Things We Learnt While Being Single | Our Journeys in Singleness ft Jules and Lydia K M- Part One
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- Опубліковано 5 лип 2023
- Hello BKS lovers! Welcome to season two of The Best Kept Secret Podcast. On this episode Jules, Lydia and our host Sharon share their Best Kept Secrets on things they've learnt while being single and what their journeys in singleness looked like.
Please share YOUR best kept secret on singleness in the comment section.
Thank you for watching.
Jules ,sharon and lydia is definitely the trio i never knew i needed omg.I've subscribed immediately Someone to like this comment so i can come back and watch
Only Jesus can really fill that 'hole'. Everything else is temporary and superficial. I've been single for 10 years and God has kept me.
Truth!
😮😮and do you flirt
Danganya maasai
@@damarlswanjlru6935 no. To be clear I didn't intentionally choose it to be 10 years but that's what's happened. I'm 31, I believe by virtue of being single and celibate these last 10 years, I've avoided a lot of recklessness that comes with the age between 20-30 as you discover who you are. Haven't had to take contraception, worry about pregnancy and STIs, no baby daddy drama and not to mention soul ties. I'd say in many ways,I have been spared a lot. I'm a Christian so that informed my decision. My initial decision was to keep myself until marriage and it still is. Of course I see others get married and have kids and want that too but I want it the right way, the God way. So I'm enjoying my singlehood working on myself(that's something else I noticed was lacking in my previous relationship. I experienced trauma as a child and kept putting that burden on my partner. I'm still healing but in a much better place than I was before.) I've made peace with my decision and if I don't get married, although I do desire a Godly union, there's so many children that deserve love and I will adopt. However, even within that I will maintain my celibacy journey because I obey God and it has never failed me. As a Christian I've come to learn that anytime you obey God, you gain more than you lose and that's how I intend to live.
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Wherever Jules and Lydia go ,
I follow 😌❤️❤️
I second you😅
And to think I wouldn't have "known" them were it not for social media😂
I third you ❤❤❤
Me too ❤
So be me❤
Learing that you are enough by yourself is not just for single people. I feel like even in a relationship you need to find peace at being yourself first and never loose that.
❤Feeling enough feels like a tree that produces apples and other people benefit by plucking the apples and eating them. If you were a tree, what are you producing? If nothing, check your soil, climate etc, not another tree. Hope that makes sense to whoever needs it.
On cheating...it's just a concept, if you buy a tap for your kitchen and it gets spoilt, replace it, if you don't you'll get dehydrated. So some men and women cheat to fill their cup, they don't want to fix their tap...on that note, you can't fill someone fully, they have to fill themselves first. That's what being enough is to my level of understwnsing. Unlearning alot of those things we learnt is the work.
This good conversion. Being single is not easier thing.i lost my wife and it has not been easier but i thank God I am born again. God will led me to right person suitable wife for me .
This didn't feel like a podcast episode but a conversation among friends.
This was lovely,can't wait for part 2❤
I loved it here. Thank you Sharon K ❤. Lydia my darling, always a pleasure! Jules xo
We stan you Jules
I love Jules..she is very authentic,Lydia ❤ she has good energy...wisdom..
lydia with jules in one episode😍😍😍
Jules and Lydia should start up a podcast❤️❤️❤️what a combo goodjob🎉
When love finds me again, l want it to find me submerged in my own love....Lydiaaa😢😢
I don't know how to act😍😍😍my favs on one single episodee😭❤Goooddddd !
And you aren't alone
Immediately yes ❤
Saaaaame😭😭😭❤❤❤
I know right 🤗
You're not alone
My way of showing myself love is going out on solo dates i rewrite my goals,tick goals achieved.. enjoy good food, ...take good pics.. some days solo movie dates.
Woow i should try this
Jules and lydia should be friends
Infact they should have a podcast. They are so similar
I really love Lydia and Jules together do something for us girls
Rich conversations.
Yes please
They are great friends❤
I am 26 and I relate so much to Julia. In a job I don't love and so lonely but I'm so adamant on quality over quantity
It's gonna be okay hunny
@liliankamau5164 I understand what you mean. I just got a new job a few months ago and Imposter syndrome has been real. So i have been feeling so down and lonely since I moved to a new town. To make it worse I am going through a break up. So in short I know what you mean but i believe it gets easy with time.
Girl i know what you mean and i feel you, i am 25 i got pregnant at 23 went through a shitty break up and had bed rest most of my pregnancy i had to move back to my parents and completely depend on them.. now am approaching twenty six trying to figure out what the hell i want to do with my life and watching everyone else "win" in life
You define me some years back
Are all the 25 and 26-year-olds in the same boat? Cause I'm here too, feels like I'm moving but not getting anywhere! Sigh.
Where Jules is,i am there! ni kama aliniwekea juju🤣🤣🤣
Mee tooooo🔥🔥🔥
Me too😅
Same😂😂😂😂😂
@28 the feeling of loneliness is a real giant. Self-doubt,,sleepless nights, tears ,,but then again realising that it is a phase that will eventually come to an end keeps me moving
Sharon gives me pretty queen quiet confidence 😍. Like angelic
Jules is just good vibezz period,
Lydia is vibes and also like a very good friend 😊.
Love love this podcast
Before i was betrayed i betrayed myself 😮
So true...
And over 25 which is on a break 😭😭
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Jules & Lydia should start something together ❤️
Where ever I see lydia, I pause everything and watch, you ladies look stunning
Anywhere Jules is...is where my heart is. Amazing conversation Ladies!
Yesss team jules
This was soooo insightful. 👏👏👏 Cannot wait for Part 2.
Educative and relatable conversation. No to idolizing marriage no matter our age.
Can't take my eyes off Lydia's jacket ❤❤❤
The two are just🥰🥰the best and thanks for sharing this with us
Can't wait for part two🎉🎉This is wholesome!
This is very insightful. Thank you guys❤
Just what I needed today. Very educative😊
Your hair looks good 😍😍 Sharon!
This felt so therapeutic and such an eye opener!
Such a wholesome conversation ❤️love love this
Best kept secret combo!!! These three are gold!!!
Love this and I can relate to so much of this conversation😊
Such an eye opener conversation
Thank you for bringing Jules and Lydia.
this was amazing. A girl was taking notes! Looking forward to part two
I really enjoyed this episode ❤️🤗
I loved loved this episode 💗
This was so beautiful to listen to. I definitely will re-listen
So interesting and helpful✅✅💙
This is very eye opening, I love the insights
This is top tier explicit 💥💯💕...love y'all ❤️ ❤️❤️
Waiting for part two❤.. learning alot
Beauty & brains.. looking all amazing
Favs in one video😍 Definatelyy here for it!
Such an insightful conversation. I loved this episoide🥰
Totally loved the whole conversation
I rarely comment but this episode wow just wow ,thanks manze for sharing this
so much wisdom in just one video !! ❤❤
Beautiful conversation
This was a whole therapy session!!! Can't wait for part 2.
The content is amazing but wolluuup Sharon I need details on that crown
This is soo good,loved it Jules, Lydia following you religiously where you go ❤️❤️❤️
Amazing, I love the conversation
So many gems
Very insightful and fun ,I always enjoy Jules energy❤thank you.
Currently in this alone phase and I appreciate your insights to this
Will really help a bunch 🙏
Today's podcast was full of wisdom 🔥🔥🔥✨. Thank you ladies 🥰🥰🥰.
Am new in this channel 😊and am already loving this 🎉sharon you're soo audible and clear ❤i love that
Jules, you have been my compass in the whole psychology/soul-searching and healing journey for a while now. I just want to say a big thank you to you.
New subscriber from Zambia! I loved this video. Thank you for this. This was inspired by God.
Very educative and relatable episode
I like the part that you guys talk about responsibility I have been blaming others but from now I'll be taking responsibility.thanks girls your the best 💗🥰💯
I am not currently single , but I appreciate your insight. Somethings I did when single and I agree being content when single and knowing it's a season is the cream of the cake .
Definitely here for Jules
This is amazing💯
And two of my favourites are here
Amazing times here today
Wonderful episode Sharon💗
Podcasts are genius.. we really are so similar as humans and I appreciate the wisdom from these sisters🫶🏾
This is just amazing❤❤❤really learning alot
I wholly embrace such wholesome meaningful insightful conversations.... Thank you for sharing and being authentic in the process! ❤❤
The best of Lydia and Jules. I feel healed coz it's like this conversation is for me.
All the way from South Africa, thanks for this video @Sharon. Such an incredible video n being exposed to the incredible guests.
In a relationship, and I loved every single second of this. Woow, such gems, so beautiful.
Thank you girls🎉
This is beautiful and authentic ❤
Not me taking notes 📝 Oooh this was for me ❤
I totally relate with Jules....human connection is so important
Such a wholesome conversation👌👌, also the three of you can launch another podcast 😊
such an empowering video
Jules you look amazing.
Woooow, discovering yourself is the first step before relationship
Great conversation! Love love it! Came for Jules and Lydia and I loved it!!! Watching from Uganda.🇺🇬
Part two pliiizzz 😭❤️❤️
This was amazing,have really learned more and most of the things have discovered about myself and working on them. Thanks so much .
Yhoo! All my faves #Lyd❤ and #Jules❤ in same session. I know I'm gonna enjoy this one😎😅. Good vibes🔥🔥.
It was my first time coming across your channel. I enjoyed the conversation, it is relatable and I can’t wait for part 2😊. 🇿🇦
Powerful discussion, educational and eye opening. I like the fact that you share things that are hardly shared because we are scared of disgrace from our communities, I can relate to a lot of what you discussed.
This are points to write down and internalize bcz its very hepful, very educative and encouraging too. Thank you❤❤❤
Part 2 please🎉🎉
So amazingly to hear that authentic second point. I grew up without the extreme edification of marriage. I recently discovered that the whole concept of how marriage is like the" it" for a woman... Was learned in church/religion. Spiritual women really get it good on this one.
Best idea ever.. Lydia and Jules 😍😍
I love Jules. Jules, I love ya! Also, this is very wholesome.
Watching this podcast for the first time, I must say I'm here to stay...interesting indeed ❤
Enjoyed the show!!! Indeed as a woman you need to figure out your self worth and what does self love look like to you before you betray yourself.
This is refreshing.
I 100% related to this particular conversation
The base of one allowing themselves get to the point of choosing aloneness/loneliness is never to get ourselves into something that will cost our peace of mind..and generally put our authenticity to jerpody
We dont need to be fully healed to be in our next relationship, is such a game changer!
I'm in the journey of singleness, and it needs a lot of commitment and discipline for you to find alone time, self-worth, self-love, and feel enough for oneself. Thank you ladies
This episode was bomb!!!