How to Flirt For Beginners (9 Flirting Tips)
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- Are you learning how to flirt? Find flirting strategies that work? Are you trying to learn how to flirt with girls? How to flirt with a guy? Or How to get a girl you like? There are a few common flirting tips, that may work. Watch this video learn some of them. :)
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References:
Ben-Zeév, A. (2021). What makes a good flirt? | psychology Today. Psychology Today. Retrieved January 20, 2022, from www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-love/202103/what-makes-good-flirt
Apostolou, M. (n.d.). Menelaos Apostolou. The Evolution Institute. Retrieved January 20, 2022, from evolution-institute.org/profile/menelaos-apostolou/
Christoforos Christoforou. St. John's University. (n.d.). Retrieved January 20, 2022, from www.stjohns.edu/academics/faculty/christoforos-christoforou
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Yes I am! How are you?
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it just got better bc you just posted 🙃
I broke up with my boyfriend 2 days before Valentines day because it turned out he was a horrible person.
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0:44 Non verbal behaviour.
1:15 Intelligence.
1:28 A gentle approach.
1:45 Cheerfulness.
2:06 Romantic intentions.
2:28 Courage and determination when flirting.
2:48 Something in common.
3:12 Good looks.
3:32 A mysterious allure.
Come on finish!
@Dooblevoo-cartoonist cool
@Dooblevoo-cartoonist i went in the replies then came back out and voila the comment was finished lol
:D
I definitely have good looks just ask my uncle quidward 🤔
Me: flirts with everyone jokingly
Also me: can’t even go near my crush
@aliceorace1234i commented this one a year ago and my crush is still the same and my approach is the same although we’re friends now
☕️
@@emotionalteaspoon5306sounds very specific to my situation some girl who her friends told me that she liked me always talked to me through email but never in person
@@emotionalteaspoon5306 u doin better than me brotha
@@emotionalteaspoon5306update?
I got rejected.
Well GL on the next 1 i am gonna try this week lol
@@EgoGhostXhow did it go?
@@ScageBS i didnt do it this week bc she broke up with her bf 6 days ago im gonna do it on tuesday my friends yelled at me for not doing it and said if i loose this girl im getting killed lol
@@EgoGhostX gl hope it goes well
@@ScageBS thanks
Confidently being flirty? I find nervous flirting even more adorable because it shows that you don't do it with just anyone.
Yes, It makes it more endearing
or you try not to make yourself look creepy because you don't know what others bountries are or you have a different idea on a flirt than the other person
Good because that's the only kind I know how to do lol
@@mbank3832 boundaries*
@@-Faris- good boy
1. Nonverbal behaviour
(Eye contact, genuine smile, hygiene, scent)
2. Intelligence
(Joke, show education)
3. Gentle approach
4. Cheerfulness
5. Romantic intentions
(Show how romantic i can be. A hint of romance)
6. Courage and confidence when flirting
7. Something in common
(Find something in common)
8. Good looks
9. A mysterious allure
(Don’t reveal everything)
Nice 😌👌
good looks? shit, i give up 😂
@@imawakemymindisalive13same
I have everything in common with my crush lmao
@@imawakemymindisalive13Bro, do not focus too heavily on looks. My colleague looks like an overweight and balding Jared Fogle and he got two numbers from two different women in the same week just because he is social, funny and confident.
besides, just clean up, get a haircut that compliments your face and workout occassionally, and youll lole fine. A lot more than most people are doing.
Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️
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Skwjdhsh thank you so much you're amazing too
I'm the complete opposite of confident but ok then
Thank you so much!
THANK YOUU!!! And all the same to you!
Flirting feels like the most dangerous form of social interaction especially for the people that aren't socially adept. Like One missed word and they hate you
especially if you poking fun at them and they can’t take it as flirting, it’s really over from there.
We met each other on a learning language app. When we had our first conversation through the phone, I had a crush on him. But he's so popular on that app that he seems to ignore me. I feel so sad about that, because I can see that he's a good hearted person and I really want to go further with him. We still keep talking but I can never be with him. That tears my heart apart. :(
How tf do you do that on a language learning app?
was that duolingo?
@@KieranDrage that’s hello talk app
complementing the last tip. Make the person talk as much about themselves as possible, and you, talk about yourself as little as possible, talk about yourself when asked or when you don't see another option, but always try to make them talk more about themselves, while people like you Talking, especially about yourself, a person who likes to listen, stands out.
JUST WHEN I NEEDED THIS
Ug
SAMEEEE
BRO SAME
SAME RIGHT?
Same ❤️
I'm a grade nine student but I just said to my crush that I like and I waited 5 years and she said she likes me too I show her care every day make her happy and support her when she's feeling down
Flirting tips:
•nonverbal behavior eye contact, genuinely smile, good hygiene, good scene
•intelligent
•gentle approach respectful/mature
•cheerful
•romantic scent
•confidence
•find things to talk about both like
• a mysterious allure, be honest, gentle but dont tell them everything about you
•
The mystery thing really works. I personally suck at flirting but my looks and mystery keep women interested. Its best to just be as authentic as you can be instead of be something you're not. If you're weird you'll probably find someone who likes your weirdness; you'd be surprised.
Yes, being yourself is always attractive!
But there's a line btw being mysterious and one who can't be read at all like you're into them or noy
@@preach6787 good point, which brings me to say you have to show initial interest and go from there. Hint at it or else they won't even know if they should try being attracted to you in the first place
@@megafiremario12volt try being attracted? XDD that's a first ig the mystery between me and someone has grown sm now that it's hard to cut thru
@@preach6787 What do you mean?
This is actually useful. There are so many pickup artist nonsense going around.
i have been doing all this for like two years now and ive been told by many people that i am quite attractive. im very open and versatile, i listen and dont judge, i am open to dating and hanging out, yet i still cant get a girlfriend.
I find myself a great flirt, and even often choose wisely who to flirt with.
Level impossible: How to flirt as an introvert
My in-person flirting/romance skills certainly leave a lot to be desired, as the only relationships I've had after some flings in high school have been long distance...like very long distance lol. Starting with no experience but wanting to get out there, meet someone amazing, and potentially even find a lifelong romantic companion is proving to be a challenge for me.
Thank you for sharing these tips. Finding the courage to speak to someone you like is one way of living full out
Yes, easier said than done! But once you can see the big picture, it's very rewarding.
I feel the Charlie Brown music and squiggly, nervous smiles in the animation just emphasized how bad at flirting I am. 😅
I've never flirted or been flirted with, but this might help me take the first move on my next crush!! Thx Psych2Go!!
Same. Hoping to move to a smaller town for better chances, because feck online dating.
@@fireblade295 Haha, yeah I agree-
I used to think flirting took insane courage or skill but this all seems actually possible! Thanks guys
I don't know how I feel about watching this, either I'm lonely, curious, or bored, but no matter what, thanks for the tips
I know people have a lot of trouble with talking to their crushes… for some reason, I usually develop feelings for someone in the same friend group as me, which makes it slightly easier to talk and a lot less nerve-wrecking… a downside is the fact they’re a friend and might see you as just a friend because of it.
I do feel like this may help me in the future, but for now… I already have someone
Same!
For me. I’m just taking time to realize I finally think I’m ready to start dating. Im 18 and felt like I never knew who I was and since coming to college I let myself be free of social graces as I had done on certain trips before. Im finally feeling at home in my own skin and more confident in myself. Before I’ve watched stuff like this because I had a crush or the like, but now with an empty mind I watch these for actual knowledge I haven’t had the ability to have before. I’ve been working on mental-me for so long that I feel ok finally. Im excited for what’s to come.
Also, I still don’t know exactly what people mean by flirting.. I’ve never gone out with anyone as previously stated and I don’t know what exactly flirting is. I’m sure I’ve done it, I just don’t know what it is besides “letting someone know you’re into them in different ways”
Anyone else noticed DAY6's album "Negentropy" during the part about finding common/similar interests?? I literally screamed when I saw it! One more reason to love this channel and these videos! 🥰
i was literally scrolling through the whole comment section to eventually find your comment, what a blessing to know there are some people with THE taste
Time for a refresher course. It's been a while..
This is super helpful for people who arnt very good at flirting, surprisingly I’ve always had a flirty personality and sometimes it’s a curse lol. Anyways for anyone reading this, you got this, trust me you will find love fore sure:)
3:18 is that a shiny😂😂
some random pokemon go player😂
This vid actually helps a quite a bit
I suck at flirting cause I come back to thinking about how I look and sound then just cringe
I do find myself attractive(in good shape, dress in what I find nice) and my voice is kinda deep but I'm 18 and still feel like I look 15. Also feels like a big departure from my cheerful goofy platonic behavior
No joke, my crush sent me a message on discord while i was watching this video, and she asked me what i was doing, without thinking i just sent her this video and said that i was just watching this video.
Its been 3 months since i last spoke to her now.
you know you've hit rock bottom when you start looking these videos up on purpose
Love these, short sweet and to the point. Music is a good choice.
At the beginning, you said that the characteristics were in order of importance. Would you mind telling us if the order is ascending or descending? Is the first one or the last one the most important?
pov my dad : 1:41 💀
i have so much work to do on myself. maybe if i knew who i really am i would be able to compose myself better because i don’t know who to be
I just like to go up and stare right in their face and then yell "FLIRTING!" at the top of my lungs until they get scared and run away.
Make sure you chase them so they know you're really interested.
Wtf
Me realizing I accidentally do most of these
I don't know what I did that now I am literally watching ways to flirt
When you learn a skill you'll never use:
I mean, in school, there are skills that you probably will never use too
This 😭
I needed this video 5 years ago.
You know it’s bad when you’re so lonely you watch these types of videos 😭
Damn why you remind that😓
There are very few peopleni can actually make eye contact with. I usually look at various other background objects when I talk to people. Not sure why but wye contact has always been hard for me. But I've found that eye contact comes naturally when im with my crush
Baru tau chanel ini karena animatornya kak Ira.. aslii salutt, sekeren inii 😍
I’m literally watching this video to try stay single and avoid situations where people think I’m flirting so I’m not sure if I’m in the right place
For 4 years my now boyfriend tried to slight flirt with me. I never got it because I was dum. I would usually just climb random threes and fall or skateboard of a cliff (or other dumb stuff ) in the same stained hoodie and clothes full of cat fur but he still stuck around so I am grateful for that. Also hope this vid helps me to flirt to😅
Just what I needed bruh.
As I've got older I've found flirting harder and harder. I think I'm too serious but at the same time I think more women are closed off. Most women I've found I've approached "might" be interested but have poor way of showing it. I can't properly remember the last time a crush asked anything about me. I'm always the one showing the interest.
2:47 NOT THE DAY6 JSJSJSJABSNW
YESKSNSJSKSKD
This video has got to be so informative and helpful, even a musician is here
thank you i know now that i am rizzy and my girlfriend loved this!!!
Love this! Thank you!
You're welcome!
Mysterious? I got that one covered since I barely talk to anybody 😎
And here i am watching flirting tips where i never talked to her face to face. Its been 7 years since i fell in love with her. Just watching her from far away.😊
Thanks! This video helped me alot. my uncle touches me now. thanks
yoooooooooooo same here!!!
For me, I don't really "flirt." But like, as long as I'm in a good mood, I can make most people laugh. And that thing just comes naturally because actually trying to do anything in a conversation makes me worse at what I'm trying to do.
I'm a very nervous and awkward person- I don't like to talk much lol. But I've found that most guys I've talked to that have shown interest in me have always come back into my life somehow- some I haven't even dated and just have talked to
Hey You! Yes, you reading this. Showering two times a day definately improve your confidents and mental health. Source is me.
AYEEE 2:56 and the Day6 chaos swallowed up in love album cover😩🐈
I often find that I have little to talk about on dates and I think that is a problem.
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how??
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Sup time traveler
what?
#8 is the only one that matters.
didn't know I already had most of those
Every time a try the "mistery" thing it's always become an "unsolved mistery" case. In my opinioni that type of mechanic it's controversal and if it works is because there's already an interest from the other person beyond the thing about the mistery...
I don’t find flirting charming ngl. I never found the appeal.
I thought these things were just called talking lol.
Fun fact: when you see your crush you forget all of this
omg sneaky little day6 album at 2:57 !!
2:50 The Day6 logo and Negentropy album!!
MyDay animator confirmed!!
idk how to flirt still, but thanks for the advice.
damn that jazz track is fire
I do most of these and I always get stuck at the "best friend" part
Y'know how I won my crush's heart? I simply said "I like you."
Sounds simple, right? I couldn't believe it either. She actually likes me back.
You were lucky. Good for you. 👍
Oh Lord, this is rocket science
"Step 2. Intelligence"
FVCK I'M DOOMED
I do think these tips are generally good, but something inside me doesn't feel right about my romantic desires. I think this type of flirting is more focused on what females feels, cause naturally that's what they're looking for in their partner (Intelligence, gentle aproeaches, romantic intentions, good looks, some mystery, etc), but when it comes to men, i feel safe to say that we just don't care about that (most of the time). Don't get me wrong, good looks, cheerfulness and nonverbal behavior is nice, but we're more simple than that. A good physical connection or just presenting to their partner is what we genuinly care about. Unfortunately, not much is talked about it, perhaps because it's a bit taboo or sexist to really accept men instincts.
February is the month for flirting and shyness for both young girls and young boys. They can get over this.
Bro my crush is my very first best friend (we were 3) and i cant do the tell stuff about yourself because she KNOWS everything about me. Bot the i like her tho
POV: Ur a 12 year old on here
Totally not me 🤫🤫🤫
Not me 😅
Why would I be twelve and watching this video😅
mf im 25 struggling with this shyt.🤦♂️
@@jaymcw307523✌🏻😒
1. Nonverbal behaviour
i feel like i always do this, even if I'm not flirting(i can't flirt anyway XD)
2. Intelligence
ok, maybe i do this a bit too much, but i really have good conversation a discuss about things, it improve knoledge for both of us
3. Gentle approach
i feel like that's something that should be done with everyone, not just with the person you want to flirt with
4. Cheerfulness
i worked really hard to get this, but i definitely really enjoy being like this. but it can take very little to just destroy that cheerfulness
5. Romantic intentions
you can flirt without having romantic intentions? :D
jokes aside... i can barely flirt to someone when i have the intention, flirting with someone without having it, it's kinda disrespectfull in my opinion
6. Courage and confidence when flirting
ah yes... courage and confidence... i have neiher of the two, but i feel like it can work out anyway getting all embarassed and looking away or covering myself... it definitely help with the more confident type. i get embarassed and they like, and because of that, they become more confident and i like that, it's a win win XD
7. Something in common
yes, absolutely yes! i like talking and enjoy the time together, that doesn't mean making out or something else, but having good conversation, playing together, have fun like friends. that doesn't mean that doing those other things are a no no
8. Good looks
i dunno... most of the time i don't even look at the other people look. how the are dressed, how they move, how they say things, how they behave, that's what attract me the most. Like, a girl cute things make her cute while completely ignoring how her face looks like. or like a guy can gently smile at you just because, good looks might be a thing for most, but i feel like a long lasting relationship is being hold by other things
9. A mysterious allure
a yes, definitely nope lol. i really can't be mysterious and when i try i sound so fucking flirty. so if i'm trying to be mysterious is because i'm already in love with the other person and i want that person to liking me back. unfortunately i take long time to get a crush on, so during that time in a friendship, i'll have probably revealed everything about me XD
When i see day6 reference, i hit the like button😂😂
Me when i saw this video:
Oh okay lemme try it out on my crush
*Later gets a restraining order*
Just a little wish, I love ur vids and the information they give, but I have trouble concentrating over long time so could you lower the music a little bit please? Just a wish form a supporter
A video with tips like ChatGPT could have given. The artificial voice fits perfectly.
I neeeeeeeeded thissss 😭
The mystery is a good one. We ask like a mystery
I think ill just die alone and sad
i dont have the second one. due to the classes i was always in growing up. kinda sucky
Do these work with highschooler? I sometimes try to stand closer to here and look at her often. We are good friends so i feel torn between being good friends and being more than friends
“If you can” I’m pretty sure this is not a “can”, but a “must”
MyDay x Negentropy❤️
I am a guy and confident flirting is like the greatest thing you can do
You’ve earned a sub
Great art style
WOW THIS IS THE BEST VIDEO IN THE WORLD😅
this video will cause ton of spirits to be crushed
Rizz'm with the 'tism got it
your voice is so soothing (I'm not flirting 😁)
[havent watched video yet]
i have no idea what flirting is if im entirely honest. i have a general idea, i think? but i have no idea what it actually is
edit: have now watched the video. i now know some things on how to flirt, and still dont know what flirting is
Also sometimes you Will need body self improvement, start fixing your diet and going to the gym. You dont need to look like a bodybuilder monster but i would say you need to look healthy with good amount of muscles and lean