Our First Time...*story time*
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- Опубліковано 25 вер 2019
- Uh huh honey, we're going to lay it all out there. The first time we (not sure if I can say s*x on youtube lol) were intimate with each other, it wasn't quite what we expected! Thanks to El Dorado Royale for having us in Mexico also! #ACTastemaker It was a blast.
#beforemarriage #whywewaited #intimacy
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I SO appreciate this video. Not many Christians will go into detail about this experience. Thank you for your vulnerability.
Thank you so much for this encouragement and support!
I wholeheartedly agree! I'm waiting for my spouse and I'm happy to see a married couple who's Christian explaining it and having it turn out well! It gives me encouragement!
You have to read about islam and go and listen to ahmed deedat and zakir naik and yousef astes
@@ChelseaandNick You have to read about islam and go and listen to ahmed deedat and zakir naik and yousef astes
woahhhhh i did not know she was married....i haven’t watched her since she was beautyliciousinsider🤧
SAME
This. Yes.
We all miss beautyliciousinsider!!!!
Same!!
“Girl you are fine as aged wine”😂 love nick😂
I thought he said swine
my LORDDD JESUUUUUS
I thought he said Asia wine
Literally in the bible..
Our first time,I lost my V card to my husband ua-cam.com/video/2sWWwhRP44A/v-deo.html
i think it’s so interesting and cool that our insecurities are complete unnoticeable to other people
Liv it’s amazing really!
I’ll admit, I didn’t wait until marriage but the relationship I’m in we just felt ready. It’s definitely made me appreciate my body more because he doesn’t see it the way I do, he just sees me and loves me and he doesn’t see what I think is wrong with me. Just like I don’t see the things he thinks are wrong with him. The right person can change your whole perspective on the world and life, and because of him I’m starting my own path and getting closer to God and he’s shown me things I never knew about myself. You guys truly love each other, I can see it. It’s so beautiful. True love can be found young, though it doesn’t happen often. I guess some of us are just lucky enough to find it young. Lots of love ❤️
Wow this was so encouraging for me especially when you talked about insecurities and how we shouldn't worry about how the other person sees us because they love us
I love how supportive Nick's towards you. I been having a hard time to keep walking on the Lord's path but this type of videos always remind me of how good this is to me. I hope I can make up my head soon so I can go back to the Lord.
This was so nice to see: thanks guys for being so open in sharing your experience as newly married couple: I love the content you two out on both the channel and the podcasts.
I am so excited about the book devotional :)
Have a blessed birthday Nick and you also have a good rest of the weekend. God bless you two from England, the U.K🇬🇧🙏
OH MY GOSH THE LAST TIME I SAW HER SHE WAS DOING A HAIR TUTORIAL
It’s crazy I’ve been watching you on and off since you were beautyliciousinsider lmfao❤️❤️
Wooo!! Thanks for sticking around gf. ❤️
OMG I was wondering where I knew her from cause this was in my reccommended!!!
Me too that’s crazy!!! Time flies
Me too 😭
Same!
I used to watch you about 3-5 years ago and decided to check your channel back out now and wow I can't believe how much you've grown I feel like a proud parent 😂
🤣
Nick is so supportive it’s the cutest thing ever
he really is 😭
Okay I'm not really religious but like, the way he looks at her.... *clap* *clap*
Yep! True Christian guys are like this!! For the most part 🤗
God bless you
It's not even about religion sis! God desires a relationship with you like He has with us as His bride. Seek and you shall find says the Lord, like a bride chasing after the mysteries of her lover. And He loved you first..❤
@@daughterofgod4927amen! Exactly!
Yeeesss. The way he looks at her😍😍
Such good advice and story-time! You are both so mature and level headed and I appreciate that! You both are so great and I really enjoys watching your videos!❤️
You two are wonderful! My husband and I are both 24 and we got married 15 days ago. We both waited til our wedding night. Agree 100% with you guys. Not awkward or uncomfortable at all when you are with your spouse.
Its been 2 years how is it going?
I really enjoy your content! I'm sure many of us have taken a different route in life, but I 100% understand and agree with you actually! Thanks for being honest and keep on making amazing content!!
Damn... this couple is everything. Protect them at all costs! Such an incredible connection between these two.
I used to watch her when she did grwm in high school! And I just found this channel my heart is so happy for you guys!! 💕
Happy 22 Nick!! get lit on your day hope it’s a great one!!🎉🎉🎈💫🙌🏽
Watch a video before this one and subscribed! I also agree on the wait for your marriage part! Everyone has their own agency but i also prefer to wait and I believe that that is also one way to test your partner how far they are willing to wait! I know we all have different perspective but well i found this video so encouraging Love you both keep inspiring others !!💛✌
It's crazy how much you have grown since I last watched your channel. I am not Christian/Catholic but this is a really beautiful story!! Keep up with the great content.
Why aren't you a Christian. God loves you Jessica.
@@charitywanja4737 If someone isn’t Christian, you shouldn’t force them to become one. Everyone has their own perspective and their own opinion :)
*doing it in the rain, in a treehouse, pretty perfect all around!! And what an awesome place for a honeymoon! I think it’s hard to make these videos, not only because demonetization (😂) but because it’s a pretty private subject and you can get so much hate and judgement. I love how Nick said “the context of marriage, it’s not about you”. True love right there, sacrifice and caring about their well being above your own. May you have the happiest and strongest marriage!*
Thank you so so so much!!
Thanks for being so open and honest about this! ❤
You bet! We loved making this vid!!
the way he looks at her is everything🙂
Thank you just for being so real with us! You’re such an inspiration and this topic just makes me think about so many unanswered questions as I’m Catholic too. Hoping for more videos like this! Thank you guys for being yourselves with us and God bless you ❤️
Thank you so much!! ♥️
Haven’t finished watching the video yet!! But Happy Birthday Nick! May God bless you with another amazing year!!
Thank you so much friend! I greatly appreciate that 😭♥️🙌🏻
Happy birthday nick! I pray that God continues to work in you, use you for his glory and that you and chels continue to lean on him when times are hard and even when times are good! Love you guys!
Thank you so much. I’m humbled and honored by this. May God bless you!
@@ChelseaandNick np! thank you guys
Thank you so much for this candid conversation. It definitely provides ease as a young Christian woman to what the intimate experience is like. May God continue to bless your marriage! 🙌🏾
This is so needed. Thank you for speaking about this ❤️
Thank you so much. We’re glad we did! ♥️
You're "first time" story reminds me of us. Love it.💕 We are married 14 yrs and counting.. God is good!
God bless you both.
i loved how honest yall are ty for being such inspirational ppl
Happy Birthday Nick hope 22 treats you well 🎊🎉
Thank you so much Sonia!
This video is so inspiring. Thank you so much. Nick you are such a gentleman.
This made me so happy. Hearing about how you guys prayed and waiting gives me hope. My biggest fear in life is never finding someone who loves me, has the same Beliefs as me and wants to wait. I feel like everyone now around my age have lost their virginity at like, 14. Even the people at my church I know smokes weed during the week and I feel like there is hardly anyone anymore that sicks with there morals and I don’t want to settle for less. It doesn’t help that people around me that I trust have tried to ‘diagnose’ me with a sexuality because here I am, going into college, and I haven’t found anyone attractive like that. I’m in college, and I’ve never had a crush. Weirdly that scares me.
You are so fully known and fully loved by God. I've never had a boyfriend or been on a date, but I know that God will guide us to where we need to be.
NEVER SETTLE. Wait on The Lord!
Asexual ?
I love how Nick is so proud of his wife and shows it 😍 happy birthday dude 🎊
I love her so much 😭 - Nick
This video was so beautiful and helpful. My fiancé and I are in a courtship. Its always nice to see Godly relationships and marriage!! 😍😍
“I give it all five stars.”
Y’all look like a younger version of Paul and Morgan!! But this definitely helps I’ve been telling my non Christian friends that I’m waiting till marriage and they always say well what if you aren’t compatible!! But thank you
I love how you describe it with the word freedom 💕
One of the most inspirational honest couples thank you for this I’m a very spiritual person and this video is on point!❤️🙏🏼💯
So happy you made this video, I've seen this video when it was posted but rewatching it as all your videos are super helpful. Love you two and Nick is so funny 😂💕
Getting Married tomorrow. I Adore my soon to be Husband & we decided to wait to Marriage to be intimate. He supports me, Encourages me & Uplifts me! Im Excited to wake up to him everyday & yet Im Nervous to be Intimate with him. Glad you guys made me feel Sex can be a Beautiful & Positive experience😌
Oh my gosh!! So excited for you!! 🥳🥳
you guys are so sweet. I love that you talk about these topics. and the facts that everything you say comes from a Christian view is amazing. keep serving God this way. love you guys.💕💕
We love you back!!♥️
@@ChelseaandNick 😊💕💕
Thank you both for being so vulnerable and honest about this! I have so much respect for y'all and your character
I saw that you have Love Does on your bookshelf! Love love love that book!
SO
GOOD
It's the best ever! You should definitely read Everybody Always if you haven't!
this is such a beautiful story you are sharing. My wife and I also kept ourselves until we got married.
in fact, we did not even kiss until after the wedding and it was special when it happened. That was 16 years ago this Friday (19 June). Keep that light shining guys. Be blessed.
Happy Birthday Nick! Have a great, fun, and blessed day!(:
Thank you so much!! 😊
@@ChelseaandNick You’re Welcome!(:
Wow. I found this video really helpful! Thanks for sharing!! btw you guys are goals
Great video God is using you guys in a big way to reach this generation of young people.
Thank you so much. We’re humbled 😭♥️
Iv been watching chels for so long and just to see she is married now and happy is amazing
I love how inspirational u are
Loved this video. I’m currently 17 years old and have decided to open up a little more with religion... I never grew up religious or going to church, but I’ve always said I would wait for marriage. Videos like this keep me encouraged to continue to wait. Thank you for this.💕
Wow......thank you so much talking about your insecurities and comfort, and how y'all PRAYED beforehand?? I love that. I'm very religious and having an honest, young couple talk about something so intimate, is great to see. Love you guys
Seeing that they have so many subscribers is an encouragement to me! Keep being an example of godliness to this generation!
Thank you so much! It’s been quite the ride. 😂
U guys are amazing
As was listening what she was saying I felt something I felt like I woke up from my day dreaming u nocked my head I then shared the video right away to my boyfriend
May God bless u both
Great video as always love ya'll. Happy birthday Nick
We love you back!! Thank you so much for watching consistently.
when you spoke about your insecurities I couldn't relate more..thank you sisy, listening to this meant a lot
love you guys!! weird question- did you prepare contraception before the wedding? (going to the doctor, starting the pill etc..) xx
I love how you guys are so pure and honest! I really want my marriage to be just like this!
Watching now!! Love y’alls videos!!💛💛🤗
Yay!!! We’re so thankful for you.
Nick never fails to crack me up hahah love y'all
Hahahaha he is a mess 😭
Thank you for this video!! I love hearing the stories of people who were virgins up to their wedding day! It is reassuring of what I already suspect. (there are a few reasons I suspect it will not be as "Awkward!!" as people who are sexually active seem to think.)
you guys have the most relaxing voices ever.
Thank you for not sugarcoating this conversation like most people do I love this couple 😍
This just popped up on my feed and I was legit thinking of your channel beautliciousinsider! But at the time I couldn't remember the name, only that you had a verse at the beginning of your videos! Now you're married and my goodness this is crazy! So glad I found you again and congratulations on getting married!
Happy birthday Mr. Hurst!!! Love you guys.
Thank you so much!!
This needs to be shared
I literally just found your channel today and then after watching this I order the book 😂 I love your faith in the lord it’s really inspiring 🙏🏻
Oh my gosh yes! Love this comment. Thanks so much for the support, but more importantly I hope the book challenges you and encourages you! 🙌🏻❤️
Thank you so much for this video! I am waiting until marriage and I always get so nervous thinking about that my husband will have to see me naked and I’m really insecure so that would be really nerve wracking for me. But what you said about that made me feel a little bit better.
If I’m able to ask, how did you both deal with temptations during your relationship before marriage & were you both able to withstand all of the sexual acts before marriage?? Happy birthday nick 🎉 you guys are so inspirational
Such a phenomenal question! I think we’re going to do a video on this in the next couple weeks!
The Hurst Family thank you!! I can’t wait 😋 I’ve loved being a part of this life journey with you both ❤️ god bless
I think the best answer to this is to not be alone. When you feel temptation coming on, go out in public. If you’re having a long period of it, then stay away from each other until it passes and keep communication to the phone and texting. Be sure to check to see that it is love and not lust. That is hugely important. If you’re old enough to get married and mature enough, your relationship is ready for that and you know that God means for you to be together, then take a leap of faith and get married. You will be pleasing a God. As St. Paul said, this is one reason for marriage. I know you weren’t asking for a random person’s advice, but I’ve been married for 15 years. I dealt with this before I was married to my husband. Best to you!
Leah Brandman I really appreciate it 😋 thank you so much for all the wonderful advice
Alexandra S My pleasure, sweetheart! I’m so glad I could help you. God’s peace!💛
I love how open you guys are!
DesignbyChesa thank you!!
My husband and i spent our honeymoon on that exact resort!!! Best time of our lives!
So so glad!!! It’s was the best
Sex shouldn’t be such a taboo subject. Sex isn’t just for making babies and yes woman are allowed to actually enjoy sex if it feels good. Christians make it seem so forbidden it’s annoying. But I respect your decisions and everyone is entitled to believe what they want. I just wish Christians wouldn’t put such a negative connotation on it
It’s not a forbidden thing amongst Christians. God literally created it, it’s a great & beautiful thing. It comes across as negative because Christ followers aren’t supposed to have sex before marriage:)
Agreed. We are sexual creatures. Women and men both love sex!! It’s not bad to have sex before marriage, there’s nothing wrong with sleeping who you want to sleep with, and there’s nothing wrong with waiting! It’s all about personal preference. Do you!
Amber Grace no you’re wrong. I just don’t understand why people get so offended when they say you are supposed to wait for marriage. If there is good there is evil. Just because you can’t see God doesn’t mean he’s not real. I’d rather live my life following Christ than regret it when Jesus comes the last time for his children who are saved. I’m not spending eternity in hell! If you want to be blind to it so be it 🙏🏼 Not every one has access to the afterlife 😌
Why do you say "Christians"????
Vane Zurbano I never said anything about your religion. Not everyone believes in the same thing and that’s perfectly okay. You can’t tell me I’m “wrong” because you have different beliefs. Just like I’m not telling you that you’re “wrong”. Everyone is different.
HAPPY Birthday Nick!!!!!!!!!🍨🍨🍨🎁🎊🎊🎊🎊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 This is my first time coming across you guys!!!😁😁😁 I subscribed Btw!!!😁😁😁
Yall are so cute and have given me hope in a way💙
Happy Birthday Nick 🥳🎈2️⃣2️⃣!!!!
WOOOOO IDK ABOUT YOU BUT IM FEELIN 22 🙌🏻😂
LOVE this! i totally understand you chelsea when you were talking about insecurities, and how everything i thought was wrong my boyfriend always reassured me that he didn’t even realize and just thought that i was the most beautiful woman he has ever seen. idk if i made sense but sometimes it doesn’t have to
Trust him! Don’t fall in the victim or pity mindset. Be confident 🙌🏻
I would LOVE a video on your journey writing a book, like I have written a lot and would love to get my own books published one day. It would be super helpful to me to hear what struggles you went through to get a book published and on the market or if it was easy and any advice? I'm also around your age, I'm 20, and it seems impossible in my head to get one of my books out in the world while I'm still this young. I always pictured me having to be an old lady before every getting to do anything like that. So I find it inspiring that you're young like me and already have a book of your own out there! ❤
Amazing video! Great approach you guys took with the subject. Also, where is Nick’s shirt from?!
Daisy M. Thank you!! H&M 😊
Aww! You guys are so cute together! I'm so glad you found each other. I will DEFINITELY be checking out your book. I love you both so much! You are very inspiring so thank you ❤️ ❤️
Yay!!! Thank you so so much!!
I'm so glad I found your channel today it's nice knowing there people who also lives there life on god in obedience to the Lord with your walk with our heavenly father god bless you guys
Nick, I can totally relate being a tall skinny guy and what that self perceived insecurity can bring. I want to thank you both for your experience and insight because I am recently engaged and will be getting married in about 6 months!
I would be curious to know what’s love for you..I think it’s such a personal and subjective concept that sometimes confuses me ( even if I love somebody myself) so what do you think is love ?
Wow what a beautiful video! You guys are great role models❤️❤️
Thank you so much! We just try to be open and honest about real life!
The Hurst Family 🤗🤗 wow! Thanks for replying! You guys are amazing!
I was just in Mexico with my family in August! We were about an hour south of where you guys were. It was soooo pretty!! Also, I'd love to hear any advice you two have for battling temptation before marriage :)
Ahhh!! We loved it! That’s a great idea for a next video.
Sol Studios are going on a Saturday or Saturday and we can get a few things in the time and we will be going back later this afternoon or maybe I will get a few more things done before we get done and then I can come back and pick you guys gonna I wanna was the time I
Nick, I'm the 25% who is a male watching this. Lol
Wow, great for you!!!! May you find your true love in God’s perfect timing! 🛐✝️👼
@@leahbrandman7549 🙏🙌😎❤🏋️♂️👍😊
Joe Henkel 🤗🖤
Joe Henkel lol
I remember watching you a ton when I was younger. Kinda stopped watching UA-cam for a little while and recently found your page again. I’ve been watching a few videos now, and I think I remember you mentioning you guys did long distance dating? If I am correcttttt, how did you guys make it work? Communication is big and how did you guys make that work? Do you have a video about it already?
Btw, don’t know why I ever stopped watching your videos. Wow I love them 🤩
You’re such an inspiration, came out of a relationship a little while ago that was not Christ centered. I strive for my next relationship to be so Christ centered as you two. God’s blessings ♥️
Love this so much. And you guys!
hi this is my first video that i’m watching from ur channel. i’m so happy to have had found u guys bcs u guys are genuinely so fun :) also, i’ve been thinking about losing my virginity for some time now so that’s how i came across u guys, loved getting to know ur experience. love from germany
Aww❤️ much love! God bless you
You chels look STUNNING in Red! 👌👌
Wooooo I agree 😍😍😍 - Nick
Every time nick did the high pitch voice thing id start laughing no matter what they were talking about 😂😂
Where did you get your dress from?? It’s so pretty!!! 😍❤️❤️
A place called dress up! ❤️
What was the name of the song playing during the Mexico footage?
thanks guys for this one, appreciated
completely off topic, but your hair is so beautiful chelsea!!
alexia leanna thank you so much!! - Chels
I love the channel I like to watch it because not a lot of people these days hold the same values and believes as y'all and me
“That’s how you got here skippy” 🤣 so funny
happy birthday nick! only 3 days from mine !! i miss u chelsea! 💛💛
Omg I clicked as fast as I could 😂
Yay!! Feel free to share too. Thank you so much for watching.
Pretty new fan here!
As a Christian teen who's also decided to wait for marriage, I was like "Hmmm, do I wanna watch this?..." But honestly, I think you guys handled it rly well - great vid!