Full Video: Black Men Dating Latina Women...Is It A Culture Thing?
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
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The good black men seem to be more appreciated by non black women. Many black women put all black men into one box whether they are good or bad. Most black men still marry black women over other races, but if a black man dates outside his race, it should be ok without shame from anyone.
They been dirtying our names for decades bra keisha is a soldier in Brad's army that's why they belong together Keisha see black men the same way as brad does they celebrate whenever a brother is gunned down by a brad with a badge so I don't give a dam about them 😡 don't speak to me whenever I'm in public I don't want to hear nothing from them Keisha destroyed the black community with the PROJECTS I don't care if a brad is roughing her up in my face I ain't see 💩
No shame from me, date who you want !
The black woman was naturally more aggressive and defensive then anyone else there 😂
She got the masculine, raspy voice to go with it all too.
It’s trippy to hear a Latina speak more favorably about black men than black women. 😦
I peeped that to smh
Its not if your're from a place where black/latinos live together
That Latina Gave Me Femine Vibes🥰🥰But It’s True That Spanish Women, And Other Races Of Women, Were Raised To Serve. Black Women Are Raised To Be Strong, Tough And Independent. I Love My Black Princesses And Queens But I Feel Like Black Moms Need To Teach Their Daughters How To Be A Wife. How To Cater To A Man.
@@Sigmaa5.0h - you sound like a female. You use their buzz words. “i feel like”, “black princesses”, “black queens”.
Humble yourself that you may be exalted. Speak humbly.
The prideful get humbled.
No disrespect; just an observation.
Facts
In my experience as a Puerto Rican women, Spanish men expect you to serve them… and our hard work as a mother and wife gets over looked as being with a black man.. and I’ve been with my black husband for 6 years… I feel very appreciated nothing gets unnoticed… every meal I make for him is appreciated… cleaning the home… planning our birthdays and things for our children.. everything is noticed and appreciated… as to a Spanish men it would be looked at as that’s your job.. and working hard as a wife and not feeling appreciated can put u in a depressive state.. but I can only speak on my experiences and I don’t think that all Spanish men and black men are like this because different people bring the best and worst out of each other.. having a deep loving connection is what’s really ideal.
This a fake account made by a black man obsessed with Latin women weird
The truth be told... My wife is Cuban and PR.. beautiful and she serve me not material.. I have her everything house cars.. I would give my life for this woman... She treats me dam good.. much respect. She does not challenging me in the house hold.. she makes things easy for me to focus on real things.
you are not a Puerto Rican that was a title put on you by the spanish conquistadors. Sister you are a Israelite from the tribe of Ephraim. here is a link you need to check out and learn your nationality in the Bible. ua-cam.com/video/yQlyB9IpgVY/v-deo.html
Yeah, I treat a woman with love and respect regardless of race. But you Latino women today, don't give a Latino man a chance even to date you, especially when you are a light-skinned man. You've been biased in dating a light man and believe much of what social media promotes. And now, young Latino women's minds are poisoned by what social media promotes instead of finding a man that is good and loyal to them, which is not about skin color. I don't even what to go to the height of a man issue either, but yeah.
Wow. What a refreshing perspective. Good luck to your relationship! 💗
As a Black American woman I am approached for sex more rather than relationships. It’s so crazy and offensive. Black women don’t have issues getting men as evidenced by our high rates of single motherhood . We have trouble sustaining a relationship. So maybe we need to switch it up. We need to Calm down and close the shop until we get a ring.
Or just learn how to compromise and be alot more feminine!!!feminalty is your true power
Shid if that’s what it takes
@@quickchange38 That part. Just be more feminine and submissibe and trust me you wont have no issue retaining your men. All the other BLACK races of women , African, Caribbean have no issue retaining their men for the most part.... the common denominator..they aint trying to be independent and can do all bad by themselves
It use to be that way. But that sexual revolution and today's ways changed all that up
Kevin Samuels has been saying that for I don't know how long now Mary before you carry says Kevin Samuels
The same BW on this panel asking, "Why isn't a BW raised to be a wife," has a video on 8 at the Table talking about how to be a Sugar baby. You can't make this up, smh.
😂😂😂
I was able to feel that energy, every time she spoke.
bro i thought that was her think you im bout to go get that right now
Back in the 80s we dated Spanish and black woman because we were all in the same hood and PJ's.😂
Broke and in Love
"Do you think that you, as a spanish culture are better than black women?"
That was a pointless, and stupid question that has NOTHING to do with dating a black man.
Take it from me, whoever treats us the best is the one who is most likely to end up with a commitment from us.
All you gotta do is listen to a man's feelings, and give him what HE WANTS!!
that question was dumb as hell , latin culture vs black women? wth was she talkin about? ...honestly this whole debate about latinas vs black woman is goofy as hell
I'm from NJ and the question was valid. Yall can pretend like the question was ridiculous but she answered it correctly
there are huge populations of Latin people who love to imitate their distant white European cousins!
You could tell from the beginning that she has a problem with Latina women.
What Was Her Point Of Asking That🤦🏾♂️
I'm black and my wife is Puerto Rican. It doesn't matter to me what the ethnicity but how I'm treated. PERIOD.
but your women is Puerto Rican lolololololololol lolololololololol
Same, I’m from PR and my husband is black. I think these talks are interesting because the lady in the video says “black men that date exotic women” but dating isn’t the goal. Marriage is. And I’m only going to be married to my one husband, and I don’t need to be running around dating all these men, when I just want my one. And I think that’s the difference. I have the energy to treat my man as a king, not all these different men. And that’s how most latinas are raised. To love, appreciate, and take care of their husband. And in turn, he will care for you. I hope the best for your relationship sir!
@GingerSpiritSmurf BINGO....I wish more black women came with your loving, soft attitude towards black men. 😢
@GingerSpiritSmurf OH wow! Thank you and may God Bless your union also‼️🙏🏽💯
It was Interesting to hear how the latin woman spoke about latin man in general. Not very positive. Not much different than how the black woman speaks on black men general, which goes to show that its easier to pick out the flaws in that which you are closest to. This is why these false narratives that black men treat other women better, just simply for being different needs to stop.
Well said
FACTS!
White women who date black men also talk down on white men
Asian, latina, and white women see the exact opposite in bm from what bw see… it can’t be us
Exactly!
I’m Latina, raised to serve. Married at 16, 35 and still married to the same Mexican. Very happy. Our middle son, is dating a black woman & we where very excited. She said she’s never meet such a gentleman who pays for everything n keeps constant contact with her.
Latinos focus on what they want, very territorial, we’ll see where it goes but wow she’s a beautiful girl and I’m excited
Married a Latina for the same reason. Family is important to y’all. Not to say it isn’t to other races but y’all go hard for y’all family in a real way that’s easy to see from the outside looking in.
You proving their point about them going out of the way for something exotic
@@blackpeoplespeaks I didn’t say anything about exotic. I spoke on family. You’re putting words in my mouth.
@@howiie12 get over yourself, not talking to you
Es todo chingona! I'm happy for you and your traditional family your man is is a happy man
That Spanish woman made me feel so good about myself as a black man. Lol That was crazy. First time a nonblack woman ever made me feel like that.
Smh and no black woman has made you feel like that!? It has to come from a White passing Latin woman? 🤦🏽♀️
Phfffm...don't mind me. Its just allergies.
edit: Yo these women are pissed👇🤣👆
You don't deserve any woman if some stranger made you feel good. Wow
I wouldn’t expect anything less from someone like you.🙆🏽♂️
They mad with this comment 😂🤣😂
How can you be beautiful, when everything about you is something you’re not?!
Wow, so much info
My biggest issue with some black women, they want to be the man in the relationship but like the man to treat them as a woman. They don’t see themselves acting like a man or having a lot of masculine energy/character in the relationship.
That’s a lot of women in this generation in general like u can’t be the man and want to be treated like a woman
Spanish men provide...
@@nenew24 unfortunately many races of women do wanna be with black men but same can't be said about black women
@@tfyouwanthuh..5649 Having a fetish is not the same thing as actually wanting to be with you. That's why black men who marry interracial are the highest divorced 🤷🏾♀️
@@nenew24 Hispanic men earn less than black men and yet still get femininity/submission from their women.
Asking one person to speak on behalf of a race/ethnic group is crazy.
It's crazy and some people will run with what these individuals say as gospel and facts, 😂.
It's actually wild!
What these individuals are speaking on is something we can ALL observe. So it doesn’t matter that it’s one person.
What are you asking? That we can only have these conversations with millions of people at once? Get outta here.
lol Yes, we’re gonna get 2 billion people in a room together to talk?
@@neilgrandeurproductions898 😂
My parents are from Haiti 🇭🇹 and I grew up in a Canadian surburb.
I was thought how to cook, clean and how to keep a home.
When I was younger, my grandmother would always tell me you need to learn to cook and clean to get a husband...lol🙂
That Latina Gave Me Femine Vibes🥰🥰But It’s True That Spanish Women, And Other Races Of Women, Were Raised To Serve. Black Women Are Raised To Be Strong, Tough And Independent. I Love My Black Princesses And Queens But I Feel Like Black Moms Need To Teach Their Daughters How To Be A Wife. How To Cater To A Man.
As a black man from southern Cali I can say this latinas stick with their men through thick and thin and their personal hygiene is excellent. You can smell a latinas fresh hair long after she has walked past you.
U Cali dudes some weirdos bruh😂
Most black women in America are raised to be independent. Black women in Africa are raised to be mother and wife's and to run households in some cases. The things that they don't like seem to be unigue to Western culture. Black men & women in Africa are very family orientated and that is a cultural thing. When having these discussions we need to be clear between culture & race.
Huh? The last statement you made was way too general. SOME black men are family oriented. However, there is a great percentage of black men out there that lack in the area of family and yet alone raising a family. Keeping the black household together versus creating “babymamas”. I hold us as women accountable for lacking discernment and sleeping with these type of guys and I hold men accountable for lacking character and not having self control.
As far as the African culture... Please you have no idea what those women go through in-spite of how they are raised and once they become wives. Most NOT ALL deal with some form of abuse rather emotional, verbal, financial, physical etc. It’s a patriotical society over there and most men from over there look down upon women and feel women should be used for their own selfish purposes. We are all human and should be treated as such.
I agree but we not in Africa. The "Africans" that are here are "Americanized" and fall in line with the culture that is here
You are 100 percent correct
@@veewill1729 That's 110 percent lie my friend .Both African and Caribbean women still keep their culture and wanna be wives and treat their men as such..serve them and everything...sorry but this is a black American thing
Great observation. Very different between black American and foreign blacks when it comes to relationship.
I find it ironic out women of other races say they date black men because of how black men treat them, yet black women always complain how black men treat black women badly. Honestly, i think the discrepancy is in the fact that black women are unreasonable when it comes to their standards w/ black men. In my opinion, other groups of men are way more harsher and critical of their women than black men are. Black men have lowered the bar for black women and they still complain.
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Most wht men are terrible to their women. Constant criticism and smart ass remarks. And God forbid a white female not be skinny bones for wht males. But ever notice the male will be bald , messy, and look9mths pregnant hes so fat? Not to mention how wht men don't groom themselves and smell terrible down below... gross
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I agree black men are very sweet whereas I find other races of men can be harsher with their women.
Omg 😳😳😳.
This is the biggest i have read so far
I'm so glad gyapo clarified that both his parents are black, because some people saying he shouldn't have a voice in this cause he Latin but I always said he's black asf lol lol
New York Blacks and Latins act so similar that it’s hard to tell sometimes. I wasn’t sure about him 😂😂😂
@@omarimack194 me either but I think there is some mixed in somewhere in there lol
You can see he’s black it’s funny though I can’t lie what because he’s Hispanic/Latin means he ain’t black 🤣
Well being black doesn't mean you aren't Latino nor mixed. You can be a black Latino. Honestly black mean American with unknown heritage with certain features.
@@wi77iama773n 🎯👏🏿
I’m so glad the black women made the comment, of how black women should not fall into the commentary or the sigma of how a black women typically act. Because honestly that needs to be said. Like that should be a goal.
I mean it really depends on the family but this definitely speaks to culture as a whole. Growing up as a Brazilian girl. I can tell you that what we’re taught to look for by your mothers is stability, I’m telling you all my friends have had conversations with their Latina mothers about how if a man can’t support you financially which is the expectation in a Latino household then why are you with him? And if he doesn’t have money he needs to have the ambition and the want to finance the household it’s a really big humiliation if the wife finances the household for a long time. It’s really embarrassing, and in the same breath I was always taught that marriage was a partnership so my partner provides the money and I take care of the household I pick up his plate I clean his food I have his kids. Being 16 years old now I’m telling you it was always a vocal and silent expectation for my parents that my degree was always going to be the back up plan. I get a degree so that my husband knows that I don’t need to depend on him and that if things go wrong I have something to fall back on but a stable marriage in which I don’t need to work has always been the Ideal
Exactly!!! This is for all Caribbean... Like i said only American girls are raised different. Whether you are brazilian, Latin, or Black Caribbean, it is the same thing. As Haitian, this is the expectation.
The same and you know what its about complementary roles not competing ones
Society has made to where that can't happen in this day and age.
I noticed you said if things go wrong that YOU have something to fall back on, what about the partnership and the family or is this just a contractual agreement?
@@wi77iama773n Everyone sees a commodity now.
Race is a *BIG* issue, believe it or not.
People need to start being honest with themselves.
*Black is the most hated and The most imitated.*
I feel like Dude in the white T is saying that he's black for the camera.
I’ve dated both Hispanic and Black man. I got to agree with I think it’s the experience. I love both of them but when it comes how they carry themselves I don’t know what is it about a black man he just carries himself with such confidence an this alpha male swag that shit is irresistible 🙃
You know girl🛀🛀😅
Alpha male swag now a days is considered toxic masculinity
Yes! That confidence so sexy!
Are u black
Im a black man I've married a black woman. We have 5 kids together. She left me for another man. Only wanted me back After her relationship failed, it was too late then. She even told me it was a mistake for her leaving. I then got in another relationship things didn't work out I tried. After I got in another relationship and hers failed she wanted to get back with me. When is enough enough?
I’m glad she was honest because we already know anyway.
“Do black men eff you better than Spanish men?” That is such a man question to ask. I’m glad that black woman tried to put him in his place by telling him that was a personal question smh
Weird ass shit…that was like an ego driven question to reassure his black manhood in a strange way…
They were trying for an ego boost at the end🤣😂. I agree with the Latina. If you vibe with someone it doesn’t matter race.
Notice how the Spanish women was honestly about how she was the problem in the relationship. We need that accountability from black women
It's simple, the types of black men the BW in this video attracts are low quality. Why would a high quality black professional want a BW with face piercings a non classy demeanor?
The Latino lady in the video on the surface seems more feminine and wholesome so I can understand why she attracts a higher class of black man.
"i was being the bitch" its very rare to find a woman whos accountable for her actions
Yup, and a man
previous comment before me Lol she tried it.
I respect what latina mami said but I still love my black women. I just want them to love me as much as this spanish girl loves us , talk about us in the same tone ,and show the same glow ..... I have no need to be served but I have a need to be love without stipulations... crazy thing is the way she talk about us she's glowing and i wouldn't even see her my dumb ass will turn right around and try and date sis cuz my black women are my preference ... sis is fire 100
Us Hispanics women don’t care. Date who you like or what’s your preference. Us Hispanics don’t compete we’re the whole package and y’all black man act like y’all are a prize to win. Y’all are mid and im being nice and y’all smell
Why are so many of us black people so obsessed with who or which group thinks they're better than us or don't like us. It's so insecure of us. It's like everyone owns our minds. How about focus on yourself and just be great.
facts validation things
Lmfao 🤣 we all black and brown people. Ones not better then the other, let’s stop this division now. I ❤️ you brother and sister 1 love. I see there points. I’ve dated out of my race and realize a bad man is a bad man and a good man is a good man. Race doesn’t matter people are people!!! I’m Caribbean and African and a beautiful black Queen! African and Caribbean women are the same raised to serve.
i agree, i love black and latin women just the same...yall aint that different lol this whole debate is counter productive
problem is today everyone is tribal. Especially women, unless they do it then it's crickets. But yes tribalism is strong in the country today.
browns are indians, Pakistanis etc...call them latinos
Whats the Latina lady's @?
That part when Guapo said “Without The Black Man & Woman The World Will Have No Soul” Now that’s Big Facts!!! 👁
Who gives a sh*t about soul other than black people?
Tbh I think someone should bring a AfroLatina on to these types of shows like a Panamanian women or Dominican women who live in both worlds
I'm a dark skinned black man and I love all my sister's and my mamis for sure. I dated a rican and it's true they love us beyond measure. Black women love what we can provide for them most women are like that but black women you gotta come with thay cheese n that's FACT.
Actually.....Black men know all about black women games and the racist Latinas who will date you behind closed doors and turn her head away from you in public. God created us unique and we were made to be alone until we finally understand that American women suck!The Philippines is where self loving black men find a woman.
Listen to how that latina women spoke about black men ❤️❤️❤️ that’s the love and affection BM have been dying for to show us.. latinas been coming strong for us
Y’all need to show the same admiration for black women and you’ll see a difference.
@@wholesomechick8259 Its a bit difficult to do that when the Black women of America are the only female demographic in mass around the world who openly brag about not needing their men. You dont hear White women in mass brag about not needing their men. You dont hear Latinas brag about not needing their Latinos. You dont hear Asian women in mass talk about how they dont need their Asian men.
BW of the US are the only ones who do that, and then when we do step outside our ethnicity and get more appreciated and accepted by women of other races, then yall still complain about that. and even with that being said, most BM who're married are married to a BW. I mean, cmon now.
@@IronBronx Yes but when was the last time a bm openly admired a bw without getting called a simp? When you guys go on about how other races of women are better, you don’t call each other simps then. All we hear in music and on social media is how inferior we are. Of course we won’t need men that openly put other races over us.
@@wholesomechick8259 putting other races of women above you, and pointing out characteristics that most BW perpetuate that are extremely turnoffish that other races of women don't do is not the same thing. There's a reason why BW of America are the least married demographic of women on the planet, and it's not the BMs fault.
@@wholesomechick8259 we call out simps who show that they enable their women's bad behavior.
KS warned you all. Their chicken is seasoned too. 🤷🏾😂
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Facts 😂
@@kingneef8354 Did you marry one of them yet?
@@wholesomechick8259 c’mon you know they hardly marry any woman no matter the race lol
@@luvmuzic_ Facts. 🤣
Let’s be honest, Hispanics share African ancestry hence the skin color and shape. This is simply a continuation of the colorism that exists in our community. Whether you are light skin creole from New Orleans of light skin Hispanic from New York, they receive more attention from men
Facts
Okay, what's the problem, tall men receive more attention then short men, rich men get more attention then poor, entertainers an celebrity's get more attention then non-celebrity, there will always be advantages and disadvantages for everyone, slim women get more attention then fat women.
@@flexhenry3 You can’t be black asking why colorism is an issue
@@flexhenry3 That's true
💯💯💯 history
All valid points, and idk if it was said because I stopped in the beginning in the video to make this comment, but also a lot of Latinas got big butts like sistas. That’s what I always looked at growing up around Dominicans and Puerto Ricans in NYC.
Exactly Latin women are mixed with black so some can be chocolate or even darker yet display a full figure full lips . They are pretty much biracial mixed with all types of bloods thus why they produce very exotic looking women. They combine they best of both worlds heck I dated a white chic that always threatened by them lol
@@francisikwueme1688 Thank you. Most Latin and of course all Afro Latina women are mixed with African. I grew up in a city with a large number of biracial friends. They are all very much lighter than the average Dominican I see in the DR. The first Dominican I dated in the US was darker than me.
@@chillycharles910 Excactly I am a light skinned Nigerian yet have dated Latin women drawer than me heck even this Trinidadian bombshell I dated in college was darker
@@chillycharles910 Also easier to date them even over white women because their familial traditions , food are closer to my culture so you feel a little more at home with them. Nevertheless I love women all types of women I date who likes me or who I can bond or relate to
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As a black man, I'd prefer someone who was raised to be a wife than someone who was raised to be independent... Hey Mammie😉
This is the realist ish I've heard on this show...gwapo
Did she say she wears weave and she's from the projects so she doesn't have a problem with black women🙄is that a joke...what does weave and projects have to do with black women...I'm completely lost because last time I checked the projects in NY are full of Spanish people and the majority of Spanish women wear extensions😴😴😴
maybe cause cause alot black women leave in the projects and use wear weaves lol you looking to be offended
I’m Latina and I can admit we’re very passive toward you guys but the reason is because MEN we let men keep us divided . I use to be like that to black girls when I was young but ima grown woman now and know better
I gotta address a few things as a black man in America. 1. Spanish is a language not a race. 2. The panel was speaking on individual experiences. 3. The word exotic can be a depiction of a black woman as well. I looked at a lot of the comments in the video as being cliché. The sexual question towards the Latina was uncalled for, it’s all personal experience. Meaning it would be an opinion based answer that would be given. Lastly let’s stop the dividing of Africans, they were all divided by where the slave ships docked. In other words Latinos are Africans. Btw I’m happily married to a Boricua and we have two beautiful daughters together. Us as a people need to uplift one another and continue to have healthy conversations to learn about our culture…..
Latinos are a blend of : Indigenous, Spanish, African
Right....So foul
Facts
I could not have said it better myself - from a Dominican BLACK woman who's considered "spanish" -.-'
Yea you came with many FACTS
I’m glad she (that Latina) kept it 100 about holidays question.
4:15 They ask Yall what yall are mixed because they are confused by the fake hair yall got on top and he doesnt realize its not real but he does realize that its not typical which make them wonder if you are mixed with something else. Thats why they ask.
It doesn’t matter about the fake hair. It could also be the facial features
@@JaeElise Nope, most times than not is the FAKE hair. If u remove the FAKE hair from most of these women, nobody would question their race. And they know this, which is exactly why they wear the asian hair. They could wear Afro-Extensions, but they don't, ask yourself why. They wanna look mixed, but then get confused when asked what they are mixed with.
Dudes are capping for these chics to impress them. We all have eyes, she does not look mixed
@@LexRuger718 I didn’t want say anything but yea I never confused her with anything but black. Which is cool, regardless what race she is she look good.
@@LexRuger718 I’m over here trying to figure out who asking her what she’s mixed with, she looks full black to me
In my opinion people are generalizing whole groups of society, not all black, white or Latina are the same. You like who you like but it you go in to relationships with these mind sets your relationship is probably going to fail.
As a black man we love natural women and unfortunately our women love fake hair etc. I don’t know man that asked his girl to get fake hair. Next as you can see with this black woman she’s combative, we went peace with our women
false. the natural women get looked at last. y’all love giving attention to the same type of woman y’all love criticizing.
5:30 I can't be the only one that thought "Okay...."
14:00 "I was raised to serve" Lola cannot even get her response out!! Here comes the Holiday running her mouth. How many times did she interrupt the conversation? She completely side stepped it and made it into the BW as a victim. "Latinas hate on us"
16:13 "Are you better than us" Interrupts again to attempt to frame it sympathetically to BW. Hoping for a yes to get a sympathetic response from BM.
I really would have rather heard her answer to being trained to serve.
Yea I agree the answer was interrupted
I’m Latina. I have dated Latin, Black , African , and White men. They all have treated me very well. I’ve had good experiences. It’s not about race or color for me. It’s about a man’s character. That’s what I look for.
I disagree on how it started. I remember mainly or only Mexicans saying not to date black men. Everyone usually has black men in their family. Columbians, Puerto Ricans, Dominicans, ect have black men in their family in their culture including Mexicans but they feel the lighter skin is better and from what I'm told from the elders in the community, they don't want the problems that come with dark skin.
Tell me more abt this
@@ryanmashaah6063 Well I'm a Chicagoan, but in my city and in the media and sometimes even now they push colorism hard. Even people that has brown or darker skin doesn't get the same treatment as a lighter family member. Look up the stories how they Grandparents and some parents keep pushing that the darker the worst.
Mmm thats really sad here in Africa girls actually like the darker males the world is soo messed up and sometimes Black people even laugh at you for being too dark thats a shame😷😭
@@ryanmashaah6063 On that note. I always had a thing for dark skin women no matter the country. But being middle a brown middle tone black man in a america I'm a ghost. Either I'm not light enough like Terrance Howard or not dark enough like Morris Chestnut. Even the middle tone black women seem more "extreme" from their darker and lighter counterparts, maybe lack of attention.
@@wi77iama773n Basically the only place you can live a normal life and not be judged wen you're black is Africa
If I am in America, I will prefer a woman that was raised to be a wife, because that how my country girl are raised.
Black women need to be open to dating men of different races. It's this race loyalty mindset some black women believe they shouldn't date outside of their race. That's where the anger come from when a black man decides to date outside of his race "he's supposed to only date a black woman." Black women, if African-American men is your preference I wouldn't say date outside of your race; stick to what you're attracted to. However, if you're a black woman who is open to dating outside of your race and you're unsure if it will work in your favor then give it a try. People will have their opinions about black women and why bother changing their mind. As long as you are attracted to that man and he respects you then he's worth the shot.
Women in general do not control relationships....so black women could not choose outside their race if they wanted to....
The problem with your comment is most non-black men are NOT choosing BW as mates in large numbers. When it comes to marriage and procreation, the vast majority of non-black men stick with the women of their own race. Even if BW did become more open to non-black men, it wouldn't matter because the majority of non-black men are not checking for them. Numbers don't lie.
@@mercermercemercero8207 Your argument is inaccurate. My statement highlighted the reasons why black women should START dating outside of their race. I didn't disregard the numbers and I'm aware that the majority knows BM intermarry than BW. There's a possibility the numbers will change if "black women are open to dating outside of their race". However, you added an opinion by mentioning "non-black men are not checking for them". Caucasian men are indeed interested in BW, some BM are the one's that aren't too fond of their kind and they speak for the majority of men that are open to dating a BW. Your statement "numbers don't lie" only applies to the fact that it isn't common for BW to intermarry. Opinions aren't grouped with statistics because it hasn't been proven, aside from you having your personal experiences.
@@ctkmobambi Your statement of "women in general do not control relationships" doesn't correlate with your idea that a BW couldn't have an option to date outside their race. Your comment is dense. You created this idea that BW can't date outside of their race due to the perception you have of BW. It would be logical to state an opinion without speaking for the vast majority of "non-black men" that have an interest in dating/intermarrying a BW.
Bw are not race loyal and yall still would not be chosen of you "opened your options".
90% of what he said, he should just speak about his experience..
My experience was that black girls didnt like me at that time because i wasnt tough enough, thug enough, drug dealer enough or pretty boy enough. I couldn't date a black girl in the 90s to save my life cause i was corny and nerdy..
A girl from the Bronx who was Puerto Rican liked me for me, and I dated her [i was broke too] and all hell broke loose. At that time, I tried to date anyone who liked me and I gave them the opportunity..
So in retrospect, black girls then wanted nerds and nice guys to be held in the backburner until they got tired of the other ones treating them like 🗑 🚮 so they can have a chance at them and keep them all to themselves...
How many times have you told this story from your perspective and it was dismissed?
@@SIFUSAYSRELAX too many times... i'm not saying what you are saying is wrong, but what you said was likely from your experience. Maybe what i said felt dismissive but that wasnt my intention.. if you felt that way, my bad. I dont mind being corrected
I can relate to literally every single word of that comment and I promise you..a lot of other black men can..unfortunately...shit is even worse now :(
@@onice33 nah man. I was agreeing with you. It's all good
@geekmode247 bro so many of us have gone through that same exact experience. It's identical to my story, even though I'm from the Midwest.
don't forget that amongst black women there's also AFRICAN WOMEN and these as well are raised to served ...even tho they also see ain't shit men all their lives. I'd like to hear your opinions about this demographic as well because it is exotic as well isn't it ?
Right!!!!!!!! They’re not educated and open minded enough to know this that’s why I always say travel around the world to meet different people and cultures
leave us out of this please
Yes, this is true. I’m half Liberian (my dad is Liberian) my mother is black American. There was definitely cultural differences between my mom and dad. Just because they both were “black” as far as skin tone didn’t mean anything as they came from two different worlds. Intercultural dating is just as hard. My mom is the typical strong self sufficient black woman and my dad was used to women catering and serving him... Needless to say, their relationship dissolved shortly after I was born. My mom couldn’t deal with my dad’s entitlement and wondering eyes. My dad couldn’t deal with my mom being vocal and non submissive.
@@cemeciam.4019 I'm going through that right now, with my own wife. I'm african. I believe some cultures are better set up for healthy marriages and families than others. Sad truth
NOBODY WANNA EAT FUFU
I’m a man and I have never heard a black man say that a woman is cute for a black girl I think she is not truthful
Me 2 l have never heard that
that dont even make sense for a black man to say...idk if she telling the truth on that
@@TopFlightSecurity415 ok honestly have you ever heard any of your friends say that in any race and the reason why I said that is because women tend to take on the stories of another persons past or just the past in general and I think you should understand where I’m coming from ok it’s like a man making an argument of The white man is holding me back etc but refuse to get up and get a job and it’s like if something happens to a persons grandma etc and they listen to the story and the woman takes their grandmas story but tells it as if it has happened to her and they have a professional term for what I’m talking about and I will try and find it but it’s like one persons shared trauma through thought process
@@TopFlightSecurity415 but she made it seems as black men say that often
People can date who ever they wish.......it's a country of freedom and liberty......
I want to settle down with a Spanish woman ❤️😫. I feel like a Spanish woman fits my soul.Black woman just dont do it for me 🤷. And Ive felt like that since I was a kid !
I'm confused my natural hair is curly and I love it. You don't have to be light skin or be mixed to have curly hair. I just don't like to where my hair curly because it is a lot of work 😒. But I love my natural hair.
Shoutout the lightskin brotha! Didn't quite catch his name but he spoke facts. Salute 💯
Y’all need some intelligent people up there to have a real conversation.
Exactly! They are using all the wrong therms lol.
I didn’t know love had a color line. If you tell someone they can’t date a person because of race. That says a lot about you. Culture is culture. But to experience others culture is where understanding lies
If the black woman treated the black man like how the Mexican woman treated there men they would all be married
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How do they treat them?
its that simple
@@wholesomechick8259
Love, admiration even. Very submissive.
Black women, if they still want the Black Man, they better wake up, and rid their minds of that feminist ideology, other races of women are snatching the Black Man up, or they see the value in the Black Man.
Most often its not about race or culture,,but if a woman caters to that man and vice versa, Latina women are tired of being verbally and physically abuse. Black women have that history of black men not being taken care of/protected by black men. It's a power dynamic in both communities which has driven 2 parts together and others have been left out to fend for themselves.
I love how yall chopped the answer off at the end. Yes every culture feels like they're better than the black woman bc they've been lied to and misguided. Not every person but as different cultures. These other culture been told they are superior which is a lie.
Is not wanting something diferent. The biology knows , i need to brake this chain.. family curse always repeats. You can break that chain
The fact that black men know that Hispanics don't except them unless they have "money" is baffling to me
They think Its really about their personality?.Everyone knows Its about money dating black men as a latina person.
Black women are different?
@@jerryyoung19 are you dumb? What kind of question is that? Move along
Black women don’t either tho so what’s the issue?
@@tanyaeaston7884 It's about money IRREGARDLESS of race.
The health and wellbeing of a race depends on its females birthing, nurturing, and loving their children and men above all others. The life and future of the race depends on males providing for, loving, and respecting their own children and women above all others. When this natural order of relationships is made to break down..eventually, there will be no race. One of the most effective stratagems to destroy a group is to uplift the female while eviscerating the Male. This program seems to be working very effectively. To survive and prosper, wake up and reunite.
Brand new? Maybe because I grew up in NYC & Jersey. Everybody dated everybody. Puerto Rican Man with African American Woman and vice versa. Cuban Woman and African American Man.....or whatever. Everybody was hood...etc. Nobody is running over Hispanic or Black women....period.
It started with women Libs & this why the black women were taught to be independent & strong .& do not take no crap .
To be honest, I gotta disagree with black women being raised to be independent. Some of us grew up in a two parent household, where both parents are very involved. My parents taught me the value of serving others around me and not just relying on a single person to get me through this world. Also, I don’t think BW are pressed to see brothers go out and try new things because most of them especially in the East Coast have made it very clear how they feel toward BW. On top of that, I think BW are open to other options now instead of just following tradition. That’s just my personal stance .
How do Black men on the east coast feel about Black women? I was born and raised on the east coast.
Blk ppl aren’t monolithic, most raised and birth differently through out the world though ppl may see us the same. I’m African American born and raised but my right hand can be African born moved and living in America.
Raised differently but the world would say group us and say we’re of like traits
This whole conversation was about dividing of the races!!.
@@thadonjuan2339 I was raised there too , just growing up I’ve just heard many different Black men speak on there preference. Which it’s okay to have your type , however it’s not like it’s uncommon for BW to not be on the top of their preference list (not all BM).
@@briamonyae1396 in NYC most, the vast majority of Black men date Black women. Interracial dating isn't that common out here.
lololol... I'm 46 and I've dated just about everything. Korean and Latino women treated me the best. Swedish chick the worst....🤷🏿♂️ And I'm married to Mexican!
I am married to a Spanish lady so much more peaceful
When the truth is to much to bare we start to deflect, get personal, and/or confrontational. This dude elaborated on one specific difference in the up bringing of one culture of women vs another. Instead of the blk chick being like ok, that's what gives them an advantage, bet. No, she would rather get in her bag of feelings, and attempt to tie this trait or the lack there of into one culture of women being jealous or thinking they are better than another. Gtfoh. It's your chocolate men that think they are better due to that characteristic. To sum it up, lil mama you can change and become that wifey chick. This is your world ya dig.
8:45 not every black man is tall what i've noticed the latina women will date a man short if he's a good man and they click where as a sista will flat out reject him period not even giving him the time of day due to his height.
I understand it is a open forum, but please correct her for using the word Blacks. If you was around all these "Blacks" like you are stating, you wouldn't be using that word because it's offensive. In addition to that, why did she feel the need to express that she has a weave in her hair? All African American women do not wear weaves and that's your connection to us. Okay. It is also interesting to see my African American brother acknowledge that the only way they could began to date Hispanic women was because they had money.
I’m black but y’all get offended about everything Geeesh 🤦🏽♂️
@@LiveEventsTV_ no but she’s right…you have to watch the language of some of these other races on expressing blk ppl..very few Hispanics I trust ..majority of them feel like they’re not equal to us or even better than us. And all black women do not wear weave it’s just the majority of them do , a lot of them enjoy certain things about our culture but will never enjoy our culture enough to want to marry into a black family..the Boriques and Dominicans are the closet things to wanting to be a part of black cultures ..these other Latin groups I don’t know about,.i don’t trust them.!
yea the weave thing was a bit ignorant
@@TopFlightSecurity415 so stop complaining and use the intellect to correct and educate people idk why blacks get upset when people speak on stuff they see majority of the time. you really gonna sit and say black girls dont wear weave i work with black people and majority do
@@jesterbons1558 who's complaining ? lol and people (including you) should have enough common sense to know that black people aren't the only one's who wear weaves..its not cultural thing smh
When she kept saying I was raised with blacks I was cringing. Say black people not blacks you sound like the colonizers
that was wild cringe for me too. made me think she might've came up around black ppl but not necessarily WITH black ppl.
but also she might've learned english after learning spanish so it's probably a few things she say funny. my haitian mother speak good english but she say cringe type shit all the time
@@152Loui oh wow
I'm wht and cringed too. If she grew up with black people she should know better.
They don't see us as equals ...period. That's why they try to marry whites
Y’all get mad about EVERYTHING 😩
My first baby mother was black and she gave me more then enough problems. Sneaky couldn’t trust her and etc it was my fault I saw the flags but stayed for the kids. My second babymother is Latina from Columbia we have 2 sons and we are not perfect but she don’t give nowhere near half the problems I dealt with being with a black women.
Yo respeto todas las razas sin embargo para el latino es normal que la mujer cuide la casa, cocine y cuide de la fam. no aprecian lo q la hace la mujer, y para los estadounidenses o los black guys eso no es algo normal es por eso q se sienten muy bien recibiendo ese cuidado, la mujer latina tiene su carácter sin embargo sabe q el hombre es el alfa entonces es un conjunto de cosas que pasan para que uno quiera salir y estar con otras razas.
peep how the black girl had the strong urge to make things controversial? Also, I would love to hear more women in general (especially latinas) speak about me the way she did in this video haha
Dang near made me blush!
I would, however, ask the latina... Being as though she's so fond of BM...
-The BM's have been good to you (So you say)... Why is it that "You were the bytch"?
-Have you considered marrying a BM?
To the Black girl... I'd ask...
-Why were you so anxious to interrupt her excerpt on "Being raised to serve"?
I would love to hear about those teachings.
BTW, yall need to chill with this Spanish women/men ish. Youre not Spanish unless youre from Spain. We speak English...does that mean we're English men & women? "Cheerio mate, you lads speak rubbish if not from England. Me lad 21 Savage might be but I knows we're not from bloody Liverpool. Its not proper yeah?" lol smfh The word yall looking for is HISPANIC(people w/ latin american heritage from spanish speaking nations) or LATIN(people w/ latin american heritage including those of languages such as Brazilian portuguese).
I literally was watching some dance routines by a well know BW. At one point her class was full of black women..tonight I barely saw any! The way these other races run to our style of dance, clothes, music, style of language and men... white women don't even strip the same anymore lol..the music has changed, the dance moves, heck most are coming to the black clubs if they can. I turn on the radio and no more pop songs..theirs sounds like ours..I guess it wouldn't be so noticeable if you didn't see it all on Social media everywhere you look, while in the grocery stores, seeing even white men imitating black men, even the kids are too..ON TOP OF not just white but other races too. I know this might make me seem like I'm racist but I'm not. It's one thing to take a little bit of something from all people but to completely transform your identity as a whole to mimic another is too much to me.
Black people in the last 80 years. Have become arguably the biggest influencers of pop culture. However when it comes to the industries, skills, resources etc that gives you say in the world? We ain't got shit going on.
@@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 Black ppl are they highest paid demographic behind white ppl i dunno WTF u talkin abt
Don't nobody think holiday mixed 😒
🤣🤣🤣 - Delusional At Best.
I am a black american man...I have traveled the world for many years...in my experience women are raised to serve men in most cultures around the world...I do believe black american men prefer black american women but I do not believe we are appreciated...my opinion is that men (regardless of color) are appreciated a lot more by women in other cultures compared to how black american women treat "their" men...In my experience, black american women act like black men are replaceable...The solution is for our sistahs to go back to being feminine and proud to cater to a man regardless if he is your husband, boyfriend, dad, or brother...seems like the black sistah in this video only wanted to compliment the brothas when the latina complemented us...sistahs have to put aside their ego and if they want the best qualified black men to choose them...I have been living in South America for over 3 years and the black latinas have no problem getting or keeping my attention.
Lola can get it…. In every way
These comments are wild. Can’t believe this channel promotes narratives like this..
Very wild🤯
Thank you for this!🙏
This was never a race conversation...it was a "culture" conversation all along. African culture is similar to Spanish culture...Africans are black
Not all African are black
@@AngelaElikya lol Africa is a melanated continent, you know what they meant.
Up until the 1980s black women were taught how to be wives..
Spanish is a language, instead, they should say Latina or Hispanic.
You know if people interviewed more women outside of black women this way , they would see that black women aren’t just seemingly angry for no reason. The black community is so divided now bc of this and it seems as if black women are on their own now. everybody loves the soul but who’s gonna feed mine if my other half is infatuated with someone else. Like they don’t look at the big picture.
Blk woman on here capping
The lightskinned dude had spoke alot of truth. Some of it may had sound harsh to some, but there’s truth to a lot of what he said. As far as him enjoying a Spanish chick more because it’s different from what he’s used to, maybe black women need to have that mindset and date out often and get something diff from what we’re used to. Our issue is that we feel this need to stick with a group of men who date out more than anybody and that’s sad. Nothing wrong with dating a black dude, just don’t limit yourself to them cause according to these stats they damn sure ain’t having that same loyalty. Maybe it’s self-hate, who knows? It doesn’t matter. Just wish black women woke up
Same thing in London, when black men date white woman, except the bit about raised to be a wife.
I got to the part where the Latin woman actually speaks on why she dates black men and from going to the Dominican Republic Columbia and often talking to other groups of women when she talk about how we treat them is spot on and matches what other woman says think of it this way black men don't come from a strong patriarchal background and we're taught to volume woman more than most men so when other woman talk about how we treat them and how good we are that's the fact like man actually are some of the most easy to get along with men in the world especially African American man because we are more willing to let women have Independence in the say in a relationship Latin men and other Latin cultures which I really don't have a problem with don't do that so it's always natural for the modern independent woman to go to the man that will give him more leeway and more freedom and will value their opinion
exactly with all these redpill vids and talk latina women simply dont like that latin men have always been redpill its the number criticism about them is this whole controlling narrative it’s ridiculous
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Black women tend to have more odds against latina men than visa versa. Latinas dont whine about black women STEALING THEIR MEN lol. Latinos might complain bout their latina family member going out w/ a black dude but they take that complaint to their family, not on the black dude.
Black females though want to fight the woman their man is cheating w/ even if she didnt know let alone they act like they wanna fight a latina who gets a good black man because they themselves dont have one. Its hard to be jealous about something you already have. Women in general dont approach men so they are limited to who approaches them or who is close enough to seduce...men however will go out & find & TAKE what we want.
We dont get STOLEN(unless we are already in a relationship & the female knew it). As for thinking theyre better, every female thinks theyre better hence why they obsess over their own culture rather than someone else's. Its rare for females to think other women are better as a whole & even the ones who do aim to discover how its untrue.
For instance, big women love to hear skinny women clowned so they can fee better about themselves...thin women love seeing thick women clowned so they can feel better about themselves...same goes for dark vs light etc. There is inferiority in all women...latinas know black women are stronger than them in general & admire & imitate that; black women notice latinas & white girls are often more feminine & so they imitate & other times take advantage of that via bullying them hence the rift.
However, the obsession that other women are taking their men is solely a black female culture thing...its usually the men & parents of a culture who feel foreigners are taking or abusing their women. Most females dont even notice what they are lacking that black females have until theyre surrounded by a gang of hood bishes mocking their lack of curves, lack of mannish strength, lack of color, etc.
At the end of the day, our females tend to have a negative affect on nonblack females(only making them more mannish, cut-throat, & wild) where as the worst thing other females ever do to our women is make them feel inferior by simply existing & being happy with themselves(& what a crime that is for a bitter unhappy drama creating self sabotaging broad who cant keep a hood man nor a good man happy cuz starting BS & winning via someone else losing is her form of peace & relief).
You are so right. Us latinas don’t mind if a black women is dating a Latino we all can date our preference for us it’s not a colorism thing more like you like that person y ya it’s not a big deal
That last question 🙋🏾♀️ is not fare cause every culture is gonna say that their own culture is better then others including the black American. Don’t take it personal but it is what it is…
Every American man says our culture (Westernized, Feminist) is trash…