Marriage Evolution: Navigating Lifelong Partnerships & Self-Discovery With Sandra Tate & Sade Parham
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- Опубліковано 16 кві 2024
- There's no such thing as a one-size-fits-all relationship. The ebb and flow of marriage, like the ocean's tides, are constant yet ever-changing. Mrs. Tate, whose marriage spans six decades, and Miss Sade, an entrepreneur at the pulse of modern relationships, join us to disuss the essence of what makes relationships tick, thrive, and sometimes, redefine themselves. Subscribe to the Across Generations channel NOW. New episodes every Tuesday on Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.
Dated for 4 years, married for 27 years ( total years together 31 years ).Divorced for 17 years. I learned that marriage and partnerships are different things. Each marriage is different and no one knows the issues,problems that are involved in anyone's marriage.
Marriage was always a contract...from the concept of a dowry;Women abilities to have job/ careers...or not have a career
If you are solely dependent on someone for your livelihood that defines what type of marriage or partnership you may have.
Having a " partner" that is willing to understand, compromise, talk, give respect is important.
The couple needs to define what works for them, married or partnership....Humans are complex.
Mrs. Tate is just a gem! So happy she's back on! I love hearing this beautiful 81 year old woman have such respect for "non-traditional" lifestyles. Much love to you Tiffany for this content 🤎
So good! I feel like women are starting to realize that marriage is not the determinant of their success. Marry someone you can’t live without. If that doesn’t happen you are just as awesome being single.
So well said
Each couple has to define what they want a partnership or marriage will look like. How they want to operate and love each other.
We need to understand that these types of relationships require us to really assess ourselves.
Interesting episode. Anytime more rights/choices (esp. for women) lead to not participating in compulsory traditions, examining the value of those traditions is worth doing. It's also worth mentioning that the conditions conducive to partnership (livable wages, health-care, career options, compatibility, equitable division of domestic/emotional labor etc.) perhaps aren't as present. In that case who'd choose a lower quality of life to meet a societal benchmark? Make the right choices for you 🤷🏾♀️🙏🏾
I am loving this podcast! Enjoy you on Native Land and here too. Continue the good work and be blessed!
Interesting conversation! Im younger than Ms Tate, but older than Tiffany. Married twice, won't do it again but I do miss companionship. Also interesting that the younger sister was cool with a don't ask/don't tell situation. I'm all about monogamy; cheating is a total deal-breaker for me. If he needs more than I have to give, feel free to roam, but take your stuff with you while you explore.
38:37 Miss Tate is always a plus!
I like it when we choose each other. Makes me feel more secure and safe to be vulnerable with them.
Finally it drops on UA-cam the next day. I had to wait TWO days to watch.
I loved this conversation!!!! Happy to see you back on my screen!❤
Loved this dialogue. You each were so open...Tiffany I related to you the most as my words have been harmful in my past relationships. I do still desire partnership just praying for the person who will be committed to do the work WITH me.
Great episode! Wishing you continued success, joy, and love Tiffany.😊
Tiffany neice I loved this episode too I'm glad you thought of this.(you too Mr Packer) I am a widow, I an not exactly sure what I want this time around but I do want so I am praying you and I both find what we want. This second half is hitting real different for me. Went to Paris & London wishing husband could have experience that with me but I'm doing me.
Sade might not want to here this; but if you sending him pictures of a ring and he anit took you to a public place or in front of friends and family proposed to you or spoken to you parents set... you wasting your time. Men gonna lock up who they want to be with the 1st sign you give is enough.
Wow! This episode really fed me. I appreciate the different perspectives. It also, helped me see some complexities and wins in my own marriage.
48:53 sounds like the Golden Girls. I'm refraining from loudly singing the theme song.
Stumbled across your podcast. This was a great conversation, much needed. Thank you!
Tiffany you are Beautiful, intelligent, amazing person. Great show. Very authentic.❤❤❤
This was a great episode. Thank you ladies for your insight.
I really enjoyed this episode.
Interesting perspectives from Mrs Tate and Sade... Great podcast!
Yes, it is the work we did not think of .....I divorced when it was time to do the work.....I think we need to get the knowledge , study material to prepare you for marriage.
These problems are here because folks are out here sexing and not getting to know each for shared values, shared interests, and shared life goals.
There’s too much superficial stuff going on. Time to get back to the basics.
No sex before marriage and courtship for the purpose of marriage.
Every 5 years, in a marriage, one wonders will it last.
41:12 I'm going to Miami...I might...#ImOpenToThat????
Say WHAT?😮
I enjoyed the conversation with this one exception: NEVER ask a man to marry you. Some situations men are supposed to step up to or control. That can be the beginnings of emasculation. They don’t want masculine women, so do not take his role.
Violence is the reason....mental health is the reason....and the horrific stories that women are reading about....
Lol, "What happened to a nice man with a stable job".
I skipped past this episode and "Gender Roles" a bunch of times. I swear I though this podcast was going to be a carbon copy of "Red Table Talk." IT IS NOTHING LIKE THAT! I didn't even want to hear the usual episodes about woman-led podcasts regarding marriage, womanhood in the workplace, parenthood, etc., because I was bored with it. But Tiffany was so cool on "Native Land Pod" that I had to at least poke my head in.
I'm starting to think I like this podcast as much as "Native Land Pod" because I can relate to her so much. Her love of dogs is clearly mine. (Read the username.) I can't tell if she's happily single or just single, but 15::30 makes me think it's the former. (I honestly like peace more than I like relationships, and I really appreciate no one controlling my mood but me.) Also in my 40s (early ones, but still), 100% refuse to downplay my blackness and love journalism. Although me not having kids is 100,000% voluntary and hers was a health decision, I think not being a mom may reflect her views on independence too.
Even topics I think I would skip on RTT I watch from her because I like her perspective. Tiffany is my homegirl in my head. I THINK THAT'S WHY I LIKE THIS PODCAST. She's a fun host. Kudos to you, Tiffany!
I just listened to her dismissive, condescending views on the n-word. Never mind. Unsubscribed.
Too many good men captured by the prison industry, so one basically settles, if one marrys. Don't settle.
Sorry but the older sister, no disrespect but she’s very disingenuous. The younger sista, she’s honest.
OMG. This explains why AMERIKKKA is crumbling because the strength of a nation is the family structure. It's amazing to be outside North AMERIKKKA and see the difference in how simple it is for men and women to cooperate, communicate and get along with each other. The understanding that they need each other is so organic and simple. But in AMERIKKKA it's like a war. Ironically every other race seems to understand they need each other. Why is it black Americans can't see that.. Sadly Most North American black women seem to think that their education can replace the black man. While non black women are scooping them up.
I always cringe when I hear comments like these. However, this is your experience and I respect that. I have traveled the world and seen the same issues we have in North America. I have traveled the country and seen countless stories of super Black love. We are not a monolith and neither are any other people from any races or continents. Divorce stats remain high for all races in the US. The issue is this...are we respecting each other enough in and out of our relationships to maintain a healthy village for each other and especially our children? Family values are only one portion of a healthy village for our children. What are we doing economically? For our mental, physical, and spiritual health? Look at the schools around you? Are they all stellar for our children? Do we have clean neighborhoods where everyone has a livable wage and great housing? We have so much to do and we can only do this if we have healthy relationships with each other--single or married. One love...
🙋🏾🙏🏾💐🦁🫅🏾 How Is asking a Married woman are they okay in a Podcast without laughing or a Sacrifice.