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  • @elaineclaire7063
    @elaineclaire7063 Рік тому +117

    You both make me believe that love still exists, I really enjoy both of your chemistry and how you both are really open and honest with one another. I been following your love story ever since Jon posted on his youtube channel, and seeing how far y'all both come really makes me happy for you both, y'all deserve each other. Please hold marriage counselling course, i confirm will sign up 🤣🤣🤣

    • @richardkanna5093
      @richardkanna5093 Рік тому

      lol, more like the girl just trying to settle for her last options...
      no wonder singlish girls are sluts...this is a fact....
      if any singlish girls reading this, yes it is you, youre a slut. this is a fact

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Рік тому +9

      Awwww you’re so sweet! But we don’t post when we fight la. 😂
      Maybe with this channel we will. Haha

  • @RaphJonathanTan
    @RaphJonathanTan Рік тому +71

    such a couple goals. friend turned boyfriend turned husband. so much to learn from your journey and relationship advices. was just wondering how u guys met when i watched your previous 2 videos, not sure if your story's been shared before. then your third video cured my curiosity. been following john since real talk and other similar cameos. keep it up, great content like this ones! God bless both of you

    • @richardkanna5093
      @richardkanna5093 Рік тому

      lol, more like the girl just trying to settle for her last options...
      no wonder singlish girls are sluts...this is a fact....
      if any singlish girls reading this, yes it is you, youre a slut. this is a fact

  • @nevets1209
    @nevets1209 Рік тому +89

    i have always liked John's POV in TDK and now that you started vlogging with your wife, i am always looking forward to watch your stories. you two are so cool even after 15 years of togetherness. i feel giddy about your love story. 🥰🥰🥰💌💌💌

  • @thestaringenclave
    @thestaringenclave Рік тому +36

    Oh wow. John is such a romantic. Great advice at the end "Move on and live your best life... If there is a chance to get out of the friendzone, she's probably still stay in your life."

  • @chickennutpie
    @chickennutpie Рік тому +33

    This was such a fun watch! Really like how this was shot in the car, like a friend giving you life updates) :') And your openness to share so much is what really sets y'all apart from other couples who are sharing their lives on this online space. Keep up the great work y'all!!

  • @8777RL
    @8777RL 9 місяців тому +2

    Very sweet couple you two...I'm 52 and your vid brings me back to my younger days and i am glad true love still happens! Wish you both everlasting bliss! ❤🎉

  • @hhspore
    @hhspore Рік тому +12

    You two are just so cute. And the giggling as you recall your secondary/poly days is just adorable. Your synergy is so unique and special. So lucky to find your soul mate in each other. Signing off aunty H ( I think I shd b around your mum's age. ) Why am I watching your videos? ....because I watch the daily ketchup too.

  • @straypenne
    @straypenne Рік тому +9

    pat’s expression when john was recounting his life story is so funny y’all damn cute

  • @tansiwei2344
    @tansiwei2344 Рік тому +14

    HOW CAN WE NOT LIKE IT!!!! Smiling throughout the video because you guys are too cute❤ love yall

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Рік тому +1

      And this comment made us smile too! ♥️

  • @JoanneMelissa
    @JoanneMelissa Рік тому +6

    You guys are so sincere and down to earth!! I watched from start till the end 😊thanks for taking the time to film/ edit !! God bless you both!

  • @yieldm232
    @yieldm232 Рік тому +26

    Your videos are so entertaining to watch! It's great to see Pat ❤

  • @marcang4403
    @marcang4403 Рік тому +7

    So sweeet genuine!!! So rare to hear other girl’s view!! Enjoy ur vlog… also I like the Singaporean English.. sooo 真

  • @Zoids-bf6op
    @Zoids-bf6op Рік тому

    i actually watch the whole thing. it was really entertaining to listen to both perspective with the same energy. Can especially relate to Johnathan on this one!

  • @hello13456
    @hello13456 Рік тому +23

    i love this couple so much, such wholesome vibes and a real good role model couple for many. keep the videos coming please❤❤

  • @lordndrew
    @lordndrew Рік тому +1

    First time watching this channel and this couple. Very interesting and real. It’s a good watch. Subscribed.

  • @ValarieTay
    @ValarieTay Рік тому +5

    Hahahaha congrats to the both of you! It's not easy maintaining a relationship but you both make it look fun! I love your relationship vibes! Here's to many many many more anniversaries and milestones together!

  • @kyrakamiel1794
    @kyrakamiel1794 Рік тому

    What a wonderful story❤️
    Thought the rose petals strewn pathway was such a romantic touch.💕💕

  • @arjunsasangan9342
    @arjunsasangan9342 Рік тому +3

    Great videoooo it sounded like an episode of a drama and thats amazing that yall are so wholesome

  • @winniehuang3923
    @winniehuang3923 Рік тому +3

    Wow brought me back to my youth dating days… I made my hubby watch this with me… we were also best friends back then…

  • @thecheekies
    @thecheekies Рік тому +1

    Mr. & I watched this grinning from start to end. Made us reminisce loads.. 😊

  • @junotan5912
    @junotan5912 Рік тому +8

    i enjoyed so much listening to the love story of yall!So cute and entertaining!

  • @leeli5441
    @leeli5441 Рік тому +3

    Wah the 2 of you are soooo cuteeee together. Love uuuu. This is my first time watching your videos. John is very good in tdk anyways, have subscribed!

  • @emailant
    @emailant Рік тому +2

    heartwarming story. really nice to watch and so happy for you and chris and friends too. most of all, great advice. 👍

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Рік тому

      Aww thanks for the lovely comment. next episode drops on Sunday!

  • @joshua01
    @joshua01 Рік тому +8

    Love the content! 🫶 yall r so cute sia

  • @kiwanaboy
    @kiwanaboy Рік тому +3

    The 2008 flashback sweet sia ❤❤

  • @MrRazorteeth
    @MrRazorteeth Рік тому +3

    Can make this into a movie liao... so touching

  • @Ahsonloh1213
    @Ahsonloh1213 Рік тому +19

    Really enjoyed the storytelling of your relationship journey! Made me feel like I'm part of it as well hahaha

  • @stevenycs79
    @stevenycs79 Рік тому +12

    very sweet and genuine contents guyz~ luving it .. keep it up

  • @sonnykhoo7236
    @sonnykhoo7236 Рік тому +1

    😂😂😂 I just chanced upon your channel and I laughed my head off🫢 Excellent content. Real and fun👍😁 By the way I’m 60 over years old a Malaysian in PJ. My eldest is probably your age😁

  • @shaohwa4948
    @shaohwa4948 Рік тому +2

    Love your stories 😀, continue to slayy

  • @helahola
    @helahola Рік тому +5

    great story. if comparing their advice, i personally like john's advice more. it just sounds more practical. pat's advice about "be there for the girl/guy" will turn that guy in her friendzone into a convenient tool man and she will never realize his value at all. pat's hk trip leaving john is the key so i'll agree on john's advice more.

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Рік тому +2

      Hello! I also don’t know which kind of advice I gave. Hahahahah! But John stuck around worked for me. He caught my heart 😂 but yes, please follow his instead. Hahahaha!
      - Pat

  • @shufangina
    @shufangina Рік тому +1

    Couple goals! Your stories are super cute 😍😍😍

  • @ginayaplaiyoong
    @ginayaplaiyoong Рік тому +6

    So cute lah, your love story!

  • @PEPramudita
    @PEPramudita Рік тому +7

    OMG.. both of you are so sweet leh. I’m shipping the both of you now 👍🏻

  • @ImMochiAlyyyyy
    @ImMochiAlyyyyy Рік тому +3

    Officially my fav couple lehhhhh ❤❤❤

  • @MrTakoyaki1992
    @MrTakoyaki1992 Рік тому +2

    You all must Sing" We'll Caaarry On"!!!

  • @trishuang8377
    @trishuang8377 Рік тому +4

    Lol! My first date with my hub was also at Esplanade! I too thought of it as a normal dinner with a poly friend but he considered it as a date 😏 Those memories of courtship... Cheers to our 15years anni - u n John together since 17/18yo, me n my hub together as a wedded couple 💗 🥂

  • @darrenyeoh126
    @darrenyeoh126 Рік тому +4

    chris is the steve 😂

  • @sltan7235
    @sltan7235 Рік тому +3

    Sticky rose petals the best bit

  • @HiMagicDonuts
    @HiMagicDonuts Рік тому +4

    loved your vid!! 🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @xuele94
    @xuele94 Місяць тому

    I kinda miss pat n jon's content, chance upon this cute video of memories. ❤ so much love though. Just wanted to say i did almost wanna friendzone my bf. But we werent tat close as besties. We were just comfortable. I was alittle unsure. So i keep saying no or avoiding when i feel like the confession is coming. I am glad he did not give up. Though bck then i was rejecting not becuz i didn't want to give him a chance. I was just waiting for a offical ask "do u want to be my gf". I thought it was a basic expectation. But it took him 2 days more to figure it out.. 😅 i think 3/4 mths, max 6mth is a good amt of time to make a decision. If things drag too long n nth happens, mayb it's prob not the right one. Or when it's too quick, not sure if its just a impulse decision without sufficient considerations since it take more than looks to gel things up n balance things. 😅

  • @jaytan7201
    @jaytan7201 Рік тому +1

    Village bicycle... 😂😂😂

  • @MsLilac88
    @MsLilac88 Рік тому +1

    I just dropped by your channel, I watched your video on the daily ketchup podcast about your fertility journey. 😊 Happy 15 years aninversary. 💜

  • @coreylow620
    @coreylow620 Рік тому +1

    i swear john really look great being meatier

  • @EIJIHS
    @EIJIHS Рік тому +3

    WOO!! MCR ROCKS !!! Eh John, wtf the GF stage so grand then proposal how !! Kns damn spoil market AHHAHAHAH !

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Рік тому +1

      Thats why I was very stressed for the proposal! That story is coming up soon!

  • @_cherylkim
    @_cherylkim Рік тому +3

    Omg love your videos!!!!!

  • @20pointer
    @20pointer Рік тому +4

    will you ever share about the fall out with dew and co?

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Рік тому +1

      No Co bro. I'm good friends with the rest. Maybe one day. I haven't out of respect for some of the people involved. But i hope you understand. But maybe one day.

    • @20pointer
      @20pointer Рік тому

      Thanks for being honest@@JOHNPATCROSS

  • @LumpyLoveElla
    @LumpyLoveElla Рік тому +5

    My hubby and I also did the supermarket sushi when we were in poly. 😂

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Рік тому

      Bobian. It was the only move if you couldn't afford to eat the the restaurant.
      - John

  • @Googly_Boy24
    @Googly_Boy24 Рік тому

    Hahahaha funny how you guys got together on my 2nd birthday (18oct) 17:27

  • @pandulani
    @pandulani Рік тому

    So cute, all the best for a happy long wedded life!

  • @angelicasubil-fitnessNwellness

    Ayooo so sweet la u both🤭🤭😍

  • @dango1705
    @dango1705 Рік тому +2

    "u bitch" was very personal😂😂😂

  • @Purmeiwansuay
    @Purmeiwansuay Рік тому +3

    knn this siao eh romantic sia

  • @yeetusbelitus6709
    @yeetusbelitus6709 Рік тому +3

    eh jon dam spoil market sia wl leh

  • @starshine9836
    @starshine9836 Рік тому +3

    Got 夫妻像. You guys look alike at certain angles!

  • @whyh
    @whyh Рік тому

    If you are in the friend zone, move on. She's just being selfish, but you don't have to sick around to be used.
    You don't have to hate her either. Just move on.

  • @leeli5441
    @leeli5441 Рік тому +2

    Pat is soo adorable! Thank you for sharing with us and letting us into your lives
    Btw what lip color is pat using

    • @JOHNPATCROSS
      @JOHNPATCROSS  Рік тому +1

      It's one of the nude shades from Fenty. I'm sorry the lipstick doesn't say.
      - Pat

  • @a.alaynaa
    @a.alaynaa Рік тому

    this is so cute 😭😭

  • @jessical7083
    @jessical7083 Рік тому +1

    Wah. I didnt know Pat is also a playa. She looks so innocent 😅. I know in another show John said he had sex with 1-2 girls before Pat and initial sex with Pat was like meant to be a one night stand or sonething 😮. So i knew John was promiscuous back then. But thought Pat wasnt for some reason haha😅, maybe she looks so angelic😂.

  • @50percent-Left
    @50percent-Left Рік тому +2

    17:21 - "It's all worth it". This got me tearing a bit 🥲

  • @learninvestearnsave
    @learninvestearnsave Рік тому

    bro's 17 year old hairstyle is like chao ah beng LOL. Nice video though. Thanks for sharing

  • @lynnlee76
    @lynnlee76 Рік тому +3

    That is so sweet

  • @derektan6561
    @derektan6561 Рік тому +3

    it is actually quite dangerous to shoot this while driving. it only take secs to lose focus.

    • @EricK-mj7kr
      @EricK-mj7kr Рік тому +1

      Not really. Some can handle both pretty well. I like to chit chat while driving or sometimes we'll play movies for the kids, on long drives to malaysia and it keeps me awake and alert. I do have friends who can't hold a dialogue without getting nervous while driving though.

  • @yeannetung
    @yeannetung Рік тому +2

    MORE

  • @joeylim261
    @joeylim261 Рік тому +1

    so cute la🥰

  • @ckloh3378
    @ckloh3378 Рік тому

    She's a playa but doesn't know it 😂

  • @misspepper07
    @misspepper07 Рік тому +4

    7:49 *cue Awwwwwwwww* ♥️
    11:43 18:53

  • @fannyzen
    @fannyzen Рік тому +1

    Really sweet

  • @Jonascookingjapan
    @Jonascookingjapan Рік тому +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @brt525
    @brt525 Рік тому +1

    👍👍👍👍

  • @princessnuchu
    @princessnuchu Рік тому +1

    Awwww

  • @dillonazariahfoo7363
    @dillonazariahfoo7363 Рік тому

    Walao cute asf ah

  • @n.laughpuff6653
    @n.laughpuff6653 Рік тому

    Get piercings, go gym, earn money. Simple

  • @marcoyeo9387
    @marcoyeo9387 10 місяців тому

    too cute

  • @benwong2061
    @benwong2061 Рік тому +1

    Algoooooooooooooooooo

  • @twogtheworldofgangnam9917
    @twogtheworldofgangnam9917 Рік тому

  • @yuxiang2806
    @yuxiang2806 Рік тому

    And this is how I met your mother

  • @elilo5867
    @elilo5867 Рік тому +2

    Why does it take so much effort to please a woman ? I would have just left once she said ,"no".

  • @dragon5064
    @dragon5064 Рік тому

    .

  • @eeto_plays
    @eeto_plays Рік тому