How To Respond To Rude People (Omori Style?!)

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  • Опубліковано 11 сер 2022
  • Have you ever been treated rudely by a stranger? Or… maybe you’re surrounded by a rude or toxic environment? Perhaps you have experienced your family member, significant other, or friends behaving rudely in front of you…? If so, this video is for you.
    What if their rudeness is more than just rudeness? Are you dealing with fake nice people? Watch this video to find out: • 10 Signs of Fake Nice ...
    Writer: Syazwana Amirah
    Script Editor: Rida Batool
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    VO: Amanda Silvera
    Animator: Evelvaii
    UA-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
    REFERENCES
    Bergland, C. (2015, December 7). 5 polite ways to disarm rude people. Retrieved from www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-athletes-way/201512/5-polite-ways-disarm-rude-people
    Morin, A. (2017, September 15). How mentally strong people deal with rudeness and snark. Retrieved from www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/what-mentally-strong-people-dont-do/201709/how-mentally-strong-people-deal-rudeness-and-snark
    Whitbourne, S. K. (2017, November 21). The best way to counteract rude behavior. Retrieved from www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201711/the-best-way-counteract-rude-behavior

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  Рік тому +605

    Have you had any experience with rude people? What are your tricks to overcome this? Don't forget to share this video to help your peers out Watch our next series on How to Deal with Fake Nice People: ua-cam.com/video/ACzlvDyTbIY/v-deo.html

    • @Bwubdle198
      @Bwubdle198 Рік тому +10

      I’ll just get away from them

    • @velvelx
      @velvelx Рік тому +10

      multiple but I always try to calm them down and see what's happening and try to be polite. I'll see some people saying to ignore it but that's definitely not the best option for some of these situations. However ignoring it and walking away is okay in other situations since you may not want to engage.

    • @catalina1816
      @catalina1816 Рік тому

      i just kinda let them.. or walk away
      edit: but if it is a bully bulling my friends.-

    • @albertovalencia6646
      @albertovalencia6646 Рік тому +5

      I just try to get over them, not take it personally and also, try to talk things out, but most important not take it personal, difficult when it comes to HSP

    • @A55a551n
      @A55a551n Рік тому +3

      Yes they are called my family

  • @pierre0227
    @pierre0227 Рік тому +2061

    My own therapist tells me to set boundaries for myself and let people know what you don’t like or tolerate. Without boundaries people don’t respect you.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +185

      Beautiful response. Thank you for sharing!

    • @evanpaluch6190
      @evanpaluch6190 Рік тому +30

      Respect is overrated. Just dont deal with it.

    • @Alex_Is_Not_Here
      @Alex_Is_Not_Here Рік тому +23

      @@evanpaluch6190 huh?
      You mean dont letting their stuff make you fell unrespected, or wdym?

    • @Slow-zm5wv
      @Slow-zm5wv Рік тому +25

      ​@@Alex_Is_Not_Here I think Evan is trying to say that you don't need respect from others and that the idea of seeking it is overrated

    • @Dinoslay
      @Dinoslay Рік тому +22

      In my experience respect is mutually earned. Even when you do earn it there are no quarantees with everyone and it is perfectly possible to blindly waste it to very one-sided social interactions. That is why it is good to realize that hostile psychopaths, narcissists and bullies who walk over others *aren’t as special as they like to think they are just by doing what they doing.* Don’t waste your time trying to earn their validation. It is exactly people like them that you draw boundaries for. Whoever disrespects your boundary doesn’t deserve your respect either. You can not change those people so leave them to their own devices. What you can do is to find your own balance which is what someone else either will or won’t recognize. It’s your life after all. Ultimately the choice is your’s and no one else’s.

  • @gerpsy4307
    @gerpsy4307 Рік тому +2069

    i always love how y'all put out mental health videos in the style of popular games, shows and generally pop culture

    • @slam.p
      @slam.p Рік тому +81

      Same!! It’s really cute, I love the omori style ^^

    • @gerpsy4307
      @gerpsy4307 Рік тому +37

      @@slam.p omg it's basil i've found you, are you okay??? you've been gone for so long

    • @Bell-rf2kk
      @Bell-rf2kk Рік тому +6

      Among us :0

    • @domgo349
      @domgo349 Рік тому +4

      I know right? It's amazing, I love it

    • @rizzy7766
      @rizzy7766 Рік тому +4

      hi, brother

  • @bruxinth4660
    @bruxinth4660 Рік тому +61

    How to deal with rude people Omori style:
    Rule 1: Get the knife.
    Rule 2: Get the knife!
    Rule 3: Get the frickin’ knife!

    • @David123oko
      @David123oko 9 днів тому +1

      LOAM😂 Lol🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @lorddrac_dontaskmetodance
    @lorddrac_dontaskmetodance Рік тому +1131

    How to respond to rude people:
    1. Hook up with their mom

  • @haebi_
    @haebi_ Рік тому +739

    The omori style
    I love it please do more of it

    • @__braindeadfungus
      @__braindeadfungus Рік тому +20

      Yes

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +159

      Thank you for your feedback! We shall do that. Do you like this storytelling with Nancy in it? :D

    • @purinfier
      @purinfier Рік тому +21

      @@Psych2go yes! :)

    • @slam.p
      @slam.p Рік тому +10

      Yes!!

    • @Ch3zzIts
      @Ch3zzIts Рік тому +7

      @@Psych2go Yea

  • @zoranabanana
    @zoranabanana Рік тому +85

    As someone who’s ignored rudeness all my life, that only caused me to suppress everything to where I can get easily triggered and will even start shaking because I get so angry for letting people treat me that way.. learning how to stand up for yourself and speak up is definitely important.

    • @melissamotloung3122
      @melissamotloung3122 10 місяців тому +9

      This is exactly what im going through rn. Standing up for myself is a problem

    • @bem6344
      @bem6344 9 місяців тому +6

      I stood up for myself today and it felt great!

    • @Err_404_
      @Err_404_ 9 місяців тому

      Yeah, "just ignore it" is 10/10 pussy advice. You are not somehow the "bigger person" by tolerating their disrespect, if anything, you're a coward.

    • @jaebae.91
      @jaebae.91 5 місяців тому +6

      I stand up for myself but it always results in people trying to get me back

    • @malakashraf2801
      @malakashraf2801 Місяць тому

      Important and difficult
      I've been depressing over it for some time now
      I wish it was as simple as in the video

  • @reniellav.6880
    @reniellav.6880 Рік тому +1036

    How to respond to rude people:
    2:11 - Break the cycle of rudeness. Empathize and be kind.
    3:30 - Count to 10 and take deep breaths.
    4:35 - Take courage and learn when to be assertive and speak up / when to ignore rude behaviour.
    "Remember that there is a way to stand in the face of rudeness without resorting to it yourself."
    Let's all have a good day!

    • @alisayed7714
      @alisayed7714 Рік тому +3

      Thank you for the summary.

    • @sphereyahya
      @sphereyahya Рік тому +9

      I just respond back at them with their energy, it's works so well

    • @sphereyahya
      @sphereyahya Рік тому +3

      What makes you think I bought my phone😒😒😒😒
      Oh! Maybe common sence, since yknow people bring their phone???? 😒
      They get really pissed of, but I beg you not to say this to teachers and parents as it's super disrespectful

    • @sxftie.len-P
      @sxftie.len-P Рік тому +2

      oooorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr just summon SOMETHING and send it after the ppl
      they will kin SUNNY or BASIL in no time

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee Рік тому +3

      Thank you

  • @mothmanman
    @mothmanman Рік тому +160

    The Sunny and Aubrey at 3:03 was so cute! Also the video was very helpful as I tend to get angry when people are disrespectful to me.

  • @gachanoob1012
    @gachanoob1012 Рік тому +501

    I see omori, I click because i know it’s gonna be good

    • @gachanoob1012
      @gachanoob1012 Рік тому +16

      I was correct!

    • @peet7392
      @peet7392 Рік тому +23

      I thought how to deal with rude people omori style is like that one scene with real aubrey

    • @Iceyyy5229
      @Iceyyy5229 Рік тому +5

      Same =D

    • @MynaLkA_
      @MynaLkA_ Рік тому

      Yea

    • @theguyever
      @theguyever Рік тому +1

      @@peet7392that is the omori style

  • @potatoman2600
    @potatoman2600 Рік тому +106

    I loved the Omori references :D
    This video was so cool by the way, I definitely find it hard to stand up to “rude people” so this was helpful!

  • @davidboss0761
    @davidboss0761 Рік тому +49

    Omori characters are really great for psychological videos! It’s just… *PERFECT*

  • @socheata643
    @socheata643 Рік тому +440

    We’ve all been “rude” these days but you’re not rude, sometimes it happens with our emotions, and sometimes things, we can’t let all get to us, remember we can change especially all of them including us. 🇺🇸🙏🇰🇭💙💗🦔

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +37

      Thanks for sharing! :)

    • @voidpirates8109
      @voidpirates8109 Рік тому +9

      We can change them with our kindness or helping them.

    • @socheata643
      @socheata643 Рік тому +3

      @@Psych2go Anytime!

    • @socheata643
      @socheata643 Рік тому +3

      @@voidpirates8109 Yeah!

    • @socheata643
      @socheata643 Рік тому +2

      @@voidpirates8109 Just… not on a “hard” way.

  • @slam.p
    @slam.p Рік тому +77

    I love the omori characters, they fit so well :)

  • @curtistinemiller4646
    @curtistinemiller4646 Рік тому +44

    When people are rude to you,they reveal who they are ,not who you are ,Don't take it personal.....🌟

  • @annosa3343
    @annosa3343 Рік тому +154

    I’m very proud of Nancy for being calm and polite when coming with solutions to her problems😉

    • @Hypersteel-4340
      @Hypersteel-4340 Рік тому +1

      I am also a kind and merciful person I think. I want to treat nancy good as my beloved little sister and protect her from evil jerks. And then ship her to somebody who can give her the love and respect that she deserved.

    • @Dinoslay
      @Dinoslay Рік тому +1

      Definitely respectable. 👍

  • @non-existent4717
    @non-existent4717 Рік тому +319

    Someone being rude because they snapped deserve empathy.
    Someone who repeatedly does so and acts obviously(edit: oblivious not obviously)to it, denying it when spoken about and generally being disrespectful? - You *do not* ignore them. Stand up and give them a piece of your mind *for real.*
    People don't change till lack of change has cost them enough. A person with a shitty personality needs that to be told and if they keep not caring then they need to learn a lesson. But do always trust yourself on it. Stick to morals too. Ask for the other side of the story. Even when it's hard to sometimes.
    Just trust yourself on the judgement.
    It's not most people's fault anyway that they grew up to be rude. But still

    • @AllToastersToastToast
      @AllToastersToastToast Рік тому +9

      I feel like Omori can teach us this too.
      I’ll try to keep vague to limit spoilers, but I’ll still give a warning. But basically, what you said, but with the
      The rude person in the story of Omori is part of an old friend group. She consistently bullies another friend, to the shock of the rest of the old group.
      But her friends stick with her. In part because they gotta stand up to what’s been happening, and in part because friends care about each other. It soon comes to a point where the rude friend tells her story because she finally feels like she has a safe place to vent her emotions. And she comes to feel understood. She’s finally willing to move forward as her story is heard and she comes to understand everyone else’s side of the story too.
      It’s not an easy process. Honestly, the main reason this story goes across three days is because of the specific situation. She’s greeted by her friends, shown that they care for her, and she feels welcome to open up. But not everyone’s like that. Some people take way longer, and much more support from others, and that’s okay. They should do things at their own pace, even things like becoming a better person.

    • @Anonymous-hx3pu
      @Anonymous-hx3pu Рік тому +3

      I am usually patient with rude people, but if you push me too far then I'll put you face down in the dirt faster than you can call for my manager.

    • @Missmagazinebura
      @Missmagazinebura Рік тому

      How about calling them a sociopath ?

    • @Missmagazinebura
      @Missmagazinebura Рік тому +2

      @@Anonymous-hx3pu haha funny anonymous

    • @heatherfulmore3412
      @heatherfulmore3412 Рік тому +4

      Yes address the behavior and realize that you may be dealing with a spoiled brat who gets away with rude behavior all of the time. Some people are grown up but it doesn't always mean that they are mentally matured enough to be respectful to others.

  • @mbcommandnerd
    @mbcommandnerd Рік тому +60

    Oh my goodness, you actually listened!!! Thank you so much, Psych2Go! The more OMORI, the better!

    • @rasmusleddyr
      @rasmusleddyr Рік тому

      Hi there! Your channel looked interesting, so I went onto it to check it out.
      I hope you make videos at some point like your description says!

    • @mbcommandnerd
      @mbcommandnerd Рік тому

      @@rasmusleddyr It’ll take time, but in the future, it may very well happen!

  • @davidfalcon6550
    @davidfalcon6550 Рік тому +110

    It's annoying when somebody acts rude towards me, even tho I didn't do anything to them, but I usually try thinking that they may be having a bad day, so I don't act rude back and try to forget about it. But sometimes you have to defend yourself when the other person is straight acting disrespectful

    • @Dinoslay
      @Dinoslay Рік тому +8

      Sometimes all that you ”did” was to exist at the wrong place at the wrong time. That way you are simply a convenience to someone else who may have gotten used to haphazardly propping themselves up at the expense of other people. Saying goes, ”some people try to be tall by cutting off the heads of others”. Sometimes it is inevitable so take it for what it is, a jackass looking for trouble. Whoever disrespects clearly drawn boundaries doesn’t deserve your respect either. Tell them to mind their own business somehow and then move on with your’s.

    • @leavemealone7108
      @leavemealone7108 Рік тому

      Fr

    • @lllllllllllll31lll
      @lllllllllllll31lll Рік тому +1

      Yeah but where do you draw the line, like any rude behaviour is a form of disrespect

  • @bighouse6120
    @bighouse6120 Рік тому +66

    Avoid rude, and annoying people 😃when you can. Yep.

    • @NamimoriGamer
      @NamimoriGamer Рік тому +3

      That is hard to apply when you work on customer service and the rude people come to you randomly

    • @MONEYAINTATHANG100
      @MONEYAINTATHANG100 Рік тому

      👁

    • @Missmagazinebura
      @Missmagazinebura Рік тому

      Call them out on their rudeness especially Karen’s

  • @dragondancer5150
    @dragondancer5150 Рік тому +44

    Teacher: "Hope you learned something from this experience." Me: Yeah . . . avoid group projects at all costs. Just do the work yourself because you're going to be the one to do it all anyway. ...that was me in EVERY. SINGLE. group thing all through school. Speaking up makes no difference. The outcome is the same, except now you've got classmates that you've called out. aka new enemies.

    • @Panzerfaust-ux8xb
      @Panzerfaust-ux8xb Рік тому +5

      Well... it depends on how you speak up aswell. You can either make war with them or show them that you have the balls to not become their carpet 'respectfully'. Manipulative people obviously don't like it when they're called out. If they don't understand the difference and keep that attitude, it's they that are gonna suffer in the future. It eventually blows up their relationships. It doesn't matter what you do you will always have 'enemies' anyways. However, keeping integrity is important. If people think you have something more or better, they will get unavoidably jelous and become your adversary, even better marks for example, in a school's case. However, it's not always necessary to do it if the potential cost of speaking up creates too much unnecessairy bullsht and drama that is not worth eating for just a brief ego boost. It's not always so simple to realise what it really means to be assertive. Depends on the situation.

    • @Missmagazinebura
      @Missmagazinebura Рік тому

      I’m an introvert

  • @Sunny-xu9sc
    @Sunny-xu9sc Рік тому +8

    I LOVE OMORI AND THIS IS GREAT especially 0:09 great bully for example Aubrey hates Basil.

  • @not_akari
    @not_akari Рік тому +35

    Coincidental that I just got back into the omori fandom👀
    The art style is adorable, and as a sensitive person, this video really helped!! :D

  • @Bwubdle198
    @Bwubdle198 Рік тому +84

    Nancy sounds like a very nice person to be around :)

  • @poohbeardrawz8043
    @poohbeardrawz8043 Рік тому +31

    I love the story outline of this episode I loved it very much! It was really cool to hear the information through a story and I think it was really helpful.

  • @STABBRClan
    @STABBRClan Рік тому +11

    The Omori style is so cute XD love this format too!

  • @The_LuckyFox
    @The_LuckyFox Рік тому +18

    I love the style of the Video you did, using story telling for tips for dealing with rude people. Always love these type of videos, even your whole channel make the world seem a bit more kind, and hopeful.

  • @aliyahpulido953
    @aliyahpulido953 Рік тому +138

    Almost the exact situation happened once to me for a psych college class that I took when I was 16 (I did dual enrollment with a community college while I was a junior and senior in high school). I was assigned a group project for 3 people, including myself. I never got to meet one of my teammates since she stopped coming to class near the beginning of the semester. My other teammate couldn't or wouldn't do research even when I gave him a short list of topics to look up, with reputable websites to use AND instructions the professor gave us on how to cite things. When he turned his "research" over to me so we could edit it together, I checked it with a plagiarism checker and it was ALL copy-pasted from websites that weren't scientifically creditable (*cough* Wikipedia) 😒. None of them were on my list. And he didn't answer any of our research questions. So I did the research for 3 people instead of just my own. This was almost 2 weeks into the project that we were given just under 3 weeks to do, and I had 3 other classes to do other projects and homework for.
    I updated my professor along the way that I was contacting my teammates regularly but one never responded at all, and the other one rarely did, and even when he did, he wasn't pulling his weight. The professor empathized, but unfortunately I had to finish it because it was our final project and my grade weighed heavily on it. I finished all the research, the report, the slides, and the cue cards myself.
    On the day of our presentation during the class break, my teammate "went to the bathroom" and didn't come back when it was our turn. I went up by myself, sleep deprived and frustrated almost to tears, and asked if someone would kindly click the slides for me while I presented, because my team wasn't there. (I felt NO guilt whatsoever when I only put my name on the slideshow and not my "teammates' " names.) At the end of class, I told the professor what happened, and she said I would get the credit my teammates would've received had they done their work. I'm proud to say I got a B on the project because I busted my butt and ruined my sleep schedule to complete it alone, especially because I was a few years younger than the classmates I was supposed to share the workload with, plus this was one of the first college classes I ever took.
    I've never repeated the experience since then and I've had MUCH better teammates for group projects now. I don't usually like to lead big things like these, but I don't mind being the leader when everyone actually pulls their weight and we communicate well. It's just a nice bonus that I'm taking classes I love now because I changed majors to something I find more engaging, and my classmates now are just as passionate about our course material as I am. I no longer have to beg people to do their research properly, I just have to help teammates who are in their fifties or forties (they went back to school later in life) how to do research more efficiently because computers have evolved since they were last in school. But they pick it up pretty well and are very kind and helpful in exchange for my patience, and are quite good at finding information I don't think of when we work together. We've done A+ work!

    • @sarvaepcmgaming
      @sarvaepcmgaming Рік тому +5

      SO ANNOYING WHEN THESE RANDOM PEOPLE NEVER DUD THEIR WORK DURING 5TH GRADE AN I HADTA DO IT ALL BY MYSELF
      AT LEAST I GOT CREDIT??

    • @gnarthdarkanen7464
      @gnarthdarkanen7464 Рік тому +11

      Once had a group project fall apart... AND the last straw was when we'd arranged a meet up in the library (where conference rooms could be used for private work) and nobody showed up... at all... except me...
      SO I approached the instructor (weird academic tangent from High School) and we discussed the matter, so I got a self project for my credit... and quietly abandoned the group...
      Come time for the in class "Group Presentations" I stepped up and unequivocally explained there was no project because I apparently had no group... Thanked the class... and assured everyone in the room that as per my agreement with the Instructor, MY personal project would be ready on time for Friday (two days later)... and apologized for any inconvenience...
      The rest of the Group was shocked... AND when they started begging for personal projects, they were refused... Zero's for all of them... I'll never forget that Instructor's words. "When I assign a group project, it's for a complete group effort. I will not let groups abandon each other and get credit. This young man, Gnarth came to me and explained that he could probably get the whole thing done, but not on time, since you'd already wasted a week before shutting him out completely... SO he deserved a respectable shot. You do not." He shrugged apathetically, and let them watch his "dreaded red pen" come out to mark zero's next to each of their names, and draw and arrow next to mine...
      There weren't many teachers or professors quite like that guy. He'd been an engineer, and had handled many very large projects in the industry, so he knew well the frustrations and wouldn't take crap... BUT if you were honest and gave effort, he'd move mountains to give you a "respectable shot"...
      For my respectable shot, I earned a respectable grade... AND I'm confident my Group got a solid lesson about group projects. ;o)

    • @Poopy_and_Rainbow_Plays
      @Poopy_and_Rainbow_Plays Рік тому +1

      My groupmate also went to the bathroom when it was our turn😂😂

    • @peppermintspice5873
      @peppermintspice5873 Рік тому +1

      Similar things happened to me, and it’s why I hate group activities.

    • @Missmagazinebura
      @Missmagazinebura Рік тому

      Psychology class is the worst

  • @riskyfrisk2282
    @riskyfrisk2282 Рік тому +11

    This video is imo the best one on this channel right now. The meritorical part is done awesomely well, the story format is really cool, not to mention the references (Omori easter eggs in this channel are always a nice touch considering the game's topic, the Among Us plushie might be just a little detail but it surely brings a smile, the game's just so nostalgic, me and my people have awesome memories from it), and the fact that the 4:23 face is honestly an S tier meme template material.

  • @shrimplyaster
    @shrimplyaster Рік тому +4

    aubrey is my favorite character from omori thank you for referencing her🙏

  • @Nier2J
    @Nier2J Рік тому +5

    Saw Omori style, precisely Aubrey, immediately clicked.
    Thanks for your work AND your creativity, Psych2go 👏

  • @mingi111.
    @mingi111. Рік тому +14

    i was literally so mad a couple minutes ago but i saw this and this calmed me down so much😭😭 exactly what i needed rn✨ thankss💞💞

  • @holywater9569
    @holywater9569 Рік тому +4

    And this is why I subbed to your channel, you’re work to make me feel calm and to think of the world differently is amazing! You’re channel has made me look at the world like no one else has, thank you

  • @scarletshield009
    @scarletshield009 Рік тому +42

    There is a difference between rudeness and hostility. This video may not represent reality but these are good tips anyway

  • @HackGameX294
    @HackGameX294 Рік тому +3

    The OMORI style really brightens up the video topic 💜💜

  • @kandgray
    @kandgray Рік тому +13

    YESSS TYSM FOR MORE OMORI CONTENT!!! 💜💜💜

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +3

      For sure! Shall we add more in the future? :D

  • @kaddourimen5599
    @kaddourimen5599 Рік тому +2

    Wow I love the narrative style and the animation is so smooth and very helpful tips thank you so much

  • @LunesLunacy
    @LunesLunacy Рік тому +6

    This is really helpful with a lot of rude people experiences in my life. It hurts and it's hard to forget the emotional pain they do.

  • @emmanuelsalako7370
    @emmanuelsalako7370 Рік тому +36

    Psych2Go rocks, and delivers effortlessly using a very pleasant voice and passing information effortlessly making psychology fun, interesting, engaging and keeps us coming back for so much more.
    Your topics are all well researched and compressed into a few minutes which is loaded, accurate and consistent.
    Thank you for teaching us how to behave when someone has been rude to us... You are the best teaching / learning channel on UA-cam.

  • @GNParty
    @GNParty Рік тому +61

    I found your self help vids recently. Thank you SO MUCH for all the free help! 👍🏻

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +9

      You're VERY welcome. We want to help as many people in all types of topics. If you ever have topic suggestions, feel free to share in the comments. We will always be looking out for them :) Thank you for your support by watching our videos!

  • @changedmyusernameagain7654
    @changedmyusernameagain7654 Рік тому +3

    I love these episodes. I have a hard time standing up for myself and when I do, it's often rudely so this was really helpful

  • @Felix2111
    @Felix2111 Рік тому +3

    Wow these are such good tips! My favourite one was when Nancy told the teacher what was needed, not more about the fun Amber and the boy had. I love how you showed us more ways and tha contexts on how and when to use them.

  • @Snarzzy
    @Snarzzy Рік тому +4

    Omg I loved watching this channel and I come back to see you guys mention my favorite game. Love you for creating great and wonderful content! 🥰

  • @its_val8
    @its_val8 Рік тому +4

    You guys always put your effort to make these videos for us. Thank you so much 😊

  • @Sandiewich
    @Sandiewich Рік тому +3

    I love watching your videos while listening to the sound of rain. It's really comforting!
    also my health class teacher played one of your videos at school. And whenever the game references show up, my classmates are all like screaming the character's names lol

  • @yan_arts4619
    @yan_arts4619 Рік тому +5

    Thank you for this video✨ I actually needed this because I don't know how to handle this kind of stuff. I also experienced this...I went to a university to enroll myself but when I ask questions politely, the old woman starts to embarrassed me in front of many students. Sadly, it happens to me twice🙂 and now I learned that I must not take it personally ✨

  • @iidgm
    @iidgm Рік тому +9

    im a simple person.
    i see aubrey, i click.

    • @iidgm
      @iidgm Рік тому

      update: im disappointed she just appeared once as a background character.

  • @aquilao7
    @aquilao7 Рік тому

    This is very helpful, thankyou. I really needed this ! Sometimes whenever I encounter times were rudeness sparks, I don’t know what to do so I just stay silent. But this time, I’ll take these advices to heart and mind, thankyou !

  • @Mohammed49201
    @Mohammed49201 Рік тому +2

    This channel absolutely changed my life to the better than whenever ❤️
    Thank you so much for the useful videos keep going 👍

  • @fiercenfluffy870
    @fiercenfluffy870 Рік тому +11

    I have always been such a pushover. I'm working on speaking up for myself, but as a people pleaser and an empath, I want to make everyone happy and I can't stand conflict. I'm always worried about being one of these rude people, so I let people walk all over me.

    • @Dinoslay
      @Dinoslay Рік тому

      I know your pain, the assimilative nature of rudeness truly is it’s most messed up aspect which is made worse when entire social groups or fandoms participate in conforming to it, thus, reward it. It ropes in those who, instead of sharing rudeness, would rather be kind. My lesson to learn was that nice boys always finish last. It can stain your conscience which gaslighting scum prey upon. ”You enjoy hijinks like us or you’re weak.” How about no lol.
      The problem is that by being in the group at all you often don’t know how to avoid contributing to the dynamic so, to compensate, you either take the peer pressure in relative silence or walk away from those who collectively feed the trend. Harsh, I know. Been there, done that. COUGHbroniesCOUGH But you know what? You can endure or walk away knowing the whole time that none of the shit talk, the drama, popularity contests and flexing coming from them ever has to define your individual vitality level. It doesn’t. When it’s high you don’t owe that to them so don’t let them waste it. Don’t waste blind respect on them either, that’s exactly how they get you. Rigged games lack integrity. Let rude people be rude people by themselves. Rewarding what a-holes do is completely irrelevant to individual life. Nuff said.

    • @chilathecreativefox9098
      @chilathecreativefox9098 Рік тому +1

      If you let people walk all over you, then you're basically a coward.

  • @user61696
    @user61696 10 місяців тому +3

    Group assigments are a deeply rooted problem when stuck with the wrong partners.
    I think that the best solution is to let the professor know in advance, while so notifying that she'll work on the presentation alone despite not getting cooperation from her partners.
    In the case that was presented in the clip, the former information was revealed only *after* the assigment was due and was *praised* - What if it didn't get much praise? It would seem like an excuse and blaming the others while cover your own back...

  • @livingmy2.0
    @livingmy2.0 Рік тому +2

    These are great tips, and I can also say the best thing that worked for me for not being negatively affected by others is to work on your own emotional resilience - learn how to process your stress and anxiety and work on your mindset. When you do this, others acting negatively towards you won't affect you as much ☺️

  • @Ol_Ds
    @Ol_Ds Рік тому

    That is an amazing format :3

  • @lirissayo3427
    @lirissayo3427 Рік тому +3

    Sure those are good tips, both enduring rude behaviours by shielding you and your lived ones with empathy and calmness, and taking actions against them, like reporting these rude behaviours at school or at work to your superiors, and elsewhere to the appropriate persons nya.
    And you're being bullied, stand up for yourself nya ! Make a call to the appropriate persons, build a resistance group, wear your armor, but don't let them win their own petty war against you.
    You're worthy and you deserve kindness and empathetic behaviours nya🌿

  • @hellgazer8370
    @hellgazer8370 Рік тому +3

    came here for omori, stayed for the actually useful tips. love these videos, they're always helpful!

  • @HenryE1983
    @HenryE1983 Рік тому

    Aww thanks for making this omori stuff really helps me cope with stuff so thank you!

  • @SarahHQ8
    @SarahHQ8 Рік тому

    thank you so much I needed this! ❤️

  • @Tori_T_Artist
    @Tori_T_Artist Рік тому +5

    thank you! 😮‍💨 I struggle not to overreact because I find it extremely personally offensive, but I know I've had my moments too, intentional or not. Not overreacting helps me stay a kind, not-rude person and avoids more hurt feelings and contention :)

  • @dominic.h.3363
    @dominic.h.3363 Рік тому +6

    I'm glad you didn't advise to always be a footstool. There's letting things slide, and then there's letting people demean you as a person. The latter is never acceptable and should ALWAYS be met with due opposition!

  • @from_grace
    @from_grace Рік тому +1

    hi thanks for this wonderful video. i have quite of a short temper so this kind of helped me on how to control my emotions rather than the other way around. after the video, i tried taking deep breaths while counting from 1 to 10. it felt so calming that i suddenly let out a few tears. anyway, hopefully in the future i could be a more patient and calm person. thank u again, psych2go :>

  • @JeizheART
    @JeizheART Рік тому

    This video style and the story like aspect of it
    This was really helpful and interesting 💗 Nancy seems really patient, dedicated and courageous ,glad she spoke up for herself😊

  • @sabrinapires5317
    @sabrinapires5317 Рік тому +9

    My social anxiety makes me be extremely nice to literally everyone but it really bothers me how some people don’t have the same attitude towards me. It makes me feel completely isolated. It came to a point where i would force myself to be mean just to fit in with them. Anyone else feel this?

  • @dustyk103
    @dustyk103 Рік тому +1

    This is very good for children dealing with rude people and people who disrespects them. But they need to be taught there’s a difference between dealing with someone who’s just being rude and dealing with a bully. It only gets worse as you get older.

  • @XDMeowmeowX3
    @XDMeowmeowX3 Рік тому

    On a more serious note, this video was really informative and interesting and I love the art style!! Amazing as always!

  • @WatchMeShanaenae
    @WatchMeShanaenae Рік тому +30

    I had a manager who made discriminatory and racist comments about me every day that I worked with her. I ignored it for months until I couldn’t stand it to the point where I would just cry. I spoke to upper manager about it and was told they would take care of it. Then she was going around work saying that I was calling her a racist and that she was the victim. I’m unsure what was said to upper management since I was then made to feel like it was my problem.
    You think you’re doing the right thing by saying something (considering I’m not the one person she had done it too) but instead you get looked at like you’re the problem because everyone else keeps silent about what goes on

  • @typicalghost6930
    @typicalghost6930 Рік тому +17

    OMORI? I OMOR 💀 CLOSE YOUR EYES YOULL BE HERE SOON?
    All jokes aside. OMORI is one of the greatest games of all time and changed my life

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +3

      Woot woot!! Hope this video helps you and share your friends who plays OMORI :P

  • @xDream_Aura
    @xDream_Aura Рік тому

    Woah, these videos are so amazing! I love it 💕💖💝

  • @Craftyvibes12456
    @Craftyvibes12456 Рік тому

    Really needed this.❤️❤️

  • @amandalidey329
    @amandalidey329 Рік тому +21

    I definitely ingore the toxicity around me. Don't reply back with anger & drama anymore. Doesn't bother me anymore. Don't have time for it & don't need it in my life. I've been thru enough drama to now just walk away & continue with my day. Some people are so toxic & I have removed myself from it all. Family members especially.

  • @Abc-rt9qm
    @Abc-rt9qm Рік тому +4

    We learned all about this in elementary school. They taught us the difference between passive, assertive, and aggressive behavior. Well, let’s just say it’s gotten harder since I started middle school, but your video has reminded me how to stand up for yourself and not let others’ rudeness affect you. Thank you for your insightful videos, and I hop e whoever reads this has a great day!

    • @shokojimhollingsworth3940
      @shokojimhollingsworth3940 Рік тому

      Pretty sure they just teach aggressive now.

    • @Lyreoz
      @Lyreoz Рік тому +1

      I already commented this on the video, but I thought it was worth copy and pasting as a reply. Honestly, I'd rather just be passive aggressive or rude back. You can grand stand all you like, but at the end of the day you are not obligated to be the "bigger person." Here's how I would respond:
      Rude Customer: "And what makes you think I brought my phone?"
      Me: "I just assumed you were a fully functional member of society who brings their phone with them like everybody else, but I guess not."
      Will: "Thanks to my dearest Amber for working very hard on the presentation. Without her, these slides would be super dull."
      Me: "What are you talking about? You literally did none of the work. Would you like me to project our entire group chat onto the smart board and read the messages out loud, or would you like to shut up and take the free A?"

  • @emilianofacciaroni956
    @emilianofacciaroni956 Рік тому

    Beautiful video. Thank you 🥰😊

  • @joyjoooy
    @joyjoooy Рік тому

    I really like this thank you. I've been struggling a lot with these.

  • @robertgaines-tulsa
    @robertgaines-tulsa Рік тому +53

    You make it look easy to avoid emotional distress when encountering rude people. To be blunt, your cases were fairly mild. I've experienced stuff that will turn you pale. Karens are like society's abuse machines that feed off of your emotional distress. Sometimes, you can't really run. Society is more cruel than nice. I've always had issues with emotional security in life. I ended up abandoning my dreams for Disability. Might as well call it Social Shell Shock, but what I have is an actual mental disorder.

    • @danielyuan9862
      @danielyuan9862 Рік тому +3

      There is a different between someone who _happens_ to be rude, and someone who forgets that they were supposed to be nice.

    • @Riya-pf3oc
      @Riya-pf3oc Рік тому +1

      You know what, you are exactly my mirror. Can we be friends, if you want. I really needs you and may be you also need someone at this time.

  • @Poppin023
    @Poppin023 Рік тому +41

    "When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help." - Thich Nhat Hanh

    • @AlexSpy3DS
      @AlexSpy3DS Рік тому +1

      My thoughts exactly🙏🙏🙏

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee Рік тому +1

      This is so truee

    • @momkidnapper9697
      @momkidnapper9697 Рік тому

      How many infants here
      Ye, just cope
      Let rude ppl suffer within
      Mkay

  • @AriManPad8gi
    @AriManPad8gi Рік тому

    the last one i've been learning. other two i've been a long time. thank you

  • @DeRez19
    @DeRez19 Рік тому +1

    This is incredibly helpful, actually. I feel like I missed out on a lot of positive relationships and even potential romances because I didn't speak up for myself and looked weak. Even after I learned from those mistakes, I learned even more from this video. Thank you!

  • @zayden.o.
    @zayden.o. Рік тому +5

    Being rude and screaming back untill they leave gives them a taste of their own medicine.

  • @erynairfan6294
    @erynairfan6294 Рік тому +7

    the animations are cute and most importatntly relaxing. Pastel colours signal my brain to relax

  • @domgo349
    @domgo349 Рік тому

    This is adorable 😅
    I love your videos!!!💝

  • @MrApleJuic
    @MrApleJuic Рік тому +1

    tysm for the tips! you guys are the best

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +1

      You're VERY welcome. We want to help as many people in all types of topics. If you ever have topic suggestions, feel free to share in the comments. We will always be looking out for them :) Thank you for your support by watching our videos!

  • @melon_breadmay
    @melon_breadmay 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks you so much for this

  • @albertovalencia6646
    @albertovalencia6646 Рік тому +9

    Always coming to the rescue, thank you so much love this channel so much ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +3

      You are so kind! Thank you so much for your support. I hope this video helps you

    • @albertovalencia6646
      @albertovalencia6646 Рік тому +2

      @@Psych2go awww ofc!! And yes it helps me a lot!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

  • @laurenbillings4955
    @laurenbillings4955 Рік тому

    I really appreciate this video. I had a bad day yesterday and it really gave me insight into how to handle someone who has wronged me.

  • @soullux2089
    @soullux2089 Рік тому

    the art in this vid was adorable and engaging to watch 💖💖

  • @koymk
    @koymk Рік тому +12

    despite how aubrey treats people, i think its kind of bad to call her rude

  • @GamerBoy.1761
    @GamerBoy.1761 Рік тому +11

    Man, this is a nice video to lookout for rude ppl in my high school.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +2

      Hope this helps! Let us know if you have any other tips too! You might be able to help others out!

    • @rubin-healmysocialanxiety702
      @rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 Рік тому +1

      very important to stay safe 🙏

    • @GamerBoy.1761
      @GamerBoy.1761 Рік тому

      @@Psych2go thx Psych2go! And I might will one day.

    • @wholesomeedits
      @wholesomeedits Рік тому +1

      Schools Abt to start for me so this video is good

    • @GamerBoy.1761
      @GamerBoy.1761 Рік тому

      @@wholesomeedits definitely even though school is started for your boy.

  • @amygradybsw
    @amygradybsw Рік тому

    This is EPIC!!!! Keep it up!!!

  • @evethemoonandtheearth8082
    @evethemoonandtheearth8082 Рік тому

    Cool inspiring story~! Great advice and video~! Thank you for sharing Nancy~!

  • @TakeBackYourMind997
    @TakeBackYourMind997 Рік тому +4

    Always try to be responsive, not reactive. Holding anger and resentment towards someone only ever hurts you. Obviously setting boundaries is still very important.

  • @rubin-healmysocialanxiety702
    @rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 Рік тому +7

    “If you are irritated by every rub, how will your mirror be polished?”
    -Rumi

    • @non-existent4717
      @non-existent4717 Рік тому +1

      I don't get it

    • @rubin-healmysocialanxiety702
      @rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 Рік тому

      @@non-existent4717 sort of like, the reason you are getting triggered is something you experienced in the past and need to heal from so you can be whole again 🙂

    • @non-existent4717
      @non-existent4717 Рік тому

      @@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 i still don't get it.. 💀

  • @fpaltenhoff86
    @fpaltenhoff86 Рік тому

    Great references to an outstanding game! ♥️

  • @shaheemgirling3972
    @shaheemgirling3972 Рік тому

    Love the story telling to help explain how to deal with the issue.

  • @Pratt11
    @Pratt11 Рік тому +3

    I used to think this “being polite" is unrealistic af, but I do see it working around me now-a-days

  • @okraleon_262
    @okraleon_262 Рік тому +7

    this channel is trying to tell me something.
    *first it was how to tell if someone likes you over text and now it's how to deal with rude people.*

  • @KyleUltima9189
    @KyleUltima9189 Рік тому

    I always come across people like this, especially in my class, thank you 🙏

  • @sajiaafreen7507
    @sajiaafreen7507 Рік тому

    loved this one!..

  • @chomusuke3636
    @chomusuke3636 Рік тому +6

    I really aprecciate the positive direction of the video but as a half-empty type of person I have to say it, some people are just a lost case.

  • @drinasun6984
    @drinasun6984 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks for the helpful tips!

  • @mhamadarhamarham6869
    @mhamadarhamarham6869 Рік тому +2

    Ah...🥰the Omori style is fantastic.. learned and enjoyed well

  • @TH3_D3V1L_MUST_SUFF3R
    @TH3_D3V1L_MUST_SUFF3R Рік тому

    OMLLL UR ALMOST AT 10 MILLION SUBSSSS CONGRATZZZ