
How to respond to rude people:
2:11 - Break the cycle of rudeness. Empathize and be kind.
3:30 - Count to 10 and take deep breaths.
4:35 - Take courage and learn when to be assertive and speak up / when to ignore rude behaviour.
"Remember that there is a way to stand in the face of rudeness without resorting to it yourself."
Let's all have a good day!
Thank you for the summary.
I just respond back at them with their energy, it's works so well
What makes you think I bought my phone😒😒😒😒
Oh! Maybe common sence, since yknow people bring their phone???? 😒
They get really pissed of, but I beg you not to say this to teachers and parents as it's super disrespectful
oooorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr just summon SOMETHING and send it after the ppl
they will kin SUNNY or BASIL in no time
Thank you
As someone who’s ignored rudeness all my life, that only caused me to suppress everything to where I can get easily triggered and will even start shaking because I get so angry for letting people treat me that way.. learning how to stand up for yourself and speak up is definitely important.
This is exactly what im going through rn. Standing up for myself is a problem
I stood up for myself today and it felt great!
Yeah, "just ignore it" is 10/10 pussy advice. You are not somehow the "bigger person" by tolerating their disrespect, if anything, you're a coward.
I stand up for myself but it always results in people trying to get me back
Important and difficult
I've been depressing over it for some time now
I wish it was as simple as in the video
The omori style
I love it please do more of it
Yes
Thank you for your feedback! We shall do that. Do you like this storytelling with Nancy in it? :D
@@Psych2go yes! :)
Yes!!
@@Psych2go Yea
I loved the Omori references :D
This video was so cool by the way, I definitely find it hard to stand up to “rude people” so this was helpful!
Omori characters are really great for psychological videos! It’s just… *PERFECT*
The Sunny and Aubrey at 3:03 was so cute! Also the video was very helpful as I tend to get angry when people are disrespectful to me.
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I see omori, I click because i know it’s gonna be good
I was correct!
I thought how to deal with rude people omori style is like that one scene with real aubrey
Same =D
Yea
@@peet7392that is the omori style
Someone being rude because they snapped deserve empathy.
Someone who repeatedly does so and acts obviously(edit: oblivious not obviously)to it, denying it when spoken about and generally being disrespectful? - You *do not* ignore them. Stand up and give them a piece of your mind *for real.*
People don't change till lack of change has cost them enough. A person with a shitty personality needs that to be told and if they keep not caring then they need to learn a lesson. But do always trust yourself on it. Stick to morals too. Ask for the other side of the story. Even when it's hard to sometimes.
Just trust yourself on the judgement.
It's not most people's fault anyway that they grew up to be rude. But still
I feel like Omori can teach us this too.
I’ll try to keep vague to limit spoilers, but I’ll still give a warning. But basically, what you said, but with the
The rude person in the story of Omori is part of an old friend group. She consistently bullies another friend, to the shock of the rest of the old group.
But her friends stick with her. In part because they gotta stand up to what’s been happening, and in part because friends care about each other. It soon comes to a point where the rude friend tells her story because she finally feels like she has a safe place to vent her emotions. And she comes to feel understood. She’s finally willing to move forward as her story is heard and she comes to understand everyone else’s side of the story too.
It’s not an easy process. Honestly, the main reason this story goes across three days is because of the specific situation. She’s greeted by her friends, shown that they care for her, and she feels welcome to open up. But not everyone’s like that. Some people take way longer, and much more support from others, and that’s okay. They should do things at their own pace, even things like becoming a better person.
I am usually patient with rude people, but if you push me too far then I'll put you face down in the dirt faster than you can call for my manager.
How about calling them a sociopath ?
@@Anonymous-hx3pu haha funny anonymous
Yes address the behavior and realize that you may be dealing with a spoiled brat who gets away with rude behavior all of the time. Some people are grown up but it doesn't always mean that they are mentally matured enough to be respectful to others.
We’ve all been “rude” these days but you’re not rude, sometimes it happens with our emotions, and sometimes things, we can’t let all get to us, remember we can change especially all of them including us. 🇺🇸🙏🇰🇭💙💗🦔
Thanks for sharing! :)
We can change them with our kindness or helping them.
@@Psych2go Anytime!
@@voidpirates8109 Yeah!
@@voidpirates8109 Just… not on a “hard” way.
How to deal with rude people Omori style:
Rule 1: Get the knife.
Rule 2: Get the knife!
Rule 3: Get the frickin’ knife!
LOAM😂 Lol🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m very proud of Nancy for being calm and polite when coming with solutions to her problems😉
I am also a kind and merciful person I think. I want to treat nancy good as my beloved little sister and protect her from evil jerks. And then ship her to somebody who can give her the love and respect that she deserved.
Definitely respectable. 👍
I love the omori characters, they fit so well :)
How to respond to rude people:
1. Hook up with their mom
LMFAOOOOOO
Works tho
When your sibling is rude to you:
@@heathermatic3773 X(
POV: they don't have a mom
Oh my goodness, you actually listened!!! Thank you so much, Psych2Go! The more OMORI, the better!
Hi there! Your channel looked interesting, so I went onto it to check it out.
I hope you make videos at some point like your description says!
@@rasmusleddyr It’ll take time, but in the future, it may very well happen!
When people are rude to you,they reveal who they are ,not who you are ,Don't take it personal.....🌟
Exactly 🙌🏻
@@HannahMarieee yep...😄
It's annoying when somebody acts rude towards me, even tho I didn't do anything to them, but I usually try thinking that they may be having a bad day, so I don't act rude back and try to forget about it. But sometimes you have to defend yourself when the other person is straight acting disrespectful
Sometimes all that you ”did” was to exist at the wrong place at the wrong time. That way you are simply a convenience to someone else who may have gotten used to haphazardly propping themselves up at the expense of other people. Saying goes, ”some people try to be tall by cutting off the heads of others”. Sometimes it is inevitable so take it for what it is, a jackass looking for trouble. Whoever disrespects clearly drawn boundaries doesn’t deserve your respect either. Tell them to mind their own business somehow and then move on with your’s.
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Yeah but where do you draw the line, like any rude behaviour is a form of disrespect
Coincidental that I just got back into the omori fandom👀
The art style is adorable, and as a sensitive person, this video really helped!! :D
Teacher: "Hope you learned something from this experience." Me: Yeah . . . avoid group projects at all costs. Just do the work yourself because you're going to be the one to do it all anyway. ...that was me in EVERY. SINGLE. group thing all through school. Speaking up makes no difference. The outcome is the same, except now you've got classmates that you've called out. aka new enemies.
Well... it depends on how you speak up aswell. You can either make war with them or show them that you have the balls to not become their carpet 'respectfully'. Manipulative people obviously don't like it when they're called out. If they don't understand the difference and keep that attitude, it's they that are gonna suffer in the future. It eventually blows up their relationships. It doesn't matter what you do you will always have 'enemies' anyways. However, keeping integrity is important. If people think you have something more or better, they will get unavoidably jelous and become your adversary, even better marks for example, in a school's case. However, it's not always necessary to do it if the potential cost of speaking up creates too much unnecessairy bullsht and drama that is not worth eating for just a brief ego boost. It's not always so simple to realise what it really means to be assertive. Depends on the situation.
I’m an introvert
Avoid rude, and annoying people 😃when you can. Yep.
That is hard to apply when you work on customer service and the rude people come to you randomly
👁
Call them out on their rudeness especially Karen’s
Almost the exact situation happened once to me for a psych college class that I took when I was 16 (I did dual enrollment with a community college while I was a junior and senior in high school). I was assigned a group project for 3 people, including myself. I never got to meet one of my teammates since she stopped coming to class near the beginning of the semester. My other teammate couldn't or wouldn't do research even when I gave him a short list of topics to look up, with reputable websites to use AND instructions the professor gave us on how to cite things. When he turned his "research" over to me so we could edit it together, I checked it with a plagiarism checker and it was ALL copy-pasted from websites that weren't scientifically creditable (*cough* Wikipedia) 😒. None of them were on my list. And he didn't answer any of our research questions. So I did the research for 3 people instead of just my own. This was almost 2 weeks into the project that we were given just under 3 weeks to do, and I had 3 other classes to do other projects and homework for.
I updated my professor along the way that I was contacting my teammates regularly but one never responded at all, and the other one rarely did, and even when he did, he wasn't pulling his weight. The professor empathized, but unfortunately I had to finish it because it was our final project and my grade weighed heavily on it. I finished all the research, the report, the slides, and the cue cards myself.
On the day of our presentation during the class break, my teammate "went to the bathroom" and didn't come back when it was our turn. I went up by myself, sleep deprived and frustrated almost to tears, and asked if someone would kindly click the slides for me while I presented, because my team wasn't there. (I felt NO guilt whatsoever when I only put my name on the slideshow and not my "teammates' " names.) At the end of class, I told the professor what happened, and she said I would get the credit my teammates would've received had they done their work. I'm proud to say I got a B on the project because I busted my butt and ruined my sleep schedule to complete it alone, especially because I was a few years younger than the classmates I was supposed to share the workload with, plus this was one of the first college classes I ever took.
I've never repeated the experience since then and I've had MUCH better teammates for group projects now. I don't usually like to lead big things like these, but I don't mind being the leader when everyone actually pulls their weight and we communicate well. It's just a nice bonus that I'm taking classes I love now because I changed majors to something I find more engaging, and my classmates now are just as passionate about our course material as I am. I no longer have to beg people to do their research properly, I just have to help teammates who are in their fifties or forties (they went back to school later in life) how to do research more efficiently because computers have evolved since they were last in school. But they pick it up pretty well and are very kind and helpful in exchange for my patience, and are quite good at finding information I don't think of when we work together. We've done A+ work!
SO ANNOYING WHEN THESE RANDOM PEOPLE NEVER DUD THEIR WORK DURING 5TH GRADE AN I HADTA DO IT ALL BY MYSELF
AT LEAST I GOT CREDIT??
Once had a group project fall apart... AND the last straw was when we'd arranged a meet up in the library (where conference rooms could be used for private work) and nobody showed up... at all... except me...
SO I approached the instructor (weird academic tangent from High School) and we discussed the matter, so I got a self project for my credit... and quietly abandoned the group...
Come time for the in class "Group Presentations" I stepped up and unequivocally explained there was no project because I apparently had no group... Thanked the class... and assured everyone in the room that as per my agreement with the Instructor, MY personal project would be ready on time for Friday (two days later)... and apologized for any inconvenience...
The rest of the Group was shocked... AND when they started begging for personal projects, they were refused... Zero's for all of them... I'll never forget that Instructor's words. "When I assign a group project, it's for a complete group effort. I will not let groups abandon each other and get credit. This young man, Gnarth came to me and explained that he could probably get the whole thing done, but not on time, since you'd already wasted a week before shutting him out completely... SO he deserved a respectable shot. You do not." He shrugged apathetically, and let them watch his "dreaded red pen" come out to mark zero's next to each of their names, and draw and arrow next to mine...
There weren't many teachers or professors quite like that guy. He'd been an engineer, and had handled many very large projects in the industry, so he knew well the frustrations and wouldn't take crap... BUT if you were honest and gave effort, he'd move mountains to give you a "respectable shot"...
For my respectable shot, I earned a respectable grade... AND I'm confident my Group got a solid lesson about group projects. ;o)
My groupmate also went to the bathroom when it was our turn😂😂
Similar things happened to me, and it’s why I hate group activities.
Psychology class is the worst
I love the story outline of this episode I loved it very much! It was really cool to hear the information through a story and I think it was really helpful.
Psych2Go rocks, and delivers effortlessly using a very pleasant voice and passing information effortlessly making psychology fun, interesting, engaging and keeps us coming back for so much more.
Your topics are all well researched and compressed into a few minutes which is loaded, accurate and consistent.
Thank you for teaching us how to behave when someone has been rude to us... You are the best teaching / learning channel on UA-cam.
This video is imo the best one on this channel right now. The meritorical part is done awesomely well, the story format is really cool, not to mention the references (Omori easter eggs in this channel are always a nice touch considering the game's topic, the Among Us plushie might be just a little detail but it surely brings a smile, the game's just so nostalgic, me and my people have awesome memories from it), and the fact that the 4:23 face is honestly an S tier meme template material.
I LOVE OMORI AND THIS IS GREAT especially 0:09 great bully for example Aubrey hates Basil.
0:09 Who's the person on the right ?
I love the style of the Video you did, using story telling for tips for dealing with rude people. Always love these type of videos, even your whole channel make the world seem a bit more kind, and hopeful.
Nancy sounds like a very nice person to be around :)
Ikr
She acts like Cinderella too have courage and be kind
She does😍
i was literally so mad a couple minutes ago but i saw this and this calmed me down so much😭😭 exactly what i needed rn✨ thankss💞💞
💗
same here
This is very good for children dealing with rude people and people who disrespects them. But they need to be taught there’s a difference between dealing with someone who’s just being rude and dealing with a bully. It only gets worse as you get older.
Just throw the person that you dont like into a lake
-Aubrey
I found your self help vids recently. Thank you SO MUCH for all the free help! 👍🏻
You're VERY welcome. We want to help as many people in all types of topics. If you ever have topic suggestions, feel free to share in the comments. We will always be looking out for them :) Thank you for your support by watching our videos!
There is a difference between rudeness and hostility. This video may not represent reality but these are good tips anyway
Group assigments are a deeply rooted problem when stuck with the wrong partners.
I think that the best solution is to let the professor know in advance, while so notifying that she'll work on the presentation alone despite not getting cooperation from her partners.
In the case that was presented in the clip, the former information was revealed only *after* the assigment was due and was *praised* - What if it didn't get much praise? It would seem like an excuse and blaming the others while cover your own back...
Saw Omori style, precisely Aubrey, immediately clicked.
Thanks for your work AND your creativity, Psych2go 👏
same
The Omori style is so cute XD love this format too!
This is really helpful with a lot of rude people experiences in my life. It hurts and it's hard to forget the emotional pain they do.
aubrey is my favorite character from omori thank you for referencing her🙏
My social anxiety makes me be extremely nice to literally everyone but it really bothers me how some people don’t have the same attitude towards me. It makes me feel completely isolated. It came to a point where i would force myself to be mean just to fit in with them. Anyone else feel this?
1000%
Anxiety is simply an absence of fear
The OMORI style really brightens up the video topic 💜💜
Wow these are such good tips! My favourite one was when Nancy told the teacher what was needed, not more about the fun Amber and the boy had. I love how you showed us more ways and tha contexts on how and when to use them.
I have always been such a pushover. I'm working on speaking up for myself, but as a people pleaser and an empath, I want to make everyone happy and I can't stand conflict. I'm always worried about being one of these rude people, so I let people walk all over me.
I know your pain, the assimilative nature of rudeness truly is it’s most messed up aspect which is made worse when entire social groups or fandoms participate in conforming to it, thus, reward it. It ropes in those who, instead of sharing rudeness, would rather be kind. My lesson to learn was that nice boys always finish last. It can stain your conscience which gaslighting scum prey upon. ”You enjoy hijinks like us or you’re weak.” How about no lol.
The problem is that by being in the group at all you often don’t know how to avoid contributing to the dynamic so, to compensate, you either take the peer pressure in relative silence or walk away from those who collectively feed the trend. Harsh, I know. Been there, done that. COUGHbroniesCOUGH But you know what? You can endure or walk away knowing the whole time that none of the shit talk, the drama, popularity contests and flexing coming from them ever has to define your individual vitality level. It doesn’t. When it’s high you don’t owe that to them so don’t let them waste it. Don’t waste blind respect on them either, that’s exactly how they get you. Rigged games lack integrity. Let rude people be rude people by themselves. Rewarding what a-holes do is completely irrelevant to individual life. Nuff said.
If you let people walk all over you, then you're basically a coward.
Sure those are good tips, both enduring rude behaviours by shielding you and your lived ones with empathy and calmness, and taking actions against them, like reporting these rude behaviours at school or at work to your superiors, and elsewhere to the appropriate persons nya.
And you're being bullied, stand up for yourself nya ! Make a call to the appropriate persons, build a resistance group, wear your armor, but don't let them win their own petty war against you.
You're worthy and you deserve kindness and empathetic behaviours nya🌿
I had a manager who made discriminatory and racist comments about me every day that I worked with her. I ignored it for months until I couldn’t stand it to the point where I would just cry. I spoke to upper manager about it and was told they would take care of it. Then she was going around work saying that I was calling her a racist and that she was the victim. I’m unsure what was said to upper management since I was then made to feel like it was my problem.
You think you’re doing the right thing by saying something (considering I’m not the one person she had done it too) but instead you get looked at like you’re the problem because everyone else keeps silent about what goes on
I left a similar job like that.
I'm sorry that happened to you. Did you quit eventually?
That really sucks
@@chelseathecreativeFox I ended up leaving and turns out she was getting investigated because she was doing a lot of dodgy stuff which then got her fired. Karma I guess
Never keep your mind on rude people. Because they won't have their mind on you because they dont even have one.
We learned all about this in elementary school. They taught us the difference between passive, assertive, and aggressive behavior. Well, let’s just say it’s gotten harder since I started middle school, but your video has reminded me how to stand up for yourself and not let others’ rudeness affect you. Thank you for your insightful videos, and I hop e whoever reads this has a great day!
Pretty sure they just teach aggressive now.
I already commented this on the video, but I thought it was worth copy and pasting as a reply. Honestly, I'd rather just be passive aggressive or rude back. You can grand stand all you like, but at the end of the day you are not obligated to be the "bigger person." Here's how I would respond:
Rude Customer: "And what makes you think I brought my phone?"
Me: "I just assumed you were a fully functional member of society who brings their phone with them like everybody else, but I guess not."
Will: "Thanks to my dearest Amber for working very hard on the presentation. Without her, these slides would be super dull."
Me: "What are you talking about? You literally did none of the work. Would you like me to project our entire group chat onto the smart board and read the messages out loud, or would you like to shut up and take the free A?"
im quite late but aubrey is for the example of a rude or bully bc of omori theory yall auby is a swet/rufe person ig past of auby- but hey auby the best characterfor the example
And this is why I subbed to your channel, you’re work to make me feel calm and to think of the world differently is amazing! You’re channel has made me look at the world like no one else has, thank you
You make it look easy to avoid emotional distress when encountering rude people. To be blunt, your cases were fairly mild. I've experienced stuff that will turn you pale. Karens are like society's abuse machines that feed off of your emotional distress. Sometimes, you can't really run. Society is more cruel than nice. I've always had issues with emotional security in life. I ended up abandoning my dreams for Disability. Might as well call it Social Shell Shock, but what I have is an actual mental disorder.
There is a different between someone who _happens_ to be rude, and someone who forgets that they were supposed to be nice.
You know what, you are exactly my mirror. Can we be friends, if you want. I really needs you and may be you also need someone at this time.
Thank you for this video✨ I actually needed this because I don't know how to handle this kind of stuff. I also experienced this...I went to a university to enroll myself but when I ask questions politely, the old woman starts to embarrassed me in front of many students. Sadly, it happens to me twice🙂 and now I learned that I must not take it personally ✨
YESSS TYSM FOR MORE OMORI CONTENT!!! 💜💜💜
For sure! Shall we add more in the future? :D
OMORI? I OMOR 💀 CLOSE YOUR EYES YOULL BE HERE SOON?
All jokes aside. OMORI is one of the greatest games of all time and changed my life
Woot woot!! Hope this video helps you and share your friends who plays OMORI :P
thank you! 😮💨 I struggle not to overreact because I find it extremely personally offensive, but I know I've had my moments too, intentional or not. Not overreacting helps me stay a kind, not-rude person and avoids more hurt feelings and contention :)
We’re all human after all 🥰
I'm glad you didn't advise to always be a footstool. There's letting things slide, and then there's letting people demean you as a person. The latter is never acceptable and should ALWAYS be met with due opposition!
I kinda disagree with being empathetic towards everyone. No, first comes self-respect, if somebody acts however they like towards you, they don't deserve your empathy.
1st situation just throw the drink on miss eye roller
I definitely ingore the toxicity around me. Don't reply back with anger & drama anymore. Doesn't bother me anymore. Don't have time for it & don't need it in my life. I've been thru enough drama to now just walk away & continue with my day. Some people are so toxic & I have removed myself from it all. Family members especially.
These are great tips, and I can also say the best thing that worked for me for not being negatively affected by others is to work on your own emotional resilience - learn how to process your stress and anxiety and work on your mindset. When you do this, others acting negatively towards you won't affect you as much ☺️
But Aubrey is literally my favorite character 👁️👄👁️
The best things I learned today is able to reply back so that you can't feel awkward about it later, and feel ashamed of it. You can reply humourously, you can reply aggressively but still in a good way, you can reply with confidence and assertiveness accepting your faults and mistakes openly without any shame in that moment.
I love these episodes. I have a hard time standing up for myself and when I do, it's often rudely so this was really helpful
WHO KEEPS DOING THESE OMORI THUMBNAILS 😭 but its a great video I also love the scrunkly auby in the thumbnail
this channel is trying to tell me something.
*first it was how to tell if someone likes you over text and now it's how to deal with rude people.*
Did they help you? :O
lots of wisdom for sure!
0:02 stranger
0:05 Othermart
0:08 auby and babil
0:17 NANCI
1:04 orange joe
3:02 snuy and auby in the Lost Library
3:17 photo album
3:22 angry
3:30 geometry dash
3:44 when the
came here for omori, stayed for the actually useful tips. love these videos, they're always helpful!
Wow I love the narrative style and the animation is so smooth and very helpful tips thank you so much
I love watching your videos while listening to the sound of rain. It's really comforting!
also my health class teacher played one of your videos at school. And whenever the game references show up, my classmates are all like screaming the character's names lol
the animations are cute and most importatntly relaxing. Pastel colours signal my brain to relax
never did i expect an omori like video on this channel
Being rude and screaming back untill they leave gives them a taste of their own medicine.
Least the fandoms growing Also I need more omori if you don't mind continue it
Me and my best friend have this quote ‘kill people with kindness, and bury them with a smile’. My way of dealing with rude people is to act innocent and sweet. This normally unnerves them but if they still come at me I’ll just press on with niceness (sometimes explain why that isn’t true or something like that). They then can’t be bothered to be rude to me because I just don’t give them a reaction. If you are having trouble with things like that then I hope this helps you. If you happen to have the unluckiness of people that just won’t stop then maybe try to find someone to support you. In my case I have two confident friends that would gladly burn them to a crisp with their words. Adults and teachers are also good!
I FINALLY FOUND ONE OF YOUR OMORI THUMBNAILS
Always try to be responsive, not reactive. Holding anger and resentment towards someone only ever hurts you. Obviously setting boundaries is still very important.
IN LOVE WITH THE OMORI CAMEOS ❤💙💚
"When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help." - Thich Nhat Hanh
My thoughts exactly🙏🙏🙏
This is so truee
How many infants here
Ye, just cope
Let rude ppl suffer within
Mkay
Then go to therapy. Miserable people like company and I’m not gonna be part of it.
I actually got into a pretty bad fight in the comments on a UA-cam short from my favorite Minecraft UA-camr. The person straight up said that she sucks and I told them that we all have our own opinions but that doesn’t give them the right to be that rude about it. Aaaand they took it personally, and it ended up in both ends getting extremely angry with each other😑 They stopped replying bc I’m pretty sure they gave up
Always coming to the rescue, thank you so much love this channel so much ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
You are so kind! Thank you so much for your support. I hope this video helps you
@@Psych2go awww ofc!! And yes it helps me a lot!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
CLOSE
YOUR EYES YOULL BE HERE SOON
I love how the Omori characters look like
I really aprecciate the positive direction of the video but as a half-empty type of person I have to say it, some people are just a lost case.
I used to think this “being polite" is unrealistic af, but I do see it working around me now-a-days
This is very helpful, thankyou. I really needed this ! Sometimes whenever I encounter times were rudeness sparks, I don’t know what to do so I just stay silent. But this time, I’ll take these advices to heart and mind, thankyou !
im a simple person.
i see aubrey, i click.
update: im disappointed she just appeared once as a background character.
People have been rude to me my entire life.
“If you are irritated by every rub, how will your mirror be polished?”
-Rumi
I don't get it
@@non-existent4717 sort of like, the reason you are getting triggered is something you experienced in the past and need to heal from so you can be whole again 🙂
@@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 i still don't get it.. 💀
NO BUT THE THUMBNAIL
I LOVE AUBREY SO MUCH NOOOOOO
In my opinion you HAVE to stand up for yourself. The few first times this is very hard since you don't know how to do it and how far you can or should go. This is easy to understand since such things are usually not thought anywhere.
The sad reality is that when you don't stand up for yourself you are in fact a burden to every single other person. When you don't draw a line in the sand that must not be crossed people who exploit you will do it with other people too. Even worse the person who does not say something when treated bad will be used as example that to others and they are told that they are overreacting.
I don't say you have to start a war for every tiny mean thing that happens to you or that you to jump into your opponents face ass first. However you have to protect your boundires or you will never have them.
I probably sound very harsh here. This is because I am one of those who suffer from the weak people before me. I have to fight to get my overtime hours payed per contract simply by the fact nobody ever stood up to it. I have to re-gain the flexible time schedule that I should have by law because the weak people before me did not protect it when the time has come when it was in need of protection. Nobody stands up for it because they "don't want to cause any trouble". These are people you can not count on when you are in need of help. The _your weakness disgusts me_ meme got a whole new touch with these kind of people who don't want to stand up for themselves (and therefore everybody as well) and prefer their own high-level comfortzone rather than getting out and protecting the freedom people before them had to fight for to get it.
People are just taught and guilt trip into thinking that way. Unfortunately standing up for yourself is seen as overreacting and combative. Being constantly nice is expected. Nice people don’t realize how they are enabling bad behavior cause we are taught “treat others how you would like to be treated” or to be the bigger person but never to be assertive.
How to deal with rude people:
1: buy a greenlee hcs816 hydraulic chainsaw
2: find them
Omg I loved watching this channel and I come back to see you guys mention my favorite game. Love you for creating great and wonderful content! 🥰
It’s been a while since I watched a video from you guys, and I just recently got into Omori, then I was recommended this and I was just thrown off
Man, this is a nice video to lookout for rude ppl in my high school.
Hope this helps! Let us know if you have any other tips too! You might be able to help others out!
very important to stay safe 🙏
@@Psych2go thx Psych2go! And I might will one day.
Schools Abt to start for me so this video is good
@@wholesomeedits definitely even though school is started for your boy.
This is incredibly helpful, actually. I feel like I missed out on a lot of positive relationships and even potential romances because I didn't speak up for myself and looked weak. Even after I learned from those mistakes, I learned even more from this video. Thank you!
You guys always put your effort to make these videos for us. Thank you so much 😊
MY HEART FOR THE OMORI PSYCH2GO THUMBNAILS
I'm a non-confrontational person, but when someone tries to get into an argument with me, I usually argue back and turn the situation even worse always thought that by speaking back, I would be "fair" and give them the lesson they deserved. After watching the video, I realized that I can bring justice without giving it back with the same intensity. I don't lose my posture, but I don't stay silent. it is very important to know how to behave with disrespectful and rude people without being like them: being simply explanatory and peaceful.
I already commented this on the video, but I thought it was worth copy and pasting as a reply because I think it's completely overlooked and not thought about logically. Honestly, I'd rather just be passive aggressive or rude back. You can grand stand all you like, but at the end of the day you are not obligated to be the "bigger person." Here's how I would respond:
Rude Customer: "And what makes you think I brought my phone?"
Me: "I just assumed you were a fully functional member of society who brings their phone with them like everybody else, but I guess not."
Will: "Thanks to my dearest Amber for working very hard on the presentation. Without her, these slides would be super dull."
Me: "What are you talking about? You literally did none of the work. Would you like me to project our entire group chat onto the smart board and read the messages out loud, or would you like to shut up and take the free A?"
Nothing about what I am saying here is immoral or wrong, I am technically being rude back, but it is clearly justified given the context, and for the presentational situation, I'm not just humiliating them or putting them on the spot for the sake of it, I am outing them for lying which is a humiliating act in of itself, whereas I am just stating the truth while being funny and making the audience laugh. You don't have to take this approach, I just wanna make it clear that the people who say things like, "being rude back makes you just as bad," are incredibly stupid and have absolutely no understanding of nuance or context whatsoever, and are just grand standing to feel good about themselves instead of actually using their brains.
When I was younger my brother would bully me, in turn that made me constantly punk down (as he called it) it took me years to stand up to him. And I did it! He now respects me. He was tuff. And he said it made me tuff. But if he just loved me , I think it would have been better 😢sad now that we grown and he’s gone and died. So some of that will go in in- answered. To all those who deal with bullying. The heart pounding is good / not bad. It gives you strength not anxiety. You have to turn it from fear to strength. It’s the only way ❤good luck out there
despite how aubrey treats people, i think its kind of bad to call her rude
OMG HAVING AUDREY BE THE MEAN ONE AND BASIL BE THE SAD ONE IS SO ACCURATE 😭😭😭
We love Nancy here :3 Don’t worry Nancy, rudeness begets rudeness, and those rude peeps’ll get what they deserve… especially that lady buying convenience store tuna sandwiches ☠️ ☠️ ☠️ (that’s just rude to your bowels)
So true and funny! Let the rude persons in your group know how you feel! That’s great she did it! Keep doing that Nancy you’ll feel better for it!
@@marlonbrando4764 I was thinking tuna sandwiches at convenience store funny! Sorry if I offended you! I just don’t laugh at people just to be laughing!