Every single thing you mentioned was what I fought for in my last relationship with the woman I loved dearly who I thought felt the same, she could barely fulfill the pointers you mention yet wanted to get married. Even bought our engagement ring but could not get my self to propose to her. She was simply very calculated in what she wanted and very controlling, we broke up last week Thursday after near 3 years. I am broken but know I was the reason this relationship lasted this long. Her needs were purely superficial and material based all I wanted was time together and love. I am so heartbroken at the minuet but hope 2024 brings better energy, it was toxic😪. Thanks for the tips! 🙏🏿❤️
Jessica, You are one of the few women out there who is completely fair when it comes to the situation of modern men, thank you so much for your videos and keep it up and greetings from Morocco !
I am twice divorced. I could not find the woman you are describing. I am retiring to the Philippines. I have traveled to the Philippines three times , and I have met a beautiful Filipina who has the qualities you are describing. My four retirements add up to $92000 annually. With the exchange rates, my Filipina will not have to work. I look forward to my new life with my Filipina.
Filipinas make some of the most respectful and family oriented women in the world. I honestly feel you're making the right move. I'm also leaning towards the Filipina space. I wish you true love ❤. Good luck Bro!👍🏻
Jessica you hit the nail right on the head. Thats why im not rushing into any form of relationship. Until you tick the boxes we keep searching hard. . Thank you Jess. Citifm listeners misses you
Spot on, especially your insight on financial support! I've always argued that the traditional breadwinner system, where one partner, typically the man, bears the financial responsibility, is no longer sustainable due to today's harsh economic realities. It's imperative that we embrace a combined household income approach. Thanks for echoing and reinforcing this crucial point!
Hi Pier, your prospective broadly speaking is correct. I would like to add to your paradigm and Jessica ‘s she mentioned in the beginning of this video what a strong woman brings to the table. True feminine nature when women are functioning from a place of wholeness , these are the character traits, loving, soft, affectionate, fun, playful, kind hearted towards their husband. These attributes is called strength without fear! When a woman is whole and has a healthy sense of self , and is not functioning from a place of collecting all hurts in life, and builds walls of pain that is projected, expressed through her internal emotional lense she views her marriage or relationship. Without those walls being dismantled, you will not see true feminine nature or character traits as I listed above. This is the harsh reality!
You share such a interesting and factual thoughts on this topic and honestly has HELP me deal with the departure of the relationship I was just in with this woman that was lazy and I pray that a seed was planted as opposed to her being lost in the sauce.. pray 🤲🏾 she comes across your videos Jessie…peace and blessings to you and your family.. this was right on time for me bcuz had I stayed I would’ve resented her and I believe the message would’ve been lost if you will
God bless you enormously Jess! You spoke with so much wisdom. I am absolutely confident that this information piece would help me make a well-thought out decision. Sending you Love!
I really appreciate how you provide your wisdom and on the ground advices to people who need deep and significant relationships. It is nice to see that people are still wanting values and "traditional" conception of real love. Thanks again Jessica, Happy new year!!!!
My Relationship with women has changed ever since I started following you. Thank you for been an instrument for helping men to know and understand women. More Insight to dish more content come 2024. You are the best in this space.
Hi,this is Wass,I am usually using ur discussions to help my students get a better listening skill and learn frequently used expressions but personally I am taking a real life lesson.thanks and keep it up.
Now I am very sure that i was not expecting too much from my girlfriend. at least I have 4 points to discuss with this lady about what she can bring to the table. thanks ma'am
Jessica, I love your channel because there are no tricks, other channels are basically teaching men how to emotionally manipulate women and to be narcissistic monsters who don’t care about them. And causing women to be hurt in order to create emotional connection. This is manipulative and trauma bond behavior for both of them. But you talk about real legit relationships. I respect that. Causing trauma may cause a woman to be interdependent because of the bond and the abuse. People watch those guides because they aren’t looking for relationship they are looking for control and obedience. They aren’t looking for love they are looking for power and the ability to get their way. Real arguments and real situations will happen in a real relationship. You may go through things and being together you will grow a connection, but manipulative tactics are not the way to go. Your relationship will play out the way you allow it too, if you have to be someone you’re not and try to manipulate them to be with you, they’re not the one.
Jess, you're one of the realest true essences of inspiration & intelligence the way you break it down and balance it out its second to none ... thanks for your wisdom and knowledge... I'm looking forward to 2024 & beyond ...
I am Emmanuel, a feminist from Women Support Channel, glad to join this community I like so much for its precious endeavor to make women feel happy and secure.
As a Man of a Certain age and after my Last failed Relationship I am Kool being Single and just Enjoying my Life at this Stage. Make self Happy first then Wait😊
Happy New Year, Miss Jessica OS... Your tuition was helpful to me last year and I believe 2024 and beyond you are gonna bless me personally with details that will transform me to the brim. Enjoy 2024! 😊😊
Hey Jess (if I may) I was told that when one person in a relationship is compromising it means that something is wrong. No one should compromise. I just don't think that's so, I'd like to hear your thoughts on this
Beautiful summary, very well thought and expressed. My only discrepancy with you is in qualifying sex as a "bonus". IMO humans are sexual creatures, and couples are sexual teams. Not including sex in the realm of intimacy leaves a huge gap that some people can ignore or overcome, but certainly not most. Also not including it opens the door for one of the most common and damaging problems for couples: sexless marriage. It doesn't need to be honeymoon fascination or animal passion, it doesn't need to be extreme, very frequent or perfect in any way. But unless you have a truly unique and outlier kind of romantic relationship, SEX HAS TO BE IN THE TABLE, and has to be maintained there with the effort of both partners.
This was a good video! All points are true. I need to post this in some Facebk groups so the Jamaican women get a clue of their roles in a relationship! 😂
Jessica is the best mentoress ever ❤ I love your decency in your mentorship your. This is the best video ever about relationship of 2024🎉🎉🎉🎉 Happy new year to you Jessica
Thank you for this video. This is well thought out and very accurate. I WAS not sure what to look for in a woman as I grow into and become a High value man. You have clearly answered that thank you. (subscribed)
Thanks dear Jessica for sharing with us all that developmental and factual ideas on the daily life matters and love affairs in broader contextualisation. indeed u hve invoked us in mental and thinking capability development and as well as brainstorming our mindset .in relation with family affairs in general thanks so much.
Jessica well said, there are many with dome but not a the qualities, you can build it together to have your ultimate, life has it challenges, Men also need to come to the party and not expect the women to be superwoman , communicate, understanding, supportive. Be the man you ought to be.
New subbie, hope to learn more as I work on myself to be a better wife to my future hysband. ❤ Will definitely be checking out your previous vids. Thank you Ms Jess ❤
I am doing none of that, and men still appreciate me. Why? Positivity, maturity, appreciation, respect, and kindness. I'm myself, comfortable and confident. Normally, I do not ask people for help. But since being in Egypt, i do. The men here love women and are providers. I usually pay my own bills, but i can ask my Arab friends for assistance if I need to, but i don't. It's good to know i can.
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Every single thing you mentioned was what I fought for in my last relationship with the woman I loved dearly who I thought felt the same, she could barely fulfill the pointers you mention yet wanted to get married. Even bought our engagement ring but could not get my self to propose to her. She was simply very calculated in what she wanted and very controlling, we broke up last week Thursday after near 3 years. I am broken but know I was the reason this relationship lasted this long. Her needs were purely superficial and material based all I wanted was time together and love. I am so heartbroken at the minuet but hope 2024 brings better energy, it was toxic😪. Thanks for the tips! 🙏🏿❤️
Morning
Jessica, You are one of the few women out there who is completely fair when it comes to the situation of modern men, thank you so much for your videos and keep it up and greetings from Morocco !
Awww. I’m glad you think so
Glad for you brother, and I hope you two pull it off. Also,please don't allow her to be a casualty of your past traumas
@@socratessocratilis2846 Yeah I forgot the past and moved on, living the good life! thank you for your kind words
I am twice divorced. I could not find the woman you are describing. I am retiring to the Philippines. I have traveled to the Philippines three times , and I have met a beautiful Filipina who has the qualities you are describing. My four retirements add up to $92000 annually. With the exchange rates, my Filipina will not have to work. I look forward to my new life with my Filipina.
Good luck. 🍀
@@JessicaOS Thanks. I anticipate that I will be very happy with my new life in the Philippines.
We wish you all the best Sir
Filipinas make some of the most respectful and family oriented women in the world. I honestly feel you're making the right move. I'm also leaning towards the Filipina space. I wish you true love ❤. Good luck Bro!👍🏻
Good luck mate
Jessica you hit the nail right on the head. Thats why im not rushing into any form of relationship. Until you tick the boxes we keep searching hard. . Thank you Jess. Citifm listeners misses you
awwww stephen!! You know you can always find me here
Spot on, especially your insight on financial support! I've always argued that the traditional breadwinner system, where one partner, typically the man, bears the financial responsibility, is no longer sustainable due to today's harsh economic realities. It's imperative that we embrace a combined household income approach. Thanks for echoing and reinforcing this crucial point!
Hi Pier, your prospective broadly speaking is correct. I would like to add to your paradigm and Jessica ‘s she mentioned in the beginning of this video what a strong woman brings to the table. True feminine nature when women are functioning from a place of wholeness , these are the character traits, loving, soft, affectionate, fun, playful, kind hearted towards their husband. These attributes is called strength without fear! When a woman is whole and has a healthy sense of self , and is not functioning from a place of collecting all hurts in life, and builds walls of pain that is projected, expressed through her internal emotional lense she views her marriage or relationship. Without those walls being dismantled, you will not see true feminine nature or character traits as I listed above. This is the harsh reality!
I met a woman a few months ago and she is the first person that has provided peace and tranquility in my life
You share such a interesting and factual thoughts on this topic and honestly has HELP me deal with the departure of the relationship I was just in with this woman that was lazy and I pray that a seed was planted as opposed to her being lost in the sauce.. pray 🤲🏾 she comes across your videos Jessie…peace and blessings to you and your family.. this was right on time for me bcuz had I stayed I would’ve resented her and I believe the message would’ve been lost if you will
God bless you enormously Jess! You spoke with so much wisdom. I am absolutely confident that this information piece would help me make a well-thought out decision. Sending you Love!
I really appreciate how you provide your wisdom and on the ground advices to people who need deep and significant relationships. It is nice to see that people are still wanting values and "traditional" conception of real love. Thanks again Jessica, Happy new year!!!!
My Relationship with women has changed ever since I started following you.
Thank you for been an instrument for helping men to know and understand women.
More Insight to dish more content come 2024. You are the best in this space.
Hi,this is Wass,I am usually using ur discussions to help my students get a better listening skill and learn frequently used expressions but personally I am taking a real life lesson.thanks and keep it up.
Now I am very sure that i was not expecting too much from my girlfriend. at least I have 4 points to discuss with this lady about what she can bring to the table. thanks ma'am
Jessica, I love your channel because there are no tricks, other channels are basically teaching men how to emotionally manipulate women and to be narcissistic monsters who don’t care about them. And causing women to be hurt in order to create emotional connection. This is manipulative and trauma bond behavior for both of them. But you talk about real legit relationships. I respect that. Causing trauma may cause a woman to be interdependent because of the bond and the abuse. People watch those guides because they aren’t looking for relationship they are looking for control and obedience. They aren’t looking for love they are looking for power and the ability to get their way. Real arguments and real situations will happen in a real relationship. You may go through things and being together you will grow a connection, but manipulative tactics are not the way to go. Your relationship will play out the way you allow it too, if you have to be someone you’re not and try to manipulate them to be with you, they’re not the one.
Thumbs up to you Jessica...I wish we have women like you, but it's so unfortunate that there are few...
Yes 💯agree..that's the true meaning of Being a helper or helpmet.. physically.. financialy..and soulical..
Financial situation in relationship is very important. I have entered it and I'm being told it's your duty... But even if its 10% it goes a long way
You are amazing Jess! Thanks for inspiring me a lot this year like last year. God bless you immensely
i appreciate you
Jess, you're one of the realest true essences of inspiration & intelligence the way you break it down and balance it out its second to none ... thanks for your wisdom and knowledge... I'm looking forward to 2024 & beyond ...
@@tysonjames2884 your message makes it all worth it. I appreciate you
Yes! perfect said...
2024, there should be great things on the table which will grow and flourish the relationship...
Thank you so much...
I am Emmanuel, a feminist from Women Support Channel, glad to join this community I like so much for its precious endeavor to make women feel happy and secure.
As a Man of a Certain age and after my Last failed Relationship I am Kool being Single and just Enjoying my Life at this Stage. Make self Happy first then Wait😊
I swear am getting inspired all the time I watch Jessica's video. Merry Christmas and happy new year in advance
Happy New Year, Miss Jessica OS... Your tuition was helpful to me last year and I believe 2024 and beyond you are gonna bless me personally with details that will transform me to the brim.
Enjoy 2024! 😊😊
Excellent video.....we men know these things in spirit but never has in been articulated....take notes fellas and find your Queen.
You could tick all the boxes Jess💯 wishing you a mega Happy New Year xx
Your English is one of the best I have ever listened to.
Your advices really helped me a lot.
Thanks you.
I love this woman so much. Always spilling facts and truths 😘
Jessica we love you. You are a treasure that should be protected & guarded jealously 😊. THANKS FOR THIS ONE.
Thank you Jessica.... You're our mentor and we appreciate you for that.
Happy new year 🌹 🌹
Jessica and Patricia Obo Nai, my favorites 2❤❤. God bless you Jessy🙏🙏
Very well articulated. Jess you're the Best. Thank you 🙏🏼
Jessica Os is God sent. Thank you and keep up the good work.
Thank you, I will
Hey Jess (if I may) I was told that when one person in a relationship is compromising it means that something is wrong. No one should compromise. I just don't think that's so, I'd like to hear your thoughts on this
Jess, i like ur logical reasoning and intelligence. 👍🏼
A very very Happy New Year to You Jessica and all the people from Ghana! God bless you all!
Beautiful summary, very well thought and expressed.
My only discrepancy with you is in qualifying sex as a "bonus". IMO humans are sexual creatures, and couples are sexual teams. Not including sex in the realm of intimacy leaves a huge gap that some people can ignore or overcome, but certainly not most. Also not including it opens the door for one of the most common and damaging problems for couples: sexless marriage. It doesn't need to be honeymoon fascination or animal passion, it doesn't need to be extreme, very frequent or perfect in any way. But unless you have a truly unique and outlier kind of romantic relationship, SEX HAS TO BE IN THE TABLE, and has to be maintained there with the effort of both partners.
This was a good video! All points are true. I need to post this in some Facebk groups so the Jamaican women get a clue of their roles in a relationship! 😂
Jessica i will forever listen to your teachings❤
Must listen and watch ladies ❤❤❤
Thank you Jessica.
I grow up listening to you just glad you share this
am really so humbled for it were a great topic of discussion though offline but pure facts ,appreciations mrs jessie
Thank you Jes....I'm very very big on loyalty 👏
Me too!!
I like all your videos and hopefully learning from them when it comes to women and what both partners want
Kevin
All I can say right now is Thank you Thank you Thank you.
Happy New Year, I have followed your episodes and honestly your tremendous work has changed my life in the faculties of my relationship
Very Insightful - Thanks
Jessica is the best mentoress ever ❤
I love your decency in your mentorship your.
This is the best video ever about relationship of 2024🎉🎉🎉🎉
Happy new year to you Jessica
loyalty and partnership! Well said!
Thank you for this video. This is well thought out and very accurate. I WAS not sure what to look for in a woman as I grow into and become a High value man. You have clearly answered that thank you. (subscribed)
Wonderful! Thanks for the sub
You and the older man are my two favorite relationships content creators keep up the good work
Thank you for the insight Jessica. Happy New Year
Thank you so much ma'am, your words are so true.
A+ thankyou Jessica happy new year sweetheart stay bless you're an inspiration to us love & respect.
Happy new year
Thank you dear.very important information.taking notes seriously ❤🇰🇪
Good evening Ms. Lady.
Wow this is powerful, thanks a million
Thank you Jess. An eye opening for some of us. I love you❤❤❤
Thanks dear your words are full of deep wisdom very deep
Thanks dear Jessica for sharing with us all that developmental and factual ideas on the daily life matters and love affairs in broader contextualisation. indeed u hve invoked us in mental and thinking capability development and as well as brainstorming our mindset .in relation with family affairs in general thanks so much.
Kudos jess.good point. Keep it up
Jessica well said, there are many with dome but not a the qualities, you can build it together to have your ultimate, life has it challenges,
Men also need to come to the party and not expect the women to be superwoman , communicate, understanding, supportive. Be the man you ought to be.
Watching from Jamaica🇯🇲🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Hey hey!
She’s gotta know how to decorate the table. She takes it upon herself to make it beautiful adding good things to our table.
Jessi you too much..i needed this..its my birthday too..thanks for this video..God bless you! 🙌 ❤
Happy birthday 🥳🎂
@@MuvaLaNegra thank you !
Great content, much appreciated.
Wow very educative.God bless you
Very necessary &much needed woman for sure- this keeping your secrets yoh... can't find any
Hi Jessica. I really appreciate you from Bamako, it's in Mali, West Africa
I agree with you 💯
Happy New Year- Jessica Os
You always keep it real 💯%😎
Hi can you also make a vid what a good man has to bring to the table? I want to improve myself but need to be sure i’m heading to the right direction
YOU ARE THE BEST !
thank you
Very informative. Thank you.
Compliments of the New Year ✨️ 🎆 🎇
You're always spot on 👌 Jessica 🫡🫡💯
Happy new year!!
I do appreciate your videos..
Your wisdom is so refreshing..
Thnx Jessica 👍❤️
Thank u so much jess, ❤
You are the best Jess
Very well said & explain...
Your husband is blessed 🙏.. Jessica..sty blessed 🎉
Amazing great video Jessy
Blow my mind. A masterclass in life.👍💯
You're really helping men. some men are lost. God bless you!
Pulchritude And Brains! African Queen Endowed With Supreme Emotional Intelligence! Happy New Year!!🤎
Good vibes sister love it
You should write a book about this
Ephesians 5:28,29,31
Proverbs
Chapter 31
Tyvm
👸🏽
New subbie, hope to learn more as I work on myself to be a better wife to my future hysband. ❤
Will definitely be checking out your previous vids. Thank you Ms Jess ❤
Thanks for subbing!
Keep up the good work, Jessica👍
Thank you! Will do!
This is an excellent video
Spot on Jessica, as always!
Glad you think so!
I agree 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯
It's J; Thumbs Up Jessica!
Jesca.... POINT ON ! ❤
I am doing none of that, and men still appreciate me. Why? Positivity, maturity, appreciation, respect, and kindness. I'm myself, comfortable and confident. Normally, I do not ask people for help. But since being in Egypt, i do. The men here love women and are providers. I usually pay my own bills, but i can ask my Arab friends for assistance if I need to, but i don't. It's good to know i can.
Not even loyalty? Must be nice 😂😂😂
This is very relevant, thank you
I really like this. This is good education.
Thanks Jess... These are amazing
At the end man should be always ready for moving on because woman emotions like waves up down suddenly she will tell you i need space😂.
Exactly bro😂
I learn so much from your videos. Keep it up ❤
Thank you! Will do!
U nailed it sis
This is great!
Happy new year!!💃🎇✨🎈🎉Sending love always.❤