me and my ex broke up 2weeks after , my ex told me to stop bothering him and i didnt bothering him after we broke up he just send me a message to tell that for me .and i never send him a message like that, because he new that i am messaging he's friend an i dont have any intension to bother him , his friends is the one who message me to ask if i am ok . so im just telling my problems i dont know why he ask me like i was bothering him but its not true. what should i do to come back and be together again can you pls help give me advice , thankyou
What if she’s moved onto someone else but said “I love you always” when she told me she met someone else. She wished me well and I didn’t know what to say or do and didn’t want to show emotion so I wished her well too and said “I think we shouldn’t talk for a while.” and went into no contact. It’s been 11 days, what do I do :(
My ex told me he was seeing someone right before he blocked me. I don’t want to get back with him. I want to stop thinking about him and stop missing him. I’m hoping I will have forgotten about him in 5 and a half months
Hi Chris, so I still have to wait to see if 1. This is a rebound relationship (I think it is cuz he got with her like a month and a half after we broke up. Possibly even sooner) and 2. For my 45 day no contact to finish. But what if I hang out with my ex-boyfriend's sister ( we have a relationship, and his mom LOVES me ) what do I do if my "being there method" is only when he is *sometime* around but never with his gf? Like we have alot of mutual friends so I know I'll be around but what if his GF is NEVER with him when I'm with him? And I highly doubt he's gonna tell his gf about seeing me or anything like that. What do I do? PLEASE HELP
How about him going from one relationship to another even if they’re fwb? This dude hops from one relationship to the next. I don’t hold any belief about labels anymore these days. Just because a person says they’re not in a relationship doesn’t mean anything because they’re still spending time together like a serious relationship plus they’re serial cheaters anyway. They’re never alone. They can’t be alone.
Hey there Pagen, if someone is unable to be alone then they have some personal issues that they would need to work on, along with the cheating and moving on before actually dealing with their emotions I would say they are insecure and possibly afraid of commuting
Me and my ex have been split up for 17 months now and a mnth ago she was texting and ringing me to see if iam ok and hows was work ect and asking me do I miss her and asking me to go for a coffee and smiley at me and always have put her face in on watsapp wen iam talking wth my kids den she went cold for a few weeks and den about 3 days ago she rang me to tell me shes seeing some for a couple weeks any advise on wat to do
We been on and off but we hours away been together for a year ended days ago now she already moved on she said maybe in the future but it wont feel the same like last time
Hey Gary, sounds like she could have grass is greener, thing is with an on and off relationship the chances of her coming back is high. But the issue that your relationship has is - staying together. I would spend some time working on yourself, and think as to why your relationship breaks down all the time
What if you were friendly and then he tells me our talks are inappropriate because he is seeing someone new? I feel like I've been pushed to the side completely... He is watching my stories now (doesn't follow me) but he's not reaching out and I haven't either since he reacted so cold...
So if you want your ex back then you need to start following the being there method where if they say the conversations are inappropriate but they are friendly. Reply with we're just friends I didn't realise it was an issue. And go from what sort of response you get form that
Should you wait for over 5 months til their rebound relationship is over to reach out? Should you reach out while they're still in the rebound relationship and how do you leverage this?
@@chrisseitercoaching Ok perfect I actually am seeing him at an event exactly 45 days since i started no contact. He just started dating this girl as soon as I went into no contact. Problem is I'm still in love with him and not sure how to just be his friend. I'm worried that I'll get friend zoned (especially if this relationship is still going to last several more months)
I broke up with my ex 2 months before she was begging me I didn’t listen to her a was really angry but i start regretting i text her after a week of break up i start begging I ask for a chance she said there’s no chance then she said i need space for 5 months i was still begging her she blocked me almost from everywhere i text her friend for help my ex get angry and call me and say leave me alone I don’t wanna be with you anymore i said i wanna marry you she said I don’t wanna marry you she start crying and said i do love you alot but I can’t do this anymore and stuff she said leave me alone i text stay happy what should i do now? Should I contact her? Or give her space?
Hey Salman, giving that you have completed a full 30 days of not speaking you can reach out for the first time but make sure it is in the style that I suggest in my videos. One that is going to get her talking to you, nothing emotional and it needs to be a short interaction for the first time
me and my ex broke up 2weeks after , my ex told me to stop bothering him and i didnt bothering him after we broke up he just send me a message to tell that for me .and i never send him a message like that, because he new that i am messaging he's friend an i dont have any intension to bother him , his friends is the one who message me to ask if i am ok . so im just telling my problems i dont know why he ask me like i was bothering him but its not true. what should i do to come back and be together again can you pls help give me advice , thankyou
What if she’s moved onto someone else but said “I love you always” when she told me she met someone else. She wished me well and I didn’t know what to say or do and didn’t want to show emotion so I wished her well too and said “I think we shouldn’t talk for a while.” and went into no contact. It’s been 11 days, what do I do :(
My ex told me he was seeing someone right before he blocked me. I don’t want to get back with him. I want to stop thinking about him and stop missing him. I’m hoping I will have forgotten about him in 5 and a half months
What if after 45 days your ex is still cold or not talking to u?
My ex had an arranged marriage. No contacr forten days. I jusr want to move on completely.
Hi Chris, so I still have to wait to see if 1. This is a rebound relationship (I think it is cuz he got with her like a month and a half after we broke up. Possibly even sooner) and 2. For my 45 day no contact to finish. But what if I hang out with my ex-boyfriend's sister ( we have a relationship, and his mom LOVES me ) what do I do if my "being there method" is only when he is *sometime* around but never with his gf? Like we have alot of mutual friends so I know I'll be around but what if his GF is NEVER with him when I'm with him? And I highly doubt he's gonna tell his gf about seeing me or anything like that. What do I do? PLEASE HELP
How about him going from one relationship to another even if they’re fwb? This dude hops from one relationship to the next. I don’t hold any belief about labels anymore these days. Just because a person says they’re not in a relationship doesn’t mean anything because they’re still spending time together like a serious relationship plus they’re serial cheaters anyway. They’re never alone. They can’t be alone.
Hey there Pagen, if someone is unable to be alone then they have some personal issues that they would need to work on, along with the cheating and moving on before actually dealing with their emotions I would say they are insecure and possibly afraid of commuting
Chris Seiter
I agree
Me and my ex have been split up for 17 months now and a mnth ago she was texting and ringing me to see if iam ok and hows was work ect and asking me do I miss her and asking me to go for a coffee and smiley at me and always have put her face in on watsapp wen iam talking wth my kids den she went cold for a few weeks and den about 3 days ago she rang me to tell me shes seeing some for a couple weeks any advise on wat to do
My ex told me that they are going 2 or 3 months this december. Does that still count as honeymoon period of the rebound relationship?
Hi...WHAT IF I CAUGHT HIM CHEATING AND HE DUMP ME AFFTER THAT WHAT SHOULD I DO...
Hey Beverly, work on yourself for some time in No Contact. Minimum 45 days and watch my videos about Ungettable
Beverly, love is beautiful
You can make him to be yours finally
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We been on and off but we hours away been together for a year ended days ago now she already moved on she said maybe in the future but it wont feel the same like last time
Hey Gary, sounds like she could have grass is greener, thing is with an on and off relationship the chances of her coming back is high. But the issue that your relationship has is - staying together. I would spend some time working on yourself, and think as to why your relationship breaks down all the time
@@chrisseitercoaching thanks bro that's wat I been doing working on myself and let her be and see what's gonna happen in the future between us
Same thing happened to me. Any update?
What if you were friendly and then he tells me our talks are inappropriate because he is seeing someone new? I feel like I've been pushed to the side completely... He is watching my stories now (doesn't follow me) but he's not reaching out and I haven't either since he reacted so cold...
So if you want your ex back then you need to start following the being there method where if they say the conversations are inappropriate but they are friendly. Reply with we're just friends I didn't realise it was an issue. And go from what sort of response you get form that
Should you wait for over 5 months til their rebound relationship is over to reach out? Should you reach out while they're still in the rebound relationship and how do you leverage this?
Hi Lex, ideally no. You would reach out after 45 days NC and then start the being there method
@@chrisseitercoaching Ok perfect I actually am seeing him at an event exactly 45 days since i started no contact. He just started dating this girl as soon as I went into no contact. Problem is I'm still in love with him and not sure how to just be his friend. I'm worried that I'll get friend zoned (especially if this relationship is still going to last several more months)
@@Alex-mx6mu don't wait until love chooses you, go for what is yours
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@@Alex-mx6mu message him on whats app directly
I broke up with my ex 2 months before she was begging me I didn’t listen to her a was really angry but i start regretting i text her after a week of break up i start begging I ask for a chance she said there’s no chance then she said i need space for 5 months i was still begging her she blocked me almost from everywhere i text her friend for help my ex get angry and call me and say leave me alone I don’t wanna be with you anymore i said i wanna marry you she said I don’t wanna marry you she start crying and said i do love you alot but I can’t do this anymore and stuff she said leave me alone i text stay happy what should i do now? Should I contact her? Or give her space?
Hey Salman, giving that you have completed a full 30 days of not speaking you can reach out for the first time but make sure it is in the style that I suggest in my videos. One that is going to get her talking to you, nothing emotional and it needs to be a short interaction for the first time
Salmad, i can feel your pain
I can see you really want her back, love is beautiful tho
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Chris Seiter okay brother thank you I’m in no contact with her from 5 days
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