if you liked this clrafication then you will LOVE his super organised course The System, every term you have ever come across in pickup is neatly organised in there in a very logical structure
"protected" lol, like the FBI will be after him after finding this video. He's gonna empower mankind with this stuff and start an uprising against the system that's trying to cuck us all into infertile npc's
@@smorrow ... You can't imagine how to apply them, huh? Wow girl, you have so little imagination, you must dream in black and white. See, I'm all about imagination, girl, ... So if you can't imagine something that simple... I might have to look for other girls to chat up.
3 years later and it stands the test of time, the best advice I've been given! I used this advice the same day I watched it and it works! I'm going to share the story for those of you who care. I did my first approach of the day, it was a nice and friendly interaction but failed to make the interaction man to woman, so when I went for the close, it was like many others finishing off with "I have a boyfriend". I have been struggling with this for the past weeks trying to make my interactions man to women, so I spent the next 15 minutes watching this video and taking notes, I laid on the grass for a quick 10 minute nap, and did my next approach on another cutie. I opened with a comment on her outfit, she kinda rolled her eyes with a half a** laugh, the first sentences were platonic, and she even said "I'm kinda in a hurry" like f off attituted but I made myslef stay in the interaction. She then mentioned how she is from L.A., "ohh that makes sense, that explains why you're DEFINITELY not Davis" (Davis = city we were in). She was caught off guard and said, "What?! You don't think I'm Davis?", "Nope" I said in a calm a** voice 😎. "What does Davis look like?" She asked, I replied "summer dress, and taking photos in a sunflower field for instagram", "I mean yeah, but I can be that though" she said. PAUSE! That was my first interaction of cold approaching where a cute girl was qualifying herself to me! We then were flirting back and fourth, I went for the close "lets get some coffee sometime", "maybe, it depends what kind of coffee you like though" she said smiling. "I'll just throw you a curve ball and say I like matcha lattes" I said smiling back. "Oh yeah I bet you like matcha since all the b*tch*s like it😏" she said snarkly. I was laughing out loud, that sh*t was funny😂. We exchanged instagrams (should have asked for the number) and we parted ways because she was kinda in a rush. I have yet to contact her. Even though I didn't get an insta date, or kiss her, or sleep with her. I still learned so much from that interaction, because all the other ones I did were not as nearly as good as that. I left the interacion with a paradigm shift. Thank you Todd! This was very helpful and inspiring!
Honestly this is the best flirting advice I’ve ever seen. Usually other people say crap like be confident which is useless in real life situations, but this literally tells you exactly how to do it. I was talking to one of my friends that’s a girl that I wasn’t exactly interested in, but I tried it anyway and it worked perfectly. She said that frozen was her favorite Disney movie and I disagreed with her and said I wasn’t sure if I could keep talking to someone who liked frozen more than Lion King. It went over really well and she flirted back. Todd your a god.
Spelling out the difference between "tease" and "flirt" in a way that shows how they can effectively be applied is so helpful because it reasserts the fundamental understanding of both. Thank you for clarifying the fundamentals Todd.
It's honestly mind-blowing at how simple he's been able to make this. In fact, I don't think anyone previously has ever been able to express this in anywhere near this clarity in such a succinct way. Not trying to sound overly dramatic, but It's actually ground breaking now that I think about it.
It's just the fact that he made me understand it in 3 simple steps and there are other dating coaches out here making it seem like I need to read an ebook or some shit just to make a conversation fun
I've been watching Todd's videos for the past 3 weeks and this free content has literally changed the way I think. Todd is a genius, and I'll be getting The System tomorrow.
@@hugo3796 I knew about Todd since 2015 when I had discovered RSD. I used to never watch his videos back then because I saw a couple and they just didn't click with me. I was also in too much awe with Tyler's 2011-2015 videos that I started to watch so I just didn't care to watch anyone else from RSD. I kind of stopped watching RSD around early 2016. Then in 2017 when I had heard Todd was leaving I checked out what was going on. I knew he had started a new channel, I saw his first video, but I just never came back to the channel again. Until 3 weeks ago, I was recommended one of his videos, and I was blown away at the quality. I also saw how he had 150k subs which is freaking mind blowing for a pickup channel on UA-cam. After that first video I just couldn't stop myself. I was amazed with how Todd explains things. I had seen him in a completely new light, and my perspective had completely changed about him. And then 2 weeks ago, I finally went out to Daygame for the first time in around 2 years. I'm 19 btw, turning 20 in 6 days, so for the past 4 years I went thru periods in highschool of trying to pickup girls, but I never gave it as much effort as I'm about to give it now. I am fucking ready to get results, and Todd's videos have changed the way I understand attraction all together. The End.
🤔 🤔 🤔 🤔 🤔 That articulates something I always knew was an interpersonal issue of mine. I focus on ideas, not people. It's very hard for people to feel connected to me, even though they like me a lot. I don't make many statements that personal, I just analyze the abstract, completely leaving out the human being. Good talk 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥
Yeah, and you always get stuck in the friend zone. Next time, just to keep a mental image of her vagina in your head lol or whatever image will keep you focused on the task at hand and the words should follow the course. I'm similar as I would prefer to talk about interesting non sexual subjects but I think women generally want to be thought of as sex symbols to certain degree so you might have to tweak your more usually civilized mind
@@juntjoonunya9216 I chose the words in my comment very carefully, because I was not exclusively talking about game and trying to pick up women. Like many of Todd's videos points out it's not just about trying to get laid, it's about getting better at life. It's a lifestyle shift. If you wanna get laid just pay somebody lol. I don't get stuck in friend zones anymore, mainly because I stopped believing in that. I go after who I want and when the attraction is mutual we get together. I said people have a hard time connecting with me So I appreciate your advice, but it's not for my specific situation. Women feel like sexually attractive beings around me, the issue is they're not always sure I'm made out of flesh, blood, and emotions all of the time. Romantic women and everyone else. That's what I need to work on
I mean, it’s good info but the email said the video was only 5 minutes... it’s clearly 5 minutes and 11 seconds. You’re just a little bit deceitful. I’m not sure how we can continue to trust each other.
brilliant😂 😂 "a little on the cheesy side. I just hope you won't do some cheesy romantic dinner next time we go out, otherwise this [points at own body] is off the table"
Dude this guy’s a beast! I’ve read and watched countless things on flirting and all that without much success but a few days ago I did exactly what Todd said when a girl told me she liked Frozen and it worked perfectly. We flirted a little and I could tell she was into it, and she even texted me about it a few days later. Only respect for this man ✊
I matched with this girl on Hinge during the pandemic in Britain. We’ve been talking a month, I wanted to get her out quickly, but I was patient and waited until she was comfortable. So we began using voice notes and had a phone call and we agreed to meet last weekend. Bearing in mind that she didn’t stop laughing on the phone or when we’ve been texting, we have also been flirting and teasing each other, making the interactions fun. So, we finally met, I took the train and she met me at the station in her car. Immediately I went for the physical so I said “come on let’s have a hug”. We went for a good walk where we talked about life in general and I teased her a lot e.g. she knew the area, but one of the paths was incredibly muddy so I said “if it’s really bad I know who to blame”. She didn’t stop laughing at the things I was saying. We went to the store to buy ingredients to cook that night and even that was fun. I made sure I led the way, taking the basket etc. We went back to hers where I cooked a spaghetti Bolognese and where we teased each other and it just genuinely felt like we knew each other already. I went for the kiss, rubbed her nose before and gave her a quick kiss but she seemed shocked and went red so I pulled back. We ate dinner where she found out I liked country and she seemed really into it plus she didn’t stop asking me questions, had a game of scrabble where the banter was flying about how bad the other’s words were. We were making references about future plans. She said something like “well next time I’ll use my dictionary”. Anyway, I kept putting my leg on hers, initiating touch. She took me to the station and before I left, we shared a few kisses where both of us leaned in. She even touched my chest saying “you’re really warm”. I thought bingo. Got home, sent her a jokey message about her car because she’s got her own personalized number plate and then I said “I enjoyed myself today, especially winning at Scrabble with a gooseberry gin” to which she replied “Gooseberry gin was good, Scrabble hmmm…Company wasn’t bad though” with a smiley, cheeks blushing emoji. I replied “10/10 choice by me getting the gooseberry, bet you were sole destroyed at losing”. She’s a shoemaker so I always shoe puns with her to tease. But, she hasn’t replied. She did say she was meeting her friends the day after, but she read my message at 8:30am and was online for most of the day and I didn't get a reply. I truly thought I did everything right. Until, she texts me later that night saying "we should be friends". I've literally worked for a year to try and stop this happening and I've just come full f***g circle.
I find myself teasing and flirting too much. Sometimes i find myself joking allot so i pull back. When i lay back then the girls start to chase me. Probably thinkng that i lost interest in them so they tryna improve upon that. So when she invest back, i use that to escalate and go on the intimate stuff :)
You didn’t escalate properly. You should have started making compliments once she likes you and sexualise things while flirting, especially in her place whilst you were cooking and eating. She was taken aback by your kiss attempt because you didn’t escalate properly before you went for it.
Ug yeah I know this. Some say showing signs of neediness causes this. Causing her to be less invested women enjoy a chase and letting her earn you that's the art. That why todd always talks about not giving your power away by tell her how much you like her You do these push-poles so it's like you're interested but she's not quite sure and that's like the expert level and eventually this sort of roller coaster you take are on where you like certain things and then there's certain things you don't like You eventually go okay You seem cool enough we can hang out and talk and makes the woman feel like she won you over. All this they say is because of hypergamy and by allowing a woman to win you over and her mind it satisfies it. It's kind of a complicated subject but basically you just don't invest all your time into one woman and try to get good at being the high value guy that she's looking for. It's weird but I think women aren't looking for a guy who is committing she wants to win a guy that's doing great with women. This is a weird idea but I think women think if a guy commits to her that she's the best he can do and she doesn't think highly of herself so she doesn't think highly of you. But have you play hard to get out at least a little bit with push pulls being honest and opinionated about the things you like and don't like plus teasing and flirting and be a cocky high value guy It's similar to I think how it used to be back then whether it's the alpha male and a big group of people or the king. The girls went the best catch and so they're all fighting for the one guy explains pre-selection if your at a bar and girls notice that girls are warm towards you than other girls will start to be warm towards you they think If they like him then I should too and the opposite is true too if you commit to a woman you give up all your options she knows you don't have options then she thinks in her head if girls don't like him then I don't think I should either must be a reason. If a girl likes you she will commit to you and she will be the one to make a relationship. I think the best thing you really can do is if she says she just wants to be friends You just have to accept it and be unreactive to it and if you really don't want to just be friends with her I would just move on there's a lot of women out there. As Todd says the power of cold approach and getting good at it it connects you to great odds of millions of girls but if you can't cold approach your odds will be small. There's a video he did on cold approach and his enthusiasm and passion for the benefits of being good at cold approach really shines It's got me thinking recently. I just went through a breakup also and it's been over 6 years slowly declining till she ghosted me. So I know what you're going through You invest so much and she just sort of pulls away. It's weird but being conscious of how much she's investing is really important for your sanity You just don't want to invest more than a girl does for your own good because if she decides to pull back it's really going to suck, But if you can get her chasing which is what everybody is talking about is what Todd's teaching how to get a girl chasing you everybody's happy. Not being needy though is the tough part I'm a big time affectionate type guy I've always been this way so a stoicism part is real challenge for me at least until I know she's hooked on me. Good luck🙏🙏
ive watched almost all of Todd's content and from 4:00 onwards is some of the smartest concise teaching ive heard him say. he just keeps getting better well done bro
Wow Todd this is awesome content! Please keep these structured methodical techniques coming! They give a great framework to apply and keep in mind during interactions when there are a hundred different details going on. Cheers mate!
Todd is a beast, not only he saved my life with The System, he is actually becoming even better to explaining such emotionial things (I didn't think it was possible!)
Todd is the only dude I listen to anymore. Once I graduate my schooling. I'm gona sign up . Not because of his cool jacket with the buckles and zippers but because of the content and skills he provides is good
From platonism to relational phenomenology in a simple model, wow 🤯; I don't know wheather it is knowingly but your content has deep philosophical implications for metaphysics.
This would be perfect with a lot more examples .. the more associations someone have that are useful in the field the better he remembers the process and the better he will be able to come up with things on the spot.
I've know Todd a few years and I always think about his game theory after the fact. Whereas I don't think about anything much when running game except logistics of closing. He told me once that is how it's supposed to go...
this formula he gave for escalating the interaction from making a statement to making a tease to making a flirt with very low risk is life changing for me because I live in a small town and every interaction feels like a risk. this is the secret i've been looking for for years
i think what a lot of guys dont realise is that game is a moving target, it evolves and you have to keep up. right now Todd is our secret weapon, what happens when every guy and their uncles knows about Todd? the game evolves. if you're advanced now you'll become intermidiate. this concept used to scare me, now it excites me. i wonder what game is gonna look like 10 years from now. bring it on
Not necessarily. Women have always been craving emotions. We were just taught wrong by our parents. Game didn’t exist back then since women were not in power - it was too easy.
If the advice "flirt more" falls short of working for you because you don't know how to flirt naturally in conversation. This video is for you. And if you want to know exactly what to do at any point in the conversation, check out: systembytodd.com
Hi Todd, today I went for my first approach (after years of watching your lessons). I was there by myself. It was okay, I was a bit out of breath, so I could not keep the tonality. I was gonna say something like "You seem interesting, but I'm not sure yet", but I ended up the sentence at the word interesting, which gives a whole different frame. Anyway, approaching is now a broken barrier.
As a +1 on what has been said, I'd say a big part of any teasing or flirting is the way you say it. I love saying horrible things on paper with good eye contact, a smile and maybe a slight laugh to defuse any possible fallout. It's basically my whole "Premise" strategy, saying "bad" things with varying degrees of sarcasm. If something shitty that I'm not cool with is said, I'll just say that it was shitty 100% honestly, if it's something I like, I'll say she's the worse and that I'm disgusted with the most obvious "Not really" smirk. Giving outright compliments always seems like supplicating to me unless you know the person and have a real relationship where she would appreciate an honest compliment. Premise in the negative. Very powerful thing.
Hi Todd. Your videos are great - packed with useful information and very to the point. I would however like to see you engage in a real conversation with a girl. Firstly showing what NOT TO DO. Then one where you not only talk the talk, but show the BODY LANGUAGE and positioning which conveys interest and flirtatiousness. Like learning to drive you cant tell somone how to do it you need to show them.
Here are some lines I have written on WE FRAME (We, You & I, You and Me, Us, Together) :- MIND YOU THESE ARE JUST LINES ON WE FRAME, YOU CAN ADD YOUR TEASE AND THEN FLIRT USING THESE! OR SOMETIMES TO REGENERATE ‘WE FRAME’ for that it can also be used! 1. That’s how we’re going to be? 2. That’s how it’s going to be between us 3. You’re definitely excited when we are together 4. You can’t turn back the time, who wants to ? We are cherishing this moment right now 5. I don’t like having bad habits but if it’s you I can surely manage 6. Every minute gets sexy as we go with the flow 7. If we ever have to decide that who’s the cooler one among us, I’ll let you be the cooler one cause it’s among us! 8. I just don’t want you to get cranky/grouchy till the time I comeback/ when we are not with each other 9. I can now assure you and me are the most crazy people of this era 10. Oh! So that easily you will let us drift away 11. We can surely turn off our brain and surrender ourselves to each other for a while 12. The world would have highest regards for us after they experience our level of joy 13. Yeah that’s exactly how we roll 14. You know what we look like? A girl and guy who looks innocent individually but devious when together 😉 15. Haha! This tells me that we’re rekindling our lives 16. I think you found your sanity in me 17. I had no clue we’re gonna meet someday 18. You’re a lil offbeat but we can work on that 19. We are going to faint if we don’t stop admiring each other 20. We are going to die if we don’t stop laughing I don’t know how good or bad are these but they can surely work if one knows how to use them (not all of them at once, in between the interaction) to regenerate i to you to we, for man-woman convo, intimacy, showing intent, not making it platonic! I hope it helps to whoever is struggling to understand or create some lines to use as I myself for a quite few days struggled with this. You can use these and slowly try to build yours. Keep gaming and keep killing it! Love, Ritwik 💙 India.
This is what i love about Todd , explaining key concepts with the minimum amount of bluff and in a short time. One day Todd ill take one of your bootcamps.
Yeah, make the convo about her then the two of you and if you're ready to step it up introduce your future children into the conversation ;). Jk, ask Todd idk lol
You could also do it in the positive.. “I’m not sure what that says about you as a person”... “Though... I get the impression we’re gonna have some fun”.. “oh you do?”.. etc..
I would definitely hope in your 'system' program that you start at the basics when it comes to flirting and build it all the way up. There are many great dating coaches who struggle with teaching.
3:55 impersonal statement, and if it’s received well, then make it a personal statement and if that’s received well, then up to the flirtation interpersonal statement like we won’t get along because you’re strange and say that in a playful teasing way. 4:30 a tease about the person, and a flirt is about the relationship
This are similar concepts i read from an eBook "the last game ben yareem". Him and you, Todd are the only two i respect and trust with game advice because it simply works. The rest is flashy marketing
Offtopic: Guys, game works. I just had a couple days ago amazing experience with one very gorgeous girl. Best day in my life. Thx Todd for everything. I will donate to you when I get a stable job in the near future, cause your free content is worth money.
I think that's first time in my life, when I've heard "tease" and "flirt" definitions, which are clear as mathematical equiations.
if you liked this clrafication then you will LOVE his super organised course The System, every term you have ever come across in pickup is neatly organised in there in a very logical structure
Todd was a Mechanical engineer before ;)
true
I wish I was good at math
@@don1041 prioritize money over game then
Todd over here dropping the formulas.
loooooooool
Facts
Crabby patty formula and shit
Todd is a priceless gem that needs to be protected at all costs
"protected" lol, like the FBI will be after him after finding this video. He's gonna empower mankind with this stuff and start an uprising against the system that's trying to cuck us all into infertile npc's
@@showspotter You mean download his consciousness into the matrix and plug that shit in the back of your head?:
@@treasurewuji8740 yes
Blue Glue I’ve began to realise that
He's a pickup artist. He is pathetic
Some men just want to watch the world learn.
Thank you, random insightful stranger.
😂🧐
Is that a joker reference😂
bill cosby Alfred
@@sednasix6608 i know thats why said reference
And some men just wanna watch the world burn
I just love how you can clearly explain and get to the point in 5min without needing 1hour to explain.
Thanks for all the free value!
lol
No you're supposed to go buy his coaching services you stinky free loader!
You've seen those rsd videos?🤦🏻♂️
Yeah it was about dam time!! Lol
@@smorrow ...
You can't imagine how to apply them, huh?
Wow girl, you have so little imagination, you must dream in black and white.
See, I'm all about imagination, girl, ... So if you can't imagine something that simple... I might have to look for other girls to chat up.
3 years later and it stands the test of time, the best advice I've been given! I used this advice the same day I watched it and it works! I'm going to share the story for those of you who care.
I did my first approach of the day, it was a nice and friendly interaction but failed to make the interaction man to woman, so when I went for the close, it was like many others finishing off with "I have a boyfriend". I have been struggling with this for the past weeks trying to make my interactions man to women, so I spent the next 15 minutes watching this video and taking notes, I laid on the grass for a quick 10 minute nap, and did my next approach on another cutie.
I opened with a comment on her outfit, she kinda rolled her eyes with a half a** laugh, the first sentences were platonic, and she even said "I'm kinda in a hurry" like f off attituted but I made myslef stay in the interaction. She then mentioned how she is from L.A., "ohh that makes sense, that explains why you're DEFINITELY not Davis" (Davis = city we were in). She was caught off guard and said, "What?! You don't think I'm Davis?", "Nope" I said in a calm a** voice 😎. "What does Davis look like?" She asked, I replied "summer dress, and taking photos in a sunflower field for instagram", "I mean yeah, but I can be that though" she said. PAUSE! That was my first interaction of cold approaching where a cute girl was qualifying herself to me!
We then were flirting back and fourth, I went for the close "lets get some coffee sometime", "maybe, it depends what kind of coffee you like though" she said smiling. "I'll just throw you a curve ball and say I like matcha lattes" I said smiling back. "Oh yeah I bet you like matcha since all the b*tch*s like it😏" she said snarkly. I was laughing out loud, that sh*t was funny😂. We exchanged instagrams (should have asked for the number) and we parted ways because she was kinda in a rush. I have yet to contact her.
Even though I didn't get an insta date, or kiss her, or sleep with her. I still learned so much from that interaction, because all the other ones I did were not as nearly as good as that. I left the interacion with a paradigm shift. Thank you Todd! This was very helpful and inspiring!
Great story bro!
Now let me learn
my man, smooth af.
Way to go, brother!
Good for you. But I don't understand where was the flirting?
Great stuff dude 💪🏿
Honestly this is the best flirting advice I’ve ever seen. Usually other people say crap like be confident which is useless in real life situations, but this literally tells you exactly how to do it. I was talking to one of my friends that’s a girl that I wasn’t exactly interested in, but I tried it anyway and it worked perfectly. She said that frozen was her favorite Disney movie and I disagreed with her and said I wasn’t sure if I could keep talking to someone who liked frozen more than Lion King. It went over really well and she flirted back. Todd your a god.
Todd is the kind of guy who can teach you to flirt with less than 150 characters
Todd just dropped more info in 5 minutes than a 50 minute RSD video
Ikr. They waste so much of our time.
Spelling out the difference between "tease" and "flirt" in a way that shows how they can effectively be applied is so helpful because it reasserts the fundamental understanding of both. Thank you for clarifying the fundamentals Todd.
Best video on flirting I've ever seen, period.
It's honestly mind-blowing at how simple he's been able to make this. In fact, I don't think anyone previously has ever been able to express this in anywhere near this clarity in such a succinct way. Not trying to sound overly dramatic, but It's actually ground breaking now that I think about it.
It's just the fact that he made me understand it in 3 simple steps and there are other dating coaches out here making it seem like I need to read an ebook or some shit just to make a conversation fun
I've been watching Todd's videos for the past 3 weeks and this free content has literally changed the way I think. Todd is a genius, and I'll be getting The System tomorrow.
Do it.
Glad you found it, it's exceptional. How did you actually stumble upon this content?
Please keep us posted and let me know more about the System. I am curious.
@@hugo3796 I knew about Todd since 2015 when I had discovered RSD. I used to never watch his videos back then because I saw a couple and they just didn't click with me. I was also in too much awe with Tyler's 2011-2015 videos that I started to watch so I just didn't care to watch anyone else from RSD. I kind of stopped watching RSD around early 2016. Then in 2017 when I had heard Todd was leaving I checked out what was going on. I knew he had started a new channel, I saw his first video, but I just never came back to the channel again. Until 3 weeks ago, I was recommended one of his videos, and I was blown away at the quality. I also saw how he had 150k subs which is freaking mind blowing for a pickup channel on UA-cam. After that first video I just couldn't stop myself. I was amazed with how Todd explains things. I had seen him in a completely new light, and my perspective had completely changed about him. And then 2 weeks ago, I finally went out to Daygame for the first time in around 2 years. I'm 19 btw, turning 20 in 6 days, so for the past 4 years I went thru periods in highschool of trying to pickup girls, but I never gave it as much effort as I'm about to give it now. I am fucking ready to get results, and Todd's videos have changed the way I understand attraction all together. The End.
Totally worth it.
🤔 🤔 🤔 🤔 🤔
That articulates something I always knew was an interpersonal issue of mine. I focus on ideas, not people. It's very hard for people to feel connected to me, even though they like me a lot. I don't make many statements that personal, I just analyze the abstract, completely leaving out the human being.
Good talk 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥
Yeah, and you always get stuck in the friend zone. Next time, just to keep a mental image of her vagina in your head lol or whatever image will keep you focused on the task at hand and the words should follow the course. I'm similar as I would prefer to talk about interesting non sexual subjects but I think women generally want to be thought of as sex symbols to certain degree so you might have to tweak your more usually civilized mind
That s typical for guys. Most of us are logical beings. You might want to focus on learning emotional because that's where women live.
I took a screenshot of your comment becuz everything you said just explained my way of communication. I have to work on it. Peace
@@juntjoonunya9216 I chose the words in my comment very carefully, because I was not exclusively talking about game and trying to pick up women. Like many of Todd's videos points out it's not just about trying to get laid, it's about getting better at life. It's a lifestyle shift. If you wanna get laid just pay somebody lol.
I don't get stuck in friend zones anymore, mainly because I stopped believing in that. I go after who I want and when the attraction is mutual we get together. I said people have a hard time connecting with me
So I appreciate your advice, but it's not for my specific situation. Women feel like sexually attractive beings around me, the issue is they're not always sure I'm made out of flesh, blood, and emotions all of the time. Romantic women and everyone else. That's what I need to work on
@@AlekNik1994 Acknowledgement is the first step. Peace
I mean, it’s good info but the email said the video was only 5 minutes... it’s clearly 5 minutes and 11 seconds.
You’re just a little bit deceitful.
I’m not sure how we can continue to trust each other.
That's so wierd that you tried to flirt with him using his own techniques. I'm not sure if we could get along...
brilliant😂 😂
"a little on the cheesy side. I just hope you won't do some cheesy romantic dinner next time we go out, otherwise this [points at own body] is off the table"
😂
Damn. Fast learner
Lmao
Wow, this just might be the single most useful flirting advice I've ever seen.
This is gold. The entire bootcamp made complete sense and smacked me in the face after this video 🔥🔥🔥
Bootcamp?
This is why I like your content. You don't have 60+ minutes video about something that can be condensed to 5 minutes. Thanks Todd!
Dude this guy’s a beast! I’ve read and watched countless things on flirting and all that without much success but a few days ago I did exactly what Todd said when a girl told me she liked Frozen and it worked perfectly. We flirted a little and I could tell she was into it, and she even texted me about it a few days later. Only respect for this man ✊
First time in my life someone gave a clear definition.
Instructions unclear, girl now in my basement screaming...
XD
gg
Sounds like it was a success!
you are doing great then!
Cuz you kidnapped her
IMPERSONAL: This video is awesome
PERSONAL: what you did is amazing
INTERPERSONAL: I thought you were deadly boring until now
Nice inciteful comment. Not sure you how long you can keep this up for though. Maybe you can surprise me...
@@ScorpionSuerte and that was a flirt. Good job!
Chill bro 😂
I matched with this girl on Hinge during the pandemic in Britain. We’ve been talking a month, I wanted to get her out quickly, but I was patient and waited until she was comfortable. So we began using voice notes and had a phone call and we agreed to meet last weekend.
Bearing in mind that she didn’t stop laughing on the phone or when we’ve been texting, we have also been flirting and teasing each other, making the interactions fun. So, we finally met, I took the train and she met me at the station in her car. Immediately I went for the physical so I said “come on let’s have a hug”.
We went for a good walk where we talked about life in general and I teased her a lot e.g. she knew the area, but one of the paths was incredibly muddy so I said “if it’s really bad I know who to blame”. She didn’t stop laughing at the things I was saying.
We went to the store to buy ingredients to cook that night and even that was fun. I made sure I led the way, taking the basket etc. We went back to hers where I cooked a spaghetti Bolognese and where we teased each other and it just genuinely felt like we knew each other already.
I went for the kiss, rubbed her nose before and gave her a quick kiss but she seemed shocked and went red so I pulled back. We ate dinner where she found out I liked country and she seemed really into it plus she didn’t stop asking me questions, had a game of scrabble where the banter was flying about how bad the other’s words were. We were making references about future plans. She said something like “well next time I’ll use my dictionary”. Anyway, I kept putting my leg on hers, initiating touch.
She took me to the station and before I left, we shared a few kisses where both of us leaned in. She even touched my chest saying “you’re really warm”. I thought bingo. Got home, sent her a jokey message about her car because she’s got her own personalized number plate and then I said “I enjoyed myself today, especially winning at Scrabble with a gooseberry gin” to which she replied “Gooseberry gin was good, Scrabble hmmm…Company wasn’t bad though” with a smiley, cheeks blushing emoji.
I replied “10/10 choice by me getting the gooseberry, bet you were sole destroyed at losing”. She’s a shoemaker so I always shoe puns with her to tease. But, she hasn’t replied. She did say she was meeting her friends the day after, but she read my message at 8:30am and was online for most of the day and I didn't get a reply. I truly thought I did everything right. Until, she texts me later that night saying "we should be friends". I've literally worked for a year to try and stop this happening and I've just come full f***g circle.
I find myself teasing and flirting too much. Sometimes i find myself joking allot so i pull back. When i lay back then the girls start to chase me. Probably thinkng that i lost interest in them so they tryna improve upon that. So when she invest back, i use that to escalate and go on the intimate stuff :)
Lol “she’s a shoemaker”, just found that funny
You didn’t escalate properly. You should have started making compliments once she likes you and sexualise things while flirting, especially in her place whilst you were cooking and eating. She was taken aback by your kiss attempt because you didn’t escalate properly before you went for it.
Always show less interest than she is showing you …
Ug yeah I know this. Some say showing signs of neediness causes this. Causing her to be less invested women enjoy a chase and letting her earn you that's the art. That why todd always talks about not giving your power away by tell her how much you like her You do these push-poles so it's like you're interested but she's not quite sure and that's like the expert level and eventually this sort of roller coaster you take are on where you like certain things and then there's certain things you don't like You eventually go okay You seem cool enough we can hang out and talk and makes the woman feel like she won you over. All this they say is because of hypergamy and by allowing a woman to win you over and her mind it satisfies it. It's kind of a complicated subject but basically you just don't invest all your time into one woman and try to get good at being the high value guy that she's looking for. It's weird but I think women aren't looking for a guy who is committing she wants to win a guy that's doing great with women. This is a weird idea but I think women think if a guy commits to her that she's the best he can do and she doesn't think highly of herself so she doesn't think highly of you. But have you play hard to get out at least a little bit with push pulls being honest and opinionated about the things you like and don't like plus teasing and flirting and be a cocky high value guy It's similar to I think how it used to be back then whether it's the alpha male and a big group of people or the king. The girls went the best catch and so they're all fighting for the one guy explains pre-selection if your at a bar and girls notice that girls are warm towards you than other girls will start to be warm towards you they think If they like him then I should too and the opposite is true too if you commit to a woman you give up all your options she knows you don't have options then she thinks in her head if girls don't like him then I don't think I should either must be a reason. If a girl likes you she will commit to you and she will be the one to make a relationship. I think the best thing you really can do is if she says she just wants to be friends You just have to accept it and be unreactive to it and if you really don't want to just be friends with her I would just move on there's a lot of women out there. As Todd says the power of cold approach and getting good at it it connects you to great odds of millions of girls but if you can't cold approach your odds will be small. There's a video he did on cold approach and his enthusiasm and passion for the benefits of being good at cold approach really shines It's got me thinking recently. I just went through a breakup also and it's been over 6 years slowly declining till she ghosted me. So I know what you're going through You invest so much and she just sort of pulls away. It's weird but being conscious of how much she's investing is really important for your sanity You just don't want to invest more than a girl does for your own good because if she decides to pull back it's really going to suck, But if you can get her chasing which is what everybody is talking about is what Todd's teaching how to get a girl chasing you everybody's happy. Not being needy though is the tough part I'm a big time affectionate type guy I've always been this way so a stoicism part is real challenge for me at least until I know she's hooked on me. Good luck🙏🙏
Todd, I just can't thank you enough for a simple yet short video compared to some other PUAs that give you 30 mins of exaggerated content.
how to flirt: talk about 9/11 and moon landing conspiracy theories
ive watched almost all of Todd's content and from 4:00 onwards is some of the smartest concise teaching ive heard him say. he just keeps getting better well done bro
Wow Todd this is awesome content! Please keep these structured methodical techniques coming! They give a great framework to apply and keep in mind during interactions when there are a hundred different details going on. Cheers mate!
Todd deserves more attention and support from more people, he’s just absolutely amazing. It’s like his work is intended to be annoyingly amazing
WOW! That is INSANE. I can’t believe no one has ever explained it like that before! That is game changing, I totally understand it, thank you so much!
I'm really enjoying how good you are at making comments. You have kind of a bland name, so didn't expect that much from you at first
Todd is a beast, not only he saved my life with The System, he is actually becoming even better to explaining such emotionial things (I didn't think it was possible!)
the way you break down such complexity into easy steps is just pure genius and elegance todd
This sounds extremely easy to do and you explained it very clear.
I'm definitely going to try this.
Todd is the only dude I listen to anymore. Once I graduate my schooling. I'm gona sign up . Not because of his cool jacket with the buckles and zippers but because of the content and skills he provides is good
What I love about his videos is that they're short and direct. No bullshit.
i thought in very different way about teasing and flirting. now it's like a math. you're genius.
From platonism to relational phenomenology in a simple model, wow 🤯; I don't know wheather it is knowingly but your content has deep philosophical implications for metaphysics.
OH MY GOD!
Please protect this channel !!!
I’ve been away too long, Todd’s advice is paramount, so simple, so effective, it makes game FUN
This would be perfect with a lot more examples .. the more associations someone have that are useful in the field the better he remembers the process and the better he will be able to come up with things on the spot.
You seem on the same level as me with this comment. I could imagine us being great friends if you continue to be this inciteful
Wow. I had my doubts when i saw that this video was only 5 minutes long, but damn! This has completely changed how I go about flirting
Have you already integrated this idea into your being? Damn you are quick!
I'm literally stunned at the clarity in such a simple concept.. it's actually astounding.
@@Phoenix-Brah hell yeah I have! Still needs some practice but im a 100x better at it now than I was before
@@Phoenix-Brah I'm going to implement this
😭
I've know Todd a few years and I always think about his game theory after the fact. Whereas I don't think about anything much when running game except logistics of closing. He told me once that is how it's supposed to go...
this formula he gave for escalating the interaction from making a statement to making a tease to making a flirt with very low risk is life changing for me because I live in a small town and every interaction feels like a risk. this is the secret i've been looking for for years
Leave it to Todd the pickup engineer to provide viewers with a flirting algorithm. Great content!
Ridiculously underrated channel. Thanks Todd.
Open, (Premise), Generic statement, Tease, (Evaluate), Flirt, Logistics, Close &/ Pull
narrative before close
Thanks, I am even closer that I thought now
This was the best video I've seen on all dating related clips on UA-cam and it's also the shortest (!) So mathematical
i think what a lot of guys dont realise is that game is a moving target, it evolves and you have to keep up. right now Todd is our secret weapon, what happens when every guy and their uncles knows about Todd? the game evolves. if you're advanced now you'll become intermidiate. this concept used to scare me, now it excites me. i wonder what game is gonna look like 10 years from now. bring it on
Not necessarily. Women have always been craving emotions. We were just taught wrong by our parents. Game didn’t exist back then since women were not in power - it was too easy.
This was great . A clarification that I certainly needed. I also learned about the opening and closing of loops from you. Been practicing that. 👍👍👌
If the advice "flirt more" falls short of working for you because you don't know how to flirt naturally in conversation. This video is for you. And if you want to know exactly what to do at any point in the conversation, check out: systembytodd.com
Hi Todd, today I went for my first approach (after years of watching your lessons). I was there by myself. It was okay, I was a bit out of breath, so I could not keep the tonality. I was gonna say something like "You seem interesting, but I'm not sure yet", but I ended up the sentence at the word interesting, which gives a whole different frame. Anyway, approaching is now a broken barrier.
Todd is the best period.
Yes! This is exactly how you teach something as complex like game.
I really like that his examples are NOT compliments, but mild “negs” 👌🏻
Man I am a mathematician and I need definitions. This is extremely useful. Thank you.
Amazing! Todd, you make things so clear and simple. You're a great teacher!
As a +1 on what has been said, I'd say a big part of any teasing or flirting is the way you say it. I love saying horrible things on paper with good eye contact, a smile and maybe a slight laugh to defuse any possible fallout.
It's basically my whole "Premise" strategy, saying "bad" things with varying degrees of sarcasm. If something shitty that I'm not cool with is said, I'll just say that it was shitty 100% honestly, if it's something I like, I'll say she's the worse and that I'm disgusted with the most obvious "Not really" smirk. Giving outright compliments always seems like supplicating to me unless you know the person and have a real relationship where she would appreciate an honest compliment. Premise in the negative. Very powerful thing.
Ngl. I was getting to the point where I was giving up on life. Your vids give me hope
Outstanding video!! Super clear, and super helpful. Easy to put into practice right away!!!
How have 29 people given this the thumbs down?
This is a major breakthrough in my understanding. 👍
5 mins of changing my game completely. Thanks todd!
A genuine gem!
Todd you're a genuine gem for this type of content!
Todd you're a genuine gem and could use this if..you let me.
Great, loving this channel. I'm struggling with the whole flirting thing but it is making more sense now.
Hi Todd. Your videos are great - packed with useful information and very to the point.
I would however like to see you engage in a real conversation with a girl. Firstly showing what NOT TO DO. Then one where you not only talk the talk, but show the BODY LANGUAGE and positioning which conveys interest and flirtatiousness.
Like learning to drive you cant tell somone how to do it you need to show them.
He has a lot of infields of his definitions, check in youtube,
Here are some lines I have written on WE FRAME (We, You & I, You and Me, Us, Together) :-
MIND YOU THESE ARE JUST LINES ON WE FRAME, YOU CAN ADD YOUR TEASE AND THEN FLIRT USING THESE!
OR SOMETIMES TO REGENERATE ‘WE FRAME’ for that it can also be used!
1. That’s how we’re going to be?
2. That’s how it’s going to be between us
3. You’re definitely excited when we are together
4. You can’t turn back the time, who wants to ? We are cherishing this moment right now
5. I don’t like having bad habits but if it’s you I can surely manage
6. Every minute gets sexy as we go with the flow
7. If we ever have to decide that who’s the cooler one among us, I’ll let you be the cooler one cause it’s among us!
8. I just don’t want you to get cranky/grouchy till the time I comeback/ when we are not with each other
9. I can now assure you and me are the most crazy people of this era
10. Oh! So that easily you will let us drift away
11. We can surely turn off our brain and surrender ourselves to each other for a while
12. The world would have highest regards for us after they experience our level of joy
13. Yeah that’s exactly how we roll
14. You know what we look like? A girl and guy who looks innocent individually but devious when together 😉
15. Haha! This tells me that we’re rekindling our lives
16. I think you found your sanity in me
17. I had no clue we’re gonna meet someday
18. You’re a lil offbeat but we can work on that
19. We are going to faint if we don’t stop admiring each other
20. We are going to die if we don’t stop laughing
I don’t know how good or bad are these but they can surely work if one knows how to use them (not all of them at once, in between the interaction) to regenerate i to you to we, for man-woman convo, intimacy, showing intent, not making it platonic!
I hope it helps to whoever is struggling to understand or create some lines to use as I myself for a quite few days struggled with this. You can use these and slowly try to build yours.
Keep gaming and keep killing it!
Love, Ritwik 💙
India.
Absolute Gold. And well said. Thank you for your contribution to society.
This is what i love about Todd , explaining key concepts with the minimum amount of bluff and in a short time. One day Todd ill take one of your bootcamps.
Finally a clear explanation for us extremely logical males that has clear implementable steps and definitions this is what us guys need.
Did you have external Light Set up in this video? Gorgeous shot :)
I should name you SUPER TODD
I love your hardwork
Made my life simpler and fun
I like the way he explains all. It's a rational argumentation.
👍👍👍
Soo.. making judgements about her (good/bad) is a tease, making judgements about the relationship between you two is a flirt ?
Jarno yes.
More or less
Yeah, make the convo about her then the two of you and if you're ready to step it up introduce your future children into the conversation ;). Jk, ask Todd idk lol
It makes sense that when you say teasing, you are pertaining to the other person like when you tease someone else or a dog..
You understand this. If you had been a woman, you'd be very intelligent and we would be dating.
(See? I applied Todd's formula!)
This is incredible. Thank you thank you thank you Todd for making these formerly esoteric and ambiguous topics make sense to the logical mind.
Dude this was really well explained, never seen anything like this thank you!
The art of easing women into receiving our love ❤️
No bullshit, straight to the point. Todd is the GOAT.
You could also do it in the positive.. “I’m not sure what that says about you as a person”... “Though... I get the impression we’re gonna have some fun”..
“oh you do?”.. etc..
Giving this another run. Gotta get back to where I once was.
What an eye opener! Blew my mind. Some things just are simple, however hard to master. Thx!
Short, sharp, to the point and super-bloody helpful! Awesome stuff Todd, thanks, that's gold. 👍
I would definitely hope in your 'system' program that you start at the basics when it comes to flirting and build it all the way up. There are many great dating coaches who struggle with teaching.
holy shit, so clear. this is gold right here.
I agree brother
3:55 impersonal statement, and if it’s received well, then make it a personal statement and if that’s received well, then up to the flirtation interpersonal statement like we won’t get along because you’re strange and say that in a playful teasing way. 4:30 a tease about the person, and a flirt is about the relationship
Give this guy a medal.
Spectacular information. Embarrassed to say I'm 40 and never understood this. Better late than never, right?
You always have the best music.
I have been waiting for some videos like this. Thanks Todd!!
This are similar concepts i read from an eBook "the last game ben yareem". Him and you, Todd are the only two i respect and trust with game advice because it simply works. The rest is flashy marketing
Brilliant presentation todd!
This makes things so much easier.
Todd V, turning picking into an exact science since the early 2000s
I love Todd's little jumps while he speaks. Not sure why´, but makes the intro more dynamic. Curious how that works.
Are you fukn kidding me? This has got to be the best and simplest explanation I've seen. I'm burning this into my experience thank you sir
I watched this 9 times . Where was this info all my life ?!
so many days lost because I didn't knew this. I'm putting this into practice tonight
Start with topic which is indicated by “a” or “your/my” or “this or that” (1) to you (2) to you to me (3) to we to them (4)
Give this man a noble prize already
This dude is an absolute calculated beast
That was a good one thanks💪
Absolutely brilliant! Other coaches dont teach this!
Offtopic: Guys, game works. I just had a couple days ago amazing experience with one very gorgeous girl. Best day in my life. Thx Todd for everything. I will donate to you when I get a stable job in the near future, cause your free content is worth money.
Great example of flirting and being quick witted. Craig Ferguson show. Must watch