Opening Up About Our Miscarriage
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- Last year, we started our IVF journey in the hopes of having another child. Our journey came to an end this year. 1 in 8 couples are affected by infertility in the US. This is our story.
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The "at least you have a kid already" and it's variations are my least favorite things I've heard when I went through mines.
Losing a kid is tough and it does not matter how old it is.
or when people say "you can try again". WHAT, this just cost me $25,000. I cant *JUST* try again.
I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage.
Wow. Love you both and my condolences. Stay close and bless you both.
My prayers sent my dear. 🙏🏼
I am now watching this. That is so sad. God has a plan you will be blessed. have faith miracles so yesss keep trying.
I’m sorry for your loss.
Thank you for sharing your story. Blessings
Sorry Tasha! Hang in there, you may want to check out Dr. Anna Cabeca she is a OB GYN who fixed her own infertility problems with her version of keto.
I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage & sending lots of love.
Greetings from South Africa
I feel you, just miscarried at 5 weeks on the 27th April 2020. I'm home and recovering. You are not alone
I'm sorry
Sending my prayers to you I miscarried April 14th 2020
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@@jasminesimmons6710 you ain't alone my sister. May you have faith in the Almighty during this dark hour. Get rest and dont blame yourself, the situation was not within your control 🙏
I have never in my life felt a pain and void like I did when I lost my baby. I had to go to counseling because Lord it almost broke me. It happened the very same month I defended my dissertation and earned my PhD and I felt for so long I earned something so great just to lose something even greater and I couldn’t even be happy for myself let alone let others be happy for me. Counseling taught me that healing is continuous and to not sit in my sorrows because I had taken a front row seat with no plans to get up. Praying for you all and tour strength.
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Lots of hugs you two. People mourn and grieve differently and I trust your relationship to sustain you two during these moments. Joseph, you're a star for being so understanding. Some men can't appreciate the toll that these processes take on their partners. Keep on keeping on, Tasha.
So beautiful that you made a conscious decision to celebrate in the moment. Thank you so much for being open enough to share what you're going through. Warmest wishes for you all. Take good care.
I lost my baby in March 2020 after an emergency C-section. It really is a healing process dealing with the outcome. You two lean on each other, don’t push each other away 💕💕
I'm sorry.
I'm so sorry you lost your baby, hugs to you.
I'm sorry. ❤️
Annalisa Russell thank you love. ❤️
Hugs momma I'm so sorry
I lost it when Tasha started crying 😢. Sending you guys love and prayers ❤️🙏🏼
You said not to ask so I didn’t. Thinking of you. As someone who’s had a rubbish start to 2020, I really felt the “the whole world is off its rails” now.
I miscarried this past September. It's mental turmoil. God bless you both. You're both in my thoughts and prayers.
I’m only five minutes in, but the sadness in their eyes is absolutely heartbreaking. I am so sorry guys, and praying you heal soon.
I'm so sorry Tasha!
I have immense respect for you two for being open about such a personal topic
I Gave birth right before my 40 th birthday 🍰 don’t lose faith
I'm so sorry, guys. I am only 21, so this is nowhere near my reality yet, but watching you through this journey has really helped me understand what my goals are and brought into focus that I won't be young forever, and that you know, my choices might be different, but at least I'll make them consciously. So thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing this with us, and really, I cried with you while watching this.
I’m sorry for your loss. Can I share a story of hope. My BFF spent 10 years trying with IVF. The IVF clinic refused to take any more of their money. She was deemed peri menopausal at 33 yo. My friends were able to fulfill their dream of becoming parents and adopted a beautiful baby boy. Life went on. Some time later she was overcome with the longest bout of fatigue & vomiting. She went to the Dr and was sure she had cancer or something awful. Turns out, without even having had a period, she was pregnant with twin girls naturally. If you had told her this was a possibility after so much grief and lack of success with fertility treatment she would never have believed it.
I am so sorry. Miscarriages are such a hard thing to walk through and I hate that you are hurting.
I simply adore you both and your beautiful family. 💖 My husband and I have been married for fourteen years this July and we couldn't/can't have children. We did everything, then we turned it over to God. Its hard, I know! Sending you prayers. ✨
So sorry, this is heartbreaking! My husband and I are on this fertility journey and it is so brutal. We have miscarried many times and it never gets easier. It’s the death of family, death of a dream and death of a loved one. It is the worst! My heart goes out to both of you
My heart goes out to you. I know this must have been an incredibly difficult topic to talk about. You do not owe us ANY KIND OF EXPLANATION! I am going through a similar thing and I haven’t been able to talk about it at all to anyone. Sending love from Texas!
Tasha and Joseph, I am so sorry for your loss. I know it is absolutely heartbreaking. I would like to offer my story in an effort to give you some hope for a future happy outcome. Duke Fertility Clinic gave my husband and I, a 20% chance of getting pregnant with my own eggs at 39 and a 4% chance of getting pregnant at 41. During that time I suffered two early miscarriages after naturally conceiving. But here’s the great news! I did conceive at 41 and I did give birth at 42 and now our son Seth is a wide-open, 18-year-old! Long story short, I tracked ovulation and going on the assumption that I might be pregnant, I supplemented progesterone cream from Whole Foods (Emerita Progesterone), applied it morning and evening and literally got pregnant the first month I tried this! I started supplementing with the progesterone the day after ovulation as it’s very important to wait until after ovulation because progesterone supplementation too soon can inhibit ovulation. Now I know 18 years later, that luteal phase defect is quite common as we approach our mid to upper 30s. It’s estimated that progesterone supplementation saves 8000 pregnancies a year. I will say my doctor was not for it or against it. He said it may help, it won’t hurt. It did help and I stayed on it until well after week 16. I pray that if this might you ring true for you as it did for me, when a total stranger told me that this is how she inadvertently got pregnant in her 40s while simply trying to control her PMS with progesterone cream!
Also on a side note, unrelated, I’ve heard great things about the book “ It Starts with the Egg”.
My heart goes out to you both. I know it’s an absolute excruciating emotional roller coaster. Much love and prayers to you both.
I've heard great things about "It Starts with the Egg" as well. After years of failed fertility treatment with my own eggs, I now have two sweet daughters through egg donation.
Praying for your emotional healing. I went through IVF last year, was pregnant with twins and delivered them at 24 weeks. My son was stillborn, but my girl pulled through. This is such a difficult situation to walk through but you're both doing so with such grace♥️
I am so sorry to hear that. I don't want to try to give you any of the cliche stuff. Miscarriages SUUUUUCKK and I hate that y'all had to go through all that you went through. Just know you're not alone and I am sure you have helped others feel less alone by sharing. Sending you lots of baby dust and huge virtual hugs.
I was very invested in your pregnancy journey but once I saw your Instagram story (after Disney) where you shared that you were enjoying your favorite cocktail and emphasized that y'all were a family of four, I got the message and I honestly mourned. Watching this video brought it all up again and I cried hard! I KNOW this was so difficult for you both but I appreciate you sharing this with everyone so those going through this don't feel like they are going through it alone
You guys are two of the kindest souls on this corner of the internet. Thinking of you both. ❤️
Thank you for having the bravery to be so vulnerable. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Oh guys, I'm so, so, so sorry. My heart is broken for you.
Recent stats say it's closer to 1 in 4 couples. I've had 3 marriages and am getting ready for our last transfer. You are in loving company.
Tasha and Joseph thank you both for being transparent and brave enough to share your journey with us. Tasha, as soon as you started crying, I cried with you because I’ve recently felt the pain of miscarrying while on a business trip in Vegas with my husband. I will not attempt to offer any advice on this matter, but I will say that you both do an excellent job of keeping your videos eloquent and classy no matter the subject. Take care!
Aww, Tasha. I'm so sorry! Praying for you guys!
Sorry to hear the bad news. Very heartbreaking. But I can tell you love each other very much. Good things will come to you
I'm so sorry for your loss. Infertility is such a hard, heartbreaking road.
I'm so sorry for you. I went through a missed miscarriage in January that ended in March only. That is always difficult and people like you, who share online, really help people like me feel less alone in this. I'll be rooting for you to have this miracle baby, sending lots of prayers your way.
This must have been a really hard video to do. Thank you both for having the courage to share this vulnerable topic with us.
I’m so sorry Tasha and Joseph and anyone else on here that has gone through this! My heart aches for you all! My prayers and well wishes to you all!! ❤️🙏🏼💙
Dearest friends, this was so hard to watch, I cried the second I started the video. I've been struggling with infertility for the last 3 years and miscarried a baby after an IUI. I want to thank you for sharing your story and let you know that my thoughts are with you. I am really sorry for your loss.
Contact Montrealhealthygirl on UA-cam. She’s a natural path. Who can help. Thanks for being transparent 😊
I’m so sorry 😢 I was hoping for success for you guys. I lost my ivf baby at 15 weeks almost exactly 2 years ago and I totally understand the heartache. My rainbow is 9 months old and I have no idea if we’ll be lucky enough to conceive again. I wish you guys the best with whatever happens. 💙💙💙
I’m so so sorry for your loss. We’ve just started getting checked out and we have no idea how short or long our journey may be. Pretty terrified to be honest. So thank you for sharing and being so open with us
Wow, I wanna like, and like and love this video over and over. You guys are beautiful souls. Tasha, the advice you gave at the end about what to say or not say to an individual/couple going through fertility or infertility troubles are so on point. Thank you for inviting us in to your lives. Xoxo❤❤
So sorry to hear about the miscarriage. This video brought back so many of my own memories & emotions. I had done IVF twice at the age of 24/25, both ending negative.
It was so hard, when all I wanted to do was becoming a mom..after many ups & downs I can now proudly say I am a Mom! ❤️ I have a daughter & a son who came into my life via private adoption. How ever it may happen you & two seem to have a wonderful, caring & supportive marriage. Positive vibes & loving prayers for you & your family. ❤️🙏
Thanks again for making video. BTW I love that picture in background. How about a house tour??? Wishing you guys much love
You feel brokenhearted. I'm sorry for you. Life is long; things can change.
Tasha I'm so sorry I've been following along because this was very close to my heart. I have a 7 year old son snd always wanted him to have a sibling but we didn't try until he was about 3 because of certain circumstances. We finally conceived in 2018 and unfortunately miscarried at home as well and then also had to have a D&C a few days later due to hemorrhaging... The worst thing people would say is maybe it wasn't meant to be and honestly I was angry. They also said that since my olders has health issues and is special needs that it would have been too much to have another child. It took me a while to get Past being mad... but I did and by some miracle we had our rainbow Baby in 2019...baby dust to you ❤
I had a child after having a stillborn child. It's heartbreaking. I wish you all the best. I used fibrovan after having a surgery and no children afterward. I hope this helps. Peace and blessing to you.
187thK subscriber, hallo from Kenya
My wife and I have been trying to have kids for over 8 years. We have tried everything multiple times. IVF alone we have tried three times. My wife has had three surgeries, we have worked with multiple "best in the city/country" fertility doctors, we have spent a fortune (100s of thousands) and all we know is heartache. My wife is pregnant for the second time right now. Our journey has taken a huge turn for the best after we figured out (amazingly the fertility doctors have been zero help with this which blows my mind) she had an extreme case of endometriosis. A few months after she recovered from the endometriosis surgery in January she got pregnant naturally. We went for our first ultrasound yesterday (6/13/20) and the results were inconclusive. We are now waiting a week to go back for a second ultrasound but all signs point to another miscarriage, but we are hopeful for a more positive outcome. Nobody can understand the pain of infertility unless you have been through it, especially if you don't have any kids yet. Y'all are doing a great thing by sharing your experience. Infertility is more common than people realize. One thing I have learned through this is my wife is much stronger than I am. The number of shots, doctors appearances, surgeries, and prodding/poking/checkups she has had is unbelievable. I love her so much. One recommendation I have for everyone is not to forget about the husband. While I fully acknowledge this is way tougher on women, it sucks for us as well. Loss of focus and motivation is really hard to overcome, especially after repeated bad outcomes. I wish everyone luck in their own journeys. If you have kids, hug them for us and tell them you love them.
its really sad to go through this! my prayers go to you and your family! I do have a recommendation I do not know if you already knew about this book but I heard great things form it, and I. don't know if you would like to give it a read after all you've been through, but just in case, its called "It Starts with the Egg" from Rebecca Fett. im so glad you are in a good place to say you will try naturally and again im so sorry
I double recommend this book.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Only just catching up with your videos now
I lost it when you said you miscarried at Disneyland. I cannot imagine a worse place for that to happen. I wish nothing but the best for your family and that the right child will make his/her way to you (whether 'natural' or adoptive or otherwise). I just watched your video with your oldest & the MLM scam. You are a great mom.
I had a miscarriage in January. I'm still heartbroken.
I'm so sorry for you guys. Sending thoughts and prayers for a rainbow baby.
Very close friends had a miscarriage last weekend and want to get together this weekend (social distance picnic just us 4). I wanted to bring flowers but can't tell if it is too soon/painful or a kind gesture. Your comments would be welcome for me. My husband and I chose not to have any children in our marriage so I am really trying to be sensitive. I really feel for both of you. Your channel is amazing.
Thank you for sharing. This is so personal and hard to talk about. Sorry for your loss. Wishing you both well.
Thank you for sharing sorry about your loss. I’m starting lvf oct 2.
I am so sorry for your lost. I pray that the miracle baby will come in the future. Sending love and healing to you both and your family.
Very sorry about your loss Tasha and Joseph! God has plans for you two. My husband and I are not able to conceive and we know God has a reason and a plan for our family. Hopefully you will conceived naturally as you did before.
you r brave..u know i was thinking this morning that u have such an amazing personality and u have been through so much in life and needless to say all these experiences have groomed u in a person with such an amazing personality ..u r secure, confident, logical, emotional..if i have a daughter i would want to raise her up so that she has a personality like urs..u rock and i rarely ever say that.
I am 24 weeks pregnant now, but before this pregnancy, I had a miscarriage. People always seem to think my new baby should replace the one I lost, but I don't think that part of me will ever not be empty. I'm so, so sorry for your loss, I know how much it hurts. It gets easier, but if my family is anything to go off of (we have a lot of them in my family history), it will never go away. Some days it will hurt more than others, but you will recover a little more every day. Lots of love your way💜
Never say never. I got a baby at 45 yrs after the doctors said I wouldn't
I can’t imagine the pain of this. I’m so grateful you shared this, it’s so brave!
I believed it's gonna happen for you. I am so sorry
I am struggling with infertility. I did 2 retrievals. I never had any embyos. We are looking into donor eggs now. Thank you for talking about it. Everything you said about letting them lead the talk is 100% right. Thank you.
How can give here anyone a thump down? Unbelievable .....Tasha is a hero, Joseph, too. God bless you.🙏❤
I’m truly sorry. Sending you both hugs and positive energy
Thinking of you guys your hair is nice long u should do hair routine x
I am sorry for your loss. I pray that you both take the time to grieve and heal. I pray you guys can have another miracle baby. I had two consecutive miscarriages. I totally understand being "ready". I did not feel ready to talk about my miscarriages for more than a year.
My sister and brother in law had a late term miscarriage. Losing Cade was incredibly tough on our family. He was the first nephew/ grandson/ son. No one can tell you how you should feel. This is your journey. Praying all God's blessings upon your family.
I silently prayed and was rooting for you. I'm so sorry. We went through multiple fertility treatments and every time we did, the doctor was so confident that it worked, which made it so painful when it failed. We secretly went through all of this, so we had to continually endure people asking us when we were going to have a baby. It was so difficult. Again, I'm so sorry.
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and love go out to you. I work in OB critical care and nothing about a miscarriage or fetal loss is easy. Cling to each other, mourn the way you need to, reach out for therapy or a support group if needed. 💜
In my opinion that's odd that you guys had to basically fight to get another hgc test. With doing surrogacy that's the normal and when you double I've heard you stay on your meds since it still doubled. I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I can't even imagine the pain.
Sending strength and baby dust your way, from California! I teared up the moment I saw the notification. Your family is strong, you shall persevere!
So sorry for your loss. Thanks for your openness.
Your strength is remarkable.
I'm so sorry you had to go through this.
Virtual hugs and I wish you and your family grace during this time even when the world is exploding, it doesn't diminish your loss.
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I'm so sorry to hear this. Thoughts and prayers are with you guys.
Sending you guys lots of love and peace! ❤️
I feel your pain. I've had 2 miscarriages in the last couple of months and the 2n'd one being the most devastating since it was 12 weeks :(. Still healing but hoping for a rainbow baby someday.
Thank you for sharing. I am so sorry.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish you comfort and peace going ahead.
Heartfelt sympathy to you both
Thank you for sharing your story.
Sorry about your miscarriage
Praying with you all.
I am so sorry Tasha and Joseph. I am thinking of the two you and sending you healing energy.
Wishing the best for you guys, you are such a nice couple
Sending love to you guys! Will definitely be praying for you both. Stay hopeful! 💕🙏🏾 Much love and Blessings!
Thank you for sharing
So very sorry, a big hug for both of you
Sending a lot of love and e-hugs to your family
I am praying for you guys.
I was just wondering what had happened because there hadn't been an update...sorry hear to hear this.
I'm sorry for your loss