Let’s talk about it… my husband

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  • @andidaniels4770
    @andidaniels4770 25 днів тому +11504

    1. Strong people work on their marriage, just like you two did.
    2. Not our business
    3. Love you both.

    • @MelanaC
      @MelanaC 24 дні тому +69

      Very well said!
      I’ve been married for 29 years and we have worked hard to keep it that way. It’s not ‘ring on and done’ it’s growing and changing and learning

    • @DizzyDeeds66
      @DizzyDeeds66 24 дні тому +10

      Ditto this.

    • @icalotdonthide2646
      @icalotdonthide2646 23 дні тому +11

      I agree with the first two.

    • @godiswithyou.5358
      @godiswithyou.5358 23 дні тому +2

      Agreed!!!!!!!!!

    • @VONiiE8
      @VONiiE8 23 дні тому +127

      Not working through cheating doesn’t make you weak. Please let go of that narrative.

  • @maescreativespace444
    @maescreativespace444 21 день тому +3955

    I loved this. No bashing… Just straight GROWN WOMAN ACCOUNTABILITY

  • @nothanks71
    @nothanks71 21 день тому +1102

    Upfront, you didnt bring it to social media, the other girl did. She claimed you were being passive aggressive through videos(when you didnt even know who she was), brought up your husbands messages to her(which i dont believe were sexual, but was specifically about his marriage), it was a very nasty move on her front. I believe she proudly put "that homewrecker" as her bio on tiktok and was answering EVERYONES questions on the topic. Im not sure about you and your husbands relationship(as i shouldnt unless you want to share) but SHE brought it up. She speculated on it.
    Good on you for not wanting to bring her into this, but its not wrong to hold people accountable. She started this mess. But you ARE a very mature person and as someone who was there for the whole drama, you handled it well all the way through

    • @wearetheworld6962
      @wearetheworld6962 20 днів тому +27

      And her husband should be accountable #1

    • @nothanks71
      @nothanks71 20 днів тому +48

      ​@wearetheworld6962 I can't attest for his accountability as they handled everything privately, I CAN blame the OF girl for bringing it to social media cause she did. She started it.

    • @Kknderbueno
      @Kknderbueno 15 днів тому +31

      @@nothanks71he gave her the opportunity to do so by getting involved with the other woman in the first place, though. If he had never gotten involved she wouldn’t have had anything to post.
      It’s like if I gave my spouse’s nude photos to someone and they posted them, yes they were wrong to post but I was wrong first by giving them something TO post.
      I’m assuming that’s what the other commenter was saying.

    • @nothanks71
      @nothanks71 15 днів тому +23

      @@Kknderbueno it doesn't matter as it's between them, that's the point. The OF girl said that Ashlee was being shady towards her and brought info up FIRST. Idk the specifics of Ashlee and her husband's marriage, I'm not sure what he did cause they didn't share it. The OF model made repeated videos to the point that it came off as harassment towards Ashlee. Also your analogy makes no sense cause nude photos are a tangible thing, the OF model kept making vague statements and didn't say exactly what he did. He spoke with her, the OF model said "no need to be shady(Ashlee wasnt) he loves you" and all these things and it got to the point where she had to address some things. We can acknowledge people harassing other people and not down play their behavior.
      All this "the husband is to blame first!" doesn't work when you have a woman actively targeting you and making repeated videos about you. Harassing someone cause you thought they were being "shady" towards you is objectively nasty behaviour.
      I'm not bringing up the husband's behavior cause I genuinely don't know what he did SPECIFICALLY and wanted to address the harassment in particular. Ik what ik and know what I don't. Ashlee said she doesn't want to bring the other parties up and I just wanted to reaffirm that she wasn't the one who made everything public

    • @violetblythe6912
      @violetblythe6912 14 днів тому +10

      @@Kknderbueno no one’s saying that he is a perfect angel. People fk up. But regardless of what happened in their relationship it’s not the public’s business unless THEY wanted it to be. That OF girl decided she wanted to make their marriage issues public for clout (not to mention LIED claiming she had an affair with the husband which wasn’t true) and that’s extremely wrong. It needs to stop being normalized to share people’s dirty laundry for the sole purpose of hurting them.
      Unless another individual or the public is somehow in danger by something someone is doing, sharing people’s personal business like this for attention is a sh*tty thing to do. That’s the point.

  • @hushpuppy698
    @hushpuppy698 19 днів тому +727

    Been married almost 10 yrs. No one knows what goes on when the front door closes and the drapes get pulled shut-except you two! Hold your values in high regard, work on your shit, and tell the world to kick rocks. Take care of yourselves and those babies! I wish yall all the best. ❤

    • @Wellness_000
      @Wellness_000 18 днів тому +2

      We’ll said

    • @justscrolling7829
      @justscrolling7829 14 днів тому +10

      I think growing up children will realize that it was better for their parents to split up rather than having to hear shouts from the bedroom, witnessing ur crying mother or father, and having to live with the guilt that if it had not been for the children the parents wouldn't have to suffer like this

    • @grabbastarr
      @grabbastarr 13 днів тому

      @@justscrolling7829this is random 😭

    • @adaezez8378
      @adaezez8378 12 днів тому

      @@justscrolling7829but you dont know if thats what is happening so maybe chill

    • @justscrolling7829
      @justscrolling7829 12 днів тому +8

      @@adaezez8378 I wasn't evem reffering to Ashley but rather replying to this comment because its important to know that when there is no respect in the relationship, the whole family suffers. I was just adding my point of view so that people don't think being in an abusive relationship will somehow save the kids

  • @brina71902
    @brina71902 25 днів тому +4923

    I love when people fight for their marriage! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @Mimi-hn6iv
      @Mimi-hn6iv 25 днів тому +21

      Me too!!

    • @victoryiaBee
      @victoryiaBee 25 днів тому +18

      Yes, this!!

    • @taiyabazaheer9492
      @taiyabazaheer9492 24 дні тому +148

      But didn't he cheat on her? Pardon me if that was a rumour too.

    • @rhondadavis1483
      @rhondadavis1483 24 дні тому +56

      @@taiyabazaheer9492can you please stop? The whole video is about ppl making comments about their marriage. It is literally none of our business. It has nothing to do with their content.

    • @OGStarlightKY
      @OGStarlightKY 24 дні тому +50

      @@taiyabazaheer9492Did you not listen to a word that she said in the video? Let it go.

  • @TXWintor
    @TXWintor 25 днів тому +13072

    Holy crap, is this an actual adult on social media making mature decisions?!? Like spotting a unicorn in the wild. 😆

    • @Binstabih
      @Binstabih 25 днів тому +167

      Lmao this!! The internet is not your diary😅

    • @IcantwithYoupeople
      @IcantwithYoupeople 24 дні тому +34

      So if it was her husband then wat

    • @pragyasingh2297
      @pragyasingh2297 24 дні тому +66

      It makes me so happy to see good examples of creators that know when to keep things private and make mature decisions ❤ so even though I’m not a regular viewer of her content, I knew I wanted to support her bc she really deserves more attention.

    • @t-and-p
      @t-and-p 24 дні тому +61

      Not only that, she took genuine accountability for her actions, rather than just blaming him or the woman who started the rumours.
      On the internet, that's as rare as rocking horse sh1t! 😂😂

    • @BJillian
      @BJillian 24 дні тому +7

      So mature of you 😑😑😑 get a life

  • @Taticlgmonckey
    @Taticlgmonckey 20 днів тому +235

    I hope we hear the same from him too. He had no problem saying bad things about you on social media i want to hear the same wise words you say and take accountability for his actions specially when he was the one that step out of the relationship.

    • @abizar3660
      @abizar3660 16 днів тому +28

      She did admitted they were both being mean to each other and were wrong for it. I'm pretty sure they are tired of the narrative and just want to move on. You don't need to hear everyone side. They don't owe you a thing. It's their clear they want to move on. Him telling his side will only allow for more negative comments and remarks. Their marriage, not yours, to decide how they want to resolve their matters.

    • @Ponce17
      @Ponce17 16 днів тому +18

      Its been very clear that he's not somebody that really likes to be on social media they way she does. Im sure face to face as they talked things over he apologized to her as she did to him.

    • @Taticlgmonckey
      @Taticlgmonckey 16 днів тому +12

      @abizar3660 when did I said I'm own anything, he put his business out here and was the one saying that she was only using him for views and that he was the victim and that's why he step out. I'm not own anything and you are right it is not my business, but I'm allowed to talk about it. Because he was the one putting his business out there for everyone to see. Look you don't have to like what I said and you can tell me something because I put my opinion out there. You don't have to agree, but I stand on what I said.

    • @Taticlgmonckey
      @Taticlgmonckey 16 днів тому +24

      @Ponce17 and to be clear he didn't mind be on social media when he was talking bad about her making videos how she was just using him for views. He also doesn't mind the money from social media

    • @caylinwithani
      @caylinwithani 14 днів тому +5

      what?? not to argue but she just said they want to keep everything off the internet
      theres no reason why he should apologise publicly
      he doesnt owe anyone but HER an apology and u can tell theyre healthy now so theres no need for this

  • @randomina465
    @randomina465 20 днів тому +224

    if she was the one that cheated he would never have forgiven her that's why women lose everyone in comment talking about maturity what about the maturity of men and holding them accountable for their actions

    • @blackcherry07
      @blackcherry07 20 днів тому +36

      men don’t have accountability

    • @MsKJackson831
      @MsKJackson831 15 днів тому +80

      Yeah ppl praising this is kind of wild. I don't think ppl should bash her either, it's her life and she can do what she wants. But everyone acting like she's doing something noble and mature is weird

    • @needless974
      @needless974 13 днів тому +29

      Yeah, while im genuinely want to be happy for them, the cheating is still a no for me, good on them for working it out but dont tell other to just "talk about it and move on" because ehe broke your trust and slept with someone else and theres a lot that goes on in cheating because you can back out of it but he did it willingly
      It doesn't sit right with me, but whatever

    • @veronica5lmaa
      @veronica5lmaa 3 дні тому +3

      Its sad to see women be happy when other women accept to be cheated and disrespected like that

  • @toffeestrange7706
    @toffeestrange7706 23 дні тому +5458

    This is probably the most mature thing I’ve seen an influencer post. Good on you. I’m sorry that that happened. I’m married, and there are definitely highs and lows that nobody talks about.

    • @mustardandpickles17
      @mustardandpickles17 23 дні тому +38

      Someone should talk about it. To many people try n portray the "perfect" and sweet couple.

    • @AshCupric
      @AshCupric 22 дні тому +18

      That’s the truth. I’ve been with my husband for for 12 years. We’ve had amazing times and we’ve had rough times. But that is life, nothing is ever perfect. What matters is that there is respect and the care to worth through those challenges. Nobody is immune from hardships and it’s how we handle those trying times that matters.

    • @alatinaxo4835
      @alatinaxo4835 20 днів тому +4

      AMEN ‼️

    • @t.r.w.7778
      @t.r.w.7778 15 днів тому +2

      I’m happy for u❤

    • @user-dw1bz1hl6x
      @user-dw1bz1hl6x 10 днів тому +4

      Fuck that. Single is better.

  • @user-shabbysannoying
    @user-shabbysannoying 25 днів тому +6423

    Your marriage is nobody's business but yours and his. Hopefully this video will stop people from making comment's. Sending you hugs!!!

    • @simpleton2090
      @simpleton2090 25 днів тому +10

      Absolutely!!!

    • @jenXlee
      @jenXlee 25 днів тому +6

      That part!

    • @smarttechaddict
      @smarttechaddict 24 дні тому +13

      Sometimes you need to let yout pain out and you did, maybe it wasn't the best idea but it's natural.
      I'm now happy you're happy. People will always talk, even if you don't to anything they'll make something up!

    • @nunyabusinessbro8527
      @nunyabusinessbro8527 21 день тому +22

      No body will forget that he cheated regardless of how many videos she makes, and if he cheats again that will be the first thing people will throw at her.

    • @user-shabbysannoying
      @user-shabbysannoying 21 день тому +5

      @@nunyabusinessbro8527one again it ain't nobody's business but theirs. People need to worry about their own lives

  • @Fluff_Noodles
    @Fluff_Noodles 7 днів тому +16

    She said he didn't have a baby but didn't say he didn't cheat on her..... Idk the real situation but stay safe ma'am if he cheated once he can cheat again 😭.....

  • @siya.kotiouu
    @siya.kotiouu 19 днів тому +202

    his response to what he actually did & not taking accountability at all was insane . he’s now conditioned you into believing you did wrong & caused him to do certain things ,, but when flipped around your reactions to him was just bad behavior from you . narc behavior . when he hurts you again don’t be surprised .

    • @deathvvitch
      @deathvvitch 12 днів тому +51

      Thank you! I’m glad I’m not the only one that didn’t forget what happened. This man was most definitely cheating the way he took no accountability at all and just bashed his wife on the internet. Honestly don’t even believe that it wasn’t him in the video. Looked just like him and the other girl said it was him, I watched her videos when it happened.

    • @sazaislin
      @sazaislin 11 днів тому +38

      sad to see everyone else praising her for "taking accountability" and keeping her marriage together ... like she isnt taking accountability for HIS actions. absolutely insane lmfaoo

    • @melissam6037
      @melissam6037 9 днів тому +16

      He will cheat again, sad to say.

    • @rjy44
      @rjy44 5 днів тому +6

      I felt this in my soul. When I speak up or cry after being wronged, the whole situation changes into something that’s my fault and something that I have to fix. Because men react with ego and defensiveness. No accountability.

    • @HexRuse
      @HexRuse 4 дні тому +4

      I felt like I was going crazy watching this too, like am I the only one who saw his response video to her basically blaming her for his cheating. Like, can two people get past cheating together and rebuild their relationship? Sure, but not when the foundation is made out of quicksand. He doesn't take accountability, he blames you for his massive failings, he took it to social media to try and demonize you, and this is the guy you want to stay with? Like yes, you are an adult and you are allowed to date whoever you want, but if you are going to put it out there on social media, you are inviting people's criticism and comments on your relationship.

  • @dudeitskim
    @dudeitskim 25 днів тому +2858

    None of our business anyway, just glad you came back ❤️

    • @jbo6018
      @jbo6018 25 днів тому +36

      I agree, except they made it our business. This is her taking accountability for that

    • @patremagilbert682
      @patremagilbert682 25 днів тому +3

      Agree

    • @marie-zb5bh
      @marie-zb5bh 24 дні тому

      @@jbo6018 Even with it online it still wasn't our business. We don't know these people.

    • @dudeitskim
      @dudeitskim 23 дні тому +9

      @@jbo6018 I hear that, putting your life online does give other people the right to voice their thoughts and opinions, but us being invested and caring still doesn’t mean we’re entitled to an explanation, just means we’re a bit curious or nosy, which is normal 😆. Also, the couple themselves didn’t make it our business, some people on Tik tok saw a man in someone else’s video and since they just happened to be having issues at the time everyone just ran with it, making all kinds of assumptions and headlines as the internet does. Everyone just believed what they read opposed to doing any fact checking themselves lol, and by fact-checking I mean just watching the “proof” because it CLEARLY wasn’t him. Being dragged so far into a scandal that had no substance would so frustrating, and had she rebutted, her response wouldn’t have done much for the media already swirling with accusations and stories. But even so, they doesn’t owe us an explanation to anything, it’s not our marriage lol. I also wouldn’t call it taking accountability, I would say she was waiting for the shitstorm of a false narrative to pass before commenting on it (and all while trying to figure out and navigate their real marital issues). Especially because again, all we had to do was watch the video to disprove the initial claims that started the media shitshow lol 😂

    • @jocelynperez7484
      @jocelynperez7484 23 дні тому +1

      Her and him back! They made good content together

  • @jessicamaliszewski5204
    @jessicamaliszewski5204 25 днів тому +918

    Marriage is hard without being in social media. The internet makes it that much harder. Kudos to both of you❤

    • @cambria533
      @cambria533 19 днів тому +1

      I was reading the comments are realized that my last name is part of your last name lol. Mine is Liszewski

  • @cassandranicholoff2229
    @cassandranicholoff2229 21 день тому +165

    0:05 The hold on that mans pecks! 🤣😂🤣

  • @kikirodriguez3249
    @kikirodriguez3249 23 дні тому +40

    EeEeehhh... it's giving "trying to cope"
    Idk babes, just because he didn't have a baby with that sex worker..
    The bar really is in hell isn't it.

    • @halroxdynasty8683
      @halroxdynasty8683 22 дні тому +34

      I'm so tired of these comments like yayyy take back the cheater 😂 it's okay we all go through the motions I'm sure she's going through it too but what she's doing right now is damage control...The part that got me is her saying "we both made mistakes" like nah, absolutely not, he made a mistake...when women say that I know they're doing damage control and that come to Jesus moment has not clicked yet...

    • @kikirodriguez3249
      @kikirodriguez3249 22 дні тому +19

      @@halroxdynasty8683 Jesus, I pray that you free this good woman from the illusion that this man loves her and is not just a jealous MITCH!! amen😌

    • @halroxdynasty8683
      @halroxdynasty8683 22 дні тому +13

      @@kikirodriguez3249 lmao 🤣 period...amen 🙏🏻

    • @cindykpower
      @cindykpower 22 дні тому +26

      Finally someone with common sense, these other comments got me feeling like crazy 🤣, she acting like this is nobody business but she was the one to bring the drama to us, and now is gaslighting us after a lot of us where rotting for her to be good 😮‍💨

    • @wearetheworld6962
      @wearetheworld6962 20 днів тому +19

      Ik, blaming social media that he was unfaithful?! Lolz, weird! I guess she needs someone or something to blame besides her own dam husband who created all this mess! N he cheated

  • @roxanahernandez5157
    @roxanahernandez5157 23 дні тому +534

    We understand. When someone is absolutely heartbroken, they can’t be in a good headspace, leading to unwise decisions out of hurt. We’re happy to see that the both of you are doing well and used this situation to gain wisdom in the end.

  • @samanthap.879
    @samanthap.879 25 днів тому +304

    Your maturity, grace, and wisdom shine ❤ I’ve always admired the way you carry yourself but especially this. You are a great example.

  • @BMarie774
    @BMarie774 19 днів тому +65

    Homegirl…you deserve far better. You know damn well.. you know damn well he treated you disgracefully and tried to make a fool of you in front of the WORLD. You can’t love someone and do what he did. He’s a pos and you deserve better. Your excuses for him are sad… there is no excuses.

    • @sophierescigno5064
      @sophierescigno5064 12 днів тому

      She's too far gone in it to realize sadly. This is what men do, they cheat on you with prostitutes and then they come crawling back with sad puppy eyes the moment they realize they can't take care of themselves. Once a cheater, always a cheater. She'll understand eventually

  • @Just_NJ
    @Just_NJ 2 дні тому +2

    I absolutely love how she worded this. I love how they didn’t divorce and that they are still together! God bless!❤

  • @gabiayala2495
    @gabiayala2495 23 дні тому +145

    Bless you, girl. I understand forgiveness, I just hope he treats you right & learns a lesson. If he does you wrong or talks down on you again, I hope you do what's right for you and your kids. You deserve so much better either way.

  • @Zamkuma
    @Zamkuma 25 днів тому +621

    Clearing this up definitely is good for both you and your husbands mental health honestly. I'm happy for you both! I hope more people stop believe everything they see on social media

  • @Citlalita_Muah
    @Citlalita_Muah 9 днів тому +5

    This is some of the realest shit not all social media couples are willing to put out there. Good for you girl! You’re right marriage isn’t easy and nobodies opinion should matter because at the end of the day, it’s your relationship!!

  • @blackdiamond9087
    @blackdiamond9087 22 дні тому +36

    She on her grown woman ish right here. Like it and wish you and your husband the best! 💯

  • @noturfaiiry
    @noturfaiiry 25 днів тому +638

    I feel like him and the chick made u believe this. i only say this bcs you didnt really bring it to social media, SHE DID. nobody knew it was legit true and nobody knew who it was till the third girl in this situation wanted her ten mins of fame. im glad yall worked through it.and wish yall best, but I feel like you hardly brought it to social media until you HAD TO , bcs people were starting malicious lies aka the one asking for her ten mins of fame.

    • @playadremingrl
      @playadremingrl 24 дні тому +217

      Thank you! I'm not a hater. But why is she the one taking accountability when they were the ones all over the internet demonizing her!? I'm just glad to see someone keeping it real in here

    • @abigail1994
      @abigail1994 24 дні тому +86

      Yes! I was like "girl you've always been the mature in this 'sitch" i don't have tik tok so maybe she spoke more on it when it was happening on *that* platform, idk, but she never gave any other energy to me. Real tight lipped ab it.

    • @abigail1994
      @abigail1994 24 дні тому +16

      Still nobodies business of course & always happy to see a family work it out❤️💅

    • @peachesandpoets
      @peachesandpoets 24 дні тому

      She sounds just like a victim of a narcissist who has believed the lies in the hoover 😂 It's fine, she'll be back crying when he embarrasses her again

    • @amorelockster1023
      @amorelockster1023 24 дні тому +62

      @@playadremingrl no Fr that man called her a user and made it seem like she never cared for him while Ashley still kept it classy

  • @playadremingrl
    @playadremingrl 24 дні тому +35

    All I will say is that I hope you are being treated well. YOU have nothing to apologize for, and YOU handled yourself with class the whole way.

  • @LiL.Pixxie
    @LiL.Pixxie 21 день тому +4

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 your marriage, your rules, your way, your business. I love how far youve come. We all can say and do things to hurt our significant other when we ourselves are hurting; that is a very human response to very human feelings. It speaks volumes you are able to stand back and objectively point out your mistakes and especially your shortcomings...make changes to better yourself, your relationship and especially your situation. Awesome work 👍🏽❤❤

  • @AuthenticallyAlvarez
    @AuthenticallyAlvarez 25 днів тому +94

    Amen. Well said and to the point. Period. End of story!
    I'm happy to hear this and wish you a lifetime of happiness together❤

  • @Berryations
    @Berryations 25 днів тому +149

    Unfortunately those rumors are going to always be around but hopefully fade out for the most part… marriage is tough and being human is tough, but I’m so glad you are both able to work things out!!❤❤

  • @sierramckay142
    @sierramckay142 10 днів тому +3

    i'm so sorry! i know things must be very tough, but you go Ashley! you are handling it so well and i'm so happy you guys ard working things out!

  • @Jeanniebugg
    @Jeanniebugg 15 днів тому

    I love this! Thank you for not giving up on your relationship! Thank you for being a good example to other couples who may be going through a rough patch.

  • @nebula-retrograde
    @nebula-retrograde 25 днів тому +105

    YES QUEEN ❤ This is a BSST CASE SCENARIO when it comes to divorce. It's crazy how people WANT you to stay broken up when you're trying to salvage a good thing instead of letting it fade away. I support you two 100% as I am in a similar situation with my ex-husband. ❤ true love always finds a way to bring soul mates back together!

    • @darkknight6219
      @darkknight6219 23 дні тому +2

      Are you and ex husband back together or are you in the process of getting back together, if you don't mind me asking? I'm in similar situation I'm currently separated from my wife but we are both fighting for each other and our marriage, we are slowly but surely getting there!

    • @nebula-retrograde
      @nebula-retrograde 23 дні тому +8

      @darkknight6219 we've been back together since 2020 and getting remarried soon. Nothing like a global pandemic to show us what really matters! 😆 We dated off and on through the whole divorce process. The divorce was only final for like 4 months before I moved back in with him. We had a lot to work through, but we did! We have a very healthy, happy relationship now. 💜 Don't give up on your wife, buddy. There's still a chance you two can work through whatever tore the two you apart if you want to badly enough. We did therapy and leaned on our faith to get through the first year of working things out. 🙏 My prayers are with you and your wife.

  • @AshlandB
    @AshlandB 24 дні тому +23

    I'm confused she said it obviously wasn't him but she believed it?

    • @VChukwu.
      @VChukwu. 19 днів тому +2

      No brain 🧠 😂

  • @FroggyFreg
    @FroggyFreg 14 днів тому +7

    I personally wouldn't stay with someone if they had cheated but it is your decision

    • @EclipticGremlin
      @EclipticGremlin 13 днів тому +4

      Did you watch the whole thing? Cuz he didn’t cheat. That guy in the video was a different man.

    • @FroggyFreg
      @FroggyFreg 13 днів тому

      @@EclipticGremlinoh not with another whole family silly

    • @---ul9eq
      @---ul9eq День тому

      @@EclipticGremlinJust because he doesn’t have a baby with someone else doesn’t mean he didn’t cheat.

    • @EclipticGremlin
      @EclipticGremlin День тому

      @@---ul9eq but how do you guys know he cheated?

    • @---ul9eq
      @---ul9eq День тому

      @@EclipticGremlin Because for the entire length of this video, in which she’s meant to be dispelling “rumours”, not once did she say “he didn’t cheat on me”. It’s so telling.
      And even disregarding that, you mean to tell me that man was texting a sex worker, confiding in her about all of his relationship troubles, and you believe he never once had sex with her? That’s extreme naivety.

  • @sarabarnette8738
    @sarabarnette8738 20 днів тому +1

    I’m so glad you were open and honest about the experience and openly admitted it shouldn’t have been on social media. Many ppl don’t have the balls to come out and say it once something has been said. I pray you two have a great future ahead!

  • @AprilLeon
    @AprilLeon 24 дні тому +19

    So happy for yall and you were 💯 correct about social media. Great message

  • @chloepackens4455
    @chloepackens4455 24 дні тому +709

    Thank you for sharing such an amazing message 🙏Indeed God’s blessings and manifestation over my family has come to pass. I am so grateful!❤️Awesome God ❤️my family are happy once again and can now afford anything for my family even with my Retirement.$67k weekly returns has been life changing, after so much struggles.

    • @KuramaUchiha-id1ow
      @KuramaUchiha-id1ow 24 дні тому +8

      Hello, how do you achieve such weekly returns? As a single parent i haven’t been able to get my own house due to financial struggles, but my faith in God remains strong.

    • @chloepackens4455
      @chloepackens4455 24 дні тому +2

      Maria Angelina Alexander I really appreciate her efforts and transparency.

    • @chloepackens4455
      @chloepackens4455 24 дні тому +1

      I remember giving her my first savings $20000 and she opened a brokerage account for me it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.

    • @amalmberg13
      @amalmberg13 24 дні тому

      This is a definition of God's unending provisions for his people. God remains faithful to his words. I receive this for my household.🙏

    • @NnamanichidiogoJennifer
      @NnamanichidiogoJennifer 24 дні тому

      Wow...I know her too she is a licensed broker and a FINRA agent she is popular in
      US and Canada she is really amazing woman with good skills and experience.

  • @blendofdays
    @blendofdays 22 дні тому

    I have made the exact same mistakes concerning social media & some folks are always so quick to jump in & make things so much worse. It's like they live to see other people suffer. Thanks for the update! 💜

  • @morganwhite2176
    @morganwhite2176 10 годин тому +1

    Great and mature way to explain your feelings, ignore anyone who criticises. They are not you, you are special.

  • @ultraviolence-
    @ultraviolence- 25 днів тому +89

    Happy that y’all were able to resolve things privately. Wishing happiness and longevity to you and your marriage 💞

  • @rebeckacalkins1616
    @rebeckacalkins1616 25 днів тому +47

    I'm glad you are taking time to work things through and dealing with the issues, rather than sitting here daily addressing each troll that is coming for you guys. You don't owe anyone an explanation or any information at all, bc your business is exactly that YOURS. You do what works for you. my ex husband and I had gone through quite a few rough patches that we didn't think we could get through. We have three kids together and wanted so badly for it to work, but we were young teens when we married so we didn't know what we were getting in to. We just thought that is what you are supposed to do when you care about someone and bring a life into this world. Its not easy by any means to make things work. We were able to work things out for over a decade before we did eventually have to cut ties bc we were creating a toxic environment for our kids and I didn't want them thinking any part of our anger towards each other was ok or normal. I made a lot of mistakes back then and I don't want to make any excuses for them. We did what we did, we screwed up, we dealt with our issues when we could and when we knew it was a wrap, we called it a day and went our own ways and are both better for it. You can't just exist/coexist, you have to be living it and both being happy, not keeping score or playing the blame game- also you should not have to compromise everything bc that too is unfair to both parties. Once you sacrifice so much neither of you are the same person you were and can't be true to yourself if you are living as someone else's image of you rather than being authentic. You both deserve to be happy whatever that looks like. Thanks for being real and sharing your story with us. A lot of people need to hear that social media is not all facts and that you need to check your sources and do your due diligence before going out there and trolling people who are clearly going thru something difficult. Speaking kind words costs nothing. I hope things truly work out for you both as a couple. Love to you and your family.

  • @AlliMama3
    @AlliMama3 17 днів тому +1

    Love always wins!!! 🥰🥰🥰 I’m so happy for yall! I wish you many many many more years of love and patience and blessings ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jenniferjayne9912
    @jenniferjayne9912 10 днів тому +2

    GIRL!!!! Healthy, happy, mature, smart men & women champion people working on their marriage.
    I’m so unbelievably happy that you two are still together & are working on yourselves individually & together, as a couple.
    Always sending extra well wishes & prayers your way. So happy for you both. ❤🙏🏽

  • @PotooBurd
    @PotooBurd 25 днів тому +172

    Boosting for the algorithm 🙌 Love your work, keep it up! 🌻🐝

    • @sm-yj7nu
      @sm-yj7nu 24 дні тому

      Please explain what you mean TIA ❤

  • @CrustyUgg
    @CrustyUgg 24 дні тому +33

    As long as you're happy... one of my biggest issues in my past relationships is being made to look like a fool. I personally couldn't have my spouse embarrass me for the world to see. We all handle things differently though. Glad you guys are happy.

    • @iija5238
      @iija5238 3 дні тому +2

      Thought this too... love is respect and you don't do shit like this to people you respect. I hope all is well now and that she knows her worth. Their kids are my biggest concern in this situation, I hope they have a safe and peaceful home and parents who model healthy love for them.

  • @tylerlevasseur9066
    @tylerlevasseur9066 21 день тому

    Congratulations. I'm so glad you have ultimately chosen to stand up for yourself. You sound like great people who are growing off of each other, and still learning individualizing as well as bringing that individuality together.

  • @kaethanx
    @kaethanx 14 днів тому

    always so well spoken, graceful and articulate. ❤

  • @Shamika2391
    @Shamika2391 24 дні тому +18

    Amen! It is definitely worth fighting for. Im happy for you both.

  • @virginiaferrer1
    @virginiaferrer1 25 днів тому +24

    You are amazing and keep being amazing … I’m glad everything is working out 💪🏾💪🏾many blessings to you and your family

  • @Bjsvoice
    @Bjsvoice 14 днів тому

    Thank you for sharing this!! I admire the decision you’ve made to keep it private ❤ your marriage is indeed worth fighting for ❤

  • @jj-vj1fv
    @jj-vj1fv 15 днів тому +6

    hair suits you so well

  • @No_Name__02
    @No_Name__02 25 днів тому +66

    2:18 marriage isn’t easy but when THEY choose to start texting another female behind your back how you Trust them after that ? Like he’s not gonna do it again but be more sneakier ? Lol

    • @sibaibaiba
      @sibaibaiba 24 дні тому +5

      1. “Females” …?
      2. She said it wasn’t him so relevance please?

    • @Blue_Fire_1013
      @Blue_Fire_1013 21 день тому +32

      @@sibaibaibano she said he didn’t have a baby with another women. You obviously weren’t there when it went down because he even admitted he was talking to her

    • @wearetheworld6962
      @wearetheworld6962 20 днів тому

      @@Blue_Fire_1013facts

    • @DeeLite220
      @DeeLite220 20 днів тому +6

      They were separated and divorcing. Maybe that was enough for him to wake up to what he was losing? Plus if it happens again she WILL divorce him. She almost did this time.

    • @thtsnotmia
      @thtsnotmia 20 днів тому +4

      it is her marriage. she doesn’t owe yu an explanation nor should yu be asking for one

  • @Lahteehdah
    @Lahteehdah 24 дні тому +9

    Thank you for the transparency. There was a bigger message here and i thank you for that. I also hear you!! Marriage is absolutely worth fighting for. That is why unconditional love exists. God bless❤

  • @merandaspeers5607
    @merandaspeers5607 19 днів тому

    I’m really proud of the two of you for working it out. Wow! I’m so happy for your family! Marriage is between two people and maintaining that sacred bond is a reminder to us all! Sending lots of love and energy!

  • @jacquesc0usteau
    @jacquesc0usteau 19 днів тому

    So glad you two have been working it out, you both seem like LOVELY people and deserve ALL the happiness together. My husband and I have just had our first wedding anniversary (on our 9th anniversary together, lol) and the silly banter and energy you have together is what I want to keep fostering with my husband too ❤

  • @emeralddream4428
    @emeralddream4428 23 дні тому +8

    I love it!!! You are a beautiful woman and a beautiful family fighter!!! You can't be a lover and not a fighter, you can't love what you can't fight for. God bless you and your family.🙏🏾❤️

  • @nickiebledsoe6302
    @nickiebledsoe6302 25 днів тому +54

    Well said! All that matters is that you both are happy and thriving and that you both are doin what's best for you two as husband and wife and as individuals and as a family. The rest doesn't matter! Girl you have my supprt and I'm gonna mind ny own business and be happy for you both and be happy for your family! 💖🙂

  • @venti9925
    @venti9925 23 дні тому

    Subbed for this raw ass honesty. It's rare to see. Glad to hear a majority of this was all rumors!

  • @TamaraLynnchambers
    @TamaraLynnchambers 21 день тому +10

    Oh man. I feel this so hard. It’s so painful to be going about your day and to see a false but incredibly hurtful statement about you or your family. Hate that you had to do this to clear it up but you always keep it so real, like there is just nothing to hate. You rule and I’m so happy for you and your family 💜

  • @mckenzie5550
    @mckenzie5550 24 дні тому +11

    Good for you Ashley!!! Wishing you, your hubby, & babies nothing but the best!! 😊❤

  • @yolandawilson6619
    @yolandawilson6619 25 днів тому +8

    I'm glad to see you both!! Stay prayed up!💙💖🩷🩵

  • @volcanixthanksyoufortheviewz
    @volcanixthanksyoufortheviewz 12 днів тому

    ❤ you've always been such an inspiration to me. Thanks for your honesty and for expressing your boundaries. It is none if our business, but I am glad you shared this with us. ❤

  • @slat.7680
    @slat.7680 22 дні тому

    Thank you for being Vulnerable ❤There is many dimensions in life, knowing when to separate them can be tough, financial, mentally, emotionally, and even physically sometimes ❤ We go through what we grow through, IF YOU LET IT. Great for you Ashley, don't let Anyone Steal what was Already Yours to Begin With❤ Heavy on the Power and the Energy that comes with it❤This is what people mean, when they say, stay woke, keep that Third Eye open❤You got this❤Rooting 4 U❤

  • @Peachesloveseveryone
    @Peachesloveseveryone 25 днів тому +57

    Wow! That is an excellent way to demonstrate development! I am extremely proud of you and hope that you and your spouse experience nothing but the best.

  • @susanmcquaig2927
    @susanmcquaig2927 25 днів тому +8

    I’m glad you’re working things out. Mistakes happen. What we choose to do with that is up to us. Moving on with your marriage takes a lot of hard work. Keep on y’all! Happy for you! ❤

  • @favoredhustlekai
    @favoredhustlekai 22 дні тому

    So much respect for you. Out of all the people going through this. Your accountability is top tier! I love your maturity sis! Whole heartedly it’s no one’s business but you ate sis !
    And congratulations on your success

  • @nataliegail5450
    @nataliegail5450 23 дні тому

    Good for you both! People give up too easily and quickly these days 😔. I wish you all the very best as you work things out 🙏🏽. Your best days are ahead of you! 😊

  • @TheCorinne785
    @TheCorinne785 25 днів тому +5

    Enough said ! I am glad you are doing well and that you are resolving your problems privately. ❤

  • @No_Name__02
    @No_Name__02 25 днів тому +17

    You wasn’t assuming anything though cause HE ADMITTED TO CHEATING EMOTIONALLY AND THROUGH TEXT . so why the fuck is she lying so bad

  • @Mils908Plfd
    @Mils908Plfd 22 дні тому

    I love this! I appreciate you both for fighting for your marriage! 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @raevenbrooke3030
    @raevenbrooke3030 2 дні тому +1

    Love the lashes. Love the clarity. Love the Love. Rooting for u guys❤

  • @LIVEINPEACE2023
    @LIVEINPEACE2023 25 днів тому +36

    And the people rejoiced!!! 🙌🎉

  • @gem9535
    @gem9535 25 днів тому +68

    I deleted Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Reddit for my mental health. I also tweaked tf out of my UA-cam feed.
    I am not kidding when I say that my mental health has dramatically improved. Idgaf about what people say about "echo chambers." I get enough exposure from ~touching grass~ and don't need reactive, depressing sh*t in my feed 24/7.
    I have more energy, my relationships have improved, I feel a lot better about myself, and, ngl, I feel smarter. Like, my brain has stopped wasting its energy on rage bait and depressing crap and has started actually processing stuff I want it to.
    My mother has recently downloaded Facebook and I warned her about how toxic that platform is (easily one of the worst platforms out of the ones I've listed) and to just be careful. Algorithm-based are designed to keep your attention, not make you happy.

    • @hell0there
      @hell0there 25 днів тому +3

      Man the “echo chambers” part got me too. I thought having a wide range of posts on Reddit, instagram, and UA-cam would make me a more well rounded and intellectual person, but all it did was give me a whole bunch of new insecurities and anger. Can’t delete many of those apps but I will definitely be pulling back my screen time on them, refining what I see to remove rage bait, and literally touch more grass. People I see irl are so much more positive than the negativity on social media for real

    • @Platizza
      @Platizza 24 дні тому +3

      Good job ! Most people can't step away from it

    • @DDBAMBAM87
      @DDBAMBAM87 24 дні тому +3

      I erased Facebook instagram twitter I’m so happy it’s been 3 years I stay on UA-cam it’s less stress

    • @gem9535
      @gem9535 24 дні тому

      @@Platizza Ngl, I fr got withdrawals after I went cold turkey. I deleted all of them before I could psych myself out and I was so irritable and tired for the first MONTH. I had to lock myself in my room sometimes because I didn't trust myself not to snap at someone.
      I actually made another Reddit account and swore to just use it for fish stuff (I'm a fish keeper). Had to delete that account three months later because I was getting into the same vicious cycle and I jumped ship fast.
      Social media truly is addicting because it's an easy serotonin-boost. It rewires our brains to need it. Terrifying.

    • @gem9535
      @gem9535 24 дні тому

      This is actually getting a bit of attention, so here's a pro-tip. If you have an iPhone (no idea if Android has something like this), you can go to Accessibilities and have your phone turn into greyscale by clicking the Home button three times.
      Colors are a big way apps (including social media) get you to stay on. Turn everything black, white, and grey and you lose interest fast.
      Settings->Accessibility->Accessibility Shortcut->Select 'Color Filters'
      :D

  • @brittanysfarmlifeCC
    @brittanysfarmlifeCC 21 день тому

    So proud of you!! I’ve had your back this whole time and ILL KEEP HAVING YOUR BACK!! I appreciate your maturity, mentality, personality, all of it! You rock, keep on rockin’ Ash!! 💪🙌🩷

  • @Thee.blkCastaspella
    @Thee.blkCastaspella 22 дні тому

    Awwww proud of you both!! Rooting for yall!!

  • @kij7412
    @kij7412 24 дні тому +29

    Okay but I'd never be with a man again that made a video about me on the intetnet saying hurtful things even tho 3 minutes ago he still was my boyfriend sooo... its really your choice.

  • @NaeNaeNicki
    @NaeNaeNicki 25 днів тому +6

    Love this!!! The two of you are perfect together!!! So happy you stayed strong and together!!!!! ❤

  • @Wickeddesertlotus95
    @Wickeddesertlotus95 11 днів тому

    Very amazing to see this mature content come across social media... VERY VERY IMPRESSED THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR BRAVERY FOR DOING WHAT YOU JUST DONE!!! LOVE IT❤❤❤

  • @kelseabelle9726
    @kelseabelle9726 19 днів тому

    Omg I'm so happy with ur decision you made was amazing!! U put both urselfs befor anything else and had communication!! No one should know about ur home life that for u too but I'm so happy u took the time u needed!! Love u too!!

  • @astatine0085
    @astatine0085 25 днів тому +50

    God bless! So glad to hear you guys are staying in the fight. Communication (amongst yourselves) is the golden key to your success.

  • @eternalriver7866
    @eternalriver7866 24 дні тому +4

    God bless you. That’s great you 2 decided it’s worth fighting for

  • @SamiT-zj1tw
    @SamiT-zj1tw 4 дні тому +1

    I’m so happy you guys got back together I remember telling all my friends about your funny videos! And it’s so awesome that you guys really fought for your marriage I just think that is so special!!!❤

  • @michelleperez7079
    @michelleperez7079 22 дні тому

    Oh thank goodness! Im so glad you two are still together!! I truly want to see you two win at life together ❤️

  • @imagaybanana2004
    @imagaybanana2004 25 днів тому +6

    Amen Ashley!!! Love you, and wish nothing but the best for you. 🥰

  • @beeCanadian
    @beeCanadian 25 днів тому +6

    I love you two together. Sending you love from Canada. ❤ We all make mistakes, we all have tough times. We're human.

  • @Freckles1124
    @Freckles1124 6 днів тому

    Communication and commitment, deciding not to give up when times get hard. You both will be so much stronger for this! Happy for you both!

  • @sierrawilliams5982
    @sierrawilliams5982 21 день тому +2

    That’s right boo! 👏Don’t let these folks trick you out of your happiness💗

  • @dswebb3286
    @dswebb3286 24 дні тому +24

    Good for both of you. Marriage is hard, I can't imagine the added pressure under the spotlight. Mistakes get made but I applaud you for both continuing to put in the work.

  • @lotoya._is.my_name
    @lotoya._is.my_name 25 днів тому +90

    I’m just happy you’re happy ❤

  • @acar7421
    @acar7421 20 днів тому

    THIS! This was what was needed and what was deserved as you did put your life out there for others to watch. But good for you about this

  • @dopedreamz
    @dopedreamz 23 дні тому +1

    Love love love this! Be blessed you two!

  • @BrittSama
    @BrittSama 24 дні тому +4

    I’m actually really happy for you! ❤ that is so big of both of you to admit your wrongs and come together to build a better relationship. I bet the kids will also be so happy. Love and support girl!

  • @AddyT127
    @AddyT127 25 днів тому +11

    You are brave and beautiful! Thank you for sharing this. You are so right. Keep it in the real world folks!! 👏 and remember, we live in a world of the walking wounded. We all bear our own hurts and sorrows. And not everyone is at their point to choose to tackle things. Be gracious, because adding to it never helps anyone.

  • @113016ify
    @113016ify 20 днів тому

    Good for you I didn’t even know about this situation however, I’m happy for you and your husband! Social media is the devil 90% of the time and I believe all relationships family and spouses should stay private!

  • @Efox1213
    @Efox1213 25 днів тому +7

    Amen - you’re doing the right thing. Keep up the work!

  • @rachelgessner816
    @rachelgessner816 25 днів тому +12

    All that matters is y’all are happy, please don’t ever feel like you owe anyone any explanation for anything ❤❤

  • @devilinadress37
    @devilinadress37 8 днів тому

    I'm glad you both worked through it. At first i saw the video and it did look like him but its clearly not him. You guys are great and ignore them. They don’t know your situation. Keep the love alive ❤

  • @xxletm3loveyouxx734
    @xxletm3loveyouxx734 5 днів тому

    Thanks for the update! Glad y’all are working through it and healing ❤️‍🩹 wishing you two all the best, and bountiful blessings to come in your union.

  • @cvealjr3811
    @cvealjr3811 22 дні тому

    Glad y’all are working together to make it better. Y’all are good together 🙌🏾

  • @kimw1520
    @kimw1520 25 днів тому +6

    Good for y'all. So happy that you are working it out.