REVEALED: What (REALLY) Make Men Attractive to Women!

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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2024

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  • @alpham
    @alpham  Рік тому +30

    You Deserve To be Happy! Go to my sponsor betterhelp.com/alpham for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help.

    • @UniqueVidhan
      @UniqueVidhan Рік тому

      Sir she is your wife?

    • @kylepinkston7861
      @kylepinkston7861 Рік тому +1

      I had a striper asked for my number this weekend and to other wemon hit on me I'm 24 bye the way and was completely unexpected

    • @meglodub1680
      @meglodub1680 Рік тому

      @Ludo game gameplay No, but I was coming on here to say I love their friendship because it's strong and comedic.

    • @CarlosXPhone
      @CarlosXPhone Рік тому

      You missed the biggest issue... "Gold Digger" at 8:41.

    • @meglodub1680
      @meglodub1680 Рік тому

      @Carlos Morales no gold digger vibes whatsoever. A car and money are signs that you know what you're doing and you work for what you want. There is a difference between gold diggers and someone who wants a worthwhile man.

  • @AABloodyAA
    @AABloodyAA Рік тому +203

    I like how Aaron takes the time to write a summary in the description for us...I love you big brother

  • @malone4735
    @malone4735 Рік тому +183

    “Chasing success gets you more women than chasing women.”
    -Stirling Cooper💯

    • @franklindelanoroosevelt9177
      @franklindelanoroosevelt9177 Рік тому +3

      Is this a mad men reference

    • @JohnSkyLey
      @JohnSkyLey Рік тому +2

      Chase excellence, not women

    • @TheKingOfGreatness
      @TheKingOfGreatness Рік тому +1

      @@JAYJAYBEBE That's why when you chase success and you finally get it you don't have to tell everyone and show it off to everyone because that just attracts gold diggers, fake friends, etc. who would've never supported you if you didn't have that success.

    • @TheKingOfGreatness
      @TheKingOfGreatness Рік тому

      @@JAYJAYBEBE in other words, just be humble and don't always lead with your success. Become successful for yourself and let people find out instead of showing it off.

    • @Theone.fitness
      @Theone.fitness Рік тому

      Lol they are gold diggers.

  • @arclight2012
    @arclight2012 Рік тому +42

    Marni's podcast and book helped me out a great deal when I found myself single at 40 and had no idea how the dating world worked anymore. Now I'm 7 years into a perfect relationship!

  • @FouITarnished
    @FouITarnished Рік тому +112

    Being Rich that’s enough I’ll say🦑

    • @JACQUEZ23
      @JACQUEZ23 Рік тому +4

      Straight facts

    • @shadowlourd
      @shadowlourd Рік тому +6

      Or having high status

    • @the1337fleet
      @the1337fleet Рік тому +5

      Definitely not enough... Just think of all the nerds in Silicon Valley who are rich. Tons of men so you think it's good for women, right? Nope. The phrase is, "The odds are good, but the goods are odd."

    • @Jimminityjabooboo
      @Jimminityjabooboo Рік тому

      Status and game is the best.

    • @FouITarnished
      @FouITarnished Рік тому +2

      @@the1337fleet well I’m not rich at all but I’m charming and hilarious the women seek the comedian after the show not the brilliant , that’s my favorite move 🚁

  • @TSierra
    @TSierra Рік тому +58

    Never chase women, always chase your goals! Always try to be the best version of yourself. But if you want to improve, you are going to have to take accountability and put in the work.

    • @VVS30187
      @VVS30187 Рік тому +1

      I always tell myself that all these attractiveness not necessary. Just make money and women will follow you lol.

    • @JM-zz3vs
      @JM-zz3vs Рік тому +1

      @@VVS30187Yeah the chicks will come but if your game sucks you’re never going to keep them . People are really good at things because they do it in repetition.

    • @VVS30187
      @VVS30187 Рік тому +1

      @@JM-zz3vs women don’t give a F***k about your games if you have a lot of money. It’s like working in a boring organization and still makes money. It’s all about money dude. These Genders be different. Lol

    • @JM-zz3vs
      @JM-zz3vs Рік тому

      @@VVS30187 If you want golddiggers go ahead. Yeah they'll just use your money like the chump you are while getting smashed on the side by the dude that actually gets her wet.

    • @VVS30187
      @VVS30187 Рік тому

      @@JM-zz3vs talking about majority. Not just gold diggers. There are good Females out there but rare . A gold digger will make it obvious to you that it’s your money she’s after dude.

  • @eliaspfauser508
    @eliaspfauser508 Рік тому +2

    Am I the only one who finds her annoying?

    • @SoutheastTx
      @SoutheastTx Рік тому

      Yes, especially when she pops up on an ad.

  • @DekorSerb
    @DekorSerb Рік тому +45

    1.Be Attractive
    2.Don't Be Unattractive
    Simple

    • @birdsfly7199
      @birdsfly7199 Рік тому +4

      Honestly, I guess that's true but extremely subjective. The amount of pretty women I've seen with (not to sound mean) alright or "meh" dudes is immense. Vice versa, as well. It's just ridiculous people think this way. I live in Mexico and I can tell you most men ain't rich, driving super nice cars or getting payed American minimum wage. Go outside and genuinely pay attention to the world and your surroundings. You'll see.

    • @Theone.fitness
      @Theone.fitness Рік тому +1

      @@birdsfly7199Good Looks are NOT subjective.

    • @dannyjohnclaude9983
      @dannyjohnclaude9983 Рік тому

      True if she talks to u without u talking to her she s into u works for me

  • @rayjustray4091
    @rayjustray4091 Рік тому +6

    You guys need to do this more often. Let me give you a secret: the fun and entertaining banter that happens between friends will draw us (your audience ) in. It's playful; it is safe; the verbal register is perfect, almost like brother and sister. Let's face it, sometimes a wing-woman does/will spice things up. Aaron, your female audience may increase ten fold. Marni, include Aaron in a few of your vids, and I would watch more frequently. I like what you guys are doing.

  • @ciccnick
    @ciccnick Рік тому +11

    Aaron going hard with these thumbnails🌭

  • @jdhchi
    @jdhchi Рік тому +10

    keep doing the collab vids...you two are great together!

  • @connerscott9744
    @connerscott9744 Рік тому +9

    Alpha I’ve been watching you since I was 15 and your advice has helped so much 19 now and just stopped by to see if I’ve missed any thing helpful and I stumbled on your therapy add and I just wanted to thank u for helping me make the next step to bring a better father and husband ❤ thanks alpha u taught me everything my dad wasn’t able to 🙏

  • @Joey21071
    @Joey21071 Рік тому +11

    In my opinion, there's nothing wrong with replying to a text right away. What's wrong is sitting by the phone waiting for the person to text and pretending to be busy when they do. It's simple, If you're not busy and you see the text right away, reply right away. If you're busy, you can't see the text right away and you can't reply right away. Just don't play games.

    • @aidanfeeney8128
      @aidanfeeney8128 Рік тому +4

      I agree especially now this generation well my generation all uses phones so girls tend to reply right away anyways

  • @JohnSkyLey
    @JohnSkyLey Рік тому +1

    What's attractive to women? Six-figure income, six feet tall, six-pack abs, six-inch pipe

  • @dumpythehippo5818
    @dumpythehippo5818 Рік тому +23

    this guy helped me with my health tips, style, and mens grooming, this guy is the GOAT

  • @billsnyder1067
    @billsnyder1067 Рік тому +15

    Old married guy here (36+ years). Enjoy watching and agree therapy is a great thing. I didn’t go until I was in my 50’s. It made a world of difference for all those things we bury over the years. Keep up the good work.

    • @J_lifts18
      @J_lifts18 Рік тому +1

      Does the gym count as therapy

    • @xantonify
      @xantonify Рік тому

      @@J_lifts18 Can really help alot. Go to workout and unleash the anger,sadness or depression.

  • @heywardfi
    @heywardfi Рік тому +13

    Then tell women and society in general that men are allowed to show emotions. Society and a lot of women, even these days, make fun of men when we show emotions. That’s why we don’t.

    • @akawiangel
      @akawiangel Рік тому

      Big difference between showing emotions and being a drama queen.

    • @heywardfi
      @heywardfi Рік тому

      @@akawiangel yes there is BUT society needs to change how it sees men. For ages we were told to swallow what we feel and keep quiet. Ask any man these days and I know the father or mom told him that. In this don’t correct me. Correct society

    • @sunflower_6086
      @sunflower_6086 Рік тому

      I think woman like for her man to show her emotions , nd she'd be like oh that's sweet he' sharing his feelings with me he truts me , example an interview of a player who cried in public if u check comments women found him more attractive bcz well he's being a human (i'll try to research for it and link it here )
      The man is scared from other men judgements that he's weak

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 Рік тому

      I totally agree. My wife likes when I show my emotions to her. Ever since I lost my optic nerve 5 years ago.I lose my emotions easily. In front of her. I can’t see our tv

    • @heywardfi
      @heywardfi Рік тому

      @@sunflower_6086 it society in general.

  • @generalmaximuspatton6909
    @generalmaximuspatton6909 Рік тому +1

    All well and good ... BUT ... this is a perfect example of why so many guys have just "checked out" of the game, choose the less attractive or less capable women who are "available" (easy) because in general its all just become too much work and worry and self conditioning. Men can rent a porn for an evening and satisfy 75% of what they truly need or want out of a woman.
    Women all seem to have these lists of expectations but don't like being evaluated in that way. I mean, what woman under 30 goes out of her way to learn to cook or sew or raise children?

  • @KaZOfficialMusic
    @KaZOfficialMusic Рік тому +8

    A cross over I never thought possible. This is really fun to watch!

  • @benjamintribe4652
    @benjamintribe4652 Рік тому +1

    Looks like alpha finally found his soulmate!!....plus she a gave a special shout-out to his manhood ultimate ego booster!!!💪👍✌️😆💯

  • @dougjones3305
    @dougjones3305 Рік тому +1

    A nice thought but women have no idea what they actually like or want. From all of my experiences they say they don't care about money. They do for the most part. At the same time they say they don't like guys who are a certain way just to later hook up with me or another guy who they said isn't their type. The trick is to straight up not care if you get laid or not. Try and purposefully go a year without getting laid while talking to women at the same time. It's the best advice I and anyone can give can give. Watching UA-cam videos will give you conflicting information and cause you to try and be a certain way when infact the only thing you need to do is get more comfortable being yourself and being comfortable not getting laid.

  • @papa_rambo
    @papa_rambo Рік тому +1

    6:48 if they were couple ... they would have been a power couple...and not suitable men and women would have been left single🤣

  • @adelfafnirp.lomain7524
    @adelfafnirp.lomain7524 Рік тому +3

    It took me years for me to decide whether I should’ve bought F formula from Marni, I was afraid it was a scamm.
    I’ve been Alpha M fan for many years now. So it was a surprise for me to see these two do videos together.
    I was like, ‘whaaat? For real?’
    Her F formula is really magic when you master it. Both amazing people.

  • @rchai433
    @rchai433 Рік тому +2

    Bro these thumbnails are wild

  • @martinpopov8114
    @martinpopov8114 Рік тому +1

    None of these advices are relevant. Women are too proud and egocentric nowadays and they don’t care about men - the best advice is to learn how to live alone and independent.

  • @wileyallen1545
    @wileyallen1545 Рік тому +3

    Some of this is true.
    Women, especially older ones, know BS when they see it.
    They know when you are a phoney, self absorbed and narcissistic.
    Gold diggers only care about your money and looks, so drop them quick.
    A high value woman overlooks your faults, and you do have them, and expects the same from you.
    My spouse saw that I had my own place, a decent job, various interests, community work, enough cash to pay the bills and a future.
    I saw the same things in her.
    I was also tough when I needed to be and fun to be around…my life was a big adventure and she wanted to come along.
    I was also put together..in all aspects of life. Smart, clever, strong and willing to learn new things.
    We met online, not at the club (see gold digger above)
    Choose wisely Gentlemen, the payoff will be huge.

  • @eldiariodeoscar2113
    @eldiariodeoscar2113 Рік тому +1

    I got to the point where once i see her on the video, i dont even watch it and just click x. Sorry

  • @Lewisevans1618
    @Lewisevans1618 Рік тому +3

    Stay away from dating sites and get out there work hard work at your hobbies and chat to people. Cashiers, coffee bar staff, cleaners, doctors, the high brow business person. Everyone. The more people recognise you and chat the wider the circle the more females see you interacting and keeping busy. Chat to all women attractive or not, the same like a friend of a friend without tumbling over yourself like they are a famous celeb. Think of them running out of toilet paper as we all have at some point, and staggering to find some in the bathroom, we are all human. Talk to everyone the same. If their is chemistry with a woman you will both know it. And if so give her a knowing smirk…

  • @stevenwatson8295
    @stevenwatson8295 Рік тому +6

    wish to see her more in your vids. shes a wonderful addition

  • @walruscurry
    @walruscurry Рік тому +6

    You guys seem like siblings, really good synergy between you two

  • @jjstreams0
    @jjstreams0 Рік тому +5

    As a British teen in the US, Being in “high school”, so many men and women are so shocked and especially I’ve noticed a lot of women find me more attractive once they here many accent.

    • @V_ii
      @V_ii Рік тому +1

      Yeah, when I go to the UK or really anywhere abroad in EU the same thing happens to me with my tonality and smooth way of talking.

  • @philcarr7015
    @philcarr7015 5 місяців тому +1

    You two are really good together with the videos. I hope you do more!

  • @NileshR12
    @NileshR12 Рік тому +1

    Marni eating the hot dog in the thumbnail looks hilarious 😂😂

  • @TopJimmyWinn
    @TopJimmyWinn Рік тому +5

    These guys are good, love them, glad they hooked up and doing videos together

  • @TGREAT1
    @TGREAT1 Рік тому +3

    Hahaha this was so smooth.. Felt like listening to old friends

  • @Mikkirobinson20
    @Mikkirobinson20 Рік тому +16

    You two have amazing chemistry. I’m going to subscribe to Marni because of the way you and her interact 👍🏾!

  • @mrosa7515
    @mrosa7515 Рік тому +1

    Why she is soo bricky🤔
    Soft it out girl🤗

  • @temple2431
    @temple2431 Рік тому +3

    If you are a true Alpha you don’t need to play mind games with women. If you be yourself that should be more than enough to attract women.

    • @SoutheastTx
      @SoutheastTx Рік тому

      Being yourself will only work if she's attracted to you. If she's not interested then she won't care about your personality.
      Playing mind games you can do that in the bedroom just to keep her curious on what's going to happen next keeps her entertained. You can also tease her with mind games for the same reason curiosity keeps her interested.
      But like I said earlier this won't work unless she's attracted to you.

  • @mbank3832
    @mbank3832 Рік тому +2

    You can tell she is the dominant one and Alpha turns into a beta around her lmao

  • @tysonrosales9447
    @tysonrosales9447 Рік тому +1

    People are manipulative, not everyone deserves to have control over things lol.

  • @mikeservello4394
    @mikeservello4394 Рік тому +1

    I can say the same thing about women putting their phones away. They are far worse than men with the phones.

  • @figtlcubenjoyer638
    @figtlcubenjoyer638 Рік тому +1

    How much did you pay her to do the thumbnail. no offense 😂

  • @arcabuz
    @arcabuz Рік тому +3

    Have to say, I loved this episode. Great energy, hell yeah.

  • @papa_rambo
    @papa_rambo Рік тому +1

    7:36 aaron's inner patrick bateman activates.... Kudos!

  • @radu7189
    @radu7189 Рік тому +12

    Alpha and Marni are a good team. I appreciate both

  • @jand8303
    @jand8303 Рік тому +2

    A fish advising on how to fish? Cool!

  • @AMB666
    @AMB666 Рік тому +1

    It doesn't matter but how you use it...did I miss an instruction manual or something?

  • @26OY
    @26OY Рік тому +2

    I am 26 musician with self esteem issues and work a day job, I still leave with my mom and don’t make much money and I find those videos helpful but am bummed with my situation because I just don’t know how to make much money at this period.
    It will change, I’m just saying.
    Thank you for the videos guys.

    • @nathanlessard269
      @nathanlessard269 Рік тому +1

      You've got to learn some valuable skills and put yourself on the market and get some experiences in the real world! Be presentable, be sharp, take chances, don't fear to get people on the phone and get after it. The world is yours to take.

  • @tonyc2570
    @tonyc2570 Рік тому +1

    La La Land and their love of therapists… some of us know how to just slow down, breathe and look at common sense.

  • @yamirpoke2616
    @yamirpoke2616 Рік тому

    I like his videos but the true is the only thing than you need is a good job (money) and status. No therapy. Strong mind . Don’t skip ⏭️ those two goals and always you gonna be strong man físicas and mentally. In front the girls you don’t need to show all your emotions . If you ask a modern woman if she prefer a masculine no emotionally man or a guy who show his emotions she gonna choose the first option always.

  • @zenii464
    @zenii464 Рік тому +2

    The thumbnail 😂😂😂😂🔥

  • @stefanozaniboni7566
    @stefanozaniboni7566 Рік тому +1

    I really want that alpha comes to Italy, so i can say in front of him THANK YOU GOD FOR EXISTS. We need you Alpha in Italy!!

  • @christianblack1500
    @christianblack1500 Рік тому +2

    I’m always learning… I’m a different person from the past a cyborg for the future.

  • @Vitreousical
    @Vitreousical 6 місяців тому

    I disagree with vulnerability. Its only done me dirty. Never works for a dude. Stop telling guys to open up when it NEVER WORKS.

  • @swatski87
    @swatski87 Рік тому

    "It depends on why you have that car" ....Never have a girl thought about that....more like"ohhhh daddy got money" ulalla, mamma like" Done. Stop pretending that woman think about stuff like "why, who and when did you get money for that car.....in reality they dont care.

  • @vinniemartinez6125
    @vinniemartinez6125 Рік тому +1

    Yo Alpha come on hook me up with Marni yo. She's my absolute dream woman.😁

  • @channelisafunnyword
    @channelisafunnyword Рік тому

    I deserve to be happy only if I can afford it, is what you meant to say. No I cannot afford $235/month just to talk to someone for a couple hours. A service to help people who are down and out but can only be afforded by those who aren't, Ironic.

  • @beauskelton7819
    @beauskelton7819 Рік тому

    Keeping track of this much information just to impress a girl is just silly. Be yourself and don’t be a douche is enough.

  • @Net092
    @Net092 Рік тому

    My big question is where were all these women from? I think it depends on the area of you talked to a bunch of women from California it's gonna be easy different than women from Missouri or Hawaii or Minnesota!

  • @bhattufayl1503
    @bhattufayl1503 Рік тому +2

    Love from Kashmir

  • @israelguerrero8253
    @israelguerrero8253 Рік тому +1

    THANKS FOR THE INFO AMIGOS!!😅😅👍👍

  • @benjaminford1871
    @benjaminford1871 Рік тому

    Nothing listed in this video will matter when WW3 starts. Then you can forget about sexy clothes and sexy cars and a sexy voice and so on. Men with food and clean water will be ones women want to latch onto.

  • @oprisorcapital
    @oprisorcapital Рік тому +1

    Power

  • @daviddarkstonedtv9775
    @daviddarkstonedtv9775 Рік тому

    This was clearly a fun video however there's so many videos telling men to do this or that be this or that, change this or that it's all men doing what about women? Most of them aren't worth the shoes they are wearing nowadays, I mean if the goal is to get laid great play the game or pay a pro but for actual relationships guys seriously if you have to jump through all these hoops btch isn't worth it just be yourselves and do what's best for you but don't jump through hoops for any woman you are not a circus animal have some self respect!!

  • @Edward_Rogue
    @Edward_Rogue Рік тому +1

    I went to therapist to understand myself because she made me wonder there could be something wrong with me; it was used against me later. Be careful who you share your vulnerabilities with. Make sure she’s not an emotional wreck before you open up.

    • @nested9301
      @nested9301 Рік тому

      Date a masculine woman she is more logical, if u want feminine woman u will just suffer

  • @rockstarmusic4531
    @rockstarmusic4531 Рік тому +1

    Nice car is attractive only if u have buyed it for urself rather than for attracting someone

  • @ItsMeSreeny
    @ItsMeSreeny Рік тому

    Where does Alpha male, Beta men, and Sigma men come into? Talk about these types of men too.

  • @tarlochansingh8227
    @tarlochansingh8227 Рік тому +1

    I want to meet you alpha love from India 🇮🇳,Punjab, patiala.

  • @christopher_martin
    @christopher_martin Рік тому

    fiddling with your phone makes men and women less attractive!

  • @malone4735
    @malone4735 Рік тому +7

    The Thumbnail 😂

  • @robertjova5400
    @robertjova5400 Рік тому

    This one is over the top
    We should interview her sons
    What does your Mommy do🤔

  • @nested9301
    @nested9301 Рік тому

    I'm not attractive neither rich and ihave a caring and beautiful girlfriend,how about that

  • @rockeye
    @rockeye Рік тому +2

    What will it take for us to get this channel to 10 million?

  • @asdfghjklyzxcvbnm
    @asdfghjklyzxcvbnm Рік тому +1

    Y'all have chemistry

  • @averysutton999
    @averysutton999 Рік тому +1

    Marni is literally just the female Alpha m lol

  • @generalmaximuspatton6909
    @generalmaximuspatton6909 Рік тому +1

    IF ONLY Mami actually represented the intelligence, opinions and attraction of most women so many things in this world between the sexes would be so much easier.

    • @Dman425
      @Dman425 Рік тому

      Just keep in mind that she is also trying to sell you something

  • @zrunner240Z
    @zrunner240Z Рік тому

    MONEY...there saved you 12 minutes

  • @vonkrieger4510
    @vonkrieger4510 Рік тому

    level yourself up and everything will follow. Literally nothing else matters

  • @jijdaar4066
    @jijdaar4066 Рік тому +1

    His wallet😂

  • @ManuelGrossi
    @ManuelGrossi Рік тому

    Had me until they start saying men should be in touch with their emotions, worst piece of advice ever

  • @AMB666
    @AMB666 Рік тому +1

    She's rocking that hotdog!

  • @vwtransportersandmotorcycl3729
    @vwtransportersandmotorcycl3729 3 місяці тому

    I wish you hadnt pointed out your ears, now I cant stop looking at them 😂

  • @jayecane
    @jayecane Рік тому +2

    I love this

  • @michaelthorpe1869
    @michaelthorpe1869 Рік тому

    these two are too hyper, especially the lady. hyper women are not attractive imho

  • @diljeetsingh297
    @diljeetsingh297 Рік тому +1

    Now thats a actual video on UA-cam after downloaded it from many years. First time i saw your whole video.

  • @Jimminityjabooboo
    @Jimminityjabooboo Рік тому

    Looks, money, game, status. Have at least 2 of these. If you can only have one, the most important one is GAME.

  • @isadiasheikh
    @isadiasheikh Рік тому

    They are both identical twins, creeps me out. 👀

  • @inspirationalquotes5840
    @inspirationalquotes5840 Рік тому

    I don't care what women want, I only care what I want.
    This video contradicts with the last video.

  • @DEADMANSXDEMON
    @DEADMANSXDEMON Рік тому

    gap - old navy - B.R …. -.- who are you working for?

  • @robertwilson7736
    @robertwilson7736 3 місяці тому

    Good video he's asking the real thing for advice

  • @alshareefahmed327
    @alshareefahmed327 Рік тому +1

    When I see these two team up together then it's definitely gonna be awesome and sexy video

  • @Don-ds3dy
    @Don-ds3dy Рік тому

    I hate how shallow our species is despite all these societal advancements.

  • @chrisfabre23
    @chrisfabre23 Рік тому +1

    Is Marni always this animated, or is she feeding off of Aaron's energy? 😄
    All jokes aside, great content. Marni is really engaging. 👍

  • @edseeway
    @edseeway Рік тому +1

    Let him finish a point..

  • @KongBobbyK
    @KongBobbyK Рік тому

    Not one but two are screaming now 🤣 omg my head 🤯

  • @JuanCruz-mj3cu
    @JuanCruz-mj3cu Рік тому

    With all Respect,I Just Imagine Marni Have to Be WILD In Bed!!!!🙋🏻‍♂️

  • @zvrug465
    @zvrug465 Рік тому

    The Chanel called alpha m , soon as a woman came he turned into a beta

  • @danielbrennan5872
    @danielbrennan5872 Рік тому

    Woman really want a man that goes to therapy? GTFO LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @manuelitofernando4968
    @manuelitofernando4968 Рік тому +1

    this is so genuine makes me smile thanks alpha

  • @lapointdaniel
    @lapointdaniel Рік тому

    Aaron, thank you for leading the way.