HOW TO KNOW YOU’VE FOUND “THE ONE” - TMI PODCAST KE - EPISODE 17

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  • Опубліковано 2 лис 2021
  • After last week's very triggering episode (check out "Episode 16 - How to know your partner is cheating" if you haven't), we are on the other side of the spectrum this week. How to know you have found or you are with 'the one'. We appreciate that 'the one' means different things to everyone. We also know that the one may not be this 'soul mate' but it is the one who aligns with you in a healthy way and you are both committed to each other. That said, we will are using 'the one' for the purposes of this conversation. The one who you want to spend your life with, the one who has inspired the best in you, the one who you have a happy, healthy relationship with and are committed to have a future with. We have been with enough wrong ones to know that there is something different about the ones we find ourselves with now. We each have different reasons why but the feeling is the same.How did you know yours was “ the one”? Let us know in the comments.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 145

  • @sashawambui
    @sashawambui 2 роки тому +143

    I just came here to say that as every episode goes by I fall more in love with Lydia 🤣 She is so emotionally intelligent and articulate 😍🥰

  • @missfuraha
    @missfuraha 2 роки тому +69

    A few years back I couldn't relate with most of these points🤦‍♂️the getto!I thank God for peace and genuine love💕I conquer with all these points, I pray whoever is reading this comment get the one you deserve and blossom 💕

  • @winnienjeri7425
    @winnienjeri7425 2 роки тому +106

    We're super happy for Lyd.Aren't we? Bacauseee ghurrrll been smiling whenever she talks about Mike.😊😊😍

  • @tetyootornado5881
    @tetyootornado5881 2 роки тому +49

    Who else feels this Podcast should be one of the courses in Campus, I mean can lectures review their Course Outline!!

  • @rosemarymbonika8945
    @rosemarymbonika8945 2 роки тому +75

    Pleaseeeeeee pls consider doing a duo with over 25. I love u guys so much keep up!

  • @estherkinya3643
    @estherkinya3643 2 роки тому +43

    Submission is a natural reaction to real love.

  • @nyamburawaritho
    @nyamburawaritho 2 роки тому +36

    Miiiike look what you've done to our Beebs😍 like Lyd is all smiles at the mention of Mike or talking about him😍😍😍we love to see it as inbetweeners❤️❤️

  • @winniewangui9661
    @winniewangui9661 2 роки тому +21

    I absolutely agree when you're with the right person you have peace, you feel relaxed and happy and when you're making decisions together it makes you feel appreciated.

  • @___luvuno
    @___luvuno 2 роки тому +36

    Watching this episode as you tick your boxes confirming he's definitely "the one" feels so nice 😭❤

  • @cl499
    @cl499 2 роки тому +11

    Is it not weird, that all these green flags will be there and at some point they still betray you?
    I have learnt to have no expectations and just enjoy the moments,and keep an open mind

  • @periswamwea7584
    @periswamwea7584 2 роки тому +10

    Hapo Kwa fights I've learnt alot from Murugi all the way since Yummy mummy era. I honestly was the toxic one in terms of how I handled conflicts. Rn am a pro in drawing boundaries and creating healthy space for everyone to express their feelings bila judgement

  • @kalambasharon1428
    @kalambasharon1428 2 роки тому +9

    Okay after this episode I just figured none of the ones I thought were the ones none was,geeeez, earth is tough ooooo,lol 😂 but heeey,at least I have a list of things to check when I feel like I have found the one😂😂

  • @maureenchelimo6466
    @maureenchelimo6466 2 роки тому +6

    Its how Murugi says "Lydiaa!😂" when she is kidigo disappointed in her😂

  • @_incarnate
    @_incarnate 2 роки тому +6

    Lydia, YOU ARE THE ONE !!

  • @mrnguitui8490
    @mrnguitui8490 2 роки тому +4

    Hats off, Mike. Kazi yako tunaiona ✊🏾😌

  • @carolegachanja5372
    @carolegachanja5372 2 роки тому +8

    For me, I knew I have found the one when we both have the same Goals in life and you are partners in everything and they always motivate you to do and be better and they support you to achieve your Goals in life.

  • @Karenbugingo
    @Karenbugingo 2 роки тому +23

    Hi ladies,
    Love love your Chanel. Literally Wednesday never comes soon enough because my ladies and I are always ready for a new episode. However as a Rwandan, just wanted to say; Please be mindful when mentioning about the Genocide because it’s a very sensitive issue for all of us who have been greatly impacted. I know Murungi means no offense to anyone( because you are just awesome🧡) but just wanted to highlight that for your Rwandan audience which is here cheering you on. Anyway keep shining ladies, so much love from here Kigali-Rwanda 🇷🇼✨

    • @conqueror3928
      @conqueror3928 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much Karen.
      I was looking for a way to phrase this!
      I know they mean no harm at all but it is a sensitive one!❤️

  • @nafularakuomi44
    @nafularakuomi44 2 роки тому +6

    Aaaaaargh! I keep loosing focus by the mere fact of how happy, calm and contented Lyd is speaking of her relationship. I tap into that when it's time for me 😊❤. Loving the nuggets kama kawaida 👌🏼

  • @thegodlyprincess_kenya
    @thegodlyprincess_kenya 2 роки тому +21

    Me telling my man my struggles then he says oh pole Sana so utadu?
    Also me: In whose hands are we safe, tell me Murugi Munyi&Lydia In whose hands are we safe🤣
    Anyway, may God sustain your marriage/relationships so that you continue sanitizing us with wisdom.
    #nomorecharacterdevelopment✌️

  • @fahadaabdullahi7660
    @fahadaabdullahi7660 2 роки тому +6

    Hello beautiful ladies. this has to be my favorite episode of TMI. I can just listen to guys all( which I do, I’m always in your Dms 😭). Keep doing the hood work sisters ❤️

  • @deenimu1078
    @deenimu1078 2 роки тому +5

    I really love this episode❤️. Despite being in a long distance relationship and still knowing he is “The One" makes me move more forward ❤️. Long distance is like a headache that is always there with you 🥺, Heals at the airport hugs and starts again at the airport goodbyes🥺. Glad I know he is the one ❤️😘.

  • @effieoluoch9959
    @effieoluoch9959 2 роки тому +5

    Finally, my Wednesday just got better, love you guys

  • @trevormbuthia5019
    @trevormbuthia5019 2 роки тому

    Loving this!! Sitting in silence is the one for me. Without feeling the pressure to talk when you don't want to is amazing. Can't agree more, the feeling is so calm and amazing.

  • @janenjoki4815
    @janenjoki4815 2 роки тому +2

    can you make this episodes two hours long?.Iam obsessed ,so much wisdom.Thank you for sharing yourselves with us.

  • @florahleivas
    @florahleivas 2 роки тому +1

    I love your conversations ❤️❤️❤️

  • @wambuikiiru2474
    @wambuikiiru2474 2 роки тому +2

    Its the part "pause for effect" amazing episode ladies

  • @dicostakawira2617
    @dicostakawira2617 2 роки тому +4

    TMI is always my number one podcast, I love you guys. Always glowing ❤️❤️❤️

  • @_nelimma
    @_nelimma 2 роки тому +4

    Finally guys I have been waitingfor you to upload 😂😂😂you guys are part of my Wednesday routine

  • @geah6205
    @geah6205 2 роки тому +1

    Was following up on Eric omondi's tea...I am here now team TMI

  • @viviannabulime1218
    @viviannabulime1218 2 роки тому

    Definitely taking notes here, thank you ladies.

  • @sharonwanja7303
    @sharonwanja7303 2 роки тому +2

    Just followed you guys, done a recap of all your episodes and they are informative as in you ladies are the it

  • @judychebet613
    @judychebet613 2 роки тому

    You 2 are a powerful combo......Ever since I subscribed to TMI.....I love it

  • @bilhajoy
    @bilhajoy 2 роки тому +1

    A must watch show!!!! Keep doing it for us my beautiful women ❤ 💕

  • @winniemomanyi4810
    @winniemomanyi4810 2 роки тому +1

    Love love love listening to the TMI podcast very educative..insightful.Like every time i listen to it i learn something new .So proud of you ladies ❤️❤️

  • @debrahkantas9843
    @debrahkantas9843 2 роки тому +6

    I am regretting why i didn't find this channel early enough. I really feel at peace listening to you guys

  • @Ruethamy
    @Ruethamy 2 роки тому

    I love it here 😊

  • @joycenyambura2637
    @joycenyambura2637 2 роки тому +1

    The episode was fiiire

  • @samanthamueni6322
    @samanthamueni6322 2 роки тому +1

    Lydia i love you girl you make this show worth watching much love guys ❤️💙

  • @cycy6861
    @cycy6861 2 роки тому +1

    weuuuh guys kumbe i was not subscribed!! love you guys

  • @kenyangirlswithgardens8540
    @kenyangirlswithgardens8540 2 роки тому +3

    I believe that when you know...you know! 😌 You always know. If they are the one or not. Just but at times we are in denial, and hopeful that things will get better. But you always know who is good for you ☺️!

  • @kcr7prince
    @kcr7prince 2 роки тому

    You guys are amazing 💕 late watcher peweni mbili mbili.....

  • @ceciliawanjiru4473
    @ceciliawanjiru4473 2 роки тому

    weuh i had to pose nione kaa nimesubscribe...this is too much wisdom in one day.......yea i had done the thing.....thumbs up gals

  • @julietakech4957
    @julietakech4957 2 роки тому +3

    I was literally taking notes, rewinding and replaying over and over again.... meanwhile writing notes on all the reasons im going to give man's as to why I'm leaving our suituation.im struggling to have relearn and refind my self worth but let me just say just by listening to this I know for a fact that he's not the one.so thanks lydia and murugi .also not that I've not always known that he wasn't the one I just really needed to hear it from big sisters😜

  • @queenluigi
    @queenluigi Рік тому +1

    You are wise Lydia. Watching y’all from Uganda!

  • @moraamageka5058
    @moraamageka5058 2 роки тому +3

    Mungu alijua tu natafuta the one cant wait fr the guide thnks loves 🥰☺️

  • @bettykanjatv
    @bettykanjatv 2 роки тому

    Tuned🙌

  • @Carolyn_kagure
    @Carolyn_kagure 2 роки тому

    Fire episode as per usual

  • @ninaemonde1726
    @ninaemonde1726 2 роки тому +3

    Loved this!1 I've never resonated with anything so much. Everything you said! Right on mark. And yes ladies you need to push yourself out of what you don't want to get what you deserve.

  • @njerikimani648
    @njerikimani648 2 роки тому +1

    Its the filling your cup for me😪. Especially if you've been in a draining relationship previously kwanza😒. The peace ❤ you never disappoint us. Always an in betweener💫

  • @sylviawangui219
    @sylviawangui219 2 роки тому

    LYDIA you are it!!!

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 2 роки тому +2

    I'm one hour late to the party😭😭 aki si kupenda kwangu. 17 is a special number for me😘. Topic moto moto kama kawa😍🔥🔥, keeping 💯👏🏾. Nawapenda tu bure.

  • @wambuimburu8317
    @wambuimburu8317 2 роки тому +2

    Okay, I want Lydia's voice on radio please 🥰🥰

  • @wanjiruwambugu5215
    @wanjiruwambugu5215 2 роки тому +6

    Omg Lydia!!!!!! 😍😍😍 I pray, I summon, I manifest, the happiness and glow you have❤️🥳. We love to see it girl! ☺️☺️

  • @J.G7088
    @J.G7088 2 роки тому +1

    You two together are just...’the one’

  • @AZ-be1om
    @AZ-be1om Рік тому

    iam learning alot Murugi & Lydia keep it up From Malawi

  • @judithbosibori5628
    @judithbosibori5628 2 роки тому

    another one on knowing that u have found the one always happy when you talk about the person ..there is just that feeling.......

  • @SafariByHal
    @SafariByHal 2 роки тому

    And Lyyyddd😭😭😭 si happy for you girl!! The jouuuurrrnneeyyy some of us have had same tear seasons and now love seasons.. see God!!!!

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy 2 роки тому

    I enoyed this episode I was all smiling. One thing I would add that has caught my attention is; the one is attentive to the little details. I'm a big talker and a sucker for details. That's something I've always battled with in my past relationships. But with Steph it's his attention to things I least expect him to remember. I'm glowing like silly teenage girl in love

  • @wahubabz
    @wahubabz 2 роки тому

    New sub. Love your content.

  • @furahathestar
    @furahathestar 2 роки тому +1

    Murugi😅😅😅you are soo funny...Kwanza the Psalm part..Lydia was sooo sure😅

  • @mariemartin593
    @mariemartin593 2 роки тому

    I've been busy,but I can't miss TMI
    Here I am 😍

  • @IamWamise
    @IamWamise 2 роки тому +3

    Amazing content ! Just something ....the video seems to be a bit off...like there's some 'layer' on top . We normally call it noise.
    Please don't come for me. just trying to make the viewing better.

  • @kareynjeri3982
    @kareynjeri3982 2 роки тому

    new word in town "from lovely lydia" the word is .............""""dynamics """"!!!!

  • @mollykabuteh7144
    @mollykabuteh7144 2 роки тому +2

    Kila mtu akona kitenge???
    Y'all gave me the push...get ready, I'll invite y'all

  • @SafariByHal
    @SafariByHal 2 роки тому +1

    You know how it feels when am just doing my check box am like tick ✅✅… aaah love is definitely beautiful with the one

  • @shanieTemima
    @shanieTemima 2 роки тому

    Effort
    Energy
    Time
    Money.
    I love you ghels.

  • @TheCookingNurse
    @TheCookingNurse 2 роки тому +2

    The moment Joan mentioned not a vitz i was down🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 how are people not following this channel yet, like yoooo

  • @mercywambui4498
    @mercywambui4498 2 роки тому

    Love u guy's

  • @Positivevibes-tq5mg
    @Positivevibes-tq5mg Рік тому +1

    Oooh Sam not psalm. This made my day😂😂😂

  • @jenwm
    @jenwm 2 роки тому +8

    After seeing mike on insta, Lydia did the thing

    • @tps8518
      @tps8518 2 роки тому

      I wanna visually meet him😍

  • @EmmahRoberts
    @EmmahRoberts 2 роки тому +1

    Love this conversation, am thankful to have the one!

  • @meggykarimi9982
    @meggykarimi9982 2 роки тому +3

    T...time
    E... energy
    E... effort
    M... money...
    Men spent this 👂where thier heart is✅

  • @thegodlyprincess_kenya
    @thegodlyprincess_kenya 2 роки тому

    Yaaaaaaaaaas thanks for the shout-out💋💋💋💋💋💋💋

  • @TheCookingNurse
    @TheCookingNurse 2 роки тому +2

    Joan please pay, please we don't want trouble, the whole time i was yelling please don't bettttttt🤣🤣🤣

  • @margaretkanganga4882
    @margaretkanganga4882 Рік тому

    Every time i was around my ex he always told me i was extremely slender like a primary school kid ,,it was really hard to get out of that toxic relationship but thank God i finally found the one comfortable with everything in me.

  • @shishh2516
    @shishh2516 2 роки тому +1

    May God copy paste the peace and calmness i have seen in lyds to my life

  • @catherinemaina3146
    @catherinemaina3146 2 роки тому +1

    Mimi na Murugi kwa games would be same wozap. No doubt! Very competitive 😎

  • @angelawamuyu4769
    @angelawamuyu4769 2 роки тому

    its the I for me....what about me ?love love you guys

  • @beatricemuringi4120
    @beatricemuringi4120 2 роки тому

    Great content. Just wondering, could you talk about the different forms of intimacy. Coz pple be out here believing sex is the only way to be intimate.

  • @annewacuka
    @annewacuka 2 роки тому +4

    Joooaaann!! You better give Lyd that 5,000 cos yooo, I was shouting that you didn't know Psalm was Kim's kid😂😂😂😂. You love the Kardashiansss...

  • @esthermuthoni2765
    @esthermuthoni2765 2 роки тому +1

    It's sad, the anxious Lydia of the 2nd relationship? Thats me right now 😪

  • @faithmbeke9771
    @faithmbeke9771 2 роки тому +4

    Tunned in inbetweener , I hope I find the one someone once told me if a guy tell you I'll get married at a certain age ps just know yr nt in the picture, I was like so what are we doing?🤣

  • @penelapymwende6272
    @penelapymwende6272 2 роки тому +6

    😂😂😂I just laughed when Murugi insisted on betting 5K when she was definitely very wrong 😂😂😂

  • @joyceodhiambo6274
    @joyceodhiambo6274 2 роки тому

    I thank God I found the one.

  • @annwachuka1893
    @annwachuka1893 2 роки тому +1

    It's how Lyd says i got it for me.

  • @kenyangirlswithgardens8540
    @kenyangirlswithgardens8540 2 роки тому

    I just love you guys ❤️❤️

  • @essykiarie5618
    @essykiarie5618 2 роки тому +17

    I guess it is safe to say, HE'S THE ONE! Nothing beats being supported, loved right, empathy and at peace with/by your man.
    Wedding anyone?😂😂

  • @nginamusembi4730
    @nginamusembi4730 2 роки тому +2

    Murugi.....pay the 5k already....🤣🤣

  • @musinare
    @musinare 2 роки тому

    Episode 17💃💃💃💃💃💃💃

  • @sharonmadu5892
    @sharonmadu5892 2 роки тому +14

    Murugi should give Lydia her 5k😂😂

  • @nimo2681
    @nimo2681 2 роки тому +1

    Am just here thinking 🤔...

  • @hopejune2576
    @hopejune2576 2 роки тому

    Aki Murugi... How do you loose 5,000 like that 🤣😂

  • @firdawsalaga3919
    @firdawsalaga3919 2 роки тому +1

    Hiii, can you add subtitles to the part you speak Swahili 🥺. Nice content by the way, ❤️, 🇳🇬

  • @rizikimichelle5885
    @rizikimichelle5885 2 роки тому

    Great conversation. As a single girl I’m getting Fomo for days . But I’m really happy for any lady who is experiencing beautiful things and love .

  • @marthamwaura882
    @marthamwaura882 2 роки тому +8

    Loved the topic..am abit conflicted thou coz am thinking am i the right person for my partner....yes i love him ,he brings me peace and i feel its mutual but then when it comes to timelines we are not at per..we have 6 year age gap he is ready to settle am not so am here asking myself if 'will this be a deal breaker at the end'?...am i really right for him or am i just wasting his time ..(thinking out loud)

    • @Ms_ivayo
      @Ms_ivayo 2 роки тому

      Hey mama, have you both talked about it? Have u communicated how u feel to him? Maybe you should 🤗

  • @michellekahia
    @michellekahia 2 роки тому +1

    You guys should definitely do the episode on how to fight.

    • @WangariKihato
      @WangariKihato 2 роки тому +1

      I would recommend kitt Kiarie's channel for this one. She did one with her mom, Apondi.

    • @michellekahia
      @michellekahia 2 роки тому

      @@WangariKihato Thanks

  • @wawiragichobi5886
    @wawiragichobi5886 2 роки тому +2

    Murugi trying to cheat. We see you. Pay Lyd already.

  • @maureenmoh2785
    @maureenmoh2785 2 роки тому

    The five dislikes -i pray you find love

  • @bethnyambura6720
    @bethnyambura6720 2 роки тому

    He's definitely the one 😍

  • @constancenatiwoi5876
    @constancenatiwoi5876 2 роки тому +1

    I think Im the one for him but he aint the one for me🤔