Convert vs. Born Muslim Virginity Problem - Women Lying About Virginity Part 3
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May Allah grant every Muslim woman who has made repentance from her past a man that’s ok with her past and grant the rest of us, men of high protective jealousy, women that are shy, anti-feminism, and God fearing.
Ameen.
Ameen
@@SG-dw8jh men who are okay with a woman’s past can still be in the same category with men with high protective jealousy 😊
@@CodyandRoosey men with choise ok with women past, is not réal men ! Réal men gonna take best choise ! Virgin Young etc this is what he whant by nature ! . Wome don’t have protective jealousy! They have différent form of that ! Men is territorial and dominate , you see stuff by your egalitarian view
men with choise ok with women past, is not réal men ! Réal men gonna take best choise ! Virgin Young etc this is what he whant by nature ! . Wome don’t have protective jealousy! They have différent form of that ! Men is territorial and dominate , you see stuff by your egalitarian view
المرأة الطاهرة العفيفة هي تلك المراة التي ضحت بكل شئ من اجل عفتها وبالمختصر .
والحافظين فروجهم والحافظات وفي اخر هذه الاية يقول الله رب العالمين اعد الله لهم مغفرة واجرا عظيما
I personally could possibly tolerate revert with sincere Tawbah, but I could NEVER tolerate a hypocrite Muslim born with horrible past !
If she also did sincere tawbah then?
Salam Aleikum wa rahmatullah. Brother I love you for the sake of Allah. I think you will get UA-cam cancelled. Yeah.. UA-cam Will be cancelled because of you. May Allah protect you and allow you to keep speaking about what needs to be spoken with the best of manners.
Chastity
Barak Allah feek brother Asalam alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
Brothers do not feel so strongly about matters you cannot immediately change. Instead focus on attaining Jannah and the company of the chaste Hoor al ayn. Marriage isn’t a reward but a means to keep you from Zina and help you attain the Akhira.
@@fluffy7813 exactly that's what I'm doing right now. Not every Muslim will get married just like shaykh Ibn Taymiyyah and Imam Nawawi may Allah have mercy on them.
@@sergio0458
Whoever truly fears Allah and wants jannah will get marry, and there are many chaste muslim women, only asks Allah that grant you one of them.
"Marriage isn’t a reward"
Wrong
I find myself thinking that the only way to protect my soul is by choosing never to marry. I know that Allah’s mercy is vast, and He forgives those who turn to Him in sincere repentance, even for the sin of zina. But just because someone is forgiven by Allah doesn’t mean I have to marry them. Forgiveness belongs to Allah, but the decision to marry is my own.
There are times when I wonder if I should have just committed those sins, repented, and sought forgiveness. But how could I live with myself knowing I betrayed the very principles that define who I am? It’s painful, feeling like my greatest wrong is that I never stumbled into zina. It’s as if those of us who remained pure are the ones left suffering, while the world seems to move on without us. People will tell us to get mental help just for wanting a wife who hasn’t been with another man.
Zina is everywhere now, and it feels impossible to find someone who’s completely honest about their past. The thought of being deceived or betrayed crushes me. So, for me, the answer is to avoid marriage altogether-to shield myself from the pain and preserve my values. I’d rather face anything, even death, than marry someone whose past would tear me apart.
"It’s as if those of us who remained pure are the ones left suffering, while the world seems to move on without us."
For real ! ,they are moving to the hell fire better for you not to be with them ,
brother don't let shyetan mock you and deceive you
The life of a Muslim is not a suffering. seek to marry a righteous, pious woman and ask Allah to grant you this chaste wife
Put all your trust in Allah and get married and live your life in comfort and peace of mind. The shyetan whispers this frustration to you in order to drag you into sins that will destroy you here and the hereafter may Allah protect us all.
These thoughts are whispers from shyetan You should not forget this it's a step he want you to take don't obey him , they are many good muslim women out there don't despair.
@@AllahuAkbaruKabirah Thank you, brother, for your kind words. There are a lot of men who have never done anything haram but still end up getting married to women who have had affairs with other men. These good men were lied to and tricked into marrying these women. It is also true that these women have been forgiven by Allah because they have repented. Now, imams have even changed the definitions of virginity and chastity. The truth is, many virgin men will end up marrying women who have already been touched by other men. This could also happen to me. I can’t let this happen to myself. That’s why I said marriage is not for me.
@@ahsanroman3020 don't worry there is many chaste muslim women out there may Allah grant you the best of them always ask Allah that Allah is the most generous subhanahu wa ta'ala, do not despair or give up.
Goodness will remain in the nation of prophet Muhammad PBUH until the Day of Judgment.
What about a female who is not virgin in the mind. Basically she had past and she was involved in chatting with other men kind of a relationship but didnt engage in intimacy
Whats your take on that ?
Even if she is made toba does this also affect the future
@@MuhammadSami924I agree but it is not as bad as
Did she love him? If no, then sure, but if yes, then no to her
I think it does have a psychological effect. She becomes more manly or something like that.
@alm_alb could those effects be ignored
Effects are temporary or permanent?
As a married born Muslim I don't get why experienced brothers would be turned off by an experienced woman. A virgin guy should stick to a virgin woman if he gets the ick. Obviously, caution must be taken in all decisions of marriage and the home work must be made.
I mean they try to, but the point is that the expectation of piety and chastity is broken. They’re not being real or honest.
WHy dont you mind your own fuckign business?
What do you mean by experience women, accepting a divorced and widow is one thing but loosing chastity before marriage is really wrong act. These days zinaah is very common in Muslim ummah (mostly West) . It's start from school to working place. We need to teach this generation protect yourself from this filth act.
What "experience" are u talking about here? A muslim woman who has played around in the haram, it is valid to be turned off by her and only a fool thinks he can change her. But women who are widows or divorcees(divorced for a valid reason and not becoz of "feelings"), then these women for the brothers who can take care of them are good to marry too. For revert sisters brother Romani explains very well in his video here
@ANOblkstrMALY experience doesn't translate to zina why do you automatically assume a muslim woman with experience committed zina? She could be divorced.
Thank you for addressing and speaking about this topic as almost no one else will
I think the person you speak about meant more to comfort the brother as whatever happened was already happened to him and now he needed some comfort because he was already in too much pain. I don't believe he promotes being a vrgb as that definition as can be seen in his other vida
Jazakum Allah khair
Islamically it is not their fault if they did it before Islam. But morally it is still a shameful thing, depending on the culture. But they should be open about it
Your favourite topic- virgins. Did you have a bad experience or something?
Well, He has a point since it causes marriages and families to break. Plus Zina is way to common in Gen-Z so, by obsessing on Virginity seems like the right choice.
Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, the servant may speak a single word for which he plummets into the Hellfire farther than the distance between East and West.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6477, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2988
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِنَّ الْعَبْدَ لَيَتَكَلَّمُ بِالْكَلِمَةِ يَنْزِلُ بِهَا فِي النَّارِ أَبْعَدَ مَا بَيْنَ الْمَشْرِقِ وَالْمَغْرِبِ
6477 صحيح البخاري كتاب الرقاق باب حفظ اللسان
2988 صحيح مسلم كتاب الزهد والرقائق باب التكلم بالكلمة يهوي بها في النار
@@ViciousVampire virginity is t the main reason why marriages are breaking. Its mainly lack of providing and abuse from men. He should talk about that if his intention to keep marriages together. Seems like someone lied to him and he hasn’t got over it
@@naviifra2374rather than positively contributing to the conversation, you attack another muslim's character. Says a lot about your personality. You need help.
@@Abdur-Rahman862i wasnt negative. Its apparent the brother has an unhealthy preoccupation with virginity. May Allah ease whatever he is going through
Is it really healthy for men to harp this much about a woman's life? I hate to say it but this thinking seems like it's a way for men to project insecurities onto their spouse alleviates men any responsibility in self work. Videos like this continue to prey on men's insecurities instead of their growth 🤐 If you love your wife, you work hard on your relationship, satisfying one another, understand one another. If a man is going to cry & throwup every night at the thought of his wife holding a boy's hand when she was 12, he has bigger issues at hand 🤧
Edit: "You don't know what a woman does in the bathroom with men and women?" Bro you're unwell 🤢
Zina is a major sin in Islam. Not sure why you're trying to belittle the gravity of this problem of women losing their virginity outside of marriage due to zina and then lying about it to men seeking wives.
No man wants to emotionally and financially invest in a woman when she gave another man free access to her.
Stop justifying z1na.
This is a big issue and you’re ignoring it.
May be for you sleeping around with multiple men is common. I mean how are you going to raise your children, the same way you grow up by performing and justifying Zina, that's why virgin wife matters, it's not just for men, it's for kid those are going to born out of you. You are not going raise a Salahuddin if you yourself don't have control over your desire.
I don’t understand how you just easily ignore Zina.
Dear brother Gabriel al romaani you know if we want to solve the problem then we have to ask the right question. So, right questions is should a Muslim men care about virginity for marriage (even for polygyny) and what is the solution for that guy who care too much about virginity for marriage? Answer these questions in your next parts pls
Ask yourself this question: Why are Hoor al ayn described in Quran as virgins? Why is specifically that mentioned?
You sound like a liberal muslim. Right question according to you? you want to impose your right question on every Muslim men. Yeah sounds like a liberal.
@@moonwalkerr87 watch the debate between Gabriel al romaani and Mahdi Tidjani where brother Mahdi put this argument and Gabriel smashed that argumen.
@@salman_esp What argument?
@@moonwalkerr87Prophet sws married Aishah Ra,but don’t forget the other who’s husbands passed away. Everyone is smart to get 4 virgin young beautiful wife’s but not helping out those who lost their husband for example. Talking about hurul ayn 🙄
This guy is losing his mind
Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him not harm his neighbor. Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him honor his guest. Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him speak goodness or remain silent.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6136, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 47
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ مَنْ كَانَ يُؤْمِنُ بِاللهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْآخِرِ فَلَا يُؤْذِ جَارَهُ وَمَنْ كَانَ يُؤْمِنُ بِاللهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْآخِرِ فَلْيُكْرِمْ ضَيْفَهُ وَمَنْ كَانَ يُؤْمِنُ بِاللهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْآخِرِ فَلْيَقُلْ خَيْرًا أَوْ لِيَصْمُتْ
6136 صحيح البخاري كتاب الأدب باب من كان يؤمن بالله واليوم الآخر فلا يؤذ جاره
47 صحيح مسلم كتاب الإيمان باب الحث على إكرام الجار والضيف ولزوم الصمت إلا من الخير وكون ذلك كله من الإيمان
And the other hadith is:
Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, the servant may speak a single word for which he plummets into the Hellfire farther than the distance between East and West.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6477, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2988
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِنَّ الْعَبْدَ لَيَتَكَلَّمُ بِالْكَلِمَةِ يَنْزِلُ بِهَا فِي النَّارِ أَبْعَدَ مَا بَيْنَ الْمَشْرِقِ وَالْمَغْرِبِ
6477 صحيح البخاري كتاب الرقاق باب حفظ اللسان
2988 صحيح مسلم كتاب الزهد والرقائق باب التكلم بالكلمة يهوي بها في النار
@@akhfehim Asalamalaikum. He is spreading fitna and causing dissention. What does shaitan love most?
@@user-ve4zw6jp9i Who said he is spreading fitnah as much as I can hear he is quoting the Quran and the sunnah. If you mean that commanding the good and forbidding the evil is spreading fitnah, you should really question your intentions.
@@user-ve4zw6jp9i i think someone lied to him about virginity. Hes so obsessed with it. Its sad
@@akhfehim he is causing mistrust and speaking on what doesnt concern him.
*marriage is not worth the risk nowadays, semen retention is the way to go*
Wrong. Come put of redpill. It's only destroying your heart and mind akhi.
Get married, Brother. You are against the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him if you avoid marriage and live like a monk. The hadith is evidence when the Prophet s.a.w confronted 3 men who made vows of piety to pray all night, fast everyday and never get married.
@@taimurahmad I'm not red pill bro astagfirullah
@@hamzahhussain6580 by redpill i meant people who focus on doubts and how wmmn are dojng this and that and not neceserraily the version that tells one to f"rpnicaate
@@taimurahmad you don't know the real world bro. I've been to university and see how a lot of sisters act. Id say the majority are doing haram they just hide it better than the guys.
Die alone if you get unlucky with marriage in dunya. You will get hoor al ayn waiting for you in jannah
Die alone if you get unlucky with marriage in dunya. You will get hoor al ayn waiting for you in jannah
That is an unhealthy attitude and I don't believe Allah wants us to be miserable and not strive to attain happiness.
@@phoenixknight8837 not everyone is destined to get married. Look at Shaykh Ibn Taymiyyah. He died unmarried, without a wife and offspring.
Are we like ibn tayymiah in his deen ,taqwa and worship!!!
It's was very rare back then for a pious man not to get married
In our time, it is almost impossible for a pious and devout person to remain pious and upright when unmarried . We are in a time of great dangers.
@@AllahuAkbaruKabirah of course you can observe the fasting of prophet Dawud عليه السلام and apply it for the rest of your life. Fasting kills desire