1. They try to spend time with you (and do) but often disappear 0:33 2. When they first met you, they were really nervous 1:21 3. They don't often bring up their needs and they're more passive 2:14 4. They're often a people-pleaser 2:55 5. They do silly things to try to impress you 3:54 6. They go above & beyond when doing kind things for you, but don't like to open up emotionally 4:35 You're welcome
Yup, I can be that person who's afraid of being rejected. Just being around and with people overall makes me so anxious because I have terrible social anxiety, that it turns into fear that I may get rejected. And I do get rejected because of my anxiety and fear of getting rejected 😂
@🏳️🌈Lone Wolf I have ADD, and while not diagnosed, I believe that I have autism as well because I fit many symptoms related to autism. I'm unsure about RSD though. A lot of symptoms I have can relate to other possible causes (feelings of hopelessness, low self-esteem, etc). And my fear of rejection mainly relates to friendships. It doesn't bother me as much if I get rejected when it comes to romance. Also, I don't have outbursts either when/if I face rejection. I say the biggest issue is that when a friend of mine doesn't contact me, or has stopped talking to me, they don't want to be my friend; therefore I assume rejection. Maybe it's all in my head. Do I assume people don't like me? Yes. Am I a people-pleaser? Yes. But I believe that's the result of emotional trauma, not RSD. Still, I'm unsure.
The fear of rejection is probably my biggest fear for years already, as someone who is introverted and also has the fear of being judged, i know that I'm a people-pleaser, i am not myself when I'm with my friends, I'm completely different. I fell comfortable writing here because they probably won't see, all of my friends are cool and stuff, and i think that, if i do something wrong, they will hate me forever. So your videos really help y'know, seeing that I'm not the only one like this. i just need to find the right persons.
Retired crackhead, I totally feel you. I wonder how many people are posting things of a personal nature here, trusting that the last people they want seeing it will come around here! Let's just say I can relate!
Being people pleaser is not good. U might end up being abused. U need to find ur self. And if it is true that u are introvert? U get energy when u are alone and easily get tired of being with other people if u spend more time with them. There is nothing wrong letting others know who u really are.. and letting them know what u like and what u dont like. It is better to do things for others if u really mean it. And not just because u want to please them because of fear of rejection.. that is stressful.. my personality is both. I am extrovert.. but i often get tired of always going out.. i always also want to be alone or have quite time for my self if i felt like im tired with other people around me... I am kind.. generous -if i have money, i speak out my mind with caution and being sensitive. I am tactless but people knows that cuz im also telling it to them.. i have mixed personality and i can kill i if u mess up with me... But nobody had ever rejected me being like that.. some may tell me that i am rude if i tell them i can't lend them money because they did not paid their last debt on me.. but i dont care.. im just being honest.. they should be the one to be ashamed and not me.. Sometimes my relative would ask for a beer and cigarette for free from me.. when im coming from abroaf for vacation. I will never buy it to them.. instead i buy them food.. they know i hate those stuff. And i tell them its a waste of money and i dont buy those things.. they will just blabber and i will just smirk like telling them take it or leave it? Ofcourse. Next time.. they did not asked for it again.. but they still love me afterall and they are aware of my likes and dislikes. U just have to know urself. What are ur likes.. people should know them. What are ur dislikes.. let them know. U already adjusted for other people so many times.. it is time to let them adjust to u.. U dont need friends as many as the sand in the see. Even a moon is enough as long as they are true to u and will never let u feel uncomfortable.. I believe i have strange behavior. People have disliked me a lot of times but still i was loved by many.. i might have charms as what other people tell but having a charm doesnt mean i havent felt any rejections in my entire life.. being the only girl and not given priority by my parents already was a rejection for me.. but i did not end up pleasing them.. i just have been my self. I improve my self and tried to succeed on my own.. now they are the one needing me when they dont have money to pay their bills. Funny right? I have been loved by my boyfriend for 10 years. And husband for 5 years. I have been loved by the same guy for a 1 and 1/2 decade.. but i was not really the perfect girl. I have lots of imperfections and if u will compare me to a dog. My temperament is like a german shepered..😁. My messsge is so long but i hope u will get something. My advice is simple.. stop pleasing others. Start loving and pleasing urself. Being honest to urself and others will pay off someday.
Thank you for all the comments. UA-cam was probably the most random place to feel comfortable with someone you don't even know. It feels good to see that some people really care about others even though they've never seen each other. Thank you everyone :) I'm feeling much better now.
How do you deal with someone being rude to you? Have you ever confronted anyone? Asking because when I do I have a mini panic attack when I try to show up for myself
1-They try to spend time with you yet often dissapear 2-They were nervous the first time they met you 3-They don't often bring up their needs 4-They're often a people pleaser, especially with you 5-They do silly things to impress you 6-They don't open up emotionally
1. They try to spend time with you (and do) but often disappear. 2. When they first met you, they were really nervous. 3. They don’t often bring up their needs and they’re more passive. 4. They’re often a people pleaser. 5. They do silly things to try and impress you. 6. They go above and beyond when doing kind things for you, but don’t like to open up emotionally.
The last person I ever loved was someone I was terrified of being rejected by, and that fear and anxiety caused me to have a very hard time trying to get out of doing a lot of these things. When she ended up rejecting me in the most brutal fashion, I decided I would never put myself in a position where I'd ever let someone hurt me that way again. Over a decade later, I haven't let anyone get anywhere near that close to me and I likely never will.
That was a self-fulfilling prophecy. What you focus on, comes true. So you focused so much on your fear, that your behavior subtly showed up in ways that make your fears come true. The solution is to face the fear. The fear you run from gets bigger, but the fear you look at disappears. I know it's not easy, but picture yourself getting rejected. Sure it doesn't feel good at first, but you'll always recover and you'll always be able to try again with someone else, and you'll be proud of yourself for trying.
I know the feeling its a double edged sword... in order to let someone else get close we have to get close to ourself first... if we dont love ourself we cannot love another nor be loved by another.... the moment we genuinely are happy alone is the only moment we genuinely can be with another....
This fear of rejection almost killed my relationship. I had a huge crush on a very dear friend of mine (we had a friends with benefits type of relationship back then) but I was too scared to confess to him. As the time went by, my crush turned into love and my fears became even more painful as I thought he might never be able to love someone like me. It took us around a year to finally confess to each other, after a we talked to Barkeeper about relationship struggles and bottled up feelings. (he made the first step as I was too scared to do it myself) I wasted so much time and mental stability on something I shouldn't have been scared of in the first place. What I want to say is that rejection might be painful but the pain of missed opportunities is way worse than that.
Good video. Can you make a video about how low self esteem affects relationships? And can you also do hidden/unexpected/unnoticed signs of self esteem issues? There’s many different ways low self esteem can manifest.
@Drew Baillie: Your voice and way of speaking are such a pleasure to my ears and so calming & warming to my soul. Keep it up💓. Wishing you all the best, girl
The sad truth of the matter is that I’m a people pleaser, so much to where it is a fault. I always tell people what they want to hear instead of what they need to hear, the only exception being my girlfriend, she’s the only person I’m 100% straightforward with. I also overthink a lot that leads me to think that anything I say or do will be a bad thing one way or another, just a product of the environment I grew up in. My girlfriend always comes to me whenever she has issues and needs advice or just emotional support but for me it’s the opposite, everytime I try to turn to her, I’m always afraid she’ll get bothered by it and cast me aside. Thankfully I’ve brought this up to her and she really doesn’t mind in fact she likes that she can help me because she loves me and what’s to help me be happy. Idk I guess I just overthink and are a people pleaser since I’m so afraid of anyone rejecting me. My gf is helping me with that, but it’s gonna take time and she thankfully says we have plenty of that and that she’s not gonna give up on me. She’s too sweet and I honestly don’t know how I landed her as a girlfriend.
@Jahred Mario you should try bringing this up to her, it may sound scary but you just gotta remember that communication is key in a relationship. If she cares for you, she will listen, if not, I’m sorry but it might be time to rethink the relationship. Your partner is supposed to be there for you even when you are struggling, if she doesn’t appreciate you at your worst, she doesn’t deserve you at your best. Just some advice I’ve learned over the years, barely been in relationships myself but that is something that I learned very early on. I wish you the best of luck!!
0:33 They try to spend time with you (and do) but often disappear 1:21 When they first met you, they were really shy/nervous 2:13 They don't often bring up their needs (they're passive with their wants and desires from you) 2:54 They're a people-pleaser (in other words they put more importance on what others want than their own needs) 3:52 They do silly things to impress you (been there 😂) 4:29 They go above and beyond when doing kind things for you, but don't like to open up emotionally
I love watching these videos, paying close attention, knowing I haven't spoken to a female outside of work in 2 years, and not a single one has ever shown a single listed sign.
i know someone like this and we have known each other for more than a decade. the way they act is literally the same since we first met; we only talk about certain topics, then they disappear, they excited to telling certain things from the certain topics but never open up, and it continues just like that. i clearly know that they attracted to me from their friends, but it seems like they never make a move, so i simply decided to convince myself that they just not that into me. we still talk to each other tho
Hiiiiiii. I hope you’ll make a video of “Signs someone wants to close and best friend with you”. “Signs that your friend values you and is afraid to lose you.” Thank you very much and hoping🥰
For me it’s the other way around. But that’s what lack of confidence does to ya: miss out out on opportunities. Believing you aren’t good enough and prepare for the inevitable response that follows.
Thanks! This helps a lot! This video taught me that I might have been very wrong in understanding someone's communication who actually liked me, yet to me seemed to just want to hang out with me as a friend. To name something: this person is usually very confident and definitely had their own opinion on things, but then seemed to just agree with me and wanted me to notice their looks much more in a public setting. I took those as signs that they cared less about what I thought of them and more about what others thought about them, I now think they might have been trying to communicate the exact opposite.
Dear Psych2Go team, Thank you. Thank you so much. I have learned so much about myself and others and am finally starting to get the help I need. Thank you for spreading awareness about mental health. With much love and appreciation, Thank you.
If u know urself. Know ur likes and dislikes.. making urself comfortable instead of others.. u will develop a strong personality. And having a strong personality means... u can stand ur ground and no one can steal it from u.🙂
@@TheMaskofLife101 Yeah! That's what I'm working on, because I used to be so scared of people not liking me, but that's a weak personality and mindset. Now I'm working on building a stronger personality and being myself, and being strong enough mentally to accept that some will not like me. 🙂 Thanks for the advice and kind words.
One of the best UA-camrs, thank you for always helping us to understand ourselves and others better, I appreciate every video and appreciate all efforts of your team, thank you very much:))
sometimes it feels like stalking because of of how accurate the order of psi's vid got recomanded to me also its not the first time the right vid showd up on top but pretty sure there will always be someone who got the perfect video for his situation at the most perfect time also thanks for all the work u put in take this tiny ammount of love -->
I've had people be shy around me and is scared of me rejecting them. So I talk to them about it and let them know that I know they like me... most of the time it makes them cry because I don't like them back but I comfort them and tell them to find someone better and by better I mean someone that's better for them... no one is better than me (just kidding) 😁 Have a great night or day😊
Agreeing a million times as the person afraid of rejection - I relate to like all the points T_T Also I really love the reference to anime - they make concepts even easier to understand!
I've not only noticed these signs in my crush but in me as well. I'm so worried I'm reading the signs wrong because I'm on the edge of confessing. I'm way too scared as he is a good friend of mine. My anxiety may never let me find out. I really wish we could date as it could bring us closer and boy, does he make me blush. The world is so unkind to us that we can't tell the difference between flirting or genuine kindness. But these videos boost my confidence and I'm ready to face him one day!!
I just saw the number of followers, and I just remembered the time when I discovered you, when they were "only" 90,000. Now, we're 100 times more people! Damn, time rushes too much..😶 Eitherway, I'm so glad for u!!😃❣️🎉✨
I have a crush but due to ur videos ik they will reject me-_-, not hating. Your videos are truly amazing and i like ur content. You helped me figure out i have depression 🤓(still no hate)
Does the narrator sound just like Millie Bobby Brown or is that just me? If it is Millie then you did amazing job and you've got a great narrator voice! Love Stranger Things, Eleven is the best character and you really deserve all the praise you receive cuz girl u slayed that 🙌 keep doing great things ❤💯
What should we do when they are afraid of rejection? Should we tell them that we have a crush on them too? Should we make a move? Or should we just wait for them?
I don't think that this video is for me, since I'm not looking for a partner and all of my friends know that, but I still like to watch those videos since they are somehow calming... but... is it only me or the voice of the... "narrator" is different? I still like it :)
It's not just you... Different person and microphone... probably still hasn't quite "dialed it in" on the recording software either... P2G has been searching and trying out new voices as well as writers and animators for a while... There are even a few videos narrated by guys. AND nothing off-putting in the slightest about her voice, btw... I like it, too. haha... I just certainly noticed a subtle difference in tone, and that's DEFINITELY not the same accent as "the usual"... ;o)
I told a guy I like him and he said that he feels the same way. I'm just waiting for a date and I'm very extroverted, so I'mma say what I want to say and I'm gonna say what's on my mind. I just kind of feel like he just kinda laughs off sometimes, but we are in the early re stages of our relationship so I don't know...🗣😅
Just so you know. I think it might be apart of it in yhe beginning. I feel that way to.. but i heard a video bout stepping out of your comfort zone just today ☺️.. i listened to it and it is good advice. So here i am taking the advice 😊.. i know it can be awkward and a bit scary at times but its s good scary and i like how it feels.. id love to keep pushing past all yhe formalities and get to know you more snd you the same for me . I love the way you think snd how you see things. I understand it cuz we are similar in more ways than one.. im still a lil nervous but i want to get past thst to. I watch all your post snd theres one i watch daily..its cuz you show inspiration to me and i love how you move and use your body language when your happy.. im atracted to all that so yhats why i watch em.. You take really good care of yourself and you use your mind to really improve your life.. you CARE.. and your sensitive like me 😊.. i enjoy helping people and i to try to make people see the good in themselves.. i guess that comes naturally to us.. if i can make someone smile in sny way i will. Thats natural for me to.. i want yo thank you and your crew for putting out thse videos..it takes time and talent to do what you all do and tons of us appreciate it so much.. you sll do so good snd it shows
I used to think that all of these were signs that I should reassure someone, but it turns out he had histrionic personality disorder and these are signs that someone is trying to fill a black hole of need which no one can fulfil. You’re not the only person they will be acting this way around…
my guy!!! this is so me. I mean I already told her that I like her, and she told me that she feels the same but Im just affeaid that she just said that so that she wouldn't hurt my feelings. this is so me, i never expected this to be very accurate.
I just recently found out that someone likes me, and most of the things rlly fit him. I've been wondering on why he was trying to be so distant from me but now i finally know the answer. I don't mind him liking and tbh, i like him too. I just can't seem to tell him abt it and well, i acted like i didn't like him too since i'm a little bit scared. I hope that he'll be more brave one day tho. He's rlly shy around me so i kinda get the point.
My intrusive thought is telling me i can't speak with my friend or a specific and my brain remind it of a sad moment where i was alone and socially awkward , that thought instantly makes me anxious and makes me even forget how to talk normally my speech is slurred , I don't feel like myself at all like I can't have a conversation I want to go home fast and don't want to encounter that person that my brain blocked me from talking with and want to meet him next day so i can talk normally ,but the same thought keep repeating everyday on loop ➰ I don't avoid speeding with the banned person but always feel more social awkward and my conversation skill drop to 0
hi psych2go! i was wondering if you could possibly do a video on how to help with this whole climate change thing and to raise awareness to people? because it's actually so so serious and worrying and it has really taken a toll on my mental health and i bet others too, just knowing i have a safe environment during these hard times would really help me and many many others,, thank you!!!!!
Yes.. i just thought maybe it was a lil much with the good mornings.. so yes i did pull back for that reason.. but now i see its not.. its ok to actually say whats on my mind. Im really into you and i guess i don't want to sound to forward so soon..
Can you please make a video on how to manage emotional stress while managing studies for students, that would be really helpful. I hope you think about it
I damn hope whoever I may fall in love with has watched this video, god knows I've failed too many people to remain confident in my capabilities, hell, even my qualities if any
I love psych 2 go and this video was really helpful but can you do a video about how to get over a friendship. (I know you’ve already done a video about getting over a crush but that didn’t help me that much.
Well.... I have a feeling that someone likes me but I don't like them the same way. If it comes up I plan on congratulating them for their courage but saying I like them as a friend and not romantically. I thankfully do not match too many of these signs.
One of my guy friends just recently told me about this, how some boys/men are not afraid of saying they like you, but are more terrified of rejection and the aftermath that comes with that, Anyone else feel this, because I haven’t personally, to young I guess not interested in this stuff yet, but am very curious
I have a classmate that stalks me on social media. I never thought my life would be so interesting that a person would be willing search for my account daily just to watch my uploads for like 7 months … without a follow 😂
Damnn, okay so there is this boy in our class. He always tryna talk with me, even tho we don't have anything to talk about like homeworks and other teas, He always says like "Oh wow, my mussles have increased. I am doing a lot of exercises these days" while looking at me. He doesn't say that to other girls, he says me. He plays romantic music in our music class when the other girls just sing the lyrics whom no one asked for. Andd, he even encouraged me to join the dance group where he was present. BUTTT...I joined the music group. I have a crush on my music sir lmfao. I mean, many girls like the boy here...and I am not tryna make enimies here girl. please tell me what to do, do you think he likes me?? ah shit, I have to confess him SOMEDAY anyway
Me before watching the video: „Interesting, maybe I‘ll learn something and could use those infos for later“ Me after watching the video: „Yo, Sanji and Pudding from One Piece were in this video, sick!“
I feel scared that nobody wants me because I'm afraid of rejection and if Freddie moves out I'll be alone forever because I'm ugly. I already know that nobody is going to want me anyway because I'm ugly and a loser and I blame my parents
1. They try to spend time with you (and do) but often disappear 0:33
2. When they first met you, they were really nervous 1:21
3. They don't often bring up their needs and they're more passive 2:14
4. They're often a people-pleaser 2:55
5. They do silly things to try to impress you 3:54
6. They go above & beyond when doing kind things for you, but don't like to open up emotionally 4:35
You're welcome
what about the other 3
@@pwikoo i wrote them too
@@pwikoo but they disappeared somehow
I'll fix it
@@ek-wz4xj thanks dawg 🤞🏾
Yup, I can be that person who's afraid of being rejected. Just being around and with people overall makes me so anxious because I have terrible social anxiety, that it turns into fear that I may get rejected. And I do get rejected because of my anxiety and fear of getting rejected 😂
Twins?!
@🏳️🌈Lone Wolf I have ADD, and while not diagnosed, I believe that I have autism as well because I fit many symptoms related to autism. I'm unsure about RSD though. A lot of symptoms I have can relate to other possible causes (feelings of hopelessness, low self-esteem, etc). And my fear of rejection mainly relates to friendships. It doesn't bother me as much if I get rejected when it comes to romance. Also, I don't have outbursts either when/if I face rejection. I say the biggest issue is that when a friend of mine doesn't contact me, or has stopped talking to me, they don't want to be my friend; therefore I assume rejection. Maybe it's all in my head. Do I assume people don't like me? Yes. Am I a people-pleaser? Yes. But I believe that's the result of emotional trauma, not RSD. Still, I'm unsure.
Same
I Can feel you bro
I feel like this vicious circle is actually quite common
The fear of rejection is probably my biggest fear for years already, as someone who is introverted and also has the fear of being judged, i know that I'm a people-pleaser, i am not myself when I'm with my friends, I'm completely different.
I fell comfortable writing here because they probably won't see, all of my friends are cool and stuff, and i think that, if i do something wrong, they will hate me forever.
So your videos really help y'know, seeing that I'm not the only one like this. i just need to find the right persons.
Retired crackhead, I totally feel you. I wonder how many people are posting things of a personal nature here, trusting that the last people they want seeing it will come around here! Let's just say I can relate!
Being people pleaser is not good. U might end up being abused. U need to find ur self. And if it is true that u are introvert? U get energy when u are alone and easily get tired of being with other people if u spend more time with them. There is nothing wrong letting others know who u really are.. and letting them know what u like and what u dont like. It is better to do things for others if u really mean it. And not just because u want to please them because of fear of rejection.. that is stressful..
my personality is both. I am extrovert.. but i often get tired of always going out.. i always also want to be alone or have quite time for my self if i felt like im tired with other people around me...
I am kind.. generous -if i have money, i speak out my mind with caution and being sensitive. I am tactless but people knows that cuz im also telling it to them.. i have mixed personality and i can kill i if u mess up with me...
But nobody had ever rejected me being like that.. some may tell me that i am rude if i tell them i can't lend them money because they did not paid their last debt on me.. but i dont care.. im just being honest.. they should be the one to be ashamed and not me..
Sometimes my relative would ask for a beer and cigarette for free from me.. when im coming from abroaf for vacation. I will never buy it to them.. instead i buy them food.. they know i hate those stuff. And i tell them its a waste of money and i dont buy those things.. they will just blabber and i will just smirk like telling them take it or leave it? Ofcourse. Next time.. they did not asked for it again.. but they still love me afterall and they are aware of my likes and dislikes.
U just have to know urself. What are ur likes.. people should know them. What are ur dislikes.. let them know. U already adjusted for other people so many times.. it is time to let them adjust to u..
U dont need friends as many as the sand in the see. Even a moon is enough as long as they are true to u and will never let u feel uncomfortable..
I believe i have strange behavior. People have disliked me a lot of times but still i was loved by many.. i might have charms as what other people tell but having a charm doesnt mean i havent felt any rejections in my entire life.. being the only girl and not given priority by my parents already was a rejection for me.. but i did not end up pleasing them.. i just have been my self. I improve my self and tried to succeed on my own.. now they are the one needing me when they dont have money to pay their bills. Funny right?
I have been loved by my boyfriend for 10 years. And husband for 5 years. I have been loved by the same guy for a 1 and 1/2 decade.. but i was not really the perfect girl. I have lots of imperfections and if u will compare me to a dog. My temperament is like a german shepered..😁.
My messsge is so long but i hope u will get something. My advice is simple.. stop pleasing others. Start loving and pleasing urself. Being honest to urself and others will pay off someday.
Bruh they *might* hate you but continue down this path and you will *surely* hate yourself
Thank you for all the comments.
UA-cam was probably the most random place to feel comfortable with someone you don't even know. It feels good to see that some people really care about others even though they've never seen each other.
Thank you everyone :) I'm feeling much better now.
How do you deal with someone being rude to you? Have you ever confronted anyone? Asking because when I do I have a mini panic attack when I try to show up for myself
1-They try to spend time with you yet often dissapear
2-They were nervous the first time they met you
3-They don't often bring up their needs
4-They're often a people pleaser, especially with you
5-They do silly things to impress you
6-They don't open up emotionally
Thank you!
@@khalilahd. you're welcome ☺️
I think fear of rejection and these signs is something we can all relate to at least once in our life 😅
You’re everywhere
After learning about narcissism the hard way, it will take a lot to be able to trust someone's kindness enough to let them in and really like them.
1. They try to spend time with you (and do) but often disappear.
2. When they first met you, they were really nervous.
3. They don’t often bring up their needs and they’re more passive.
4. They’re often a people pleaser.
5. They do silly things to try and impress you.
6. They go above and beyond when doing kind things for you, but don’t like to open up emotionally.
The last person I ever loved was someone I was terrified of being rejected by, and that fear and anxiety caused me to have a very hard time trying to get out of doing a lot of these things.
When she ended up rejecting me in the most brutal fashion, I decided I would never put myself in a position where I'd ever let someone hurt me that way again. Over a decade later, I haven't let anyone get anywhere near that close to me and I likely never will.
you don't deserve pain
@@minermole101 Apparently, I deserve it far more than I do love.
That was a self-fulfilling prophecy. What you focus on, comes true. So you focused so much on your fear, that your behavior subtly showed up in ways that make your fears come true.
The solution is to face the fear. The fear you run from gets bigger, but the fear you look at disappears.
I know it's not easy, but picture yourself getting rejected. Sure it doesn't feel good at first, but you'll always recover and you'll always be able to try again with someone else, and you'll be proud of yourself for trying.
:c
I know the feeling its a double edged sword... in order to let someone else get close we have to get close to ourself first... if we dont love ourself we cannot love another nor be loved by another.... the moment we genuinely are happy alone is the only moment we genuinely can be with another....
This fear of rejection almost killed my relationship. I had a huge crush on a very dear friend of mine (we had a friends with benefits type of relationship back then) but I was too scared to confess to him. As the time went by, my crush turned into love and my fears became even more painful as I thought he might never be able to love someone like me. It took us around a year to finally confess to each other, after a we talked to Barkeeper about relationship struggles and bottled up feelings. (he made the first step as I was too scared to do it myself) I wasted so much time and mental stability on something I shouldn't have been scared of in the first place.
What I want to say is that rejection might be painful but the pain of missed opportunities is way worse than that.
Hey, don't be too hard on yourself, hindsight is 20/20.
MVP Barkeeper! I am glad you both are able to express yourselves to one another with their help 😊👍
Good video. Can you make a video about how low self esteem affects relationships?
And can you also do hidden/unexpected/unnoticed signs of self esteem issues? There’s many different ways low self esteem can manifest.
Yes pls I second this 👍
This would definitely be interesting!
This sounds like the past me.
I’m proud of you self. You got over it.
such a precious comment, im proud of you too stranger
@Drew Baillie:
Your voice and way of speaking are such a pleasure to my ears and so calming & warming to my soul. Keep it up💓. Wishing you all the best, girl
The sad truth of the matter is that I’m a people pleaser, so much to where it is a fault. I always tell people what they want to hear instead of what they need to hear, the only exception being my girlfriend, she’s the only person I’m 100% straightforward with. I also overthink a lot that leads me to think that anything I say or do will be a bad thing one way or another, just a product of the environment I grew up in. My girlfriend always comes to me whenever she has issues and needs advice or just emotional support but for me it’s the opposite, everytime I try to turn to her, I’m always afraid she’ll get bothered by it and cast me aside. Thankfully I’ve brought this up to her and she really doesn’t mind in fact she likes that she can help me because she loves me and what’s to help me be happy. Idk I guess I just overthink and are a people pleaser since I’m so afraid of anyone rejecting me. My gf is helping me with that, but it’s gonna take time and she thankfully says we have plenty of that and that she’s not gonna give up on me. She’s too sweet and I honestly don’t know how I landed her as a girlfriend.
@Jahred Mario you should try bringing this up to her, it may sound scary but you just gotta remember that communication is key in a relationship. If she cares for you, she will listen, if not, I’m sorry but it might be time to rethink the relationship. Your partner is supposed to be there for you even when you are struggling, if she doesn’t appreciate you at your worst, she doesn’t deserve you at your best. Just some advice I’ve learned over the years, barely been in relationships myself but that is something that I learned very early on. I wish you the best of luck!!
0:33 They try to spend time with you (and do) but often disappear
1:21 When they first met you, they were really shy/nervous
2:13 They don't often bring up their needs (they're passive with their wants and desires from you)
2:54 They're a people-pleaser (in other words they put more importance on what others want than their own needs)
3:52 They do silly things to impress you (been there 😂)
4:29 They go above and beyond when doing kind things for you, but don't like to open up emotionally
I love watching these videos, paying close attention, knowing I haven't spoken to a female outside of work in 2 years, and not a single one has ever shown a single listed sign.
i know someone like this and we have known each other for more than a decade. the way they act is literally the same since we first met;
we only talk about certain topics, then they disappear,
they excited to telling certain things from the certain topics but never open up,
and it continues just like that.
i clearly know that they attracted to me from their friends, but it seems like they never make a move, so i simply decided to convince myself that they just not that into me.
we still talk to each other tho
NOO DON'T MISS THIS OPPORTUNITY
Hiiiiiii. I hope you’ll make a video of “Signs someone wants to close and best friend with you”. “Signs that your friend values you and is afraid to lose you.” Thank you very much and hoping🥰
That Sanji and Pudding exemple at the end made my day
For me it’s the other way around. But that’s what lack of confidence does to ya: miss out out on opportunities. Believing you aren’t good enough and prepare for the inevitable response that follows.
💯!
@@pancakemoon No, it's not a 💯 moment man, shit sucks :'/
@@Jack_Woods Sucks 100%, yep.
Pls make a video about people that find you annoying but somehow still want to stay around you
Wow Sanji and Pudding reference from OP. She really developed a fear of rejection from her childhood so she's the best example!
Never thought that would happen 😂
Just showed my friends your channel, they said they’ll watch you❤️
As someone with a fear of rejection this was accurate. Good video!
The videos are amazing! They always brighten up my mood and help me :)
Same🥰
Thanks! This helps a lot! This video taught me that I might have been very wrong in understanding someone's communication who actually liked me, yet to me seemed to just want to hang out with me as a friend.
To name something: this person is usually very confident and definitely had their own opinion on things, but then seemed to just agree with me and wanted me to notice their looks much more in a public setting. I took those as signs that they cared less about what I thought of them and more about what others thought about them, I now think they might have been trying to communicate the exact opposite.
Dear Psych2Go team,
Thank you. Thank you so much. I have learned so much about myself and others and am finally starting to get the help I need. Thank you for spreading awareness about mental health. With much love and appreciation, Thank you.
If u know urself. Know ur likes and dislikes.. making urself comfortable instead of others.. u will develop a strong personality. And having a strong personality means... u can stand ur ground and no one can steal it from u.🙂
@@TheMaskofLife101 Yeah! That's what I'm working on, because I used to be so scared of people not liking me, but that's a weak personality and mindset. Now I'm working on building a stronger personality and being myself, and being strong enough mentally to accept that some will not like me. 🙂 Thanks for the advice and kind words.
One of the best UA-camrs, thank you for always helping us to understand ourselves and others better, I appreciate every video and appreciate all efforts of your team, thank you very much:))
I’m often weary about rejection & lifetime-commitment. But I feel a bit better about my odds just watching this video.
sometimes it feels like stalking
because of of how accurate the order of psi's vid got recomanded to me
also its not the first time the right vid showd up on top
but pretty sure there will always be someone who got the perfect video for his situation at the most perfect time
also thanks for all the work u put in
take this tiny ammount of love -->
I've had people be shy around me and is scared of me rejecting them.
So I talk to them about it and let them know that I know they like me... most of the time it makes them cry because I don't like them back but I comfort them and tell them to find someone better and by better I mean someone that's better for them... no one is better than me (just kidding) 😁
Have a great night or day😊
Agreeing a million times as the person afraid of rejection - I relate to like all the points T_T
Also I really love the reference to anime - they make concepts even easier to understand!
I've not only noticed these signs in my crush but in me as well. I'm so worried I'm reading the signs wrong because I'm on the edge of confessing. I'm way too scared as he is a good friend of mine. My anxiety may never let me find out. I really wish we could date as it could bring us closer and boy, does he make me blush. The world is so unkind to us that we can't tell the difference between flirting or genuine kindness. But these videos boost my confidence and I'm ready to face him one day!!
I no longer fear rejection. For I no longer put myselfnat risk of facing it
I just saw the number of followers, and I just remembered the time when I discovered you, when they were "only" 90,000. Now, we're 100 times more people! Damn, time rushes too much..😶
Eitherway, I'm so glad for u!!😃❣️🎉✨
I actually recognised myself in this 😅
I didn’t expect that
Watching your videos clear some doubts In my mind thankyou have a great time guys
The worst relationship for you to be in, is the one you can't let go of.
💙UA-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
"N" to the "I" to the double "G".
You are an "E" "R" that yells REEEEEEEEEE.
I have a crush but due to ur videos ik they will reject me-_-, not hating. Your videos are truly amazing and i like ur content. You helped me figure out i have depression 🤓(still no hate)
Does the narrator sound just like Millie Bobby Brown or is that just me? If it is Millie then you did amazing job and you've got a great narrator voice! Love Stranger Things, Eleven is the best character and you really deserve all the praise you receive cuz girl u slayed that 🙌 keep doing great things ❤💯
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What should we do when they are afraid of rejection? Should we tell them that we have a crush on them too? Should we make a move? Or should we just wait for them?
in my opinion I think it depends on the friendship or situation
i would say tell them you have a crush on them
@@popcorn-vn1ug Thank you soo much for your suggestion, I'll think about it
I just asked my crush if he likes me enough to go on a date with me. Wish me luck guys..
I wish you the best of luck! You got this! 👍👍
I have a big fear of rejection. I stopped being too nice to people.
I don't think that this video is for me, since I'm not looking for a partner and all of my friends know that, but I still like to watch those videos since they are somehow calming... but... is it only me or the voice of the... "narrator" is different?
I still like it :)
It's not just you... Different person and microphone... probably still hasn't quite "dialed it in" on the recording software either... P2G has been searching and trying out new voices as well as writers and animators for a while... There are even a few videos narrated by guys.
AND nothing off-putting in the slightest about her voice, btw... I like it, too. haha... I just certainly noticed a subtle difference in tone, and that's DEFINITELY not the same accent as "the usual"... ;o)
I told a guy I like him and he said that he feels the same way. I'm just waiting for a date and I'm very extroverted, so I'mma say what I want to say and I'm gonna say what's on my mind. I just kind of feel like he just kinda laughs off sometimes, but we are in the early re stages of our relationship so I don't know...🗣😅
Just so you know. I think it might be apart of it in yhe beginning. I feel that way to.. but i heard a video bout stepping out of your comfort zone just today ☺️.. i listened to it and it is good advice. So here i am taking the advice 😊.. i know it can be awkward and a bit scary at times but its s good scary and i like how it feels.. id love to keep pushing past all yhe formalities and get to know you more snd you the same for me .
I love the way you think snd how you see things. I understand it cuz we are similar in more ways than one.. im still a lil nervous but i want to get past thst to.
I watch all your post snd theres one i watch daily..its cuz you show inspiration to me and i love how you move and use your body language when your happy.. im atracted to all that so yhats why i watch em..
You take really good care of yourself and you use your mind to really improve your life.. you CARE.. and your sensitive like me 😊.. i enjoy helping people and i to try to make people see the good in themselves.. i guess that comes naturally to us.. if i can make someone smile in sny way i will. Thats natural for me to.. i want yo thank you and your crew for putting out thse videos..it takes time and talent to do what you all do and tons of us appreciate it so much.. you sll do so good snd it shows
I used to think that all of these were signs that I should reassure someone, but it turns out he had histrionic personality disorder and these are signs that someone is trying to fill a black hole of need which no one can fulfil. You’re not the only person they will be acting this way around…
How do you find the time to post good quality content everyday?!
Big team, probably
Doesn't exist
my crush shows all of these signs. interesting seeing as i've already confessed to them and they didn't say anything.
I prefer the previous voice so soothing and Calm
my guy!!! this is so me. I mean I already told her that I like her, and she told me that she feels the same but Im just affeaid that she just said that so that she wouldn't hurt my feelings. this is so me, i never expected this to be very accurate.
Hm there's no need to confess your feelings, just keep admirin'
Psych2go: "Share this video with your crush"
Me: "no thanks, I'm afraid of rejection"
I Really Known Psych2go, since my school friend showed me this, always feels better! 🇰🇭🙏💙🇺🇸💗
They’re the best 💜
Wassup fellow Cambodian 🇰🇭😏
@@BVK. Uh Hello!
Yes, I appreciate feeling like I can be honest about my feelings on this channel and not be afraid that anyone is going to judge me.
Wow! I don't feel alone No more.
I just recently found out that someone likes me, and most of the things rlly fit him. I've been wondering on why he was trying to be so distant from me but now i finally know the answer. I don't mind him liking and tbh, i like him too. I just can't seem to tell him abt it and well, i acted like i didn't like him too since i'm a little bit scared. I hope that he'll be more brave one day tho. He's rlly shy around me so i kinda get the point.
My intrusive thought is telling me i can't speak with my friend or a specific and my brain remind it of a sad moment where i was alone and socially awkward , that thought instantly makes me anxious and makes me even forget how to talk normally my speech is slurred , I don't feel like myself at all like I can't have a conversation
I want to go home fast and don't want to encounter that person that my brain blocked me from talking with and want to meet him next day so i can talk normally ,but the same thought keep repeating everyday on loop ➰
I don't avoid speeding with the banned person but always feel more social awkward and my conversation skill drop to 0
hi psych2go! i was wondering if you could possibly do a video on how to help with this whole climate change thing and to raise awareness to people? because it's actually so so serious and worrying and it has really taken a toll on my mental health and i bet others too, just knowing i have a safe environment during these hard times would really help me and many many others,, thank you!!!!!
Yes.. i just thought maybe it was a lil much with the good mornings.. so yes i did pull back for that reason.. but now i see its not.. its ok to actually say whats on my mind.
Im really into you and i guess i don't want to sound to forward so soon..
Can you please make a video on how to manage emotional stress while managing studies for students, that would be really helpful.
I hope you think about it
Why is this video calling me out, I'm hoping she never finds this...
my crush used to do most these things but stopped after i danced with her and made is extremly obvious to her that i like her
People being too much like me is such a turn off
Lol was that really a sanji pudding reference? Great video :)
I'm definitely afraid of rejection cause I'm afraid I would never find someone like him/her.
"N" to the "I" to the double "G".
You are an "E" "R" that yells REEEEEEEEEE.
Running hot and cold with a person is emotionally abusive. The abuse or does this to create a trauma bond.
Thank you for the information.
I damn hope whoever I may fall in love with has watched this video, god knows I've failed too many people to remain confident in my capabilities, hell, even my qualities if any
Wow, I could totally picture myself in every prompt with my crush... what a bummer haha
Me anxious on every first date because I have anxiety:
Ooh... I like this narrator♡
lovely tsundere at the end XD
Please tell me what software do you use to create your animation video??
I love psych 2 go and this video was really helpful but can you do a video about how to get over a friendship. (I know you’ve already done a video about getting over a crush but that didn’t help me that much.
Well.... I have a feeling that someone likes me but I don't like them the same way. If it comes up I plan on congratulating them for their courage but saying I like them as a friend and not romantically. I thankfully do not match too many of these signs.
im earlyyy,and hi!i love ur vids so much!
no bcs this is just explaining me at this point
guess im gonna have to add another phobia to my phobia list
One of my guy friends just recently told me about this, how some boys/men are not afraid of saying they like you, but are more terrified of rejection and the aftermath that comes with that,
Anyone else feel this, because I haven’t personally, to young I guess not interested in this stuff yet, but am very curious
Monday at 4:50
Can you make one on knowing someone likes you but y’all don’t talk?
Cool video they help me so much ❤️
Too bad that ain't stopping me!
Yup, I do all of these.
I have a classmate that stalks me on social media. I never thought my life would be so interesting that a person would be willing search for my account daily just to watch my uploads for like 7 months … without a follow 😂
A lot. When I spoke to girls. They are always nervous and stuttering when they speak to me.
is the last visual example reference to Serpico and Farneese from Berserk ?
Hello ı really love your channel. Can you do a Signs of Pseudobulbar Affect (PBA) video, please?
Here before 3 hours!😳💓
4:45 is no one gonna talk about Sanji and pudding??
Me who has never had someone do this to me but has experienced it myself: Oh😐
I feel so lonely.
Dang, for once I don’t relate to a vid. This is progress!
Damnn, okay so there is this boy in our class. He always tryna talk with me, even tho we don't have anything to talk about like homeworks and other teas, He always says like "Oh wow, my mussles have increased. I am doing a lot of exercises these days" while looking at me. He doesn't say that to other girls, he says me. He plays romantic music in our music class when the other girls just sing the lyrics whom no one asked for. Andd, he even encouraged me to join the dance group where he was present. BUTTT...I joined the music group. I have a crush on my music sir lmfao. I mean, many girls like the boy here...and I am not tryna make enimies here girl. please tell me what to do, do you think he likes me?? ah shit, I have to confess him SOMEDAY anyway
People have been afraid of being rejected by me my entire life.
04:42 Sanji and Pudding
When you’re aromantic and this video makes you feel like you can’t help but feel different in the crowd of this video-
Me before watching the video: „Interesting, maybe I‘ll learn something and could use those infos for later“
Me after watching the video: „Yo, Sanji and Pudding from One Piece were in this video, sick!“
Let me get back to this ok..i have to run real quick
Sanji and Lady pudding :O cute!
I feel scared that nobody wants me because I'm afraid of rejection and if Freddie moves out I'll be alone forever because I'm ugly. I already know that nobody is going to want me anyway because I'm ugly and a loser and I blame my parents
Me When I hear a different voice in the video:
A surprise but a welcome one
Hey buddies 🙃