I completely messed things up with my ex. He is literally only communicating with me with regards to our four month old child we share. He’s given me so much opportunities to get it right but my hormones were raging now it’s too late
My ex was ignoring all of my attempts to reach out. After a year of alternating no contact with reach out texts and basically not talking (only 1 response to a text) I finally just showed up at his house when I was in his part of town. He was willing to talk and even answered a text that I sent 2 weeks later. It's slow but at least there's progress When I saw him I asked if it would have been better if I'd shown up at his house sooner and he said yes. This is why you can't just try 1 thing, you need to hit the problem from different angles because you can't read their mind. If they still have feelings they may be wanting or needing something that you aren't giving and they don't want to ask for it In my case I was the dumper but he was pulling away and fading out and that's why I left and then he didn't want to talk about things afterwards. He's "broken up" with me post breakup twice now lol
Hi Clay. I just wanted to say a massive thank you ! Thanks to your guidance me and my ex are in relationship together. For the 1st 2 months I've been trying the nc rule and it got me even further away. This was before I came across your couching. Everything has changed from that moment. I had a better understanding of what's going through my ex's emotions, what is he thinking and most importantly how to overcome his fears to get back together. You have guided me through my journey every day , I would listen to your videos for hours. 2 days ago after long 3,5 months my ex is back and next week he is moving back in! I have done so much work on myslef thanks to you . Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
My ex will reply to texts and we talk in person as we still live together. If I send him a quote about feelings/emotions or a flirty text he never responds.
Hi Clay, I love youe videos. You are truly q God send. I have ONE question that so far NO ONE has given me qn answer to... First I want my ex back, I love him dearly and believe he still loves me, he can be a tad stubborn.. After 1.5 yrs he ended our relationship very unjustly in February. Almost 7 months. Im blocked ev.where except regular Facebook. HOW can he come back if THere is NO COMMUNICATION BETWEEN US??? YES I did do no contact but screwed up a few times, now I have done NC for 2 solid Months, noyhing no mess ups. I dont know what to do. Please help me. He is 66 I am 64.
I wrote a letter of apology to my ex-wife which I read out to her, ended up with her getting super mad at me and moving in with her older brother these days (we still live together) before I read it out we could have fun together but now she's so mad at me?
Months ago said she missed the memories we had but was still upset a mistake I made. Spoke to her over the weekend and didn’t want to talk and wanted to be done and she would block me but I doubt it
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I have trouble stepping out of my comfort zone Clay.
How do I re-connect with someone who is actively avoiding communication and has put up barriers to make that clear?
I completely messed things up with my ex. He is literally only communicating with me with regards to our four month old child we share. He’s given me so much opportunities to get it right but my hormones were raging now it’s too late
Fix your hormones. Make your health a priority.
It's not too late. He's just in anger mode.
@@gingygirl4638 nice answer!
I hope things are working out
My ex has a PhD in psychology. Mind games will not work on her. Whatever I do must be genuine
Ya think?
all of these mindgames and strategy only has a chance of working if you're genuine. Duh
Mindgames won't work on anyone
My ex was ignoring all of my attempts to reach out. After a year of alternating no contact with reach out texts and basically not talking (only 1 response to a text) I finally just showed up at his house when I was in his part of town. He was willing to talk and even answered a text that I sent 2 weeks later. It's slow but at least there's progress
When I saw him I asked if it would have been better if I'd shown up at his house sooner and he said yes. This is why you can't just try 1 thing, you need to hit the problem from different angles because you can't read their mind. If they still have feelings they may be wanting or needing something that you aren't giving and they don't want to ask for it
In my case I was the dumper but he was pulling away and fading out and that's why I left and then he didn't want to talk about things afterwards. He's "broken up" with me post breakup twice now lol
Hi Clay.
I just wanted to say a massive thank you ! Thanks to your guidance me and my ex are in relationship together. For the 1st 2 months I've been trying the nc rule and it got me even further away. This was before I came across your couching. Everything has changed from that moment. I had a better understanding of what's going through my ex's emotions, what is he thinking and most importantly how to overcome his fears to get back together. You have guided me through my journey every day , I would listen to your videos for hours. 2 days ago after long 3,5 months my ex is back and next week he is moving back in! I have done so much work on myslef thanks to you . Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
I think I’m forcing it on my time Clay and not having faith in the feeling.
My ex will reply to texts and we talk in person as we still live together. If I send him a quote about feelings/emotions or a flirty text he never responds.
Hi Clay, I love youe videos. You are truly q God send. I have ONE question that so far NO ONE has given me qn answer to...
First I want my ex back, I love him dearly and believe he still loves me, he can be a tad stubborn..
After 1.5 yrs he ended our relationship very unjustly in February. Almost 7 months. Im blocked ev.where except regular Facebook. HOW can he come back if THere is NO COMMUNICATION BETWEEN US??? YES I did do no contact but screwed up a few times, now I have done NC for 2 solid Months, noyhing no mess ups.
I dont know what to do. Please help me. He is 66 I am 64.
I wrote a letter of apology to my ex-wife which I read out to her, ended up with her getting super mad at me and moving in with her older brother these days (we still live together) before I read it out we could have fun together but now she's so mad at me?
Hi 👋
Months ago said she missed the memories we had but was still upset a mistake I made. Spoke to her over the weekend and didn’t want to talk and wanted to be done and she would block me but I doubt it
Why ? Because they are history and I have moved on with my life........................and I am absolutely loving my new life without them in it!!!!
Why u here then watching this if u moved on and loving life 😂
So why are you here?
@@tracyrooster 🤣🤣🤣
@@tracyrooster You gotta love Clay dont you ........:)
Absence makes the heart grow fonder do No Contact guys.
I feel like I and my ex-girlfriend Tracci Ludwick are on opposite teams Clay.
I’m playing hard to get Clay with my ex-girlfriend Tracci Ludwick Clay and making her think that I’m not interested in her.
I think my ex-girlfriend Tracci is on Avoidant Attachment Style.
Why? Simple. They're not interested...and I've moved on ....
So why are you here?
"simple" lol - you were never in love
I don’t like my ex-girlfriend Tracci Ludwick’s old-fashioned way of thinking and dating.