Why Do Women Like BAD BOYS? | Shaykh Uthman | Gabriel Romaani | Full PODCAST
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SubhanAllah the story of the guy taking his shahada with Uthman after the plane almost crashed is crazy may Allah bless you guys
Ameen
@alromaani who told you women like bad boys. Are you OK. Real men are for real women. No one cares about soy girls and soy boys. Not sure why you would discuss those type of ladies. I have told you before and again you seem to get a wrong end of the the stick most of the time. You NEED TO LEARN Islamic knowledge. This is about your emotions or your past. This is about Islam and it need Islamic knowledge not of the shelf superficial Aplha man stuff that in itself is very unislamic term. You need to understand what a ream man is. When it comes to Islam ditch your emotions to the side really sick and tired of people basing Islam on their emotion and their past experiences. Islam doesn't work that way
Women dont like bad boys, confused women do. Women like a man who knows what he wants and can lead and has a vision for his life which includes family. Women who lack maturity and are confused for whatever reason see certain traits in the 'bad boy' that speak masculine but more often than not he lacks what it takes to be the man who should provide, protect and preside over a family.
Jazak Allah khair for Sheikh Uthman talking about the realities of women. Alhamdulillah he mentioned the role the sahabiyaat played. Some brothers are insecure that a woman can protect herself or her family when indeed she is an asset if she can do so and doesn’t need to be 'manly' to do it. That kind of skill requires that a woman has training to be able to step up if necessary. Someone can have training but in a real life situation flop because they lack the mindset to be able to step up.
I believe that the hijab and not compromising it aids a sister in having the do or die mindset when it comes to self defence. She will do whatever necessary to protect her chastity especially in a mans absence. The example that Sheikh Uthmam gave shows the reality that men wont always be around to protect us.
The unfortunate reality is that most people of both gender lack maturity at the start of searching for a spouse. As a result they unconsciously prioritise traits that are not vital. We know both genders mature and look for better as they age, but the reality that most people can see with their won eyes every days is the younger men chase hot women and younger women chase bad boys and most people get married whist they have this mentality.
Most Muslim men have been brainwashed and raised (by Muslim women) to be blue pilled, beta orbiter simps.
@@zakirchoudhury9206- you don't know what you are talking about. You are making sweeping statements but you don't know anything about female nature, hypergamy, solipsism, monkey branching, the wall, etc. You don't know what qualities makes an alpha or sigma male.
Niqabi diaries - but what qualities do Muslim women bring to the table?.
Afterall, Muslim women are no different from western women. You all want a high value man.
dont sugarcoat things they even lose feeling for a good masculine guy women are childish creatures they are attracted to this kiddish behaviour
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?
Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.
@@user-bo9vf3py2w be careful bro these spiritual healers probably do black magic and shirk is involved. Please stay away from these sorts of things.
Give it time bro... u will be fine eventually and wen u do make sure u are a better person
all the best
SCAM!
It’s not that you have to be rich to get married but you have to have drive and purpose. You can’t be broke and have no plan to support your family.
Im that guy. Came from poor family and get better education by schoolarship from gov cause im driven and smart. I told you bro, isn't as simple as you think
I have proper job with good salary and yet still cant get women who want to be my wife. You know why?? I still have parent and lil sister who must i finansially support to. Why?? Yess because ulama still put burden responsibilities of providing family on men even thoo nowadays women has equal right to a man
My parent have some loan from bank to finance my elder sister education (thanks to feminism), yet after graduation and get (also) proper job. She don't contribute anything to family financial matter, i mean at least pay her own educational debt tf
But me who don't burden my parent with any debt must contribute to provide my family financialy
And i am not alone fyi. Most men i know also have similar problem. Wallahi ulama/dai betray us. Either they blind or maybe don't care with muslim men problem
@@nak.lanang once your sister gets married, then you don’t have to support her anymore. Moreover, It is more important for you to get married than your sister to finish university. Why is she going to school if she can’t work?
Maybe your family members need to lower their lifestyle if your good salary takes that big of a chunk out that you can’t afford your own wife and family.
@@nak.lanang "Im that guy. Came from poor family and get better education by schoolarship from gov cause im driven and smart."
I happy for you bro may Allah bless you more, keep slayin my muslim bro.
@@hm8489If a guy spends on wife rather than sister's education , he will be considered as a bad son/ brother. Wife will be blamed for breaking family.
@@nak.lanang deep and such an important point. worth addressing in a video
The story of the female companion who defended against the spy, my father named me after her :)))
Can you tell me what is she called?
@@spaccino6932 Safiyyah, daughter of abdul muttalib and sister of Hamzah (radhiyallahu anhu), the famous companion and uncle of the prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam). So she was his (sallallahu alayhi wa sallams) aunt too.
Mashallah didn’t expect this Collab
Alhamdulilah
It is a bs collabaration. These monkeys dont know what they are talking about.
great video I actually said yes to a guy who proposed to me because he is so masculine and religious at the same time I think women who want feminine men are masculine themselves
After marriage you will find out he's taliban. That is why arrange marriages are steaming pile of dog sh1t.
No one actually wants feminine men - they just want me who will spend time and share in their own interests. The real problem is there has been a complete degradation of communication and language. So understanding between individuals is at a all time low - many women grew up in less than acceptable circumstances so healthy relationships and interactions were not modeled for them. If it was easy to know what we needed to do in these regards Allah would not have sent the book with such explicit details for every facet of life. These things need to be taught.
Further women are more susceptible to social contagion and trauma sharing/boding. The story of one bad relationship rolls around and now all the women are petrified it can happen to them. The bad stories only increasing leads to confirmation that these things do happen and they should be worried. Women are acting out of genuine even if it is irrational fear. This is also learned behavior.
Can you define masculine?
You mean how he looks like maybe doesn’t smile all the time and tough or the way he talks or what exactly?
Is being nice considered weakness? Like saying please and thank you all the time and checking how was your day etc… is that considered weakness?
@@GNW-so4yk no not necessarily that he doesn't smile and he's not nice but he knows what his goals are, and he works hard to achieve them + he's been serious about the marriage from the first second and he doesn't hesitate and at the same time he's not led by his sexual desires, because men who are, are more likely to say yes to anything you ask for just to make you fall for them. masculinity is easy to define if you follow the example of the prophets and the sahaba
@@GNW-so4yk People and especially other men say part of masculinity is being strong and for that you should be physically fit I mean it would increase the amount of people being attracted to you. In my opinion, being nice isn’t a weakness. And being polite by saying Thanku isn’t. What is weakness is not having goals or being ambitious for something. People also say masculinity is about how you act, so to act masculine. I think you should be able to lead, decision maker, confidence is very important and yeah this is just what I think.
Born a masculine man, and that will never change. I don't put up with much. Never let your wife see you cry, sad, or look weak. In the toughest times, let your Primal nature come out. Stand tall and leave footprints on the ground when you walk. Be gentle with her, but always show her your strength, physically and mentally, and always be decisive in your answers. With all that said, she/they will follow.
Real masculine doesn’t have to say this on comments. Take on one idf if you are man
@@alanshearer3682 its for educating others. common sense
I don't t think ur masculine at all brother ehy u jave ro try to sound masculine in a comment section? Don't talk it be it
@Trilliman707
Big talk from someone who doesn't know nothing about me. But thanks to Allah I gonna let that slide. 🔫
@mr219811 what u gonna do dhoot me,
ma shaa Allah , great podcast. May Allah bless y'all
This discussion is so educative, I have learn a lot.
Alhumdullilah 😊 May Allah bless u brothers for these reminders 😊😊
May Allah increase you in beneficial knowledge to benefit others and honour you ya shaykh.
Jazakallahu khayran
MashaAllah, the rijal giving solid advice 💪🏽
Man this whole video has been super motivating but I know it won’t last for long so discipline is the way to go
Most definitely!
A podcast with good humour! Good lessons for young youth 👍
I watch you guys all the time. I learn a lot from watching. May Allah continue to bless yall for what you do for the ummah.
راااااائع وحكيم .لا تفرط في التفكير في الاشياء لانه يضعف العزيمة
وفقكم الله
Very informative podcast ma shaa allah this was very needed for everyone and had insights and angles that not many people approach may Allah bless you all Ameen
May Allah reward you brothers for this...Ameen. 💯
Ameen
such a nice beautiful manly conversation ❤❤❤❤
Four legend here
I’d appreciate it if you fellas made a trip to Austin, TX some day. Keep spreading the word.
baraka Allah fikom
jazakallah khair
بعد هذه المحاضرة الرائعة ساعود لاقرا السيرة النبوية من جديد ان شاءالله
ما شاء الله، حفظكم الله.
He is right over thinking is no good
The real men and real women are in palistiane
After the prophets and companions truly they are the best of people. Along with the 3 generations.
I want to marry a Palestinian man of possible from the BLESSED land😍 or any other good Muslim who embodies Learning of our Deen.💔🍉🇵🇸😍
In.sha.Allah..
Life doesn't always then put to be what we hoped, Alhamdulillah in all circumstance💔🍉🇵🇸
10:36 astaghfirullah! felt it in my spine waaaaaaaaaaa! audhubillah!
Alhamdulillah
MashaAllah
SubhanAllah
Beneficial reminder.
☝🏻♥️ May Allah bless you all 🌺 ☝🏻
DONT FORGET YOUR DAILY DHIKR
assalamualikum warahmathullahi wabarakatuhu
i am a young muslim men willing to get in to dawa need your bible because it will help me a lot i think if someone deserves it more than me give to him or her inshaallah
The best man is the god fearing man
51:19 "One more before this" Hahaha, May Allah S.W.T. reward Sheikh Uthman
Lot of men lost me trying to be bad boys !!!! They had me till they were good ! I hate disrespectful people
But why were you attracted to them initially. Because they were exciting and preferred them over the boring nice guys
@@truthseeker-nv6nyBingo!! 💯💯 That part!!
Convey message of Islam to all people of the world and to everyone who will come also convey message of Islam to all world leaders...........
I'm a she I swear nowadays when wedding videos come on my feed very strange the man is crying and the bride is dancing shouting laughing swinging etc It's kind of what you said about men.
True it all started with getting on your knee and ring bs muslims are slowly adopting western culture 😂
Asaalamu alaykum sheykh, what about a khutbah in Romania?
Salam alaykum Brothers and sisters. 😊 I want the book pleas im in Germany and have many Christian here
@25:22 dont connect too many dots... 😅 Shaykh may Allah bless you
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Not good women who knows her Deen and tries her best to live it, we love to have a GOOD MAN.....GOOD MANNERS, CONDUCT, MODEST AND SIMPLY A GOOD MUSLIM. YES WHO CAN CARE LOOK AFTER HIS WOMEN & FAMILY ETC. MANY MEN ARE CONFUSED THEMSELVES WHAT WOMEN WANT, SO TO ARE WOMEN
Too
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ما شاء الله
Come to Seattle and let these guys at the masjid know
الحمد لله على نعمة الزوج الصالح
44:35 brother spoke late but added an imp point. Imagine u praying to Allah to bestow u with a rightful partner, but will Allah throw in a mohsinah at the hands of a layman like you? We need to first bring ourselves into a realistic position before taking up responsibility of another being!
I honestly want to get married to a manly righteous handsome man. It’s so hard to find this 😭😭😭😭😭
Ma ShaAllah.Now be the type of woman such a brother would want
@@shahbazkhan-ek7hp Such men especially like chastity and piety.
Notice she said handsome. That’s why it’s so hard to find a muslimcel
@@AlphaMaleLifestyleAMLso she should say ugly?
Attraction is very important in marriage . So you are saying a good looking man can’t be manly or are you just insecure about your looks?
Keep making duah and ask Allah for whatever you want
Our brothers and sisters in gaza suffring and this is what are you talking about
Everything has its issues. Not talking about this issue won't solve the Gaza problem. At least everyone is doing what they are capable of
Does sell out Arab leaders forget there men
Brother, world keep spinning, many people also still doesn't understand their religion properly, many people still has confusion. Talking and spreading awareness is absolutely important, but prohibiting and put a bad view toward any religious talk other than Gaza is just dumb
Hey there Gabriel. I can't access to your course. It just won't load. Your website I mean
Assalamualikum ustadh is there anyway I can meet up with you?? I am coming from overseas. Jazaakallah khairan
SAME REASON MEN LIKE WESTERN BAD GIRLS
He says he can’t be scared of guys with nail polish, he hasn’t met itachi
Pls. Why would say that, that's so lame 😂😂 not u saying he hasnt met a naruto character LOL
A good muslim girl will not be attracted to a bad boy . Never
Anybody coudl send me the link of the free guide in the minute 14:00
25:20
Remember guys the only purpose you were created is to worship Allah. Never keep the women as your main focus. Pray to Allah and make more and dua for a righteous partner and Inshallah Allah swt will not disappoint you. ❤
Remember the purpose! You spoke right brother!!! I sometimes think about this. “Guide us to the straight path”. Like what does Allah mean by that? We humans have emotions, we have desires wich led us away from our priorities and purpose. We are not on earth to just have fun! We as a man do have a purpose! Praise Allah! And ofcourse “ibadah” is also in working to provide, be a family man, follow the sunnah etc. But our purpose should always be Allah! ❤
Wrong. Brothers should make dua for a woman who is balanced in all respects and complements him. Not just 'righteous' which is just code for a militant hijabi. Just because a woman wears hijab, doesn't mean she will be a high value and desirable woman.
The harsh reality is that most hijabis are fat, ugly and self entitled. A sensible man would never marry that sort of woman.
Also, different men have different preferences. The very strict religious types don't care if she's fat and ugly. They only want a hijabi who is very traditional and strict.
Whilst other men don't want to marry an ugly, fat hijabi. They want an attractive, young woman who is in good shape, likes working out, eating healthy, has a fun personality. But at same time wears headscarf and prays 5x daily.
In a typical family structure, the wife is obliged to do the larger share of the housework by the necessities of a functional household. Both extremes are not correct a) the husband doing nothing at all and b) an obligation for the husband to do half of the housework. Similary, the wife shouldn't be working as much as the husband, especially where they have young children who would be neglected. It's better if the husband works more hours to make ends meet in most cases and if the wife works, it should be around her commitments to her family. In the same way the rest of the husbands activities are around his work, which is his major commitment to his family.
The only one message that fits all is the COLLECTIVE BODY OF ISLAMIC KNOWLEDGE IN AAALLL OF IS MANIFESTATIONS
We must acquire all of this based upon culture free 3Aqeedah, culture free adab, ackhlaq, adab, diqh haakathaa
WALLAAHUL MUSTA3AAAN
Islam didn't come to eradicate all cultures, only the ills in society, any culture not contradictory to Quran & sunnah== Islam is ok to maintain, this is Sunnah of our Nahi sas😍.
I agree with your sentiment.
Islam must be our foundation, and reference point always.
Khrash prashshh dura dabao ❤
Look if you are earning money get a maid and a chef so your woman’s mind is right and she can be happy and calm for you. I am a single mom with 2 kids. I pay individuals to do those things. You better not ask me to cook and clean. You better recognize my worth and provide for my current standard of living. If you don’t I have an income and it’s my choice to employee someone to do that. I want to embroider, read and do art with my time. Not cook and clean. I can, I’m capable but when I do it’s out of love. Me managing my household means drawing up contracts and hiring staff. Blessings upon you for this channel but have that discussion brothers. Why do I have to cook and clean and why don’t you have to earn enough to provide me a staff?
Why not if you can afford it.
However, you are limiting yourself to very rich spouse. Most well off men have multiple options to choose from, and may go for a more traditional, submissive, younger woman without children.
I’m happy to serve my husband and try new recipes. I clean and do the laundry. Sometimes I have thought about hiring cleaning people but I don’t want to spend the money and cleaning really doesn’t take that much time and doubles as exercise.
We have 5 kids and have been together for over 20 years. I still look up to him as the leader of the house and respect him for all the hard work he’s done over the years. I couldn’t have asked for a better man, Alhamdulillah.
@@hm8489alhamdulillah, ur a good woman not like a gold digger interested in worldly matters and luxury life.
11:26
This can also be an argument for the rainbow people and their argument. I don't know what it is called for women, but for men, it is called autogynephilia. Men who fantasise themselves as the opposite gender. This could be the reason sisters fantasise about being masculine, maybe because of a lack of masculinity.
There is a vudio in your ads .
the interruptions ruin the podcast
Brothers need to understand that ' sensitive " has many !earnings and levels and not all should be avoided like plague by Muslims (m). Look to sunnah, our beloved Prophet dad was Strong where needed , a leader of family and later society, and still he was not an INSENSITIVE man! He cried in his wife's arms and sort her comfort upon first revelation, and was Still a strong man in all areas he was needed to be. I
Prophet was knew about the different characters and sensitivities of his wives, and how to deal with them/ how to interact with the! Accordingly. That is a real understanding of a sensitive man, not one who simply displays soft nature and cries about everything a woman would.
Understand the finer nuances in what is a Man in Islam.
Don't confuse insensitive characteristics, is doesn't have any regarD for feelings of pthers/ his righteous wife for e.g. And thinks he is being a " strong man".
Best example is always out BELOVED Prophet sas😍
One of the things I really like in him was and in my potential husband is Gentleness, while being strong Man leading where he aught to. SubhanAllah nothing more attractive than a balance in a man who knows His Deen and in character.
I'm sure aa!e with women balance.
There's a general masculine - feminine trait dominance but Allah SWT in His Wisdom also have us some characteristics as individuals which !at be different to that Joel's or usual case. E.g. some men are naturally more affectionate than others and yet they are Strong man Protecting physically where they need to be. That's fine and coca versa. Certain traits may vary in prominence as per Allah's Design.
It's not to take anything away from what the Knowledgeable Reapectted shaken Othman has said or any other be here. I agree with their main points.
Society is lost confused and needs to go back to Sunnah and men in general need to man up so to say and women need to relearn too of needed how to be the women in Islam and sunnah.
May Allah Enable us all to find righteous spouse who are good for us in Sunnah and akhirah. Ameen😍
What if we prefer to stay single and not to marry ?
My dear, clear up your mind first
The Prophet ﷺ prohibited celibacy (Jami` at-Tirmidhi 1082). As Muslims, we should not aim to be celibate. Sure there exceptions of scholars who never got married, but exceptions don’t disapprove the rule.
@@Omer1996E.C what does that mean?
@@alromaani you’re right all it proves is that every time you people follow Ibn Taymiyyah’s moronic teachings you’re actually following the teachings of a deviant who committed Kufr
I agree with Sheikh. Just wanted to add if you choose to go down that route then you must not be engaged in illicit activities. If you find that you fail, you must get married.
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Being a woman, I can say that it's not "bad boys" that women want. They want men who demonstrate courage, confidence and independence. A man is expected to protect & support you & your children. A man who's not willing to fight for what he believes isn't protecting or supporting anyone.
Some women, especially the younger ones like "bad boys" because they have some of the certain aspects you mentioned i.e. confidence, independence, etc. When these women have nothing to compare the leftest soyboys with due to the absence of a manly man who'll protect you, this is a natural thing.
"why do women like bad boys, even good women" i laughed loudly 😂
Why ?
Why do men find 304s attractive, even good men?
Sexual attraction doesn’t depend on how good or bad a person is. Evil men can be attractive, so can evil women.
Matter of fact, it’s the toxic narcissists who happen to be the most attractive. And I’m talking about both genders.
It might sound ironic, but sometimes men know more about female psychology than women know it themselves.
We simply see things most women don’t. And we know how gullible most women can be. This isn’t to belittle them, but I’m only saying this because women will fall for any man they find attractive, even if he’s a criminal.
You see a charming handsome man, but we see a psychopathic monster.
That’s why women having a wali is super important, and why she cannot marry a man without her wali’s approval.
Sadly today when a man what to marry today and works part time in super market on low wages. The woman say come bk when you earn hundreds thousand a year. Majority of men are not rich end off
Yesh, that's disappointing. Means so hurting. I can feel you brother. But Everyone has theirs own preferences. I'll recommend you to get married a woman who looks upon your religiousness, character Even you become rich. But I guess this is hard to get find this type of woman right,if you are in West. 😅
Why not work full-time my brither, that way basic expenses will be met or so..? There still would be plenty of time to do other things out of working hours e.g. In UK ( 35 hours ex lunch is full-time p/ week. You may increase your chance of MARRIAGE...?
@@kbb8962 women are not interested in basic anymore.
@@humptydumty4975 visit afganistan or Yemen once.
Unless you are still in education, how will u support a family working in part-time retail? Would u want ur daughter to marry a man like you? Maybe try looking for an ugly woman in her 40's who is a divorcee, i'm sure she'd want u since ur both at the same level.
Sometimes, you see young and older women leave the masculine guy for what we would call the Mr. Nice Guy. So it's kind of like "Allah knows best" how to figure out what's in a woman's head. Lol
toxic masculinity
Some women like feminine men. We’re not all the same
Not all masculine looking guys are good men, and not all nice guys are bad men.
birth control is known to cause that weird interest in feminine men
@@user-sh9pl1sx2m Please define "toxic masculinity" and tell me where it is in the Quran and Sunnah. Thanks.
We should not reveal our historic sins even for purpose of dawah. U can use a 3rd party example instead
Hated all the adverts. Please put them at the end or beginning. All the breaks in between the discussions is irritating.
Id may the younger brother in the jeans and tshirt. Let a girl know 😊
3 bad boys at the table. i wonder if Romaani have a bigger shirt..
not afraid of a black belt? i hope he was joking
My guy modermanmuslim, love his insta
They try f🅰️g you up
Shaykh came to malaysia?
Why arw you giving away a Bible ??
He is giving away one with contradictions in christisnity highlighted
@@taimurahmad it's still Fitna and not necessary, just give a Qur'an is better, my gosh.
@@PrincesseKittyKat its fitnah to give away a corrupted book so that a muslim can guide Christians?
......No he is giving it for people to give dawah through it....
Also your profile pic is haraam sis.
Entertaining talk, was very disappointed in the way this person spoke about Imam Nawawi. Blew my mind how casually a giant in the religion was dismissed in a callous way and no one objected.
What did they say? Could you provide a time stamp?
@@jadedpaladin6685
I don’t want to single out just one moment to feed drama. Watch the entire video, there is some benefit in there.
@@sammu Then don't comment if you don't wanna feed drama and don't even wanna provide time stamp, what is even wrong with you?!
@@kinanisam4345
I want the creators of the video to see my comment and maybe address it with the responsible party. My comment is not directed towards people like you.
@@kinanisam434520:50 I don’t think they wanted to be disrespectful, but he seems to have a point and disagree on the matter.
Is a sin 8n Islam to greet life threatening situations asbif they were nothing and my reasons is this I knee with Allah I would make it!
Knew
Khureshi pagan allah bless u all
Hi. My friend american chinese asian female christian non muslim. 48 years .
little bit chubby. never able to have a baby . Ovary problem. Divorcee. No kids. Have own house. Car. Good salary in american company.
Meet a 24 years old arab man palestinian live in west bank close to bethlehem.
Online. Just online.
That guy is a muslim. Young handsome slim. Work multiple non skill hard labor. Herd lambs. He say he fall in love with this american citizen women. He said he willing to convert to Christianity as long he can get sponsor by marriage.
All of her friends warning her that this guy only need green card. Selling love. And she buying it.
What do you think.? Thank you for all positive and negative comments in advance.
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
I can barely get through this conversation. 'Man up' is the key? Who is best as our example, but Muhammad, صلى الله عليه وسلم.
I felt this conversation was demeaning to women, our sisters, and frankly extremely cavalier and colloquial. Not to mention overwhelmingly opinionated. At 20:30 of the conversation where br. Uthman speaks about..."if she can cook and clean..." br. Romani tries and fails to follow through with correcting him. Then a reference to the opinion of those who disagree were "Never married themselves... ha ha ha".
Wow
Bra, if you're going to site Shaeikh Al Islam, give the proof.
Man-Up
Too many adverts/snippets added. Sorry guys, I need to give a dislike for constructive feedback.
Who are these terrorists and why don't they move to Afghanistan?
Very funny not every women okay
Yes, all women are like this, even the good pious ones.
I don’t really blame them. This is merely how Allah created women, this is His system so we have to play the game of life by His rules, whether a person likes it or not.
Being a “nice” guy isn’t going to earn you respect from women.
Actually, the types of guys most likely to attract women are the ones who don’t chase women in the first place. They’re the ones who work on themselves and their ambitions in life. This is what is sometimes meant as being the “bad boy”.
So in summary: never chase women. Instead, be the guy whom women would chase.
@@fardeenmahmud8866no we’re not all like this. Some women like feminine men. Some of us want to be the breadwinner. We love providing for our man
@@emily6195 “Not all women” sure lol.
Even the Sahaabiyat (RA) were not above the flaws of female nature. Are you better than the Mothers of the believers?
@@fardeenmahmud8866 Khadijah the best woman of this ummah loved the prophet SAW even though he showed weakness he cried even though he wasn’t a feminine man he still was human and he showed it. She also supported the prophet SAW financially during his prophethood and didn’t leave him during hard times. I would say she did a pretty good job overcoming her female nature. Not every woman is the same and if course we are not better than Khadijah
@@emily6195 Are you Khadijah (RA)? Would you do the same for your husband if he showed emotion? I’m pretty sure you wouldn’t. No woman today would, regardless of how pious she is.
Title itself is so cringe. Very lazy and very much red Pil content ish. I get it helps with the algorithm but still. Ugh, disappointing but yeah, do you I guess
Sorry I like good men with akhira focus and knowledge! Less of those ! They are taking about dunya girls
This whole channel is type of red p1ll b5. Nothing from the best man who ever lived. Just pretending to be Alphas. We don't even have such a term and it's so cringe, they like to say.
Actually men are focused for akhira but women focus in dunya too much and luxury life nowadays , There is a hadith that says that at the end of my nation there will be men riding on saddles like men, descending on the doors of mosques, their women clothed and naked on their heads like the humps of a lean camel. Curse them, for they will be cursed.
A kind and tender heart is a sign of emaan. Our Prophet SAW had a gentle heart. Unlike most brothers today, His amazing and exemplary masculinity was not affected by doing household chores or showing warm affection to his kids and wives.
your profile pic is haraam sis
Doing house chores is Sunnah for men .
Also gentleness is a great quality we must strive to achieve.
Doing chores is not a mans job
@@Muwahid999thats a lie
You're disobeying our prophet pbuh by not wearing a hijab. Who are you lecturing?
You guys are talking about females while the Mujahidins are fighting in the tunnels... shameful
Here comes clueless fellow..
What the h*ll are they supposed to do???? Protest and damage property in west , raise slogans ..
Get over your emotions dude..
We should do things with hikmah
What they're discussing is one of most crucial matters in Ummah today (especially west).. it's about family unit..
Even Prophet Muhammad ﷺ and Companions رضي الله عنهم waited for many years till they had some military strength before facing enemy in battle.
Nowadays , we've weakest State of Ummah. It will take time. Such matters aren't handled overnight.
@@Muwahid999 Who cares about what females think? Do you think the Sahabah were discussing if women were attracted by bad boys when they were fighting the enemies? You're a clown 🤡
@@freman75I agreed
Some men these days (muslim or not) make bread winning look as the most stressful activity ever. Chill, most jobs these days are just 9 to 5 shifts inside cubicles talking on the phone. It is not like you are all risking your lives fire fighting or policing the criminals out there. Times have changed A LOT mind you. To tell a woman these days to stay at home, obey her husband clean and cook is just disrespectful and condescending. Not all women want a domestic life, though a good chunk does. Some are driven, ambitious. Some do not really have the choice but to go out there and work. Not all men are responsible people willing and capable of running the household financially. The ideal household organisation these men talk about simply does not exist. It's about time people started addressing the reality as it is instead of some unattainable ideals. Some men abuse their wives/daughters. Some men are stingy. Some men are evil. Some men are just coward and would storm out of the house first in case of fire not even looking back, to coin just a few examples cited in the video.
Ps1; Sheikh, your disdainful comment about that ''masculine'' woman who happens to be a Hydjabi was not only wrong, but full of Kibr. I pray Allah that on judgement day you get asked this.
Ps2; Sheikh, check a more accurate definition of femininity and masculinity. One of the companions of the Prophet PBUH and the husband of two of his daughters was known to be very sensitive, easily weeping at the sight of injustice, beauty and acts of kindness. A man who cries is not less of a man in Islam.
Ps 3; I suggest you all speak a bit more cautiously! I read Sunnah multiple times, and not even once as far as I can remember did the Prophet PBUH speak with such condescendence towards his Ahl el bayt (his women). Ya akhi, he used to sew his own clothes. Role distribution is not something explicitly addressed in the Quran nor Sunnah. It is left to the understanding of the society, the way it is structured, inherited traditions, time evolution etc. You cannot just sweep everything under the rug of ''women are commanded to obey their husbands'', it is just too easy. In other words, it is intelligence laziness.
Almohim, Peace be upon you all.
Ps
I know you influenced by feminìsm. Feminism is noting but Cancer of society. And what Sheikh says about 'masculine' hijabi woman, absolutely correct. You haven't studied any Islamic school or not saying from any scholars interpretations. You made your own interpretation about Islam and role of women in Islam. Very very very shameful for you when you say obeying husband is disrespectful. Any religious Muslim men would not like to marry you because of your nonsense mentality. Our Prophet commended women to OBEY THEIRS husband. A good religious women would have four things - 1) prays 2) fast 3) protect her chastity 4) obeys her husband.
*According to scholars the best work for women is house chores. She wouldn't be asked how much she earns but how she has served her husband in the day of judgement.
*** Women aren't allowed to work without her father permission ( if she is unmarried) and husband's permission (if she is married).
"Men are inchârge of women" ( 4:34)
*** Please Gain knowledge of Quran and Hadiths According scholars interpretation not from yours.
*** as well as when you say obey husband is outed nowadays, you left Islam. As you rejected the word of Prophet ( pbuh). As if anyone reject one single verse from Quran and Hadiths, it's équàl to rejecting whole Quran and Hadiths.
*Every good religious Muslim women would obey and follow her husband's instruction.
Typical example of someone with western liberal secular values instilled in their brain trying to join them with Quran and Sunnah values because they were born Muslim. This lost identity. De-programming is hard for sure but doable IF you realize the problem. Peace.
Typical example of someone with western liberal secular values instilled in their brain trying to join them with Quran and Sunnah values because they were born Muslim. Lost identity. De-programming is hard for sure but doable IF you realize the problem. Peace.
Typical example of someone with western liberal values instilled in their brain trying to join them with Quran and Sunnah values because they were born Muslim. This lost identity. De-programming is hard for sure but doable IF you realize the problem. Peace.
Perfect example of someone with western liberal secular values instilled in their brain trying to join them with Quran and Sunnah values because they were born Muslim. This lost identity is a result of western colonization and normalization for decades. De-programming is hard for sure but doable IF you realize the problem. Peace.
None of the men on the panel are masculine. If you're grifting off of "dawah" and online courses you are not masculine, you're a grifter making money from men who are looking for purpose. A masculine man does not concern himself with what is "masculine" outwardly, he does what is needed for him. He works hard labour and provides for his family, he simply is. He does not buff himself up at the gym and speak about masculinity.
Jaahil sheikh uthman doesnt earn anything from da'wah. How much havr you given???? He has multiple degrees and high paying job. Most of thr viewrs of these content are youg men. Dont get offended and mind your speech
Say what is feminine
Lol somewhat agree. Most of them talk not all. Not saying they don't have good intent but this stuff comes across as so cringe and try hard.
All about gym, keeping fit, clothing, schedule lol...what about real things like DIY, tyre change, fixing this fixing that. Involving yourself in communities.
Sheikh uthman is. He was a killer in his hayday he even stood up to a dude with a knife when he didn't need to he came out from his car and went charging towards him ended up stabbed but fought him off dude went running. Maybe not smart but if that's not masculine I don't what is. Majority of muslim men like those in the panel are weak and wouldn't ever fight back or don't even know how to. Islam teaches men to be fearless but muslim men aren't they're too pious and soft. Thr only muslim men who have fighting spirit are probably black reverts but not cause theyre muslim they're just naturally good foot soldiers
@@ozhoneybadgerfixing a tyre, fixing this, that?......just pay someone else to do it
I am the top G, i have the moneies!!! In every currency!! That's what women love, a rich successful man, a man with his own house, car amd biz.
She will definitely marry him but never marry and work with him to obtain all that🤷🏾♂️ only once he has gone through all the hard work, will she accept his proposal.
اخد علوم ديني من مشائخ عرب موثوق فيهم فنحن عرب كان لنا سلف صالح حتي لو ضاعه بوصله فثوابت ثابته
دعوها فإنها منتة. لا فرق بين عربي ولا أعجمي إلا بالتقوى.
@@Othman1992on زمن كثر فيه الفتن وكثر فيه الباطل ولست من ناس الدين ياخد دين من مشايح العصر الحديث ليس قصدي الاهانه فهدا دين لناس كافه بس زمن الان خطير و ادا أردت كسب دين فلنرجع الي سلف صالح سواء عربي أو أعجمي
@@user-ng8ct8rx4d المسلم العامي الذي لا يستطيع التمييز نعم يأخذ من مشايخه الموثوقين. أما الذي عنده علم بطريقة السلف يعرف كيف يميز الثقة من غير الثقة هذا يسمع لكل الناس ويفلتر.
@@Othman1992on زمن أصبح اغلب مشائخ لهم اجنده مش واضحه اللي تلقاه متقي بعد فتره تنصدم فيه فتجده يخدم اجند حاكم او اجنده غربيه ما دمر شعوبنا إلا تأثير غرب علينا فأصبح دين متماشي مع اجند غرب باسم العولمه فأغلب مشايخنا مناهضين للغرب جميعهم في سجون والله مستعان
Unfortunately, the sheikh is not aware of the current situation. There is a shift in the value system between men and women. The average woman today thinks she is better than the average man. It's even worse; the below-average woman who is 40 years old and has 3 children from 2 men thinks she is better than the above-average good-looking man. As long as young women are not willing to marry average guys, nothing will change in our situation. For example, I am 33 and have a son. I am only offered women over 30, even though I want a young woman who is still pure and unspoiled, who will submit to me. But today, that is almost impossible. And because a man wants this, they are demonized, even by practicing brothers, although it is not wrong to want something pure and beautiful in the home.
Only 1/11 of Prophet dad's wife was not married before He was married her, Sheba ra. Purify does not necessarily equate to virginity ESP if it's someone s past my br. If that's your personal preference .....
( if I 'recall correctly...)
Understand the Sunnah it's How Allah In His Wisdom Guided us.
Thats because ur a single dad. Why would a young woman want to become a step mother to some old mans child? U have an inflated sense of self worth if u think a young woman would want u, unless ur mega rich 😂😂😂
@@kbb8962The Prophet (sws) did not tell anyone to marry divorced women, on the contrary, he advised his companions to marry virgins. So learn something before you give out too wrong information.
@@itwasaizensplan007The woman I choose will be very happy if you understand what I mean. I know what I'm talking about. And not only will she accept my son, but she will also be happy to push my children out of her.
@@itwasaizensplan007The woman I choose will be very happy if you understand what I mean. I know what I'm talking about. And not only will she accept my son, but she will also be happy to push my children out of her.
If you want examples of men... go to Morocco... wallahi they are real men... everything the brothers described here 🙌
When did being a dayouth you puts nationaism above islam and tries his best to be like the euopeans became manly ?
Go to Afghanistan
@@Dont-worry1618 why? So the Taliban can blow you up?
@@user-ue4fh5mv9swell said! Many shave their faces like women and Some even wear skinny jeans 😮
@@Zazezoo 😳😂🤣