“Your partner is probably going to cheat on you”👀😩 - Uncomfortable truths about life | Episode 51
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- Опубліковано 5 лип 2022
- Deep breaths. This may be triggering but the truth is the truth.
It’s safer and far more hopeful to go through life ignoring some of these uncomfortable truths and we definitely suggest you do but they has to be said. Will your partner cheat on you? Probably. Will we all be ‘successful’? No. Are all our parents good? No. But si ni life 😩
Do you agree with these uncomfortable truths and what are some others we missed? Let’s chat in the comments.
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One uncomfortable truth I learnt is that you shouldn't take advice from people just because they are older because EVEN FOOLS GROW OLD. You can make your own decision with your "small" age and it is the RIGHT ONE!
😅😅😅😅😅😅so true
woo child.... this one I learned the hard way
How very true!!!
waaah...okay
I couldn't agree more
one uncomfortable truth I learned... no one knows shit or what they are doing on earth... everyone is winging it until they find something that suits them... including surgeons and pilots
This absolutely swept me off my feet.
Sheesh!
Yup my se thought process....no one knows anything. You dothe best with the exposure and information you have.
One uncomfortable truth is, there is always a younger person who is way smarter than you, and we are going to meet them at some point in life. This hit me recently and it really tore me down. I have learnt to accept and move.
I work 9 to 5 and I love it. I honestly do not believe all of us are cut out for entrepreneurship. My work has helped me travel the world, meet a lot of beautiful people and I cannot imagine my life any other way.
And most people who don't like their 9-5 don't get to travel and meet new people like you. They're always stuck in the same cubicle with the same people all year. That's the difference between you who enjoys your 9g5 and them.
@@Habibtay We are all cut out to choose different when it comes to work. Also to take courses at Uni that will take us to those jobs that give us lots of opportunities.
I love my 9 to 5 since I’m doing what I love. I have managed to invest a lot too, I’m an introvert who just enjoys alone time that my job allows
Absolutely 💯 true.
Your spouse/lover is not necessarily going to love you the way you love them or the way you want them to! Your idea of love may not be the same as your significant other's idea of love!
That message in the church that glorifies suffering is what is keeping our economy on the struggle line. People are packed in church Monday to Sunday from morning to evening. Those same people would be out there selling tomatoes or planting crops on their land but nope, they are in church praying to cancel the spirit of poverty. I'm speaking for Ugandans who spend 24hours in church.
Uncomfortable truth I have learned;the world only celebrates heroes. Until you do something with your life, that's when the world will recognize your efforts.
I am a Lawyer, in a 9-5 job and I love it! So i totally agree people ought to stop projecting their idea of life, success and happiness on others
Here is mine, everyone's life does not revolve around you, so sometimes when you think someone made a particular decision to hurt you or annoy you it's not always the case. Sometimes people are only thinking about themselves and what's best for them and you did not factor in their decision making (especially if you are not close). Knowing this will save you from a lot of heartaches
You spoke my mind💯
Even when you're close
Another uncomfortable truth I have learnt is that just because you are good hearted world will not treat you good that not the case ,,,,I like how real you are babes💯
Uncomfortable truth😉
Some people will always come back and watch but never like or subscribe.......do we have to accept this😂😂
Super duper uncomfortable truth: Be considerate and open to giving second chances (with caution) coz one day you'll be the one who really needs it, you'll be the toxic one, the one who messes up
This is a very uncomfortable truth 💯💯
Lyd:"Your parents are not heroes!" Me in my head...Sasa aje??😂😂
They say leave revenge to God ;but guess who is made in his image and likeness
It's you baaaabe😅😅
😂😂
One uncomfortable truth is no one will be there to save you everytime sometimes you are all you got..
When Lydia said "Your parents are not heros " That got me thinking .. They are kind of John and Anna..
The idea that we when you do what you love you never get tired is a lie unfortunately 😅
Life is not fair. True. That's why I don't vouch for 50/50 relationships. I prefer the provider-home maker marriage
I support that too
1: Students who score grade A in exams won’t necessarily be the most successful in life. A combination of book smarts, street smarts, emotional intelligence and good old LUCK is what amounts to success.
2: the sunk cost fallacy- I have invested x years in this relationship/venture so I’ll stay in a toxic situation because of the amount of time, energy, money etc. Let it go.
3: people are in your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime
Point 2 had me sitting upright. Wheew!
@@edithmbogoh4557 ikrrrrr💯💯💯
Totally agree with you💯💯💯💯❗🔥🔥
@@edithmbogoh4557 same
The motherhood part I relate so much, when my son joined boarding school I couldn't sleep the first two weeks, so questions were running in my head like was he able to wake up on time? Is he being bullied, did he lose his locker key n so on, only for him to come for midterm n narrate how he enjoyed school😂😌
I'm reading this and realizing all those things actually happened to me when I went to boarding school😂. My mum was right to worry😂😂
@@the.victorgeorge it's just sad😌
😢😢 I remember someone fucked me over that the only thing I did for a couple of months was to pray that Karma gets them hard 😢but all I saw was them having the time of their life 😂😂😂 I gave up because it was so draining,I felt so broken WEUH but now looking back,I am glad nothing bad happened to them and I am glad I healed,it gets better ❤
I love how Murugui literally shifts from her seat from how uncomfortable these truths are! This a very important episode ladies, I loved it.
I agree with that first point. I always choose revenge if i can get away with it. 🤣. Theres no day i felt better from being the bigger person.
There is no glory in letting people walk away after treating your shit. Sometimes being the smaller person feels so good
Uncomfortable truth. You will not get along or like some of your family members. The vibes they give are just negative/ toxic. Word Lyd. Never force relationships. Some people are just not good for your mental health. Unfortunately, you may be related to them. Distance is key.
An episode of dealing with toxic family or you two reacting to anonymous subscriber secrets would be cool.
Uncomfortable Truth: Not everyone can be helped. You infact cannot save anyone from their misery.
Totally 💯💯💯💯
Very true
Lydia second point about not all making it🤣🤣Ebu let me wake up an remove myself from the list of those who won't make it that much🤣
😂😂ooh sis bring me along with you coz wueh
Same bestie same 🤣
I immediately jumped up from my bed, we have to be on list of the successful ones😂😂😂
Okay okay 😂it's true but with success you can do something about it to some extent as Murugi said😂It not completely obvious that you'll not succeed 😂 Depends with how much work you put in the right way
Hey Murugi, Lyd and In-betweeners. One other uncomfortable truth is that we our parents are aging, and very fast actually. The older you get, the older they get too. And yes, death is in the picture too😭😭😭😭
Also, we will not all grow old. Some of us will die prematurely, and that's just life, ain't it?
July 7 is also my birthday, so to all my twins, including TMI, HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉. You are important, and you are loved.
Forever Queen-betweener❤️
Happy birthday Queen May God grant your heart desires.
@@jackline1429 thanks so much babe. Amen!!!!
I aspire to be self aware like Lydia❤️
Thank you for that 9-5 job point. I really needed that because I work from 9-5 and its quite unfortunate that, most people don't value this like I doans always try to downplay the importance of a 9-5 . My dream is to rise through the ranks and I'm actually quite fulfilled. God bless.
I share the same sentiments.. People should stop projecting their journey on others.. Period🚫
I think a lot of people just don't know what words to use. So they end up using projecting words to describe people who are 9-5. It does not bother me at all because I love my job ans good at it. We all have differenr trajectories in this life. If there were no 9-5 people, how would entrepreneurs be getting the services they need eg registering their companies, lawyers, government etc etc.
There are people who are meant for a 9-5. And they are quite happy, and contented. Business is sometimes overrated
This one is for me
I'm usually ashamed to say I'm not into entrepreneurship, they all think I now don't have a life
Let me grow careerwise, I love my profession
Start with relationship with parents like you might not have a healthy relationship with your parent and thats okay. Accept that and start your healing journey. Like for me i start accepting it and reading books for my healing and next probably i will go for therapy.
I watched the messy beginning (the first episode) the day it dropped. I remember telling my then housemate that I knew TMI was going to be huge...one year down the road here we are😅
I'm not saying I'm a prophet, just that with Lyd and Jo it's always been obvious that you guys make magic together.
To making even more magic, I'm here for it all❤️
51 episodes and counting 💪🏾
You guys will have to beat me out of this comments section😂😂😂
Also I've met Murugi before episode 50 so I except to meet Lyd before the big 100
Much love across the border 🇺🇬
Period ,God is not from your village 💞✨
The lady having drama with her mum - I agree with Lydia that she should first save up at least 6 months of living expenses. I would also advice her to move to a house cheaper than what she can afford. So if she can afford 40K rent, then move to a house that is 25K. And then save, save, save. This is the advice I would also have given to my younger self
So many Uncomfortable Truths
•You are the main character in your life and so is everyone else 😄🤔😅🤣
•You children will become independent of you and disagree or even challenge some of your views 🤔🤔
Y'all are the drama with the whole "where's your man!?" questions. This line of questioning is too uncomfortable! 😂😂
Love from Uganda❤️
The level of maturity in this conversation 👏👏👏👏
Ahhh the 9 to 5 thing hit home…and kwanza you mentioned that someone might enjoy finance. I’m in finance and I hear it all the time how the corporate world is not the one and how I should be in business (even though I know very well I’m not very entrepreneurial!!)
Don’t get me wrong of course you should still be investing and making your money grow/go further but not everyone in business!
And the parents are not heroes ahh this episode really hit home
Business is not everyone!!!This year has been the ghetto I tell you.Starting a business needs all your strength and life in general😭
I am a 9-5 person and I really like it here.Trust me
Hey Murugi and Lyd.. This was a Great Episode as Always! Also, Kindly have an Episode on Dealing With Toxic Family Members especially on the Level of Parents Coz I feel Like not enough people talk about it and Some of Us are Deep in it and Don't know how to Create those Boundaries.
I totally agree!! 💯
I second this
@Carole, Btw a good book is "boundaries" by Dr Henry Cloud. It focuses on boundaries with yourself, friends, family, work, church and with God. It is really an eye opener and such a good read, I would highly recommend it.
Another uncomfortable truth, as an adult no one owes you anything!
Also, no one is coming to save you
The not having a good relationship with family members is definitely me. My only sister and I are not talking. We had our issues but it just got worse when our mum died and I just decided to protect my peace by staying away.
Uncomfortable truth.... There are bridges that need to be burned
omg the part of quit your 9-5 job. pple have over glamourised it. like us in 9-5 aren't winning 😅😅😅. but am doing both 9-5 & side business 😊
Is there any in betweener here planning to attend our live podcast on 30th and need a sis company coz they don't have one?...asking asking for mee😊
Meee but pesa ya lunch sina😢
@@lilianqueenshow6297 we still have some time babe,just get the ticket then save up for lunch before then...
i decree and declare i will be successful... poverty sucks
Enjoyed this thanks ladies! Another uncomfortable truth: you can totally love someone and not like every aspect of them. Was a Hard pill to take kept asking if that’s normal till I stopped gas lighting myself…
Omg, that part about the identity of parents not revolving about their kids🤯🤯love love it!!
Please do a Video about toxic mothers
Yaaay almost made it to number one here and thats going straight to my diary I love you ladies soo much....its definitely TMI❤❤
The Uncomfortable truth i have come to learn and it has happened to me is we fall out of friendship.
I can honestly say that this channel has been a blessing to my life. I have learnt a lot and grown more wiser. God bless TMI
Same Sis Same
I love it! Def need to watch more than once! ❤️❤️
someone pass me a glass of wine 😅😥so much uncomfortable facts 😭 i wasn't ready 😅
This podcast just woke me up damn! I feel like I have been so entitled in some sense and I need to accept thatvthings will never be as you always want them. Uncomfortable but true.
Love that you talked about the 9 to 5 thing. I keep being pushed into entrepreneurship and it isn’t for me. I love my 9 to 5. It aligns with my purpose, it’s within my mountain of influence, impactful and fulfilling. I earn well, get paid to travel, paid to think, lots of perks, great medical insurance, interest free loans etc So when someone tells me I should start my own thing (and they are many) I know they aren’t in alignment with my purpose and they get scaled down in my mind.
This is a good episode 💪👏....I love the part that lyd said our parents ain't heroes....Thats deep!!!
Thank y'all for this talk ...can't stop forwarding ✔️💯 ...May God always give you things to tell🙏
I am already taking a break from work to watch this👐🏾👐🏾👐🏾....I love you guys...Much love from UG❤️❤️❤️
Not everyone is going to be successful that's a hard truth
Congratulations on the anniversary. Seems like yesterday when we were watching the 1st episode 🎊💐🎉. To more years 🍾🥂
Oh!but these two ladies, how so very nice to have them on this platform spitting out truths.
The one truth abt our parents not being heroes but human beings...when u finally crack that code & fully comprehend that...it opens up the floodgates of/for giving grace & healing in the complex dynamic that is for parent/child relationships.
Seeing ya parent(s) who u've had on a pedestal for so long as flawed human beings, is a REBIRTH & a cathartic freedom u didn't know u needed.
Am so addicted to this podcast. Much love ❤
Great episode!!! Love you both💕
Dear TMI Ladies, thank you so much for this podcast. It's so mind-opening and fun!!!!!!! God Bless You a lot!!!!!
New subscriber. Loved the vibe and the maturity in the conversation.
Always spitting facts and being real.A podcast we all needed fr fr🤎
I have been a silent follower but here I am today. I love you two for speaking our minds. I agree that some family can be toxic, especially extended weeeh. Also the fact that your "enemy" will not necessary suffer coz they wronged you or karma ;it doesnt always work like that.
The parents part hit me🥺❤️
Wow! Ladies, I like how you always flow in a conversation and the wisdom that exude from both of you. Life is still worth living Indeed regardless of uncomfortable truth about it.
The point about our parents had me crying...It's heavy. I am going to carry this throughout my life! Thank you for that I am grateful!❤️
This def changed my life right now.....just this minute....my whole perspective towards life....thank you guys
Oh my God, This is so true, the imbalances towards the woman
👋Loved this Conversation🙋🏽♀️Uncomfortable, Sometimes Painful Truths…So Candid✅✅
Job security is everything
This episode calls for meditation and introspection coz wuehhh
As uncomfortable as it was..😁 LOVED this episode! Well put ladies 👏
I can't keep my eyes off the missing button on the couch
Thank you for being the big sisters some of us don’t have❤️
I like it when you start gossiping silently, that is me n my siz or mum when I want to prove a point 🤣😅😆
Much love girls u always give us the untold
You guys are amazing, the impact you're making is beyond what your minds even realize
Mi I love you guys soo much.... Aki thenks for enlightening us ..I learn alot soo much from you and am happy am becoming a better person ...
i like Joan's honest reaction
My best beeeest episode eveeeeeer,,,TMI for life💖💖💖💖💖💖💝💗
wow, wow, wow, so much insight in one show. Where do you people get so much wisdom all at once from?
Wah! Sema kuwa busy, missed the premiere gang😍. Catching up 3 hrs later🤦🏿♀️Topic ya Leo, that's the reality💯. Murugi you were amazing👏🏾😘 on the #UGLadiesshow. Happy Birthday TMI🎉🎂🍾👏🏾.
Murugi you are so right the day as women we realise there are burdens that are we as women will bear and men will not understand makes life so much easier.
There are persons who don't like you because you are who you are (this hit hard)
Best episode so far😊uncomfortable yet so deep
'while you're here struggling for bundles'😂😂😂Vayolens
Life or lesson. That hit home.
For the Instagram question - Yes girl,trust me it's time to move out. The only thing that happens afterwards if you stay longer is you both begin to aggravate each other even over small small things which you wouldn't even give a second of thought under normal circumstances. Like for me, when it reached the point i had to inform them when I go out.... you know it's time honestly.
This show has really helped me as youth in my early 20s...I really love it 💕
Wow cnt believe how I have grown to love you to and the first one here am always watching.love you guys
This was simply a fantastic episode
Happy birthday TMI podcast ❤️
Anna was just chilling.... We have left Jenny huh? Lydia😂.. Love this episode!
i love your giggles at the beginning
Lyd is soooooooooo Bright 😘😘..you aced this episode