Jake is a weirdo for trying to emotionally latch onto and take his loneliness out on you. Then the parents trying to downplay his harassment is disgusting. The three of them need to be glad you didn't go to the police.
Honestly when I heard “man up” I was just waiting to watch this go absolutely nuclear. Had I been in that situation I’d of been looking for a lawyer to get a harassment charge placed on the brother and moving to go full NC with the family. After all you don’t want your kids growing up around toxic individuals. As well as see if there’s anything else I could dig up on bro for a little more revenge like if he drinks a lot or was doing something else to potentially report and get him in a cell for at least a night.
So your bil sexually harasses you so you think the great idea is to set him up with a friend, then you're all surprised when he does the same to her. 🤦
It wasn't a good idea at all but i can see the panicked thought process. She wanted to get Jake's attention away from her at all costs and that caused her to do seomething stupid and wrong. I think she is an AH for that and that alone.
She'd been gas-lit into believing that she was "overreacting" and that Jake was just "lonely after his divorce". She literally had a ton of people telling her this on a daily basis. After a while, when you are alone in a storm, you can start to believe anything. That's how Cults brainwash people. They isolate their targets, gang up on them and keep applying pressure and repeating their message until their targets either bend, or break. In her mind, she was helping a sweet, lonely guy out. Yes, she most likely also viewed it as a double win, as if things worked out then she'd also be free from his obsession, but I don't think she had any malicious intentions, or even understood the danger she was putting her friend in. Then again, I could be wrong there. I like to think the best of people, but I also know just how bad they can be at times. After all, she was totally the AH for not telling her friend EVERYTHING about Jake.
So why were they paying rent to Jake if grandpa said the house was for all the grand kids to use? Were the parents favoring Jake again by making him believe the house was his alone?
Jake is dangerous! You need to practice extreme caution And hyper vigilance. This is not a joke. This is not an overreaction people like him are dangerous and nothing is done until it’s too late!
I still so confused why they waited to get Grandpa invovled. He obviously has stature in the family. He would have been my first stop considering he gave the house to the evil brother.
Girl you did nothing wrong Jake was a bad person you had full Justice for cutting contact with him as he literally tried to force you to get intimate with him
EVERY BODY SUCKS!!! OMG don't set your friend up with someone who you know does not respect boundaries and has been harassing you! Shit people all around!
I have to think these stories are made up because are people that stupid?? When people treat you like crap why would you feel bad about cutting them off?? I hope there aren't people this dumb out there.
Bruh… I mean, until the updates, pretty weird yet expected Reddit story, and NTA… Then in the first update you tried to set a friend with the weirdo??? Wtf? you’re the a**hole… Then you decide to go no contact with the weirdo which is your landlord and expect him to keep you in his house for a discounted rent? BRUH! Honestly, what did you expect? The worst is the husband talking to the parents expecting them to do something about it 😂 imagine the talk: “YO! My brother is a POS, he’s trying to flirt with my wife and I never want to see or talk to him! Btw, You need to convince him to keep us in his house with the same rent since the price in our region is absurd!” 😂 it’s not about choosing Jake, what should the family do? Force him to rent to you?
Jake was totally out of line and you should not have endured the inappropriate behavior How come Grandpa Joe didn't now any of this? . If you were living cheap rent for many years, why couldn't/didn't you buy your own house?
Earth and I don't have to worry I don't have to make it for me but I'm just not sure what I can you don't have gangs you so much for me to do that I will not be able to do it for you and my family is not in my name
I could have believed this story had OP not been stupid enough to forget that at the beginning she said Jake asked when they were going to have kids and that Tom needed to carry on the family name. Then suddenly she has a little boy and a little girl. Also, how do you inherit a house from your grandparent if they're not dead? I don't know if this person doesn't speak English as a first language or is just an idiot and forgets their lies. Some people are just so desperate for online attention they'll just do and say anything
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Jake is a weirdo for trying to emotionally latch onto and take his loneliness out on you. Then the parents trying to downplay his harassment is disgusting. The three of them need to be glad you didn't go to the police.
Honestly when I heard “man up” I was just waiting to watch this go absolutely nuclear. Had I been in that situation I’d of been looking for a lawyer to get a harassment charge placed on the brother and moving to go full NC with the family. After all you don’t want your kids growing up around toxic individuals. As well as see if there’s anything else I could dig up on bro for a little more revenge like if he drinks a lot or was doing something else to potentially report and get him in a cell for at least a night.
So your bil sexually harasses you so you think the great idea is to set him up with a friend, then you're all surprised when he does the same to her. 🤦
It wasn't a good idea at all but i can see the panicked thought process. She wanted to get Jake's attention away from her at all costs and that caused her to do seomething stupid and wrong. I think she is an AH for that and that alone.
She'd been gas-lit into believing that she was "overreacting" and that Jake was just "lonely after his divorce". She literally had a ton of people telling her this on a daily basis. After a while, when you are alone in a storm, you can start to believe anything.
That's how Cults brainwash people. They isolate their targets, gang up on them and keep applying pressure and repeating their message until their targets either bend, or break.
In her mind, she was helping a sweet, lonely guy out. Yes, she most likely also viewed it as a double win, as if things worked out then she'd also be free from his obsession, but I don't think she had any malicious intentions, or even understood the danger she was putting her friend in.
Then again, I could be wrong there. I like to think the best of people, but I also know just how bad they can be at times.
After all, she was totally the AH for not telling her friend EVERYTHING about Jake.
So why were they paying rent to Jake if grandpa said the house was for all the grand kids to use? Were the parents favoring Jake again by making him believe the house was his alone?
Jake is dangerous!
You need to practice extreme caution And hyper vigilance.
This is not a joke. This is not an overreaction people like him are dangerous and nothing is done until it’s too late!
You deserve to be treated with respect and are aloud to feel how you feel,Jake isn’t with any of you time,space or energy
I still so confused why they waited to get Grandpa invovled. He obviously has stature in the family. He would have been my first stop considering he gave the house to the evil brother.
Doesn't feel right how op "used" Sarah
Girl you did nothing wrong Jake was a bad person you had full Justice for cutting contact with him as he literally tried to force you to get intimate with him
It's weird you tried to set him up after all that.
OP “lead him on” by finding him a date? How could anybody possibly think “Hey, here’s a person who isn’t me, for you to date.” As leading him on?
The Grandparents suck and need to get their act together
Why would you inflict your friend with Jake's company?
Why isn't the family telling Jake stop being a creep.
Jake wants what his brother has, be very careful around him.👀
If Jake is concerned about carrying on the family name, let him do it! I think Jake is in love with OP!
EVERY BODY SUCKS!!! OMG don't set your friend up with someone who you know does not respect boundaries and has been harassing you! Shit people all around!
You all need to keep a very close eye on him. Things might get better. But if he did this once he get capable of doing it again.
You and your husband need to pack up and move, change your number, get a restraining order if you have too
I have to think these stories are made up because are people that stupid?? When people treat you like crap why would you feel bad about cutting them off?? I hope there aren't people this dumb out there.
Bruh… I mean, until the updates, pretty weird yet expected Reddit story, and NTA… Then in the first update you tried to set a friend with the weirdo??? Wtf? you’re the a**hole…
Then you decide to go no contact with the weirdo which is your landlord and expect him to keep you in his house for a discounted rent? BRUH! Honestly, what did you expect? The worst is the husband talking to the parents expecting them to do something about it 😂 imagine the talk: “YO! My brother is a POS, he’s trying to flirt with my wife and I never want to see or talk to him! Btw, You need to convince him to keep us in his house with the same rent since the price in our region is absurd!” 😂 it’s not about choosing Jake, what should the family do? Force him to rent to you?
Jake was totally out of line and you should not have endured the inappropriate behavior How come Grandpa Joe didn't now any of this?
. If you were living cheap rent for many years, why couldn't/didn't you buy your own house?
No
The grandparents suck you were going to make your grandkids homeless because you’re favorite son couldn’t cheat with his brothers wife
1:00 click here if you came from the short so its not over lapping :D
The audio levels went wonky towards the end
Earth and I don't have to worry I don't have to make it for me but I'm just not sure what I can you don't have gangs you so much for me to do that I will not be able to do it for you and my family is not in my name
I could have believed this story had OP not been stupid enough to forget that at the beginning she said Jake asked when they were going to have kids and that Tom needed to carry on the family name. Then suddenly she has a little boy and a little girl. Also, how do you inherit a house from your grandparent if they're not dead? I don't know if this person doesn't speak English as a first language or is just an idiot and forgets their lies. Some people are just so desperate for online attention they'll just do and say anything
Even though jake ia an a hole, he still has jurisdiction over the house
Was does the sound keep going up and down
How did u see vid in 5 mins brother
Double speed setting
Op is YTA as friend
PING IF YOU LOVE YOUR FANS
Plz pin me
Desperate af
youre already 32 what do you mean youre not ready if you arent ready soon your eggs will dry up lmao
Women aren’t machines for babies what the fuck.
I think the story is fake. In the beginning OP said they were not ready for kids, but then later she said they have 2 kids already.