I have a question why women lie on Instagram comments on what type of men they want...because jn real life they go for opposite of what they said on insta...they said they want fat men on insta but in real life they go for fit men
*1. NEVER VALIDATE HER* *2. LOOK AT OTHER WOMEN* *3. NEVER ARGUE WITH HER OR GET EMOTIONAL* *4. NEVER ASK FOR COMMITMENT* *5. DON'T GET EXCITED TO KNOW HER* *6. DON'T BE EAGER TO HAVE SEX WITH HER* *7. DRESS NICELY IN PUBLIC* *8. DON'T HIT HER UP AFTER SEX* *9. DON'T GO DOWN ON HER* *10. NEVER SHOW JEALOUSY TOWARDS ANOTHER MAN* *11. NEVER BE TOO AVAILABLE* *12. NEVER CHASE HER VALIDATION* *13. PUT YOUR GOALS ABOVE HERS* *14. BE RANDOM WITH YOUR TEXTS*
Had this girl who played games with me for a while, planned a date twice and she gave excuses, I lost interest. 2 weeks later, she planned the date and came over to my place. She offered sex and I said I am not interested. I have never seen such a shock on a woman's face. I felt like a king 😂😂😂
I am very good at this! Slept on same bed never touch till dawn lol she said she never met a guy who refused sex, told her she meets guys who r controlled by puzzy lol
women like the push/pull game. Would have been better to say I am not feeling you right now and then give her a challenge to win you over. Take notice what women do to you and flip that shit back at them. They both hate it and love it at the same time.
Everything you said is true. I unintentionally used everything you mentioned to my toxic ex and she became obsessed with me and put us both in jail for a night becaise I broke up with her for cheating and told her I was going to have a friend sleep over that night. She Straight up told me if I can't have you and no one can. I advise anyone to break up with their future toxic ex's in a public place with cameras.
101% Why? You will climb mountains for her one day and she will call you the best thing in the world. This last a few hours or a day because the next day you can be the worst person in the world.
On the chance that Melli is a chameleon, I still respect any individual who can Identify a market, identify a niche within that market, and craft a consistent message that aligns with the interests of that market. Kudos.
Thanks melli, this was really a good topic. I was being that guy, doing all the stuff that you said not to do. I was doing it. blowing up her head and ego. Thanks for letting me know what I was doing wrong .
IMO you should do this all the time when dating, and probably 80% when serious. Even married at least 65%. IDC how good she is, if you let her ego blow up you’ll end up having a huge confrontation to get it back under control. It’s just to end nature.
Hi, Melli. Do something on communication in relationship. You can draw distinction between when the woman involved is a high value woman and when she's just any type of girl.
every word out of her is precise proveable perfect I'm in awe at the gifts all of us men i finally have the tools i needed my whole life like she's my big sister telling me how to deal with women priceless THANK YOU MELLI HONEY
So I have to say you give great advice & insight. You are a real woman, that understands your feminine power. Most women in our culture have been condition to compete with men & put men down. You are truly a beautiful woman inside & out. Thank you for helping men to be better lovers.
Honestly, not really into waging psychological warfare against a lady friend. That’s simply too much work. If things aren’t working out that badly, it’d be so much easier to break up and/or simply walk away.
@DetroitAlan01 I agree not interested in playing petty minds. I aim to be sincere and authentic at all times, if women cannot appreciate that she’s not for me.
Thanks Melli for this video learned alot from it . You ate good in all your video content .You say it like it is no nonsense talk. You have a great personality and I like your sense of humour. Kevin from UK 🇬🇧 England Radcliffe
the best way is Focus on improving yourself, raising your value as a man, setting personal goals, engaging in new hobbies, spending time with family, exercising regularly, and finding happiness elsewhere to destroy her ego when she's ignoring you.
actually men should be having ego because they do and sarifice lot for world women ego is unwanted uneccesary what you do for this world women need men for survival remind that 😂😂
Wonderful video on relationship advice on how to deal with egotistical women. I like when you say women want a man who is better than them. Egotistical women are not going to like you Melly.
I did the complete opposite of all of these points but then again I'm in a committed relationship with a girl that tells me she loves me 10 times a day. 🤷
Yall should stop discouraging him. Some women very little % deserve it. We will have daughters and some little dudes would want to treat our girls like that.
@@sumejividi6663 Thank you for the positive encouragement. ❤️ I'm not gonna say I disagree with what they're saying, however I believe a man has agency over the environment that is forged throughout the relationship, and depending on the man's behavior can either strengthen or break the bond.
To who it may concern ❤ I'm not sure whom I'm talking to but I'm sure who is post to get it will get it ❤ the other day I was just thinking God don't want me to be alone ❤ the next morning I wake up & watch ur video an wonder ❤
Damn..... Pleasantly surprised to see,hear and watch your vibe at a woman.You definitely understand a real man, although even with a playbook like this giving to a young or misguided man clear honest behavior traits to use. It's refreshing/ reassuring to know some beautiful women can actually look and understand the minds of men like me..got me smiling good video!!
It is a great content, very interesting and relevant about how to destroy the ego of women, it helps me a lot to understand things that I did not know, it seems to me a great contribution and I would like to continue seeing high quality content like this.
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Nice video keep up the good work Melli
That code is so easy a 1st grader can figure it out ... Please & Thank you
U worth it
I have a question why women lie on Instagram comments on what type of men they want...because jn real life they go for opposite of what they said on insta...they said they want fat men on insta but in real life they go for fit men
Joy Mode
*1. NEVER VALIDATE HER*
*2. LOOK AT OTHER WOMEN*
*3. NEVER ARGUE WITH HER OR GET EMOTIONAL*
*4. NEVER ASK FOR COMMITMENT*
*5. DON'T GET EXCITED TO KNOW HER*
*6. DON'T BE EAGER TO HAVE SEX WITH HER*
*7. DRESS NICELY IN PUBLIC*
*8. DON'T HIT HER UP AFTER SEX*
*9. DON'T GO DOWN ON HER*
*10. NEVER SHOW JEALOUSY TOWARDS ANOTHER MAN*
*11. NEVER BE TOO AVAILABLE*
*12. NEVER CHASE HER VALIDATION*
*13. PUT YOUR GOALS ABOVE HERS*
*14. BE RANDOM WITH YOUR TEXTS*
So, essentially females like unavailable sociopathic men.
Man banker was right.
Bro I'm doing all this shit without knowing this shit wow
So what are you doing here Mister pussy ? 😂😂😂😂🤣@@juratpalsidhu6035
I love going down on a woman and also I want her to go down on me
Dont go down on her? Damn lmao gotcha though
Had this girl who played games with me for a while, planned a date twice and she gave excuses, I lost interest. 2 weeks later, she planned the date and came over to my place. She offered sex and I said I am not interested. I have never seen such a shock on a woman's face. I felt like a king 😂😂😂
Yep. Cut that ego down to size. They hate rejection
I am very good at this! Slept on same bed never touch till dawn lol she said she never met a guy who refused sex, told her she meets guys who r controlled by puzzy lol
Damn, you earned a lot of respect from her
women like the push/pull game. Would have been better to say I am not feeling you right now and then give her a challenge to win you over. Take notice what women do to you and flip that shit back at them. They both hate it and love it at the same time.
She gon think you're g@y.
Melli is on our side😂
For views and money yes shes for the streets like the rest of them
@@Thatdude-tp7xsGlad somebody else sees it too😂
We more like her❤
@@Thatdude-tp7xs💯 correct
She flip flops all the time.
Everything you said is true. I unintentionally used everything you mentioned to my toxic ex and she became obsessed with me and put us both in jail for a night becaise I broke up with her for cheating and told her I was going to have a friend sleep over that night. She Straight up told me if I can't have you and no one can. I advise anyone to break up with their future toxic ex's in a public place with cameras.
No matter what you do...
You can't please a girl. PERIOD
lol
That's not a lie.
YOU ARE CORRECT SIR!
101%
Why?
You will climb mountains for her one day and she will call you the best thing in the world.
This last a few hours or a day because the next day you can be the worst person in the world.
And more you try more you fail
We all as men can agree you are like a big sister for us. I never had a big sister so you are her 💯
Thank you for defending us, the good guys ❤
On the chance that Melli is a chameleon, I still respect any individual who can Identify a market, identify a niche within that market, and craft a consistent message that aligns with the interests of that market. Kudos.
She's definitely pandering to men for views and subscribers to make money on youtube. She doesn't give a flying f@ck about men
Melli the only woman I watch daily on this app. She’s so refreshing and exactly what I need in my dating life
thats if you want a bad relationship its best to find a real woman and give her true love ad respect.
Me too she's real and amazing
@@Gabrielle0241🤡
Nailed it...been doing it for years...her advice rings true.
🗣Protect this woman!
😂😂😂😂😂
@@sigmajapheth9414 she giving free game fam
We need more women out here like you , lady ..Youre doing God's work lol
Let’s not get carried away
Kind of crazy how you Niggas don’t know this stuff already lol.
Lord’s work 😂
Not feeding your ego but something about you is glowing
Thanks melli, this was really a good topic. I was being that guy, doing all the stuff that you said not to do. I was doing it. blowing up her head and ego. Thanks for letting me know what I was doing wrong .
Melli it's first time watching your podcast and I must agree right on every point you have outlined
IMO you should do this all the time when dating, and probably 80% when serious. Even married at least 65%. IDC how good she is, if you let her ego blow up you’ll end up having a huge confrontation to get it back under control. It’s just to end nature.
100 💯 percentage true .
Hands down this is the best video I've ever seen on this subject in my life! She is spot on and very insightful. Rock on girl!
Been there, done that and you’re ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!
Ion gon lie you’re so perfect on this your work. you have helped me so much. mostly for dis days I’m dealing with relationship drama. thank yo
Ion= I don’t. I ain’t* gon.. is a better word because ain’t= I’m not. 😂 first language is Ebonics
Beautifully put. She knows what she's talking about and lays is out perfectly!
And your right Joy I'll never do that again everything you're saying is right I'm taking the other approach now thank you for the input
Hi, Melli. Do something on communication in relationship. You can draw distinction between when the woman involved is a high value woman and when she's just any type of girl.
This video actually deserves an award of the year. Period.
every word out of her is precise proveable perfect I'm in awe at the gifts all of us men i finally have the tools i needed my whole life like she's my big sister telling me how to deal with women priceless THANK YOU MELLI HONEY
So I have to say you give great advice & insight. You are a real woman, that understands your feminine power. Most women in our culture have been condition to compete with men & put men down. You are truly a beautiful woman inside & out. Thank you for helping men to be better lovers.
Brothers protect melli at all cost, she's a good woman 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I noticed growing up, nothing was good enough for them. There's always something more needed.
Thanks Melli we really do need reality checks🔥🔥💯
and reminders.
She is so smart
Keep doing your thing queen
Thanks for the tips lady.
Honestly, not really into waging psychological warfare against a lady friend. That’s simply too much work. If things aren’t working out that badly, it’d be so much easier to break up and/or simply walk away.
@DetroitAlan01 I agree not interested in playing petty minds. I aim to be sincere and authentic at all times, if women cannot appreciate that she’s not for me.
Thing is they playing mind games with you
@@tevbuffHow's going against their hardwiring going for you?
Thanks Melli for this video learned alot from it .
You ate good in all your video content .You say it like it is no nonsense talk. You have a great personality and I like your sense of humour.
Kevin from UK 🇬🇧 England Radcliffe
Lol Meli, I almost died when you said "I don't know why you want the b*tch if her ego is so high"😂😂😂
Keep being honest and frank
Thanks Melli for the advice. I am working on incorporating into my life when it comes to woman in my life.
Thanks for your honesty.
You have a good sense of humor.
love your energy girl
Love to you melli
This lady is funny as hell..lmfao & keeping it 💯 ❤
❤ love her eyes.
Your channel is growing well…
You are teaching me a lot. I am going through a lot right now with my woman.
Meli is such a fly guru dammn i love your energy
This lady is the truth.
I like how Melli really standing for the men on here💯.
it's good for women too.
Love this video !! ...... Thank you !!
Thanks Melli for all the game that you give us men dealing with women. Luv you for it! 💯 🙏🏾
Melli be the TRUTH 😄🫶
This information is absolutely correct. You should NEVER lose composure, regardless. Especially with women, whether family or otherwise.
You give the best recommendations 😊
I think i love this womans heart
This my first time seeing a woman speak out all my secrets 😂😂😂 Nice 👏👏 I’m a fan now
i'm glad people like Melli exist to help men out of this ego trip some women have.
the best way is
Focus on improving yourself, raising your value as a man, setting personal goals, engaging in new hobbies, spending time with family, exercising regularly, and finding happiness elsewhere to destroy her ego when she's ignoring you.
NO LIES. MELLI THE GOAT.
Who's trying to destroy women's ego. Life will do that.
I think the point is not destroying it but not boosting it
actually men should be having ego because they do and sarifice lot for world women ego is unwanted uneccesary what you do for this world women need men for survival remind that 😂😂
Real talk melli your talking that talk and walking that walk, telling the honest to God truth preach authentic truth lol 💯🔥
I love this woman because she tells the truth.
💯🤴🏾AND NEVER SIMP TRICC OR PLAY STEP DADDY 🤴🏾💯
Melli is on our side
Dead on! Melli NEVER disappoints! You tell em' 😅...Glad to see you again on one of your vids!
Hello you are making a good point I appreciate your conversation.
This lady has the looks and the personality! She putting us on game like she’s our big sister or cousin, but we all want HER lol!
stop simping fool
Melli got that swag of course we want her ..or a woman like her
😂😂😂😂
😂😂
I'll pass
Melli has it all, personality, looks, and the accent. She's a 10.
Wonderful video on relationship advice on how to deal with egotistical women. I like when you say women want a man who is better than them. Egotistical women are not going to like you Melly.
I am a man, and I approve this fckn message! In MELLI WE TRUST 💪🏾😤
You are so intelligent, thanks for being there for us
I did the complete opposite of all of these points but then again I'm in a committed relationship with a girl that tells me she loves me 10 times a day. 🤷
Females change
Dont get too comfortable lol
Yall should stop discouraging him. Some women very little % deserve it.
We will have daughters and some little dudes would want to treat our girls like that.
@@sumejividi6663 Thank you for the positive encouragement. ❤️ I'm not gonna say I disagree with what they're saying, however I believe a man has agency over the environment that is forged throughout the relationship, and depending on the man's behavior can either strengthen or break the bond.
You're a brilliant and beautiful ❤️ sister with a big heart!
This video is about simping, and that's exactly what you're doing! 🤦♂️
Good shit Melli
This woman is attractive on so many levels 🥴
Don't be fooled
Love your vibe and happy that your speaking up about the bs with some women.... Keep going melli love you and the vibe., and happy new year
To who it may concern ❤ I'm not sure whom I'm talking to but I'm sure who is post to get it will get it ❤ the other day I was just thinking God don't want me to be alone ❤ the next morning I wake up & watch ur video an wonder ❤
And before you know it a number on my phone ❤ is this away God is telling me this is your chance not to be alone ❤ use my code 🎃👻
Everything she said is spot on! Wow! Great advice Melli💯👍
Yes darling you are 💯 percent right it happened to me really I praise my girl so much until her Ego become something else
Like how she get straight to the point
REAL TALK ✅
*Thx4share good content* 👍💜
I love melimonaco content
It just flows with her😍
She is Really a Care taker of All Men.
Thankfully this works against men as well
Wow!!!! I wasn't sure what to make of you.... but I'm sure now.... you rock!
Damn..... Pleasantly surprised to see,hear and watch your vibe at a woman.You definitely understand a real man, although even with a playbook like this giving to a young or misguided man clear honest behavior traits to use.
It's refreshing/ reassuring to know some beautiful women can actually look and understand the minds of men like me..got me smiling good video!!
Very knowledgeable Lady. Thanks for this show
Facts, many women do not know what they want but they want it! Women base their decisions on emotions. Men are logical thinkers.
Thanks for this video
You are so intelligent.
Mallie your for the guys that had girls and women making things difficult knocked confidence
This is the best ishh iv heard so far, i like This video deserves 5Mil like danm
Your voice and Smile. Thank U for helping Us
It is a great content, very interesting and relevant about how to destroy the ego of women, it helps me a lot to understand things that I did not know, it seems to me a great contribution and I would like to continue seeing high quality content like this.
Your points are well understood
This is why I love UA-cam,this chick is so real, Gentleman this is education 😅
Thanks Melli . Solid work.
Good advice i love the way u keep it real
the bestttt advice ever,.... literally meant for me. thanks
This came at the right time, great one!!!
I love the way you talk. I’m subscribing. Gotta hear more!
Keep the content coming!!! Much love and appreciate you!!! You're very easy on the eyes with a solid message!!!