"If we don't put in the effort, then we should break up" |
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- Опубліковано 12 чер 2024
- In this episode, we shared about how we stay attractive for each other! Also what do you guys think of John's new hairstyle? hehehe
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Pat you’re legit so pretty and I’m glad you know it!!!
She really is!!! 🥹❤️
HAHAHAHA awwwwww thank you! But I kidding about the pretty face luh 😁
- Pat
@@JOHNPATCROSS😂😂🎉😂😂
Everything takes effort and time, not just looks but relationship as well. I think being able to spend quality time together is bliss. Everyone ages, just need to be comfortable in your own skin.
Its a good feeling to know that your partner will never leave you even if you don't put in any effort. Like there is a certainty in the relationship.
Yep to look attractive to each other… and don’t let yourself ‘go’!
yall so cute leh!! all your videos never fails to make me laugh 🥹🫶🏻
Thanks for the Ruru experience John & Pat!! ❤❤❤ Y’all v sweet
Hehehehe! My heart beating for you so fast at the side.
- Pat
3:30 😂 i burst out laughing as i did not expect that moment of truth…
gonna use all these contents as references and lessons when i reach similar stages as you guys, thanks 🤩
I love pat shes so pretty funny and confidence!
Awwww I love you. Thank you. 🫶🏻
- Pat
🥰cute~ great advice❤️
Last time when I've listened to John talk @RealTalk/Just Saying I thought "Damn why so boring one"😂😂😂😂 and prefer listening to Saffron & Jade
But NOW with Pat oohlala
Suddenly very interesting and wise-sounding liao. Maybe Pat made you more interesting 😂😂😂🎉
I like listening to both of you exchange thoughts on how to keep the relationship/marriage sweet 💞 Not as common as we want that to be nowadays~
Hello! Thank you! 🙏🏼
- Pat
Oppa or lampah, pat really damn funny ah 😂
This video is soo Brutal but soo true!! Soo honest and funny
who did the thumbnail of John's Ah Boy to Ah Man journey? haha. such a cute thumbnail. Happy December btw, looking forward to see what's in store & hang out with you two on UA-cam.
guys i need some advise. i always had the same thinking that we should always remain attractive for your partner, and i have always been open in sharing this with my friends. however, i have been gaslighted and got comments that im just a superficial guy/ its all about the personality not looks/ why am i toxic by having this thinking/i am fat shaming / you do you, they do them/they want to remain unattractive is their problem ?
Am i wrong in thinking that we should remain attractive for the partner?
Anyway thanks to john and and pat for openly sharing about this thanks!
@@traphood8was coming from looks perspective, like what pat and John mentioned. going to the gym, still maintain yourself, dressing up etc
No it's not unrealistic. It's also about being respectful to your partner. Yes, you can dress down and be frumpy around them but also be aware not to be too comfortable to create some tension, mystery and excitement. This is one of the ways not to take your relationship for granted.
Hi Pat, i can totally relate to 7:15 about insecurities. How did you talk to Jon about it and how did you manage to overcome it without coming across as possessive? 😢
Hello. It started out rough. I restricted him so much that it hurts the relationship. But slowly, as we got older, I gained more confidence of myself and valued myself more. John did his part too by making sure I can always trust him. :)
- Pat
Thank you Pat for sharing. I wish you strength always ❤
Pat got the atas chio bu vibe I love pat 😍😍😍😍😍
Awwww thanks leh! 🫶🏻
Pat
Someone said, ask yourself if you will **** yourself. That’s a pretty good standard to upkeep your looks.
Yes exercise, especially stress induced, weights and elastic bands…
when john revealed the wet hair reminded me of the jheri curl in the 80's-early 90's 🤣🤣
make me choked on my morning tea seeing that.. GEE THANKS JOHN! 🙄 LOL
edit: what is a lampah? sorry im not singaporean or asian
finally found some one with similar philosophy.
Oppa or lampa 😂😂😂😂
Algoooooooooooo
Oppa or Lampa 😂
It’s not THAT easy to JUST go back to your work out routine right after giving birth. It is not an excuse unless you just bumped around and do nothing. Also you need to have very good support system and your body needs to be physically ready too. Depending on individual circumstances too. Such casual remarks should only be made if you have gone through that phase and able to really do it.
Confirm damn intimindated by Jade when your husband filming with her and talking about sex
Jade is my girl crush and I love her! But no leh. I’m very comfortable with her filming and talking about sex with John. Hahahha!
- Pat
@@JOHNPATCROSS thumbs up
LMAO RULAIFUO XD XD XD that was such a good quip
anw honest feedback bro - don't perm better lah. jared hairstyle honestly not that nice (although tbh might be cuz he spoiled it for me lah... cuz he comes across as v insecure (sorry ah), so it gives me the impression that people with that hairstyle v vain/insecure too... hmm, ALTHOUGH it may be true that guys who bother to perm their hair are usually quite vain/insecure in general)
kinda in the same vein - yeah leh, don't think pat needs to feel insecure about john hanging out with hot girls. personality and confidence wise, im fairly sure pat will beat most of them hands down. usually hot girls don't have the personality one (cuz their life is alr on easy mode from the looks) and from guy's pov, a good wife is one that has confidence and personality and good support. wouldn't trade that for any hot one time fling. also, pat has super strong EQ and has good dress sense too. that + shared history means it's v hard to beat.
also, next time don't zoom into sherm's face so big lah hahaha. give her some dignity pls.