Estranged and Distressed
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- The plaintiff is still legally married to the defendant, but she says she left him 20 years ago. The plaintiff alleges the defendant is addicted to crack, cheated on her throughout their marriage, and assaulted her, so she's suing for emotional distress. The defendant argues the plaintiff is the abusive one.
OMG the defendatn changed so much between the first and second case
I know 😢 he needs help.
I know goodness...he looks like a completely different person the devil has a hold on him I hope and pray he gets delivered ❤
Sweaaaar it wasn’t believable until the second case
Yikes
It's so sad😢
The defendant lied about his crack addiction in the first case, but his addiction is obvious in the second case. He looks bad.
Yes he does.
He's really gone down from being there with his wife 😮😮
Yeah she said the Dr. said he lost 10lbs. Looks like he lost more than 10 based on his appearance on the first case. But I guess that a slightly oversized suit can hide things too. That shirt he wore the 2nd time told it all. I hope he gets the help and healing he needs. It’s deeper than his drug of choice.
@@ChangedUpNowWhat Yep, and we don't know when the Dr. told her that. Could've been 9 months before the court appearance.
Sure do thats sad
I’m sorry but the philanthropist sent me!! 🤣🤣 ☠️
Hey the man gives a lot of his money 😅
I know this family personally. It's so hard to see a loved one in denial. He told me that he doesn't have a problem....but he definitely does, and like judge M always says: then keep smoking until you hit bottom. Please keep this family in prayer that he stops before running across fentanal.
OMG! Fentanyl!!!😢
No
So did he get clean? He doesn’t look like it in the update tbh, but you never know. I hope he is.
@@Burlykim13 Sadly, no, not yet, but the family is still praying for him. Thanks 4 asking
@@tarae5380thank you for the update. I will keep him in prayer.
Damn she said she raised her kids “ independently, on her own.......with the help of her mom and GMA “ lol
I saw that. She would’ve been better off saying he wasn’t present while raising the children.
She has a hard time with the English language, it’s obvious.
Also mentioned how she was about to lose her home after he went to jail smh 🤦🏾♂️ but he was a deadbeat
Please not another up north drug addict coming down to Ga. Too many of them have come here already.
@@KesnetPetitmat-nz2ggthis is the comment. He wasn’t around BUT almost went homeless when he went to jail. Make it make sense
I’m glad Richard got himself together and finally went to rehab. I hope he keeps himself on the right track.
Sadly. He's not. He relapsed. Plz pray for him.
@@tarae5380how do you know this?he reminds me alot about my uncle,good person just has a habit that he can't win no matter how much he tries he just goes back to it.
Relapse is part of recovery but he is doing well now.
The wife knew she didn’t have a case. She was desperate for help with her husband.
That part. Checkmate
He aged 20 years. He looks 75.
Imagine how angry you have to be when you suing someone 20 years later
Seems like whatever happened that caused the sons to change locks was a trigger.
@@max8038 but he still there. At least one foot is.
@@max8038and you believe that as fact based on what? This clearly very biases and bothered woman's word? The son's she is trying to speak for are adults, did not show as witnesses and provided no witness statements attesting to what she is alleging.
Agree, the Plaintiff has a **Vindictive** spirit. She needs to Pray and Beg God to help her RELEASE the resentment she has against her husband.
She thought she did something with that little opening line. 🙄 Trying to degrade this man & can’t even articulate herself well? Embarrassing. Goodbye miss. 😒
He embarrassed himself
Facts she did, instead of trying to embarrass him help him he was so respectful to her smh!
😂😂😂
@@1GHOSTWRITERyeah. The 1st thing I want to do help a person who beats me and won't help raise our children.
He smoked his life away. He looks like a totally different person.
The defendant change so much between the two cases! So glad he is working on his recovery .
She bitter AF. She suing him for what happened in 1987 😳 She tried to embarrass him but ended up embarrassing herself. I believe him that she was a bad wife just from her demeanor. She say she left him in 96 and he started crack in 2007 she is a liar that it ruined the marriage. Seems like she don't like the grown kids having to do anything with him instead of following her lead.
I never get the true meaning of bitterness as you and others describe it. What do you think this man could have contributed to their marriage or the raising of their children that was beneficial? What did he say he contributed? How did he describe his spousal and fatherhood behaviors? Perhaps, she doesn't like the idea of him living off of his children. As someone who works in the mental health/substance abuse field,
I am very empathic toward addicts/recovering addicts, but they wreak a lot of havoc on their families during their active addiction and often slow and long recovery periods. Just from my experience, I have some ideas about what he was doing during the years that she thought he wasn't engaging in addictive behaviors. I think a better perspective is a family and society perspective rather male/female fault-finding battles.
Oh, and I agree the ex-wife's case didn't hold weight.
She DID just want that pension
Right... I was born in 87 mam that was 36yrs ago
She got beat in her own game.
1996* is when they were last together
I love how they combine the court cases AND give an update but I think my mans still on crack 😩
That man higher than a local crackhead
I see no doubt about that.
Hey just because he has powder on nose, doesn't mean he's an addict
The update looked promising he claimed he learned things he didn't learn before in his 30 day program so im convinced he is at least trying.
Think?
Wow i didnt even recognize him drugs is killing him smh
Richard. You are smart and likable. I know you are an even greater guy sober. Rooting for you. I have seen too many of my people ill , locked up or dead from crack.
Omg just seeing how his looks changed from the first case to the second is sad 😩😩
Because those are two different people
"Yea, they got plenty crack down there" JM play too much 😂🤣🤣🤣
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Omg 😳 Imagine the embarrassment of using the wrong word & hearing people laugh at you on national television
I’m sure she’s used to it. She seems like a pos
Imagine the embarrassment of taking your family thru h3ll for being a crack addict for over 30 years🥴
@@Arvndenise you make a HUGE point also
@@Arvndenise 😳 😳 so true
That was a big misuse of the word 😂😂😂
Damn!!! 😮Life is just rotting away!
😂 that will be you in a few years.
Good morning beautiful 😍😍😍
I was just as confused with his living arrangements as JM was 😂
Hell!! I was confused too!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
He looked good! So happy he is trying. Keep up the good work! 🙌🏾🙏🏾
@missmona9731 Are you being funny when you say "he looks good" and "keep up the good work"? The man has been on crack for over 20 years. What is the good work? And he looks like a dried up raisin...from years of smoking.
I am too
Time 😂
Dayum! He looks like hes 70 omg 😮
Is he supposed to be 35 years 😮
@leejoseph8745 No but U look 80
She's bitter because his kids have a relationship with him. Why not leave that man alone. He's not bothering you and you use him when you want.
Watch the entire thing. Her bitterness is justified. Crack is wack.
@@nettricegaskins1871 i watched the whole thing and her unhappiness is the fact that he lives with the kids. How was it that she used him when needed but thought that of him what she said on court
Oops! Found the deadbeat! Right here yall!
Thank you!!!!!!!!!
30 min episode? Oh this finna be goooood
When she said “numerous of times” I just knew she wouldn’t attempt any more “big words”…then hit us with “philanthropist”…the decline of the mind is becoming more and more evident these days in how folks communicate with one another..🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🥲…geesh!
I think she wanted to impress the JM to appear intelligent.
It's not a decline of the mind if the mind never learned it to begin with.
🤣 Waittt! But I knew what was coming when she said they were married “1989 OF MARCH” 😤
Pissed me ALL the way OFF 🤣😭😩
Judge Mathis make me mad when he be like he confused like what don’t you get it’s common sense
I’m sorry when it started she was VERY. Saying “he was there but no there, one foot in and one foot out “ is not clear AT ALL
Ok! Especially at the beginning. Gets on my nerves.
She wasn't making sense though. Is he in or out?
Mathias has always been a clown and could never take him serious.
That's a hard looking 55 man!
I am with the defendant ‘why am i here’? Plaintiff doing too much and your kids will see this episode. Just let him go and free yourself.
Wow he changed so much
He said that, “his scooter was CRACKED up”…. 🤣 🤦🏾
He’s 55 and looks 79
He looked ok to me
Oh my.. drugs is a real life shapeshifter 😢😢. I want the defendant to get well soon. This is tragic. JM is correct ppl have to change on their own. ❤.
This show can definitely help you mature
Happy Blessed Monday
“I’m here to take Mr. Berry to church”… Forgive me if I’m missing something, this a courtroom? 😂
This is so pitiful and her eyes blinking!!!!!! She’s telling a few lies yes verbally abusive and what if he called her Obese and to old to shave her head on the side🤷🏿♂️and she doesn’t look as young as she thinks, he really fell off in the second case
Like They Told My Mother When I Was Him
Get A Insurance Policy Cause It’s Obvious He’s Not Gonna Be Around To Much Longer If He Keeps Smoking That Stuff Period
He said and family matters with the side eye lmaoooo
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Just loud and wrong!! "He's a philanthropist".. Lol.JM: " Philanderer "....😂😂😂😂😂
Happy MLK Day, I'm here
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I really hope and pray he is getting his life on track. Praying for him and his family.
I’m confident the wife knew she didn’t have a case she was there like the sister in the second case for him to get help !
It's great to see that the defendant turned around his life after his 30 day stint in rehab for his crack addiction.
We have no idea if he actually turned his life around. That video could've been filmed during his first week outta rehab and his sobriety could've lasted only a week. Or perhaps his sobriety lasted the rest of his life. We don't know and can't assume.
It didn't last. Don't be naive
It's a start and hopefully catches this time forever. But it's a good start! Day by day with focus and purpose I guess .
No. He relapsed. That's my cuzzin. Plz pray for him.
"How long what"???😂😂😂😂
This woman needs to finish her drama school studies, "okAy?" 🤣
That part. Checkmate
wow what a difference 😮
" 1989 of March" 😅😅😅
😂😂
Wife shoulda known she had no case..and was confused on the living arrangements, her sons were telling her what she wanted to hear..They put the sad music on and scared me for a second , glad he doing better
She just wanted to appear on the for the fee you get for appearing. In hopes of maybe getting an actual judgement to win more. Shame in her. I know that's not actually her real way of talking. Trying to be so proper messing up the English language. Made a fool of herself. 😊
🤣🤣🤣@@andreabutts8697
She really did just want that pension only
@andreabutts8697 🤣🤣 right judge mathis gone call you out for wrong words
@@TopherGrant exactly
He is hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂
She really thinks her story is interesting 😂and he really seems like a joke…..only it ain’t funny 😢
The wife got her 15 minutes of fame. She had crackish ways too, she doesn't know what she was there for.
How you gone try to make somebody look bad and then don’t know the difference between two words?! 🤣
As someone who has dealt with severe depression and suicidal thoughts since I was a teenager, the speeches about saving myself and not dying hold 0 weight.
Death isn't scary for me. I won't ever kill myself, but I will certainly embrace death like an old friend. No more pain, no more trauma, no more crippling anxiety, no more sleeping for 24 hours straight. Life is just a series of sad events and troubles. Personally, I'll be relieved to be done with it.
@bhornannawindeedeigh5007 awww thank you. It means alot to just have someone say they understand without trying to solve the problem.
@@TopherGrant 🤗🥰💞
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Totally understand!!
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He aged poorly over 2 years wow. 😮
It was 7 years
ahhh the plaintiff said "a couple years" but anywho he still aged horribly. He looks 20
years older
He appears to have mental health or social issues… I’m almost sorry for his current state 😢
She knew darn well she wasnt getting nothing. I didnt even know what she was suing for, for a while. she just wanted to tell his business lol then eyes popped a little when he said she was the one who cheated. I really wish people stop trying to get money for being cheated on in general or having to pickup whatever slack and take care of their kids. I would have been petty honestly for wasting my time and counter sued for emotional distress. I cheated and you cheated we still married so we both emotionally stressed. I just dont see why she has any sorts of contact with this man after being separated all those years and adult kids in which he lives with. Outside of getting that divorce finalized some way she shouldnt have to even look at him on a day to day really or am i missing something
She is on to collect that appearance fee check.
Yes, you are…..because she asked him to moved her to another state two years ago…prior to her suing him in court. If that is not using someone you supposedly find gross, disgusting and a crackhead …make it make sense. #smh 😱✌🏽❤️⭐️🙏🏽🙏🏼
Her:"You look like you can be my daddy"
Me: *🧢
he can't call her a bad wife (an opinion) without backing it up but she can call him a crackhead with no proof lolol
Well he was a crackhead lmao so
It's a female ..Mathis allows that 🤷🏾♂️
There is proof
Did you not watch the entire thing? Proof is proofing.
@@nettricegaskins1871 yes, the second case he admitted he had a drug problem, no where in the first case did he EVER admit to that
He said, "I helped you move TWO years ago! Don't you remember that?!" Sir, YOU don't even remember that two years ago 🤦🏽♀️😂
On the real tho, the defendant looks like hell. He's much skinnier and his face is sunkin. That's unfortunate
JM said, "did you win the first time? You ain't getting no more CRACK MONEY!!" 😂😂😂
Ex said he was deteriorating. He must have looked real strong and meaty when they first got together.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
A great mother but a bad wife.😢
Prayer for the family
YOU ARE A HERO JUDGE GREG MATHIS
It’s only been a couple years Jesus Christ
I knew his a** was getting high, he was high that day!!💔🤦🏿♀️he looks bad
Yesss he so healthy at the end
Yeah he needs help but what Judge does to them is not necessary. He is being a ignorant bully. A person will only change if they want to. Somebody else shaming them won't work until they become ashamed of themselves. Nobody can shame his son into being straight because its not what he wants. He excuses what he does because its his son. You can help a person without all that 🙄
Agreed. However, JM provides more help to addicts, etc. than the average person. Often working with addicts calls for some humor. They often recognize where its coming from and when it's coming from a good place.
Sometimes it works
JM went off on the guy for calling her a bad wife but didn't have that same energy when she called him a crackhead.
One is fact and one is opinion.
Because she had proof of his addiction. He had no way to prove she was a bad wife
Wasn't a fact in the first case which I'm reffering too.@@TopherGrant
@@ShayMiW first case what was her proof
@@josephwray5834 ummm, crackhead is a fact. A person smokes crack.
A bad wife, is an opinion of how the wife is. It cannot be a fact.
THIS CASE DRAGGED TOO LONG
2 different cases in the video
Judge Mathis face when she called him out for looking “like a raisin in the sun” 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She said “you’re still a crackhead … good day “
😂😂😂😂😂
💥 THIS woman is a classic case of what happens to your speech & pronunciation when you're trying to be proper, saditty, AND tell lies ALL @ the same time! 😅
Ain’t no way that’s the same man!!! 😳
Right
It's not these are two different episodes
It is the same man
It is the same man
It is the same man
They remind of the Jeffersons George and Wessy
“What about this crack?!” 😂 judge Mathis got straight to the point
Let's see; She either drugged her brother to court or she dragged him to court? Two different definitions.
It's important to make sure you have the whole armor of God because you don't know when you can be manipulated or tempted by the devil.👿
Amen!!
It's important to worship Jehovah God through His Son, Christ Jesus in complete truth uncontaminated by false doctrines. Since this world is controlled by Satan the devil. .
Lol the armor of God? Why are there still murders and child killings. The armor isn't real. He can't shield you from the crackheads and violent neighbors. People getting killed and r*ped all over the world ALL the time. Why does God only choose to bless those rich folk? He was supposed to help the poor. The downtrodden. The addicts.
There are more of these people than ever before.
Face it, we killed God a long time ago.
Welcome to Hell.
Not him doing doordash on crack cocaine lol I guess at least he was making money though
He never mentioned how long he had been sober nor, what he was doing now, he simply said that it was a great experience....signs that he went back to smoking..
He actually looks younger 🤷🏾
She came on to try and embarrass him and it backfired on her in that first case. Second case okay so he's so strung out as they say. Yet he immediately went and helped their dad when he became ill. 🤔
Dead @ "numerously times" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is Embarrassing on so many levels 🤦♂️🤬🤬
Crack addiction destroyed so many families. So sad....😮
The plaintiff made herself look like a fool.
That part
It’s fun by how she said he was we a dead beat, but she when he went to jail she almost lost everything lol 😂
My momma said " Do NOT go around using words if you don't know what the mean 😡!! 😂😅😂😂😂
#THIS WAS A FOOLERY OF ABSOLUTELY NON SENSE & A WASTE OF EARTH'S TIME*!😒😒😒😵💭💭💭😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨
"Independently, on my own...with my mother and grandparents." Yeah, okay, Susan. You were so alone.
Danggggg Doyle really couldn't hold it in from cracking up, smdh 🤦🏾♀️lol........
She really needs to give that guy a break.
So she wants his pension after being apart all these years?
Law is law as pertains to marriage.
No he wants hers
At 8:00 I started yelling. His testimony was hilarious
She's so bitter
Aww She's still in Love
Philanthropist!!?? 😂😂😂😂
Hes likeable, i hope he fixes his crack problem so he can live a happy healthy life
Oh Gosh. His appearance reminds me of that HBO documentary Life Of Crime. R.I.P. Rob Deliris and Freddie❤
Judge Mathis has noticeable mood swings
Big change