@@hhappiness true, my friend rn is trying to get a scholarship by having an ATAR of 96 (Aussie percentile measurement from highschool) and it pays a reasonable amount, but not nearly the full price of going there
She is your parents child she is their responsibility to pay for not yours she's not your kid you didn't sleep with someone and have a baby so it's not your job to take care of her
Are the parents or relatives who agree with the parents going to hand over their savings or take out a 2nd mortgage for OP sister? No. Only OP is supposed to sacrifice for the sister, no one else.
The sheer lack of self awareness and maturity to call someone else selfish while asking them to give you all of their money is genuinely crazy. Im not saying that’s absurd, I’m saying that is literally speaking, crazy. As in there is something wrong with their brains.
Eh... really depends on the family. My younger siblings and I helped my brother by quitting our jobs and pretty much working for less than half of minimum wage (about $2/hr) to help get him started on his restaurant. He was slowly able to pay off both his and his wife's student loans with the excess money. But the problem was his wife. She drove us away so that she could hire her siblings instead (we put up with her for nearly 6 years before leaving). They got paid way more than us, yet couldn't stay with them for more than a month before storming out because of her. And every new person my brother hired also left because of her. It was kinda sad cuz they had finally started turning a nice profit after almost 7 years of running the restaurant. In the end, they sold it to someone else and she complains about not "having enough money," even though my brother works full time as an IT guy making 6 figures and has a side hustle of fixing people's computers.
@@lillia2479the fact your brother is still with her, tells all. He has no spine or self love. He is in this situation because he allowed her behaviors over the years. Good luck.
@NourAmsterdam He has been done with her for a while, but being from a traditional Asian family, it's kinda hard to just separate immediately. Currently, he has been letting her continue to ruin herself so that he can just throw everything all at once when the time finally comes and after he has collected all the ammo he needs to be on the moral high ground and be able to take all his kids with him.
Finally... a good story. Not the drama filled story, but... a heart-touching one. Someone who never gave up on his dream. Someone who was willing to change for the better. This story definitely deserves a part two. I hope that OP does not update anymore. He finally found peace. But in case he ever gets to that point... I just hope that the parents are caught in a never-ending drama loop of their own creation.
Imagine a thief calling you selfish because you refuse to give them your money Imagine someone flirting with your husband/wife call you selfish for not divorcing for their sake
Children don't ask to be brought into this world, they don't owe you shit for raising them, you owe them all the world you can give for them for bringing them into it.
I understand why OP would want to remain anonymous, but I wish he’d actually posted his restaurant because I would love to support it! I think he’s a legend! His sister came to him and asked for a job, not a handout, he chose to help her and she now can appreciate the blessing in front of her.
I once heard a therapists say that sometimes the whole family can heal, and sometimes it's only a small part of the family that are willing to put the work to get better but it is still very important and special. The sister f* up, she hurt him, made him feel guilty and all, but she is also human, a human that also was under a lot of pressure (not justifying her behavior, just explaining it) she realized her horrible mistake and took all the right steps to apologize to her brother, she truly change and is trying to make amends. I wish them both the best
Sibling stories always hit the feels for me. I know it's unrealistic to expect everyone to have the amazing relationship my brother and I share (yes, I'm bragging) but it always makes me so happy to see the sibling code being upheld ❤️ also, f their parents
I feel for you. It's unfair your parents asked you to give up your hard-earned savings for your sister's education. You did the right thing by standing up for your dreams. Your determination and resilience are truly inspiring. Stay strong and keep pursuing your goals!
It blows my mind how many parents expect a child they've treated like crap to pay for their golden child. You are not selfish, now your parents are extremely selfish. Good luck with your new restaurant❤
How is it that these OPs who are so abused still remain in contact with toxic people? Forget culture; turn your back on horrible, abusive people. Demand an apology from the sister and parents or go no contact. Do write a detailed letter to the entire family.
They are the ones to blame, they know that College is Super expensive so they could have saved much earlier and she is not your responsibility they know you were saving up, so they try to take advantage if they didn’t want to take advantage of you they would have saved mush more earlier they think they can just take your money because they just said so
The fact that your sister was sitting there smiling as she smuggly tells you that she was the one that put your parents up to asking you. It's not up to you to make sure she gets what she needs in college.That's completely on your parents. It's okay to have your own dream and it's okay to say no. She's not entitled to shit you. If you wanted to help than that's ok but you have been saving for your own plans in life and should stick to it ❤
Why should you give up your dreams for somebody else’s dreams? You work hard for your dreams, so they work hard for their dreams. Simple. I’m glad the sister realised in the end though :)
I can't imagine trying to steal my child's hard earned and dedication for their sibling. I will never understand how a person can look their own kid in the eyes and project my inability to raise my 2nd child to be a good person and to genuinely feel entitled to treating my child like shit because of it after seeing how well I did with raising the 1st one to be so responsible and focused. There really should be a test for people to determine whether or not their fit parents before they ever have kids mental gymnastics to really just think it's okay to screw your kid over while playing hella favorites just pisses me off so much.
NTA because you save your money for your dreams and your parents should respect that and help their golden child out down the line plus like it or not it's their responsibility to do the right thing and not the op to make sure that the daughter's education is taken care of period.
As someone who’s been putting off my own dreams for others just listen to some advice just take your win follow that dream and never give it up for anything
*_You are NOT responsible for your sister.I wouldn't deal with the parents because they have money but wanted to give up your money to fund what they should have funded._*
How 'Successfull' could the sister be if she couldn't ALSO get a scholarship along WITH the acceptance to her little Ivy League? They're disgusting and that favoritism will bite them all for what they did to OP
I'm now avoiding new purchases to avoid slipping into a bear trap. However, I'd like to know where the best investment opportunities are during a downturn. My goal is to retire comfortably on around $1.2 million.
Wishing you luck! The key to a happy retirement is to live the life you choose, if you have a certain amount in mind for your retirement, it is only appropriate to work with a knowledgeable advisor to make plans.
I concur that guidance should not be disregarded but rather followed. I remember a few summers ago, not long after my horrible divorce, I was in dire need of advise on investments to keep my head above water. Fortunately, I met someone with grit who greatly assisted me in growing my reserve, which despite inflation has increased from $360k to about seven figures now.
nice gains there! Please share your advisor's info with me. Due to my increased income from work, I'm thinking about investing in stocks and other assets that will enable me to gradually build wealth.
Leah Foster Alderman is the licensed expert I use. Just look up the name. You would discover the necessary information to deal with a correspondence to schedule an appointment.
Wow, I just Googled her whole name and found her platform. Thank you very much for bringing this to my attention, I will definitely get in touch with her.
Parents never needed the money, it was all about stopping OP from achieving his goals. They Also didn't care about his sister either. They KNEW she needed a Master's degree and only funded a bachelor's. They also had enough to fund her masters degree and were both refusing to cosign a loan and demanding their son pay... Their entire plan was to siphon off OP's money, then invent then escalate the asks until the ultimatum was literally impossible then disown him anyway. Their plan with the daughter was to let her go with her college half funded then cut her off and disown her once the 75k(only half of 150k) ran out. The whole thing was a ploy to destroy both of their children in one fell swoop.
I would've loved to hear that OP tells parents that sister could have his money if she repays it with a kinda low interest rate (so its safer than taking out a loan)
OP,this young lady could have got herself a job after school and at weekends. Even if she only saved 50%of the job's wages, it would mean a really good chunk of money to put towards her tuition fees,yes and even expenses. This is/was/will NEVER be your problem. NTA.
This story right here is why you don't tell people you are saving money. My parents would do me the same way. If I saved even a couple of hundred dollars, all of a sudden, they needed money. And my dad made great money on his job. It was just the fact that I had it, they wanted it. 😊 keep your plans to yourself.
I used to really like listening to these stories, i didn't even mind that they were fake but now that it's become obvious they were written by a robot I just can't get into them I wouldn't even mind if someone proofread them and took out all the nonsense dialogue but every story becomes indistinguishable from the next when they just reuse the same cringe inducing dialogue. Everything is always "a mix of emotions" or "a look of uncertainty in their eyes." no one notices these things in a real argument. Or if they do they say "I could tell his was angry just by looking at him." they don't say "tension spilling over with every heated word." It sounds like a minor nit-pick but when these videos are 15-40 minutes long and each one is exactly the same, you are better off not wasting your time.
Your sister’s financial aid offer was based on the assets of your parents. They need to accept their responsibility. Move out into a modest apartment. You are on the verge of making your own dreams come through. Your savings will qualify you for small business loans. Get moving on your first restaurant.
Those comments that said OP should offer a smaller amount to keep the peace?? Eff that I'm sick of people thinking the person in the right should do something to keep the peace, No just No.
NTA. Your responsibility as the older brother? Just tell them it is THEIR responsibility as her parents. Good for you for sticking to what you KNOW is the right thing, standing your ground and pursuing your dreams. Your cousins are right. They didn't want to dip into their savings or retirement funds but expected you to give up your savings? What a bunch of crap. Breaking even being open 4 months is pretty darn good. Glad you did not hire your sister for your restaurant. I hope she indeed has changed and does right by you by doing well. Just having a masters degree (even from an Ivy League) does not guarantee one a lucrative job. As per your parents? They'll show up at your restaurant one day, expecting you to wine and dine them because... they're your parents. I hope you manage to maintain whatever family relationship is positive for you. You DID live there rent free to save money for years. They ARE selfish idiots who expected you to sacrifice for your sister so they did not have to. Good luck with your restaurant.
I would’ve offered her two options either it’s a loan and you’ll pay it back with interest and will set out a payment plan or I’ll give you the money but I now own 50% of your income for the rest of your life. It’s a business loan I own half your business.
Wait... this was for a Master's degree? So sis is in her 20s somewhere, l Iikely mid to late 20s. There is no earthly reason that she can't get a job in her field and save up the money, or even just pay for it as she goes.
Just live in ur restaurant... that way you can save money by not having an apartment, and you don't have to waste so much gas going from work to home. By doing this, you can also invest more money in the restaurant *I'm joking... maybe not if this helps*
Eh. You made the right decision. Yiu trying to be supportive was nicer than you needed to be (like you were more than considerate enough). I would have made maybe the offer that you made. But after the parents response. I would have told them to sit and spin. Grad the restaurant is moving along.
I mean, you made the decision to help with her education. You weren't harassed into it. And you making the decision is the important thing. You decided you wanted to help her. You weren't assumed or threatened into it. Which is the only way it is right. Not because your family quilted into it but that you decided to do it and instead of abandoning your dreams it isn't compromising them
Fake story btw. Heard another one the other day thats the same word for word except the sister is the one opening a business and parents took OPs college funds to help the sister.
Give her a job hell no she demanded u give up yr dream n money for her shell rob u bit already thinks ur money is hers help her out but u.literally tried to rob me
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If she was so smart, couldn’t she just get a scholarship?
EXACTLY
I’m pretty sure she got one in the story
@@snickerdog65hume27 exactly, and most scolarships are never enough to pay everything (sometimes not even a fraction) of the tuition in an Ivy League
@@hhappiness true, my friend rn is trying to get a scholarship by having an ATAR of 96 (Aussie percentile measurement from highschool) and it pays a reasonable amount, but not nearly the full price of going there
Yeah but I think she wasn’t blinking out in something, otherwise she would have gotten the full ride.
The way they were mad the op said she should work when he saved from countless jobs
Bc Op sister is golden child.
@@Yointrovert RIGHT and they can all go f all OP can do better and will without them all.
She is your parents child she is their responsibility to pay for not yours she's not your kid you didn't sleep with someone and have a baby so it's not your job to take care of her
Are the parents or relatives who agree with the parents going to hand over their savings or take out a 2nd mortgage for OP sister? No. Only OP is supposed to sacrifice for the sister, no one else.
That's what I said
@@jdavis7613it's not up to the sibling to do what the parents fail to do
Absolutely, taking care of children is the responsibility of the parents, not the siblings. Everyone has their own life and responsibilities to handle
HELLO!! SAY IT AGAIN NOW!
Sometimes when the scapegoat of the family is no longer around to be a scapegoat, the family will create another.
The sheer lack of self awareness and maturity to call someone else selfish while asking them to give you all of their money is genuinely crazy. Im not saying that’s absurd, I’m saying that is literally speaking, crazy. As in there is something wrong with their brains.
You have been more of a parent to her than her actual parents. Bravo. You made every single right decision. Respect
Your money is your money and your the only one that decides what you do with it. Your family is just acting entitled
Congratulations OP. You honored yourself. You did everything right. Your family is the AH. Sink or swim continue to honor yourself and you will be OK.
That money was saved for your future, not hers. They didn't give you money for your education, why should you give up your future for hers?
I wouldn't hire the sister. Theres more bad than good that can come from her. She could ruin your business but can't do anything to help it.
That's right, for most jobs, I wouldn't hire a family member. In OP case, even less so.
Eh... really depends on the family. My younger siblings and I helped my brother by quitting our jobs and pretty much working for less than half of minimum wage (about $2/hr) to help get him started on his restaurant. He was slowly able to pay off both his and his wife's student loans with the excess money. But the problem was his wife. She drove us away so that she could hire her siblings instead (we put up with her for nearly 6 years before leaving). They got paid way more than us, yet couldn't stay with them for more than a month before storming out because of her. And every new person my brother hired also left because of her. It was kinda sad cuz they had finally started turning a nice profit after almost 7 years of running the restaurant. In the end, they sold it to someone else and she complains about not "having enough money," even though my brother works full time as an IT guy making 6 figures and has a side hustle of fixing people's computers.
@@lillia2479the fact your brother is still with her, tells all. He has no spine or self love. He is in this situation because he allowed her behaviors over the years. Good luck.
@NourAmsterdam He has been done with her for a while, but being from a traditional Asian family, it's kinda hard to just separate immediately. Currently, he has been letting her continue to ruin herself so that he can just throw everything all at once when the time finally comes and after he has collected all the ammo he needs to be on the moral high ground and be able to take all his kids with him.
Yes leave her with no money no job so he got more custody and pay alimony ofc idk maybe@@lillia2479
Well those parents are going to really regret their decision when op has a successful business.
I would of said “if family is that important then you should of saved more for her”
I think he should have said, “aren’t I family, too?”
Finally... a good story. Not the drama filled story, but... a heart-touching one. Someone who never gave up on his dream. Someone who was willing to change for the better. This story definitely deserves a part two. I hope that OP does not update anymore. He finally found peace. But in case he ever gets to that point... I just hope that the parents are caught in a never-ending drama loop of their own creation.
i cant beleive some people are like that and the worst of all is that there are so many
Imagine a thief calling you selfish because you refuse to give them your money
Imagine someone flirting with your husband/wife call you selfish for not divorcing for their sake
Children don't ask to be brought into this world, they don't owe you shit for raising them, you owe them all the world you can give for them for bringing them into it.
I don’t ask for them either tho.
I understand why OP would want to remain anonymous, but I wish he’d actually posted his restaurant because I would love to support it! I think he’s a legend! His sister came to him and asked for a job, not a handout, he chose to help her and she now can appreciate the blessing in front of her.
Bro got the good ending😊
Family comes first also mean the family should support him to achieve his dreams too
I’m glad you did help your sister, you’re fortunate that you can
God sees
And you’re a
Good big brother
I once heard a therapists say that sometimes the whole family can heal, and sometimes it's only a small part of the family that are willing to put the work to get better but it is still very important and special. The sister f* up, she hurt him, made him feel guilty and all, but she is also human, a human that also was under a lot of pressure (not justifying her behavior, just explaining it) she realized her horrible mistake and took all the right steps to apologize to her brother, she truly change and is trying to make amends. I wish them both the best
I often say my kids have succeeded in spite of me, not because of me. However, I would never do this to any of my children.
If you give in now they will expect you to continue to take care of her forever
OP was way too generous I mean very forgiving for how his family and sister acted like wow. Couldn’t be me
He got punked at the end.. he finally fell for the manipulation and didn't even see it.
Sibling stories always hit the feels for me. I know it's unrealistic to expect everyone to have the amazing relationship my brother and I share (yes, I'm bragging) but it always makes me so happy to see the sibling code being upheld ❤️ also, f their parents
Dont trust her. She will push her work onto others, thinking she can get away with it for being the bosses sister.
I feel for you. It's unfair your parents asked you to give up your hard-earned savings for your sister's education. You did the right thing by standing up for your dreams. Your determination and resilience are truly inspiring. Stay strong and keep pursuing your goals!
Her education is not your responsibility. Just leave go NC and don't look back. To heck with them.
It blows my mind how many parents expect a child they've treated like crap to pay for their golden child. You are not selfish, now your parents are extremely selfish. Good luck with your new restaurant❤
The sister is as guilty as the parents
At the end of the day, the sister had other options. This wasn’t the only thing keeping her getting her education.
How is it that these OPs who are so abused still remain in contact with toxic people? Forget culture; turn your back on horrible, abusive people. Demand an apology from the sister and parents or go no contact. Do write a detailed letter to the entire family.
Honestly I would have said that if I’m selfish then why don’t you go pay for her education then?
Who wanna bet that they spent money because they thought op would give the money 😂
For those who finished the short 0:56 for overlap 0:59 no overlap
Ty
thanks
NTA: you were right to follow your dreams and not handed over your savings. Good luck with your restaurant Op
How could he even thought his decision
They are the ones to blame, they know that College is Super expensive so they could have saved much earlier and she is not your responsibility they know you were saving up, so they try to take advantage if they didn’t want to take advantage of you they would have saved mush more earlier they think they can just take your money because they just said so
OP is not his sisters dad. It's not his responsibility to support her. NTA OP, leave that toxic family in the dust.
The fact that your sister was sitting there smiling as she smuggly tells you that she was the one that put your parents up to asking you. It's not up to you to make sure she gets what she needs in college.That's completely on your parents. It's okay to have your own dream and it's okay to say no. She's not entitled to shit you. If you wanted to help than that's ok but you have been saving for your own plans in life and should stick to it ❤
The audacity of these people to think it’s OK for them to take your money that you worked hard for. Comment that supposed to do.
Why should you give up your dreams for somebody else’s dreams? You work hard for your dreams, so they work hard for their dreams. Simple. I’m glad the sister realised in the end though :)
OP is the greenest of green flags
I can't imagine trying to steal my child's hard earned and dedication for their sibling. I will never understand how a person can look their own kid in the eyes and project my inability to raise my 2nd child to be a good person and to genuinely feel entitled to treating my child like shit because of it after seeing how well I did with raising the 1st one to be so responsible and focused. There really should be a test for people to determine whether or not their fit parents before they ever have kids mental gymnastics to really just think it's okay to screw your kid over while playing hella favorites just pisses me off so much.
NTA because you save your money for your dreams and your parents should respect that and help their golden child out down the line plus like it or not it's their responsibility to do the right thing and not the op to make sure that the daughter's education is taken care of period.
Not your responsibility to pay for your sisters college.. Hell No!! Keep your money and go NC with entire family..
As someone who’s been putting off my own dreams for others just listen to some advice just take your win follow that dream and never give it up for anything
*_You are NOT responsible for your sister.I wouldn't deal with the parents because they have money but wanted to give up your money to fund what they should have funded._*
How 'Successfull' could the sister be if she couldn't ALSO get a scholarship along WITH the acceptance to her little Ivy League?
They're disgusting and that favoritism will bite them all for what they did to OP
Paying for your own graduate school is a given. She has a degree now she can work part time. Would she make a good server? If yes then hire her.
*She played him like a fiddle in the end.*
Shes 19 and got accepted into a Masters program? Lies.
Exactly 😂
Uhh she's only 19 and already going for a master's degree program? How is that even possible? :/
I thought about it too. Either she finished school early or it's another AI story
I'm now avoiding new purchases to avoid slipping into a bear trap. However, I'd like to know where the best investment opportunities are during a downturn. My goal is to retire comfortably on around $1.2 million.
Wishing you luck! The key to a happy retirement is to live the life you choose, if you have a certain amount in mind for your retirement, it is only appropriate to work with a knowledgeable advisor to make plans.
I concur that guidance should not be disregarded but rather followed. I remember a few summers ago, not long after my horrible divorce, I was in dire need of advise on investments to keep my head above water. Fortunately, I met someone with grit who greatly assisted me in growing my reserve, which despite inflation has increased from $360k to about seven figures now.
nice gains there! Please share your advisor's info with me. Due to my increased income from work, I'm thinking about investing in stocks and other assets that will enable me to gradually build wealth.
Leah Foster Alderman is the licensed expert I use. Just look up the name. You would discover the necessary information to deal with a correspondence to schedule an appointment.
Wow, I just Googled her whole name and found her platform. Thank you very much for bringing this to my attention, I will definitely get in touch with her.
One hour in i would have told them to F off and walk out. Don't ever contact me.
A 19 year old in a masters program....mmmmk
Parents never needed the money, it was all about stopping OP from achieving his goals. They Also didn't care about his sister either. They KNEW she needed a Master's degree and only funded a bachelor's. They also had enough to fund her masters degree and were both refusing to cosign a loan and demanding their son pay... Their entire plan was to siphon off OP's money, then invent then escalate the asks until the ultimatum was literally impossible then disown him anyway. Their plan with the daughter was to let her go with her college half funded then cut her off and disown her once the 75k(only half of 150k) ran out. The whole thing was a ploy to destroy both of their children in one fell swoop.
I hate how its written like ai wrote it so I decided to think its a fictional story so I can enjoy it
I would've loved to hear that OP tells parents that sister could have his money if she repays it with a kinda low interest rate (so its safer than taking out a loan)
Wrongful eviction. Sue them
No
He wasn't a tenant...
When OP dedided to fund sister's education, I farted in disappointment
Breaking even after less than a year is pretty great.
OP,this young lady could have got herself a job after school and at weekends. Even if she only saved 50%of the job's wages, it would mean a really good chunk of money to put towards her tuition fees,yes and even expenses. This is/was/will NEVER be your problem. NTA.
This story right here is why you don't tell people you are saving money. My parents would do me the same way. If I saved even a couple of hundred dollars, all of a sudden, they needed money. And my dad made great money on his job. It was just the fact that I had it, they wanted it. 😊 keep your plans to yourself.
Student loan, she needs to apply
Op cut off toxic family and potentially improved his own reputation with the extended family or even community now that's a win
Family isn't always family
I used to really like listening to these stories, i didn't even mind that they were fake
but now that it's become obvious they were written by a robot I just can't get into them
I wouldn't even mind if someone proofread them and took out all the nonsense dialogue
but every story becomes indistinguishable from the next when they just reuse the same cringe inducing dialogue. Everything is always "a mix of emotions" or "a look of uncertainty in their eyes." no one notices these things in a real argument. Or if they do they say "I could tell his was angry just by looking at him." they don't say "tension spilling over with every heated word."
It sounds like a minor nit-pick but when these videos are 15-40 minutes long and each one is exactly the same, you are better off not wasting your time.
19 and already in her master's? She can take some time off to work in her field if this story is real
Your sister’s financial aid offer was based on the assets of your parents. They need to accept their responsibility. Move out into a modest apartment. You are on the verge of making your own dreams come through. Your savings will qualify you for small business loans. Get moving on your first restaurant.
Those comments that said OP should offer a smaller amount to keep the peace?? Eff that I'm sick of people thinking the person in the right should do something to keep the peace, No just No.
I would for that part have her get a job and see how she does if she brings anything up then you know she isn’t a good fit
4 months into a business and running decent am sure its gonna skyrocket
Good job. Please keep it up
If she's 19, how would she be doing a masters already?
NTA. Your responsibility as the older brother? Just tell them it is THEIR responsibility as her parents. Good for you for sticking to what you KNOW is the right thing, standing your ground and pursuing your dreams. Your cousins are right. They didn't want to dip into their savings or retirement funds but expected you to give up your savings? What a bunch of crap. Breaking even being open 4 months is pretty darn good. Glad you did not hire your sister for your restaurant. I hope she indeed has changed and does right by you by doing well. Just having a masters degree (even from an Ivy League) does not guarantee one a lucrative job. As per your parents? They'll show up at your restaurant one day, expecting you to wine and dine them because... they're your parents. I hope you manage to maintain whatever family relationship is positive for you. You DID live there rent free to save money for years. They ARE selfish idiots who expected you to sacrifice for your sister so they did not have to. Good luck with your restaurant.
The sister was accepted into a masters program at 19 ? C’mon.
Jeez im sorry for op, another " do it for dan"
Just do it for Dan😂
I don't get these questions. He shouldn't give her his money regardless of any of it
If the sister is so great why can’t she pay for her own shiz
Thank you for a normal background instead of the game where a thing jump around and gives me headaches.
No. O. P is not responsible for you're sister.. it's is parents responsible for there's kid.. especially their daughter.. no no and more no..
I would’ve offered her two options either it’s a loan and you’ll pay it back with interest and will set out a payment plan or I’ll give you the money but I now own 50% of your income for the rest of your life. It’s a business loan I own half your business.
Nope, she'll never get her money back, not reasonable at all.
You should give her a job. It wasn’t her fault. Our parents raised her. I’m not trying to force anything. It’s your decision. I’m just giving advice.
Wait... this was for a Master's degree? So sis is in her 20s somewhere, l Iikely mid to late 20s. There is no earthly reason that she can't get a job in her field and save up the money, or even just pay for it as she goes.
The parents were right they were being selfish
They were just projecting onto op
Just live in ur restaurant... that way you can save money by not having an apartment, and you don't have to waste so much gas going from work to home. By doing this, you can also invest more money in the restaurant *I'm joking... maybe not if this helps*
heck no she saved it all up for herself tell the spoil brat to get job
Im confused if the sister had so much success and was so much better why do she need help
So the sister got what she wanted anyway lol.
Eh. You made the right decision. Yiu trying to be supportive was nicer than you needed to be (like you were more than considerate enough). I would have made maybe the offer that you made. But after the parents response. I would have told them to sit and spin.
Grad the restaurant is moving along.
Good that she learned. A pitty that it took so long. And this is a hard question.
I mean, you made the decision to help with her education. You weren't harassed into it.
And you making the decision is the important thing. You decided you wanted to help her. You weren't assumed or threatened into it. Which is the only way it is right. Not because your family quilted into it but that you decided to do it and instead of abandoning your dreams it isn't compromising them
What is the Restaurant called?
Pls tag me when you till him the answer
People are trying to make him into a B
1 if she was successful then she would already have the momey on hand
2 parents job not youra
Fake story btw. Heard another one the other day thats the same word for word except the sister is the one opening a business and parents took OPs college funds to help the sister.
Should have slept in car to open restaurant
Give her a job hell no she demanded u give up yr dream n money for her shell rob u bit already thinks ur money is hers help her out but u.literally tried to rob me
For people from the short 0:58