The #2 about the phone stuff is 100% accurate. Sometimes I ask not because I really wanna see or check something within, but juste to see thé reaction. That reaction teaches a lot!
Ever since I came across your videos, you have given me enough pointers to easily detect falsehood early. Truth and honesty is not always from the pulpit. Thank you for building a real life pulpit!
Feeling the passion in her(Jess) voice, and the expression on her (Jess) face, tells me how she means whatever she said in this video. We love you Jess
I love your wisdom Jessica. I simple also view that the most important stage to come totally clean is when both parties have a knowing that they are both willing to work toward marriage that would last forever. You are a blessing Jessica. Thumbs up.
Awesome advise! Thanks Jess. There's a pandemic (strong word, I know but it is what it is...) of people staying & beginning the wrong kinds of relationships & taking them as far as marriage only to back out by any means possible so they can move on to the next victim. I have to wonder if it's so terrible to be single. People like this simply make it hard for those already doubtful of the possibility of honest, loving relationships. This information is helpful & relevant.
Three things I know for a fact and have experienced are: 1. Run when he/she looks down on your Family....Friend(If and only if you have a good and positive sets of friends and you're sure that they're, else change them for your own good). 2. Run when he/she is not focused on her goal/self development unlike yourself, instead you will notice he/she just causing drama and falling for youthful exuberance or such. 3. This might be quite hard for some of us to accept but just maybe you wanna give it a second and deep thought yee humans: Run when he/she is a religious fanatic, well except if you are yourself, else you might got brain damaged along the way or possibly loose your mind and identity ..... it could even get worse why? they will scale you down and reduce your entirety to nothing and you will be demolish and demoralised.
I'm watching you from Kigali Rwanda. I am the first to watch the video after 20 second being released. I'm your great fan and follower. Greetings from Kigali Rwanda
Thank you so much. Point 10 almost brought me to tears. I dealt with that for 8 years. I pointed out early in the relationship, "I can accept truth no matter what it is, lies I can't deal with." This person never seemed to understand that, no matter what she would lie, leaving me confused. Many times I wanted to just leave, but I couldn't read the situation. My gut screamed, she's lying, but my heart said, "maybe I'm over thinking ". For that reason I couldn't leave because I wanted to be sure. Sure because we share children. At the end I was considering taking my own life, that's how much pain and hurt built up in me. Even now to guard the fact that she's sleeping with the man she destroyed our family over, she shutdown all means of communication, keeping me away from my children. You would think after a man loved you enough to father your other 2 children, you would make sure he continues a healthy relationship with his after you choose to move on. I could go on and on, but please continue you are living your purpose. God bless you sister....
I think #9 is debatable. I’ve dated someone, who ALWAYS wanted me to go to her family’s house. I would go for awhile, but then I realized it was a very constant thing. We would stay at their family house for hours! They celebrated every single birthday, always some function and etc. I got annoyed, it felt like I was dating her family after awhile. So it all depends on the individual as well. I’m good at talking to people, but I don’t like being around a bunch of people ALL the time. Especially other peoples family, you can’t really be yourself (relax, and do what you want). * I think a lot of these channels have very good relationship/personal development advice. But we also have to be wary of being unrealistic. Everyone has all these rules and steps, a person must meet to “qualify “. But we have to be honest with ourselves, no one is perfect across the board (some may put on a good show for awhile). Sure some may have better attributes than others, but no one meets every guideline 100%. So we have to be careful to not be so quick to discard someone, as soon as we see a flaw. Cause every single one of us has flaws (Even relationship/life coaches). No I’m not saying you should settle for infidelity, abuse of any kind, or a manipulative/controlling partner, but just be careful. Cause if we really walk around with all of these guidelines (playing process of elimination), we all will be single 😂. Use guidelines in moderation people.
Well, I'm not done with the video. But I think not just one red flag should determine everything. This is because we're unique and different and from different backgrounds... But multiple red flags is a no no... My opinion tho'
Your Unselfish and noble actions will forever be the most radiant pages in the biography of my life.. Thanx Sweet Jessica God richly Bless you!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Good morning Jessica. You have become my therapist no lie .. since my break up I been dating 2 women which is a lil to much for me for many reason but everything u said is so true. The crazy part is I’m into one more then the other and the other is really into me and wants everything. The first female is most deaf is 2,3,4 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ which has pulled me back frm her. Thank you for an other day of thinking and reflecting on a serious relationship. 😘🥰
Thank you so much Jessica you are really and truly a big sister watching this video has just saved me from going down the wrong road with someone I just started to talk to when I mean thank you so much in a million ways thank you for your inspiring words thank you for showing me not everybody who shows a pretty smile means they love you and you are my beautiful big sister💯♥️💯
Jessica your absolutely spot on 🤘 My ex didn't let me touch her phone for one sec at first I wasn't bothered about it then I came to realize that it was a giant Red flag Anything I talked about it there's going to be War!!! Story short I caught her cheating we broke up👌 I always love watching your videos Jess Well done.
God bless you real good!!!! Especially the point where you raised the red flag if your partner won't allow you go through her/his phone before making a final commitment.
What I don't understand is why I wasn't born into your family so you can be my elder sister. My life would have even been better than this. Glad I rocked this channel. Stop dating people who 1. Flirt with others while dating you 2. Get sketchy whenever you ask to see their phones 3. Refuse to give you a title e.g, boyfriend, girlfriend 4. They don't care for you. 5. They don't honour their words. {If they don't it means they don't respect you} 6. They don't make you a priority in their life 7. They hold you to double standards (they get mad when you go to see your friends, whereas they do the same) 8. They put you down. (it's toxic) 9. They hate spending time with your friends or family. 10. They turn their mistakes into your mistakes. RUN when you encounter such people.
First and foremost, Miss Jessica a big thumbs 👍up to you. #: 9️⃣ and 🔟 said all that l had been in before I even defended her because I was in love and nothing but a true LOVE. But the fact remains that it served me as a guide and am more skeptical about dating and taking any girl these days. Thank you so kindly ❤.
Hi Jessica. I think you are talking to me directly...... Waw thank you so much, I always love your videos. I started following you when you were at 549k . ♥️☘️
If I had met you two years before 2020, Jessica, I wouldn't have committed the relationship blunders that nearly cost my life. You're Doing An Awesome Job...Satisfied I Met You...
Am so touched and grateful am as well experienced now because some of the characters you just talked about my partner portray them as well it’s high time I decide to let things go 😢😪
My name is Jesse as well! Thank you!! My gf of 3 months has a hard time believing I am faithful ti her. She thinks I’m lying. Whenever she sleeps over she always leaves at the crack of dawn and never spends mornings with me :/ my ex before her was the same and she never believed I was faithful when I always was. Very stressful
True, those kinds of partners are narcissists,, they never see their wrong. They will make you apologize for their wrong they did especially when you really love them
The fact that we get free videos from Jessica is a blessing a treasure!
So true❤
Big tumbs up!
Kudos bro 😉
Go an extra mile, always share and like the video
She's the best ✌️😭✌️
This woman (Jessica) is a blessing to the world. Thank you for taking your time to create this video. I appreciate it.
Can I tell her I learned it all from you?
Jessica is the embodiment of honesty.
The #2 about the phone stuff is 100% accurate. Sometimes I ask not because I really wanna see or check something within, but juste to see thé reaction. That reaction teaches a lot!
If you been with anyone for years phns should be the last thing 😬🤦🏿then again ppl be phony roni😂😂😂
True!
Great points, especially about flirting with other people. Definitely a red flag!
What flirting means
You are a life saver, ever since I started following you my life has improved
As the old saying goes, "If one can't keep their word, then they can't keep their vows."
Thank you Jessica.. I saw most of the red flags in my previous relationships, I feel relived knowing I did the right thing walking out of it.
Thank you Jess!..I found myself getting teary 😢 though, because some of us have experienced some of the things that you're saying.
Ever since I came across your videos, you have given me enough pointers to easily detect falsehood early. Truth and honesty is not always from the pulpit. Thank you for building a real life pulpit!
Feeling the passion in her(Jess) voice, and the expression on her (Jess) face, tells me how she means whatever she said in this video. We love you Jess
Jess is the Best...all facts no BS..let's get this gal to 1million and beyond subs..well deserved. Stay blessed my friend 🙏
I did number 3,asked for our relationship to be defined I did get no definition and I left,the best decision ever😌.
Thank you Jessica, you will never know how much you help guys out here...more blessing to you
All love from Uganda 🇺🇬 Jessica
Always facts in truth
All Facts!! Great Breakdown @JessicaOs, like Always!
💙🖤🖤💙
I love your wisdom Jessica. I simple also view that the most important stage to come totally clean is when both parties have a knowing that they are both willing to work toward marriage that would last forever. You are a blessing Jessica. Thumbs up.
First to comment, love you Jessica, your advice are the best. Love from Lagos Naija.
Awesome advise! Thanks Jess. There's a pandemic (strong word, I know but it is what it is...) of people staying & beginning the wrong kinds of relationships & taking them as far as marriage only to back out by any means possible so they can move on to the next victim. I have to wonder if it's so terrible to be single. People like this simply make it hard for those already doubtful of the possibility of honest, loving relationships. This information is helpful & relevant.
Thank you...trust me I needed this as a confirmation that I made the right choice.
Three things I know for a fact and have experienced are:
1. Run when he/she looks down on your Family....Friend(If and only if you have a good and positive sets of friends and you're sure that they're, else change them for your own good).
2. Run when he/she is not focused on her goal/self development unlike yourself, instead you will notice he/she just causing drama and falling for youthful exuberance or such.
3. This might be quite hard for some of us to accept but just maybe you wanna give it a second and deep thought yee humans: Run when he/she is a religious fanatic, well except if you are yourself, else you might got brain damaged along the way or possibly loose your mind and identity ..... it could even get worse why? they will scale you down and reduce your entirety to nothing and you will be demolish and demoralised.
I'm watching you from Kigali Rwanda. I am the first to watch the video after 20 second being released. I'm your great fan and follower. Greetings from Kigali Rwanda
I'm from Gambia 🇬🇲, I really learned a lot from her
Thank you so much. Point 10 almost brought me to tears. I dealt with that for 8 years. I pointed out early in the relationship, "I can accept truth no matter what it is, lies I can't deal with." This person never seemed to understand that, no matter what she would lie, leaving me confused. Many times I wanted to just leave, but I couldn't read the situation. My gut screamed, she's lying, but my heart said, "maybe I'm over thinking ". For that reason I couldn't leave because I wanted to be sure. Sure because we share children. At the end I was considering taking my own life, that's how much pain and hurt built up in me. Even now to guard the fact that she's sleeping with the man she destroyed our family over, she shutdown all means of communication, keeping me away from my children. You would think after a man loved you enough to father your other 2 children, you would make sure he continues a healthy relationship with his after you choose to move on. I could go on and on, but please continue you are living your purpose. God bless you sister....
Was she a single mother before you started your relationship with her?
@@exemplarypersonality6562 Yeah
Hi Jess..thank u so much for the motivating.. encouraging videos❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I think #9 is debatable.
I’ve dated someone, who ALWAYS wanted me to go to her family’s house. I would go for awhile, but then I realized it was a very constant thing. We would stay at their family house for hours! They celebrated every single birthday, always some function and etc. I got annoyed, it felt like I was dating her family after awhile. So it all depends on the individual as well. I’m good at talking to people, but I don’t like being around a bunch of people ALL the time. Especially other peoples family, you can’t really be yourself (relax, and do what you want).
* I think a lot of these channels have very good relationship/personal development advice. But we also have to be wary of being unrealistic. Everyone has all these rules and steps, a person must meet to “qualify “. But we have to be honest with ourselves, no one is perfect across the board (some may put on a good show for awhile).
Sure some may have better attributes than others, but no one meets every guideline 100%. So we have to be careful to not be so quick to discard someone, as soon as we see a flaw. Cause every single one of us has flaws (Even relationship/life coaches). No I’m not saying you should settle for infidelity, abuse of any kind, or a manipulative/controlling partner, but just be careful. Cause if we really walk around with all of these guidelines (playing process of elimination), we all will be single 😂. Use guidelines in moderation people.
Well, I'm not done with the video. But I think not just one red flag should determine everything. This is because we're unique and different and from different backgrounds... But multiple red flags is a no no... My opinion tho'
It’s not by force to go by all the rules always
Take that which will help you and ignore the rest which ain’t important bro
Thank you so much for this Jessica ...this will help me a lot
Your Unselfish and noble actions will forever be the most radiant pages in the biography of my life.. Thanx Sweet Jessica God richly Bless you!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Good morning Jessica. You have become my therapist no lie .. since my break up I been dating 2 women which is a lil to much for me for many reason but everything u said is so true. The crazy part is I’m into one more then the other and the other is really into me and wants everything. The first female is most deaf is 2,3,4 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ which has pulled me back frm her. Thank you for an other day of thinking and reflecting on a serious relationship. 😘🥰
True i was in such a relationship, it's only God who helped me leave her, I was suffering deep inside, it wasn't easy leaving her
Thank you Jessica God bless you. You really helping a lot novices guys out there.
You are a gem. And a blessing to mother nature...I can't wait to read your book.
I think this is one of the best videos I have personally.thanks so much
the pause before she said flee got me spitting out my drink
You have really reversed to me how most of us waste out time on the wrong people.
Thank u very much.
Very true
My today video is very pertinent, thorough &just outstanding. Thanks a million for all your sacrifices to always give superb content 😉👌👍💝
Thank you so much Jessica for all these pointers that you are giving to us, opening our eyes and minds with your wise advices
Hey Jessica I'm your fan from Kenya 🇰🇪 much ❤
Hey 👋🏾
How i wish i had known you much earlier
Your content has helped me a lot with my relationships you're an absolute gem
@@pochondigital5004 thank you so much
All I can is that let God bless you and continue to give you wisdom, continue with this teachings
Thanks Jesse. Your videos have made me change some pressing things and relationship situations in my life.
Thank you so much Jessica you are really and truly a big sister watching this video has just saved me from going down the wrong road with someone I just started to talk to when I mean thank you so much in a million ways thank you for your inspiring words thank you for showing me not everybody who shows a pretty smile means they love you and you are my beautiful big sister💯♥️💯
I bless the day I subscribed to this channel. I literally listen to your videos like a podcast
Jessica your absolutely spot on 🤘 My ex didn't let me touch her phone for one sec at first I wasn't bothered about it then I came to realize that it was a giant Red flag Anything I talked about it there's going to be War!!! Story short I caught her cheating we broke up👌 I always love watching your videos Jess Well done.
Thank you Jessica for the wonderful teachings😌🙏
God bless you real good!!!! Especially the point where you raised the red flag if your partner won't allow you go through her/his phone before making a final commitment.
Great video, indeed!
God bless you Jessica ❤️
What I don't understand is why I wasn't born into your family so you can be my elder sister. My life would have even been better than this. Glad I rocked this channel.
Stop dating people who
1. Flirt with others while dating you
2. Get sketchy whenever you ask to see their phones
3. Refuse to give you a title e.g, boyfriend, girlfriend
4. They don't care for you.
5. They don't honour their words. {If they don't it means they don't respect you}
6. They don't make you a priority in their life
7. They hold you to double standards (they get mad when you go to see your friends, whereas they do the same)
8. They put you down. (it's toxic)
9. They hate spending time with your friends or family.
10. They turn their mistakes into your mistakes.
RUN when you encounter such people.
You are really helping me in what I'm going through. Continue doing what you do, God bless.
Thank you! I'm seeing a lot of these red flags
you got beautiful eyes behind your wise words and uplifting content!
Wow your channel is growing keep up the good work ❤️
First and foremost, Miss Jessica a big thumbs 👍up to you.
#: 9️⃣ and 🔟 said all that l had been in before I even defended her because I was in love and nothing but a true LOVE.
But the fact remains that it served me as a guide and am more skeptical about dating and taking any girl these days.
Thank you so kindly ❤.
Thanks for the Advise Jessica#its really helpful
I wish was following you long time ago🙌
Hello Jess. I’ve watched nearly all your videos. Thanks you. I appreciate you
Hi Jessica. I think you are talking to me directly......
Waw thank you so much, I always love your videos. I started following you when you were at 549k . ♥️☘️
Thanks for the support
I'm highly honored watching your videos
You're such a treasure beyond measure
Everything you say is 100% fact
Thank you, Jessica, this video has at least shown me some different in life
This is Almost what I saw in my Relationship, this time I choose to walk Away
Since i started watching your videos you have been a motivation to me
Jessie keep giving me joy with your content...
Hi Jessica God bless you greatly for all you do❤️
These are real facts Jessy. Thanks for sharing
Wow your story sounds like your reading from my life book. All the red flags were there and I ignored based off potential and so called love.
If I had met you two years before 2020, Jessica, I wouldn't have committed the relationship blunders that nearly cost my life. You're Doing An Awesome Job...Satisfied I Met You...
Thank you, Jessica.
Thank you so much, for ur words it always encourages me
Bumped into her vids today..Sitting here on some where have u been My Sister when the world needed you the most..👌👌
Am so touched and grateful am as well experienced now because some of the characters you just talked about my partner portray them as well it’s high time I decide to let things go 😢😪
Dependable advice as always. 👍❤️
Much love Jess..We so much appreciate your services
Thank you Jessica. Your relationship advice are very practical and they are easy to apply.
I absolutely totally loved this video it hit so many points great advice Jessica thanks again for all that you do ❤️🙏🏿
God Bless you Jessica. Thank you for sharing.
Was skeptical about the vid at first but the advice is spot on if you want a relationship/marriage.
It's less than an year since I subscribed.i have learnt alot from your contents.keep the fire burning .loves you gal
Thank you so much!
Jessica, how I wish I had met you earlier, God saved me from a crash. Keep up the good work.
Jessica, this is the best of all your series. I luv you pls keep it up.
This is really educative and its playing much in my next decision
Too informative and eye opening Jessica
Thank you for this. ❤️
Always a time worthwhile to spend my daily lunch break @Jessica. Keep sailing!!!
Thank you so much ma...the number 2 is what iam witnessing now
Thank you Jessica you have made me a better man. I have proven everything you said more that once. You are an Angel. I love you.
This girl I’ve been seeing is making me question my past relationships because she Cares so much for me☺️🥰 love her to bits ❤️
Thank so much for the timely advice
Thank you so much Jessica for all the beautiful educative videos…please can you share on a lady who is emotionally unavailable.
Jessica's is shining the mirror to all of us regardless of Skin Colour, Religion and Culture. Listen , watch and Learn
Love every bit of you videos...thanks mad love from kenya
My name is Jesse as well! Thank you!! My gf of 3 months has a hard time believing I am faithful ti her. She thinks I’m lying. Whenever she sleeps over she always leaves at the crack of dawn and never spends mornings with me :/ my ex before her was the same and she never believed I was faithful when I always was. Very stressful
Am among top 20 today…! Thanks for the advice sisy i personal i learn alot from you
True, those kinds of partners are narcissists,, they never see their wrong. They will make you apologize for their wrong they did especially when you really love them
Keep on with the Good Work..I wish most Women Will be BRAVE and Wise like you..
Ditto 100% Thanks, J.
Thank you so much ma’am 👏🏾
This Channel is Gold .
You're right ma'am.
Keep doing the good job.
Thank you very much.. I really appreciate...
I found answers to my questions
Soon we have to pay to listen to you. I love you Jessica OS ❤❤
Thanks Jessica I’ll keep watching your videos
Thanks Jessica next time I’ll look for these signs in any relationship now