Should Women Get a Secular Eduex?
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It's such a ridiculous conversation I love learning and it angers me when I hear men telling me I shoild not study and I should not be intellectual, I'm femenine I have kids I stay at home and I love being a woman education for me is not being in competition with men. The te reason why women get careers and build a future for themselves is cos many men have failed! It's hard to find a good strong provider. It's so important to be educated and not stupid, telling woman not to study is just creating another problem ignorance
Thats not what theu are doing sister!! They are mentioning the position of scholars. Scholars encoruage wmns educstion but never in a free mix school. They also say its MUST for her to recognize her role as a mother and be a house wife/mother. Fem"nism has u fortunately deatroyed our sisters. And sheikh assim daid it is jot ALLOW3D to seek education because if doubt like what if hisband leaves me etc...
You don't have to listen to what you see on UA-cam. Go get your education gurl. I know I will. I only watch this for entertainment
@@Cherries2249 I'm already educated and plan to do a masters to become a teacher, I do understand where the brothers are coming from, until men and society and economic situation changes telling women not to go and study is not the solution. I have a son and I don't want to send him to school even uni, the place is a fiynah for men as well not just for women. However if my son wants to become an engineer he has to go to uni for that unless there is a remote method of learning. I understand what they're saying however it's not black and white. I grew up in the il Ive seen many sisters ge married with careers female doctors who cook and clean. It's not black and white.
@@Onajourney519 yeah what there's saying comes from a good place but it's not practical. Like both my parents work. My dad can't afford to pay the whole rent and bills and council tax and road tax etc on his average salary. Everything has gone up except wages and it's like these men don't understand that. When I get married I'm not going to expect my husband to pay for everything and all the tax on his own because it's unrealistic on a average UK salary. It's not going to happen because wages have not gone up
@@Cherries2249 make dua, I married someone who's fully able to provide and I moved country's to his country portugal make dua you neevr want to have a baby and also have to wolr it's exhausting, being the stay at home is the best thing. I love it and I still get tired
Women should do services for other women. This is the solution for fitnah. It weird to have to men when we there can be women who can do it. There should be women doctors for women like dental work,checking,nursing,surgery,midwife and so on. Even there should women tailors cuz some men when they measuring are creepy and want a reason to touch. Another one is Transportation Security Officers should women when dealing with women. So we do need women working society is in need and there's plenty poor women who need a job and women need the services.
Those women already exist in those professions bozo! All your feminist talking points have been debunked! Why don’t you women advocate for the bottom 50% of manual labor jobs? Besides all the medical professions you mentioned will be replaced by AI first. 😂
Why are you dawah bros obsessed with women
Go to sources of liberal colonialists.. How they struggled to social engineer Egypt amd algeria coz woman r not available in public. Literally these r still available in documantries
*feminist women
@@batur_psychology19 Jahel
@@eastafricanqueen9866Yes you are Jahel fack girl femcel kaffir🥴
Why are you peasants scared of accountability?
I agree with Hiwa on that tik tok video but I am Afraid he did more harm than good. It was some truth with some obvious rage bait. Hiwa you should’ve said Secular education instead of education in general. It’s clear you didn’t mean Islamic education but since your wording was not specific it gives the feminist opportunity to dismantle your point.
@@FaFa2221 true
@@FaFa2221 Sorry I should have clarified. I meant secular education where the Islamic guidelines isn’t followed.
@@BlacFireSantotally agreed 👍. I deleted my comment, I meant worldly knowledge like maths, science, tech, nutrition, hygiene etc
Even secular education what's the problem? Women should do services for other women that need degrees. Wouldn't u want your wife to be treated by women doctors like when she for checking,dental work,surgery,midwife and so on.even Transportation Security Officers should be women and I would feel uncomfortable if a man was touching me. So we do need women who work in society. And men should services for other men and its solutions for fitnah
@@hudaahmed1998 I agree but only in non mkix unis since wmns education is not a necessity!
Brothers you guys are thinking backwards and thats the reason why our countries are lacking. What you two are arguing is culture but not the inherent natural behaviors of humans. Western women are the way the are because of the culture that is promoting it. This though has nothing to do with eduction itself. The real issue here is that guys are lacking in all fields. Economically, strength, wisdom, capability and so on yet you want women to be beneath you because you can’t measure up my brother get a grip.
You are talking about their culture....brother what is their culture..... that's their freaking culture!!!!!
The educational system teaches you nothing but how to be a slave to the system this goes for both men and women
Please this is liberalism that you are speaking about also they have a birth rate decline in all these countries. We ruled with Islamic law and were better off.
Its totally ok, if women want to go to school and university and to gain knowledge. But the question is how?
it's perfect if it is in a women only school or university, because there will be much less fitna than in free mixing educational institution. As we already know the most haram things are being done in schools and universities where there is free mixing, so many people are committing Zina and so on.
And Allah said in the Qur'an do not come close to Zina (Surah Al-Isra Ayat 32 (17:32 Quran), but somehow it's being neglected by many people that these free mixing educational institutions have become a breeding ground for committing Zina and many unimaginable haram acts.
and if women want to get married, be a wife and a mother thats also good, that's the feminine nature that Allah has granted to the Women. Please also know that Allah has not put a financial burden on the women, It's the husband's job and obligation to provide for his family (wife, parents,...).
If women get educated in women only educational institution all the more better, but please also focus on gaining knowledge about deen. Being a mother is far more rewarding than work. This way women can nurture their child more better.
And if you talking about culture or their culture then in islam being a housewife is regarded as more rewarding than working, so don't let all those liberal people make you think less of being a housewife.
@@kujojotaro4335 the issue here is not about deen in that sense but much more about practical usage of it. Look if the quran is a timeless book, which I believe it is, it should be applicable throughout every time. Its also important to mention that since its timeless its more of a philosophical question instead of a word for word application. By your logic women shouldn’t go to school at all which is stupid. Our people supposed to be well educated and knowledgeable instead of just being made housewives. Ofcourse its more rewarding being a mother but in this times of economics its a luxury to be a full stay at home mom. Thats why I‘m saying if guys want that kind of woman then they should be able to provide that lifestyle for her to be a mother. But if you‘re broke and sitting in front of your TV all day how can you tell her what life she should choose? By the way iman doesn’t come from making everything forbidden but rather from the strength of it to not be persuaded to pleasure and nonsense. Us muslims today are openly being hated and disregarded yet we hope for western acceptance instead of building our own strong people, narratives and cultures.
I know a muslimah who is an engineer.. chose to marry an islamic scholar (traditional indian one who cant even speak English fluently).. helped him marry multiple times.. has six kids herself and also homeschools all her kids and sends them to traditional madrasas mashaAllah! She also works part time. Cooks all her meals at home. What more could a man want. MA
Allahumah barik. May Allah protect them.
Exceptions d’ont make the rules ! Most women with a lot of study they end up divorce, be very masculine , etc . Don’t put and seek your confirmation bias need for reinforce your internal denial which comes from the influence of the modern movement. A men with a lot of shool or in business he need to take a women with à litle bit of study not much ! And of course seek the feminine, submissive, aggreable , with out exp women’s
@@NouYuu-ds6rm exactly! Most women will leave a man lower then them
May Allah preserve and bless them both
@@NouYuu-ds6rmthat’s a result of the secular system, not the education itself.
Having a daughter doesn’t mean you cant be a misogynist. Most misogynist have daughters 9:00
@@naviifra2374 be careful slandering your Muslim brother
This is the type of women be aware to Marry
@@mohammada3116 re-read what i wrote and learn how to comprehend English. Red Pill males call everything slander without even reading properly
@@odd_respect9209 women should beware of you because you dont make sense
True, but who says he's a misygonist.
I'm a muslimah. And I agree with everything has been said
Barakallah fik may Allah grant you a husband upon the prophetic masculinity
@@Bhghih ameen🤲... JazakAllah khair... waeyaka
Me too sis
they wont pick you sis
@@lina-pg8dc💯was a painful read.
It’s halal for women to get educated as long as the content and source are halal. And as muslim men became weaker and less desirable for marriage in this time of accessible sin, it becomes more imperative for women to have a backup financial plan.
This is so logical.
Their spewing nonsense!
@@hind4339 unfortunately it’s the experience of many women today. Why else do you think women and their fathers are prioritisingeducation?
@@hind4339 they are saying what Allah and his mesenger said. hram to attend free mix unis for wmn. No scholar allows it. see sheikh assim al hakeem on this. Wallaahu a3lam.
I'm a woman and I agree with some points you mentioned. I will agree that education should only be sought in halal under Shar'i conditions.
1. Must abide by correct hijab
2. What's learnt doesn't contradict islam
3. No free-mixing.. completely segregated
4. Permission from father(most fathers already push their daughters into education)
5. Permission from husband(sisters have to set the condition before Nikkah and make clear they want to continue studying)
Personally, I admire Sheikh Assim Hakeem did, he got his 13 daughters to memorize Qur'an, learnt the deen, they all have bachelor degrees in sciences and other subjects and they are all married. Worldly education was never the issue, the western indoctrination schooling centers are the problem.
Worldly education is a must, i won't be having future clueless daughters who can't fend for themselves if they are ever in a situation where they find themselves all alone. Absolutely not. What's halal is halal and worldly knowledge is halal, just seek it in halal means. That's it.
Can I respectfully ask where lies the distinction between 'worldly education' and 'religious education'?
@@FaFa2221 pls reference where they studied sciences? JazakAllah khair
@@mohammada3116 sheikh said university, I'm assuming a Muslim country, because he would not compromise his daughters hijab and free mixing etc. so it has to be a university in a Muslim country. Maybe Saudi?? Allahu A'lam.
@shabiryusuf I use the term worldly knowledge to encompass anything that will benefit. Like science, maths, geography, technology, languages etc. I don't like the term secular, because it removes religion out of the knowledge being sought. If my future daughters are learning space for science for example, they will also be learning that it is Allah who created these and use Qur'an to show evidences. If I'm teaching cooking, I will explain Allah's provisions, how the rain comes down as a mercy from Allah and how the crops grow, the stories of sadaqah and feeding of the poor, and nutrition-looking after your body bc it has a right over you, no over-eating, stay active etc. Or technology- whilst learning programming, explain techs harms and benefits, how these can be used to benefit muslims+ that Allah sees everything you do online. And like maths, when learning about money/economics- about the evils of ribaa(interest), the fiqh of buying and selling. That's how I understand it. Try to embed islam into everything taught.
@@FaFa2221 Thank you for your response. I totally agree with you in that every aspect of our interaction in relation to other living entities and the universe around us should be aligned with the Qur'an as the primary basis. This approach however requires a holistic view and as such if the Quran mentions pretty much every subject in relation to our interactions then the notion of 'worldly' and 'religious' knowledge will not be there!
I do note that unfortunately the issue is with the Muslim mindset being afflicted by ideas that do not have a Quranic basis. As an example the very word 'science' merely means knowledge but it is seen as something that is distinct to the extent that Muslims will talk about 'science' in the Qur'an!! ( No issue if it is used for explaining)I note you had stated 'shari conditions' and number 2 states "what's learnt doesn't contradict Islam"
This however requires quantifying and qualifying. Again as an example Psychology (as a subject) does not have a body of knowledge which can be considered 'Islamic' and this would necessarily mean that we will impose an 'understanding' on the Qur'an which should not be there.
He doesn’t seem like the smartest tool in the shed
He’s too busy thinking with his banana
@@WildImginationaudhubillah watch your language man. Look at your own channel first, absolute filth then criticize someone else
Yes most women aren’t very bright. Most women talk and think with their clams.
Hope this strange justification isnt used to defend taliban ban on education for girls above class 7. Because there is extremely shortage of females in every vital industry in Afghanistan including health, police etc.
Ban is on mixed schools honey. Give me the evidence that they banned health. And police? Lol why do you want women as police.
We should have enough doctors and teachers. That’s it lol.
😂 police? .... W Taliban. Afghanistan might be the last place on earth where normality remains
@@equityjustice2695we know that’s not true. Unless you want your wife to be dealt with by men when the need arises then it would be wise for you to consider female education as a necessity. Do you want male doctors delivering your babies? Do you want exclusively male doctors performing surgery on your wife? Do you want male police officers dealing with your wife? Erasing women from society doesn’t help the cause of ghayra. Ghayra is about immorality. It is about not caring about the immorality of your womenfolk. What is immoral about a female officer dealing exclusively with women? Do you think Allah wants to punish women for simply having a profession? La hawla wallah quwatta illah billah.
Women aren't needed in any industry except for childcare industries.
Women don‘t belong in the policeforce
Sure all thee supposedly haram and free mixing is only haram for women and not men. I donot know weather to laugh or cry on their double standards, May Allah guides these hypocrites
Somebody needs to advise brother Hiwa that the world is not all black and white, it is very much gray and that going to study doesn't immediately mean woman getting married at 35 and being masculine, there needs to be balance in this life, not everybody should go to college, same way not everybody should have their own business because we still need employees, this is how the world runs, it is up to us to choose our paths but please don't sell to the people this black and white image of Islam and the world.
If muslim men took the responsibility of being a provider then the woman would not have to go to 9 to 5. It is stressful for a woman to have to raise children, run a house and be a feminine lovely wife. Education is important as she is raising children so is like a teacher. The prophets wife(pbuh) was his boss I believe so it's a womans choice if she wants to work but she shouldn't have to or be forced to stay at home full time as some woman can do part time work and run a house. Alot of woman have interests and hobbies outside the home and that keeps her sanity so no one really respects or appreciated a full time mum in this day and age. Ideally it would be lovely to have a real man that provides and respects but how many are there realistically.There is nothing wrong with developing your mind and arguing if it is needed. And muslim men act religious but looking at magazines and non muslim woman all day and putting their wife down.
This.
BarakAllahu feek/i, literally the world isn’t black and white, when will they understand.
i don’t know, I still want to be a nurse 👩⚕️ and a practicing Muslimah 🤷🏽♀️
Dont listen to jahil men! Get your education and also get married, you decide what you want to do first!
i am already married alhamdulilah ❤ the next step is going to school (again) lol idk its something i have wanted to do for a long while and I feel sad If i dont pursue my RN degree
I wouldn't recommend it nurse have a reputation of something nasty. If it is all female staff then it might be okay
and i have a reputation as a muslim woman
@@rahmatoullahbah5230don’t listen to this idiot MASHALLAH u r helping ppl
Describe your relationships with your mothers
?????????????
Describe your relationship with your mother
@@abdullaha9906 who are u talking to?
Both them & you
@@abdullaha9906 mind ur own business akh, dont ask about such things have some hayaa
What a collab!!!
In sha Allah we get to see many more videos with you 2
Okay as a teen muslimah i just want to know whats the problem with me going to women only school and university and studying for my dream career insha Allah as well while im studying or even after get married be a wife and a mother and work my dream job whats the problem with that
Nothing wrong eith female only. However recognize that being a mother is far more rewarding than working.(educatiom is mustahabb as said by al fawzaan)
@@taimurahmad jazak Allah hu khair for answering my question I totally agree with what you said may Allah reward you 🤗🤗
Sis Its totally ok, if you want to go to school and university and to gain knowledge. But the question is how?
Just like you said it's perfect if it is in a women only school or university, because there will be much less fitna than in free mixing educational institution. As we already know the most haram things are being done in schools and universities where there is free mixing, so many people are committing Zina and so on.
And Allah said in the Qur'an do not come close to Zina (Surah Al-Isra Ayat 32 (17:32 Quran), but somehow it's being neglected by many people that these free mixing educational institutions have become a breeding ground for committing Zina and many unimaginable haram acts.
and if you want to get married, be a wife and a mother thats also good, that's the feminine nature that Allah has granted to the Women. Please also know that Allah has not put a financial burden on the women, It's the husband's job and obligation to provide for his family (wife, parents,...).
If you get educated in women only educational institution all the more better, but please also focus on gaining knowledge about deen. Because just like the brother said being a mother is far more rewarding than work. This way you can nurture your child more better. and don't let all those liberal people make you think less of being a housewife.
Bismillah
As Salamu Alaykum sister.
The problem is not in learning per se it is that being a housewife and mother is a career. And perhaps due to necessity or uncertainty about the future or even personal taste, you are speaking of learning another career first. When the two clash, what are you going to do?
Religiously people should marry early, in their teens or early twenties at most, that would be from during high school to end of college. Are you going to marry during high school? How to conciliate motherhood and being a housewife with high school?
Are you going to marry during college? Same conciliation problem as above…
Then how about right after college?
Now you’ve spent more than a decade in education. Are you going to be happy delaying your career outside the home until your children grow up? The first decade is the most important for financial growth..and the most important for the children..and the marriage
@@AdalbertoMaggioJunior yes I want to get married and be in school I don't see a problem with that as long as I'm pleasing allah
Education and seeking knowledge is fardh while marriage is sunnah! You can seek both with no problems!
Seeking Islamic knowledge is fard. Seeking worldly knowledge is not fard.
Don't get it twisted.
@vost2916 Any beneficial knowledge is fardh! A woman can become a doctor, and it benefits her dunya and akhira!
Where did you get this information... Marriage is a sunnah mean sunnah of Allah not the sunnah of the prophet like fasting Monday and Thursday ... Its means fetrah if you don't do it something goes wrong to you and community and society ... This is the meaning of marriage sunnah in this context al fetrah.. Second, when you said beneficial education...name one sister Muslimah in the west brought something to the dean ummah and Islam with her western degree... Because context matter when prophet said education fardh, although the meaning exclusive for Islam and Dean knowledge, but let say for sake of argument any knowledge ... but it should fill the requirement of being fardh which is sake of Allah and dean.., so what Dean these educated sister served in the west ? Oh let ne guess they serve like slave for the CEO kafir operations so they become more rich use the money against I slam in sone cases sometime send donations to Zionist organization to kill Muslims in Gaza that's what most these educated sisters served in the west
Allah said in the Quran he created women to be your peace and tranquility meaning marriage what are you on about and this is exactly why seeking knowledge is mandatory upon every Muslim
@@Z.Nuriii dont give fatwa online watch your mouth please
hiwa doesn’t even know what he wants, he’s only 24
his frontal lobe hasn’t fully developed yet
And who might you be? 24 but he's doing better than most people even 5 yrs older than himself. If you're even older than 24 , what were you doing when you were that age?
@@hanana.banana nice one 🤣 I got the joke and what you're refering to🤣
@@saifullahkhan1202 who said that was a joke?
@@Abdullah_muslim1 i dont know
@@hanana.banana you're a joke🤣
I am woman and I totally agree
May Allah increase your understanding.
girl-
May Allah reward you sister
"pick me🥹🥹🥹🥹" ahh
Me too ukht
I think kinds of conversations are more relevant to Muslims living in the super-liberal feminist societies, like the west.
I'm from Central Asia, from a very conservative culture, and my family is also traditional with traditional gender roles. When my mom lived with her in-laws, she used to maintain a house with almost 10 people clean, and that was in era where there was almost no electricity, and people washed clothes by hand! On top of all that she went to university and had successfully graduated.
Alhamdulillah, my mom has taught me all the "feminine" skills from a young age, for which I am extremely grateful. But I have also been able to pursue studying, because I enjoy learning and gaining knowledge. That's why I don't understand the whole "studying VS. learning wife-skills" debate, when I see so many of women my mom's age having done both successfully. But perhaps, I am oblivious to the realities of living in the West, which is why I may not understand the whole context behind these discussions.
You are indeed blissfully ignorant and oblivious to the pitfalls of the west. I don’t understand how you whom has access to the internet is still ignorant to how far women have fallen to super liberal secular society and use it against Muslim men. Look at what’s going on in Gaza as a prime example. Muslim women whom aid and abet kaffirs in their Islamophobic agendas are indirectly assisting in the genocide of Palestinians. Let that marinate and sink in. If you truly are from a conservative Islamic society then these conversations shouldn’t be foreign to you and in fact you should be fully in support of the two brothers in the video. Your comment is really sus because your arguments are the exact same ones that western feminists make.
Idk how it's like in central Asia but in the west it's totally different. Schools are brainwashing propaganda institutions that indoctrinate children with liberal nonsense since day 1, so the issue that Muslim men have with women's education isn't that they don't want women to learn, it's that they don't want women to be indoctrinated by these since women are much more susceptible to blindly following the masses.
I do 100% agree that it is possible for a woman to fulfill her obligations at home while also studying/pursuing worldly knowledge. However there are ways that this can be done that don't require you to go to these clown institutions, and one of the most straightforward ones is that they can literally get an online degree lol. It costs less than getting one in person and the only time you'd need to visit the university is for an exam from time to time. Also there's other places to learn and gain knowledge outside of government funded institutions, such as online courses, a personal tutor etc etc. Women who want to pursue knowledge can easily utilize these facilities to learn BUT a lot of them don't because they're just after a degree since it gives people a social prestige and an ego boost.
Hopefully this clears up why men have an issue with women's western LIBERAL education and not women's desire to pursue knowledge in general.
This is so dark, so fucked up, so scary.
Which is why it needs to be brought up to attention.
youre right they have brainwashed alot of our brothers and sisters, thank u for brother Gabriel and Hiwa for this video
Yeah you need to cuss right. The indoctrination of feminism is truly strange? Go read who started that movement.
I used to act like how hiwa does. I literally used to say the exact same things about women and excused myself.
Watching this is a blessing because I will never act like that again.
I’m embarrassed by myself.
Allah tells us to marry poor and he will make us rich. Who are you to “wait to marry”
There are millions of feminine Muslim women in the west and in the east and it is an absolute insult to say there isn’t.
With the amount of resources hiwa has and he can’t find a feminine women?
His ego is too great, he feels he deserves better than everyone else and what makes this bad is he clearly shows it.
literally. he thinks he deserves the "perfect naive & feminine" wife who will fully cover up but meanwhile look at his content. yes he is covering his awra but it is not very "modest" to wear tight leggings and shorts u can see the shape of his awra , he's flexing his muscles online, he causes more harm than good online (rage bait videos). this is arrogance this is not dawah
& let's not forgot the way he's promoting his shilajit... totally inappropriate. a pious muslimah wouldn't want their husband to post such content and no father would allow their daughter to marry a man who uses sexual desires to promote his product online
There aren’t many feminine women in the west. Also saying he thinks he deserves better than everyone else isn’t the issue. The issue is that in general Muslims adopt western values that they mix with the deen. Muslims act like a secular education and career is worth more than family. It’s not societally sustainable or even gratifying. I don’t know if you live in the west. If you do then you would see how family values are dying at an alarming rate. Muslims are eager to follow the trends without realizing the side effects.
Hope this strange justification isnt used to defend taliban ban on education for girls above class 7. Because there is extremely shortage of females in every vital industry in Afghanistan including health, police etc.
😂 move along, Afghanistan know how to get business done.
What is a woman police going to do vs a man? Stop it
They had western education system and curriculum earlier when karzai was ruling with the help of USA. Tally-ban banned education after year 7 to restructure the education system and recompose the curriculum n terms of shariah. Supply and demand is a natural phenomenon so whenever they'll need women in some fields they'll decide who those needs should be met.
I think that American propaganda has something to do with this stereotype.
Leave Islam we don’t want feminists , the break up of family is the end of society, Taliban knows this and knows the western education system is bad for Muslims and Islam and has consequences that will lead to the break of family and the rule of women in society.
Bruh
One of the most profound videos I’ve seen. You guys hit the nail on the head on every topic alhamdullilah
most women aint gona make use of it anyway.
Education is always valuable even if you don’t end up formally “using” it. It’s security. A lot of Muslim men don’t like the idea of a woman having a backup.
@@aidan9656 Back up for failure, expect failure be a failure simple.
@@stanopltd Lol there nothing wrong abt ensuring ur future, throwing some words in the air that doesn't make sense will do nothing. It is the truth men don't like women having education because they don't want them to have backup because they know a woman is qualified to be financially independent will not tolerate their bad behaviour in marriage.
Brother Romani, you have to call on brothers whom are doing well for themselves and noting getting married using the excuse “there are not good woman available” due having many options and being indecisive in choosing a partner.
Just here to say that my like on your comment weighs as much as 30.
@@Bhghih genuinely we have address this issue, when you have abundance of options you tend to seek for hoor al ayan and not settle
😂 the sisters might not like this one 🤣😅
No, we like it. They’re speaking about things that need to be spoken about. I’m tired of following kuffar systems.
@@alm_alb may Allah reward you sister
May Allah reward you immensely
I'm not mad but we do need women doing services for other like doctors(midwife,checking,nursing,dental work,surgery) and in general women dealing with women,its solutions to fitnah and its very comfortable. Men should do services for other men as well
@@hudaahmed1998 most women aren’t studying to be doctors, they go for useless degrees
Stream should've been longer.
Audhubillah
Alhumduhlilah.
I’m going to college because I don’t have a choice. We’re struggling financially but Al Hamdulillah my younger brother is our provider. He’s doing his best to be financially independent.
We’re 4 people to whom he’s providing for, it hasn’t been easy and that’s why I need to study and find a job
Unfortunately, not every woman is lucky to have a husband like Hiwa but Allah knows best and we leave everything to Him.
Trust in allah instead of going to uni. Dont do haraam
Why dont you get married? Brother Gabriel has a marriage service to help both brothers and sisters. Plz stay away from the uni it really does corrupt minds.
Lol I don't even have a brother. We're 3 girls and my older sister works so does my mum because my dad can't do everything on his own. I'm 15 and I definitely plan on going uni. For those saying there's boys in uni, well there's boys at my high school and my primary school too so I don't get the logic. No different than school.
@@Traveler-c7p There’s still different ways around this you can get a remote job to help support your family. Also sister you should get married to avoid the freemixing and let your husband provide for you.
@@Cherries2249As Salamu Alaykum. The logic is that there are middle and high schools that are not mixed. They are in the private or religious sector. So it’s possible that a man sends his daughters to those schools up to high school education. Preferably an Islamic institution. However, when it comes time for college, then there are no colleges without free mixing…
You could then ask: “Well, if it is prohibited and not worthwhile in college because of free mixing, why is it allowed up to middle school or high school?”
It is not that it is allowed, but instead that it could be considered the lesser evil but even that is debatable for middle school and high school due to puberty…
In the West often women have to work. 80% of working women would stop immediately if they could. On top of working full time, it is often expected for them to do all of the child rearing and housework.
I would love to see a discussion about women having to work because their husbands cannot provide or are westernized and think their wives should contribute.
Stay at home moms are now looked down upon and not appreciated even by their husbands.
That is what we need to address.
It is obligatory on the man to provide for his wife in Islam. If a man is making his wife work then that is haram since it goes against the religion. I do agree weak men have contributed to this issue by not providing and making their wife work. Some do it for greed while others are lazy.
Those same women don’t want to do any of the child rearing and housework despite being housewives and having all the bills paid for by the husband. Why don’t you disingenuous clowns ever bring this up in your one sided femcel arguments? 😂😂😂
Alhumdulillah! Allah saved me from going to University and avoiding debt. I married my husband at age 20. There is fitnah around the globe, especially in the west. It's best to get married when young and ready, than to delay and risk falling into zina
Salam Aleykum Gabriel, can you make more dawah in Romanian language? My father has a very twisted understanding of Muslims I think listening to you would do him good in sha Allah but he doesn’t understands English
The fact that his shilajit has no validity and he doesn’t answer messages about it proves his deception. How can you sell a substance that has no proof of validity?
I almost went into anaphylactic shock from it! If ironfit is true to Allah he wouldn’t sell shilajit like how he does.it makes me think he’s in it for the money.
33:51 COME ON HIWA, COME ON. A BABY AT 10 YEARS OLD?
can you like make up a better lie wallahi this is ridiculous
Avoid negative assumptions about your brothers in Islam, it is haram. And yes having a baby at 10 is completely realistic, although rare. In poorer countries it's more common.
@@vonvicious7737are you mentally ok? A 10 year old body us not ready to give burth
@@naviifra2374 According to you or according to science, or according to Allah swt? Don't speak out of emotion, I stated a fact, and the fact is that it happens and has happened plenty of times.
This happens I live in the west and women were dating at age 10
I think most of people are confounding this modern education with knowledge. May Allah bless you brothers.
People need to understand the difference between certification and education.
What you get at school and university (or college as Americans call it) is certification and an introduction to topics.
Shows that you are able to read lecture notes and rewrite them in assignments.
Education is something you need to do outside of school and university.
And you learn the most when you are delivering commercial projects, be it at home or at an office.
its more about the values present in the school environment
Sisters should try Pilates instead of lifting weights
Lifting is good as long you don't manly, its good to have muscle and excuse my language but be thick,strong and healthy
This brother was cancelled on tik tok
for what
@@محمد-س3ك9ج being anti girls education
Yeah for what?
@@محمد-س3ك9ج for being anti woman education
@@equityjustice2695 anti woman education
Dont watch this video if you aren't married 😤😤😤😤✊✊✊
When I saw you got banned, I didn't understand. Yeah, it was controversial, but does one opinion deserve a ban?
What are the solutions. How to undo everything?
women need to learn domestic household duties
@@Trev-bc7rbnd how are u to tell them what to do?
@@ThrowAway-nj3yb who are you to say otherwise ?
@@Trev-bc7rb I say otherwise on the basis of Quran. im a Muslim who follows words of God and commands of prophet and as something isn't align with their words and commands i don't have to do it. I follow commands of Allah not of some random red pill desi mindset men. On what basis are u making commands for women? Who do u think u are lol
Ma sha Allah bros cool video جزاكم الله خير
Not only freemixing school gender only schools are dangerous too
Wrong, Islam encourages knowledge for both men and women in a halal way
@@arsenalo1115 what’s wrong I never said they can’t get knowledge but schools in the west are not halal ways they have more damage than good it’s very dangerous and if seeking knowledge comes and the expense of that than it’s not worth it although you can teach without sending to school
@@arsenalo1115 islamic* education.
Awesome podcast video. I pray fathers buckle up and good muslimah who want to be good wives stay strong. I pray Allah Azzawajal makes things easy for all of us
Gabriel , brother u have changed a lot...now u wear skinny shirts nd cut hair like westerns... May Allah give us hedayaah nd keep us in his guidance till death...
Brother why do I get Ads from Salman Rushdie in this video? 😐
Wait behavior can change cognition? …
AMAZING REMINDERS!! MASHALLAH!!shukran for speaking up all these important issues in pur ummah!! Lets FEAR ALLAH SWT ONLY!!🤲🤩
Such a great episode, covering a very important topic. May Allah reward you guys and protect you, Ameen!
I am happy to be free from this religion Yes yes I am a former Muslim and proudly I should get any education I want Don't tell me what to do
May Allah curse you forever
Then why you watch islamic videos? Enjoy your wordly life, but remember that "Every soul will taste death" you think you can control your life, but you can't do anything when "The ship is drowning", when the death is coming you won't be able to escape. But it's not too late, repent to Allah and start reading Qur'an, research Islam using logic and rational thinking, don't let emotions to control you. May Allah guide you to the straight path.
Bye Felicia, Now go do what your kaffir zaddy tells you to do 🤡
No one tells you to do anything. You just want something to hate. Go get an education and be happy. Literally no one cares.
Islam will still prevail, even if you hate it. Their are people who learns about Islam, understands the message, accepts the deen, testifies by saying the Shahaada and become part of the Muslim community. You? You are like the lost rat in the sewer. You are that insignificant at the moment, so go live with the rats.
Woman going to college is gross and pursuing a career is a major non talked about controversial taboo red flag that most men don't even know about
The reason men pursue carrer or go to college is we know that's the only way we can have a better life and find a mate and start a family
When we see a woman go to college we think that's gross because we know their not their to pay for a man and start a family it's just a big bunch of red flags that you are not trying stay home and raise a family but would rather want to a stranger to do it if you even want a family and that you are their getting hit on by a bunch of men and who God knows how many men she sleeping around going through college and career years and would rather be rubbing shoulders with men and being be me tooed , flirted with and hit on
All those years persuing a career and pushing marriage she has aged passed her prime , has no longer any pair bondings will be most likely to cheat and unhappy in a relationship
Woman who start earning more money or get a raise are most likely to initiate a divorce while a man makes more money or earns a raise relationships last longer
Exactly, women who have an education/career can get out where uneducated women have no choice but to stay in a relationship no matter what.
Womp womp
@@zaraimam I need a refutation unless you admitted to defeat
@@tdackjordan5873 what
@@tdackjordan5873 exactly, women with education/career have the choice to get out of relationships where uneducated women are just stuck and have no choice but to stay no matter what.