Hey big sisters, Hide my ID 🙈 Responding to your dilemmas | Episode 43
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- Опубліковано 10 тра 2022
- We love that you guys trust us with what’s going on with your lives. this episode is all about that. We get quite a lot of dilemmas so we wanted to do an episode so we can help some Queenbetweeneers together.
From dilemmas about boundaries to dating… we can all use a little advice in the messy inbetween.
Enjoy the listen and follow us for more content!
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This should be a thing, say once a month you compile questions and answer 👏🏼
Looking lovely as usual 🥰
We love that you love it!
I agree!!!
You promised to bring your significant others on the show once you reach the 50k mark 😌😌😌😌
Yes they did
Qsn 1: Closed mouths don't get fed.
Men are different, there are those who don't need to be asked and there are those who need it verbalized to them. Especially with feminism, some men fear offering because they assume you might get offended.
Present a problem and let him be your hero. It's called being a damsel.
After this if he fails to help and is able to then you might need to reexamine your relationship.
"that one is hard small yaani ni Ngumu kidogo" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂aah okay
So Murugi said she was starting with an easy question and cheyyyyy that was such a hard question 😂😂
Idk how I ended on TMI but it’s really changed my relationship with my Ghanaian man🥺🙏🏾💖
Am proud to say am a Ugandan inbetweener
Received love from Kenya 🇰🇪
I love that we have access to this kind of information and I am more empowered to educate my daughter who’s turning 13 this year. Growing up… I was just winging it and I have had to go through loads of character development on this streets ! Keep doing what you are doing!
I love this episode and how well you handled the questions.
HIV is an area that has alot of misinformation and misconception which leads to a lot of stigma.
First of all, dating a -ve person doesnt mean using condoms all your lives. If the person is on ARVs with time they become undetectable and therefore cant transmit but not many people know that.
Personally, I would advice any +ve person who wants to date a -ve person to take time to know what that person knows about the topic, what their views about +ve people are and whether they would be comfable dating one. Just find a way to bring up the topic and listen what they have to say before you tell them about your status or even dating them.
To the lady being harassed at work: collect all evidence possible before reporting. When it is "your word against mine", people tend to believe the men more. Keep messages, record conversations if you can etc then report. That way you have evidence in case you are not believed.
I've loved this episode. The boundaries topic was answered so well plus the telling the truth in bits to a child who asks for their dad according to their age. Lovely .
"are you willing to go to his graduation"🤣
this video is entertaining but also very insightful🌟
Ladies you are doing a great job . God continue to bless you all .
I have gone to my village. To get the remaining 400+ people. We must hit 50K this week🥰🥰
Waendee please 😂😂😂
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50K Followers it is. 💃💃💃💃💃💃💃My village people did it. I never hespererrit😂😂😂 TMI is at 50k🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
50k it is
@@rhena4249 Hihi 😆
That guy in the first dilemma is such a red flag it's not even funny. I just hope whatever problems they have now, she will be ok having them in her marriage. If she is ok then that's fine. Believe a man when he shows you who he is. That one is stingy... And the fact that you can't talk to him about finances is another red flag.
True ,he is definitely stingy if he hasn't even bought a single gift in 9 months and the fact that she is not even comfortable to ask him for anything shows that she is not comfortable at all with the partner.
I know. It's such a red flag
Exactly. He's imposing the miss independent trope on her. Almost like shaming her for trying to communicate financial strain. It's okay to depend on your man... Not 100% but to a degree
Agree wholeheartedly. Also, that he thinks it's ok that she comes from a rich family implies some chip on his shoulder/inferiority complex that is just a recipe for trouble in future
My guuurrllls 🥳🥳🥳 learning a lot from you thank you 😊
Wow! Lydia you're always deep and thoughtful💕💕💕
Found this channel two weeks ago and I've watched all the 43 episodes,,helped alot in the issues I was dealing with,,thank you ❤️
Great conversations. Hapo kwa family boundaries need to be said. 30:30 On that domestic violence she can call GBV helpline for counseling and assistance. Nawapenda warembo👏🏾👏🏾🔥❤️.
I feel the same. Every time I finish watching an episode, I am so sad because I have to wait until the next Wednesday for another episode
On the Lady being sexually harassed at work, if she can get evidence,
Phone messages/recordings e.t.c even better for when she shares or reports the supervisor.
Because you know "Innocent until proven guilty" culture and ass humans just not believing that a woman can say No and a man needs to respect that.
Yes definitely! Thanks for this
I totally second.
Here for Murugi Munyi saying that your boyfriend should probably be the last person you asking money from, well it should be a realible source but not an immediate source
Congratulations on 50K TMI 🥳
You all are my heavenly blessing. Thank you for such beautiful, empowering and strengthening content.
Wow....you guys really teach me alot kwanza hapo kwa family boundaries I've learnt alot. Hapo kwa the 26 and 21 year old student I once had that encounter. I do hawk perfumes so this boy was my customer then it reaches a point he is like,by the way I do admire you alot . Then I was like thank you but I am a mum because he seemed young. He had my number so sometimes he would call me and escort me home but at one point I asked him his age and he goes like am 21 and I was 23 then . I would rather date my agemate than someone younger than me so I just told me I can't date him.
that lonely question I affiliate it to bread crumbling, there people who can't openly tell you they are fed up with you but keep you around for whenever it's convenient for them
your content is lit🔥 am happy to be here❤️
When someone asks you guys to hide her identity please respect that.
But they do
That graduation comment had me rolling though😂😂
I love your podcasts your personality blends like an old fine wine
Looking gorgeous as always guys!🥰🥰🥰
Lyd got engaged? congratulations 🥰
Already obsessed in this channel 😂😂
love the synergy❤keep going ghels❤😂
The conversation was amazing..thanks Murugi and Lydia..
Much love guys you educate us ❤️❤️
I have been following Murugi since Mukeni was a baby. And the moment I became a mom, last year, I had very ready plugs.
It's mutana and mukeni 😊
@@joycemburu8041 I meant Mukeni was born. Thanks for that correction. Now who is mukami surely 🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️
@@beatricemuringi4120 Lydia is Mukami lolz!!
Please do a part 2 of this
Lydia's expressions on train run " you you're just there" has killed me...😂
You both look lovely as usual.
I really love this discussion especially on the buffers
LoooooL true, soon as you start saving mom information, you will become a mom so quickly! It's unbelievable 🤣
Great job girls! 😉 You give great advice and why don't you both get certified in counselling and psychotherapy as well? Just an Idea 🙂 Love you both ❣️❣️
I’m a big fan, so much love for you guys, all the way from Australian 🇦🇺. It will be so cool if u guys do live audiences show.
TMI GANG FOR LIFE,,👍👍👍
I keep loving the style/dresses please drop us links eeh!!
I sweaarrr im obseeeeesssed with yall
Someone once told me reason mums snap when asked about their estranged dad's is coz it makes them feel like what they are doing is inadequate and hence why ur asking about the dad which may not really be the case
One of my fav episode 😍😍
Yaani I've just realised that the heartbreak from a younger guy made me recess that memory to the point I forgot I've ever dated one! 😅 Crazy
Guys I don't know how to appreciate you enough because watching TMI has been really educative and I have related to 75% of the things you guys be discussing on here. Now about the financial dilemma my best friend always feels like she is entitled to a guy's money anytime they start talking and all. It's so bad that she would come home complaining if she went out on a date or to see the guy and was not given any money on her way back. Guys aki munisaidie how do I get her to understand she has no right to feel entitled to anything that isn't hers?
We have had fights about this by the way, so many times.
I'm new here and definitely loving it ❤❤❤😊... Already subscribed 🎉
I can't believe I've been here since episode one, day one. What an amazing way to unwind on a Wednesday ❤️❤️❤️. Nothing but love and good vibes from me. I'm also here just waiting on Wild by Murugi Munyi with so much love.
I'm addicted to you 🥺❣️
I thought I will be among the premier gang gang today,,,,but my big sisters decided that they won't premier this video today
Nawapendaaa!!!!🤎🤎🤎
Yaani today am the first one😍😍😍😍
I want Lydia's dress.so gorge...where did you buy it pls
Great job ladies 💞🙌❤️❣️💝👐👐👐👐💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
Waiting a week for an episode ain't easy
WATCHING ALL THE WAY FROM ST.VINCENT AND THE GRENADINES
Boundaries with family 😭😭😭. Anyway, is their an episode where they react to anonymous subscriber dark secrets?
great job guys
Non hiv partner takes prep (pre exposure profiluxus) or pep
Yassssssss👏👏👏👏
Love you lydia n murugi awesome content.
Lyd, I'd missed the forehead... What happened to the t's & jeans - perfect attire!
Lydia gives such great advice 😭 to have her as a friend!
'that one is hard small' 😂😂😂😂😂 cracked my ribs
Poor Murugi....she was so traumatized train ....pole
Aren't Meru ladies effortlessly stunning?
Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh ......@50k
i havent read the comments ,but what if you are work mates?
What if the guy is 21 and not in school and hustling. I also believe that his upbringing could have made him so mature. These are dynamics that also need to be considered, I believe.
That's a lie.. There's nothing like maturity pre 25😅
@@nyamburaadventures_ke That depends actually. Maturity is brought by responsibility. Give the guy a chance. 😂😂
The guy in this dilemma is student studying in K. U
@@christinejuma4819 I thought it was the lady in dilemma
The lady is in a dilemma but the dilemma also involves a guy who is a student in K. U
I can't stand a stingy man,,,I love me a generous man lol!
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For the first question, why does the lady feel entitled to her boyfriends financial help? I think she has the wrong expectations, they are dating not married. She needs to ensure that she is financially independent and not to be supported by her boyfriend. If she is sick or has a disability then yes she should be financially supported otherwise no!
I'm early today):-
That first lady needs to get a job.
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Hi Ladies! Lovely episode today. About the 1st dilemma of the broke girl with a boyfriend whom she would like financial assistance from, I loved Lydia's take. My addition to that would be2 things:
1) are they dating with marriage in mind/next level? If so, then they should already be having discussions on finances and how to go about them especially when such instances as one income source is all they may have. 9 months is long enough a relationship to have already had this talk. This informs how such things shall be handled in future because many marriages have been broken for this reason.
2) Him saying that 'she comes from a rich family' is very telling of his attitude towards finances where she is concerned. Does this mean that should she be in a financial fix in future should they get married, that is who she should turn to and not her partner? Food for thought.
Else, keep up the great job ladies!
Hello honey's!!
Why don't you discuss issues affecting teens 🥰🥰
So murugi acting like a sweet 16 gal 😂😂 touching hair dress 😂 unnecessary things
For the girl who is dating the 21 year old. Maybe his only consistent because she is giving him $$$.
I thought am the first one😂
hahahaha same
Is Lydia growing fat tummy ?
I like the conversation...but am distracted by the heavy makeup. TOO MUCH!
🙄🙄look away, they don’t exist by the stamp of your approval.
You realize that it's a podcast? You can listen on other apps. Don't bring incel vibes on this podcast
Close your eyes and listen🤣🤣🤣Don't police women's make up. They actually look really good.
Jipe shughuli.
Wear your own light makeup Dennis.
Good job sisters people let's subscribe this content is 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@lydia and @murugi I love you 💞💞💞
If you don't smile when Lyd and Jo say it's *definitely TMI* are you even a true inbetweener 💃🏾🥰😉
Aren't Meru ladies effortlessly stunning?