Cancer Diary 1: Finding Out I Have Cancer While Pregnant | Cancer Journey

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  • Cancer Diary: This is never a direction I thought this channel would take. I had planned to start sharing about our pregnancy journey and the rough ride that had been. However, there was a bigger reason it was as rough as it was. I have cancer. We found out at 30 weeks pregnant that what I thought were severe pregnancy sinus issues is actually nasal squamous cell carcinoma.
    I wasn't sure if I would share these videos or not, but I will be sharing some of my video journal entries from my cancer journey. This was the first video after my cancer diagnosis. This is a road you never wish on anyone. For me, so far, it has been very surreal thinking its myself I am talking about. I am sharing these in hopes that they help someone else along the way.
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  • @melaniefostersnavely
    @melaniefostersnavely  9 місяців тому +138

    THANK YOU so much for each heartfelt messages! I am doing my best to keep up with them and responding, but if there are any I miss please know that they are being read and felt and the support means so much.

    • @rachaelpate6778
      @rachaelpate6778 9 місяців тому +7

      Sending prayers up!

    • @DianeVitanza-lg2ee
      @DianeVitanza-lg2ee 9 місяців тому +5

      You will get through this .

    • @susanberdan1626
      @susanberdan1626 9 місяців тому +3

      You got this ! No need to answer right away , this army is for you , do things in your own time no worries, and that's great snuggling is calming. Well thanks for answering but give yourself a break and enjoy your day ! We got-cha ! Your in my prayers list every night, AMEN.

    • @Test-cd8om
      @Test-cd8om 9 місяців тому

      ​ I’m sorry to hear about the cancer and hardships you had to endure. I hope you might take some comfort in knowing you are not alone in this. At the end, everyone will face the question of what comes next, and I can tell you with absolute certainty that if you pray to Jesus now sincerely and diligently, to ask Him into your life, He will answer you. If you are uncertain if He is God, pray in this way that He shows you, and 100% He will. Even if humans put in our best efforts daily, the world would not be much better than it is now (filled with pain, suffering, problematic, etc..) which is why God requires perfection to enter heaven. But none of us is perfect - that is why Jesus’ gift and following Jesus is the good news or “the Gospel.” Jesus took responsibility for His creation, and came down in the form of a man and led a perfect sinless life. But though He led the perfect life, He was heavily mistreated and humanity killed Him on a cross where He took on the penalty of our wrongdoings (sin). He rose again to life on the 3rd day and is now in heaven. We now have a path to heaven by believing in (that Jesus’ work on the cross cleanses us of all sin) and following Jesus.
      But out of love for you I share this next part that you may enter heaven, the type of faith that saves is obedient faith to Jesus that continues for the remainder of your life (see the Bible: John 15, Matthew 7, Colossians 1, Romans 10). That is, you accept Jesus as your Lord (which means Master) and Savior - implying that we follow His commands and no longer live for ourselves. However, He is the good Master who died for us and His commands are rooted in love and honesty. I cannot tell you anything else that makes it more convenient to enter heaven because it be would false. Jesus is knowable, and He can even clearly interact with you if you are willing to follow Him.
      If you ever want to know if you are in the faith that saves, examine your life against the books of 1,2,3 John. If you are in need of evidence that the Bible is accurate down to the smallest detail, check out the documentary Patterns of Evidence: Exodus. With love, I will be praying for you.

    • @user-yg1dg6xm2g
      @user-yg1dg6xm2g 9 місяців тому +1

      Consider altering your diet promptly. Eliminate carbohydrates from your nutritional intake. A low-carb diet has shown significant benefits for numerous health conditions, particularly diabetes, where success stories abound. It may also hold potential in cancer treatment.

  • @Unit68
    @Unit68 9 місяців тому +357

    If I was your baby, watching this decades later, I'd be so proud of my mommy. Your baby has a beautiful mother and I hope you beat this cancer and share many decades to come with her.

    • @alisonparsons9609
      @alisonparsons9609 9 місяців тому +5

      Lush comment. There are such lovely comments, some quite sad. ❤xx

    • @MrMaddox57
      @MrMaddox57 9 місяців тому +2

      AMEN! Blessings and to baby!

  • @kakdgdtyuujsdsjskksks
    @kakdgdtyuujsdsjskksks 9 місяців тому +740

    i’m so sorry this is happening to you, this came across my recommended page and it stopped me in my tracks. i sincerely wish nothing but the best for you and your baby/family.

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 місяців тому +48

      💛💛 Thank you

    • @amandatakac8100
      @amandatakac8100 9 місяців тому

      😅😅😅😅😅😢😊😊😮😂😂😊🎉😊❤❤❤🎉😂❤😂❤

    • @Robin-bv4is
      @Robin-bv4is 9 місяців тому +19

      Same for me on my recommendations. I'm so sorry to hear this. I wish you all the best. My brother too died from an overdose 12/2021, so that is so relatable. ❤❤❤❤

    • @TheRapnep
      @TheRapnep 9 місяців тому +15

      God be with you! Prayers for a healthy baby and a successful outcome in what you're having to deal with, especially now. You WILL prevail and beat this cruel disease. And you are right. There is a strong connection with the mind and body and your positive outlook will beat this back. We here are praying for you, baby, and your family. And also for the many skilled caregivers who will work hard to get you through all of this safe and sound. I've had bladder cancer twice recently and I know this isn't easy, but you are stronger than you know and you have alot to fight for. YOU CAN DO IT! Say it everyday, especially on those days when you feel you can't, and say it LOUD! YOU CAN DO IT! Two of my brothers also died young at 24 and 26, so I hurt for you tremendously. They are with God in their forever home and so is your precious brother. He is watching out for you and asking God to heal you, if it be His will, and I pray that it is. 🙏 All good luck to you, and everyone who loves you, and prayers, prayers, prayers. 🙏🙏🙏 God hears all. ❤

    • @bodhi1462
      @bodhi1462 9 місяців тому +6

      Me, too. It came up in my recommended page. Wishing you well. I can't even imagine what you're going through. I wonder if there is a group for this?

  • @sirbirbalot199
    @sirbirbalot199 9 місяців тому +282

    My mother had Cancer while she was pregnant with me.Instead of aborting me like the doctor suggested she went through with it.Shes alive and healthy now and she’s the greatest mother anyone could ever ask for.I pray you’ll be okay too.A baby needs their mother.

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 місяців тому +47

      What a strong mama you have!! So glad you are both here. Thank you for your prayers! I am working hard to make sure I am here for her.

    • @amelkendebrant4549
      @amelkendebrant4549 9 місяців тому +8

      Your mother is a saint.

    • @nycdyke2867
      @nycdyke2867 9 місяців тому +7

      @@amelkendebrant4549eh not really sounds stressful I’ll rather be aborted than have to watch my parents fall Ill to cancer

    • @krystlestevens1056
      @krystlestevens1056 9 місяців тому +32

      @@nycdyke2867 I’m sure your own mother would be tickled pink to see what you’re saying to this woman. Your mother clearly failed at teaching her own child to be kind and compassionate. She also failed to instill the basics of common courtesy…
      1) treat others how you would like to be treated.
      2) if you don’t have anything nice to stay, don’t say anything at all.

    • @1929modelagirl
      @1929modelagirl 9 місяців тому +18

      ​@nycdyke2867
      I'm fairly certain there are places where bitter, closed off, negative people (trolls?) like you can go.
      This thread however, is not the place.

  • @suetipping4841
    @suetipping4841 9 місяців тому +129

    Forty years ago, a coworker was pregnant. She also was diagnosed with cancer. The medical team operated and treated the area affected with chemo during surgery. The baby was born perfectly and the mother is alive and well. The best to you and yours. You will do well.

  • @duffystavern894
    @duffystavern894 9 місяців тому +301

    Melanie, I have a neighbor in his forties who 2 yrs ago had the same cancer you have. Guess what? He is now cancer free , back to normal and doing great! Please don’t lose hope. You’re going to beat this! Congrats in advance on your beautiful baby girl 😀💐

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 місяців тому +54

      Thank you for sharing this!! I hope I can say the same in 2 years.

    • @liyanam7888
      @liyanam7888 9 місяців тому +3

      That is, becouse some of us will have a second chance to live 😊😊😊

    • @melissaaustin5082
      @melissaaustin5082 9 місяців тому +8

      My daughter's name is Melanie so I will definitely remember to pray for you and your baby. 🙏

    • @Keepnthefaith
      @Keepnthefaith 9 місяців тому +10

      Melanie, you showed up on my UA-cam page this morning. I am praying for you, your baby girl, and your family❤

    • @wandalester8624
      @wandalester8624 9 місяців тому +10

      Melanie, I am going to put your name in my Bible and pray for you! I hope you know Jesus, He will walk through this with you! You will never be alone!

  • @peg9897
    @peg9897 9 місяців тому +110

    My Ex had this tumor. Had an excellent ENT and neurosurgeon. He did very well! It’s a scary process but he made it through with no remaining problems.

  • @ashleyburbank3129
    @ashleyburbank3129 9 місяців тому +31

    My husband actually was born to his mother while she had cancer she had a tumor the size of him next to him in her belly. He's well and so is she! ♥️

  • @anner8416
    @anner8416 9 місяців тому +138

    I also went through cancer while pregnant. I was 30 years old, 5 months pregnant, and had stage 3 inflammatory breast cancer. Which I found out was a rare cancer also. I was given a 16% survival rate, but I told myself I WILL be OK for my baby inside me, and my other little first born 10 month old son. It's scary, it's something I never ever thought I'd be doing... but I did it!! That was 10 years ago now. Mom's are built different💪 the drive to do things for your tiny baby will make you so tough!! I'm sending prayers your way for strength for you and your little baby girl🙏 girl babies are strong!!! Both my boys were in the nicu, and I commented to the nurse how there's so many boy babies here... they informed me they always have more boys than girls.. so your little girl will be a power house! Just like you will be too!!

    • @Buttie2003
      @Buttie2003 9 місяців тому +4

      I am so glad you survived and you are doing well.
      Sadly my Sister passed away with inflammatory breast cancer at age 43 leaving three young children. Her treatment was not good and she gave up in the end. She passed on my Mother's birthday l miss her so much. ❤

    • @jacqueline8559
      @jacqueline8559 9 місяців тому +7

      As a Midwife, working for over 30 years on a Neonatal Intensive Care Unit, It's true that baby girls ARE born stronger than boys. Obviously, they both receive the same care and treatment, but she will be a strong fighter. 32 weeks is a good gestation to be delivered! Stay just as strong for both of you. Staff, family, friends and the community of people on here, who are praying so hard for you, your baby and baby's DAD, are here for you ❤ SUBSCRIBED, to ensure I follow and support you with prayer, throughout this time. Be blessed dear ones. All 3 of you x

    • @aaron-mo9si
      @aaron-mo9si 9 місяців тому +2

      I'm so sorry about your sister💔 this stupid inflammatory cancer is so, so, horrible!! My first dr. Sent me home with antibiotics and said it was mastitis, and the ultrasound showed milk in the ducts.She told me to come back after the baby was born 4 months later. Then we could actually do an mri at that time to see what the issue is. The only reason I went to a different dr. Was because my OB dr. Said that looks like Inflammatory cancer, and I can't wait. She got me all set up with these top docs, I would never have found myself. That's where they found I had a10 cm mass, and I was stage 3 with infected lymphnodes already. My OB Dr saved me... I wish more doctors understood rare cancers DO happen and I wish your sister had doctors and treatments that worked for her. It just breaks my heart for her kids.. I'm so sorry

    • @DoreenBurkey
      @DoreenBurkey 9 місяців тому

      ​@Buttie2003 - I am so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you and give you peace. It's hard when we lose someone so young. I have an old friend & former classmate who had the inflammatory breast cancer. From things she told me, it was a tough one to fight. Sadly we lost touch after she moved, so I can only hope and pray that she was able to receive the right cocktail to cure her. It's all in God's hands... 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

    • @DoreenBurkey
      @DoreenBurkey 9 місяців тому +1

      ​@@aaron-mo9si- Congratulations to you and your awesome OB! My prayers are with you to stay cancer-free and for Mrs Melanie to be able to proudly say one day that she beat it and will be cancer-free as well! 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

  • @mayaluna11
    @mayaluna11 9 місяців тому +173

    More than 10 years ago my sister shared her cancer journey online. The support we both got out of kind, compassionate people was and is a gift. I now try to repay that by supporting others in the hope you may be lifted up in the same way. I'm so sorry, but know there will be a community forming on your channel. May this journey be as gentle as possible and end with healthy, happy baby and mom ❤

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 місяців тому +16

      Thank you so much for sharing this! I pray she is well and healed. Thank you for sharing your support. The amount of people we have had in our corner and strangers reaching out to share there experiences or support is just overwhelming us with gratitude.

    • @cherylnull9890
      @cherylnull9890 9 місяців тому +3

    • @terri5757
      @terri5757 9 місяців тому +3

      🙏❤️🙏

    • @mayaluna11
      @mayaluna11 9 місяців тому +6

      @@melaniefostersnavely My sister passed away Melanie, but please know that cancer was not the primary cause. Her cancer did not respond to chemo or radiation and needed multiple surgeries that weakened her. The last surgery caused sepsis, and that was an extremely rare situation. I'm hoping you find as much support from your community as we did, it's the least you and yours deserve.❤

    • @lorenarivas5485
      @lorenarivas5485 9 місяців тому

      🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😢😢🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @kimmiehuffman9225
    @kimmiehuffman9225 9 місяців тому +24

    Stumbled upon your page by accident. You’re in a strangers prayers tonight. 🙏♥️

  • @rachaelpate6778
    @rachaelpate6778 9 місяців тому +62

    As a cancer survivor myself, my heart goes out to you! I remember being stunned at how my body had betrayed me. I was only 15 when diagnosed. I want you to know, cancer isn’t who you are, It’s what’s happened to you. You stay strong in your fight! Cancer is a bully so stay strong! Your in my prayers!

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 місяців тому +18

      Thank you for that encouragement and advice. It can be hard not to get wrapped up in cancer being part of me now, but you're right it is NOT who I am. I am so sorry you had to deal with it as well. I am happy to hear you are a survivor and hope you are doing well!

    • @yoop177
      @yoop177 9 місяців тому +1

      Tks for these words, I needed to hear this today❤

    • @gwennblau8371
      @gwennblau8371 7 місяців тому

      Well said!

  • @AStemmer1
    @AStemmer1 9 місяців тому +87

    As a cancer survivor, I'm sending positive thoughts your way. ❤

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 місяців тому +5

      Thank you! Glad to hear you survived and are doing well!

    • @liyanam7888
      @liyanam7888 9 місяців тому

      ​@@melaniefostersnavely you will be good as well, beautiful Lady ❤

  • @RABPWarrior
    @RABPWarrior 9 місяців тому +78

    Hi beloved Melanie, a granny here sending you Gentle hugs. You said it! One step at a time. You and hubby spend quality time with baby by talking, reading stories, play soothing music (not the big butts song😮). ITS YOUR TIME TO BE CARE RECEIVER NOT CAREGIVER TO OTHERS. Journaling this bump in the road will remind us to practice empathy, love and kindness. Your journaling is already a blessing. Standing by to cheer you on!

    • @JulieR73
      @JulieR73 9 місяців тому +4

      Beautifully said!

    • @swedeheart214
      @swedeheart214 9 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for saying what others are thinking but unable to put into words.

    • @dawnportousa
      @dawnportousa 9 місяців тому +3

      I just wanted to say that I love your comment that was really a nice message! 😊

  • @tammytenbrook9404
    @tammytenbrook9404 9 місяців тому +31

    I found out I had a rare form of Cancer in 2007 and had a baby and 2 other children. I was only given months to live and 16 years later still here. My heart breaks for you as it is a lot with a baby. Fight for you and your family as you are stronger than you know. Many prayers sent to you ❤

  • @snowbunny1285
    @snowbunny1285 9 місяців тому +21

    My baby boy was born at 32 weeks. He was 3 1/2 lbs. he spent 2 weeks in the hospital. that was 30 years ago. He is doing great He owns his own IT business and a genius in electronics. Your baby will been just fine. And yes I was scared for him.

  • @CMC5070
    @CMC5070 9 місяців тому +57

    As a cancer survivor I am praying for you through your pregnancy and cancer journey.❤🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

  • @MrsJulieannG
    @MrsJulieannG 9 місяців тому +89

    I opened up UA-cam and your video was recommended. I subscribed to show support. I am keeping you in my prayers and sending gentle hugs sweet girl. You’ve got this. ❤
    Julieann

    • @aqua6613
      @aqua6613 9 місяців тому +8

      Same here ❤

    • @eddiesaenz7144
      @eddiesaenz7144 9 місяців тому +6

      Im soooooooooo sorry! Hugs and prayers❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

    • @willowyone5695
      @willowyone5695 9 місяців тому +4

      This says it well. Kate

    • @dawnportousa
      @dawnportousa 9 місяців тому

      Me too!

    • @ddsmiles6382
      @ddsmiles6382 9 місяців тому +2

      Same here! #cancerwarriorsunited
      #neveralone

  • @MarthaGarrett
    @MarthaGarrett 9 місяців тому +45

    I have cancer… but I’m 65 and not expecting. You are in my prayers. I’ll be watching your updates. We need each other in these times. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @racheld4184
      @racheld4184 9 місяців тому +5

      Praying for you right now Martha! God is faithful ❤

    • @joannpignataro4813
      @joannpignataro4813 8 місяців тому +2

      🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @Catherine3296
      @Catherine3296 5 місяців тому +1

      🙏🙏

    • @rickkonesnii
      @rickkonesnii 5 місяців тому +1

      Martha Jesus saved my life he's so good sending prayers your way ❤

  • @chapstickdramma8640
    @chapstickdramma8640 9 місяців тому +138

    My mom was 29 pregnant with my sister and found out she had cancer. My mom chose to have my sister even though my doctor said my mom wouldn't survive. 4 months after she had my sister. She passed away. My mom is my hero. I was only 5, so I don't remember her, but she was my hero. Hang in there. My Prayers are with you.

    • @BrownEyedBeauty2008
      @BrownEyedBeauty2008 9 місяців тому +23

      Your mom sounds like an amazing woman. I am so sorry for your loss 🤍

    • @zhaviyah84
      @zhaviyah84 9 місяців тому +2

      That’s weird you don’t remember her. I remember so much from that age :/ how sad.

    • @EastElbow
      @EastElbow 9 місяців тому +25

      ​@@zhaviyah84trauma does weird things to the memory. So it's understandable.

    • @betsybabf748
      @betsybabf748 9 місяців тому +11

      My 28 yr old friend did the same when expecting her twins, and passed when they were 4 months old.

    • @randomvintagefilm273
      @randomvintagefilm273 9 місяців тому +6

      Wow, your mom was a hero and she made an incredible sacrifice ❤

  • @GA-hu6qm
    @GA-hu6qm 9 місяців тому +54

    Saying your situation out loud is a necessary progression. My heart aches for you and your husband. It's not game over - you're still in the info gathering part.

  • @Alchemystic_Ama
    @Alchemystic_Ama 9 місяців тому +63

    I’m just a stranger from London, UK. Your video was recommended and I just wanted to send you my prayers of healing, strength and courage ❤ I’m sorry that you’re going through this 😔

  • @joannpignataro4813
    @joannpignataro4813 8 місяців тому +6

    I know two woman who had cancer when they were pregnant. Both went on to have healthy children and survive their cancer. I am praying for the same for you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @DragonPlush_YT
    @DragonPlush_YT 9 місяців тому +27

    You popped up on my feed 🤷🏻‍♀️🙌
    I’m a breast cancer survivor. I was a mess when I was diagnosed. I’m also a single mom and my son was only 8..he’s going to be 10 in a couple weeks and I am cancer free!!!! Hang in there. It changes us forever but not always in the ways we think. You’ve got this mama 🙏🙌💕🌱

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  8 місяців тому

      So sorry to hear you had to fight, but so glad to hear you are now cancer free!! That gives me a lot of hope!

  • @my-4th-cancer
    @my-4th-cancer 9 місяців тому +27

    Dammit lady, that is devastating news.
    My 4th cancer is also a SCC, metastasized in the groin area lymphnodes. But I am not pregnant. The lord works in mysterious ways. I wish you good luck both with pregnancy and cancer. But you are young, you can make it, you must make it. ✊

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 місяців тому +6

      Thank you! I am so sorry to hear about your own journey. Wishing you healing and strength!!

  • @jenniferhuff2566
    @jenniferhuff2566 9 місяців тому +53

    I hope sharing your story helps you realize there are many people pulling for you and praying for you and you’re baby. I can’t imagine what you are going through!

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 місяців тому +1

      It has definitely helped. We have had so much support and we are so grateful!

    • @sandiehutchinson9575
      @sandiehutchinson9575 9 місяців тому +5

      Please know we are all here listening, caring and sending 🙏 and love X let your baby come next week 💝 you will be a Mum achievement one ! Then deal with the cancer throw everything they offer you this is really an unbearable situation 💔 but you can and will do this for your baby 🍼.just take each hour get through that .I have had cancer, family had it .....I'm here for you anytime I'm in UK .

    • @sandiehutchinson9575
      @sandiehutchinson9575 9 місяців тому +5

      Eat ,drink ,sleep , rest do what ever it takes do what ever you need to do Huni ..your head will be mashed I'm so sorry you are dealing with this 😢

  • @gizzbeth
    @gizzbeth 9 місяців тому +39

    My heart goes out to you dear. I’m battling aggressive breast cancer too at the moment. Every part of it sucks. I’m grateful for every day that I’m here. Just know that we are part of a community that is very supportive and beyond strong. We are here for you! Sending prayers and positive thoughts to you 💗

    • @Naturalicity
      @Naturalicity 9 місяців тому +2

      🙏🏽💐🌹☘️☀️🌈🎉🙏🏽 for you, my dear.

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  8 місяців тому +1

      So sorry to hear you are fighting as well! My thoughts and prayer are with you

  • @UltimateGoldenGirl
    @UltimateGoldenGirl 9 місяців тому +23

    Melanie, I am so sorry you are on this journey. My husband and us as a family have been on this journey so we understand. To give you words of encouragement my husband was diagnosed at end stage Lymphoma. Long story short he is 100% cancer free. All they could do was chemo which he had a "truck load" of. We then went on the strict keto diet and one supplement. He has now been 100% cancer free (Pet scans, blood work, no trace of the 8 masses) for one year. We are praying that is the same results you get as well. The emotions that flood through are like a dam being broken and it is such a shock. I got sick during that time from all that he was going through. I am fine now. He is fine now. We are grateful. We are praying you will be 100% well.

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 місяців тому +5

      Thank you for sharing your story with me! I am sorry to hear what you had to go through but am so glad to hear he is cancer free and doing well. We are looking into the keto diet as well! Would you mind sharing the supplement he is using? I pray that once we are through with chemo we will be able to maintain health with a more diet focused, whole body health path and am open to any options that will help us do that! Praying we will be able to say cancer free soon. Glad you are feeling better as well!

    • @UltimateGoldenGirl
      @UltimateGoldenGirl 9 місяців тому +1

      @@melaniefostersnavely Hi Melanie, Yes, he gets the supplement out of a healthfood store. It is called Graviola. It is an Amazon leaf I believe. That is the only supplement he takes. Everyone is different and responds differently to different things. We are not sure what cured his cancer beyond a miracle. He is cancer free. I pray the same for you.

  • @joannemcmurray1361
    @joannemcmurray1361 9 місяців тому +25

    Hello Melanie, I’m going to pray for you. I’m sorry this is happening. Waiting to hear good news

  • @lnewbury1
    @lnewbury1 9 місяців тому +14

    Hey Melanie, I’m just finding you. I am so sorry that you are going through this. I simply cannot imagine. All I know is that God is with you and will never leave you. Praying for a complete healing and that delivery and baby will go well.

  • @cushlabarnes1445
    @cushlabarnes1445 9 місяців тому +25

    Melanie and family, I had a similar story, SCC on my tongue, 22 weeks pregnant with my only child, now 10 years old. Keep the family and support network close, that is so important. I found being mindful of the energy I gave to those I had not seen for many years (and not seen since) visiting for their own needs. Save that time for bonding with baby 🥰 stay strong. Prayers and healing vibes from New Zealand

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for sharing that with me! Yes, we are really trying to protect our space. We are home now and have not had many visitors come, just trying to soak up as much time with her before our next dose of treatment starts. I hope you are doing well!

  • @swilson5346
    @swilson5346 9 місяців тому +11

    I’m 34 weeks pregnant and just can’t imagine what you’re going through. I’m so sorry this happening. I pray you’ll be heal and well soon. Sending you positive energy and strength. ❤🙏🏾

  • @ellenh9381
    @ellenh9381 9 місяців тому +30

    Oh, sweetheart, I’m sorry you have so much to handle right now. I’m sending hugs and prayers. Be strong - for you and for baby. Keep us posted if you feel well enough so we can support you. 🙏🏻❤️

  • @TheQuietWitch
    @TheQuietWitch 9 місяців тому +11

    I’m so sorry that this is happening to you. I was diagnosed in may with stage 3 gastric cancer. If you need a friend to talk to I am here for you. Sending you all the healing vibes.

  • @theclassymermaid449
    @theclassymermaid449 6 місяців тому +5

    Just said a prayer for you and your baby. ❤ May god take your cancer away so that you and your baby live a long, happy life. Sending hugs!

  • @michellelanigan1964
    @michellelanigan1964 9 місяців тому +16

    I am new to your channel. Just came across it and am thinking so many things. First, I’m a rectal cancer survivor and it’s a hard road. You’re pg…almost the same as my daughter with all the same sinus problems. Then, I really want to hold you and be there for you. This is NOT supposed to happen like this! As a mom, a grandmother, and all the other hats I wear, my heart is breaking that you have to go through this. I will be here, quietly, praying and asking God our Father to watch over you and your family. To make things ok in your heart and give you peace.

    • @mjb9176
      @mjb9176 9 місяців тому +2

      Your words are beautifully full of grace.

  • @Kristen10-22
    @Kristen10-22 9 місяців тому +22

    It’s SO HUGE to advocate for yourself!!

  • @inspiringsimple
    @inspiringsimple 9 місяців тому +13

    I am 29 weeks pregnant and man this makes me just cry for you. I’m praying for your complete and total healing and YES for a super strong and healthy baby!

  • @michelleleppard1882
    @michelleleppard1882 9 місяців тому +8

    I’m a cancer survivor. My dad had cancer for 16 years. I know it feels pretty scary and there’s a lot of things you processing on top of having a baby. Just try to do one day at a time just so it’s not so overwhelming. I tried to be strong for me and for those around me but found Emotionally It’s ok to not be ok too. I hope you are back to full health quickly and you get to have a long happy healthy life big love to you ❤

  • @natalietaylor9848
    @natalietaylor9848 9 місяців тому +5

    As a mother I can’t imagine getting this news how scary it must be. Im so sorry 💔. Being pregnant should be the happiest most exciting time of your life. We’re all with you girl! ❤❤️❤️❤️

  • @itistheofficialanimeboylimited
    @itistheofficialanimeboylimited 9 місяців тому +19

    Sending prayers to you that your cancer will go away 🙏

  • @janisc.5135
    @janisc.5135 9 місяців тому +7

    I’m so sorry this has happened to you. I feel your pain and fear, I was diagnosed this past January with multiple myeloma, a blood cancer, stage III. When they told me, I felt a sensation like the blood was draining out of my arms from the shock. I will have to get a stem cell transplant. Cancer is so scary! I will pray for you and your child. 🙏❤️

  • @laurieanne.
    @laurieanne. 9 місяців тому +4

    Hi Melanie, my heart goes out to you & your family❣ Our Father in Heaven loves us all immensely & believe that through the power of prayers, miraculous healings occur! I had my youngest daughter at 32 weeks, 33 years ago. She weighed 3lbs 12oz & was 17 1/2" long. She did really well, breathing on her own & only stayed in the hospital 3 weeks, to get bigger. I will pray for you to be healed & your daughter, to be healthy! Lots of Love to you & your family, stay strong, knowing you have an army of prayer warriors behind you❣🙏 🥰🙏🏾

  • @Gigi-kr6ek
    @Gigi-kr6ek 9 місяців тому +9

    Once I started having problems with my pituitary gland, I could no longer be in a regular MRI machine, I can only do what's called an open MRI machine. Your video just popped up in my feed, I subscribed to your channel. I'm so sorry you are having to go thru this. You and your family will be in my prayers. Congratulations on your beautiful daughter. ✝️🙏🌻

  • @trudgingtheroadofhappydest3983
    @trudgingtheroadofhappydest3983 9 місяців тому +24

    🇨🇦Dear Melanie and family. Thanks for sharing. I have gotten through cancer with all the bumps in the road. It isn't a straight line. I used God First, with God I have no fear and I can relax. Second. One day at a time. Finally. Family, friends and trust that the doctors knew more than me about cancer. It's turned out pretty good. I let it be an interesting journey not a scary one. Watch out for depression. Deal with it as quickly as possible. God Bless.

    • @dorothywalters7448
      @dorothywalters7448 9 місяців тому +2

      Also watch for anxiety, don't miss any doses in order to control panicky times. You're in my daily prayers. Lifted up in Holy Mass with all your family and friends.

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  8 місяців тому +1

      Thaank you for sharing this with me! I am really trying to lean in and have faith through all of this. Definitely watching out for any signs of depression. It can be so hard not to want to dwell in the negative, but I am really trying to stay as positive as possible and when I can't then pray that He is with me and will see me thorugh.

  • @karenknight9565
    @karenknight9565 9 місяців тому +13

    Melanie, Your video was recommended to me. I’m so glad as I share a similar story minus your precious baby. I was diagnosed with a very rare/aggressive breast cancer. Treatment options are pretty limited. I did a year and a half of treatment and am almost two yrs into remission/surveillance. I know it’s scary and that you have a new baby makes it even scarier. But I can promise you that you will be okay. I have a new normal than before cancer but have faith that new treatments come out all the time. My only advice is to try and take care of your mental health. My anxiety became worse than my actual treatments. Reach out to the therapists at your cancer center if u feel yourself spiraling. I waited way too long. I wish the very best for you and your family. You’ve got this!💪🏻❤️

    • @mjb9176
      @mjb9176 9 місяців тому +1

      This advice is a blessing

  • @cynthiaholland13
    @cynthiaholland13 9 місяців тому +2

    I'm praying for you and the baby! Thanks for being brave and sharing your story

  • @sonjak2395
    @sonjak2395 9 місяців тому

    I am so sorry that you and your family has to go through this. I am wishing you all the best!!!

  • @MikuMarmalade
    @MikuMarmalade 9 місяців тому +22

    My heart goes out for you. I hope you and your upcoming miniature human finds peace. I couldn’t imagine being in this situation. Sending positive vibes. ❤

  • @pass4pets434
    @pass4pets434 9 місяців тому +6

    This is so so heartbreaking. My heart hurts for you. I'm stage 4 lung, so glad your sharing. Thank you. Can't imagine what your going thru. ❤❤ God has you and the baby

  • @amandaray7482
    @amandaray7482 9 місяців тому

    I am so sorry to hear this! I hope nothing but the best for you. Sending all the positive vibes and hugs ❤️

  • @amelinevillalobos9345
    @amelinevillalobos9345 9 місяців тому +1

    I’m so sorry for what is happening, I’m sending you good energy and praying for you and your family ❤ stay strong ❤

  • @barbsams7774
    @barbsams7774 9 місяців тому +16

    I cannot even imagine going through what you are experiencing. I’m so sorry for you and your family on this terrible journey. Prayers to you all.

  • @Sunshine-zi4nq
    @Sunshine-zi4nq 9 місяців тому +53

    Nasal cancer is one of the tougher ones. Hope you respond well to chemo and then can have it surgically removed. Hope they caught it early and its early stage. All the best to you and your baby.

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 місяців тому +37

      Yeah :/ Unfortunately surgery isn't an option yet, but it seems to be somewhat responding as I can already breathe out of my left nostril again for the first time in months. So I am hoping thats a good sign that it is shrinking! We are hopeful they will at some point be able to remove it. Otherwise it will mean radiation as well.

    • @cathymarble3283
      @cathymarble3283 9 місяців тому +9

      ​@melaniefostersnavely depending on the stage it can be very curable,!

    • @Sunshine-zi4nq
      @Sunshine-zi4nq 9 місяців тому +6

      @@cathymarble3283 hope it is in her case

    • @toniscaglione7451
      @toniscaglione7451 9 місяців тому +4

      Thinking about you and praying for you and little one 🙏🏻❤️

    • @loveoracle8797
      @loveoracle8797 9 місяців тому +6

      Please only positive comments

  • @Purplecolors162
    @Purplecolors162 9 місяців тому +1

    I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. Your story just showed up in my feed, so I’m sending you hugs and prayers! Stay strong and blessings to your baby. ❤❤❤

  • @rousiecat4615
    @rousiecat4615 9 місяців тому

    You’ve got this! Don’t ever give up. Praying for you ❤

  • @jeanettebarritt2938
    @jeanettebarritt2938 9 місяців тому +5

    I had my little boy at 32 wks and he is now 6 foot 2 and a wonderful young man and gosh I really do wish you the best ❤❤❤❤ xxx

  • @donnabankstahl2457
    @donnabankstahl2457 9 місяців тому +11

    Melanie your video was recommended . I just subscribed to show my support. I too live in Fl and you are in a great hospital. I will keep you and your husband and sweet baby in my prayers. My heart hurts just listening to your story. Learning to accept help with grace is hard when you are the one that is always has been the caretaker. I live about an hour from where you are and if I can help you guys with please reach out. Hugs and prayers Donna🥰😘🙏🙏

  • @LucyBlue0823
    @LucyBlue0823 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your journey with us.❤ Sending love to you and your family.❤

  • @jeanword6985
    @jeanword6985 9 місяців тому +4

    I pray in the name of Jesus for your healing and your faith in the Lord and praying for protection over your baby.The Lord healed me stage 4 colon /Liver cancer .Stay away from sugar and carbs .cancer feeds off of it .Lots of Love and prayer to you and family .❤

  • @margaretvaughan9045
    @margaretvaughan9045 9 місяців тому +3

    This is so hard. Thank you for sharing and please keep sharing your journey ❤

  • @jennifermoyer9419
    @jennifermoyer9419 9 місяців тому +8

    Stay strong hun. Sending love and prayers.❤

  • @snowhitemakeup
    @snowhitemakeup 9 місяців тому

    I’m so sorry you are going through this. I wish you the best of luck with treatment and hope you have a smooth delivery. You’ve got this!

  • @susanbrown4137
    @susanbrown4137 9 місяців тому +1

    Just saw your short🎉 congrats, she is beautiful!!!!! So happy for you, enjoy that beautiful baby

  • @tuulahsznaider
    @tuulahsznaider 9 місяців тому +3

    I’m so so sorry to hear what’s going on with you! I will pray for you and for your baby and for your whole family!!! Hugs and love !❤

  • @louise8752
    @louise8752 9 місяців тому +4

    Hi Melanie, I'm so very sorry for your new battle. Wishing you all the best.

  • @doxiecracra4127
    @doxiecracra4127 9 місяців тому +1

    Praying for you, baby and family! Sounds like you have a strong family support, you got this momma!!

  • @racheldrake277
    @racheldrake277 9 місяців тому +2

    Melanie, sending you lots of prayers to you and your baby. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You can/ will beat this ❤️

  • @jennycarbajal6787
    @jennycarbajal6787 9 місяців тому +12

    I'm so sorry that you're going through this my mom has brain cancer and she was diagnosed when my little brother was 16 months old and she wasn't even done breast-feeding him. She was stage four when she was diagnosed and we for sure thought that she was going to die last year and it came back really aggressively as she had to get surgery again but a year later almost exactly she still here with us, the doctors gave her a prognosis of literally five years or less. And she has surpassed that. Cancer is literally just the word until it happens to you or somebody that you love and I just want to tell you how sorry I am that you're going through this but we're going to be praying for you. Prayer is so powerful I truly believe that the more people you have praying for you than my prayers God hears and I truly believe and hope that you are going to be OK and you will get through this. You are so strong I don't know you but I'm sending you a huge virtual hug that just know that you're not alone in this.

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 місяців тому +2

      I 100% feel this; until you live it it is just so hard to understand the weight behind the word. I am so sorry to hear about your mom having to fight, but what a fighter she is!! I truly believe in the power of prayer as well and pray she continues to prove the doctors wrong as she continues her journey.

  • @lucymaty4545
    @lucymaty4545 9 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for your vulnerability. I am so incredibly sorry to hear this! You are strong and I have no doubt you will finish and win this journey!

  • @ItsMeAngie
    @ItsMeAngie 9 місяців тому +1

    This is a recommended video on my feed. I will be praying 🙏 for you and that sweet baby. I am so sorry you are going through all this.

  • @courtneybazinet7824
    @courtneybazinet7824 9 місяців тому

    You’ve got this mama. Sending positive energy and hugs your way ❤

  • @sonnysnavarro6860
    @sonnysnavarro6860 9 місяців тому +12

    You did it ❤you got the words out ,I see the pain in your face and the hurt in your eyes ,and I’m sorry ,I wish I could take your pain from you I hope to continue this journey with you

  • @lucyfritz3232
    @lucyfritz3232 9 місяців тому +15

    This video was suggested to me by UA-cam. I am an enneagram 7 too. 😊 I’m so sorry you are going through this. How shocking it must have been to find this out. So much to process, especially when hormones are going crazy. I always have them put a washcloth over my eyes when in the MRI. It really helps me-and I have panic disorder. Will keep you and your baby girl in my prayers!! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @breezeh1127
    @breezeh1127 9 місяців тому +1

    I got your video on my recommends. I'm truly sorry for what you are going through and what you will continue to go through. 😢 This is a lot on anyone but to also be pregnant, has got to be super overwhelming and worrisome. I send you hugs and good vibes for a healthy baby and for recovery and healing and a journey that brings you uplifting lessons but also a long life.❤

  • @texsladyvictoria7259
    @texsladyvictoria7259 9 місяців тому

    I’m so sorry to hear about your cancer. My prayers are with you and baby. God bless you sweetie! 🙏🏼

  • @evajohns3217
    @evajohns3217 9 місяців тому +5

    Noooooo that’s horrific! Sending you love and strength.

  • @chrystalotterstedt5308
    @chrystalotterstedt5308 9 місяців тому +13

    Praying for your healing and for the baby’s health as well!

  • @JGold-oy2dr
    @JGold-oy2dr 9 місяців тому

    Praying for you and your family. ❤ you seem as positive as you can given the scary circumstances, hoping you get much needed support and love.

  • @LoveMyToe
    @LoveMyToe 9 місяців тому +1

    Just watching your channel for the first time. I will be sending you and your baby lots of healing thoughts and prayer. Thank you for sharing your journey with us here on UA-cam. 💜🙏🏻🦋🌞

  • @robinwalters6699
    @robinwalters6699 9 місяців тому +3

    Prayers for you and baby....Just know so many are praying for you. Sending hugs and lots of love.

  • @ash29287
    @ash29287 9 місяців тому +10

    I’m so so sorry. How devastating. You’ll be in my prayers. Healthy baby & mama 🙏

  • @heathermiller76
    @heathermiller76 9 місяців тому

    Sending thoughts & prayers. Please keep us updated when you feel like it. Youve got this! Positivity means so much! Keep your head up, beautiful!!

  • @eviesabo4871
    @eviesabo4871 9 місяців тому +1

    Sending friendship and support during this difficult time! I pray everything goes smoothly for you with the birth , testing, and treatment, whatever that entails!! ❤

  • @marjilaplante9579
    @marjilaplante9579 9 місяців тому +3

    Oh sweetie this is a lot. Sending you healing energy and love and light... I will continue♥️

  • @renhoek3687
    @renhoek3687 9 місяців тому +4

    I know this is scary - sending love, light and prayers. 🙏✨💛

  • @theworkstruths4528
    @theworkstruths4528 9 місяців тому

    I’m so very sorry. Prayers and love for healthy baby and a complete healing for you. ❤️🙏

  • @colleenrichardson5339
    @colleenrichardson5339 9 місяців тому

    I’m so sorry you, baby girl, and your significant other are going through this ❤ Your video popped up on my recommendations so I gave it a watch.. I will continue to follow along with your journey! Everything will be ok, i have a good feeling❤❤ hugs!!

  • @madelinem3216
    @madelinem3216 9 місяців тому +3

    Sending love to you and baby girl.. May God provide you with the strength to get thru this nightmare.

  • @BabyDee72
    @BabyDee72 9 місяців тому +3

    Awww hon, I'm so sorry your going thru all this, especially with being pregnant as well. Sending love, hugs, and prayers, and I hope it all works out great for you. I know your scared? But you got this❤

  • @suelloyd1989
    @suelloyd1989 9 місяців тому

    Your family and friends will be a great source of strength as you rise to meet this challenge and all of us here on the internet are sending you love and wishing you well. Big hug from Australia. ❤️

  • @caroline29059
    @caroline29059 9 місяців тому

    I am praying so hard for you and for your sweet baby!! Prayers for strength and great big hugs sent your way!! You will get through this! And you will come out of this changed but stronger! Gods got you !!❤️

  • @wrightjulie9042
    @wrightjulie9042 9 місяців тому +6

    So sorry to hear this!! I also have cancer not pregnant but a rare type of mesothelioma!! I am in St Augustine so we’re practically neighbors!! I hear the word cancer more and more everyday and I’m so sorry that you have to go through this!! I feel your worries,and everything your saying about how your brain processes such news!! I will be 🙏🙏🙏for you pls keep us updated!! This is so important what your doing because it is so rare!! Thank you for sharing your journey

  • @Mercyforthewicked
    @Mercyforthewicked 9 місяців тому +7

    sending love and prayers - stay hopeful there are many cures and treatments out there!

  • @cambiumlayer1318
    @cambiumlayer1318 9 місяців тому

    Hi Melanie,
    Randomly found this video. I just wanted to say that I am sorry you and your Family are going through such a difficult situation. I will keep you and your sweet Baby in our prayers. Subscribed to support you in this journey.

  • @juju_9402
    @juju_9402 9 місяців тому

    Your video just popped up on my feed. I will be adding your name to my prayer list. Will be following your journey. You got this! God has you in the palm of his hands.

  • @karenanderson717
    @karenanderson717 9 місяців тому +5

    Oh, Melanie, my heart goes out to you. What a joy your baby girl will be and what a beast your cancer will be.
    I pray your baby is healthy, as i am sure she will be.
    After your baby is born and you start on your chemotherapy, you will feel as if you are taking steps to fight it. Prayers and love to you and your family.

  • @kileya6527
    @kileya6527 9 місяців тому +6

    You’ve got this beautiful!! With incredible modern medicine and excellent medical care (you’re in great hands there) you and your precious little baby will be one day looking back on your incredible journey! I am praying for you both and sending you virtual hugs and love 💕

  • @tammyrockhold6111
    @tammyrockhold6111 9 місяців тому +1

    I’m so sorry that you are having to go through this with being pregnant. I will be keeping you and precious baby in my prayers. ❤️🤗🙏

  • @giatasha2181
    @giatasha2181 9 місяців тому +1

    Hey x you are stronger than you thinks congratulations on baby and all the best wishes with everything else x you will be ok day by day by day at a time x