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Let's Have An Argument
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- Опубліковано 24 жов 2019
- I swear we had an actual topic for today's podcast. That's not the direction it went though. You know those awkward smiling arguments you have in front of company? Yeah, let's have one of those.
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When mom and dad start arguing and you slowly back out of the room 👀 lol
😂
For real lol!
Yes!!! 😁
Sorry Asa, every mom multi tasks, end of conversation.
Amen! I'm not a mom, but I even know that.
Yup!! I stay multi tasking.
yep! moms couldnt survive not multitasking. a lot of men cannot multitask bc its how their brains are made! they have to focus!
so true I multi task I can brush my teeth and put eye shadow on at the same time
My mom's favorite quote: I may not always be right, but I am never wrong! This seems appropriate here. :-)
Have you ever thought about hiring an assistant? I know you guys already have a lot of people involved in your life and you mentioned the whole control aspect, which I absolutely relate to. But maybe if you had someone to help out with these things, like booking trips and making sure everything gets packed, scheduling meetings & stuff, helping you guys with time management, etc. it would help a little You guys are always CRAZY busy, and have so much going on ALL the time between Maass Squad Cares, Fathering Autism, PTA, Lipstick Mama, PPP, life in general, and much more. Asa sleeps MAYBE five hours every night (expect the weekends lol). Don't get me wrong, you guys are handling everything amazingly. I just don't want to see you guys get burnt out. Love you all so much!
They would really benefit a lot from having an assistant ❤
Jasmine Ruckman I’ve wondered this same thing....if an assistant wouldn’t alleviate a lot of their burden, because they are busy 24/7
It would definitely help. But by the time they are actually able to release control and train, Isaiah will be gone and all that volunteerism is gone too. I can’t see them ever doing it because they are self proclaimed control freaks & life is changing.
@@Mumma2many I understand that. Maass Squad Cares is growing rapidly though. And they still have everything else. They still help at Abby's school too. PTA would be a major weight off Cilla's shoulders, no more concession stands and early meetings and stuff. But I've seen people get assistants for a lot less. The fact that they've done everything this far by themselves is absolutely amazing.
THIS IS ONE OF MY FAVORITES! Related so much bc this is how my husband and I hash things out. We make fun of each other and it helps point out what we were fighting about was probably dumb or a misunderstanding.
I love this type of podcast!!! I love how “real” this is ! Best UA-cam family ever
I’m been home all alone this week studying for my masters and this literally made me laugh out loud - so relatable!
It makes my heart happy watching you guys - it’s so obvious that despite whatever argument or irritation you guys might be facing with each other, at the root of it you love each other really.
Thanks for making me smile today 💕
”your name is on my kids’ birth certificates...” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You two are a great team. Every relationship has “moments”, it’s how we handle those moments, how we come out of them or work together that really matter. Love you guys ❤️
I love how you guys fight!!!! It was a great way to let off steam. Shows me how real you guys are.
that moment where Priscilla said she'd change it to PM2AM. I almost fell out my chair laughing.
SAME. i was cracking up
might be my fav podcast yet !! yall should do more off the cuff podcasts ! lol
It’s not an apology. Hearing I’m sorry can make a world of difference. I know people who struggle to say those two words and it hurts. It makes you feel like they don’t care about you and so many other feelings. That’s why I always told my kids they need to say it when they have done something wrong and have done it myself when I made a mistake as a parent. It shows them that I respect them and care about them and their feelings.
Oh my goodness! This was one of the best podcasts. I can so relate to you guys. Your banter had me laughing, so freaking hilarious! I wonder if I could get my husband to sit down for 5-10 minutes a week to go over our schedule together. This might avoid miscommunication. Have a great time in vegas you two!
Love these podcasts we get to watch! You guys are so open and real. Love you both! Hope Vegas is a great trip.
Was the scientist that said that you can't multitask a man by any chance? Because 90% of my waking hours is me multitasking.
loved it, sounds just like my husband and I. We bicker, my youngest daughter calls us the Bickerson's. lol He stresses, I always say, "Don't worry about it, it is not a problem.", He says, "yeah, nothing is a problem for you.", He says that sarcastically. But really, most things are not a problem unless you make them a problem. Everything will work out but maybe not the way you imagine it. Remember, you basically control nothing in this world, even when you think you are controlling things. Try to control the things that are controllable and other than that, let it go. I only learned this after many, many, many years of trying to control everything.
Yes, I'm learning. Trying not to stress things I have no control over. And handle unforseen circumstances with a little more grace. Embrace change, and learn to adapt to new situations while keeping an open positive mind. The older I get though the easier it is to be more aware of what consumes my energy.
You guys have an amazing relationship. I think if two married people worked, lived, and parented 24/7 together and they never had any arguments they would either be robots or psychopaths lol.
18:31 yes prescilla!!! Hahaha 😂😂😂
So I think you totally stayed on topic!! Stress of planning a trip like this totally leads to disagreements. 🥰
juja yes I agreed !
Oh absolutely. Trip planning is one of if not the most stressful of times for my family. A close second would be moving.
Sorry but every time I hear yall on these it reminds me of the SNL skits 😂😂😂
I love watching you all but watching this video made me 😆 you pair are just so great at banter. A real life marriage made in heaven. You make my day 😊
Yes. "Annoyed moments." My husband and I have those. We rarely actually argue. And when we do, it doesn't last long at all. We get over it.
I loved this podcast so much. So real. 🙂
I just went away for two days while I was on a course. I literally had a time line/timeline of what my husband and son needed to do while I was away, who was taking care of the wee one and when he needed to be picked up, lunches to pack, and clothes that needed to be sorted etc. I feel your pain.
Your bickering is totally relatable 😂 I love this channel!
Power to Pricilla!
Asa, multi tasking is running a podcast, having a conversation with Priscilla, AND checking your phone. See you can multi task too. 🤜💥🤛 Priscilla 1 scientists 0😎
I just started listening to the podcasts and I really enjoy them!
You guys are the best parents ever !
Aca and Cilla the 2 of your have a great team so don't worry and relax and have great time during your trips.
I really enjoy watching. Butnot to argue
Relatable 100% lol glad my relationship isnt the only one that jokes about killing eachother 🤣🤣
My hubby & I both add things to To Do lists just so we can check it off✅
Love that you guys keep it real.
This was the best 😂 Priscilla was in a mood! I love it! My husband and I are the same way. You’ve got to have a sense of humor with each other.
Right!
Pricilla when you were boppin to the music at the beginning you made a face and Abby makes the same one! Lol so cute!
Asa, you just gotta have the last word 😂😂😂
A hug is most definitely an apology. If you're bad at verbally apologizing, a hug is a great non-verbal way of apologizing.
I absolutely relate to yalls relationship and just love yall!!!
This makes me more confident in my own romantic relationship. We have times where we say, “I love you, but right now I don’t like you.” And we apologize every time we fit but it’s a very, “I’m sorry for fighting” basic. We know the other doesn’t mean it and we typically make jokes about the fights later and it makes us feel better. Hashing things out is always healthy, blowing up is not.
The name on the title thing....my father in law had everything in his name and when he died my mother in law had to go to probate court to get ownership of what was already hers. Joint ownership would have prevented that issue.
This is super awkward I love it and I love that you turn it around and just d'awww - this is how to 'fight' effectively!! [Fight is the wrong word, disagree? Vent? Effectively!]
That’s how my boyfriend and I apologize
We get mad, we give each other the silent treatment for about 5-10 minutes then one of us just comes up and hugs or snuggles the other person and that’s our apology
There are many different love languages, there are also many different apology languages
Just like you don’t always need to say the words “I love you” for someone to know that you love them, you don’t always say the words “I’m sorry” for someone to know that you’re sorry
Love the bickering banter! Sounds like me and my hubby!
I get really stressed when I am a passenger too.
i'm a housecleaner, and i multi task ALL the time. almost every woman does. no argument.
this was so amazing, like i wish i have a marriage like this! i love you’re relationship! thank you for doing this! i laughed so much!!
Well done. Every couple has to find a way of working these little things out. My husband and I used to hold hands if we had to have a deep conversation. It just helped us remember that this person that we want to strangle is some one that we love, so even in the I dont like you moments we still showed love and respect. We have been married almost 20 years when he passed a few months ago.
ASA!!!!! ❤ Be in the Moment! Trust the Universe!! And Have a FABULOUS Time!!!
I love that y’all are putting the podcasts on YT now too!!! 💕🧩🐶🐈🐢💕
I so enjoy your podcasts especially when you two get silly with each other arguing over differences of opinions.
Hahahaha you 2 have made me laugh today, I’m like Pricilla... I don’t apologise either 🤣😂
So I heard something a couple of years ago. For every argument that happens, one person has the last words. The man speaks those last words. .....
Those last words are........
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Yes ma'am.
Y'all have the best UA-cam channel ever
Lol.... love how you changed the subject Priscilla😪😂. When he was talking about your name should be on Asa's truck.
It's healthy lol. What's not healthy is a silent partner who never expresses anything....at least there's give and take and above all communication is key. Even if there's friction always communicate. My husband is not a communicator so everything "we" go through as a family I go through alone...I'm always alone....
Amanda Langford I went through the same thing years ago, so I can definitely empathize. 😞
Your channel is the best on UA-cam. Love you guys. (Joy-see) all the way from cuero tx
Joycie Martinez I’m from Victoria! What are the odds?!
What do you mean? What are the odds?
@@phyllisheintschel1437 what do you mean about the odds.
What are the odds that two people who live so close in TX are following the same blog?
Phyllis heintschel right we are 20 miles a part
Love your channel. First time commenting. Love your family so much and Abby has captured my heart. Much love oshawa Ontario Canada xo
I truly LOVE ur family, n I just wanted to say that Abbi seems like she is doing better every video. U guys r awesome . Love from Philly 👍🏾
Yes, relatable. Times like this podcast make me miss my husband so much more. Keep communicating, it’s so important.
I love this guys. Yous are very honest and it makes us to be able to relate so much.
I use the check box on notepad a lot!! Especially lists I reuse like camping trip packing list, vacation packing, etc. they don’t change much.
Priscilla comin with the comeback at 18:30 😂
I never laughed so much! You guys are so freakin CUUUUTE!!!!
I’ve been married 16 years and can so relate to you guys....and still absolutely adore my husband!
Love you guys so much 💞
Awwww! I renewed my vows with my husband a couple of weeks ago in Vegas. 10 year renewal. We went to the Sweet Memories chapel and they had a little gazebo and fountain, and they had and beautiful little chapel and a staircase leading to it from the brides dressing room 😍 I hope you guys have a blast in Vegas!! It was so much fun for us❤️
Pricilla is 💯 percent right!
I don't apologise properly either. 😂
Pm to am bwahahaha love it you made my day today
Priscilla's feisty today 😂. I love you guys
Love y'alls realness! As a mother to 3 autistic children , I can relate a lot and humor is the best medicine 💙🙏 Hope y'all enjoy your trip
Priscilla proper riding Asa is just the best thing ever, they seem like such a always loving in sync perfect couple most of the time, it's awesome to see they annoy each other & pick at each other, sly little digs too, it's brilliant 😂😂 very wholesome
I love your relationship.
You are both so open when you are bantering and even though you may be very stressed the love you both have for each other is very apparent!
Thank you for this!! I have been fighting with my partner for a few days now. We are a blended family of 6. 9 years ago we all lived under one roof, 2 are grown now and off on their own, 1 in college, 2 seniors in Highschool and lastly 1 sophomore. 4 boys 2 girls. One of our seniors is on the spectrum and has many health issues so sometimes life is VERY stressful!! It is nice to be reminded that everyone goes through things.
There is a difference between the act of doing multiple tasks at the same time and the brain literally holding more than one thought at the same time. You're both right. You CAN do more than one task at a time but you cannot absorb memories without the information being processed, you can't remember what someone is saying if you're already processing something else. I have auditory processing issues and when I hear things, I often don't absorb the information.
LOVE IT!! This is so fun and so real. Have fun on your trips!
This is great! Idk what took me so long to watch it!
Her name on everything and life insurance ... watch out Asa LOL!!!!!!!!
Hello from Canada. I have been watching you for a year now and love your family. I have worked in the disability field for 14 years and do love seeing Abbie and your family. You all make me laugh
I felt like I was listening to my husband and I talk 😂🤣
110% relatable! And opposites attract! If my boyfriend was as ocd and need to for control to ease anxiety and he was not an easy going musician. We would have issues! I also want to say I’ve found your channel a few months ago and have binging and as someone who has worked with kids with special needs for 8 years you are the parents I wish all my clients had - caring , understanding , and the responsibility to help Abby experience “all the things” as you say! You embody she is clearly a person first. Her autism dose not define her 💓 thank you for spreading awareness and helping families around the world 🌎
😂 y'all remind me so much of myself and my husband. It's refreshing to see.
I laughed so much listening to this! Totally reminds me and my boyfriend and me. haha
Y'all sound just like my partner and I. We've been together for 7 years. This was great!
Very relatable!! Its normal, healthy. I'm with my hubby 24/7 too we also work together. We are not always going to see eye to eye. And that's ok.
You two are the best! Even when you have spats😂💖💙
My husband is an only child, and so is my daughter, and they never apologize.
I didn't hear Asa apologizing either!
The kids face when you asked about the boxing gloves on the vlogg! Love you guys!
ASA is right... We can't multi task... Our brain can flip from one thing to another very quickly but not at the same time.
Trips are very stressful at the best of times. It's easy to let the little things get in the way. Being sensitive and needing support is needed when your stressed. Be kind to yourselves. I really love how you communicate it really is an inspiration to me. The respect you have for each others strengths and weaknesses is empowering. I love how you recognize each other. You're so beautiful.
It's so true how mens can't multi-task.
But us women can. Lol~
It was nice to see vulnerable Asa...you are a great couple
I love you two & I admire how strong you both are & I hope you enjoy your trip & get to relax☺️
You guys are totally normal. My partner and I are like this. He made me so angry the other day I made him leave the house. An hour later we were laughing and had settled everything.
I really appreciate you guys being so open about your relationship. It makes me feel not alone in my relationship. My fiance doesnt apologize either lol. He just come in and says "are you still mad?" Ugh lol
You guys are awesome! I haven't stopped laughing and smiling!
I laughed this entire podcast 🤣 and your relationship is very relatable
Hey guys hope your having a great day 😘
You both sound just like my husband and I loved this podcast.
Never been this early. You two truly are couple goals
I love your podcast! I love all you guys do! Thank you for all the content you provide for us! 💖💖 i hope your trip is amazing! Have so much fun! Safe travels!
That was awesome! Thanks for being yourselves. ❤
Aww I love that ending!!!
I love the couple chat. Keep it going!
Priscilla has me laughing 😂