Daddy Issues with Ariel B. and Joy Ellington
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- Опубліковано 25 чер 2024
- Can father-daughter relationships shape the trajectory of our lives? It gets real, ya'll! Joined by Dr. Joy Ellington and Ariel B, we explore how strained relationships and the absence of a biological father influences adult life, and the profound impacts these bonds have on our romantic choices.
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I am so thankful for my stepdad for stepping in when I was younger. My mom brought me and my older sister to my real dad’s house to ask him and his wife if we could come visit every other weekend. I snuck in the hallway to overhear him saying no. I remember for years saying I’m going to find him to ask why did he say no. As I got older, in my late 20s I accepted that I no longer needed to know why, I had a man who took me, my older sister and brother in with open arms and has loved us unconditionally. Till this day I am so grateful for him❤❤❤
I just want to say Tiffany's every episode of this new show has been great. I can say I truly enjoy each one of them. Keep up the good work and thank you.
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Just found this show and as an avid podcast listener and a podcaster, this is one of the best. Tiffany is a fabulous and transparent interviewer and does a wonderful job of creating meaningful conversations with her guests. I am hooked!
These are the hard conversations that every family needs to strive to have with each other. I understand that sometimes it is just not possible but try to. The Truth will set you free, no matter how hard to hear.
This was a much needed discussion. Thank you for giving voice to this issue. Many blessings to you all. We need our men to be involved and contributing members of our families. Thank you for the ones who do. Much respect to the black family. 🙏🏾🤴🏿🏆
I had a great dad ,he passed when I was 20,he was cool guy hansmdsome. My heart ❤️ I thought I was gonna die with him it hurt so bad.
So yes shout out to all the good dads!
I'm enjoying ACross Generations Tiffany. Thanks for the empowering information & interesting topics. As for Daddy Issues I have so, so many!. My Papi was the first man to break my heart when he & my Mamacita divorced. Leaving our family & forcing her to raise 5 kids alone. He promised he would always love me, that I would still see him. He LIED!, & I'm still not over it. Fast forward, to my life today. I've been blessed with an amazing husband, who's the most loving Daddy to our only child. Proving that real men STAY!.
These episodes are so Raw and Revealing.
NICE discussion. Thanks for your transparency Ladies.... and yes, this could be a series topic too.
Wonderful and insightful dialogue!!! Thank you ladies. 🙏🏾
I just love Ariel and the fantastic job she is doing with her children. She is so insightful and intuitive about the communication with them. Cheering for her always! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
This episode has encouraged me to approach the topic with my therapist lol.
Thanks for this conversation. I thoroughly enjoyed listening to your stories across generations.
I had both parents in my life but Dr Joy Ellington is a mirror reflection of how my relationship was with my father. I have been told that I move through life like a man and I don’t want to be seen like that. I love being a woman in all aspects of life! I want to be wanted and loved by the right man! This was another great episode!! 🙌🏾❤
Another great episode! I was very blessed to have a loving, protective, and wise daddy. He was so cool. The only time we ever had any issues was during my rebellious teenage years. I miss him dearly but he's always in my heart. RIP Daddy. ❤
I had a father in my life, it was my mother who walked out of my life. My father was both roles, but also unfortunately because he is a man he lacked that empathy or compassion you would have from a mother. Also he was the main breadwinner so he definitely lacked being present because he had to work and support his 3 kids.
I give such reverence to the Dr. “the seasoned” 🥴guest on the show, as she was blessed with discernment at a young age. Or maybe her proximity to males (uncles or cousins), gave her a very needed perspective regarding men. I had those great uncles and cousins too. Also I think knowing that her bio dad was “around “ and had love for her, gave her the confidence and foundation. She learned that people are imperfect but can still do the best that they’re equipped to do. And the bonus was her stepfather, who covered her in her youth and beyond. 👏🏾👏🏾Great show. I was very fortunate to have one of the good dads. Not perfect. But even my mom says after a divorce and being married to him for 20+ yrs, he is and was a good one.I am grateful and blessed.
This episode was so heartfelt. As someone who had an absent father due to physical abuse, I did use sex with men as a way to cope. As I have gotten into my thirties and now therapy, a lot of my disposition towards not wanting a family of my own, came from the trauma dumping surrounded by the views my family had of my father.
Great episode as always 🌻
Wow, Ariel. Thank you for sharing your story.
This was Avery impactful episode I learnt a lot from this. All these episodes have been very interesting. Great job Tiffany
Best podcast love from 🇿🇦
Great podcast today.
This was such a good discussion.
I was raised with my mother and father in the home as a married couple. However the values they taught me prevented me from being able to separate sex from love. So this brings in a new dynamic to the father being in the home.
Beautiful discussion
This is a much needed podcast, love it and wish it was longer!😊
Excellent episode.
A great topic and dialogue 💜
This was such an insightful episode. 😊❤
Loving your podcast.
First I want to say to Ms Tiffany I’ve been a big fan of yours for quite some time and I truly miss the IG live (The Cross Talk) with you Dr Jason Johnson on Saturdays right after the “Cross Connects”. I’m loving watching Across Generations with your guess and I have much respect for you on sharing your life experience. I have a daughter who lives in the DMV with her husband and I had turn her on (Share) to this podcast and she told me that she’s like the podcast episodes. Dr Ellington’s comments on( 41:00) separating love and sex sounds like a playbook manual from the best seller book and the box office success movie “Think like a man and a act like a woman” (I know Steve Harvey gets the credit for writing the book but I thinks Ms Margie is the ghost writer) 😉 Great Show 🙏🏿🤎👍🏿. By the way I’m a very soon to be a 65 yr young black male originally from North Philly but for the past 25 years I’ve been living in the (I’m ready to move and relocate) PacNorth West and I’m learning allot from the show topics and thank you 🙏🏿 Oh yeah, Brian Mcnight is a ahole!
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Unfortunately the courts are a big part of the problem. The courts have essentially said fathers don't matter, no matter how bad the mothers are. So it's not as simple as going to the courts and asserting your rights. I know a number of fathers having this struggle with their exes where the courts have sided with the mothers. It's a never ending vicious cycle and unfortunately the kids suffer because of ALL adults involved.
I think seeing your parents in unhealthy conflict is way worse than parents hiding it. At least you had peace in the home