SOLO DATE VLOG: Why you should try going on a date alone + GRWM

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  • Опубліковано 28 сер 2024
  • Hey, love's solo dating used to be one of my favorite me moments way back. before my social media days and I thought I would reminisce on that by doing it again.
    I hope you enjoy my solo date, let me know in the comments section what you enjoy doing by yourself.
    #TGgang #SoloDate #RoadTo80K

КОМЕНТАРІ • 213

  • @ThandiGama
    @ThandiGama  2 роки тому +19

    Comment what are you favorite things to do solo? I would love to try other things

    • @Thato54
      @Thato54 2 роки тому +3

      Art museums, restaurants and the theatre. Movie dates are also really great esp if you lucky enough to have the cinema to yourself😅😅

    • @brendazuma6848
      @brendazuma6848 2 роки тому +3

      Spa days 💜

    • @nombusosibanyoni2728
      @nombusosibanyoni2728 2 роки тому +3

      Definitely pampering and shopping💕

    • @sanelemkhwanazi9770
      @sanelemkhwanazi9770 2 роки тому +2

      Movie dates

    • @KeaMaaroganye
      @KeaMaaroganye 2 роки тому +1

      Movies - spa dates - golf - go watch live shows

  • @puseletsomolikeng9952
    @puseletsomolikeng9952 2 роки тому +26

    I learnt very fast not to wait for friends to be available in order to do stuff. The reality is people are busy and we should prioritize in being our own best friends. Solo dates for me is an act of self love 💖

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому

      So true 🤌🏾

    • @Lebogang_Mathe
      @Lebogang_Mathe 2 роки тому +1

      Very true puseletso sometimes I would wanna go out and friends are not available so now I’ll start doing solo dates

  • @anamgwenn
    @anamgwenn 2 роки тому +32

    Amen Thandi, your life doesn’t need to be on hold while waiting🔥🙌🏽dress to impress yourself,show up for yourself”!!

  • @kubobonkebalicawa6237
    @kubobonkebalicawa6237 2 роки тому +12

    Hey T , I absolutely loved this video ❤️
    Just one thing, try not to say “I’m going out by myself anyway” (with the hair and the earrings) because subliminally you’re diminishing the whole point of this beautiful experience.
    I love you so much! 😍

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому +3

      So true. I picked that up while editing. Hopefully I get better at embracing it

  • @modikiramaisa4619
    @modikiramaisa4619 2 роки тому +26

    I’ve beeeeen doing things by myself for years be it the cinema , lunch and the biggest thing for me was SOLO travel abroad it was scary at first but you quickly immerse yourself and actually meet new people I highly recommend it

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому

      Definitely considering it

    • @labz_kay
      @labz_kay 2 роки тому

      My kind of girl....

    • @bathokozile5591
      @bathokozile5591 2 роки тому

      I am so scared to travel/vacation on my own😔

  • @phumzilephiri
    @phumzilephiri 2 роки тому +12

    I fully agree, I am a firm believer in solo dates.
    I agree with the doing things and learning the things you like and being able to do that for yourself it gives me so much satisfaction

  • @KeaMaaroganye
    @KeaMaaroganye 2 роки тому +9

    Agreed . I mean even when in a relationship I will still go for solo dates . I feel like whatever I desire and can get for myself I do it even if I have someone else to tag along .
    I highly believe in doing things you do with others by yourself also 👌🏽

  • @simangelemakhubu2649
    @simangelemakhubu2649 2 роки тому +4

    Your natural hair 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

  • @MOMT676
    @MOMT676 2 роки тому +5

    I did not know what they called but I do them all the time... lunch, at the beginning of December last Year I took myself to a hotel for 3 days just to rest and sleep. On my birthday month I will take myself to a movie and dinner afterwards. All about self love

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому +1

      Yaaaaas love this ❤️

  • @gugulethu_zwane
    @gugulethu_zwane 2 роки тому +4

    Immediately clicked on this video because I'm a firm believer of solo dates 🥺

  • @YesItsMeToolz
    @YesItsMeToolz 2 роки тому +2

    “You can’t pour from an empty cup.” I felt that boo! ♥️♥️ I love that you got ready, make up and a pretty dress, for yourself! I love it! I love solo dates! 😍😘😍😘

  • @mmabona_m
    @mmabona_m 2 роки тому +3

    I’ve been contemplating going on a solo date and after watching this video, I’m definitely trying it out very soon.

  • @alicemasemola2319
    @alicemasemola2319 2 роки тому +5

    Before I got married and had kids I used to love going to watch the movies at the Cinema alone. Now, I love being in the bathroom by myself🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому

      🤣😂😂😂😂 omg just that little moment of privacy

  • @onkgoditse
    @onkgoditse 2 роки тому +2

    This is so true, you need to know yourself, this is encouraging

  • @slindileprincessngcobo1537
    @slindileprincessngcobo1537 2 роки тому

    I love doing things by myself 😍❤❤❤❤I enjoy watching u

  • @ruthmatshoba1325
    @ruthmatshoba1325 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you mama I needed this vlog and the fact that it's in the beginning on the year " to do thing by yourself" enkosi 🙏🙏

  • @thandimtungwa1298
    @thandimtungwa1298 2 роки тому +3

    Wow thanks for the GRWM I really enjoyed watching the mini makeup. Girl, you hair absolutely beautiful 💕💕.

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @micaelarich5138
    @micaelarich5138 2 роки тому +2

    LOVE LOVE LOVE! I’ve always hated doing things by myself but I’m feeling suuuuper inspired after this video, thanks Thandi! Solo shopping date loading…

  • @nomusamthethwa2612
    @nomusamthethwa2612 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for reminding us to do the things we say we enjoy doing. Love love love your content.

  • @rebeccasetefane2241
    @rebeccasetefane2241 2 роки тому +3

    I genuinely have learn something,I always say aggh it so strange to go out alone at times but now Iv seen and learned there is nothing wrong with that at all .thank you Thandi 💞💞💓

  • @_aishasalaudeen
    @_aishasalaudeen 2 роки тому

    When you love yourself so much, you do appreciate your own company even better🥰❤️❤️❤️.

  • @thembikubheka3300
    @thembikubheka3300 2 роки тому +3

    I really needed this vlog thanks Thandi , always looking stunning my dear. I really like your style.🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @paulanakari3515
    @paulanakari3515 2 роки тому

    I’m going on a solo date tomorrow because of this….i’ve been down-playing it but this just gave me the extra confirmation. 💕💕lobe love love this.

  • @Miss_Zimm
    @Miss_Zimm 2 роки тому

    It’s the clear skin for me 🙌

  • @arinahosharon6354
    @arinahosharon6354 2 роки тому +1

    I really love thisss👌👌👌👌you definatly talkibg to me girl been contemplenting on doing this lunch,travel seeing new places and enjoy my life

  • @luckystaarr
    @luckystaarr 2 роки тому +2

    Your mood in this video im soo in love ❤️ i enjoyed this to many more solo dates

  • @conniemalatji6095
    @conniemalatji6095 2 роки тому +5

    I can’t wait to have an income that allows me to do stuff not alone though coz I hate being with my thoughts I just dwell in there and I hate it ,enjoyed this

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому

      I totally get you, I also get days where I’m trying to avoid my thoughts.

    • @zimkhithalangkop7123
      @zimkhithalangkop7123 2 роки тому

      I can relate Chile

  • @lelomashinini524
    @lelomashinini524 2 роки тому +1

    Loved this video 🤍 I absolutely enjoy going on solo dates and spending time with myself

  • @Miss_Greatness
    @Miss_Greatness 2 роки тому +2

    Nasiphi Ngcwabe made me fall in love with solo dates. I go on solo dates once a month, spa, movies, restaurants etc and I’m in a relationship. I enjoy my company

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому

      That’s so good I think I want to try a spa next 😍

  • @nondumisogumede2372
    @nondumisogumede2372 2 роки тому

    Solo dates are my favorite ❤️

  • @poppyteho
    @poppyteho 2 роки тому

    Woow T-guurl i loved this solo date 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @nosiphogumede6226
    @nosiphogumede6226 2 роки тому +3

    MUCH NEEDED THANK YOU FOR THIS SIS ❤

  • @mbinaomukuambi2459
    @mbinaomukuambi2459 2 роки тому +1

    Girl you look gooooood, loving the hair too. Pls load something on taking care of own hair… 😍😍😍

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому

      Thank you. I’ll definitely try come up with some hair videos

  • @abongiledubase4078
    @abongiledubase4078 2 роки тому +1

    Hey T.G, you look stunning, you're glowing, your skin's flames.

  • @JustLee_P
    @JustLee_P 2 роки тому +1

    I usually go on Solo dates, now I definitely wanna challenge myself to go on a Stay-cation by myself. 🤞🏾
    Loved the video mama, you look beautiful. ❤️

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому

      Definitely try it. You will probably enjoy it so much 🤌🏾😍

  • @leehlep6984
    @leehlep6984 2 роки тому +1

    M so loving ur skin❤ur skin journey was worth it

  • @lutriciaramalepe3741
    @lutriciaramalepe3741 2 роки тому +1

    So so loved your Solo date... I think I should recommend it for myself too.

  • @yoliswadladla7637
    @yoliswadladla7637 2 роки тому +2

    This was so therapeutic Thandi. Thank you so much

  • @Thushey_
    @Thushey_ 2 роки тому

    I enjoyed this video. 💕

  • @maudemapumulo
    @maudemapumulo 2 роки тому +1

    I can't wait to go on my solo dates this really inspired me, thanks 😊 much love
    #TGgang🌻

  • @vkmabunda9597
    @vkmabunda9597 2 роки тому +2

    Looking beautiful as always😍 this hair looks amazing on you
    I loveeee love a solo shopping spree
    Definetely want to try the YSL Libre Intense

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому

      You definitely should you will love it

  • @portiahkruger
    @portiahkruger 2 роки тому

    So in love with your teeth and smile T❤

  • @prettysekiti3550
    @prettysekiti3550 2 роки тому +2

    I love your hair

  • @yummymommy334
    @yummymommy334 2 роки тому

    Firstly you look absolutely amazing, and personally I don't want to do things by myself anymore,Ive been by myself my whole life,I have kids now, they're the only real people I have in my life, trust me I'm ok with being alone have been for the longest,since childhood,and I got so used to it to an extent that I chose to be by myself,I don't know,this chapter of my life I feel like I need a soul tribe.

  • @gugumonyakeng3928
    @gugumonyakeng3928 2 роки тому +1

    Took my self on a solo date for the first time last week and I loved it, I also did movies. it was amazing def doing more of those

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому +1

      I definitely want to check out what movies are showing at the moment and do that too

  • @thabomokgwasa5920
    @thabomokgwasa5920 2 роки тому +1

    I loved it here...🙈

  • @hlelsilethwala9934
    @hlelsilethwala9934 2 роки тому +2

    Your hair,your skin🔥...a fine fine beb for real

  • @hlelsilethwala9934
    @hlelsilethwala9934 2 роки тому +5

    I actually need to jump on to solo dating again because I deserve a good time even on my own

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому +1

      You definitely deserve it 🤌🏾

  • @kagisomabutho1997
    @kagisomabutho1997 2 роки тому +1

    I love this new Thandi!! You look happy. Genuinely happy! ♥️

  • @moroesinkone4294
    @moroesinkone4294 2 роки тому +1

    Let put solo date aside for now because I definitely going to try it. Let's talk about your hair, it is so beautiful and rich. 😍👌Now you make me to feel like relaxing my natural hair girl. 😘💆‍♀️

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому

      I didn’t relax it by the way. It’s a silk press. It’s still natural

  • @RayOfLetsatsi
    @RayOfLetsatsi 2 роки тому +1

    Your hair😍😍🔥

  • @rethasebata3718
    @rethasebata3718 2 роки тому +2

    I'm now used to take myself to a vacation never wait for a person to fulfill your dreams do it yourself

  • @gugulethu_zwane
    @gugulethu_zwane 2 роки тому +2

    A spa day is something you should try out gorgeous ❤️❤️

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому

      Definitely trying that next 🤌🏾

  • @thelmamajoro9982
    @thelmamajoro9982 2 роки тому +1

    Hy Thandi oh yes u make perfect sence we need to recover that there is u before the is others in ur life and is the greatest luv u can ever experience is loving urself put urself first feed ur in peace and be okay to be in yr own place without the noise of the world sometimes u need to walk alone for ur sake to experience that incase u become alone u are going to be okay thank u 4 this Thandi luv u so much😘😘😘

  • @ziyandatshaya7961
    @ziyandatshaya7961 2 роки тому +1

    Absolutely loved this video ❤

  • @philisiwencapai1308
    @philisiwencapai1308 2 роки тому +5

    Solo dates are the best, I don't know why people find them 'weird'. You look amazing Mama 💕💕💕💕💕💕.

  • @lieketsenglentsa311
    @lieketsenglentsa311 2 роки тому

    You have such a beautiful hair 😻

  • @KimberleyGrace
    @KimberleyGrace 2 роки тому +2

    I love this intro 😍😍😍

  • @centianight
    @centianight 2 роки тому +4

    You looked amazing as always TG. 🔥
    I’ve never taken myself out to dinner, I’ve done movies and lunch alone and loved it. So when I got single after a very long time in 2020 I told myself it’s time. When you got to talking about the pandemic, I realized that I’ve used that as an excuse to not do it. I think I’m ready to brave it, soyiki strangers trying to chat me up though. I must just remember this is not about them 🥺

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому

      Oh girl be confident and they will fear approaching you 😉 but let that be a compliment that you look good

    • @centianight
      @centianight 2 роки тому

      @@ThandiGama lol! I will do it. Thank you ❤️🌻

  • @Thato54
    @Thato54 2 роки тому +2

    I have the YSL original but I really would like that intense for future solo date nights 👽👽

  • @AlataNkonyeni
    @AlataNkonyeni 2 роки тому +1

    Absolutely enjoyed it 😍😍😍 inspired!

  • @kekanacharlotte2560
    @kekanacharlotte2560 2 роки тому

    You looked amazing 🔥🔥😍😍

  • @lifewithnoma9931
    @lifewithnoma9931 2 роки тому +1

    Everytime I watch your videos I wish I could subscribe over again lol ndiyakuthanda sis. And ow I'm going to take myself out on a Date this weekend enkosi for this

  • @KeepingupwithLatiana
    @KeepingupwithLatiana 2 роки тому +1

    A lot of us needed this video🙂

  • @arinahosharon6354
    @arinahosharon6354 2 роки тому +1

    You my 30th birthday is coming and im really expecting a lot from my mans and i knw hs gonna dissapoint me so im planning how i want to celebrating my day & stop depending on someone else....thank you for reminding me to love my self enough thandi🤞🤞🤗🤗🤗

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому +1

      Yes definitely if there’s a specific way you want to celebrate there’s nothing wrong in taking charge of your birthday

  • @Mixoakani
    @Mixoakani 2 роки тому +1

    Your skin looks good your hair is beautiful 🧡 #TGgang

  • @pkay.n
    @pkay.n 2 роки тому +1

    I don't know how to go out alone it's time to try that❤

  • @Reve3548
    @Reve3548 2 роки тому +2

    I'm for solo dates this year ...they're therapeutic..so is this video

  • @noluthandothando595
    @noluthandothando595 2 роки тому

    Thank you Thandi🥰🥰

  • @magcina.m4493
    @magcina.m4493 2 роки тому +1

    Beautiful vlog💞

  • @MICHELLKVANWYK
    @MICHELLKVANWYK 2 роки тому +1

    Love this!!! ❤❤❤

  • @ntokozozulu4284
    @ntokozozulu4284 2 роки тому +1

    Totally love the topic♥️

  • @lebohangnkambule6823
    @lebohangnkambule6823 2 роки тому +1

    Your hair looks amazing😊

  • @moyahabo_temo
    @moyahabo_temo 2 роки тому +1

    Solo dates are so important 🥺

  • @Life_with_Sharon
    @Life_with_Sharon 2 роки тому +1

    Your hair is beautiful 😻🙌🏽

  • @gh.ntsele2941
    @gh.ntsele2941 2 роки тому +1

    The last time I went on a solo date was I 2020, I really enjoy it and i usually do that when I want to try our new restaurant like you say it's really great

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому +1

      There’s a couple of restaurants I would love to try actually

  • @Lilly_rankeke95
    @Lilly_rankeke95 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this video I need to hear this ♥️♥️

  • @Curious_Crime_Files
    @Curious_Crime_Files 2 роки тому +1

    Hey, I love the silk press. Where did you get it done? Looks so beautiful 😍

  • @simthandilemajavu7869
    @simthandilemajavu7869 2 роки тому +3

    Its giving Maya Galore babe 😘 😘.. I love solo dates babe.. I they are the best until you find people(men) starting at you at restaurants 🙄

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому +1

      Oh yes she motivated and inspired me to get back into it. I love her 😍

    • @thedreadedscribe645
      @thedreadedscribe645 2 роки тому +1

      My exact thoughts! I was hoping Thandi would give a shout out to Maya. You looked absolutely gorgeous by the way😍 SD are amazing! I'm glad its becoming a movement and I no longer have to be the only wierdo😅 I joke guys

  • @thobilepromisenhlanhla389
    @thobilepromisenhlanhla389 2 роки тому +1

    Baby girl your skin🙊🥰🥰🥰🔥

  • @amaran1461
    @amaran1461 2 роки тому +1

    Loved this 😘

  • @Miss_Zimm
    @Miss_Zimm 2 роки тому

    I’m here for the make up lesson too

  • @sinentokozosibeko3675
    @sinentokozosibeko3675 2 роки тому +1

    Rolling solo👌👌👌

  • @simphiwexabanisa
    @simphiwexabanisa 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Thandi❤❤

  • @phumzilephiri
    @phumzilephiri 2 роки тому +1

    You look so pretty😍

  • @abigailmathale1848
    @abigailmathale1848 2 роки тому

    How lucky are we!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @olga840
    @olga840 2 роки тому +1

    You said it all darling,,, 💕

  • @nonhlakaniphoN
    @nonhlakaniphoN 2 роки тому +1

    My fav❤️

  • @dianamasiyiwa6132
    @dianamasiyiwa6132 2 роки тому +1

    Thandi I couldn’t agree with you any more shame. This is so true am doing this now

  • @BaratiM1
    @BaratiM1 2 роки тому +1

    Love from Botswana ❤️❤️🇧🇼

  • @zilungilemahlaba
    @zilungilemahlaba 2 роки тому +1

    I'll try this💓.. thank you

  • @hilyam.i3226
    @hilyam.i3226 2 роки тому +1

    Gorgeous Thandi💞

  • @janicewilliams4926
    @janicewilliams4926 2 роки тому +1

    Love your hair❤️

  • @phindilekate9363
    @phindilekate9363 2 роки тому

    Loved this😍

  • @tiyiselanin
    @tiyiselanin 2 роки тому +1

    Your hair 😍😍😍😍😍

  • @sinovuyolobi9919
    @sinovuyolobi9919 2 роки тому +1

    I use to take myself so much in my early 20s and I use to enjoy every bit of it but now yhoo hayi shame I'm always a couch potato on weekends

  • @crescentmoonwhati192
    @crescentmoonwhati192 2 роки тому +1

    Your skin❤

  • @poz_veto555
    @poz_veto555 2 роки тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @MsKay287
    @MsKay287 2 роки тому +1

    I definitely need to go on Solo dates who knows maybe I'll meet my future hubby naye e on a solo date. 😆 🤣

    • @ThandiGama
      @ThandiGama  2 роки тому +1

      You never know sis 😂 I’m telling you

  • @dibusengmhlotshane3293
    @dibusengmhlotshane3293 2 роки тому +1

    I enjoyed this vlog so much..to more Solo Date, What is the name of the perfume? YSL?