THIS is How Women WANT You to Flirt With Them!
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Marni, the Wing Girl, is back to answer some of the most burning questions you guys have. So one of the things that a lot of guys struggle with is anxiety when talking to a woman. Marni has an incredible method of approaching and talking to somebody you're interested in.
How to approach a woman
Marni recommends the following method: observe, share, and ask (OSA), which cuts out the first few minutes of fluff. Also, OSA has you approaching her as if you already know her - not as if you are asking for permission.
So for the 'observe' part, you make an observation about the world around you. Then 'share' about that observation, which expands on the why behind the observation. You're going to say why you made that observation and how it pertains to you, which is an area that's so difficult for many men because they have to ask question after question to get a woman to open up. But instead, the man should lead by example. During the sharing, he should open himself up first to give little tidbits about himself.
Check out her examples of this OSA method, which I act out with her. You'll see how this method pulls it all together rather than using the direct approach. Marni also recommends another way to approach women: going up to her and saying that you love her vibe or her energy.
Compliments, Non-verbal communication, and Assumptions
At the end of the day, every woman likes a compliment, but it's not going to be that hurdle that will get her to open up and start chatting with you. But absolutely, you can go up to her and be bold and give her a compliment. Very few things are off-limits to compliment.
Remember, it's not WHAT is said but HOW it is said. 85% of communication is nonverbal. Nonverbal communication is a more significant piece of the attraction equation than what is actually said.
A woman can drop a barrier if you continue to ask questions without actually you opening up. So instead of asking questions, make assumptions. She can't help but engage and respond to that. She can simply answer questions and then move away. Making assumptions is also a great way to start teasing and escalating, as well.
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Alpha G💪
Alpha ji fan from INDIA 🇮🇳 🇮🇳 🇮🇳
Both of you are annoying AF
OK bro
If she’s not initially attracted to you then none of this matters, that’s really how it is
@@gg41r which she could decipher as, "he makes a good friend".
Agreed, but you could use what they said for what to say when you do sense a spark between you, like eye contact that's mutually held or a nice smile that's returned...
It does matter. This isn’t how to pick up any woman. This is WHAT to say to a woman to break the ice
@@seanthetraveler yeah I get what you are saying and I agree that you still need confidence and good conversation. But majority of the time girls are too quick to judge and don’t even give you any ice to break to begin with. And secondly nowadays girls think every guy trying to talk to them is “creepy,” and the only way around that is if you’re initially attractive to the girl.
Wrong. One word. "Roofies"
Cannot stop smiling watching these 2 awesome people talking 🤣
Me too lmao 🤣 😂
The best about the video is that they both have their views and opinions. So it's more of a conversation. Nice Stuff!
Hell yeah it is
Telling a woman that she is beautiful when she knows she is beautiful only works if she is attracted to you.
You definitely tell a woman she is beautiful
Thanks for sharing. I consider myself awkward, and struggle to connect with people. However, the other day, I used this approach and the conversation flowed really well!
Hell yeah
For those saying none of the advice matters if the person is not attracted to you, is partially wrong IMO. I think the most important thing is to strike up a conversation which this video is somewhat helpful with. We are people first and all wish to form some type of connection with others, even if it's a brief interaction. You can find out if a person is interested or attracted to you simply by engaging in conversation or by being subtle with your flirting (takes practice). If they're not interested then just reframe your focus from getting digits to gaining experience holding a conversation. Rather than not trying at all, consider it practice for when you do find a person who is attracted or interested in you.
Can I get your email Daniel? You seem like a genius.
@@KrishnaYadav-xz3fj Thanks but I'm not a genius. I'm just a guy with lots of life experience.
@@danielm.2377 Great. Have a good day !
Yeah but this is about getting a date … so your wrong
Im going to practice
Thank you Alpha for bringing in more help than just yourself. You are a G!
Definitely thank you
That was a bit of an abrupt ending Alpha. Great to see the collaboration with Marni. Love her content.
So do i
Thank you for the tips guys. This is something I have always struggled with this. I am not big on online dating and approaching is my favorite way to meet women so these tips were very helpful :)
If she’s not attracted to you, none of this really matters. It doesn’t matter what you say, she’s going to be quick to judge and think you’re a creep lol
And the truth is he don’t care 🤷♂️ at least he shouldn’t ✌️
Then they'll cap about how you shouldn't 'judge a book by its cover.' 🤦♂️
You can't make this stuff up bro.
Get attractive then
@@amlc4626 LOL it's easier said than done, for me!
She’s not attracted because you care what she and women think of you.
4:34 that reaction had me dead. I wouldn’t know how to react if someone especially a girl said that to me.
Same her bro
I don't know if I learnt anything watching this video, but it was certainly entertaining. I love the banter between Aaron and Marnie.
YOU ADVISE IS THE BEST
thats definitley one of the most informative videos i ever saw on that topic and you two make it so funny and entertaining to watch
Yes she does
Alpha M, you and Marni have a great collaboration
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this video really shows that every woman is different. You can see Aaron trying to help her generalize some things so it applies everywhere, but it really digs deep into how men should approach women
Yes it is
Loving the energy in this video
It’s not about if she’s attracted to me or not, I just need to know what to say as an initial ice breaker instead of saying “hey how are you, what’s your name?”. So her info just gave me the ability to be creative with it. I think it’s different coming from a woman telling you what women want to hear.
Yes it is
i've been outta the game for so long. wow! i just wish i could have the last 30 years of my life back. i learned so much from Tripp Kramer, Alpha M, Marni Your Personal Wing Girl, etc. I am simply too old to get back in the game, but i love these videos that teach the younger crowd! when my time is up, and God calls me home, i so can't wait to ask God which females were interested in me in my life. I just wouldn't want Him to call her over and talk about it. LOL
So have i
It really doesn't even have to be this complicated, honestly. The stupidest line that ever worked for me was when I walked up to a woman sitting at the bar that had the same beer I did and said, "Hey, nice beer." Within a couple hours of that completely stupid opener, we were back at my place.
It's not necessarily what you say, but how you say it and your ability to carry on from there.
Yes it does
That smile after her saying wanting that muffin in her mouth😂. Priceless!
How about getting physically fit , mentally intelligent , and financially secure. Then approaching whoever you want to approach
Hmmm maybe the muffin line might just be crazy enough to work 🤔😅
You look like brother and sister wow the synergie of you is crazy
I don't know of the numbers are showing. But you must continue this dynamic duo. Successful videos.
Good stuff, guys.
A healthy balance sheet and high-paying job are great ice breakers
This video was chaotic! I LOVED IT! 😂
Alpha's definitely piping her box
Can we use “You look like you’re from Nashville, because you’re the only ten I see (Tennessee)” 😂😂
These two would be great on family feud
Oh wow, you two know each other. Marni is my fav, I like Sassy too. I like secretaries too! Type harder! lol
Alpha thank you fam I watch your vids all the time and I appreciate you 💯
😄😄😄I had a lot of fun!
Listen to her without interrupting, Aaron.
"Saying it the right way you can get away" this is true but I have been in both sides of the spectrum , now that I'm more developed after years of gym , grooming , etc I can confidently say I can get away with most stuff BUT years ago I just got weird looks and a straight poker face .
So have i
Oh my god that's Marni!
Ahh yes, the coffee shop, where apparently every successful relationship has ever started
Mi favorite dating coaches together i can't believe continue doing more videos we love you 🥰🙏
*if she doesn't like you , nothing is gon work*
Colab of the century
This is how I’m imagining it:
Him: You’re typing so hard!!
Her: put your headphone on
Him: when I’m trying this hard it means I’m serious about what I’m doing
Her: oh yeah? Considering you established that, then stop disturbing me
I was not able to roll my eyes over from Marni
Is that Dylan Mulvaney in the thumb??? Lol
The problem is that am introvert 💀
Being an introvert does not mean you lack social skills. Don’t use it as an excuse
Same but just make yourself talk
A fish teaching a fisherman how catch fish?
The Grift NEVER STOPS 🙄
Yooo alpha this was a good video! Bring her back and plz do the escalating video ! Hahaha 👍🔥
Where's the summary guy?
Love the advice, personally I'm a bubbly and genuine guy who loves talking to people when it comes to things like chruch and work since I'm a waiter even though I'm not asking ppl out I get to talk to beautiful women and it makes me feel more confident,just talking to them. But outside of these my shy and ask ppl out. I'm 22 and last time I asked someone out was when I was a JNR in highschool I asked two different ppl out at different times and I wasn't phased when they said no thanks ect, but haven't asked out anyone since.
It's not that reason I've never asked anyone out but personally i don't go out to coffee shops, pubs ect.
I go out with friends but even then I'm there to have good time with them and not focus on anyone else. Hopefully this can help me Abit Even if I go up to one person. But is there a way on which you can get ppl to come up to you even if it's just to have a conversation that will lead me to hopefully ask them out if I find them attractive so I helps break the awkward feeling of going up to anyone.
Did it work?
These two are like the male and female version of the exact same person 😆
I can't help but see a bosley ad here 😂
This video teaches by EXAMPLE
Hey big brother Alpha!❤️
🍓 השילוב בין מרני לאלפא M מעולה ! אני אוהב את שניהם. פשוט מעולה !
Using similar tactics as to what I learned in sales feels kinda weird but it makes sense
I love how the guy proves how delusional this lady is by thinking those tactics work.
Some woman in a coffee shop is working and typing loudly. Man approaches and says " Wow! You are typing really loudly." End of encounter. Marni is unbelievably annoying
I have a personal rule to not take seriously anyone who refers to the Super Bowl as "The Big Game"
Why do I feel like this lady is the 'man' of the house, not alpha m.
I already found mine
Folks this is all cute and the banter is fun but honestly my mom used to say (and it sounds funnier in spanish) if it doesn't go in the eyes first it's not going in anywhere else 😅 i.e. if the girl doesn't see u as physically attractive you can say whatever you want it's not gonna fly, there has to be something about you that she sees as attractive which is why you approached her in the first place something about her physically attracted you, so guys work on yourself first and foremost because when you know you have put in the work on yourself you will automatically build confidence and that does show physically from the way you walk to the way you dress to the way you talk so work on yourselves because an attractive guy can walk up and say supercalafragilisticexpialidocious to a girl and she'll laugh and think it's cute but some fat slobby unkept guy can have the greatest line and she'll be like ughh!! #facts
FACT: the exact same line, if it comes from a guy she doesn't find attractive is going to be regarded as "pathetic", if it comes from a guy she fancies, it's going to be considered ", cute".
Fact is, this chick doesn’t know shit about how guys need to seduce chicks. Pretty un-alpha of alpha-m to give her space in the manosphere being all things masculine. But any kind of bold statements always work, no matter if it’s conventional, controversial or outright stupid.
Im handsome to the ladies at my gym
What is wrong with the people who said "if she's not attracted to you at first, it won't work"? Do you guys even go and play in the field? You can build the attraction if you know and pay attention, this man in several videos says one BIG trick which is "LISTEN" if you are good at active listening you have AT LEAST starting to make her feel some attraction but you have also to show her that you listen to what she's saying, if you apply every point he talks in this type of video, you will see that writing "if she's not attracted" is bullshit mentality and you are not even trying, you one everything easy right away
Aaron, whenever you invite her to your vid, you should name this series as beta m., since she is pretty much dominating the conversation here and you can't even finish your sentences haha
I worked at a movie theatre. And I’ve seen Latinos with face tattoos come in with the most beautiful women.. I was shocked
Hilarious😅
Hey Alpha, what’s your hairstyle called?
Marni sounds like the female in It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia.
Cringe worthy
At the end of the day it depends on the girl.
I just wasted 9mins & 53 seconds watching this crap. They made no sense. All over the place trying to make this very difficult. If a woman finds you attractive, you can pretty much come up with any corny line & she'll accept it. Mostly average or unattractive men have a harder time to get that first positive reaction but can win them over with their personality & humor. I don't think women ever get tired of a compliment, especially mature women as it may have been a while since they got one. Whenever I compliment a woman, the most popular response I get back is, "oh thank you. You've just made my day". Just go for it guys.
The crossover episode I never expected to see...but awesome
Alpha gettin on the marna buns
The fish doesn't teach the fisherman how to catch it
epic duo, keep her around
I think if you are anot attractive then this conversation will ultimately lead to friendzone....but if you are attractive then tgis conversation will help you to get what you want.... That's it....
This is how you become a beta male lol
Another problem is that most people that you actually want to interact with walks around with headphones on..
Best trick is just to talk with any 5 random members a day we will automatically learn communication
Perfect example of a women saying stuff which she doesnt even understand herself. Fact is if she doesnt find u attractive in the first 3 secs its over. it wouldnt matter how u would approach her.
Im going to disagree here. This is basically indirect in another form.
The only times I have ever gotten laid from cold approach is by being direct. I ended with Flakes and the friendzone every time ive gone indirect.
Sorry. But the idea of Cold approach is putting your balls on the line. This aint it.
Asking Hitler how to kill Hitler!😂😂😂
I am sorry but I gotta say this. I never had any problem with all the promotions and shoutouts to the sponsors but I think promoting a sort of gambleing is VERY wrong… Some of my friends lost all thier life savings bcs they got addicted to it. And of course people can argue that they could set limits and that they could just stop but thats just not how addiction works. i think that s just so very wrong to promote something like that
Is this woman also italian? I can feel the vibe ☺️👌😉🙏❤️
The OG OF UA-cam ❤
Great video
My aunt was that hot like Marni but that was in 1993 when I was a preteen .....fast forward 30 years I'm in my early 40s my aunt is pushing 80 years old in a few years.....ahh not so hot anymore.....but she has a few hundred thousand bucks she wants to leave me when she passes.....no rush I'm okay with her living another 10 or 15 years I have my own money but I will never say no to an inherentence lmao
Alpha M The Man ❤👍
Do marriage advice some of us are married because of you! Haha.
GOAT of MAN
Took away absolutely nothing from this but plugged info
It ain’t about that though you know. Women, and men for that matter are intuitive. At the end of the day it’s about intention. I wouldn’t search “ how to attract any woman” I would be looking at “maximizing potential “ and the rest falls in place. If your potential next sees you don’t care about their acceptance; that you are confident you’re good enough putting your best foot forward; that will be way more attractive than the guy that is n the surface looks like a catch but in reality is just a product of society’s attack on manhood, irrational weak immoral selfish and just Pervy and creepy.
Go Birds Aaron!
She thinks it's not a big deal to go up to women & just say anything until your being walked to Human Resources.
🤣these two finally colab. I've been watching your individual channels for a long time..
Brotha isn't satisfied with her tips😂
Someone wise (and maybe insane) told me once to open with a crazy sounding line. Not creepy crazy but just outta this world. I once used this line on a girl and she went nuts for it. “You are so fucking cute, I wanna knock your teeth out, buy you new ones and then buy you a fucking tiger.”
Alpha I was thinking of what if you flip-flop your roles and start to give women advice on your channel for what men really want and need from a woman. Maybe a few videos to make for women to come to your channel.
That’s what we men need. Women perhaps need to be taught by men on what men want because we know best.
Look nice
Act nice
Be good.
That’s all we ask of women.
That’s quite a stupid idea, it never worked since we’re not the same. This is modern society crap, trying to think we are all the same. A woman is never gonna tell you what she really needs - YOU have to evolve by a man, like women need to evolve by a woman, period.
All I get from these videos is that men have to jump through hoops to be good enough .
Hey dude, love your content, but this chick has no clue giving dating advice to men - like all the chicks thinking to be entitled to coach dudes how to seduce women, haha! Watched a couple of her episodes and was amused about the content at best. It’s about the same for guys trying to give pickup advice to chicks, it simply doesn’t work. I would always date Marnie, but can’t take her serious.