That was my first thought. They divorced 3 years ago because they couldn’t agree on care for their son. And the stress was too much. A year later he found OP and basically decided to edge her into caring for the son so that once he thought it was a good enough time, dumped the kid on her and ran back to his ex wife. If this is real, then it was a calculated move on his and his ex’s part to abandoned their son. Glad OP reported him and his ex for abandonment.
The grandparents giving OP a place isn't generosity, it's manipulation and convenience, albeit stemming from a good place. Everyone needs to be upfront about what their motivations and priorities are. Ex will face a few legal ramifications but ultimately will walk away and get what he wants. He should be held accountable and required to return to state, be involved with his son or face jail time. Unless she's being compensated like being given the house, OP is getting finessed by her ex and his parents, who can kick her out at the first disagreement.
Yes she didn't get a house, doesn't sound like they transfered ownership. They are letting her stay there because she is an unpaid carer for their grandchild.
My sympathies lie with op. But the biggest victim here is the son. That little boy didn't deserve to be abandoned by both of his biological parents. I'm just glad the little man has a family that loves him and is willing to sit through the hardships just to give him the stability he needs
The OP's ex fiance and his wife have hit rock bottom in more ways than one by abandoning their own autistic son, let's hope that justice is dealt upon them most severely.
I do hope the grandparents sign the house completely over to OP, the ex will face his karma for what he's done. I pray when they get the ex the OP can get some sort of monetary support
op tell that pos to get back and take care of his kid now or give the grandparents the kid or call cps...your being used by everyone there and not one of them have your best interest at heart.
Is it entertaining, though? I spend all this time playing these videos, then the AI does something unreasonable, which rips me out of suspended disbelief, and then I’ll blow an hour typing into my iPad to complain. I tell myself it’s to help the AI do better next time. But I know the AI doesn’t read posts, and doesn’t interact with the meaning of words that way. It’s basically the Fox News model… they don’t care about entertainment, they care about engagement. And me rage-posting is more engaged than me doing crochet while playing a Hallmark movie.
Who wants to bet that once the kid is older like a teen and has learned to cope and regulate his emotions and autism enough that he doesn't need constant care from another his egg and spern doner suddenly show up wanting to play perfect family and be his parents? OP needs the house ownership transfered into her name and when custody is fully worked out I hope OP can legally adopt the son and egg and spern doner are barred from custody.
Sometimes the in-laws are decent human beings. A woman in my hometown was being abused by her husband. His parents disowned him, and opened their home and their hearts to their DIL and their grandkids. Cue tears and butthurt from their disowned abusive POS son- "It's not fair!!!"
Being subjected to the tender mercies of CPS and the Foster Care system are a freakin' nightmare even for normal, healthy, well-adjusted kids. I can't imagine what an autistic child would experience.
There is nothing generous about the ex-future in-laws dumping their autist grandson on a virtual stranger just so they didn’t have to deal with the hard part.
Why? I was there when a nonverbal autistic child spoke his first word. It was the name of the horse he was riding at therapy- "Bert." I will never forget that moment. His parents and the therapists were having an anti-meltdown; streams of joyful tears. Me? I was fine, but I must have gotten some hay dust or horeshair in my eyes, as they were watering and I had to keep rubbing them. 🥺
@@ostlandr Think how a real person would describe this sort of situation. Most wouldn't ramble about such a personal matter, it would be much more concise. Its likely AI generated because its written like a story book, and AIs are often trained by being fed fiction material.
@@BlueAversionwho cares? It’s freaking Reddit mostly and the fact y’all even discussing fake or real, is a waste of time. These stories end up on reading apps anyway most of the time 😂. It’s entertaining and some things do happen in real life
That whole family made a fool of Opie. Since she doing it for the parents you might as well with it did it for her ex-fiance taking care of his child. What what I would have done is I would have contacted the cops and then of course they would have contacted CPS and told him that he abandoned his child. La CPS and the cops get in touch with his parents because honestly she is out of the equation and then I would have moved out of that house and moves on my life.
Just a little constructive criticism: you're not sourcing these from Reddit from the looks of it, as this same story appears on many channels, but none have a link to the post and it's not on Reddit or Reddit Archives. And this is pretty transparently fake. The number of stories that end with "I don't know what the future holds..." is ridiculous. That's some lazy blogging, nobody speaks like that, lol. The husband abandoned his house, he's not selling it or anything? The OP who works part-time can keep up with the expenses? Even assuming there's no mortgage, the taxes and utilities alone would likely be beyond her financial abilities. And even if she could, why would she pay for a home to which she doesn't hold Title? Are the father or mother paying for the kid while presumably changing careers, buying a new home in a new location, etc? OP likely would have walked away from the situation, most people would. So he would have known the kid would end up with his parents or in foster care. Why not simply make those arrangements himself? What was the function of setting someone up if it was likely all going to end the same? When OP was wondering if he was coming back, the first thing Reddit would have asked is "Did he takes his Passport, Social Security Card and Birth Certificate with him. You'd think out of all the Redditors out there, at least one would have asked the obvious questions. And it would take a very long time for the grandparents to obtain custodial guardianship, even if it's uncontested, it still takes months to get a hearing, and then the child would be living with them. In the interim, they would be placed in a foster home, not allowed to stay with a non-custodial guardian who is effectively squatting in her ex's home. I don't mind fictional stories, but these aren't even remotely plausible.
From what I've noticed, they're either rewriting reddit stories or sending the story through an AI application. Seems the channels are either trying to avoid copyright or avoid being asked to take any videos down from the actual redditors.
That is one incredibly lucky little boy. There aren’t many women who would do this. I like to think of myself as a fairly kind person, but I don’t believe I could ever step up as well as she has.
Parents and grandparents don’t want the ‘burden’ of raising the child so they’re duping OP - who is wholly unconnected to the child - into just accepting it. I’d feel terrible for the child but I’d be running for the hills.
Nah, there's no way im taking care of some mans child that has such severe medical issues. That kid has grandparent, that house has become that womans prison. Fake story because if this is real this woman is a chump.
OP is a loser! Her fiancé left her for his ex and OP was ok with taken care of the child like a fool! Wow! so now the ex fiancé and his ex can move on and start over will OP is stuck with this child that need 24 care! She is not the mother or the step mother but she is stuck with him! So if dating as a single mother is hard it is a million times worse for her and she foolishly sticking it out thinking it’s ok for what! She will grow to resent the child no matter how sweet she spin this story now! This kid was dumped on her by her ex who dumped her with his responsibility and his parents is heartless and selfish to have her take on the responsibility as well! She can sing her heart out how much she loves the child but she’s only in shock and is delusional! She is throwing her life away and today she might be ok but when she gets older and end up unmarried with no relationship or kids of her own she will see that she made a big mistake by taking on the responsibility
Wow, that poor boy was abandoned by both parents because they were weak.......and OP didn't HAVE to stay she could have packed up and moved on with her life but she stayed and became a mother that child deserves
You and grandparents should sell both homes and move to one bigger home. 2 reasons, 1. Easier to split child care 3 ways and 2 when fiance comes back alk I'm sorries, it was to yards and I love all of you sooo much( and he will). She was an ex for a reason. Anyway he won't have any addresses to return to.
You should have called CPS on them for abandonment cuz basically all they did is abandoned that kid and leave you to raising. And the grand parent get government money while u get to raise his special needs kid. And now ur stuck there
Bro i wanna cry right now but something is holding me nack from doing it cuz ik everything is kinda ok now and theres no reason to cry i think this is so..... i cant even put it into words but i thinkbu get the point. And THIRDDDDDD!!!!!
@@sammy_only And he had his tablet in his hand. Even dogs can learn to communicate with tablets, so no problem for an otherwise intelligent autistic kid. Gorillas and Chimpanzees can't physically speak- but teach them sign language, and WOW! Koko the gorilla actually learned to swear all on her own. Her trainer/teacher/keeper Peter was asking her to do something she didn't want to do. So she made the sign for "Peter" and then the sign for (poop). The character of Amy the gorilla in Michael Crichton's "Congo" (1980 novel, 1995 movie) was based on Koko.
Nice story, but its clearly AI generated. A real person wouldn't ramble like that when talking about such a personal matter. This is from an AI that was trained by reading fiction books.
@@iwanttocomment8966 then that is your own failure. Did you go into the relationship expecting to step into the parent role. Did you even try to be their friend or companion, a safe harbour in the storm of their parents moving on from each other
Moreso, if you date someone with a kid, don't let them think you're free childcare. Dating people with kids is more of an option for folks who are looking for a longterm thing IF they want kids
This story seems strange. Why would the e think a woman he's not married does not have blood relation too or legal guardian of his son would take care of him? Surely he know the law that he could face jail time. And why would she stay? she has no ownership of the house or guardianship of the kid. Seems like the parents are using her as an unpaid carer. and who pays the bills the grandparents? her? How can she afford to pay for a therapist and the thousand other things the kid needs? are the grandparents paying. and who owned the house? if he did the grandparents can not let her live there. this is clearly fake and badly written too boot
But if somebody posted to Reddit "I facepalmed" or "I LOLed" that would be more believable? I went through some bad s**t a couple years ago I'm not ready to share on Reddit. But when I do, if I put my face in my hands and wept like a lost child after I got some news (which I did) that's just how I'm going to write it. Because I'll be telling a story. I could write several paragraphs of what I remember from being at work on 9/11/2001. I even remember chunks of conversations. I can still see the looks on people's faces when somebody remembered we had coworkers in the Towers. I could go into so much detail. Would that sound fake to you?
AI doesn't write half this well. The AI written SciFi stories break continuity constantly. They don't even make sense. They're like a bad movie (Starcrash) where the pieces of dialog that held the supposed plot together ended up on the cutting room floor. LOL always reminds me how Winston Smith, the protagonist in George Orwell's "1984", had a job operating a novel-writing machine. AI would have put him out of a job.
@@ostlandr I've had AI do a lot of writing for me to be honest. I run dnd campaigns and given the right prompts and a good engine it's scary how well they can write, with some human tweaks usually though.
Dude and his ex thought they could just dump their kid onto someone else to play perfect couple. If this is real both are disgusting.
That was my first thought. They divorced 3 years ago because they couldn’t agree on care for their son. And the stress was too much. A year later he found OP and basically decided to edge her into caring for the son so that once he thought it was a good enough time, dumped the kid on her and ran back to his ex wife.
If this is real, then it was a calculated move on his and his ex’s part to abandoned their son.
Glad OP reported him and his ex for abandonment.
I agree these are two people who have no business being parents if they are going to treat their son like this.
The grandparents giving OP a place isn't generosity, it's manipulation and convenience, albeit stemming from a good place. Everyone needs to be upfront about what their motivations and priorities are. Ex will face a few legal ramifications but ultimately will walk away and get what he wants. He should be held accountable and required to return to state, be involved with his son or face jail time. Unless she's being compensated like being given the house, OP is getting finessed by her ex and his parents, who can kick her out at the first disagreement.
Yes she didn't get a house, doesn't sound like they transfered ownership. They are letting her stay there because she is an unpaid carer for their grandchild.
Whatever, she was already ready to take responsibility
OP should realized she is just a glorified babysitter. She ruined her own chance of getting her own family with this move.
@@l-l-l-l-l-l-lit wasn’t her fault tho?
Of they disowned their own son thst means its anything but manipulation
My sympathies lie with op. But the biggest victim here is the son. That little boy didn't deserve to be abandoned by both of his biological parents. I'm just glad the little man has a family that loves him and is willing to sit through the hardships just to give him the stability he needs
Family is not always who we are born to, but who we choose❣️❣️❣️
I would have called cps on them for abandoning their kid 😂
They couldn't if they ran away trying to hide
@@Songking222 She could still call CPS.
@@susan7775they wouldn't do much anyways
Well theyd lose all custody and probably go to prsion for a few years@rogueshark23
The OP's ex fiance and his wife have hit rock bottom in more ways than one by abandoning their own autistic son, let's hope that justice is dealt upon them most severely.
I do hope the grandparents sign the house completely over to OP, the ex will face his karma for what he's done. I pray when they get the ex the OP can get some sort of monetary support
op tell that pos to get back and take care of his kid now or give the grandparents the kid or call cps...your being used by everyone there and not one of them have your best interest at heart.
This whole story is written by ai
@@allyssastrangedoesn’t matter. These stories end up on apps anyway. It’s entertaining
Is it entertaining, though? I spend all this time playing these videos, then the AI does something unreasonable, which rips me out of suspended disbelief, and then I’ll blow an hour typing into my iPad to complain. I tell myself it’s to help the AI do better next time. But I know the AI doesn’t read posts, and doesn’t interact with the meaning of words that way.
It’s basically the Fox News model… they don’t care about entertainment, they care about engagement. And me rage-posting is more engaged than me doing crochet while playing a Hallmark movie.
Haven’t finished it, he’s cheating on you.
Right? So obvious!
Who wants to bet that once the kid is older like a teen and has learned to cope and regulate his emotions and autism enough that he doesn't need constant care from another his egg and spern doner suddenly show up wanting to play perfect family and be his parents?
OP needs the house ownership transfered into her name and when custody is fully worked out I hope OP can legally adopt the son and egg and spern doner are barred from custody.
Wow. What a scumbag. I hope the courts through the book at him.
Sometimes the in-laws are decent human beings. A woman in my hometown was being abused by her husband. His parents disowned him, and opened their home and their hearts to their DIL and their grandkids. Cue tears and butthurt from their disowned abusive POS son- "It's not fair!!!"
she's better than me cause I'll be GONE the second I knew he wasn't coming back
I'd call CPS and have the child taken into care. They've abandoned him.
Being subjected to the tender mercies of CPS and the Foster Care system are a freakin' nightmare even for normal, healthy, well-adjusted kids. I can't imagine what an autistic child would experience.
13:10
Did the... Did the AI voice just get sad?
Lmao i think so
It's so melodramatic in this one XD
There is nothing generous about the ex-future in-laws dumping their autist grandson on a virtual stranger just so they didn’t have to deal with the hard part.
Immediate call go CPS required
Kid went from nonverbal to talking with in a update and the op remembers every word spoken exactly so incredibly fake
Why? I was there when a nonverbal autistic child spoke his first word. It was the name of the horse he was riding at therapy- "Bert." I will never forget that moment. His parents and the therapists were having an anti-meltdown; streams of joyful tears. Me? I was fine, but I must have gotten some hay dust or horeshair in my eyes, as they were watering and I had to keep rubbing them. 🥺
@@ostlandr Think how a real person would describe this sort of situation. Most wouldn't ramble about such a personal matter, it would be much more concise. Its likely AI generated because its written like a story book, and AIs are often trained by being fed fiction material.
He used his tablet
Bro she literally said he said it with his tablet
@@BlueAversionwho cares? It’s freaking Reddit mostly and the fact y’all even discussing fake or real, is a waste of time. These stories end up on reading apps anyway most of the time 😂. It’s entertaining and some things do happen in real life
That whole family made a fool of Opie. Since she doing it for the parents you might as well with it did it for her ex-fiance taking care of his child.
What what I would have done is I would have contacted the cops and then of course they would have contacted CPS and told him that he abandoned his child.
La CPS and the cops get in touch with his parents because honestly she is out of the equation and then I would have moved out of that house and moves on my life.
Part two - please - need closure for this heartbreaking story 💔
Just a little constructive criticism: you're not sourcing these from Reddit from the looks of it, as this same story appears on many channels, but none have a link to the post and it's not on Reddit or Reddit Archives.
And this is pretty transparently fake. The number of stories that end with "I don't know what the future holds..." is ridiculous. That's some lazy blogging, nobody speaks like that, lol. The husband abandoned his house, he's not selling it or anything? The OP who works part-time can keep up with the expenses? Even assuming there's no mortgage, the taxes and utilities alone would likely be beyond her financial abilities. And even if she could, why would she pay for a home to which she doesn't hold Title? Are the father or mother paying for the kid while presumably changing careers, buying a new home in a new location, etc?
OP likely would have walked away from the situation, most people would. So he would have known the kid would end up with his parents or in foster care. Why not simply make those arrangements himself? What was the function of setting someone up if it was likely all going to end the same?
When OP was wondering if he was coming back, the first thing Reddit would have asked is "Did he takes his Passport, Social Security Card and Birth Certificate with him. You'd think out of all the Redditors out there, at least one would have asked the obvious questions.
And it would take a very long time for the grandparents to obtain custodial guardianship, even if it's uncontested, it still takes months to get a hearing, and then the child would be living with them. In the interim, they would be placed in a foster home, not allowed to stay with a non-custodial guardian who is effectively squatting in her ex's home.
I don't mind fictional stories, but these aren't even remotely plausible.
From what I've noticed, they're either rewriting reddit stories or sending the story through an AI application. Seems the channels are either trying to avoid copyright or avoid being asked to take any videos down from the actual redditors.
It's extremely worrying that you weren't concerned that he was contacting his ex for something other then his son.
He got back with the ex-wife
It seems like their plan was looking for a doormat with Holly Mother tendencies to dump the kid on her and live their lives on a new chapter.
@@gostavoadolfos2023 agreed
CPS all day and walk away.
That is one incredibly lucky little boy. There aren’t many women who would do this. I like to think of myself as a fairly kind person, but I don’t believe I could ever step up as well as she has.
Parents and grandparents don’t want the ‘burden’ of raising the child so they’re duping OP - who is wholly unconnected to the child - into just accepting it. I’d feel terrible for the child but I’d be running for the hills.
both the ex fiance and the parents just want a free caretaker for the boy
Nah, there's no way im taking care of some mans child that has such severe medical issues. That kid has grandparent, that house has become that womans prison. Fake story because if this is real this woman is a chump.
OP's ex-fiance's farents are level headed and stong willed. They knew what to be done and went through it.
Id never let op go. 100% Partnermaterial
He picked the right one… this is the most foolish thing I’ve ever heard!
You are a hero. And the grandparents are good people
OP is a loser! Her fiancé left her for his ex and OP was ok with taken care of the child like a fool! Wow! so now the ex fiancé and his ex can move on and start over will OP is stuck with this child that need 24 care! She is not the mother or the step mother but she is stuck with him! So if dating as a single mother is hard it is a million times worse for her and she foolishly sticking it out thinking it’s ok for what! She will grow to resent the child no matter how sweet she spin this story now! This kid was dumped on her by her ex who dumped her with his responsibility and his parents is heartless and selfish to have her take on the responsibility as well! She can sing her heart out how much she loves the child but she’s only in shock and is delusional! She is throwing her life away and today she might be ok but when she gets older and end up unmarried with no relationship or kids of her own she will see that she made a big mistake by taking on the responsibility
0:59 For people who came from shorts
Thank you
@@Stardust_Vega np
18:03 is the end lol
Wow, that poor boy was abandoned by both parents because they were weak.......and OP didn't HAVE to stay she could have packed up and moved on with her life but she stayed and became a mother that child deserves
Op you truly are an angel!
You and grandparents should sell both homes and move to one bigger home. 2 reasons, 1. Easier to split child care 3 ways and 2 when fiance comes back alk I'm sorries, it was to yards and I love all of you sooo much( and he will). She was an ex for a reason. Anyway he won't have any addresses to return to.
If there was a serious situation he would have said what it was numpty. Ffs call the cps
“His son is his top priority” clearly not true
Threaten to call of the wedding if he continues give vague answers.
Lady, you have a heart of gold!!
You should have called CPS on them for abandonment cuz basically all they did is abandoned that kid and leave you to raising. And the grand parent get government money while u get to raise his special needs kid. And now ur stuck there
Press charges for abandment
I miss the minecraft parkour background
This guy used his son to represent himself as "devoted father" tell he could get some.
Bro i wanna cry right now but something is holding me nack from doing it cuz ik everything is kinda ok now and theres no reason to cry i think this is so..... i cant even put it into words but i thinkbu get the point. And THIRDDDDDD!!!!!
Wasn't that kid non verbal?? 😂
They are all using you get out of there save yourself
Wait a minute, you said he was non-verbal and then you said he came in and asked where his dad was?
She said he uses tablets to communicate.
@@sammy_only And he had his tablet in his hand. Even dogs can learn to communicate with tablets, so no problem for an otherwise intelligent autistic kid. Gorillas and Chimpanzees can't physically speak- but teach them sign language, and WOW! Koko the gorilla actually learned to swear all on her own. Her trainer/teacher/keeper Peter was asking her to do something she didn't want to do. So she made the sign for "Peter" and then the sign for (poop).
The character of Amy the gorilla in Michael Crichton's "Congo" (1980 novel, 1995 movie) was based on Koko.
If he's non verbal how can he ask where daddy is that's not non verbal
Parents can send childcare money.
Nice story, but its clearly AI generated. A real person wouldn't ramble like that when talking about such a personal matter.
This is from an AI that was trained by reading fiction books.
Never date someone with kids.
Not necessarily 😅 one kid ain’t that bad
@@BasicEmtry it, and please update us on how it failed
Debatable, but i understand people with that precident. Some people just dont want that, and that's okay
@@iwanttocomment8966 then that is your own failure. Did you go into the relationship expecting to step into the parent role. Did you even try to be their friend or companion, a safe harbour in the storm of their parents moving on from each other
Moreso, if you date someone with a kid, don't let them think you're free childcare. Dating people with kids is more of an option for folks who are looking for a longterm thing IF they want kids
13:44 "He went to get the milk:
I thought that kid was nonverbal?
Do you expect perfection in an AI story?/s
00:59 for ppl that ceme from a short
Great story and I am left with but one query, when are you going to stop referring to the child as that P.O.S.’s son?
This is DEFINITELY fake😭😭 but idc i love it
This story seems strange. Why would the e think a woman he's not married does not have blood relation too or legal guardian of his son would take care of him? Surely he know the law that he could face jail time. And why would she stay? she has no ownership of the house or guardianship of the kid. Seems like the parents are using her as an unpaid carer. and who pays the bills the grandparents? her? How can she afford to pay for a therapist and the thousand other things the kid needs? are the grandparents paying. and who owned the house? if he did the grandparents can not let her live there. this is clearly fake and badly written too boot
This is such a fake story. It’s well written but fake.
sorry but the ai's voice at 10:50 😭😭
So strange
Stories become less interesting the more adjectives are used.
Obvious fiction, but ok
The AI is doing too much
FIX THE VOICE
Fake story with all the "i ran my fingers through my hair" and other story like details.
But if somebody posted to Reddit "I facepalmed" or "I LOLed" that would be more believable?
I went through some bad s**t a couple years ago I'm not ready to share on Reddit. But when I do, if I put my face in my hands and wept like a lost child after I got some news (which I did) that's just how I'm going to write it. Because I'll be telling a story.
I could write several paragraphs of what I remember from being at work on 9/11/2001. I even remember chunks of conversations. I can still see the looks on people's faces when somebody remembered we had coworkers in the Towers. I could go into so much detail. Would that sound fake to you?
I love you videos ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Faket fakety fake. This person thiught they could write a shitty novel and get away with it 😂
NICE
does nobody know these are AI generated?
AI doesn't write half this well. The AI written SciFi stories break continuity constantly. They don't even make sense. They're like a bad movie (Starcrash) where the pieces of dialog that held the supposed plot together ended up on the cutting room floor.
LOL always reminds me how Winston Smith, the protagonist in George Orwell's "1984", had a job operating a novel-writing machine. AI would have put him out of a job.
@@ostlandr I've had AI do a lot of writing for me to be honest. I run dnd campaigns and given the right prompts and a good engine it's scary how well they can write, with some human tweaks usually though.
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